Town & Style 11.2.22

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The network is partnering with David Steward II’s Lion Forge Animation on a new multimedia project.

Drawn In follows the adventures of four Midwestern kids who love comic books through animated video shorts and comic books. The initiative is designed to use comics to help close the literacy gap.

The cancer center has expanded its proton therapy program with the addition of a second MEVION S250i Proton Therapy System. The new machine will allow pencil-beam scanning, which uses a single narrow proton beam aimed directly at the tumor.

mercy hospital south

The hospital has partnered with Lifepoint Rehabilitation for a new facility dedicated to the care of adults recovering from conditions like neurological disease or injury to the brain or spinal cord. The $37 million, standalone Mercy Rehabilitation Hospital South is expected to open by the end of the year.

powers insurance and risk management

The insurance agency has received national recognition! It was named the Midwest’s “Best Agency to Work For” by Insurance Journal. Powers was selected from more than 3,500 nominees based on anonymous surveys from employees.

siteman cancer center

by stephanie wallace

HINDMAN CELEBRATES 40 YEARS OF EXCELLENCE

TLhis October marked Hindman’s 40th anniversary. With this impressive milestone, the auction house is excited to reflect upon the last four decades and just how far Hindman has come. This year, Hindman is on track to sell more than $100 million of property at auction across all categories. It achieved the bestever start to a year in 2022—from January 1 through the end of June, it held 67 auctions and saw an incredible 188% increase in first half performance over the last five years. Since then, Hindman has gone from strength to strength, averaging a 90% sellthrough rate by lot and 135% sell-through rate by value year to date.

This success has been driven by a year of exciting auctions like the stellar single-owner sale Casting Spells: The Gertrude Abercrombie Collection of Laura and Gary Maurer. Hindman’s fine art team capitalized upon the strong market for female artists, presenting 21 works by “The Queen of the Bohemians” from the preeminent private collectors of the artist. The sale was a resounding success—all but one work sold with the auction doubling its pre-sale estimate. In the jewelry category, diamonds continue to perform very well. as expected. In September, Hindman sold a stunning 7.40 carat Harry Winston diamond ring for $362,500, one of ten diamond lots to reach six figures this year at the auction house.

But it hasn’t just been success on the auction block that has made this a momentous 2022 for Hindman. Earlier this year, it moved into a brand-new Cincinnati office, and in the fall, it will expand into new markets in the Northeast and Southeast. Here in St. Louis, Hindman redoubled its commitment to local service, bringing in specialists across categories to evaluate clients’ property and transporting highlights from its Chicago fine art auctions to be previewed locally.

Despite the momentous changes and globalization of the art market over the past 40 years, Hindman’s core values have stayed the same. The auction house is committed to providing the most client-centric services in the industry. Its fullservice approach means that it is prepared to assist all types of clients, whether they’re looking to downsize, settling an estate, seeking a formal appraisal or looking to deaccession property that no longer fits a museum’s mission.

As 2022 begins to wind down, Hindman has an exciting schedule to close out the year including major design, fine art, jewelry, and couture and luxury accessories auctions for those looking to add to their collections. If you’re thinking about selling, now is the perfect time to contact Hindman about including property in its 2023 auctions. With more than 125 auctions on the schedule for next year, there is sure to be one that will be a perfect fit for your property.

A HARRY WINSTON DIAMOND RING SOLD BY HINDMAN IN SEPTEMBER FOR $362,500.

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STRONG ROOTS

ROSSMAN SCHOOL by stephanie wallace

THERE IS NO QUESTION THAT SCHOOL is one of the biggest influences in children’s lives—second only to parents and family. Elementary education is fundamental to academic, social and emotional development. Rossman School is dedicated to laying a strong foundation for academic exploration and engagement, so students are inspired to become lifelong learners. The independent elementary school offers a challenging curriculum rooted in academics, arts and character growth. “The two most important things we provide students are wings and roots,” head of school Elizabeth Zurlinden says. “We are committed to creating an environment where children feel safe to take risks, explore and wonder.”

While instilling students with both roots and wings may seem counterintuitive, Zurlinden notes that they are two sides of the same coin. “There needs to be balance in the learning process,” she explains. “By providing support for our students, we also encourage autonomy. At Rossman, education is about celebrating childhood and kids’ natural curiosity—that’s what pushes them to problem solve and achieve. We educate both their hearts and minds. It shapes who they become.”

Rossman encourages children to take control of their own education and explore academic topics that interest them. Zurlinden recalls one example where a class was working on painting boats to learn about perspective in art class. One boy was very proud of his and expressed an interest in finding a way to bring it off the paper. The teacher encouraged him to come up with a way to do so and then pivoted her lessons to include the student’s plan to build boats. “It ended up being an amazing project,” she says. “It was student-imagined, -designed and -implemented. The most effective learning is rooted in making room for children’s ideas and interests.”

Even the youngest students at Rossman are encouraged to participate in the school’s hands-on approach to education. Starting in junior kindergarten, they become part of a Rossman Family—a group including a student from every grade level that is led by a faculty member. The program is designed to build connections across the entire school, and time is set aside every month for Rossman Families to meet and engage with one another. “It’s a very sweet part of our students’ experience,” Zurlinden says. “Junior kindergarteners have big brothers and sisters in every grade to support them, and family meetings are a place where a lot of character education takes place. It is just another way we help our students take root in a nurturing environment.”

The success of Rossman’s approach to education is evident in its alumni and how they have flourished in the school’s 105-year history. Every five years, the school honors former students at its Distinguished Alumni Awards. “It’s fun to learn what our alums are doing and see them reflect back on their experiences at Rossman,” Zurlinden notes. “When I interview former students, I always ask them to complete this sentence: Rossman is blank. The No. 1 answer is home. It tells me a lot about the environment we’ve created to nurture and support young learners. Kids feel comfortable here because it is like family.” &

PHOTO COURTESY OF ROSSMAN SCHOOL

ROSSMAN STUDENTS EXPERIENCE JOY IN LEARNING AND FRIENDSHIP.

OF THE TOWNStalk

by bill beggs jr.

the metro

Appparently, some developer is building an immense floating plastic island in an ocean. I thought those huge non-biodegradable conglomerations in the sea were an environmental disaster, but our Windex spray bottle says, “Made of 100% Ocean Bound Plastic.” Somebody’s owning up to it, by golly, and it might as well be SC Johnson, one of the world’s biggest consumer-products companies, in partnership with Plastic Bank. Well, maybe somebody like Disney is building a huge destination for cruise ships, a theme park with nothing to see on the horizon but sea. Hey, maybe they’ll call it Waterworld, even though that’s the name of what some consider the worst movie ever made. Of course, much of the foregoing is just ridiculous: A. The movie isn’t all that heinous, and B. There are tons of tons of floating plastic depriving oxygen and blocking the sun from sea life all over the world. An immense patch of mostly plastic garbage, larger than Texas (three times the area of France), is floating in the Pacific. Actually, two. There’s a Great Pacific Garbage Patch in the east off California and another in the

grand center

They sure look and sound like Ann and Nancy Wilson of Heart, and they play their hearts out. In reality, however, they’re Heartless—a Heart tribute band from Tinley Park, Illinois. The spittin’ images of the classic rockers, they’ll be playing along with the boys for the first in a series of concerts to benefit Gratitude House, the first women’s sober-living residence planned for St. Louis County. The show is 7 p.m. Saturday, Nov. 12, at the Grandel Theatre in the Grand Center Arts District. Tickets are available through the Grandel or Metrotix. Veteran rocker Jimmy Warren opens the show. Gratitude House is being established to help women begin a new life, free from drugs and alcohol. In a comfortable, loving, supportive, encouraging and understanding environment, women will be free to share their pains and frustrations along with their hopes and determination to heal. Addiction experts say that, especially for women, a tremendous stigma and deep shame surrounds this debilitating disease, which makes it difficult to seek qualified professional help. Betty Ford, the former first lady, discussed her dependency on alcohol and painkillers with candor, which made it easier for others, especially women, to admit to having similar problems. Ford said, “Society expects a lady to drink, but not to have a drinking problem.” Experts say there is dire need for this safe, dignified, and comfortable sober-living home for women suffering from addiction. Gratitude House will accommodate eight residents, who will be supervised by a house mother and responsible for rent. To learn more, visit gratitudehousestl.org.

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west off Japan. So, Windex aims to make it worse? Of course not, but a little tweak in the wording on the bottle would have made it as clear as a window that’s just been cleaned with the stuff. SC Johnson and other companies are paying coastal communities to pick up plastic from beaches before it’s washed out to sea. More than 3.2 billion plastic bottles alone have been collected since 2013. To find out more about what’s being done to help control ocean-bound plastic, visit plasticbank.com.

BILL BEGGS JR. HAS WORN MANY HATS AT NEWSPAPERS, MAGAZINES AND IN MARKETING COMMUNICATIONS SINCE BEFORE THE ERA OF THE FLOPPY DISC. NOW HE JUST WEARS A HAT TO KEEP HIS BALD SPOT FROM GETTING SUNBURNT. YOU CAN REACH HIM AT WRTRS.BLCK@GMAIL.COM

Our new major league soccer team is having hella problems, it seems, especially with its zillion-dollar stadium. But first of all, even though they didn’t ask any of us here at T&S, at least one of us believes that ‘St. Louis CITY SC’ is a really lame name. Yes, we have to be careful with naming teams these days, but what would be wrong with naming the team the ‘St. Louis Archers’? I mean, we already have this great big Arch on the Riverfront. Alas, methinks that ship has sailed. Meanwhile, the stadium itself is in a world of hurt, not the least of which is with its own name, since health care giant Centene has so ignominiously pulled out of its 15-year naming agreement. I’m sure nobody will agree to call it ‘The Stadium with No Name,’ nor agree to a sleepy rally song by the 1970s soft-rock group America, so let’s reach out across the prairie to Archer-Daniels-Midland, the ag giant with headquarters in Chicago and ADM plants throughout the extremely furthest reaches of the Metro-East: ‘Archer’s House’ has a nice ring, doesn’t it? ADM could probably even help figure out how to get those irksome electrical problems fixed in time for pro play to begin here next year. If it’s as simple as running some extension cords a few blocks, I’ll see what our lovely and talented dental professional has to say about it. Karen J. Harris, D.M.D, has her office at Locust and 20th streets and has been one of my wife’s best friends for more than 40 years. I’m pretty sure Dr. Harris would leave her lights on for the good of the StL sports scene, but to be sure, maybe I should have Cate ask her.

TT trivia

WHO STARRED IN WATERWORLD, THE 1995 POST-APOCALYPTIC THRILLER IN WHICH SEA LEVELS HAVE RISEN THOUSANDS OF FEET?

LAST ISSUE’S Q & A

What did the late pop singer Laura Branigan have to do with the Blues’ Stanley Cup experience? Extra credit: “Celebration” was the unofficial Redbirds theme song for the 1982 World Series. Who recorded the song, and when was it a No. 1 hit in Billboard?

Late pop singer Laura Branigan’s hit song “Gloria” helped soundtrack the St. Louis Blues’ successful quest for the Stanley Cup in 2019. Extra credit: Speaking of world championships, and of 1982, “Celebration” soundtracked the Redbirds’ World Series triumph that year. Kool & The Gang had a No. 1 Billboard hit with it in the winter of 1981.

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Philip H. Dybvig, Ph.D.,

washington university

Upon awakening Monday, Oct. 10, Philip H. Dybvig, Ph.D., a Wash. U professor for more than 30 years, wasn’t exactly sure why messages were stacking up on his phone. Soon enough, the banking and finance expert found out that he is one of three to share the 2022 Nobel Prize in economic sciences. But along with joy and a sense of triumph, another realization formed, he says. “The next two months are going to be busy … and stressful!” The Nobel medals and accompanying monetary awards—in kronor, which comes to about $300,000 each for Dybvig and his fellow laureates—are to be handed out Dec. 10 in Stockholm, Sweden. Dybvig, 67, and his former Yale classmate, Douglas Diamond of the University of Chicago, were selected for their seminal 1983 paper introducing an economic model explaining why banks are subject to runs. Also sharing the award is Ben S. Bernanke, the former Federal Reserve chair, who the same year published a paper explaining how bank failures can propagate a financial crisis rather than become a frightening result of it. Cited more than 11,000 times, the Diamond-Dybvig model has become synonymous with the study of banking, financial crises and liquidity, demonstrating that bank runs all share the same DNA, despite different circumstances

and triggers for such panics. “Our model showed how to view bank runs as rational behavior,” Dybvig says. “If you think everyone else is going to take out their money, you’re going to take out your money, and that’s rational behavior.” When Diamond and Dybvig created their model, there hadn’t been a U.S. bank run since the Great Depression. When they first presented the paper, some in the audience scoffed, believing bank runs were a thing of the past. That is, until the 2008 financial crisis—subprime mortgages were the culprit; huge lender Lehman Bros. went bankrupt. “The model helped us to understand what we should be doing,” notes Dybvig. “It gave policymakers a framework for how to think about what was going on.” While providing an economic rationale for federal deposit insurance, the model became a workhorse that reshaped banking research on financial stability. Dybvig, now one of 26 Nobel laureates affiliated with Wash. U, is the second faculty member to receive the Nobel in economics, the first being Douglass C. North in 1993. Dybvig previously taught at Princeton and was tenured at Yale. And if ‘publish or perish’ is an ongoing source of postgraduate dread, Dybvig really should be under less stress for the time being: He has published two textbooks and more than

35 journal articles. The economics prize was established and first awarded in 1969, which helps explain why there was a 39-year lag between the paper’s appearance and the Nobel acknowledging it. “They want to recognize the older candidates while there’s still time,” says Dybvig, who only wishes that the late Steve Ross, his Ph.D. advisor at Yale, could have been here to see it. “He should have had a Nobel Prize. He would have been happy to see one of his students receive this.” Does he think his own students are likely to pay closer attention to him from now on? “They’re over the moon!” &

Personal & Professional Attention

KRANZBERG ARTS FOUNDATION resident visual artist Felia Davenport’s final project Torn Mixology will be presented at a special event Nov. 18 at .ZACK Urban Ballroom. The mixed media exhibit explores the artist’s journey of identifying as Black multi-racial female through various costume design vignettes. Tickets are on sale now via Metrotix.

THE INSIDER

CINEPHILES REJOICE!

The long-awaited Alamo Drafthouse City Foundry plans to open this month. The 10-screen cinema-eatery is specially themed after absurdist comedy, featuring multiple interactive elements placed throughout the space, such as a scavenger hunt.

Congratulations to Edward Jones!

Pedal the Cause presented the financial firm with the Bill and Amy Koman Founders Award for its support for cancer research. Since 2010, Edward Jones has served as the sole presenting sponsor of the cycling event, and through its own fundraising efforts, it has raised more than $4.4 million for the initiative.

PATTY

by patty hannum

DR. FRANCES LEVINE

has been appointed the interim executive director of the St. Louis Kaplan Feldman Holocaust Museum. Levine recently retired from her position as president and CEO of the Missouri Historical Society and Missouri History Museum.

flavor of fall

Don’t miss the inaugural Hard-Pressed Cider Fest at Eckert’s Farm this weekend, Nov. 5 and 6. The event will feature apple-inspired food and beverage samples from local restaurants, shopping opportunities, live music and a cider donut eating contest. For more information, visit eckerts.com.

MY SIBLINGS AND I try to get together once a month for lunch. We have done this for years. No one else is invited, just the siblings—except every once in a while when a random cousin pops in. When my mom was alive, it drove her crazy because she thought we spent the whole time talking about her, but little did she know we spent the whole time talking about ourselves.

Since John and Tim had the nerve to die, our sibling lunch has been a little weird. Tim and John listened more than they spoke, so now the remaining four of us have to fight for attention. There’s also the matter of the check, which we take turns paying. It used to be a twice-a-year deal for me. Now, it’s three. Not a big deal really, but it is another reminder that we lost part of our band.

Dennis, Mike, Teresa and I were at Farotto’s in Rock Hill last week. It had been a while since we’d seen each other so we had plenty to catch up on.

While there, we ran into one of Tim’s old friends. After a nice long lunch, it was time for Mike to pay, but the server asked us if we had ever heard of a free lunch? Since we’re such a positive bunch, all of us replied, “There is no such thing as a free lunch.” I think our ability to all speak at the same time startled the poor server, and he quickly told us our lunch had been paid for. Being the smart crew that we are, we looked around the place— me for the cameras in case we were on a TV show, everyone else to see who could have possibly wanted to pay for our lunch. Mike spotted Tim’s friend. Tim managed to take his turn paying for lunch, and he wasn’t even there! He’s always been a class act. I wish I could remember Tim’s friend’s name, but if you read this, you’re a class act, too, and made four people very happy. This got me thinking about my brother John and the fact that we are coming up on the first anniversary of his death. Everyone talks about

the five-stages of grief, but I have no idea what they are because I am still stuck in anger. I needed to go have a chat with John out at Jefferson Barracks. For those who have never been to the cemetery, it is beautiful in its simplicity. All the headstones are the same. It took me 30 minutes to find John, but there he was right next to two other veterans who served during Vietnam. I’d never visited a grave before, so I wasn’t sure of the rules. I just sat down and started talking. It was actually a lot like most conversations with John—I talked; he listened. I took his silence as agreement. I felt better, still angry but somehow not bitter. Next time, I will bring a lawn chair because I got grass stains on my jeans like a little kid playing outside.

I miss my big brothers. But somehow, they still show up when I need them the most. That’s what big brothers are supposed to do. Peace my Peeps. &

STUDENT STANDOUTS

by stephanie wallace

RYLIE ANDREWS OF ST. JOSEPH’S ACADEMY

THIS FALL, ST. JOSEPH’S ACADEMY took home the win at the Missouri Class 4 girls golf championships. For team captain Rylie Andrews, the victory was the perfect way to end her high school career. It was a closing note made even sweeter by the fact that it was the school’s seventh consecutive victory—a state record. Now, she’s more than ready to take a swing at university and beyond.

When did you start playing golf?

My dad got me into it when I was around 6 or 7. I also played volleyball when I was younger. I’ve always been tall, so I figured that would be the sport I’d play. I ended up enjoying golf more, so in middle school I stopped playing volleyball. I realized that golf was where I wanted to focus my energy.

What is your favorite part about playing?

I just love that it’s so unique. There aren’t many sports that allow you to succeed as an individual and part of a team. In the summer, I can go play in tournaments on my own. I also get to spend time with my golf friends outside of St. Joe’s. Then in the fall, I come back to school and get to be part of an awesome team. We may all play our own games, but we’re still working together.

Do you plan to continue pursuing golf?

I verbally committed to play at Missouri State next year. I’m super excited, and I love that I’ll get to continue playing as part of a team in college.

How did it feel to lead the team to state championship victory in your senior year?

It was amazing. We lost three seniors that had been a part of the state team last year, so we worked hard to get better. Everyone stepped up, and we all came together to pull it off.

For my last year at St. Joe’s, it was great to keep the winning streak going.

What are you looking forward to in your senior year?

Down the road, I’m looking forward to graduation and going to college, but there are a lot of fun events between now and then.

Right now, I’m most excited for signing day, which is coming up.

What do you enjoy doing in your free time?

I love listening to music. I really enjoy discovering new underground bands and then going to their concerts. I also like hanging out with my friends. I really do play a lot of golf. I don’t just see it as a commitment or job. It’s still a hobby that I do just because I enjoy it. &

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WHAT’S NEW AT SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE LISTING

COMMUNITY SCHOOL

At Community School, students flourish in an environment of experiential learning and personalized support. The school’s focus on character development, service learning and public speaking inspires a deeper understanding of the world and helps build the next generation of leaders.

▶ Open House: Nov. 5, 9-11:30 a.m.

▶ Connect with Community: Nov. 15, Jan. 11 & Jan. 24, 9:15-10:45 a.m.

900 LAY ROAD 314.991.0005

COMMUNITYSCHOOL.COM

COR JESU ACADEMY

Cor Jesu Academy welcomed new dean of academics, Meghan Bohac., Ed.D., and new dean of student life, Kathleen Pottinger, to its leadership team this year. Both have enriched the CJA community with their experience, enthusiasm and passion for Catholic education.

▶ Open House: Nov. 6, 11 a.m.-3 p.m. 10230 GRAVOIS ROAD 314.842.1546

CORJESU.ORG

FORSYTH SCHOOL

Forsyth School welcomes Evetty Satterfield back to St. Louis in the new role of director of community, culture and strategy. In this position, she teaches a leadership seminar for sixth graders and works closely with the administration, faculty, staff and students. Contact the admission office at admission@forsythschool.org to schedule an individual meeting and campus tour.

▶ Winter Early Childhood Open House: Jan. 21, 9:30–11:30 a.m. 6235 WYDOWN BLVD. 314.726.4542

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GRAND CENTER ARTS ACADEMY

We provide our students exposure to the four pathways of art, music, visual art, theater and dance—inside and outside of the classroom. We incorporate each of these arts into other academic areas. Learn more at our open house!

▶ Open House: Dec. 3, 10 a.m.-2 p.m. 711 N. GRAND AVE. 314.533.1791

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ROSSMAN SCHOOL

Rossman is excited to add new outdoor equipment to the campus for play and enrichment. Outdoor musical instruments were installed on both lower and upper school playgrounds. A gaga pit was also added for the very popular gaga ball.

▶ Open Houses: Nov. 16 & Jan. 11, 8:30 a.m.-10:30 a.m.

12660 CONWAY ROAD 314.434.5877

ROSSMANSCHOOL.ORG

ST. JOHN VIANNEY HIGH SCHOOL

Griffins TV at St. John Vianney High School offers a new media studio with a green screen. Students can learn to produce newscasts, films, documentaries and social media content using the same hardware and software as the professionals.

▶ Open House: Nov. 6, 11:30 a.m.-4 p.m. 1311 S. KIRKWOOD ROAD 314.965.4853

VIANNEY.COM

WHITFIELD SCHOOL

Join us at our admission open house for an in-depth tour to learn about our educational philosophy, strong academic program and emphasis on character education. Prospective families will meet teachers and students in various academic areas during their one-hour visit. Advance registration is required.

▶ Open House: Nov. 6 175 S. MASON ROAD 314.434.5141

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THE WILSON SCHOOL

The Wilson School has reinvented its Innovation Wing to better support an integrated curriculum at every grade level. With 3D printing, a recording studio and surfaces that become interactive shared notebooks, students can create everything they plan and imagine.

▶ Winter Open House: Jan. 10, 9 a.m. or by appointment 400 DE MUN AVE. 314.725.4999

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Open House

thankful kids

by stephanie wallace

Thanksgiving means we all get our fill of turkey and pie. And while the feast may be the main event, kids can get bored sitting at the table or waiting for you to finish cooking. We’ve got some activities that mean your younger guests—or the young at heart—can have a festively good time.

GETTING CRAFTY

To burn off energy before the meal, have kids forage for pretty leaves outside. They can be used to make a variety of art projects, whether it’s mounting them on construction paper or using googly eyes and pom poms to create cute critters like foxes.

Make some turkey tracks. Create simple turkey feet by bending pipe cleaners. Dip them in paint and let the kids make footprints across a large piece of butcher paper or other paper. It’s simple, but sure to keep the little ones occupied for a while.

Use felt to create leaf-shaped finger puppets. The kids will not only have fun decorating them with markers, googly eyes or beads, but they’ll have something to play with after they’ve finished the craft.

ENJOYING THE FEAST

To keep younger guests entertained during the meal, skip a tablecloth this year. Instead, put down butcher paper and leave crayons at each place sitting. Kiddos and adults alike will love being encouraged to draw on the table for once.

Do you know which president made Thanksgiving a national holiday? Or what a baby turkey is called? Your family will enjoy learning! Try placing holiday trivia cards at each place setting. It’s a creative way to spark conversation or keep the kids occupied while adults are talking. (If you’re curious, the answers to the questions are Abraham Lincoln and a poult.)

Activity pages are another great item to place at the kid’s table. These can be anything from a festive word search or scramble to turkey coloring sheets to gratitude activities. Plus, these print-outs can double as placemats.

SHOWING GRATITUDE

Have all the guests write down what they are thankful for on a strip of paper and place it in a gratitude jar. You can have the kids read the slips out loud during dessert to ensure the meal ends on an extra sweet note.

Ask the kids to sit down and write thank you notes to the people they were grateful for this year. They can give them to family members at the meal or deliver them to friends, teachers or neighbors after the holiday.

Looking for a centerpiece for your Thanksgiving table? Consider a gratitude tree. Use branches from your backyard to fashion a tabletop tree and have your family write what they are thankful for on paper leaves. The kids will enjoy getting to hang the leaves and seeing what everyone wrote. Don’t have room on your table? Paint a tree on a large piece of butcher paper and hang it from a wall.

Making paper turkeys is a classic Thanksgiving activity. Put a grateful spin on it by having kids write what they are thankful for on each of the turkey’s tail feathers. &

Pre-register: corjesu.org/openhouse

SHINE BRIGHT. Be Brilliant.

PARENT TRAP

by dr. tim jordan

7 COMMON PARENTING MISTAKES

IN MY WORK WITH GIRLS AND PARENTS around the world, I have found the following seven mistakes are the most common ones parents make that leave children feeling misunderstood and unsupported.

1. Not really listening: Girls tell me their parents do a lot of interrupting and judging instead of just seeing things from their point of view and empathizing. Kids truly just want to be seen, heard and understood, not fixed.

2. Not letting kids solve their own problems: Once you listen and your child feels heard, ask them what they will do about the problem. Let them think for themselves and come up with their own solutions. Resilience and grit are earned by working through challenges. Allow them to solve and handle problems with friends, teachers, siblings and coaches so they gain confidence in their ability to resolve conflicts and advocate for themselves.

3. Teaching kids to become externally motivated: Instead of asking the question, “How can I motivate my child,” it would be better to ask, “How can I help them find their own intrinsic motivation.” Get in the habit of asking questions: Why do you want good grades? What is your interest in the diversity club? Tell me what you like about your new friend group. What are your thoughts about what you want to do after high school? If you want to go to college, why? What is it that you like about playing soccer? Being in the marching band? Playing guitar? You’ll be encouraging them to look inward for why they do what they do, and that intrinsic motivation will always be there to push them through tough times.

4. Valuing achievement over character: Kids whose parents value achievement over character fare worse than kids whose parents focus on things like empathy, compassion, resilience and integrity. The excessive pressure to excel, be successful and to outdo everyone else puts kids at risk for higher levels of stress, anxiety, depression and substance abuse.

5. Not sharing their own stories: Girls tell me all the time that their parents, especially their dads, don’t ‘get them’ because they never went through what they are experiencing. Being vulnerable and sharing some of your own challenging times growing up lets your children know you can understand their experiences and relate. Be sure you share these stories without becoming preachy.

6. Misinterpreting the rising need for independence: No matter how hard kids seem to be pushing you away, they really do need you. Childhood is marked by a never-ending dance of kids going away and coming back. Toddlers toddle off and then come back periodically for reassurance. If parents have a history of being there in a warm supportive way, they become the safe base all kids require to feel confident to explore the world. Adolescents need more space and independence, but they also need you to remain their safe base for reassurance and guidance. It just needs to be at their behest, in their way and in their time.

7. Being too distracted: Like their children, parents today are often distracted externally with phones, social media and work. In addition, adults can become internally distracted with worry and their own battles with depression, anxiety and addictions. Kids living with such distracted parents feel unloved, unimportant and rejected. All kids need parents who are fully present when they are together—whether it’s at meals, playing board games or shooting hoops in the backyard.

The goal isn’t to strive to become the perfect parent. But I do want you to be aware of some common parenting behaviors that can detract from your relationship with your kids and have deleterious effects on them and your ability to remain an influence in their lives. &

TIM JORDAN, M.D., IS A BEHAVIORAL PEDIATRICIAN WHO WORKS WITH GIRLS IN GRADE SCHOOL THROUGH COLLEGE. CHECK OUT HIS NEW ONLINE COURSE, PARENTING GIRLS: THE CHALLENGES GIRLS FACE TODAY WITH THEIR FEELINGS AND FRIENDSAND WHAT THEY NEED, AT DRTIMJORDAN.COM.

COVER STORY CARE & COMFORT

PARC PROVENCE by stephanie wallace

FACING THE REALITIES OF MEMORY LOSS IS NEVER EASY, especially for the loved ones of dementia patients. Health and safety become paramount, and oftentimes, that means considering alternative living arrangements. Parc Provence in Creve Coeur is dedicated to making that transition easier for all involved. The vibrant senior living community specializes in memory care, and its staff work with families by offering support, expertise and understanding.

For resident care director Wanda Cooper, working in senior living allows her to focus on helping others. She began at the community when it opened as a nurse before being promoted to supervisor and then her current role. “My focus is to educate staff on the care of individuals with Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia,” she notes. “Parc Provence is a leader in memory care, and our award-winning household design lets residents live in a small group setting among peers with similar cognitive abilities. That atmosphere of comfort and familiarity allows our residents to retain self-respect and a sense of wellbeing at every stage of their condition.”

While there is no way to reverse or stop the progression of dementia, Cooper notes that Parc Provence staff are dedicated to ensuring residents’ individual strengths are recognized, so they can continue to live with dignity and enjoy a higher quality of life. “Abilities remain in every stage of dementia,” she notes. “We want residents to flourish wherever they are in the progression of their disease. We engage and stimulate them through a wide range of activities and therapeutic practices. I especially enjoy getting to know each resident and their life story. It’s the best way to apply person-centered dementia care.”

The dedication of staff members like Cooper makes a tangible difference in the lives of Parc Provence residents and their families. When Haruko Breshnahan was looking for a community for her husband, Roger, she felt an instant connection with Parc Provence. “We were initially interested in the location because of its excellent

reputation,” she explains. “I visited and got to talk with the staff. I loved how caring they were with the residents. They know everyone well and treat them with dignity and respect.” Roger has been a part of the community for six years now. Breshnahan notes that even though his cognitive health has declined, his days remain full of activities, such as art therapy, music and exercise.

Parc Provence also has ensured that Roger has been able to continue engaging with his loved ones. This summer, he attended his daughter’s wedding. The senior living community provided him transportation to the venue and an aide to sit with during the ceremony, so Breshnahan could focus on the big day. “They helped him get ready for the wedding, and he looked fabulous,” she says. “Everyone was so happy to see him. I really appreciate all that Parc Provence has done—it’s so much more than just the minimum. The community really is like a family. Roger is always happy to see his caregivers, so I know he’s well taken care of.” &

THE PARC PROVENCE SENIOR COMMUNITY IN CREVE COEUR SPECIALIZES IN MEMORY CARE, PROVIDING SUPPORTIVE RESIDENTIAL ENVIRONMENTS RANGING FROM ASSISTED LIVING TO SKILLED NURSING. PICTURED ON THE COVER: RESIDENT CARE DIRECTOR WANDA COOPER. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.542.2500 OR VISIT PARCPROVENCE.COM.

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You want your loved one to get the best memory care possible.

We know how you feel. That’s why memory care is our primary focus. Parc Provence specialists are experts in their fields and committed to compassionate care. Our Medical Directors are leading specialists in Alzheimer’s disease and geriatric medicine at Washington University School of Medicine. Our residents benefit from the latest in research and best practices, so they can continue to make the best of every day.

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RESIDENT CARE DIRECTOR WANDA COOPER WITH HARUKO BRESHNAHAN

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HealthFlash

by stephanie wallace

GEOSPATIAL SCIENCE AND OSTEOARTHRITIS

Research at Saint Louis University is being done to use geospatial information science and electronic medical records to determine how neighborhood walking can impact osteoarthritis. Assistant professor of family and community medicine Dr. Sarah Gebaurer has received a $777,525 five-year grant from the National Institute of Arthritis to further her research into knee osteoarthritis and barriers to low-cost interventions. “Walking around your own neighborhood is the easiest and most low-cost option for patients,” Gebauer says. “If the neighborhood infrastructure isn’t well-maintained or if the patient fears for their safety, they likely won’t get in enough exercise to help manage their symptoms.” The research will explore the influence of neighborhoods on walking and painful conditions, looking at factors like social capital, violent crime rate and walkability.

PREDICTING DEMENTIA

Researchers at Washington University School of Medicine have developed an algorithm for the risk of developing dementia due to Alzheimer’s. “Thousands of adults have volunteered for studies at Alzheimer’s research centers around the country,” says principal investigator Dr. Sarah M. Hartz, an associate professor of psychiatry. “Those studies advance the overall understanding of Alzheimer’s disease, but they give participants relatively little information about their own risk.” The algorithm uses various factors that contribute to Alzheimer’s dementia, such as age, genetics, amyloid PET scan results and brain hippocampal volumes, to estimate an individual’s absolute risk for developing early symptoms. It can be accessed online at alzheimerdementiacalculator.wustl.edu.

FIGHTING NURSING SHORTAGES

The demand for registered nurses has increased by 98.5% in the last five years, but the workforce has only increased by 17% in that same period. In Missouri, 23 schools of nursing have at least 50 open full-time faculty positions and need even more additional faculty to enroll more students. Saint Louis University is one of 11 colleges in the state awarded a grant by the Missouri State Board of Nursing to develop solutions to alleviate staffing shortages. SLU will use its $298,127 grant to provide a formalized nurse educator pathway for clinical nurse leader graduate students, develop a faculty mentoring program and offer an enhanced nurse educator apprenticeship, as well as working with clinical partners on recruitment and marketing plans.

JUMPING GENES IN ALZHEIMER’S

Currently, a handful of gene mutations have been identified that contribute to the onset of Alzheimer’s disease. Further research is being done to investigate what other DNA changes may be helping cause dementia-related damage to the brain. In partnership with the University of Texas at San Antonio, Washington University School of Medicine has been awarded a $9 million grant from the National Institute on Aging to investigate how transposable elements influence Alzheimer’s. Transposable elements are segments of DNA that jump around the genome and are believed to come from ancient viruses and bacteria that infected our ancestors. “We want to characterize the DNA changes these transposable elements contribute to, and we want to understand whether some gene-altering techniques may block the dysregulation associated with these transposable elements to stop or delay Alzheimer’s pathology,” says Carlos Cruchaga, Ph.D., a principal investigator in the department of psychiatry at Washington University.

At Family Partners, it is our mission to significantly reduce the stress of caring for a loved one with memory impairment and to provide care solutions that help seniors prolong independence.

Our assisted living homes are in residential neighborhoods and offer all of the comforts of a single-family home, designed and built specifically for persons with dementia.

• Chef-prepared homestyle meals

• A low, 8-12 person residency

• Enhanced safety of around-the-clock professional care

• Best staff to resident ratio – Avg: 1:4 (compared to state standard of 1:15)

• Focus on each individual; no one gets “lost in the shuffle”

• House doctor as well as on-site nursing and hospice care when needed to avoid a move

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BY STEPHANIE WALLACE

AGE-BASED COGNITIVE DECLINE, ESPECIALLY ALZHEIMER’S DISEASE, CAN HAVE A DEVASTATING IMPACT. No one wants to go through it themselves or watch a loved one turn into a stranger. Luckily, new research offers insight into the disease, allowing for innovative strides to be made in diagnosis, treatment and prevention. T&S spoke with Sarah Lovegreen of the Alzheimer’s Association Greater Missouri Chapter to learn more about the latest advances.

DIAGNOSIS

Alzheimer’s disease is usually diagnosed through a multimodal process where doctors assess cognitive skills, functional abilities and behavior changes, while also performing tests to rule out other potential causes of memory loss and other symptoms. A positron emission tomography (PET) scan can be done to look for the build-up of amyloid-beta, a brain protein that has been connected to the disease. However, Lovegreen notes that insurance often won’t cover a PET scan, which has an average cost of between $5,000 and $8,000. “Spinal fluid also can be tested for amyloid, but a lumbar puncture is required,” she adds. “For many patients, especially those who don’t have a positive relationship with the health care system, the procedure is too invasive to be a viable option.”

Research is currently being done to find a less invasive and more cost effective way to look for early signs of

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Alzheimer’s. “The main target is finding a blood-based option,” Lovegreen says “Washington University currently is working on a test called Precivity AD. The research is extremely promising and encouraging.” Precivity AD determines if amyloid plaques have begun forming in the brain by looking at the ratio of the levels of the amyloid beta proteins Aβ42 and Aβ40 in the blood. While less accurate than a PET scan, the blood test could cut costs by tenfold or more and allow patients to enroll in clinical trials for treatment more quickly.

TREATMENT

Treating patients with Alzheimer’s disease is currently focused on managing symptoms, according to Lovegreen. “While these drugs can alleviate symptoms, they only work for a limited amount of time because they are doing nothing to change the progression of the disease,” she explains.

Treatments are being developed to target the buildup of amyloid plaques. Pharmaceutical companies Eisai and Biogen recently reported the data from the phase 3 trials of the drug lecanemab. Over 18 months, the drug reduced the progression of Alzheimer’s by 27% when compared to a placebo. “Amyloid buildup is one of the telltale signs of the disease, and working to clear it out seems to have cognitive benefits for patients,” Lovegreen says. “We’ll learn more about the results as lecanemab goes forward for FDA approval, but we’re really starting to see the fruits of research into amyloid come forward.”

Tau, another protein that appears abnormal in the brains of people with Alzheimer’s, is another factor currently being targeted in research for potential interventions. Lovegreen notes that Alzheimer's treatment will likely take a multifaceted approach, targeting various elements related to the progression of the disease. “With cancer and

heart disease, multiple drugs are used to target different modalities of the condition,” she notes. “Research is actively happening in different areas for Alzheimer’s as well.”

PREVENTION

This August, the Alzheimer’s Association hosted its annual international conference. Lovegreen notes that one of the topics covered was the connection between Alzheimer’s and certain lifestyle factors. “A study related to the impact of over-processed food was presented, and the impact of diet on cognitive health is a big area of research,” she says. “Another study looked at how racism and the resulting stress and trauma can affect cognitive decline. Researchers are really starting to look at the impact the environment and lifestyle can have on slowing the progression or preventing Alzheimer’s.”

The Alzheimer’s Association also is currently conducting the U.S. Study to Protect Brain Health Through Lifestyle Intervention to Reduce Risk (U.S. POINTER), which looks at how different lifestyles may impact or prevent Alzheimer’s disease. The study follows one conducted over two years in Finland, the Finnish Geriatric Intervention Study to Prevent Cognitive Impairment and Disability or FINGER Study. In 2014, the FINGER Study reported that a combination of physical exercise, healthy diet, cognitive stimulation and self-monitoring of heart health risk factors had a protective effect on cognitive function. “The U.S. POINTER study is looking at the individual to see how lifestyle interventions can preserve cognitive health,” Lovegreen says. “The research is trying to point to how we can delay the onset of Alzheimer’s altogether.” &

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ACCESSIBLE HOME HEALTH CARE OF ST LOUIS

We offer customized individual care to seniors in their homes. Care plans are prepared by a registered nurse, ensuring every client receives the optimal services. Respect, compassion and empathy are provided to all clients.

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Many game and activity spaces are available at Brooking Park, including Brooking Park Theatre, the gym, library and spaces for parties and gatherings.

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Soothing skin care for seniors

by stephanie wallace

Winter can be tough on your skin. There’s cold air outside, hot air inside and dry air everywhere. That means dry, itchy skin for everyone, but it can be especially troublesome for older adults who already deal with more easily irritated skin thanks to decreased function of sweat and oil glands. We’ve got some suggestions to keep your skin looking and feeling its best during the colder months.

lipikar ap+m triple repair body moisturizer

LA ROCHE-POSAY

Winter only exacerbates problems like dryness and flakiness, which chronic itching can turn into even bigger issues. Dermatologists recommend applying a thick moisturizer within three minutes of bathing. This fragrance-free body cream provides long-lasting hydration with prebiotic thermal water, ceramide-3, shea butter, glycerin and niacinamide. $19.99, laroche-posay.us

aqualia thermal rich cream

VICHY LABORATORIES

This facial moisturizer provides 48-hour hydration thanks to hyaluronic acid, plant sugar and Vichy’s volcanic water. It’s free of retinol, which can cause dry, flaky skin

to increased cell turnover. People with sensitive skin will want to opt for this cream’s fragrance-free option.

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hydrating facial cleanser

KITCHN APOTHECARY

Washing your skin can strip it of oil, leaving it even drier. This facial cleanser is designed to ensure that skin stays hydrated and refreshed while impurities and makeup are washed away. It’s gentle enough for daily and nightly use. The organic vegan formula includes aloe, avocado fruit extract, botanical glycerol and sage essential oil. $39.94 from shop. ktchnapothecary.com

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LANO

Unlike the rest of your skin, your lips don’t produce their own moisturizing oils. To protect your lips this winter, make sure you use a hydrating treatment. This balm is formulated with lanolin, candelilla wax, mango seed butter and vitamin E, so it delivers moisture while protecting the lip surface. Since lanolin is derived from sheep’s wool, this product is not vegan. $17 from lanolips.com

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OLIVE & JUNE

Seniors can be more vulnerable to the drying and chapping side effects of hand-washing. This ultra-hydrating moisturizer was designed by nail salon Olive & June, so it’s not only good for your hands, but your nails and cuticles, too. The gel-like serum is fast-absorbing and formulated with hyaluronic acid, cactus flower and fruit extracts. $18 from oliveandjune.com

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From Billboard to Broadway, the theatrical company presented an evening with Chris Jones, the star of its 2021 production of Jersey Boys. The event supported STAGES St. Louis’ artistic and education programs.

guests: Executive producer Jack Lane, artistic director Gayle Seay, associate producer Andrew Kuhlman

PEDAL THE CAUSE pedal the cause by bill barrett

The mission of Pedal the Cause is to provide critical funding for cancer research at Siteman Cancer Center and Siteman Kids at St. Louis Children’s Hospital through its annual cycling challenge. It is their hope that research funded by Pedal the Cause will ultimately lead to a cure for cancer. The weekend includes various courses ranging from 10 to 100 miles, a kids challenge and the Taste the Cause event.

guests: Executive director David Drier, director of development Pam Mandelker, president and CEO of BJC HealthCare Richard Liekweg

ELLEN ISOM, ABIGAIL ISOM

DAN AND CAROLYN MOONEY

LISA AND JIM CURRAN, KELLY AND SHEILA FARRELL

SHARON HUNTER, AMANDA WERE

CHRIS JONES, GAYLE SEAY

JONATHAN SHRODE, JEFF SHRODE

LAUREN AND BEN JOST

MANDYTHIEMANN, TEDDY MILFORD, LILAH MYOVER

AARON AND ZOE HUGHES

PATTI HARTY, DON GUENTHER

BOB CANNON, RICHARD LIEKWEG

DAVID DRIER, PAM MANDELKER

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11.19 & 11.20

unique boutique

John Burroughs School 10 a.m.-4 p.m. | $7 jburroughs.org

11.26-12.23 the nutcracker TouhillArtsPerforming Center

Various showtimes | $31-$79 stlouisballet.org

11.18-12.30

11.19-1.7

garden glow Missouri Botanical Garden Doors open at 5 p.m. | $3-$22 mobot.org

11.25-12.24

12.2 maplewood christmas tree walk

Downtown Maplewood 6-9 p.m. | Free midcountychamber.org

11.18-12.30

st. charles christmas traditions

Historic St. Charles Various Times | Free discoverstcharles.com

11.25-12.30

12.3 & 12.4 holiday christmas festival Ste. Geneviève

Various times | Free visitstegen.com

11.18-12.31

u.s. bank wild lights

Saint Louis Zoo 5-8:30 p.m. stzoo.org

11.18-1.8

magical kingdom Yogi Bear’s ParkJellystone Resort 5:30-10:30 p.m. | $30-$45 santasmagicalkingdom.com

11.19 ameren missouri festival of lights Kiener Plaza Noon-8:30 p.m. | Free holidaysinstl.com

11.25-12.30 holiday lights Grant’s Farm 5-9 p.m. grantsfarm.com

11.25-12.31 winter jewels Sophia M. SachsButterfly House

10 a.m.-4 p.m. | $5-$8 missouribotanicalgarden.org

11.26-12.17

pj’s and pancakes with santa Riverboats at the Gateway Arch 9:30 a.m. & 1:30 p.m. | $39 gatewayarch.com

12.9 christmas candlelight concert Powell Hall

7:30 p.m | $30-$85 bachsociety.org

12.16-12.18

mercy holiday celebration Powell Hall

2 p.m. & 7:30 p.m. | $33-$72 slso.org

12.18 advent to christmas Union Avenue Christian Church 3 p.m. | $40 chamberchorus.org

12.20-12.24

elf the musical

The Fabulous Fox Theatre

1 p.m. & 7:30 p.m. | $25-$90 fabulousfox.com

STL SPARKLE

ELLEARD HEFFERN FINE JEWELERS by stephanie wallace

WHEN IT COMES TO THE HOLIDAYS, it’s all about the sparkle—and that shouldn’t be limited to just decking the halls. Since 1913, Elleard Heffern Fine Jewelers has been bedecking St. Louisans, fulfilling all of their fine jewelry desires. Whether you’re looking for the perfect gift or wanting to create a unique custom piece, the family-owned business in Clayton is the perfect destination this holiday shopping season.

With its more than 100-year history, Elleard Heffern has deeply rooted connections in the St. Louis community. “It’s wonderful to develop special cross-generational relationships with clients,” third-generation owner Christopher ‘Kit’ Heffern says. “Oftentimes, people will bring in pieces a family matriarch purchased from us, and we transform them into something more modern. You can still have an item from your mother or grandmother, but it now better reflects your own style.” To ensure pieces perfectly meet client expectations, Elleard Heffern diligently works with them to create custom jewelry. It usually takes between two and six weeks to finish a custom piece. For the holidays, Heffern suggests beginning the process in November to ensure that it can be completed on time.

If designing a custom piece isn’t an option this holiday season, Elleard Heffern offers a unique selection of jewelry from international designers. “We’re in the business of providing people with jewelry from around the world that they can have confidence in,” Heffern says. One designer the jeweler is excited to share with St. Louis is Silvia Furmanovich. The Brazilian-based artist creates one-of-a-kind pieces from unusual elements like bamboo and wood marquetry combined with gold and precious stones. “Silvia’s pieces are perfect for the holiday season,” Heffern notes. “The focus is on color and texture with the gemstones as subtle accents, so they are

easy to wear during the day, and the pieces are striking enough to transition at night to more formal settings.”

Transitional jewelry is just one trend that is perfect for the holiday season, according to Heffern. “Bracelets that stretch rather than latch over the wrist also are popular,” he notes. “They look just like traditional diamond tennis bracelets, but they have a spring that eliminates the need for a clasp. They’re available in white, yellow and rose gold and myriad diamond sizes, depending on what the client wants.” For more delicate pieces, he suggests turning to designers like Kwiat, Etho Maria and Dana Rebecca—a new designer at Elleard Heffern. “The pieces are feminine and pretty and start at an accessible price point,” he notes. “It’s perfect for a stocking stuffer.”

Elleard Heffern will host a trunk show for Dana Rebecca Nov. 17 to 19. For every $1,000 of jewelry sold to an individual, a pair of state-of-the-art dance shoes will be donated to COCA. The event is just another example of the jeweler’s connection to the community. “We’re not located in a mall, so people have to make a point to visit us,” Heffern notes. “We offer a highly personalized experience, which brings customers and their families back. Our ability to work with generations of clients is truly a testament to what we do here.” &

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BROOKE CUSUMANO & CHRIS CACCIARELLI

by carrie edelstein

BROOKE CUSUMANO AND CHRIS CACCIARELLI WERE THE PERFECT match—just waiting for the right moment to ignite! “We’ve known each other practically our entire lives,” she says. “Our story is one that says, ‘Sometimes, you marry the person you least expect.’”

The couple’s parents have been friends for more than 20 years, and the two met as kids in the same Sunday school class. Chris and Brooke went on to attend the same summer camp, middle school and high school and even went to their sophomore dance at Westminster Christian Academy together as friends, joking that Cusumano/Cacciarelli sounded like a pizza joint. The timing wasn’t right for romance, and so after they graduated in 2013, Chris went off to Missouri State University, and Brooke studied at Southern Illinois University Carbondale.

A few years later, they were both back in St. Louis. Chris started working as a financial advisor for Merrill Lynch, and Brooke became a technology consultant for Deloitte. When their mutual friend group planned a ski trip to Colorado, everything changed, according to Brooke. “We got to spend a lot of time skiing together alone, and the rest is history,” she says. “Our best day of skiing was at Vail, and it just so happens that about a year and half later we got engaged there. On that same mountain, we went from being friends to best friends to getting married!”

Brooke says she shares the same values as Chris along with many other similarities, including both being St. Louis natives with Italian families. “We both have incredibly long, hard last names to pronounce,” she jokes. They are both middle children, both have older brothers named Alex who are friends with each other, and they both have younger brothers currently in law school. As for the fun stuff, they both played college sports, are fiercely competitive, love food, sports and activities like hiking, biking, running, pickleball, tennis and golf. If that isn’t perfect enough, Brooke says her dad, Frank, fell in love with Chris, the “Italian Stallion” before she did. We wish you a life of happiness! &

wedding party

maid of honor Erin Bognar bridesmaids

Ellie Straub, Megan Tilley, Della Woodward, Macy Cusumano, Alexis Landry, Caroline Speice best men Alex Cacciarelli & Nick Cacciarelli

groomsmen

Alex Cusumano, Dominic Cusumano, Justin Summers, Ryan Conaghan, Skyler Hulse bride’s parents

Frank & Monique Cusumano of St. Louis groom’s parents

Marc & Nancy Cacciarelli of St. Louis

resources venue Memorial Presbyterian Church reception Missouri Athletic Club photographer Heather Roth gown TBD cake Custom cake by the MAC florist TBD honeymoon Italy

QUICK BITES

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OPENS CLOSES &

Last month, Honey Bee’s Biscuits + Good Eats opened in Kirkwood at 200 N. Kirkwood Road. The food truck fave focuses on different biscuits and gravy options along with sandwiches. … For a sweet treat, head to Ellisville. At 16023 Manchester Road, Mochi Donut is serving up a fusion of Japanese rice cakes and classic fried donuts. … Still looking for a sugar fix? Sugarwitch has opened its brick-and-mortar location at 7726 Virginia Ave. Along with ice cream sandwiches and other novelties, the storefront offers a new beverage program and treats from local purveyors like Whisk and Bijoux Chocolates. … At the end of the year, Sugartree Baking Co. in Dogtown will cease retail operations after more than 25 years. Owners Pat

GAME TIME

Soccer fans now know what they’ll be noshing on during St. Louis City SC games. The soccer club revealed that more than 25 local restaurants will operate concessions inside the new stadium at 2100 Market St.

The first four food partners announced are Balkan Treat Box, BEAST Craft BBQ Co., Steve’s Hot Dogs and Niche Food Group. More food announcements will be made as the St. Louis City SC’s inaugural season approaches. … Blues fans can now enjoy Dogtown Pizza at the Enterprise Center. The family-owned pizza company is slinging pies at three locations at Blues home games.

SNACK AROUND THE WORLD

Global Foods Market in Kirkwood is launching a new snack box subscription: Global Munchies. The box features six to eight snacks from a different country each month, along with info about the country and the items included. Global Munchies is currently available in a three-month subscription and is available for in-store pickup from the 5th to 10th of each month, starting in November. To sign up, visit

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TIME FOR A COMEBACK

Taco Circus is back in the STL almost a year after closing its location on the Hill. The Texas-inspired taco joint is just one of four concepts owner Christ Ethridge is launching out of Clayton Kitchen, a ghost kitchen-concept at 7923 Forsyth Blvd. The other concepts at Clayton Kitchen are El Primo, which focuses of super-sized burritos; Bodega, a vegan and non-vegan deli option; and Global Pizza Villain, which offers pizzas cooked in a Cuppone Giotto oven, the first electric oven with a rotating stone pizza deck.

OH THE PASTA-BILITIES

STL Toasted is expanding its production capabilities. Currently, it is producing between 10,000 to 20,000 ravioli a week in its 400-square-foot space at City Foundry. It’s taking over the former Mama Toscano’s Ravioli space at 2201 Macklind Ave. on the Hill. The new facility will supply its location at City Foundry Food Hall, as well as allowing it to pursue catering opportunities and, in the future, a potential retail option selling frozen toasted ravioli. &

Holiday Gifting

1. Genovese Jewelers

These 14kt. yellow gold hoop drop earrings feature round pavé diamonds at 0.71cttw.

12460 OLIVE BLVD. | 314.878.6203

GENOVESEJEWELERS.COM

2. Elleard Heffern Fine Jewelers

The Italian Trio Trunk Show will be held at Elleard Heffern Fine Jewelers Dec. 1 to 3. Discover the new styles from three of the finest Italian design houses: Gismondi 1754, Vendorafa and Peruffo (pictured here, “Studs” collection in 18kt. gold and blue agate).

101 S. HANLEY ROAD, STE. 110 | 314.863.8820

HEFFERN.COM

3. Sport Court St. Louis

Stay fit on our backyard game courts, which provide a multiuse space for almost every sport imaginable, such as basketball, hockey, tennis, pickleball, volleyball and more. 636.451.0400

SPORTCOURTSTLOUIS.COM

4. K. Hall Studio

Festively scented with cinnamon, apple cider and clove, this 20 oz. candle is hand-poured in small batches with a 100% natural soy and vegetable wax blend.

715 HANLEY INDUSTRIAL COURT | 855.819.3397

KHALLSTUDIO.COM

5. Albarré

This 18kt. rose gold diamond bracelet also is available in yellow and white gold. 9711 CLAYTON ROAD | 314.997.1707

ALBARRE.COM

Take Note

6. Circle of Concern Food Pantry

Circle of Concern Food Pantry is broadening its services to more families in need. The income limit for families to qualify for services is now 200% of the federal poverty limit. The nonprofit also is expanding geographically to welcome clients from two adjacent communities. 112 ST. LOUIS AVE. | 636.861.2623

CIRCLEOFCONCERN.ORG

7. Holman Motorcars St. Louis

Discover the extraordinary power and performance of the world’s finest sports cars and exotics. We are the only factory authorized dealership in Missouri for Rolls-Royce Motor Cars, Bentley Motors, Aston Martin, Lotus, Lamborghini and Bugatti. Stop by and visit our showroom today!

ONE ARNAGE BLVD. | 636.449.0000

HOLMANMOTORCARS.COM

8. SSM Health Foundation - St. Louis

Give the gift of hope to your community. Make a difference for your neighbors at givetossmhealth.org/donate.

12312 OLIVE BLVD., STE. 100 | 314.523.8044

GIVETOSSMHEALTH.ORG

9. Hindman Auctions

Trusted for 40 years, we offer appraisal and auction services for fine jewelry, fine art, furniture, decorative art property and more. We provide local clients with seasoned expertise in the global art market.

32 N. BRENTWOOD BLVD. | 314.833.0833

HINDMANAUCTIONS.COM

10. St. Louis Estate Buyers

Get paid cash for your gold, diamonds, watches, costume jewelry and more. Do not miss the Jewelry Buying Event

Nov. 17 to 19, 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. at West County Mall.

63 WEST COUNTY CENTER 314.691.2888

Holiday Happenings

11. Saint Louis Ballet

Gen Horiuchi’s The Nutcracker has become the region’s most popular holiday production, delighting thousands every year. This year, the spectacle features a larger cast of dancers, professional character actors and talented students from the school of the Saint Louis Ballet along with new choreography!

ONE UNIVERSITY BLVD. | 314.534.1111

STLOUISBALLET.ORG/THENUTCRACKER

HOLIDAY DAZZLE

by stephanie wallace

1. FLUFFMATTE sunnies face

Now that we’re wearing masks less, people are excited to show off, and bold lips are big. This lipstick offers a matte finish that is easy to wear thanks to its blendable, breathable formula. Hot Sauce is a bold tomato red that is perfect for the holidays. If it’s not to your liking, there are 14 other shades.

$16 FROM SUNNIESFACE.COM

2. BLOCK PARTY SINGLY EYESHADOW dose of colors

Silver is making a comeback, and there’s no better time than the holidays to experiment with the trend—it’s the season of sparkle after all. This metallic eyeshadow is super pigmented, so one swipe is all you need to get some serious silver shine.

$10 FROM DOSEOFCOLORS.COM

3. LINE ARTIST about - face

Graphic eyeliner is a big trend this winter. A bold eye look is easy to achieve with this eyeliner, which delivers intense pigment in a matte formula. It’s smudge-proof, waterproof and sweat-proof, so you can count on it to last all night. Blue is another 2022 trend, so we picked Matte Cobalt, but with 12 shades available, you’re sure to find one that suits you.

$13 FROM ABOUTFACE.COM

4. GLOWY SUPER GEL saie

Who doesn’t want to look like they’ve got a fresh, youthful glow? Instead of heavy coverage, dewy skin is in this year. This lightweight luminizer can be used alone or mixed with foundation or tinted sunscreen as a primer. Thanks to plant-derived glycerin and rosehip seed oil, it helps moisturize skin as well as brighten it.

$28 FROM SAIEHELLO.COM

5. QUEEN MAGNETIC LASHES glamnetic

Adding some oomph to your lashes can be an easy way to up the glam in any look. New to false lashes? Magnetic lashes could be the perfect solution. This glue-free alternative is an easier, cleaner option. Just trim down the metal band to the correct size, apply magnetic eyeliner (sold separately) and then put on the lashes.

$24.99 FROM GLAMNETIC.COM

THE HOLIDAY SEASON IS FAST APPROACHING, AND THAT MEANS HOLIDAY PARTIES! AS YOU START PREPARING FORTO GET-TO- TOGETHERS WITH FAMILY, FRIENDS AND COWORKERS, IT’S A GREAT TIME TO GET CREATIVE WITH YOUR MAKEUP LOOKS. DON’T BE AFRAID TO PLAY WITH BOLD COLORS OR METALLIC FINISHES. WE’VE GOT SOME PRODUCTS THAT CAN HELP YOU CAPTURE SOME OF THIS HOLIDAY SEASON’S BIGGEST TRENDS.

Popular Pre-Holiday Beauty

By Stephanie Wallace

As the weather gets colder, we’re all looking forward to the winter holiday season. It’s a time to celebrate with friends and family, many whom you may not see throughout the rest of the year. To ensure you can put your best face forward, November is the perfect time for skin care treatments. We reached out to Stephanie Bruner, director of nursing at The Face & the Body Spa, to learn about what procedures are popular during the pre-holiday period.

Since fall means spending more time indoors, it’s perfect for procedures that require people to stay out of the sun, according to Bruner. Treatments such as chemical peels and laser resurfacing remove the top layers of the skin, so patients are cautioned to avoid exposure to ultraviolet light in order to prevent damage. If you are wanting to look you best for holiday celebrations, Bruner suggests looking into treatment now. “For optimal results, a lot of procedures take around a month,” she notes. “I wouldn’t suggest having treatment done less than two weeks in advance of an event, unless it’s something like a facial, which offers immediate results.”

Bruner notes that winter is a great time to start thinking ahead to warmer weather, especially since with most procedures, the best results come with a series of treatments. “Starting now and continuing through the winter will guarantee that you’re ready for summer,” she says. “We suggest that patients wait for full cell turnover before returning for another round of treatment. For someone in their 40s, that is around four weeks. Similarly, it is five weeks for someone in their 50s, and a person in their 60s should wait six.”

Intense Pulse Light Therapy

“Right now, it’s IPL season,” Bruner says. “It corrects hypigmentation and texture issues caused by sun damage, using high-intensity pulses of visible light.”

Similar to laser treatments, IPL uses light energy to cause controlled damage to a specific area. It is non-ablative, meaning it targets lower layers of the skin rather than the top. “It causes pigment to rise from the lower layers and then slough off,” Bruner explains. “The pigment does get darker for around a week as it comes to the surface. It likely won’t be too noticeable for everyday life, but it’s something to consider for events. For the best results, we recommend at least three treatments.”

Radiofrequency Microneedling

Traditional microneedling uses small needles to create micro-injuries on the skin, triggering tissue repair and the production of collagen and elastin. Radiofrequency microneedling introduces radiofrequency waves, which enhance the effects by heating deeper layers of the skin. “With traditional microneedling, the needle marks may be visible for around a week after treatment,” Bruner says. “By applying radiofrequency, the body doesn’t react as aggressively, so people generally experience less redness. You can get it done over lunch, be back in the office that afternoon, and no one will realize you’ve had a procedure.”

Bruner recommends combining radiofrequency microneedling with platelet-rich plasma (PRP). It uses the growth factors in a person’s blood to stimulate cell turnover. The process works by collecting the patient’s blood and placing it into a centrifuge that separates the red blood cells from the PRP. The PRP then can be injected or applied topically. “Applying it while the channels created by mirconeedling are still open will improve your results,” she explains.

Fibroblast Therapy

Fibroblasts are collogen- and protein-producing cells in the dermis, the layer of skin directly below the surface. They play an important role in healing wounds and maintaining firmness and elasticity. Fibroblast therapy uses a pen-like device to deliver high-frequency electric currents to small areas of skin, breaking down proteins and stimulating fibroblast activity. “It helps tighten skin and reduce fine lines and wrinkles,” Bruner says. “It’s great for treating crow’s feet or crepiness around the eye.” She adds that fibroblast therapy does create scabs that fall off after about a week, and skin redness can persist for a couple weeks after the scabs are gone. “It’s perfect if you want to look your best for an event that is around two months away,” she explains. “I wouldn’t recommend fibroblast therapy if you have something planned that is only in a few weeks.”

Laser hair removal

Chemical peels

Hydrafacial & other facials

Coolsculpting & Emsculpting

Injectables, such as Botox & dermal fillers

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by carrie edelstein

from the homeowner

Downsizing without sacrificing amenities or space for guests is a dream for many. With this luxury condominium on the second floor of 8253 Parkside Drive, that dream can become a reality. The open floorplan leaves ample room for entertaining with breathtaking views of Clayton’s Shaw Park.

from the agent »

–SABRINA ROBB

2B, CLAYTON

What do you like about the neighborhood?

Whether it’s walking through the gorgeous trails in Shaw Park or taking a stroll to a nearby coffee shop, the location makes it all a breeze. New families or friends with kids will enjoy the exceptional playground in the park and the pavilion for larger gatherings. Award-winning restaurants are footsteps away as is the center of Clayton, which has all one could need in terms of fitness and health.

How is the home for entertaining?

Family gatherings over the years would consist of a close group of 14 around the main dining table. The condo can comfortably host up to 30 guests by simply moving furniture and bringing in rented tables and seating.

Did you make any changes to the property?

A third bedroom was converted into an office space with built-in shelving and cabinetry. All of the closets were upgraded.

The condo has plenty of storage, including a storage unit that is available in the garage near the condo’s two parking spots.

Favorite room or space?

The sitting area off of the kitchen dining space is a smaller and cozier space. It was designed to allow for relaxation while also keeping an eye on what’s cooking! We also love the balcony with the built-in gas grill—it’s perfect for a morning coffee or evening drink while reading.

What do you most want the next homeowner to know about the property?

The condo is still larger than many homes, so it allows for downsizing in comfort without the responsibilities of caring for a home. The split bedroom floor plan creates privacy when guests or grandchildren spend the night. &

THIS UNIQUE FLOOR PLAN IS PERFECT FOR LARGE EXTENDED FAMILY GATHERINGS, AND THE UNIT OFFERS FANTASTIC VIEWS OF CLAYTON’S SHAW PARK.”

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This jaw-dropping two-story room has floor-to-ceiling windows with views of the three-acre lot in every direction. It’s a great place to cook or just hang with family and friends.

The drawing room of this turn-of-the-century manse features imported, hand-carved walnut paneling, one-of-a-kind leaded stained glass windows and ornate plaster ceilings. Rarely do you find a home that has been restored perfectly to its original grandeur.

61 PORTLAND DRIVE FRONTENAC | $1,875,000

The sunken living room has a beautiful barrel ceiling and offers access to a private courtyard, as well as the patio that leads to the backyard—complete with pool, tennis court and pool house.

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TOWN AND COUNTRY | $1,395,000

This four-bed, four-bath home has been completely renovated from top to bottom. The luxurious main bath features a custom double vanity with a marble top, walk-in multi-head shower, free-standing tub, two towel-warming racks and large walk-in closet with a custom organization system.

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This wonderful second primary suite on the main level features its own kitchen, living room, bedroom and bathroom with broad appeal for multi-generational living, nanny or guests.

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The great room envelops all who enter with its awe-inspiring elements: a custom stone fireplace, solid Douglas fir beams, light infused windows and expansive open floor plan.

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This newly renovated, eat-in kitchen is bright and sunny, featuring gourmet appliances and tremendous storage. Open the French doors leading out to the private deck while you cook and entertain.

Dooley Rowe Schnoebelen

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The perfect combination of formal and casual, this light filled, two story great room is inviting and functional with views of the private, tree lined yard.

Kim Jones

BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HOMESERVICES ALLIANCE REAL ESTATE 17050 BAXTER ROAD, STE. 200 | 314.323.6909 | KIMJONES.REALTOR

This spacious primary bedroom has a stunning modern gas fireplace, walkout balcony and spa-like bath perfect for the rest and relaxation you require.

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SETTING THE TABLE

by lauren rechan

THE HOLIDAYS ALWAYS INSPIRE ME to want to set a beautiful table for guests. This is the only time of year I get creative with centerpieces and actually use all of the wedding china and crystal that’s usually stashed away. In looking for some inspiration, I found many unique concepts in all different color schemes. Hopefully, you will find something that gets you excited about your own upcoming holiday entertaining as well!

Now that you can get embroidered monogrammed napkins easily (try Etsy), it’s a nice way to personalize and layer your table as shown here.

Wheat makes an eye-catching floral focus and now comes in a variety of hues, but the feathered placemats steal the show.

There are so many different variations of pumpkins and gourds to mix and match on your table.

I love the combination of a table, black china, cut crystal and colorful florals—coasters included!

Print or handwrite a menu with your holiday fare to add a special touch.

This simple but dramatic table combines fall greenery of all hues, exquisite glass and bone china with gold accents. Stunning!

colored glassware. This combo of blue and amber is a knockout.

This cheerful tablescape offers subtle Christmas fun.

Use the greenery from your yard to accent your table. The magnolia leaves used in this centerpiece are probably right outside your door.

This fall bounty of vegetables is simple and elegant on a rustic linen runner.

Even if your dinnerware is not a traditional holiday color, you can still create a magical setting.

Deck the Halls:

2022 HOLIDAY DECOR TRENDS

by stephanie wallace

You may still be putting away your jack-o-lanterns and other spooky Halloween decorations, but the winter holidays are just around the corner. Whatever you’re celebrating, you can create holiday magic for your friends and family through your decor. Here are some trends that can bring some festive cheer to your home.

sustainability

Sustainability continues to be a major focus for the holidays. Opt for decorations made from more environmentally friendly materials like brass, glass, wood or papier-mâché. If you want to get creative, consider making your own garlands and wreaths. You can even forage red berries, holly and pine cones to decorate them. Get the kids involved with paper crafts, such as cutting out snowflakes or folding origami stars to use as ornaments. For the dinner table, choose eco-friendly candles like soy or beeswax and opt to celebrate with reusable crackers. To reduce wrapping-related waste, skip the one-time use paper and go with wrapping cloths or fabric gift bags instead.

door displays

Your outdoor holidays displays are going to be seen by more people than your indoor decorations. So while you’re lining the eaves with lights and pulling out that inflatable Santa, don’t neglect your front door. A festive display will welcome guests while giving your home a little holiday curb appeal. Don’t stop at just a wreath, drape your door in garlands and make sure any decorative pots around it match the theme.

pink

Channel the Sugar Plum Fairy and think pink this holiday season. Soft peaches and blushes paired with pale greens create an elegant, refined palette for your decorations. If you’re looking for something bolder, embrace this year’s Barbiecore trend. Choose bright fuchsias and hot pinks that make a big statement. It doesn’t just have to be red and green for Christmas or blue for Hanukkah. There’s really so much you can do with pink!

tree alternatives

Evergreens and artificial trees are staples of Christmas decor, but they’re not without their downsides. Both take up a lot of space, and real trees can pose a problem for four-legged family members. Shake things up this holiday season by opting for a non-traditional centerpiece to pile the presents around. If space is an issue, consider a wall mounted display such as holiday cards in the shape of a tree or use a triangular chalkboard so the family can switch up the “decorations” whenever they wish. If you’re just looking for a treeless option, consider hanging ornaments from an open ladder, or stack items like books or empty wine bottles in the shape of a tree and drape them with lights. The only limit is your imagination.

gonks

You’ve probably already seen these little guys in Halloween displays, but they’ll be even more prominent as we approach the winter holidays. Inspired by gnomes and hobgoblins from Scandinavian and Nordic mythology, gonks are a great alternative if you’ve ever thought the Elf on the Shelf was a little creepy. With their trademark bushy beards and knitted hats, these quirky figurines can add some charm to your tree or mantle, and the variety of designs and colors means you’ll be able to find something that fits with the rest of your holiday decor.

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INDUSTRY SPOTLIGHT: RAILI CLASEN

We recently connected with Raili Clasen, owner of Raili CA Interior Design, to talk about her fearless design choices and how she goes about infusing her personality into her designs while also providing the perfect space for her clients.

Did you always plan to pursue design?

I didn't know what an interior designer was until about 10 years ago. My mom used to buy things at garage sales and nail them up in our home.

How did you get started with interior design?

My interior designer moved out of the country weeks after we hired her. I decided I was the best person for the job. With zero experience, I might add.

What would you say is your specialty/niche?

California, Pacific Ocean style with fun, whimsy and unexpected details.

From where do you draw inspiration?

Every single place I go—from work to dropping kids off at college in the South to European vacations. I always bring back a few wow ideas.

What's your favorite part about being a designer?

Every day is new, different and unexpected. I also love working as a team on each of our projects. Our team is full of funny women!

What's the biggest challenge you've faced in your career?

Our greatest challenges are usually dealing with the problems and issues that come with ordering from hundreds of vendors. Late deliveries, broken fixtures, incorrect shipments—all those problems give us headaches, and then we have to work through them with both the clients and the contractors. Those are never fun calls.

What's the most valuable thing you've learned as a designer?

Less is more! We have grown so much in the last few years, and as nice as that sounds, more people, more projects, more stress. My goal is to shift down these next few years and expand into more collaborations, finish my book and some other non-design studio projects that are under lock and key.

What sets you apart from other designers with similar styles?

I don’t follow a rule book. Our projects have a very cool, happy vibe, and our clients always love the little “out of the box” details that sets their home apart.

What are you currently loving in the design world?

The endless amount of different styles. I love following designers that are the opposite style, but who stay true to their own brand.

What's the best advice you've been given as a designer? Do not try to be anybody else. If a client wants you to design their house like designer X, run!

What's your best piece of advice for clients?

Trust! I'm not sure about other designers, but our best projects have been with clients who trust the process and collaboration with the creative team. &

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ORGANIZED

for the holidays

by CARRIE EDELSTEIN

that Halloween has passed, the countdown is on for the

season of winter

Whether it’s switching out your seasonal decor or making space for gift shopping sprees,

all can use some help getting organized. T&S spoke to Tiffany Hively, sales and design manager

California Closets of St. Louis,

round.

So many readers start shopping for the holidays early! With bags and bows already cluttering closets, what are some storage solutions?

drawers and cabinets are great for items you want to keep hidden. Designs with a continuous top shelf offer out of reach storage, which is perfect for gifts. In our designs, we also have decorative boxes that coordinate with our material and fit perfectly on our top shelves. The boxes are great for gifts or out of season or sentimental items our clients want to store out of the way.

What’s the best way to store wrapping paper, ribbons, tissue paper and cards?

Wrapping stations are a must. There are several options, including wall mounted solutions for wrapping paper, vertical and horizontal wrapping paper storage within drawers, wall mounted solutions for ribbon, and drawer and shelf dividers to keep tissue paper, ribbon and cards perfectly organized.

Speaking of cards, how about those gorgeous holiday cards that come from friends and family? Should these be displayed, stored or recycled?

We suggest displaying holiday cards on a fabric board for the season, then recycling or storing the sentimental items in a decorative box on a higher shelf or on the top shelf in a closet. We have fabric board options to fit any design aesthetic, and it’s a great way to introduce another texture into the space.

Dishware and decor: What’s your advice for swapping out the year round items with the seasonal items?

Create a storage solution in your pantry or a secondary closet that has a designated area for out of season items and decor. It’s best to have an entire category of items stored together so you’re able to keep track of everything you have. When it’s time to start decorating for the season, you’ll swap out the year-round items with the seasonal items, so everything is out of the way.

Sometimes new toys and items for children end up needing more than a nook. How do you recommend parents prepare for the incoming holiday gifts?

Everything needs a home. If they run out of space for everything, create a new storage solution or donate items to make space for the gifts. &