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CHARITY&CULTURE

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CELEBRATING 60 YEARS

OF EXCEPTIONAL EXPERIENTIAL EDUCATION

60 1963-2023

FRIENDS OF KIDS WITH CANCER PRESENTS

Join us in treating local childhood cancer patients to the red-carpet lifestyle for a day and allow them to shine bright as models on the runway, feeling strong, beautiful, and confident. Enjoy boutique shopping, cocktails, a gourmet meal, runway show with celebrity guests, special raffles, and auctions.

Thursday, November 2, 2023 The Ritz-Carlton, St. Louis Afternoon Luncheon Show 11:30 a.m. Boutique shopping opens at 10:00 a.m. Includes signature cocktail, gourmet lunch, runway show, special raffles, & silent auction. Cash bar available. Evening Dinner Show 7:00 p.m. Boutique shopping & open bar cocktail hour opens at 5:30 p.m. Includes gourmet dinner, runway show, silent auction, & live auction. VIP Rooftop Garden Experience at 5:00 p.m.

Reserve your entry & learn more by visiting FRIENDSOFKIDS.COM/FASHIONSHOW

For over 30 years, Friends of Kids with Cancer has helped St. Louis families cope with the daily challenges presented by cancer and blood-related diseases. friendsofkids.org

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The Gatesworth provides the perfect canvas to enjoy life your way. Living in an exquisitely appointed apartment surrounded by beautiful, lush grounds, you’ll feel inspired to pursue new interests, expand your knowledge, build friendships and embrace your independence. We invite you to discover The Gatesworth and experience exceptional senior living today. Call 314-993-0111.

The Gatesworth is committed to equal housing opportunity and does not discriminate in housing and services because of race, color, religion, sex, handicap, familial status or national origin.

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CONTENTS october 18, 2023

humane society of missouri

Thanks to multiple rescue operations performed by the Animal Cruelty Task Force, the nonprofit recently received more than 106 dogs and puppies with more expected. The rescued dogs include Boston Terriers, Poodle mixes, Cairn Terriers, Labrador Retrievers and Yorkies.

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st. louis symphony orchestra

The institution’s music director position has been endowed in perpetuity as the result of a generous gift by Emily Rauh Pulitzer. The position is currently held by the orchestra’s 13th music director Stéphane Denève.

united way of greater st. louis

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THE VELVET HAMMER COVER STORY – The College School

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TALK OF THE TOWNS STANDOUT SCHOOLS 12 HEARD IN THE HALLS 13 PARENT TRAP – Power Struggles 16 THE INSIDER: Kids Edition PATTY UNLEASHED

CHARITY & CULTURE 〉〉 18 SPECIAL FEATURE – Shop for a Cause 20 SNAPPED! The Magic House 21 SAVE THE DATE

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The Charmaine Chapman Society, one of the largest Black philanthropic groups in the nation, celebrated the kick off of the Divine 9, a fundraising challenge designed to increase support for the United Way’s annual campaign. Last year, the initiative raised $354,000. PICTURED: UNITED WAY PRESIDENT AND CEO MICHELLE TUCKER

CELEBRATING 60 YEARS OF EXCEPTIONAL EXPERIENTIAL EDUCATION

60 1963-2023

THE COLLEGE SCHOOL EMPOWERS STUDENTS TO ENGAGE DEEPLY WITH A CURRICULUM BUILT ON EXPERIENTIAL LEARNING. THE INDEPENDENT SCHOOL SERVES STUDENTS IN PREKINDERGARTEN THROUGH GRADE EIGHT. THIS YEAR, THE SCHOOL IS CELEBRATING ITS 60TH ANNIVERSARY. PICTURED ON THE COVER: TWO COLLEGE SCHOOL STUDENTS ENGAGE IN HANDS-ON LEARNING. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.962.9355 OR VISIT THECOLLEGESCHOOL.ORG. COVER DESIGN BY JULIE STREILER COVER PHOTO COURTESY OF THE COLLEGE SCHOOL

crown center

Philanthropist, real estate developer and art collector Michael Staenberg welcomed residents to his offices to engage in the selection of art for the new Crown Center Phase 1 apartment building and Staenberg Commons community center.

JEANICE, the MetroLink Operator who always smiles and waves

PEDIATRIC RESIDENT who you saw when your child had an ear infection

STUDENT at Washington University who works concessions at Enterprise Center

BARISTA at Kaldi’s Coffee who makes the best latte foam art

NEONATAL NURSE at Children’s Hospital

THERE’S A LOT MORE RIDING ON METRO THAN PEOPLE.

RIDE ON to healthy communities

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the velvet hammer JOAN BERKMAN

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get ignited BETH CHESTERTON

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talk of the towns BILL BEGGS JR.

Q: I’m a small business owner and still recovering—especially economically—from the ill-effects of the pandemic. I don’t feel I can take a vacation until we’re back on solid financial ground. However, it’s been almost three years since I’ve taken any time off, and I think I’m headed for burnout. Any thoughts on how to disconnect at least temporarily? A: You’re not alone. According to numerous surveys, many small business owners feel they can’t take a vacation not only due to COVID’s residuals, but also due to the fear their business will suffer or fail without them. That said, burnout can do irreparable harm to you and your business. Although I’m no expert, I know from my own personal experience and talking with colleagues in high-stress environments, there are several ways to help relieve stress: Delegate. Instead of doing everything yourself, have others assist with office tasks even something as simple as ordering office supplies. Gaining small amounts of free time will add up to combat the stress that will eventually take its mental and physical toll. Learn to say no. As much as you’d like to take on another project or help with a community cause, you need to prioritize and get your own “house” in order. No need to burn bridges but consider a little emotional quotient when turning someone down: “Sorry, I can’t help you at this time, but let’s touch base later in the year when my workload might be lighter.” Get enough sleep. Most adults need seven hours of sleep each day. Try to create a routine for your body to feel its best by waking up and getting to sleep at the same each day. Short naps (20 minutes) also can help you relax and reduce fatigue as well as improve alertness and reaction time. Take breaks and set boundaries. If you’re at the computer morning, noon and night, this is a sure recipe for burnout and probable back problems or other physical and mental stressors. Take breaks every 20 minutes and try incorporating deep-breathing exercises to pump oxygen to your brain and to get your blood circulating. Set personal boundaries for your well-being and stress management. My number one rule: Don’t eat lunch at your desk. That’s why they call it a “lunch break” (with healthy foods). Find ways to unwind. Get together and talk with friends and laugh. Exercise and try to incorporate walking outdoors into your routine—it has proven to not only boost your mood, but also improves cardiovascular health and lowers blood pressure. A must: Take a break from the news and social media networks. Most importantly, leave your work at work. Finally, if you need more help with effective stress coping strategies, consult your primary health provider. Do hope as my mother used to say: “This too shall pass.”

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by stephanie wallace

THERE ARE CERTAIN PRECONCEIVED NOTIONS about school that many of

us have from our own experiences, such as lesson plans are inflexible, teachers deliver long lectures and learning takes place inside a classroom. At The College School, rigid lesson plans and traditional lectures are not on the curriculum. The independent school in Webster Groves is dedicated to inspiring a lifelong love of learning in students from preschool through grade eight. By putting education directly into the hands of its students through experiential learning, even the youngest learners are empowered and engaged. Since The College School’s beginning, the school has been positioned at the forefront of new ideas and educational innovation. It was founded in 1963 by Webster College as a laboratory, or demonstration, school to train teachers and conduct research on education. While the school separated from the college decades ago, head of school Carl Pelofsky notes that it has continued to embrace the progressive spirit of its founding. “The College School has never accepted traditional methods of teaching and learning,” he explains. “The world is constantly changing, and we can’t expect to be effective if we remain unchanged.” The school’s mission is to engage and empower students. Pelofsky notes that an important part of that is offering students some control over how they learn. “We are truly student-centered as our students contribute heavily to their own educational journey,” he says. “We want learning to be exciting, meaningful and relevant, and we want our students to be creative risk takers. They truly love going to school, and they all share profound memories of their experiences at The College School during our graduation ceremony.” The success of the school’s innovative approach is clear: 95% of students are accepted into their first choice high school.

FOR 60 YEARS, THE COLLEGE SCHOOL HAS OFFERED STUDENTS HANDS-ON LEARNING ACTIVITIES.

One of the major ways the school engages students is taking lessons out of the classroom for authentic hands-on learning opportunities. The College School has two campuses. The one in Webster Groves includes gardens and a simulated river and is adjacent to local parks and biking trails. Its LaBarque Campus in Pacific, Missouri, offers 28 acres for students to learn and explore. The departure from the traditional educational environment and students’ own comfort zones has big benefits. “Since education isn’t simply ‘delivered’ to our students, they emerge from our program confident in their abilities to learn and grow,” Pelofsky says. “Since they are comfortable taking risks and we view them as capable and confident, our students work exceptionally well with their peers, understand the value of support and collaboration, and are exceedingly comfortable around adults.” This year is The College School’s 60th anniversary, marking a time of celebration and excitement. The school plans to commemorate the milestone in many different ways, according to Pelofsky. “We recently had an all-school birthday party, complete with cupcakes and special guests from our school’s past,” he notes. “Throughout the year we will celebrate our school, our history and look with anticipation and excitement to our future.” &

Your child's education should be an investment in their potential and in our collective future. Come see what transformative Experiential Education looks like for students ages 3-14.

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u. city

Unless you’ve got a jones for BBQ and bourbon at Salt + Smoke or a pub experience unlike any other at Blueberry Hill, a certain section of the Delmar Loop isn’t the only spot to dine out in U. City. Of course, there’s a limitless lode of Asian restaurants along Olive on the northside of town. But go west, and just past McKnight as you enter the Costco ‘neighborhood,’ and you’ll find a new chain restaurant seems to open every day. We’ll argue that the chicken fingers served at Raising Cane’s are a religious experience—both crispy and tender, I’m sure they make a darn good sandwich. The efficient, very personable ‘NRO’—new restaurant opening—crew was there from

Texas for a few days to handle the grand-opening a couple weeks ago. Be still, my heart (and arteries)! Thank goodness a brand-new Panera just opened next door to Cane’s, so anyone so inclined can add greens to their diet. There’s a Chipotle out there now, and heaven knows what sort of destination eateries are in store at the hotel property or properties under development. (An observation: We’re just about Applebee’s-ed out around here, thanks.) Two of the businesses sacrificed when earth was moved and strip malls demolished were a Vietnamese bistro and a doc-in-the-box, I mean urgent-care clinic. No worries. A few miles to the southeast, a somewhat quaint slice of Tuscany was razed for a new urgent care at Old Bonhomme and Delmar. The one-time Rich & Charlie’s-cum-Pasta House moved into a spot in Ladue Marketplace. But it appears as though anyone waiting for the next brand-new urgent care that took the place of everyone’s nearly favorite Italian place will still have to wait awhile. Total Access Urgent Care is to occupy the new building that has stood there, completed and without signage, for months. A city official acknowledges that ‘it’s been there for a minute,’ but had no information regarding when it would be open for business. Meanwhile, the landscaping looks great.

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hi-pointe

The new permanent home of the St. Louis International Film Festival (SLIFF), Nov. 9 through Nov. 19, is just about as close to the city’s border in the county as you can get: Hi-Pointe Theatre, 1005 McCausland Ave. Films also will be shown, and events held, at Washington and Webster universities, Alamo Drafthouse, and even in St. Charles County, which lends just a little international flava to our border-conscious metro. SLIFF’s 32nd annual screenings and discussions, both formal and informal, will begin with a celebration: At the opening night party Nov. 9 at the Hi-Pointe, the fest will tip a glass to “50 Years of Hip-Hop in St. Louis,” as explored through both film and music. The festivities include a tribute to the Hi-Pointe Café’s pivotal role in shaping the genre’s evolution, showcasing the Lou’s significant influence. (IMHO: If you’ve never heard Ebony Eyez, at the very least, you’re missing out.) Attendees will be treated to cocktails and conversation, plus a screening of the 1990 film House Party, directed by Reginald Hudlin of East St. Louis. Hudlin is slated to receive a Lifetime Achievement Award at the awards party on Sunday, Nov. 19. Didn’t we say international? Indeed, we did. Cannes award-winner La Passion de Dodin Bouffant (Taste of Things), France’s official submission for Best International Feature at the next Academy Awards in 2024, will screen Nov. 12 at the Hi-Pointe. Did we mention women in film, LGBTQ+ features, documentaries, shorts … and, gosh, anything else? Well, consider this merely a teaser for everything. For the whole nine, visit cinemastlouis.org/sliff/festival-home.

downtown west

The latest benefit concert for Gratitude House, the first women’s sober-living home planned in St. Louis County, is slated for 7 p.m. Saturday, Nov. 4, at Red Flag in Downtown West. Not familiar with the Jason Nelson Band? Well, they deliver a fantastic tribute to Queen, the beloved art-rock band that recorded songs as diverse as “Another One Bites the Dust,” “We Will Rock You / We Are the Champions,” “You’re My Best Friend,” and “Somebody to Love.” Queen, dubbed classic rock by radio stations, is a little more complicated. It can be symphonic, but fans rock out, sing along and dance like there’s no tomorrow… sometimes all three in the same song. The bane of many a wedding D.J. is a group of well-oiled frat boys who insist on commandeering the microphone to shout and act out “Bohemian Rhapsody” in its entirety. This show is all for a good cause, of course. “We continue to be inspired by the generosity of St. Louisans,” says Christine Intagliata, Gratitude House co-founder. “We’re getting even closer to our goal of providing a safe residential setting for women in a supportive environment.” Gratitude House is to be established in 2024 as the response to a dire need for a dignified, comfortable sober-living home for women suffering from the disease of alcoholism, drug abuse and prescription pill abuse. For more info and tickets, visit gratitudehousestl.org.

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WHAT SONG OPENS WITH THESE LYRICS? “She keeps Moët et Chandon / In her pretty cabinet / ‘Let them eat cake,’ she says / Just like Marie Antoinette…” And who wrote it?

LAST ISSUE’S Q&A What happened in the Philippines in December 1898? On July 4, 1946? In December 1898, following the end of the SpanishAmerican War that August, Spain ceded control of the Philippines and several other ‘possessions’ to the United States. Then, on July 4, 1946—170 years to the day after our 13 colonies declared independence from British rule—the archipelago declared its own independence.

affton You may remember Rube Goldberg, the cartoonist who sketched absurd contraptions designed to perform simple, everyday tasks in ridiculously complicated ways. The Self-Operating Napkin (1931) starts with a diner bringing a spoon to mouth, and via a series of convoluted steps, including an alarm clock and small rocket, the napkin wipes the diner’s mouth. No? Maybe you remember Hasbro’s 3D Goldbergian board game Mousetrap, in which players take turns assembling an outlandish device that starts over here on the board, and via a series of humorous actions finally drops a plastic cage over that lil’ mouse right there. “I’m a big Rube Goldberg fan!” exclaims Dan Zettwoch, an Affton cartoonist, illustrator and graphic jack-of-all-trades. “My family could build that stuff. I just draw it.” What brought Goldberg to mind was marveling at the complex physiological steps Zettwoch illustrated for Men’s Health magazine of how adrenaline affects the body during a ‘fight or flight’ reaction. That process, and many other examples of this polymath’s work, populate his fascinating website, zettwoch.com, which he designed and wrote himself, natch. At the bottom of the homepage, which looks like a ripped-out piece of corrugated cardboard, is a “How That Works!” section, where you’ll find anything from a cutaway showing the workings of a hot tub, to illustrations for A-B’s draught system installation manual. Now, back to the piece of cardboard: Mouse over ‘Illustration,’ ‘Comics’… etc., and an animated Zettwoch performing those tasks will pop up. He’s illustrated for Nickelodeon magazine; much of his work is designed for teachable moments. Which brings us to Missouri Weird & Wonderful, his recently published volume with Amanda E. Doyle. Right on the cover you can see his thinking process at work. Can you find a Missouri mule? O.K.: That was easy. How about the hellbender? A brain sandwich? A Native American mound such as you’d see right across the river in Cahokia, Illinois? Kids’ stuff, eh? Well, it is written and illustrated for younger audiences. “I’m just a 46-year-old kid,” Zettwoch admits. (Besides, kids like Zettwoch and wife Leslie’s son Arthur, a 4th-grader, is likely an inspiration for many Zettwoch musings. Of course, youngsters love games and puzzles

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where you have to find stuff, like that Indian mound: This 68-year-old kid can tell you it’s inside the yellowish border.) Zettwoch’s comics, books and zines have been published by companies with names as nutty as Drawn & Quarterly and Uncivilized Books. Want to meet this self-acknowledged goofy guy and Doyle, a metro mom who loves spending hours in a coffee shop whenever she’s not dragging her kids along on some adventure? On Oct. 21, they’ll be available for book signings and conversation from 1 to 3 p.m. at Christopher’s Gifts, 127 E. Argonne in Kirkwood. Then, mark your calendar for a Halloween party at Missouri History Museum on Oct. 26 from 4:30 to 7 p.m. Besides signings and author talks, Doyle and Zettwoch’s book has its own game show—“Do You Know MO?” will travel to select schools and institutions like the History Museum to woo young readers with Show-Me State magic—and see which trivia questions challenge them! Add a podium with a buzzer, wacky show hosts and music, and adults will wish they could play, too.

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Around Town

1. Metro Transit

With Destination Deals, save at least 10% at MoKaBe’s Coffeehouse, Left Bank Books, Golden Gems, EGG restaurant, Steve’s Hot Dogs, St. Louis Union Station attractions, The Royal Food and Spirits, and other St. Louis hotspots just by showing your current valid Metro Transit pass or ticket. METROSTLOUIS.ORG/DEALS

2. Friends of Kids with Cancer

4 The Salvation Army

The Salvation Army presents Reimagine: Timeless Elegance in Black and White at The Sheldon on Oct. 20 from 7-9 p.m. It’s fashion with a cause. 1130 HAMPTON AVE. | 314.646.3000 | SALARMYMIDLAND.ORG

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5. Aberdeen Heights

Discover vibrant retirement living at Aberdeen Heights. Spend less time on chores and more time doing what matters most to you. Schedule your tour today!

Help childhood cancer patients shine bright and feel strong, beautiful and confident as models on the runway at our Fashion Show & Boutique. This gala-like event is Nov. 2 at The Ritz-Carlton, St. Louis.

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Rene, a certified nurse aide, was one of my first employees. She was 18 years old when she started, and I am proud to say she is still with us.

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3. St. Louis Mercantile Library

The St. Louis Mercantile Library is bringing back the Autumn Fine Print Dealers’ Showcase & Silent Auction on Nov. 10 at the Saint Louis Club in Clayton! Call 314.516.7248 to purchase tickets or request additional info. ONE UNIVERSITY BLVD. 314.516.7250 UMSL.EDU/MERCANTILE

6. Advanced Nursing Services of St. Louis 230 S. BEMISTON AVE., NO. 810 | 314.863.3030 ADVANCEDNURSINGSERVICES.ORGG

7. The Gatesworth

Thirty-five years ago, co-owners Charlie Deutsch, David Smith and Bob Leonard had a vision—to build the best in independent senior living, The Gatesworth. They continue to agree that providing choices and top-level service is the key to success.

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8. Air Comfort Service Heating, Cooling & Insulation

Heat your home safely this fall with Carrier Cool Cash rebates up to $1,725 on qualifying HVAC equipment! Contact Air Comfort Service for details. 314.814.8454 | 636.345.9044 AIRCOMFORTSERVICE.COM

9. Hindman Auctions

Trusted for 40 years, we offer appraisal and auction services for fine jewelry, fine art, furniture, decorative art property and more. We provide local clients with seasoned expertise in the global art market. 32 N. BRENTWOOD BLVD. | 314.833.0833 HINDMANAUCTIONS.COM

10. Selkirk Auctioneers & Appraisers

Our full-service auction firm is led by experienced specialists and certified appraisers knowledgeable in fine art, furniture, decorative arts, jewelry and more. We always invite your luxury consignments of a single item or entire estate. 314.696.9041 SELKIRKAUCTIONS.COM

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The St. Louis Mercantile Library

Autumn Fine Print Dealers’ Showcase & Silent Auction Join us for a festive reception mingling with nationally known rare book and fine print dealers and fellow collectors, featuring the James Yeatman Lecture on Collecting & Connoisseurship presented by Smithsonian Libraries’ Head of Special Collections, Lilla Vekerdy, on illustrated book bindings, plus a silent auction brimming with irresistible treasures and unique experiences!

Friday, November 10th, 2023 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. St. Louis Club Ballroom, 5th Floor 7676 Forsyth Blvd.  St. Louis, MO 63105

Featuring exceptional rare book, print and fine art dealers:  Susan Teller Gallery

Single tickets: $65

 Guests will enjoy passed wine, sumptuous hors d’oeuvres and an open bar.

(non-Member Rate)

 Proceeds directly benefit the Mercantile Library’s ever-growing art collection— just in time for the newly renovated gallery coming in 2024-2025!

New York, NY

 Kodner Gallery Fine Art St. Louis, MO

 Mark O. Howald Antiques & Fine Art

Single tickets for Mercantile Members: $60

St. Louis, MO

 McCaughen & Burr Fine Arts St. Louis, MO

 Stevens Fine Art

Purchase tickets now by calling 314-516-7248.

 All Non-Mercantile Member attendees are eligible to receive a one-year Complimentary Membership to the Mercantile Library.  Attire is black tie-optional.

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SPACE IS LIMITED!

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 Martin Hartzold Photographs, Books, & Ephemera

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▲ westchester elementary school

The Kirkwood School District held a ribbon-cutting ceremony to celebrate the completion of Prop R construction at the elementary school. Students now have access to 10 additional classrooms, a new library media center, an expanded cafeteria and upgraded restroom facilities. The ceremony was attended by school board members, district staff, Westchester students and parents, and community members.

Open House Saturday, October 21

IN HEARDTHE HALLS

Pre-register at jburroughs.org/openhouse or at 9 am on the day of the event. Presentation begins at 9:30 am

by stephanie wallace

▶ john burroughs school ◀

The school, which opened its doors on Oct. 2, 1923, celebrated its 100th anniversary with a series of centennial-themed assemblies. Students enjoyed a presentation by John Burroughs’ history department on the year 1923, heard from alum and artist Frankie Toan (’08), participated in a discussion on artificial intelligence with Outstanding Alumnus Award recipient Sam Altman (’03) and watched the opening of the school’s 50th anniversary time capsule. Later this year, students will have the opportunity to submit items to be included in the school’s new time capsule, which will remain sealed until its 150th anniversary.

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◀ ladue horton watkins high school Congratulations are in order for senior Lizzie Ester. She was recognized by the National Academy of Television Arts and Sciences Mid-America Regional Emmy Awards as a student Emmy award-winner for writing—the only student in St. Louis to receive the honor. Her film, The Forgotten Leftovers of Meaningful Things, was inspired by her passion for painting and a pen-pal relationship.

Find

. Find yourself at Forsyth. ForsythSchool.org

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▶clayton high school & marquette high school ◀

Missouri may not be home to many beaches, but that didn’t stop Hannah Taylor of Clayton High and Ella Keeven of Marquette from proving their beach volleyball skills. The pair, who are both juniors, teamed up to win the 16 Open Beach National Championship this summer in Fort Lauderdale, Florida. Over the three day tournament, Taylor and Keevan won all 11 of their matches.

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Congrats to these schools for being recognized by Show-Me Green Schools for their sustainability efforts. They were among five schools in the state to be awarded the level four designation of Sapling. The recognition honors the schools’ efforts in tracking and reducing their energy and water use and waste production over a one to three year period. Keep up the good work!

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by dr. tim jordan

POWER STRUGGLES THREE-YEAR-OLD BART throws a tantrum every night when his parents try to put him down to sleep. Eight-year-old Addy refuses to eat anything besides what’s on her list of 10 approved foods. High school senior Jen brought home a resounding 1.8 GPA last semester after rebuffing all attempts to get her to do her homework. I could go on and on with stories of how my patients dig their heels in defiantly with adults. In order to ascertain the best way to redirect these conflicts, you first need to zoom out and figure out why your child is engaging you in the struggles. 1. They feel disconnected at home: Many children live with parents who are distracted with work, finances, aging grandparents, a troubled sibling or struggles with their own mental health. This causes kids to feel unimportant, unloved, hurt, lonely and angry. Kids who don’t feel cared about often subsequently don’t care about things like homework, chores, their future or even hygiene. 2. Temperament: Some kids are born with a personality that is intense, independent-minded and detests being controlled or talked down to. They are at their best when given say-so, choices, decision-making, leadership and opportunities to be valuable. They are at their worst if they live with parents who are autocratic, controlling, closed-minded and disrespectful. It’s one of the reasons why some kids receive glowing reports from school and coaches who never see these struggles. 3. Overstimulated: Some people have a small tank of tolerance, i.e., the ability to go about your day and gracefully handle the normal ups and downs. Thus, after a certain amount of disappointment or setbacks, they boil over and lose it. Some kids are also sensitive to being overstimulated by lights, noise or crowds. At a certain point they get overwhelmed and then either shut down or lash out. 4. Lack of self-care: Some people become “hangry” when they are hungry and their blood sugar is low. Others become crabby and likely to engage in power struggles when they don’t get adequate sleep. A lack of adequate exercise also causes kids to be edgier and more likely to be triggered by small things. 5. Nonconformists: I counsel many teen girls who have different interests, beliefs and world views than their parents. Which is fine unless their parents continually push them to conform to their expectations and standards. These kids feel misunderstood, unheard, unappreciated, judged and like a huge disappointment. Those with enough courage push back and stand their ground. I always affirm these girls for their bravery and fighting to stay true to themselves. 6. Autocratic parents: Strong minded kids who grow up with strict, close minded parents are often embroiled in power struggles as they fight to gain respect and some sense of control. Every child needs to be given appropriate power proactively to grow in confidence. Start with zooming out of your present struggles and ascertain what might be at the root of the conflicts. This will tell you the key to redirecting the power struggles. &

TIM JORDAN, M.D., IS A BEHAVIORAL PEDIATRICIAN WHO COUNSELS GIRLS AGED GRADE SCHOOL THRU COLLEGE. LISTEN TO HIS WEEKLY PODCAST, RAISING DAUGHTERS, TO GAIN INFORMATION ON RAISING STRONG, RESILIENT GIRLS. FOR MORE INFO ON DR. JORDAN’S RETREATS, SUMMER CAMPS AND BOOKS VISIT DRTIMJORDAN.COM.

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WORDS. I LOVE WORDS. I like to write, speak and read them. You too must be a word lover, or you would not be reading this column—regardless of how adorable I look at the top. So that is why each year I get excited when the Oxford English Dictionary issues its new words for the year. Some already are part of my vocabulary, and others will be soon. So, let me give you my favorites from the 350 added this year. Crazy-pants: Seriously, how was this not a recognized word before now? I have been using it for years—often to describe myself! It means a person completely lacking in common sense, reason or intelligence; a highly-eccentric person. It is often used in a derogatory manner. When someone referred to me in this manner, I was not flattered. I think it ties in nicely with another new word, freako. Freako is a highly unconventional person who may be regarded as strange. Be honest. Someone you know just popped into your head. Cheddar: Money, i.e. “I don’t have enough cheddar for a new car.” I have no idea why this cheese has been selected instead of fontina or brie, but it makes sense they would not choose Swiss or American cheese. Highly unlikely I will use this word, but let me know if you do and how people react.

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Confuddle: I love words that combine two words like flustrated, which did not make it into this year’s list but should have. Confuddle means in a state of extreme confusion especially when trying to problem solve. This one will be in heavy rotation for me. Watch for it in future columns. Groomzilla: Finally, the male version of bridezilla! It means a man who is obsessive or overbearing in planning their wedding. Groomzillas are out there in nature, but they tend to hide themselves behind the term “detail-oriented.” We all know the truth. Lamester: A dull, unimpressive person who is socially inept. Again, you know someone who fits this word, but please do not be a meanie and call them one to their face. Wait and do it behind their back. Easy-rider: A person viewed as representing freedom from responsibility, typically a motorcyclist. Next time you are driving down the highway see if you can pick one out. I suspect they will be zooming past you. Apricity: Just in time for the weather turning cooler, it means the warmth of the sun during the winter. Use it

in a sentence this winter and see if anyone has any idea what you mean. I think use of this word should admit you to Mensa. Porch pirate: I hope you have never experienced one of these people. They are individuals that steal parcels or packages left at your door from places like Amazon. You can only hope that when they strike, it is when your package contains FiberCon. Dap: I think this word should have an age limit. You cannot say it if you are under the age of 30. It means a casual gesture of greeting, acknowledgement or affirmation, typically slapping palms, bumping fists or snapping fingers. I’m not sure that you should be doing anything other than shaking hands if you’re over the age of 30. So, there you have it, my favorite words from the 350. Do your best to use them this week, except for dap and cheddar—just because you can say something does not mean you should. Peace my peeps.

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EVERY OCTOBER, the Glennon Card gives St. Louisans the chance to give back while patronizing some of their favorite stores, restaurants and more. By purchasing a $60 card, you unlock a 20% discount at more than 340 local businesses, and 100% of card sales benefit the young patients at SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s Hospital. This year’s shopping period ends Oct. 22, but there’s still time to check out the great businesses participating, including those at West County Center. “We’ve encouraged our stores to participate in the Glennon Card since the early years of the initiative,” notes Sean Phillips, senior marketing director for the Des Peres shopping center. “It’s a great program.” This year, there are five West County Center stores participating in the program. Arch Apparel and The Normal Brand are two popular local clothing brands. The Back Store is a locally owned business focused on mattresses, pillows, linens and accessories. Outdoor enthusiasts won’t want to miss Gearhead Outfitters, which has its only St. Louis location at the center. Along with on-site candle-making, Pure Perfection Candles offers skin care, reed diffusers, room sprays and more. “It’s a great variety of stores participating—you can get everything from outdoor apparel to home goods,” Phillips notes. “Several of the businesses are local, so that’s an additional perk. The Glennon Card shopping period falls at the perfect time to get a head start on holiday shopping. Another benefit is that several participating businesses don’t offer regular discounts, according to Phillips. “For many of these stores, this is a rare opportunity,” he explains. “You may be able to get deals at end-of-year clearances, but otherwise, the Glennon Card is an almost unprecedented chance to save 20%. I like to use the card myself to save at restaurants and stores that don’t often offer discounts.” For Phillips, the program is a win-win-win for the entire community. He notes that stores that choose to participate see new customers come in during the shopping period. Meanwhile, shoppers get a discount, and they also make a meaningful donation to the hospital. “It is a unique opportunity to support local businesses while giving back,” he notes. “I have three children myself, and while we’re lucky to have never needed SSM Health Cardinal Glennon, it’s such an important resource for our community. It really is amazing that 100% of card sales go to the hospital. It’s why I’m passionate that West County Center continues to support the program.” Since its founding in 2011, the Glennon Card program has raised more than $2.3 million. The funds have supported initiatives like the Orthwein Center for Infant and Child Nutrition, the 3D Printing Center of Excellence, The Danis Pediatric Center and a number of enhancements to patient areas. Glennon Card funds also have gone toward different programs at the hospital, such as the Knights of Columbus Developmental Center, Footprints and Reach Out and Read. &

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THE RONALD MCDONALD HOUSE CHARITIES OF ST. LOUIS PROVIDES A HOME-AWAY-FROM-HOME TO FAMILIES OF SERIOUSLY ILL CHILDREN WHILE SUPPORTING ORGANIZATIONS THAT SERVE THE NEEDS OF CHILDREN. PICTURED ON THE COVER: CONSTRUCTION IS UNDER WAY ON THE NEW RONALD MCDONALD HOUSE IN ST. LOUIS CITY. FOR MORE INFORMATION, CALL 314.773.1100 OR VISIT RMHCSTL.COM. COVER DESIGN BY JULIE STREILER PHOTO COURTESY OF RONALD MCDONALD HOUSE CHARITIES OF ST. LOUIS

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HAVING A CHILD IN THE HOSPITAL is a parent’s worst nightmare. Extended stays away from home only add to a situation that can feel unbearable. The Ronald McDonald House Charities of St. Louis offers respite for families of seriously ill children. The nonprofit provides a home-away-from-home for families with children in the hospital—whether it’s providing spaces for them to find comfort in the hospital or offering accommodations free of charge to those that must travel to St. Louis for medical care. Established in 1981, the first Ronald McDonald House in St. Louis opened with eight bedrooms for families traveling to St. Louis for care at one of our community’s world-renowned children’s hospitals. In four decades, the nonprofit has expanded to offer 59 bedrooms spread across two locations in the Central West End and one location in West County. “Right now, we can take care of 39 families in the city, and due to high demand, our current facilities have outgrown their function,” president and CEO Dan Harbaugh says. “Most nights we have 100% occupancy and a waiting list, and the number of requests continues to grow.” In 2019 alone, the nonprofit had to turn away a family in need 3,044 times. To ensure it can serve more families, Ronald McDonald House Charities of St. Louis is building a new house to replace the two in the Central West End, which will be located at 4321 Chouteau Ave. The new accommodations will have 72 bedrooms, as well as large dining areas, a commercial kitchen and chef, a rooftop patio, laundry facilities, fitness center, playrooms and a wing for immunosuppressed families. The location also will be more convenient for families because it is across the highway from Shriners Hospital for Children and equidistant from SSM Health Cardinal Glennon Children’s and St. Louis Children’s hospitals. “It’s such a perfect location,” Harbaugh

THE NEW RONALD MCDONALD HOUSE IS EXPECTED TO OPEN IN SUMMER 2024.

notes. “Raising our capacity is going to ensure we can provide the highest quality care for families.” Ground was broken on the new house in 2022, and it is expected to be completed in summer 2024. The project is funded through the Let’s Make Room campaign. The initiative aims to raise $34 million before construction is complete, and it’s almost there, having already received $30 million in donations. “We’re $4 million dollars away from opening the house debt free,” Harbaugh says. “We raise 100% of our annual operating budget right here in St. Louis, and without community support, the new Ronald McDonald House location would not be possible.” Donations aren’t the only way that people can support Ronald McDonald House Charities of St. Louis. Harbaugh notes that the nonprofit also relies on volunteers to help make families’ time in St. Louis as comfortable as possible. “St. Louis is blessed to be home to so many excellent pediatric hospitals,” he says. “Families come here feeling great trepidation, but there’s not a week that goes by without someone telling us they couldn’t have gotten through it without Ronald McDonald House. And we can’t do it without our volunteers and donors. It’s a huge positive that the community is able to come together to help these families feel comfortable and at home.” &

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When it comes to notable St. Louisans, some need no introduction, and that ’s certainly true for Cedric Kyles, better known as Cedric the Entertainer. The comedy icon has conquered both film and television, and his career is constantly innovating. From building a barbecue empire to becoming a published author, we checked in with the local legend to learn what he’s been up to. WHAT ’S KEEPING YOU BUSY THESE DAYS? I’ ve been stretching myself with some new businesses. Anthony Anderson and I star ted AC Barbecue. Our sauces and rubs are in Walmar ts nationwide, and we’re planning to grow the company to a whole barbecue empire. Being from St . Louis, barbecue is a legendar y par t of our culture, and this was a way to show people how it and grilling bring us all together. YOU’ VE WRIT TEN A NOVEL , FLIPPING BOXCARS. During the pandemic, ever yone was sitting around, and I had the oppor tunit y to write a book loosely based on my mother ’s father, who passed away before I was born. We all have legendar y tales in our families, and my grandfather is one for mine. He was an entrepreneur and businessman, but also a gambler and bootlegger at the same time. I created a crime capper about him doing a whiskey exchange with the Irish mob back in the 1940s. It ’s fun and ver y much has Devil in a Blue Dress or Boardwalk Empire energy. WHAT DID YOU LE ARN ABOUT YOURSELF WHILE WRITING A BOOK ? It was a stretch for me, and that ’s a great thing at this stage in my life and career. While doing the research, I also learned the similarities I share with my grandfather. He was a go-getter with big dreams who wasn’ t going to be put in a box—we even share a sense of st yle with suits and hats. I’ ve never had the chance to sit down with him, but I’m ver y much like him. WHY IS ST. LOUIS STILL HOME TO YOU? It ’s truly the place where I discovered who I was as a young person. I went through high school, got my first job, bought my first house and launched my career here. It ’s impor tant to have a place where you can have that Norm from Cheers feeling. Ever yone knows your name, and they know the real you, not just the celebrit y. I love the vibration I get when I’m in St . Louis.

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WHEN IT COMES TO FA SHION, ARE YOU TRENDY OR TRADITIONAL? I’m fairly traiditonal. I like some trends, but my wife will let you know, I stick to the same things. Whenever I buy something, she’s always on me that it ’s what I already have. It ’s new, but it ’s old. WHAT ERA OF FA SHION DO YOU WISH WOULD MAKE A COMEBACK ? I really love the super st ylish suits of the ’40s. The ties, flowers in the lapels and hats, it ’s ver y gentlemanly, and you feel good when you go out . I like that flavor. WHO STILL MAKES YOU L AUGH, AND IS IT HARD TO MAKE YOU L AUGH? I love a good laugh, and I admire so many comedians out there. Right now, I’ ve really been rocking and rolling with my man Deon Cole. A S A COMEDIAN ON STAGE , DID YOU E VER HE AR CRICKE TS WHEN THE CROWD WA S NOT FEELING YOU? If any comedian tells you they haven’ t felt that , they ’re not a real comedian. There are nights it just doesn’ t go your way. One night at The Brass Rail at Laclede’s Landing, I was hyped up, but I bombed. It was terrible. I thought people would show me love because I was in my hometown, but ever ybody but three people wanted their money back .

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P H OTO S B Y S U Z Y G O R M A N Since 2014, Saint Louis Fashion Fund has celebrated and promoted our city’s rich fashion history while expanding its impact in the industry. Dedicated to revitalizing the Garment District, the nonprofit supports emerging designers and promotes fashion education and outreach in the community. As it prepares to celebrate a decade of bringing fashion back to St. Louis, the nonprofit is organizing a year-long campaign to spotlight its successes and look toward the future. Saint Louis Fashion Fund is planning 10 events to celebrate its 10th anniversary. The year-long celebration will spotlight and promote the local fashion industry and its impact on the regional economy, including a presentation and trunk show by American fashion designer Michael Kors and a runway fashion show with St. Louis CITY SC players and young, aspiring soccer stars participating in STL CITY SC’s Futures Program. The fashion events will begin in October and run through 2024, under the banner “10 for the 10th Anniversary.” The Fund unveiled its plans for the fashion series at the Missouri History Museum, which was attended by fashion designers, students and industry-related businesses and community leaders.

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Explore Laumeier Sculpture Park at night! The annual event features temporary art and light installations from local artists; a night market with local makers, food and beverage vendors; and live music.

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COCA’s Choreographic Lab Project and COCAwrites come together to showcase new works in dance and playwriting.

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You’ll find dance and music on every corner of Cherokee Street—swing dancers and blues musicians tucked in between vintage clothing racks or brass bands marching down the street in the 2nd line parade. Cherokee Street | Free | 10 a.m.-10 p.m. cherokeestreet.com

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Join the brewery as it celebrates the annual harvest with live music and a pig roast, featuring hogs from regional farmers. Local chefs also will compete for your affection in a deliciously competitive chili cook-off. Schlafly Bottleworks | Free | schlafly.com

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This year’s festival includes more than 100 comedians and 30 events over the three days. Every event aims to showcase local and national comedic talent at some of the best venues in the Gateway City. The Grove | Free-$85 | Various showtimes flyovercomedyfest.com

Short on time? The Chamber Music Society of St. Louis is offering a program of shorter compositions by a variety of composers, including Chopin, Leroy Anderson and Rimsky Korsakov.

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11/23

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Join the ninth annual St. Louis Turkey Trot in Forest Park. “Donut” stop until you reach the finish line—Strange Donuts will be waiting for you!

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Inspired by the Pulitzer’s new exhibition Sarah Crowner: Around Orange, St. Louis Symphony Orchestra string players present a program, including pieces by Sky Macklay, Molly Joyce and Michael Gordon. Pulitzer Arts Foundation | $25 | 7:30 p.m. 314.534.1700 | slso.org

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Pay your respects to one of the most iconic and beloved comedians of our time. John Cleese presents an evening of comedy and conversation, spotlighting his trademark wit and eccentricity. The Factory | $59.50-$299 | 7:30 p.m. 314.423.8500 | thefactorystl.com

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Breast Cancer Awareness Month BY ST EPHAN I E WALL ACE

OCTOBER BRINGS WITH IT THE REDS, YELLOWS AND ORANGES OF AUTMAN, BUT IT’S ALSO A TIME TO THINK PINK FOR BREAST CANCER AWARENESS MONTH. ONE IN EIGHT WOMEN WILL BE DIAGNOSED WITH THE DISEASE, MEANING YOU’LL LIKELY KNOW SOMEONE TOUCHED BY IT—WHETHER IT’S THROUGH A FRIEND OR RELATIVE. KNOWING THE RISK FACTORS AND PROPER SCREENING CAN HELP DETECT THE DISEASE EARLIER, LEADING TO MORE SUCCESSFUL TREATMENT AND BETTER OUTCOMES.

TYPES OF BREAST CANCER

▪ Ductal carcinoma in situ: This is a noninvasive or

pre-invasive form of breast cancer. Carcinoma refers to tumors that form in the epithelial cells of organs and tissue. Tumors that form in the breast are more specifically referred to as adenocarcinoma, meaning they start in the milk ducts or the lobules, glands that make milk. In situ refers to cancer that has not spread from the duct to surrounding breast tissue. ▪ Invasive ductal carcinoma: This term referrs to cancer that has spread to surrouning breast tissue. According to the American Cancer Society, around 70% to 80% of breast cancers are invasive ductal carcinoma. Some invasive forms of cancer have different charactertists or develop differently. These are often more rare but can be more serious as well. ▪ Triple negative breast cancer: Accounting for around 15% of all breast cancers, this aggressive form gets its name because the cancer cells don’t have estrogen or progesterone receptors and don’t make the protein HER2, so they test negative for all three of these proteins. Triple negative breast cancer tends to spread faster and has fewer treatment options. ▪ Inflammatory breast cancer: In this agressive form of invasive breast cancer, cancer cells block lymph vessels in the skin. This causes the breast to look inflamed. It is a rarer type of cancer, accounting for between 1% and 5% of cases.

CAUSES & RISK FACTORS The cause of breast cancer is unknown; however, there are known risk factors. Some of these factors cannot be changed, such as being born female, getting older, race and ethnicity, family history and certain gene mutations. There also are lifestyle factors associated with a greater risk of developing breast cancer that can be modified. These include; ▪ Drinking alcohol: Alcohol increases the risk of breast cancer, even when consumed in small amounts. The American Cancer Society says it’s best not to drink at all, but those who choose to, should limit themselves to one drink a day, meaning 12 ounces of beer, five ounces of wine, or one and a half ounces of hard liquor. ▪ Being overweight: Weight gain is associated with a higher risk of breast cancer, especially in women who have experienced menopause. ▪ Staying active: Studies have shown that regular moderate to vigorous activity can lower breast cancer risk. The American Cancer Society recommends adults get 150 to 300 minutes of moderate activity or 75 to 150 minutes of vigorous activity a week. ▪ Using birth control: Some studies have shown that birth control methods that use hormones may increase breast cancer risk. For oral controceptives, there is slightly higher risk, but it goes back to normal within 10 years of stopping usage.

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SCREENING RECOMMENDATIONS

The most reliable way to detect breast cancer early is regular screening. The age you should begin annual mammograms depends on your risk for developing the disease—risk factors include family history, race and lifestyle factors, such as drinking, weight and not having children. Siteman Cancer Center reccomends that women receive a formal breast cancer risk assessment at age 25. IF YOUR RISK IS DETERMEINTED TO BE AVERAGE, SCREENING RECOMMENDATIONS ARE: ▪ Between ages 25-40: Have a clinical breast exam every one to three years. Also, practice “breast awareness,” meaning you are familiar with your breasts so that you can recognize any changes. ▪ Age 40 and older: Begin yearly mammograms and annual clinical breast exams. Women should continue screening as long as they are in good health and expected to live at least 10 more years. THERE ARE THREE COMMON TYPES OF IMAGING DONE TO DETECT BREAST CANCER. ▪Mammogram: This is a low dose x-ray of the breast that can detect

changes years before physical symptoms develop.

▪ Breast MRI: The process uses radio waves and strong magnets to make detailed

images of the inside of the breast. For certain high-risk patients, an annual MRI is recommended alongside a mammogram. While it can detect more cancers than a mammogram, it also is more likely to result in a false positive. ▪ Breast Ultrasound: These images are formed using sound waves and their echos. It is not typically used for routine screening, but it can be used to look at lumps that can be felt but not seen on a mammogram. Unlike a mammogram, it can differentiate between solid masses and cysts or other fluid-filled masses, which are unlikely to be cancerous. It also is useful for screening women with dense breast tissue.

BREAST C A N CE R BY T H E NU M BE R S

# In 2023, an estimated 297,790 new cases

of invasive breast cancer will be diagnosed in women. # Breast cancer is the 2nd leading cause of death in women. # An estitatmed 43,700 women will die from breast cancer in 2023. # In 2020, there were 4,913 cases of breast cancer diagnosed in women in Missouri. # The average risk of a woman in the U.S. developing breast cancer is about 1 in 8 or 13%. # The median age of breast cancer diagnosis is 62. # There are more than 4 million breast cancer survivors living in the U.S.

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Breast cancer is the second most common cancer in women. 1 in 8 women and 1 in 833 men will develop breast cancer according to American Cancer Society data.

There are many variables that come into play in the development of breast cancer. Most of us are highly motivated to prevent or diminish the risk of developing cancer and there are things we can do to reduce that risk. For example, recent studies published by the National Institute of Health show that in about 35% of all cancers there can be a nutritional influence. Reducing the intake of alcohol, certain fats, and red meat can minimize risk due to diet. Including foods high in antioxidants, adequate fiber and vitamins in your diet can also possibly reduce one’s risk of developing breast cancer. In addition to dietary changes, it has been consistently shown that regular physical activity can diminish the risk of developing cancer. The National Cancer Institute reported in a 2016 meta-analysis that the most physically active women had a 12- 21% lower risk than those who were the least physically active. The target goal is to engage in moderate aerobic activity for a minimum of 150 minutes or 75 minutes of vigorous aerobic activity weekly, in addition to strength training at least twice a week. Finally, there are medications that can be used preventatively in certain patients found to be at high risk of developing breast cancer. Unfortunately, despite our best efforts cancer still can develop. Screening for early detection and intervention is instrumental in better health outcomes. There are simple screening tools that your doctor can use to help assess if you are at higher risk of developing breast cancer. One such tool, the Tyrer-Cuzick score, takes just a few minutes and can lead to additional evaluation in a high-risk patient with the ultimate goal of early detection. It considers breast density and family history, as well as other health risk factors. It is important to talk with your doctor to come up with your individualized screening plan. Sometimes there are different imaging modalities or genetic testing that may be considered. The current recommendation is to start screening mammograms at age 40, or sooner based on your risk factors. There are new developments every day that are being used to help detect cancer early, such as Galleri. Galleri is a multi-cancer early detection blood test that screens for over fifty different types of cancer. Thus, Galleri isn’t just for women, but also for men who should also be screened based on their individual risk factors. The goal with early detection is for treatment to be initiated sooner, leading to better outcomes.

Amy Roberts, MD

If cancer is found, there are many resources and treatments that can help. We are fortunate in the Saint Louis area to have many excellent treatment centers. Having a great team and someone to advocate for your health is important for both your physical and emotional wellbeing. Knowing that you are not alone and having access to resources and someone you can talk to in your time of need is invaluable. When you next go in for your annual exam, make sure to review and update your family history, discuss your risk factors, as well as create your individual screening plan with your physician. Here at Amy Roberts MD & Associates, we are committed to provide individualized, gender-specific care plans. If we can ever be of service, please do not hesitate to contact us.

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PREVENTING SPORTS INJURY

Mercy is partnering with Microsoft to use generative A.I. and other digital technologies to give health care providers more time to care for patients. Mercy plans to use Microsoft Azure OpenAI Service for tasks like helping patients understand their lab results and taking calls to schedule appointments. It also will create a chatbot for Mercy employees to quickly find important information. “With Microsoft, we are exploring more than four dozen uses of AI and will launch multiple new AI use cases by the middle of next year to transform care and experiences for patients and co-workers,” says Joe Kelly, Mercy’s executive vice president of transformation and business development officer. “This is predictive, proactive and personalized care at its best.”

Researchers at Saint Louis University are enrolling 200 football coaches in Missouri in a clinical trial to improve their knowledge of musculoskeletal injury. The risk of significant injury is one in three for an athlete during a competitive season. Evidence suggests that neuromuscular training (NMT) warm-up programs can reduce incidence of injury by 60%. However, this training is underused by coaches. The trial will investigate the effectiveness of a web-based musculoskeletal athletic injury prevention training course. “Evidence tells us that NMT warm-up exercises are effective; now, with this study, we want to find out if online coach training can be effective in increasing coaches’ knowledge about musculoskeletal injury prevention and promoting the implementation of NMT exercises,” says Oluwatoyosi Owoeye, Ph.D., lead investigator and assistant professor of physical therapy.

PROTEINS & CANCER GROWTH Working with the Broad Institute of MIT and Harvard, Brigham Young University and other institutions around the world, Washington University School of Medicine has established the Clinical Proteomic Tumor Analysis Consortium to investigate key proteins driving cancer and how they’re regulated. Researchers analyzed around 10,000 proteins involved in 10 different types of cancer. “In our efforts to develop better cancer therapies, this new analysis of the proteins driving tumor growth is the next step after cancer genome sequencing,” says Li Ding, Ph.D., the David English Smith Distinguished Professor of Medicine at Washington University. “Through our past work sequencing the genomes of cancer cells, we identified almost 300 genes driving cancer. Now, we are studying the details of the machinery these cancer genes set in motion.”

SECOND HEART ATTACKS Taking a daily aspirin has been shown to reduce the risk of a second heart or stroke by around 25%. A study from Washington University School of Medicine has shown that fewer than half of the people worldwide who have experienced cardiovascular disease take the medication. “Survivors of heart attacks and stroke often face a high risk of having subsequent events,” says first author Sang Gune Yoo, M.D., a cardiovascular disease fellow in the Cardiovascular Division. “Aspirin offers one effective and relatively low-cost option for reducing the likelihood of additional events in individuals with established cardiovascular disease, and yet most people who could benefit from a daily aspirin don’t take it.”

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What do you enjoy about the location? The neighborhood is quiet, and everyone is very friendly. We like that the home is so close to the valley with its great restaurants and shopping. While it is out west, it’s very centrally located. It’s very convenient to get where you need to go—you can easily head downtown, and St. Charles isn’t that far away.

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Do you have a favorite room? Probably the family room on the main level. Because of the high ceilings, it has a very airy feeling. The What do you want the next homeowners to know? entire house is very open. Thanks to that and the I think it’s a very user-friendly home. It’s all brick, and the location is great. Overall, it’s just a nice house. hardwood floors, it has a very modern look.

Head west for this standout property! Situated on a one-acre lot in Chesterfield, 17282 Jeffreys Crossing Lane offers beautifully landscaped outdoor spaces combined with craftsman finishes and a modern open interior. Whether you’re looking to entertain guests or need space to grow a family, this home is the perfect place to make memories, according to the current homeowner. They gave T&S some insight into what makes the property such a wonderful opportunity.

How is the home for entertaining? It’s very good. The family room is open to the kitchen, which is great for flow. People never feel too crowded. We have a bar that’s centered in the middle

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THE HALLMARKS OF JAPANDI Japandi brings together the Scandinavian concept of “hygge” and the Japanese philosophy of “wabi-sabi.” Hygge is about finding pleasure in simple things, while wabi-sabi is centered on the beauty of imperfection. The result is warm but neutral spaces that incorporate natural items, rustic or handmade furnishings and comfortable textures. • Minimalism and uncluttered spaces • Neutral colors • Natural light • Wood and other natural materials • Functional objects over purely decorative ones

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HOW TO INTRODUCE JAPANDI IN YOUR HOME • Declutter your home. If you find you struggle to maintain a minimalist look, use containers made from natural materials to hold things while giving your space a clutter-free feeling. Folding screens can be another way to conceal excess stuff. • Choose furniture with clean, simple lines that is low to the ground. Pieces that are produced sustainably from natural material also are in line with the Japandi approach to decor. • Paint your walls an off-white color. This will not only give a starting point for your neutral color palette, but also help reflect light throughout the space.

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• Introduce color into your home through natural hues like sky blue, green and earth tones. These more muted colors add a sense of calm. PHOTOS FROM PINTEREST.COM

East meets west in Japandi design. Japanese and Scandinavian design aren’t new when it comes to interior decor, but in recent years, their complementary focus on simplicity and functionality has led to the creation of this fusion. The style is all about minimalistic, aesthetically pleasing spaces that use natural materials, clean lines, bright spaces and light, neutral colors.

• Use contrasting elements that work harmoniously together. This reflects the combination of the comfort of Scandinavian accessories with more utilitarian Japanese elements. Mix rounded with angled silhouettes, or black elements with softer neutral hues. • Bring plants and greenery into your home for a sense of outdoor living.

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AS THE ADDAMS FAMILY TAUGHT US, HORROR ISN’T JUST CREEPY; IT’S KOOKY. CENTER YOUR PARTY AROUND AN ORIGINAL, KOOKY THEME TO AVOID MAKING YOUR GUESTS SUFFER FROM TIRED HALLOWEEN TROPES.

scary christmas:

Did you ever think ceramic Santa Clauses looked more scary than jolly? Hunt for some of those at an antique mall, add some fake cobwebs to your Christmas tree, and add a witch hat on your stuffed snowman to create a Christmas/ Halloween mashup your guests won’t forget.

boos & brews:

Just about any occasion is a good excuse for a cocktail party. Serve punch from a cauldron with eerie dry ice fog. For a witchy drinking game, tie ribbon around vials to create potion bottles. Fill them with different kinds of liquor, and have your guests guess what’s inside.

lazy costume party:

As a host, you want your guests to dress up for Halloween, but there’s always someone who throws a costume together at the last minute or doesn’t try at all. Instead of fighting the five-minute Clark Kent getups, embrace them by making lazy costumes the dress code. Reward the guest who puts in the least effort with an equally lazy newspaper crown.

pumpkin patch party:

Instead of going out to a pumpkin patch, bring it to your guests. Fill your home with scarecrows, pumpkins and fall leaves. If you’re not too keen on pumpkins rotting in your house, allow your guests to take some home with them as a unique party favor.

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activities YOUR THEME HAS ENTICED YOUR GUESTS TO YOUR HOME, and your decorations enchanted them right from the front door. Now it’s time to entertain them with a night full of activities. Bring back the childhood joy of decorating pumpkins with a competitive twist. Hand each person the name of a guest. Everyone must then decorate a pumpkin to represent that guest. Then, each guest will try and find the pumpkin that was decorated for them. The glitter and Sharpie covered gourds are sure to have party-goers laughing the night away. Halloween and murder mysteries go hand in hand. Enlist the help of a local murder mystery party planner to create a crime that fits in with your party theme. For a more budget-friendly option, select from one of the many murder mystery party kits at board game stores. Use chocolate bars for a sweet take on Jenga. After the chocolate tower is up, your guests will take turns removing a bar and putting it on the top. Set up the tower on a plate or some paper towels, so the chocolate is still good to eat once the tower falls.

Unless you live in an old, creepy manor, your home needs some work to get Halloween ready. Focus on adding a few touches of spooky elegance to avoid turning your home into a craft store nightmare.

l Spider webs can make any nook or cranny a little creepier … if they don’t tear or

clump. Ditch those plastic bags of flimsy white webs for a roll of glistening web-patterned mesh or tulle to drape across mantle pieces or tables.

l A festive entranceway will get guests in the Halloween mood before they even walk through the door. For an easy DIY project, buy several plastic jack o’lantern candy buckets. Place stones in two of the buckets to form your two bases. Then, stack the buckets high on either side of your front doors, gluing them together with a strong craft adhesive. l There’s no shortage of skull glassware on the market this time of year. Besides being perfect for serving Halloween-themed cocktails, these glasses can serve as tealight candle holders throughout your home. If you use real candles, be sure to clean thoroughly before drinking from them.

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HALLOWEEN PARTIES CAN FEEL LIKE MORE OF A TRICK THAN A TREAT. Apple bobbing and spaghetti brains are more foolish than ghoulish, but scary movies and decorations can kill the fun. Finding that middle ground between juvenile and terrifying isn’t easy, but it’s key to throwing an adult Halloween party for all guests to enjoy—even the most fear intolerant.

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BLOG OF... CHOOSE THE RIGHT WALLPAPER FOR ANY SPACE Selecting the right wallpaper can transform the atmosphere and style of any room. To achieve that "just right" look, it's essential to consider the unique characteristics of a room. Let's dive into the intricacies of each space and explore how wallpaper can elevate its aesthetic appeal.

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Serene Bedroom Wallpaper

The bedroom is a sanctuary for relaxation and rejuvenation. To choose the ideal wallpaper for your bedroom, keep the following tips in mind:

▶ Create a soothing retreat: Opt for wallpaper designs that promote a sense of calmness and tranquility. Soft pastels, nature-inspired motifs or delicate patterns can help create a peaceful ambiance conducive to restful sleep.

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Elegant Dining Room Wallpaper

The dining room is a space for gathering and sharing meals, making it an ideal place to make a statement with wallpaper. Consider the following when choosing wallpaper for your dining room:

▶ Set the tone: Determine the ambiance you

want to create. Rich and textured wallpapers, ones with formal patterns like stripes, plaid, florals or chinoiserie –– even metallic finishes –– can lend an air of sophistication and elegance. Alternatively, more carefree patterns, like hand-drawn florals, small-scale geometric patterns, and colorful, playful patterns will create a more relaxed, carefree, and fun feel in a space.

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forget to consider the ceiling when choosing dining room wallpaper. A coordinated wallpaper design or a complementary color scheme can add a touch of luxury and visual interest to the space.

▶Accent wall or full coverage: Decide whether

you want to wallpaper the entire room or use your wallpaper as an accent for your design. Both options can add visual interest, but accenting your space with wallpaper coverage allows you to experiment with bolder patterns without overwhelming the space.

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The Right Living Room Wallpaper

The living room serves as a hub for relaxation, socializing and entertainment. When selecting wallpaper for this space, consider the following

▶ Define the mood: Determine the mood you want to create. Subtle and calming patterns, such as soft florals or textured neutrals, can establish a serene ambiance. Alternatively, bold and vibrant patterns, like geometric shapes or abstract designs, can infuse energy and visual interest into the room. Being intentional with where you feature patterned wallpaper in your design can add a touch of softness and sophistication without overwhelming the space.

▶ Balance with furniture: Consider the

style and color palette of your furniture. If you have bold and colorful furniture, opt for a more neutral wallpaper to maintain balance. Conversely, if your furniture is more understated, you can choose a wallpaper with patterns or textures that become the room's focal point.

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When it comes to small spaces, strategic wallpaper selection can make a significant impact. Consider the following tips for choosing wallpaper for small rooms:

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Opt for lighter shades and subtle patterns to create an illusion of spaciousness. Pale pastels, soft neutrals, or delicate stripes can visually expand the room and make it feel more open and airy. ▶ Vertical patterns: Choose wallpapers with vertical patterns or stripes to draw the eye upward, creating the perception of higher ceilings. This technique adds height and makes the space feel larger than it actually is.

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