Town & Style 5.17.23

EXPERIENCE IS ESSENTIAL

When it comes to real estate, we’re experiencing a time of historic demand and competition. The market can shift in the blink of an eye, and it’s more important than ever for buyers and sellers to work with experienced agents who can help them navigate these unprecedented circumstances. Beth Schultz of Janet McAfee Real Estate is dedicated to helping clients through the process, so they can avoid the stress and anxiety that often comes with buying or selling a home.

Schultz understands that moving comes with both excitement and stress. Growing up, she and her family moved often. It helped her realize the importance of having someone knowledgeable in your corner. “It’s not as easy as signing a contract and moving furniture,” she says. “There is so much emotion, uncertainty and anxiety to transitioning your family or helping a loved one sell their home, and each transaction is different. Unlike other sales careers, what every client wants and needs is going to be unique. It’s important to work with an expert who can hold your hand through the process and understand your goals.”

Before becoming a real estate agent, Schultz taught in the Communication Studies Department at Southern Illinois University at Edwardsville, focusing on Interpersonal Communication Strategies, Public Speaking and Public Relations. That background combined with community connections she made raising her family in University City made real estate a natural fit. “I’ve raised four kids in St. Louis, and they each went to different high schools, so I’ve been able to solidify my place in different parts of the market,” she explains. “When I was young, I always wanted to be a mom and teacher, and I’ve found that my experience as both support my work as an agent. I can come to my clients with empathy and understanding while also parlaying my communication skills into successful transactions.”

With low inventory and motivated buyers, today’s market is more competitive than ever. Schultz notes that makes working with a seasoned real estate professional even more important. “Successful sales depend on understanding how to work the market

to your clients’ advantage,” she says. “Whether you’re buying or selling, things move fast and furious. You need to find an agent who can get you to closing. When interviewing prospective agents, make sure you ask questions about recent transactions. Buyer’s agents should understand what listing agents are looking for and vice versa.”

For Schultz, sharing what makes St. Louis unique is one of the best parts of her job.

“Recently, St. Louis was named the No. 1 metro area on the Wall Street Journal/realtor.com Emerging Housing Markets Index,” she notes. “From the Central West End to University City to St. Charles, we have amazing neighborhoods that offer their own unique vibe, and the city is home to renowned historic architecture. No matter what you’re looking for, you can find the perfect fit. Plus, St. Louisans rally around whatever is best for the entire community. That sets us apart from other major metropolitan areas. We’re passionate about making things better and promoting growth.”

selling, things move fast

furious. You need to find an agent who can get you to closing.

IN THE

by stephanie wallace

saint louis zoo

The zoo is part of an initiative to release thousands of tropical snails into native habitats, including species that are extinct in the wild.

Zoological manager of invertebrates

Kayla Garcia participated in a recent effort in Tahiti.

clement

auto group

Congrats to Trenton Stuerman! The Liberty High School junior was the first winner of the Clement Ford Drive For Excellence Program, receiving a new Ford Mustang. The program recognizes the 20 students with the highest grades out of hundreds who submit their report cards.

CREATIVE

creative director JULIE M.

urban league of metropolitan st. louis

The nonprofit honored Emily Burch for her outstanding commitment to the organization and the St. Louis community. PICTURED: DAVE PEACOCK, MICHAEL M C MILLIAN, EMILY BURCH, CHRIS ZIMMERMAN

associate

CONTRIBUTORS talk

graphic designer

CYDNEY MOORE

PHOTOGRAPHY

photographer COLIN MILLER

photographer TIM PARKER

photographer SUZY GORMAN

photographer BILL BARRETT

SALES

sr. account exec WENDY JABLONOW

sr. account exec JANIE SUMNER

ADMINISTRATIVE

office manager KATHY COWHEY

cc3 solutions

The telecommunication solutions company launched its giveback program SUCCE3D with CC3 with a donation of refurbished iPads to The Little Bit Foundation. The technology will be used to support the nonprofit’s programs, which serve 14,000 students.

COVER STORY

ART HISTORY

COUNTERPUBLIC

by stephanie wallace

AS THE GATEWAY CITY, St. Louis sits at the intersection of many things, including its own past and future. Counterpublic is a nonprofit dedicated to exploring our community’s vast history and its connections to daily life through the power of contemporary art. The triennial exhibition brings art into public spaces to reimagine civic infrastructure and push St. Louis toward impactful change while also spotlighting the region’s artistic and cultural scene both nationally and internationally. Its second edition runs through July 15.

Counterpublic brought together 30 artists to create works for the 2023 exhibition.

“Whether local or not, everyone came to St. Louis to create something new that looks at the region’s history and elevates it,” explains executive and artistic director James McAnally. “We invited each artist to think about what they are leaving behind, and we extend that question to visitors. These sites are cornerstones of how we understand our past, and we’re using art to open up new doors for expanding our future.” The exhibition runs the length of the city down Jefferson Avenue, with The Griot Museum of Black History in the north and going south to Sugarloaf Mound, the oldest human-made structure in St. Louis and the last intact Native American mound in the city.

Further connecting the past and present of St. Louis, the exhibition’s opening was held at CITYPARK Stadium, which is home to the permanent installation Pillars of the Valley by artist Damon Davis. The monument pays tribute to Mill Creek Valley, the once thriving Black neighborhood that was demolished in the 1950s in the name of urban renewal. “We’re thrilled that thousands of soccer fans will be able to learn about a piece of local history that has been forgotten,” notes Lee Broughton, Counterpublic co-founder and chief brand architect of St. Louis CITY SC. “It’s massively important to have a venue like CITYPARK to give a platform to community voices that would otherwise go unheard.”

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For those wanting to explore the exhibition, McAnnally recommends starting at CITY Pavilion, The Griot Museum or The Luminary. These hubs are open at minimum Wednesday through Saturday and offer resources like free parking, exhibition materials, merchandise and staff who can answer questions. “We’ve designed the experience to be something you can revisit,” he says. “You can take a few hours in the afternoon and explore different aspects.” Counterpublic also has partnered with other arts organizations like the Kemper Art Museum, Pulitzer Arts Foundation and Saint Louis Art Museum for unique events and experiences.

While organizing an exhibition of this scale is a large undertaking, Counterpublic’s mission is even bigger. Its goal is to interrogate civic infrastructures to facilitate change. “We believe that artists hold up an important mirror to society,” Broughton notes. “Through storytelling, they can weave the chords of shared experience to bring us together. Art gives us the ability to have conversations that would otherwise be much more difficult. With Counterpublic, we’re sharing historical trauma and how those effects reverberate throughout St. Louis. It’s an opportunity to inform generational change within the community.” &

PHOTO: JON GITCHOFF

PILLARS OF THE VALLEY BY DAMON DAVIS AT CITYPARK

town and country

Oprah! No … Opie! Not that, either. Both are references to TV stars, neither of whom is Greek. Zorba? Yeah, OK. Opa? Now, that’s most of the Greek I know or really need to, except that the Parthenon sits on a craggy hilltop in Athens and wonderful cuisine is available at the metro’s two Greek festivals that bookend summertime in the StL: at Assumption Greek Orthodox Church in the county over Memorial Day weekend and in the city over Labor Day weekend at St. Nicholas Greek Orthodox Church. For the first time since the pandemic, the St. Louis County Greek Festival is back in-person with live music, traditional folk dancing, church tours, a vendor market and delicious authentic Greek cuisine at Assumption (1755 Des Peres Road). The annual festival takes place over Memorial Day weekend, May 26 to 29. Hours are Friday, Saturday and Sunday from 11 a.m. to 9 p.m., and Monday from 11 a.m. until 4 p.m. Guests may sample a variety of foods from Greece, including souvlaki, dolmades, spanakopita, kebabs, baklava and more. A charity 5K/10K walk/run will also take place on May 27, benefiting FOCUS Gateway City, a denomination-based organization that distributes food, clothing and warm meals on Sundays and Wednesdays. To register, visit readysetgivestl.org. Please note that any purchases at this year’s fest are credit/debit card only; cash will not be accepted. Service animals are permitted in all areas of the festival that are open to the public. Leashed pets are permitted. For more information and to download the ultimate Greek Fest playlist, visit stlgreekfest.com. You might have to wait awhile before you hear anything familiar, because a version of “Zorba’s Dance” doesn’t come up until No. 62 in a 64-song Spotify playlist: #BeGreekForADay. Well, most anyone can be Greek for three minutes and 43 seconds, unless they collapse in a sweaty heap sooner during this instrumental, which starts off slowly and winds up at breakneck speed.

OF THE TOWNS talk

by bill beggs jr.

affton

We at T&S are well aware of high-powered women in journalism: Just look at our masthead! And many of us in the trade know from J-school more about legendary journalist Nellie Bly* than most students ever learn about aviator Amelia Earhart, who was lost when her plane disappeared in the South Pacific in a failed attempt to fly around the world. A globetrotting journalist herself, Brooke Kroeger will be in Affton at a south county branch of our County Library for a discussion and signing of her book Undaunted: How Women Changed American Journalism. Kroeger will be in conversation with KMOX AM radio news anchor Debbie Monterrey on Tuesday, May 23 at 7 p.m. at the Grant’s View Branch, 9700 Musick Road, right at the intersection with Gravois. The program is free; books will be available for purchase

the sheldon

The Man in Black is back—soon. And he’s bringing June with him, as well as Patsy Cline. The Fabulous Carter, Cash & Cline Show is a musical revue led by veteran Johnny Cash tribute artist Bill Forness. Don’t say impersonator—those greasy-haired dudes with a sneer and spangled white jumpsuit who pretend to be a paunchy, late-career Elvis Presley are a dime a dozen. Forness has been channeling Cash for 13 years now, so when he steps up to the vintage microphone and in an eerily familiar baritone introduces himself, “Hello. I’m Johnny Cash,” you might just believe him. See and hear for yourself at The Sheldon Concert Hall, speaking of fabulous, Saturday night, June 3, at 7 p.m. in a benefit concert for Gratitude House, to be the first sober-living center in the county for women. Last fall, a Heart tribute band played the first benefit concert in a series of such fundraisers for the organization. The effort raised $75,000. “The money will go toward an eight-bed residential setting for women in a supportive and safe environment,” says Christine Intagliata, co-founder of the effort. At present there is no such resource in the county for women where the focus is strictly on recovery from alcoholism and drug addiction. By providing a comfortable, loving, encouraging and understanding environment, Gratitude House aims to make residents feel free to share their pains and frustrations, along with their hopes and dreams for long-term recovery and fulfilling lives. Intagliata says there is a dire need for a safe, dignified and comfortable place in the county for women suffering from the disease of alcoholism, drug abuse and abuse of prescription medicines. Her goal for the concert is to raise an additional $60,000 toward the cause. To order tickets and learn more about the mission, visit gratitudehousestl.org.

WHERE MIGHT MOST MIDWESTERNERS HAVE HEARD THE TUNE “ZORBA’S DANCE” FOR THE FIRST TIME?

at the event. Kroeger, an NYU Journalism professor and former UN correspondent, presents an essential history of women in American journalism, showcasing exceptional careers from 1840 to the present.

*Bly, who developed a scintillating style of investigative reporting, made it around the world in 72 days, not 80— in 1889. Powered flight was still more than a decade in the future.

LAST ISSUE’S Q & A

Theodore Link was the architect of the Studio at St. Albans. What’s another very prominent, iconic building in the Lou for which Link was architect?

John C. Guenther, the architect featured in last issue’s ‘Notable Neighbors,’ mentioned several other giants in the field with respect and awe. He also name-checked Theodore Link, architect behind the Studio Inn at St. Albans, not far from where the Guenthers live. Link was the architect for another very prominent, iconic building in the Lou: Union Station.

BILL BEGGS JR. HAS WORN MANY HATS AT NEWSPAPERS, MAGAZINES AND IN MARKETING COMMUNICATIONS SINCE BEFORE THE ERA OF THE FLOPPY DISC. NOW HE JUST WEARS A HAT TO KEEP HIS BALD SPOT FROM GETTING SUNBURNT. YOU CAN REACH HIM AT WRTRS.BLCK@GMAIL.COM

Mahatma Gandhi has oft been quoted as saying, “The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are treated.” The beloved barefoot sage could have been referring to St. Louis, what with our abundance of animal welfare agencies and groups, from Humane Society of Missouri and the APA to Stray Rescue and Bi-State Pet Food Pantry. There’s the Missouri House Rabbit Society. And many of our fellow citizens take it upon themselves to drive many miles, often out of state, to retrieve cats and dogs from high-kill shelters, perhaps rescue them from hoarders or otherwise unsafe living conditions, and bring them to the Lou, where it’s a better bet they’ll get a second chance. Most animal lovers with this level of commitment have big dreams, but many suffer from a shortage of common sense. Tom Becherer, who helms Urban Feed & Supply in the city, considers himself somewhat of a paradox. “I have a deep passion for animals,” he says, “but I am not a vegetarian.” Plenty of us are like that. Becherer grew up on a farm in Spanish Lake, and has been in the feed business in some capacity all his life. His present outfit started out on Papin Street in 2012, but when he found himself facing much higher rents because of gentrification, they moved— Urban Feed now operates out of a warehouse in the Gate District. His company provides animal feed and pet foods, bedding and other supplies to commercial accounts like the city, county and Saint Louis Zoo. And he takes a long view of animal welfare as it relates to human life. He can have a conversation with someone from a rescue group in the morning and a university lab researcher in the afternoon, because both have to live in the same ecosystem and all animals must eat, whether they’re walked several times a day down Wydown in Clayton, lounge on a Ladue windowsill or frantically scratch for sustenance in an alley. Much of Becherer’s strength is in helping idealists avoid being penny-wise and pound-foolish. He hopes he’s bringing some farm sense to the city: Don’t replace it, fix it; don’t recycle it, reuse it. Some of the best nonprofits—he cites Humane Society of Missouri, St. Vincent de Paul and LifeWise StL—are fiscally smart. “They run it as a business,” Becherer says. Some, unfortunately, can’t—or just don’t. “If they’re spending $1 to make a dime, well; there’s a better way to do this.” Which gets us back to Papin, the street that inspired a Becherer acronym for the other outfit that runs out of 17,500 square feet: PAPIN stands for Pets and People in Need, which is operated by Becherer’s spouse, Barb. From this standpoint, theirs is a partnership where the left hand usually doesn’t know what the right hand is doing—by necessity. Tom’s business is for profit, Barb’s nonprofit helps low-income families in the metro, and requires all pets to be spayed or neutered and on heartworm prevention to access services. “That’s what it all comes down to,” Tom Becherer says. “It’s a call to arms: Spay and neuter.” Becherer says Urban Feed & Supply doesn’t need a thing; for example, most items are donated through long standing relationships with pet-food companies. But volunteers behind the wheel of a rescue van and boots on the ground throughout the metro always need help: Visit hsmo.org; apa.org; bi-statepetfoodpantry.org and strayrescue.org.. &

Tom Becherer

disco fever

A new exhibition is coming to The Gallery at The High Low. After the Disco by Emily Elliott is an immersive installation meant to capture the experience of an anxious brain stuck in a thought loop. It is on view from May 19 through July 8. There will be a special opening reception on May 19 from 5 to 8 p.m. and an Artist Talk on May 20 at 6 p.m. FOR MORE INFORMATION, VISIT KRANZBERGARTSFOUNDATION.ORG.

THE INSIDER

a fond farewell

The Repertory Theatre of St. Louis has announced that artistic director Hana Sharif is stepping down after five years of leadership. Sharif is heading to Washington D.C. to become the artistic director of Arena Stage. Good luck!

Saint Louis University’s Center for Ignatian Service has received a one-year $1.3 million grant from the Thomas R. Schilli Foundation. Established in 2022, the center provides an educational pathway for students in grades one through eight at under-resourced schools and offers SLU students community engagement options. The new grant will expand the program to include St. Louis area high school students.

PATTY

by patty hannum

SOME PEOPLE

THINK I AM A LITTLE

bit crazy. I deny it eleven months out of the year. May is the exception because it is Mental Health Awareness Month, and I have a mental illness. This is not anything new, I’ve had obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD), well, forever. I didn’t actually know why my mind operated differently, but I was diagnosed about 30 years ago. Since that time, I’ve been to my fair share of therapists and fortunately found one who could help, along with an amazing psychiatrist. For some reason, I have never been embarrassed about my OCD—it is just who I am—but for many, there is a real stigma surrounding mental health. Once a year, I talk to you, my lovely readers about my quirky mind in hope that you will either be more sensitive to those with issues or perhaps if you feel like your mind is just not quite wired like everyone else’s, you might talk to a health care professional.

Let’s get a few things straight. First, I am not Rain Man! I don’t count tiles, jump over cracks

or obsessively wash my hands. Instead, when my OCD flares up, I have intrusive thoughts that I ruminate about. And let me just tell you, I do a thorough job of it! With the right combination of therapy and medication my flare ups are sporadic, but unfortunately earlier this year, I found myself in the revolving door of OCD. I was disappointed in myself for letting it get the best of me, but just like so many others who struggle with a mental illness, I realized that I was more than enough.

The National Alliance on Mental Illness is currently promoting this month with the tag #morethanenough. So, let me tell you having OCD does have some advantages! I am the most focused employee you could ever want! I never miss deadlines. I have a brain full of useful and useless information that makes me perfect for trivia. I simply can’t give up. My brain won’t let me! It also gives me my quirky sense of humor. I am not embarrassed by having OCD just like I would not be embarrassed if I had diabetes.

a home run for reading!

Cardinals Care, the charitable arm of the St. Louis Cardinals, has donated $200,000 to the St. Louis County Library Foundation to sponsor a new bookmobile. To celebrate, the library is releasing a limited-edition Cardinals library card. Information on how to obtain a card is available at slcl.org/content/library-cards.

What can you do to help people who suffer from a mental health issue? First, don’t tell them to ‘get over it.’ Be understanding and supportive. Second, don’t be flippant. When someone tells me they are a little OCD because they color code their closet, it is hard for me not to punch them. They are just organized. Saying you are a little OCD diminishes those who truly are dealing with OCD. People who suffer from depression aren’t just ‘a little blue’ and a fun night out isn’t going to cure them. But what does help is a friend that listens and empathizes. Encouraging people to seek professional help can be hard but sometimes those closest to you need a little push.

I have a tattoo of a semi-colon on my finger. Most people assume it is because I’m a writer. No, it is just a reminder for me to take a breath and pause. So this week’s column was not a lot of laughs but I promise no lecture next issue! All our brains are just wired a little differently. And that’s just fine. Peace my peeps. &

STRICTLY BUSINESS

by stephanie wallace

WHITFIELD SCHOOL

MERCY COVENANT HOUSE MISSOURI ST. PATRICK CENTER

The school welcomed two new members to its leadership team. Kathleen Kelly has been appointed director of development. She brings more than 13 years of experience working in education, most recently having served as the director of advancement at Community School. Erin Walsh will be taking over the position of director of communications and marketing. Now in her third year at Whitfield, she previously worked at Thomas Jefferson School as the director of enrollment and communications.

The health care system has selected Matt Wright to lead orthopedic and sports medicine across its multi-state region. His role is part of Mercy’s new focus on building an exceptional, consistent experience for patients regardless of where they live. Wright served as chief operations officer in Mercy’s Oklahoma region. In his new role, he will focus on increasing and optimizing in-person options in regions that need more specialists and expanding virtual options for all. The position is one of six roles that will lead specialty care services across Mercy, including cardiovascular, surgery and GI, neurosciences, oncology and women and children.

Dr. Yusef Scoggin has been appointed the nonprofit’s new chief executive officer. He brings more than a decade of experience in leadership, social work and community advocacy to the position. Most recently, Scoggin served as director of the Department of Human Services for the City of St. Louis, and he previously acted as director of the Office of Family & Community Services for the St. Louis County Department of Human Services. He replaces outgoing Covenant House CEO Jessica Erfling.

ST. LOUIS SYMPHONY ORCHESTRA

Paul Pietrowski has joined the orchestra as its new chief operating officer. He succeeds Erik Finley, who served as SLSO vice president and general manager from 2017 through January 2023. Pietrowski comes to St. Louis from six years with the Cincinnati Symphony Orchestra. He holds a bachelor of music degree from James Madison University, a master of music degree in trombone performance from the University of North Carolina at Greensboro and is a certified labor relations leader from Michigan State University.

The nonprofit has undergone a chief executive officer transition. Current CEO Anthony D’Agostino has stepped down, and senior director of philanthropy Amanda Laumeyer has been appointed interim CEO. Laumeyer has been with St. Patrick Center for seven years and has a 17-year career in nonprofit development.

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2. Access Academies

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4. The Muny

The Muny’s 2023 Season includes Beautiful (June 12-18), Disney’s Beauty and the Beast (June 22-30), Chess (July 5-11), West Side Story (July 15-21), Little Shop of Horrors (July 25-31), Rent (Aug. 4-10) and Sister Act (Aug. 14-20).

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Zine Fest! Join Craft Alliance in the Delmar Maker District for a free evening of family fun on May 19! Check out our community of zine artists, enjoy local food and craft your own zine.

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7. Webster Arts

The 19th Webster Arts Fair returns to the green of Eden Seminary. The event features 92 artists from across the country, free art activities, live music and food from local favorites. Join us June 2, 3 and 4!

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5. Craft Alliance

6. David Ruggeri Art

AT HOME WITH HISTORY:

The Frank Lloyd Wright House in Ebsworth Park by stephanie wallace

Whether it’s the Art Deco design of the Continental Building and other downtown skyscrapers, the turn-of-the-century glamour of the mansions in the Central West End or the pure majesty of the Gateway Arch, St. Louis has a rich architectural history. A shining example of this is tucked away on 10.5 acres in Kirkwood, where one of the most significant architects of the 20th century left his mark on the region. The Frank Lloyd Wright House in Ebsworth Park is the architect’s first building in the St. Louis area, and one of only five of his designs in Missouri.

Originally designed and built for Russell and Ruth Goetz Kraus, the Frank Lloyd Wright House in Ebsworth Park demonstrates the architect’s vision to provide middle-class Americans with beautiful architecture at an affordable cost. Executive director Kathryn Feldt notes that it’s a wonderful example of Usonian design—Wright’s term for his uniquely American approach to architecture. “The home reflects Wright’s use of organic architecture to integrate interior and exterior spaces,” she notes. “It was built after he had started experimenting with various geometric designs and demonstrates one of his most complex and dramatic forms: the parallelogram. The home has original Wright-designed furniture and unique features, such as art glass designed by Russell Kraus.”

Wright’s connection to St. Louis extends beyond the house in Ebsworth Park. He also served as a mentor to local architect William Bernoudy. As a young man, Bernoudy dropped out of Washington University. However, when a friend showed him an article about Wright’s Taliesin Fellowship, he was inspired to apply and was accepted. “In our research, we discovered so much about the relationship between these two talented architects,” Feldt notes. “Bernoudy was deeply entrenched in the friendships and design philosophies that originated in the early days working with Wright. Clearly, there was mutual respect

between the two men. ‘Billy’ (as Wright called him) became a dear, lifelong friend and confidante.”

The Frank Lloyd Wright House in Ebsworth Park is highlighting the influential friendship in an exhibit of photography, furniture and other items Bernoudy designed and artifacts related to his time as one of Wright’s early fellows. The display will be part of the Preserving What’s Wright event, an annual fundraiser celebrating Wright’s birthday. This year’s event is June 11 in Ebsworth Park. Along with tours of the Kraus home and Bernoudy exhibit, festivities include a gourmet grill by Café Napoli, cocktails and mocktails by the Wandering Sidebar and a silent auction. Funds raised by Preserving What’s Wright go toward upkeep for the Kraus house. “Thanks to community support, we are able to complete important preservation initiatives,” Feldt says. “This year, we anticipate a big roofing project, and we are working on restoring the terrace. The money also enables educational programming, such as our student tours (which we offer to grade four through university level groups), community lectures and other experiential learning.”

The Frank Llody Wright House in Ebsworth Park is open to the public through eight-person guided tours, and during the summer, it offers expanded hours. To schedule a tour, visit ebsworthpark.org. &

PHOTOS: ANDREW PIELAGE

for Spring & Summer

BY STEPHANIE WALLACE

There’s no doubt that pets are a wonderful part of the family. As the weather continues to warm up and we head toward summer, it’s a great opportunity to spend more time with our four-legged friends, whether that means longer walks, games of fetch or just hanging out in the backyard. Now also is the time to take a few simple steps to ensure your pets stay happy and healthy.

visit the vet

The Humane Society of Missouri recommends taking your pet to the veterinarian for a routine checkup in the spring. Along with checking for any health conditions your pet may have developed during the winter months, the examination is a great time to update their vaccinations and learn about recommendations for preventative measures during flea and tick season.

get outside & get active

Thanks to more daylight and warmer weather, spring is ideal for heading outside and keeping your pet active. Regular exercise helps them maintain a healthy body weight while also promoting better mental health. Take advantage of the seasonal conditions and head to the park for a long walk or hang out in the backyard for some outdoor play.

check for mobility issues and other concerns

While you’re taking advantage of the favorable weather, keep an eye on how your pet behaves. If you notice that they appear to be lethargic or hesitant to take actions like running or climbing stairs, you may want to consult your veterinarian. For both senior and younger dogs, mobility issues can often be treated, eliminating discomfort and improving quality of life for your pet.

prevent parasites

During the warmer months, heartworms, ticks and fleas are at their most active, leaving your furry friends at greater risk for a variety of health issues. Prevention is much easier to deal with than treatment, so consult your veterinarian to determine the parasite prevention method that is most suited for your pet’s lifestyle, age, weight and other risk factors.

watch out for allergies

Spring is a season of watery eyes, congestion and sneezing—and not only for humans! It’s also peak allergy season for our pets. Recurrent scratching, licking and gnawing are common signs that your pet is suffering from allergies. Keep an eye out for these behaviors and other unusual ones. If you suspect your pet has an allergy, be sure to consult your veterinarian about treatment options.

prepare for severe weather

While spring is often associated with pleasant conditions, it also can bring severe weather events. In case of a tornado, make sure you have an emergency plan that includes your pet. During inclement weather, keep your pet indoors and away from windows. In case of evacuation, make sure you take your pet with you. If you have supplies for emergency situations, make sure to include food, water, medication and important documents for your pet among them.

protect pets from the heat

The weather is warming up, and while that’s great for outdoor activities, make sure you are keeping your pets safe. If the temperature is higher than 70ºF, don’t leave your pet in a parked car. According to the Humane Society, it only takes 10 minutes for the inside temperature to rise to 102ºF or hotter. When you head out for a run or jog, make sure to take frequent water breaks, and if you suspect you pet is overheating, place a cool or cold, wet towel around their neck or pour cool water over their body, especially the abdomen and between the hind legs. &

Source: The Humane Society of Missouri

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PRESERVING WHAT’S WRIGHT BENEFIT

The Frank Lloyd Wright House in Ebsworth Park

THE FRANK LLOYD WRIGHT HOUSE IN EBSWORTH PARK

5 P.M. | 314.822.8359 EBSWORTHPARK.ORG

JOE BUCK GOLF CLASSIC

6/15

TOAST TO FATHERS DINNER

Fathers & Families Support Center

THE CHASE PARK PLAZA

ROYAL SONESTA

5:30 P.M. | 314.333.4170

FATHERSSUPPORTCENTER.ORG

30TH ANNIVERSARY FUNDRAISING SOIRÉE

Almost Home

THE HALL AT OLIVE + OAK 6 P.M. | 314.771.4663 ALMOSTHOMESTL.ORG

6/19

GOLF FOR HOPE

Boys Hope Girls Hope of St. Louis WHITMOOR COUNTRY CLUB

9:30 A.M. | 314.776.9406

BOYSHOPEGIRLSHOPESTL.ORG

6/21

THE LONGEST DAY Alzheimer’s Association of Greater Missouri VIRTUAL ALZ.ORG/GREATERMISSOURI

6/22

PURSES & PUMPS FOR POOCHES & PALS

Humane Society of Missouri

HUMANE SOCIETY OF MISSOURI HEADQUARTERS 6 P.M. | 314.647.8800 | HSMO.ORG

6/26

JIM BUTLER MEMORIAL GOLF CLASSIC Boys & Girls Clubs of Greater St. Louis NORWOOD HILLS COUNTRY CLUB 11 A.M. | 314.335.8000 BGCSTL.ORG

6/27

CHIP IN FOR THE PROMISE OF HOME Promise Community Homes THE COURSES AT FOREST PARK

9 A.M. | 314.567.1522 PROMISECOMMUNITYHOMES.ORG

MAKE-A-WISH MISSOURI & KANSAS walk for wishes by bill

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Walk for Wishes is a nationwide Make-A-Wish fundraiser that supports granting life-changing wishes for children with critical illnesses. It’s a family-friendly event powered by Wish families, volunteers, companies and individual donors. Participants completed a one- or three-mile walk. guests: President and CEO Caroline Schmidt, COO Stephanie Hampton-Boeglin, event chair Lisa Peel

KIM DUNBAR, ERIC CHRISTNER

BRIDGET AND MARGARET SLINEY

PRIYA AND CHASITY SHAHI

STEPHANIE HAMPTON-BOEGLIN, CAROLINE SCHMIDT

EMILY HAGLIN, BRIAN MILLER

CARLY STREMLAU, LISA PEEL

TIM STREMLAU, VICTORIA EDLER, GABBY GOTSCH

ANDREA STEPHANIELOEFFLER,RUSSELL

OLLIE HINKLE HEART FOUNDATION eat drink love

by bill barrett

The mission of the Ollie Hinkle Heart Foundation is to address the unmet needs of heart families while transforming the future of pediatric heart care. Eat Drink Love is St. Louis’ premier culinary and beverage tasting event, featuring samplings from more than 15 of St. Louis’ top restaurants, nearly 150 fine wines and award-winning local beers. Guests also enjoyed live music by The Mighty Pines. Co-founders Jennifer and Mark Hinkle.

HEATH AND MELANTHA NORTON

VALERIE AND JIM HOFFMANN

KATE STACY, ROSS AND KATHRYN BEARMAN

MARK AND JENNIFER HINKLE

EMILY WYMORE, BEN BAILEY

EVERY STUDENT. EVERY CHANCE. EVERY DAY.

JUNE 1 | THE RITZ-CARLTON, ST. LOUIS

BRIGHTFUTURES

ACCESS ACADEMIES

by stephanie wallace

WHILE MANY OF US MAY BE A LITTLE reluctant to think back to our middle school years thanks to a lingering sense of awkwardness, there is no question that it’s a pivotal time in a young person’s life. The transition from child to teenager comes with new responsibilities, challenges and opportunities for growth, but if poverty and a lack of resources are part of the equation, the future can feel limited. Since 2005, Access Academies has provided support for students who have been historically underserved so they can thrive as they move to high school and beyond. The organization partners with urban middle schools and assists participants through enrichment, counseling and scholarships.

Access Academies’ mission centers on creating equitable opportunities in education. More than 90% of participants qualify for free or reduced lunch, a federal indicator of poverty. “We envision a vibrant St. Louis where education allows every child to think, dream and achieve big,” executive director Shelly Williams explains. “From health outcomes to social mobility to literacy rates, ZIP codes too often pre-determine so much about children’s lives. By removing barriers to education, we’re helping dismantle systems that disallow students to be their best selves.” The nonprofit’s results speak for themselves: 99% of graduates are accepted into private college-prep high schools, and 96% go onto college or other post-secondary institutions.

The program takes a three-pronged approach to education. Working with the middle schools, it provides enrichment through extended school days and summer sessions that help students develop academically while building character and leadership skills. It also offers financial support for tuition and preparation for post-secondary plans, including covering costs related to ACT testing, applications and college visits. “We help families navigate concerns about tuition, so they pay on average $195 a month to enroll their

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children in private high schools,” Williams notes. “As of last school year, we’ve awarded more than $8 million in high school and college scholarships and financial aid.”

The third part of the equation is counseling. Access Academies starts when students are in sixth grade, and staff continues working with them through their entire academic journey, a more than 11-year partnership. Graduate support directors help middle schoolers prepare and make important decisions about secondary school. That guidance continues through students’ senior years, when a college and career counselor takes over. “That individual attention and commitment makes the difference as students transition to—and persist in—their next level of education,” Williams says. “Our strong and trusting relationships allow us to understand their needs and help them address challenges.”

On June 1, Access Academies will hold its 14th annual Celebration Dinner at The Ritz-Carlton, St. Louis. The evening will showcase the achievements of Access students and feature two performances from organizations that provide enrichment, Encore STL and Prolific People, which was founded by an alum. The nonprofit also will honor former board member Marie Kenyon, director of the Peace and Justice Commission for the Archdiocese of St. Louis. “The Celebration Dinner supports every facet of Access Academies, from enrichment programming to helping make private school tuition affordable,” Williams notes. “The support is vital to the success of our children and, in turn, the success and vibrancy of the region.” &

Ellsworth Kelly (American, 1923-2015) Colored Paper Image XIII (Yellow Green Black Blue Orange), 1976 Sold for $50,400

PHOTO: TIM PARKER PHOTOGRAPHY

ACCESS ACADEMIES FAMILY THE PÉREZ-VAZQUEZES

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For Tamara Keefe, it all began with a $2 hand-crank ice cream maker. Growing up in California, making ice cream brought her joy and a sense of belonging, and now, she’s spreading the good vibes at Clementine’s Creamery, the first microcreamery in the midwest. Keefe left a high-powered job in corporate America to follow her ice cream dreams, and it has paid off tremendously.

WHAT MOTIVATED YOU TO GIVE UP THE SECURITY OF A CORPORATE CAREER TO FOLLOW YOUR DREAM? By 2014, I was running a $70 million business, on the road all of the time, commuting back and forth, working 60- to 70-hour weeks and successfully climbing the corporate ladder. I also was exhausted, unhappy, single with no kids or family and rarely seeing my friends. I was miserable. My girlfriends convinced me to quit my job and follow my bliss. I had been making ice cream since I was a little girl. Why not strive to make the best ice cream in the country?

WHAT WAS THE FIRST UNFORESEEN CHALLENGE YOU ENCOUNTERED? Everything takes twice as long and costs twice as much.

WHAT WAS THE BEST ADVICE YOU RECEIVED WHEN YOU VENTURED OUT ON THIS INCREDIBLE JOURNEY? The infamous and brilliantly smart Zoë Robinson, badass restaurant extraordinaire of the famed Bar les Frères, I’ Fratellini and so many more, once told me “No is a gift.” That never left me. Too often, people think of “no” as rejection and failure. I see it as an opportunity to find the right fit. Some people tell you no because it’s not what they would do or how they would approach the situation. It’s a good thing we don’t have to do things their way, right? Hearing “no” can be tough—especially if it’s in relation to your passion and business. But I would rather hear “no” 100 times if it means finding the right “yes.” It can light that spark to inspire you. It forces you to find a way. It leads you down a path of getting the right location, the right partners, the right strategies. Everything is not for everyone and along with that comes “no.” That’s OK. Keep pushing your business forward and you’ll attract the right “yes.”

DO YOU HAVE A FAVORITE FLAVOR? I love our Madagascar Vanilla.

BEFORE FINISHING OFF AN EVENING WITH A STOP AT CLEMENTINE’S, WHERE DO YOU RECOMMEND PEOPLE GRAB DINNER? Akar in Clayton is my favorite restaurant in St. Louis. When I want Italian, I head to Louie on DeMun. My favorite neighborhood joint is Lona’s Lil Eats. I live in Lafayette Square, so I love to go to SqWires for happy hour or brunch—their Bloody Mary bar is unmatched! HAS DEVELOPING CLEMENTINE’S CREATED OPPORTUNITIES TO TRAVEL? IF SO, WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE DESTINATION? I love to travel any chance I get. In fact, that is where a lot of my flavor inspiration comes from. My favorite place to visit is Paris BEACH OR MOUNTAINS. Beach

SAILING OR FIRST CLASS. First Class

WHAT’S NEXT FOR YOU, AND WHAT’S NEXT FOR CLEMENTINE’S? We just opened our seventh location in the Central West End, and our eighth is planned to open in Edwardsville, Illinois, in June. Now that we have moved into a 25,000-square-foot production facility, it will enable us to ship even more great ice cream around the country. My plan is to open up a shop in every state.

> Read the entire interview on townandstyle.com.

by stephanie wallace

june MARK YOUR CALENDAR:

6/1-6/25

undercover

Circus Flora enters the daring world of espionage! Aerialists, acrobats, contortionists and comedians will craft a thrilling story of the world’s top double agent facing off against an archvillain bent on world domination.

The Big Top | $10-$65 | Various showtimes 314.827.3830 | circusflora.org

6/2-7/2

elton john & tim rice’s aida

The Grammy and Tony award-winning musical tells the tale of the transcendent love triangle between Aida, a Nubian princess stolen from her country; Amneris,

6/12-6/17

missouri chamber music festival

6/3

the craft beer hobnob festival

The sample-focused festival features 40 Missouri craft breweries. Guests can enjoy more than 70 beers, live music and a keepsake-tasting glass. A portion of ticket sales will benefit the Missouri Craft Brewers Guild. Schlafly Bottleworks | $65-$75 Noon-4 p.m. | schlafly.com

6/7-6/10

twangfest

The nonprofit grassroots music festival features the best in live Americana, country, folk, pop, rock and soul. This year’s lineup includes Black Joe Lewis, James McMurtry, Nadine, The Waco Brothers and more. Off Broadway | $25-$190 | 8 p.m. twangfest.com

Themed Love, Intrigue, Death and Diversion, the festival’s four concerts reflect the broad spectrum of human experience. The program includes Jessie Montgomery’s “Voodoo Dolls,“ Bryce Dessner’s “Murder Ballades” and works by Edvard Grieg, Antonín Dvořák, Claude Debussy and Gustav Mahler. First Congregational Church of Webster Groves | $76 | Various showtimes mochambermusic.org

6/15

dine around: south grand restaurant crawl

Get your taste buds ready to eat around the world with 15 countries represented within five blocks! The event will feature two menus, one of which is entirely vegan. South Grand Neighborhood | TBD 5-9 p.m. | southgrand.org

6/22

charlie puth

The singer-songwriter brings The “Charlie” Live Experience to Saint Louis Music Park. Saint Louis Music Park | $30-$199.50

6/22-6/30

disney’s beauty and the beast

Bring the entire family for an enchanting night under the stars. Thanks to a little Muny magic, the beloved characters from the classic tale come to life with spectacular sets and costumes. The Muny | $19-$120 | 8:15 p.m. 314.361.1900 | muny.org

6/24

st. louis water lantern festival

The festival includes food, games, activities, and the beauty of thousands of lanterns adorned with letters of love, hope and dreams reflected

$34.99-$55.99 | 5:30-9:30 p.m. waterlanternfestival.com/stlouis

The singer brings the Unfollow Me Tour to the StL with special guest Enterprise Center | $39.95-$129.95 7:30 p.m. | enterprisecenter.com

6/28

ben folds

The singer’s What Matters Most Tour promotes the album of the same name, which reckons with hope and despair, gratitude and loss, identity and perspective in a bittersweet and often hilarious ways. Stifel Theatre | $37.50-$123 | 8 p.m. 314.499.7600 | stifeltheatre.com

&more! HOOKED BOOKS

by patty hannum

Code Gray by Farzon Nahvi

Written by an ER doctor, this book takes you behind the scenes of a level 1 trauma center. It starts with how emergency departments handled the pandemic and then moves on to everyday people and their hospital visits. Since I act like I am a doctor sometimes, I found the book extremely interesting, and it is a very quick read.

Healing After Loss by Martha Hickman

This book was recommended by a friend after the loss of my brothers. It has daily essays that really do help those who are grieving. It’s not a book anyone wants to have to read, but it sure helps those in need.

The Girl in the Blue Mustang (Dateline NBC Podcast)

If it is Dateline, you know it is murder! This seven part podcast spans nearly 20 years to find the killer of an 18 year-old woman. The podcast takes you through the investigation, the trial and subsequent release of a wrongly convicted man. Keith Morrison is the narrator and brings his signature style to the podcast.

Love is Blind (Netflix)

What a guilty pleasure! Can you fall in with someone you’ve never laid eyes on and have only interacted with through a wall? Thirty people try their luck on season four of this series. I am not sure if I actually gained any knowledge, but I sure enjoyed the show!

BY STEPHANIE WALLACE

From supporting local growers to getting fresh, healthy produce and meat, there are big benefits to eating and buying local. The Missouri Coalition for the Environment (MCE) believes that by promoting sustainable practices, local farms can not only meet the nutritional needs of the community but also improve soil, air and water quality. It launched Known & Grown STL to build a resilient and equitable food community by supporting farmers who use humane and environmentally responsible practices.

According to the United States Department of Agriculture, farming accounted for 11.2% of U.S. greenhouse emissions in 2020. Locally, much of the farmland around the St. Louis region is dedicated to the commercial production of corn and soybeans and Concentrated Animal Feeding Operations where livestock are confined for long periods. “A common misconception is that all farming is beneficial for the environment, but unfortunately, that is not the case,” MCE executive director Jared Opsal says. “Farmers who implement eco-friendly policies see a more than 60% decrease in greenhouse emissions. We launched Known & Grown STL in the summer of 2019 to support local farmers in a 150-mile radius of St. Louis who are doing the right things.”

The farmer-led program provides mentorship and networking opportunities to expand and improve environmentally-responsible practices. Known & Grown STL connects growers with experts who visit farms and help guide them. They also host Farmer Field Days where participants get to visit other farms in the program and learn about what they are doing. The initiative recently received a grant from the Missouri Foundation for Health to expand operations. One thing the funds will be used for is providing refrigerated transport so farmers can more easily move products to the point of sale.

Opsal notes that a major component of the initiative is building connections with grocers, farmers markets and restaurants. “Even if they are using best practices, a farm cannot succeed if they don't sell their products,” he says. “We work to develop new supply chains. For example, a local brewery was looking for bergamot, but no single farm in the program grew enough to meet the order. We were able to establish a price between three growers, and they fulfilled it together. Without our network, they wouldn’t have made the sale, and that local ingredient wouldn’t have ended up in that beer.”

To participate in the program, farmers must adhere to certain practices. They must be antibiotic-free, use no synthetic chemicals, allow farm animals to live in outdoor pastures where they can forage, and forgo synthetic growth promotants or added hormones. Farms also have to implement measures to prevent harmful chemicals from drifting from other facilities in close

proximity. “We also award farmers that go above and beyond with the Golden Beet designation,” Opsal adds. “They implement suggested practices like creating a pollinator habitat, practicing energy conservation, and capturing and storing rain to use for irrigation.” There are currently 65 farms participating in Known & Grown STL, and consumers can learn more about the conservation practices of each at knownandgrownstl.org.

The Known & Grown STL website also features a local food locator where people can find farmers markets, grocers and restaurants that sell or use products grown on farms in the program. “The mapping tool enlightens people to just how many places there are that source locally grown food,” Opsal says. “It can have a big benefit for the local economy. When you spend locally, 70% of those funds stay in the region versus only around 25% if you purchase from a national or international company.” There also is a positive environmental impact. Purchasing produce grown in Missouri can result in less than six times the CO2 emissions that come with shipping items grown out of state.

While Known & Grown STL is not a food access organization, it does strive to address food insecurity and inequality through community partnerships. It works with Operation Food Search and community grocery stores to bring fresh produce into areas often considered food deserts. It also works towards a more equitable food system by supporting many first-generation farmers. “This program is as much about small business development as it is about environmental impact,” Opsal says. “We work with historically underserved populations, such as BIPOC-, women- and veteran-owned farms. We want to give them the resources and support necessary to thrive.” &

A KNOWN & GROWN STL ECO-TOUR AT SUCH & SUCH FARMS

PHOTOS: MIRANDA MUNGUIA

MCE EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR JARED OPSAL WITH HIS DAUGHTER

Know the Signs: Watching Out for Mental Illness

Mental illness rarely appears out of nowhere. Learning about developing symptoms, or early warning signs, can help ensure early intervention and reduced interruptions in quality of life. For Mental Health Awareness Month, we’re taking a look at some of the early indicators of mental illness.

changes in behavior

Odd or uncharacteristic behavior can be a red flag and may be indicative of conditions like anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder and bipolar disorder. These changes often manifest as a drop in functioning at school or work, increased absenteeism and difficulties in relationships with peers and co-workers. People may quit activities they previously enjoyed or have difficulty performing familiar tasks.

altered sleep schedule

Sleep deprivation has a big impact on your psychological state, and people dealing with mental illness are more likely to also have a sleep disorder. According to Harvard Medical School, chronic sleep problems impact 10% to 18% of adults in the general U.S. population, but they affect 50% to 80% of patients receiving psychiatric care. Trouble sleeping is common with conditions like anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder and attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD).

appetite changes

Diet impacts mental health more than you may think because serotonin helps regulate sleep and appetite in addition to mediating mood. Around 95% of it is produced in the gastrointestinal tract, so stress can have an impact on food cravings. It can trigger

the drive for comfort food, such as sugar-sweetened beverages, baked goods and junk food. This is thought to be due to the release of the hormone cortisol. While stress eating is common in the short term, stress also can shut down the appetite thanks to spikes in adrenaline.

mood swings

No one’s mood is static. We all experience mood swings, but if someone’s mood cycle regularly alternates between highs (hypomanic) and lows (depressive), it can be a sign of mental illness, including conditions like bipolar disorder and cyclothymia. Hypomanic symptoms include euphoria, increased drive to perform, racing thoughts and poor judgment that can result in risky behavior. Depressive symptoms include feeling sad or worthless, fatigue and loss of interest in activities.

increased sensitivity

Mental illness can lead to heightened sensitivity to a variety of sensations. This irritation can be due to physical stimuli like sound, lights, crowds or touch. It also can be emotional with a person being overwhelmed by their racing thoughts or the strong feelings of themselves or others. If you are dealing with increased sensitivity, remove yourself from overwhelming situations, practice deep breathing exercises and try

to put space between yourself and your thoughts.

withdrawal and isolation

Withdrawal is a tactic for coping with anxiety and depression. Isolation has both objective and subjective components. Social participation can be measured by contact with other people, such as family, friends and organizations, while loneliness refers to the individual’s perception of isolation. Oftentimes, isolation only worsens the mental health concerns by amplifying the brain’s stress response, resulting in poor sleep quality, impaired executive function and more.

illogical thinking

Irrational or catastrophic thinking is commonly associated with anxiety and obsessive compulsive disorder, and delusions may be present in psychosis or be a symptom of disorders like schizophrenia. While irrational thinking is a natural part of life, especially when stressed, it can become intrusive and lead to compulsive behavior. Cognitive distortions are created when illogical thinking becomes a pattern. These errors in thinking or logic affect the way your mind processes information and makes judgements. They can shape your beliefs, mood and how you view yourself and others. &

getting help!!!

Early intervention can make a big difference for diagnosable mental illnesses. If you or someone you know is experiencing symptoms that seriously interfere with everyday life, seek help.

• Get an evaluation by your health care provider or a mental health professional.

• Learn more about mental illnesses, including their signs and symptoms.

• Consider supportive counseling for strategies for stress management.

• If you need immediate support, call or text the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline at 988 or visit 988lifeline.org.

sources: American Psychiatric Association, Mayo Clinic, Harvard Medical School

T & S HOME

827 ARBOR CHASE DRIVE, WILDWOOD

by stephanie wallace

Even the most adamant urbanite sometimes longs for the beauty and tranquility that comes with an escape into nature. Nestled in a welcoming Wildwood neighborhood, 827 Arbor Chase Drive offers the tranquility of a hike in the woods without having to leave home—and all just a short drive from shops, restaurants, schools and more. T&S spoke with the current homeowner to learn more about what makes the property so special.

What attracted you to the neighborhood?

We loved the diversity. It’s a great mix of young families, retirees, St. Louis natives and people from outside of Missoouri or even the country. Getting to meet the neighbors before we bought the house really sealed the deal. We also wanted our kids to be in the Rockwood School District. We moved from Washington where we were in one of the best school districts in the state, so we wanted to find the same caliber here.

How did you like to use the outdoor spaces?

The property has gorgeous trees and backs up to the woods. One of my absolute favorite things is to sit outside and just be in nature. You can listen to

the birds and see all kinds of wildlife like chipmunks, deer and turtles. There is a beautiful deck. I love golf, and it’s big enough that I could set up a practice net. If I hit a little too hard, I didn’t have to worry about the ball going anywhere but the woods. There’s a pool, and it’s easy to access electrical outlets. While working from home, I’d set up an umbrella, plug in my laptop and work out there.

Do you have a favorite room?

I love cooking, so I would say the kitchen. It has a double oven and gas range. I enjoyed being able to harvest herbs and vegetables from our garden and cook with them. The primary suite also has a spa-like bath with a jetted tub and heated floors. Those are probably my two favorite spaces.

Did you entertain often?

One of the reasons we purchased the house was entertaining. We’ve hosted pool parties, work events and family gatherings. We also like to have people stay with us, and there’s room for everyone. Including great spaces for kids to enjoy. We’ve been able to host 30 to 40 people without any problems. It’s a wonderful house for entertaining.

What do you want the next homeowners to know ?

The house is well cared for and well loved. It’s a wonderful place to entertain family and friends. The neighborhood is beautiful, and everyone supports one another. It’s the perfect home for a growing family. &

IF YOU’RE LOOKING FORWARD TO ENTERTAINING OR ENJOYING A PRIVATE POOL THIS SUMMER, DON’T MISS THIS WILDWOOD HOME THAT BACKS TO WOODS!”

–ANN CORDEAL AND TERRI LESSARIS

from the agents »

PHOTOS: TOM CHLEBOWSKI

Finding the RIGHT FIT

A lot of the time, downsizing can feel like a compromise. While it comes with more freedom and less maintenance, less square footage also can mean saying goodbye to certain amenities and limiting your ability to entertain guests. For the owners of this Clayton home, however, a smaller package came with big benefits. Working with Michael Lauren Development, they were able to create their dream home in the ideal location without sacrificing luxury or charm.

WRITTEN BY STEPHANIE WALLACE

PHOTOGRAPHY BY SUZY GORMAN

... WE WALKED OUTSIDE AND INSTANTLY FELL IN LOVE ...

IT’S A VERY CLEAN, NEUTRAL PALETTE THAT OFFERS A REFRESHING FEEL TO THE HOUSE.”

WHAT ATTRACTED YOU TO CLAYTON?

When we first moved to St. Louis from the east coast 23 years ago, we rented an apartment on Wydown Boulevard. The day we unpacked, we walked outside and instantly fell in love with green space, activities and amenities in the area. We then lived in Frontenac and Ladue, but we wanted to get back to all that Clayton has to offer. Once we decided we were done with the house with the big yard and pool, we started looking for something smaller in the area.

HOW DID YOU DECIDE TO BUILD?

We spent a lot of time looking at houses. Our original plan was to remodel an existing home, but it became clear there was no way to get everything we wanted, even with an extensive renovation. We pivoted to looking for lots, and it took us a solid year to find one. We love this side of Clayton because of the proximity to Forest Park and downtown. The backyards all have a lot of greenery and great views while still offering privacy.

WHAT WERE YOUR MUST-HAVES FOR THE HOME?

With a lot size this small, there are limitations, so the design team had a bit of a challenge. We wanted a first floor primary suite. Previously, we’ve lived in older homes and didn’t like the cramped feeling of the basements. We knew we wanted 10-foot ceilings on the first floor and a full basement with nine-foot ceilings. We also didn’t want to sacrifice green space for the garage, so we went with a tuck-under.

WHAT WAS THE EXPERIENCE LIKE WORKING WITH MICHAEL LAUREN DEVELOPMENT?

It was great. We’re not sure we would have been able to complete the build if it weren’t for their team and process. Mike Rechan is just so approachable and easy to talk to about everything. The late Paul Doerner was our architect, and Jacque Edwards was a lifesaver for us when it came to orchestrating the timeline and keeping things on target.

HOW WOULD YOU DESCRIBE YOUR INTERIOR DESIGN STYLE?

My sister-in-law was our interior designer, and she refers to it as a transitional mix. We like the clean and simple lines of transitional design, but it’s mixed with some antiques and other pieces people might consider more modern. It’s a very clean, neutral palette that offers a refreshing feel to the house.

DO YOU HAVE A FAVORITE ROOM?

The great room is very centrally located. It’s got the ceiling height, natural light and plenty of space, but it still feels very livable and cozy. The home office also is a favorite thanks in part to the interior design. Some of our favorite pieces of art are there, and the bay window offers a lot of natural light during the day. The four season room has floor-to-ceiling, glass door panels that fold like an accordion, so the room can be completely open to the outside. We love to sit out there all year long.

TELL ME ABOUT THE OUTDOOR SPACES.

There is a walkout patio. Its size is limited due to the size of the lot, but we love to use it to grill and dine al fresco. The yard has pretty vegetation and trees, and it’s fully fenced, which is great for our dog.

DO YOU ENTERTAIN OFTEN?

We do enjoy hosting parties. A unique feature of our bar area is that it is connected to the four season room by windows, which we can open. If we have the folding doors open to the outside along with the window panels at the bar, it makes the whole space flow together. Our guests can enjoy the indoors and outdoors. It really sets the party mood. We also were able to put in a sound system throughout the first floor, which also lends itself to entertaining. &

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HOME TOUR: CHAUNCEY BOOTHBY’S LAMBERT ROAD PROJECT

Located in the heart of a historic neighborhood, the Lambert Road project by Chauncey Boothby Interiors is a masterful blend of classic and contemporary design styles. Expertly combining traditional architectural elements with a variety of sleek, modern furnishings, Boothby creates a harmonious and sophisticated space. While the house appears grand on its exterior, this stunning project features 19 rooms that actually feel quite cozy with sitting, family and study rooms featured throughout.

Imparting Timeless Warmth & Style

The use of natural materials, including rich wood tones and stately stone accents, adds a sense of warmth and timelessness to the home. The neutral color palette accented with thoughtful pops of color creates a dynamic and visually interesting design.

Combining Personal Tastes for a Unified Design

Boothby’s ability to seamlessly blend various design styles is evident in every room of the home. Combining the family’s love of mid century modern pieces with a more traditional aesthetic, she unified these different styles, delicately balancing personal taste and uniformity. Her remedy was to incorporate elements of both styles for a cohesive and visually stunning final product.

Where Family-Friendly Charm Meets Sophisticated Elegance

This quintessential Connecticut estate embodies a true family home. Its family-friendly practical interiors are uncompromised with elegance and sophistication and will age with grace and charm. Lambert Road incorporates thoughtful detail and care throughout. From beautifully balanced kids' spaces to warm and welcoming living areas, Chauncey crafted a home that is undoubtedly timeless. &

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MARKET MANIA

9801 LOG CABIN COURT LADUE | $4,125,000

Come explore the possibilities of this amazing three-acre estate. From the privacy of the cul-de-sac to the year-round pool, its pool house and separate two-story guest house, this home offers so much flexibility.

Aimee Simpson

Dielmann Sotheby’s International Realty 8301 Maryland Ave., Ste. 100 314.725.0009 | 314.712.0558 | aimeesimpson.com

1328 WESTCHESTER MANOR LANE CHESTERFIELD | $1,985,000

Notable features of this seven-bedroom, custom-built home include a two-story great room, gourmet kitchen, hearth room with floor-to-ceiling see-through stone fireplace, master retreat with luxurious bath, complete lower level and outdoor oasis with an in-ground pool, spacious deck and covered patio with outdoor kitchen.

Mark and Neil Gellman | The Gellman Team EXP Realty | 2001 S. Hanley Road, Ste. 185 | 314.336.1991 thegellmanteam.com | 1328westchestermanor.com

7233 FORSYTH BLVD. UNIVERSITY CITY | $1,799,000

This sophisticated, four-bed, 4.5-bath home is walking distance from Clayton and Washington University and features fabulous flex spaces and a large, fully fenced yard.

Alyssa Suntrup

Gladys Manion Real Estate | 8277 Maryland Ave. 314.721.4755 | gladysmanion.com

155 GAY AVE. CLAYTON | $1,595,000

Serenely located on a charming tree-lined block in the heart of Clayton, this luxurious and cosmopolitan townhouse is noteworthy for its warmth, style and sophistication.

Matt Muren and Mary Bloomstran Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Select Properties 12851 Manchester Road | 314.775.2050 | stlrea.com

28 MIDPARK LANE LADUE | $1,195,000

A three-year-old, Doug Cohen-built home in the heart of Ladue! It features five bedrooms, four and a half baths, upgraded finishes throughout and a large fenced yard.

Julie Lane Janet McAfee Real Estate | 9889 Clayton Road 314.303.6505 | julielanerealestate.com

63005

348 Palomino Hill Court

$720,000 | Pr/SqFt: $210.04

Gladys Manion Real Estate

Agent: Ann Farwell

240 Whiting Lane

$779,000 | Pr/SqFt: N/A

Compass Realty Group

Agent: Jeff Lottmann

17602 Lasiandra Drive

$825,000 | Pr/SqFt: $232.07

Berkshire Hathaway

HomeServices Select Properties

Agent: Jennifer Rozier

234 Herworth Drive

$1,150,000 | Pr/SqFt: $326.15

Compass Realty Group

Agent: Lizzy Dooley

63017

642 Stablestone Drive

$555,000 | Pr/SqFt: $203.52

EXP Realty

Agents: The Gellman Team

63017

14409 Conway Meadows Court

$590,000 | Pr/SqFt: $158.05

Dielmann Sotheby’s International Realty

Agent: Beth Manlin

63105

150 Carondelet Plaza, No. 1402

$1,600,000 | Pr/SqFt: $478.18

Gladys Manion Real Estate

Agent: Ann Wroth

611 E. Polo Drive

$1,800,000 | Pr/SqFt: $306.23

Coldwell Banker Realty - Gundaker

Agent: Maria Elias

63108

4615 Maryland Ave.

$762,000 | Pr/SqFt: $256.74

Dielmann Sotheby’s International Realty

Agent: Ted Wight

63119

636 Sherwood Drive

$560,000 | Pr/SqFt: $224.00

Coldwell Banker Realty - Gundaker

Agent: Stacie Fryrear

311 Elm Valley Drive

$705,000 | Pr/SqFt: $264.04

Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Advantage

Agent: Dorcas Dunlop

63122

821 Rolfe Drive

$690,000 | Pr/SqFt: $325.93

Compass Realty Group

Agent: Megan Rowe

506 Medina Drive

$720,000 | Pr/SqFt: $391.94

Coldwell Banker Realty - Gundaker

Agent: Mary Beth Benes

944 Beverly Ave.

$800,000 | Pr/SqFt: $347.83

Keller Williams Realty St. Louis

Agent: Josh Voyles

63122

1808 Janet Place

$916,000 | Pr/SqFt: $293.59

Berkshire Hathaway

HomeServices Select Properties

Agent: Kim Anderson

830 Hawbrook Road

$1,999,900 | Pr/SqFt: $454.52

Live Local Realty

Agent: Ginger Fawcett

63124

8500 Colonial Lane

$701,000 | Pr/SqFt: $358.75

Circa Properties

Agent: Christopher Thiemet

39 Rio Vista Drive

$1,050,000 | Pr/SqFt: $336.54

Berkshire Hathaway

HomeServices Alliance

Real Estate

Agent: Reagan Minkler

63124

16 Fair Oaks Drive

$1,525,000 | Pr/SqFt: $433.85

RedKey Realty Leaders

Agent: Catherine Scott

63132

420 Dielman Road

$837,375 | Pr/SqFt: $368.73

Compass Realty Group

Agent: Katie Dooley Curran

63144

2608 Louis Ave.

$895,000 | Pr/SqFt: $337.48

Re/Max Results

Agent: Gail Kuntz

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