Town & Style: 1.11.23

This is what retirement looks like

by Charles Brennan

Retirement has changed me. I’ll give you some examples.

Before I turned off my microphone at KMOX radio, I got up every morning at 5:45. Now, I regularly sleep in till 6:15.

I used to spend the early morning poring over the newspaper to stay abreast of the local issues we’d discuss on my morning radio show and then again Thursday evening on Channel 9’s Donnybrook.

Ok, I still consume a lot of news. But now, it’s because I like to stay informed. And, retired or not, I’m still Donnybrook’s resident provocateur.

As a retired person, I also sit still less than I used to. Since May, my wife Beth and I have traveled more than 20,000 miles. I’ve taken golf lessons and studied French. But retirement is not all fun and games. I rake leaves and take out the garbage more, too.

Since retiring, I’ve also led efforts to plant 10,000 daffodil bulbs in Forest Park and along the River Des Peres and to enhance a Hanley Road underpass with chalk art. Even us old guys want to make St. Louis a prettier place.

I also hike more. I log 25,000 steps several days a week. On Sunday mornings, I sometimes run up and down the steps at Cahokia Mounds 20 times or more. Why do I do it? Because I can. Also, I’m 63. Who’s going to stop me?

That reminds me of one thing that has NOT changed since my retirement: my weekly appointment at 20 Minutes to Fitness in Clayton, where I have worked out since 2006.

The half hour I spend there on Wednesday afternoons helps me build the strength and maintain the energy I need to live this glamorous retirement lifestyle.

At my side is my personal trainer Darrell Connor. He guides me through a series of exercises designed to work every major muscle group on specialized MedX equipment.

There’s no cheating with Darrell. There’s also no worry about injuring myself by performing an exercise incorrectly.

Over the years, Darrell has also become a friend. Remember those Sunday mornings at Cahokia Mounds I mentioned? Darrell runs those steps with me.

The truth is the staff at 20 Minutes to Fitness are all first-rate. Many have backgrounds in physical therapy or exercise physiology. A physical therapy assistant named Robb recently worked wonders on my sore shoulder. Others have helped me train safely while recovering from a hip replacement and a hernia.

If you’re busy, or if your strength and balance aren’t what they used to be, or you’re tired of being out of shape, I suggest you give 20 Minutes to Fitness a call. First-timers get a complimentary in-person consultation and workout. You can’t beat free.

If you’re like me, you’ll feel better and have a more positive outlook afterwards. Retired or not.

Just 20 minutes. Just once a week.

For more information on 20 Minutes to Fitness, call its local studios in Clayton (314-863-7836), Chesterfield (636-536-1504), Sarasota or Tampa, or visit 20MinutesToFitness.com.

Retired KMOX host Charles Brennan talks about his new life of leisure.

by stephanie wallace

city foundry

To celebrate the holiday season, City Foundry partnered with local artists to help others.

The Garland and Graffiti display featured six trees painted by street artists. Foundry guests could use a QR code to donate to charitable organizations like St. Patrick Center, St. Louis Diaper Bank and The Women’s Safe House.

mayflower

The St. Louis-based moving company has donated more than 1 million pounds of food to Move For Hunger, a national nonprofit dedicated to reducing food waste and fighting food insecurity.

st. louis closet co. As part of its Closets for a Cause initiative, the Maplewood company donated $3,988 to Special Spaces. The funds will go toward helping transform the bedrooms of local children and teens battling cancer.

crown center for senior living

The senior living center is working to help older adults overcome hearing loss and language barriers. Partnering with Listen Technologies Corporation, it will use ListenTALK, a portable two-way communication system, in multiple programs like presentations, group discussions and weekly movies.

FEBRUARY 10–12

Kirkwood Performing Arts Center 210 E. Monroe Avenue

Featuring: ALLEGRO BRILLANTE by George Balanchine with music by Pyotr Tchaikovsky

BY ANY OTHER NAME by Amy Seiwert with music by J.S. Bach

NEW WORK by Gen Horiuchi with original music by TOYA

PUTTING FAMILIES FIRST

NURSES FOR NEWBORNS

by stephanie wallace

BIRTHDAYS ARE IMPORTANT MILESTONES that should always be cause for celebration.

Every year, Nurses for Newborns (NFN) helps newborn babies make it to their first birthdays happy and healthy. For more than 30 years, the local nonprofit has provided in-home nurse visits, health care assistance, education and connections to resources for families during their pregnancy and after their baby’s arrival. This year, NFN is hosting an important celebration of its own: the 25th anniversary of its annual A Night for Newborns gala.

There is a critical need for NFN’s services in the St. Louis community, according to CEO Melinda Monore. “As we slowly come out of the pandemic, the demand for resources remains higher than ever,” she explains. “Plus, the nursing shortage has put further strain on health care services.” To ensure that families can receive care the nonprofit has expanded its telehealth services, and it offers a program that loans out infant medical scales, allowing families to better monitor their babies’ weight and development. “We have a strong preference for visiting the home in person, but that is not always possible,” Monroe says. “Technology has opened up a whole new avenue for connecting with families.”

The support NFN offers is multifaceted. Along with care for infants, it also provides medical and mental health support for mothers and educational programming on parenting. “The most important thing is ensuring that parents have the confidence and information necessary to care for their baby,” Monroe notes. Another critical concern the nonprofit assists with is housing—a need that has only become more crucial as housing insecurity has been exacerbated due to the pandemic, local flooding in 2022 and inflation in the rental market. “Take a situation where a baby is expected or newly born, and the urgency of housing stability outweighs every other need,” Monroe says.

Thanks to its in-home model of care, NFN nurses are among some of the first to know if a family is struggling to pay rent and utilities or facing some other challenge that could lead to them becoming unhoused. The nonprofit works with community partners to help prevent eviction, but if that is not possible, it also will work with the family so they continue receiving care if they have to move. “We make sure the baby has a safe place to sleep, formula and diapers,” Monroe says. “Without support, the baby’s growth and development may be affected and other concerns can spiral.”

NFN services would not be possible without A Night for Newborns—the nonprofit’s largest annual fundraising event. This year’s gala is April 15 at The Royal Sonesta Chase Park Plaza. Guests are invited to celebrate the gala’s silver anniversary with dinner and entertainment from the band Arvell and Company. To provide further support for NFN, there also will be live and silent auctions and a fund a need campaign. “A Night for Newborns is critically important in allowing us to serve more babies, hire top quality staff and accomplish our mission” Monroe says. “The impact on local families and the community really is linear.” &

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“I just can’t imagine any place I’d like more.”

—John Drew

KELLY FERRARA BAYNE AND FRAN BARBIERI

PHOTO: COLIN MILLER OF STRAUSS PEYTON PHOTOGRAPHY COVER STORY

OF THE TOWNS talk

by bill beggs jr.

u. city

If you snicker because squirrels and rabbits act so squirrely, you must be feeling awfully secure and smug all the way up there at the top of the food chain. Nervous, twitchy squirrels and rabbits overpopulate our U. City neighborhood in the spring, then their numbers gradually dwindle, sometimes from jaywalking, but I suspect their relative scarcity also can be blamed on predators. It can be shocking, of course, but the great circle of life tells us this is as it should be.

I witnessed an episode last fall, when I heard a commotion, turned to look and watched a hawk drag an unfortunate bushy-tailed rodent into the sky. Could’ve been a rabbit, but they’re mostly nocturnal … which brings us to the beautiful picture of a great horned owl that accompanies this item. They’re predators, too. We should be grateful—

they dine on rats and mice. When walking with our 40-pound mutt, The Dude, around dusk late last summer, we frequently heard the low, spooky, otherworldly hoot of an owl in our neighborhood, along Berick Drive between Gannon and Stanford. The dog’s ears perked up, but we never could spot the vocalist(s). So I gratefully acknowledge the photographs of these magnificent birds that a U. City neighbor forwarded to me. Dozens of people were copied on the email, which indicates how many owl-lovers in particular, and birders in general, would be intrigued. Although squirrels are amusing as they scamper from tree trunk to limb and through the branches, and rabbits may make you smile as they leap away haphazardly until sensing they’ve reached a safe distance, birds of prey remind me exactly why I’d hate to be reincarnated as a rodent.

grand center

Could your kids tell you anything about the bossa nova? Or have they ever heard, or heard of, a jazzy tune called “Desafinado”? Well, have you, either? Chances are that’s a hard no to both questions. For one thing, neither is likely to be featured on TikTok with a rendition by the latest ‘bedroom band.’ But both have their roots in Brazil, whose musical heritage listeners and musical explorers may find more about in the newest episode of the Classic 107.3 Musical Ancestries series for school kids. This episode explores Brazil’s music, instruments, dance, history and rich cultural traditions. Listeners will travel with Amanda, her Aunt Laura and cousin João as she learns to samba, tries traditional foods, tours historic areas and experiences the emotional music, unique instruments and lively dances of the South American country. Musical Ancestries is designed to create a pathway to understanding as children explore their musical and cultural heritage while developing an appreciation for others’ traditions. In addition to three radio broadcasts, teachers, students and families can delve deeper and engage through online educational resources. A user-friendly Prezi program incorporates visual images, maps, hands-on activities, audio clips and videos. Students can follow along with the broadcasts as they use the online materials or access the Musical Ancestries information anytime online. Visit classic1073.org/musical-ancestries. For what it’s worth, “Desafinado” was originally a response to critics in the 1950s and ’60s who claimed bossa nova was a genre for singers who can’t sing!

cwe

If you don’t know about Robert Fishbone the muralist, you’ve probably seen at least one of the walls he’s painted with his late wife and daughter throughout St. Louis since the 1970s. We introduced you last summer to one of the latest pieces in his vibrant, engaging oeuvre: The Big Bee. This mural graces a formerly blank brick wall next to a playground in the De Mun neighborhood of Clayton. Well, Fishbone has made a foray into building labyrinths, a deeply spiritual endeavor that’s more about mindfulness as you move from the edge toward the center. It’s peaceful and refreshing. Unlike a maze, which is created to purposely confuse you with multiple paths and dead-ends, a labyrinth has a single path that will always guide you to the center. Fishbone and members of Central Reform Congregation built one on the grounds of the CWE synagogue on Kingshighway. Pictured inside CRC is a canvas labyrinth that he takes with him to provide contemplative guidance to school groups, faith communities, business get-togethers, health and wellness centers … anywhere that could use a little peace and quiet. “My meditation teacher described it as the move from ‘OOO!’ to ‘Ahhhh,’ from excitement and surprise, to letting go and seeking serenity,” says Fishbone. He’s recently built a colorful one with help from kids at the Forsyth School in Clayton. Visit stlouislabyrinths.com.

TT trivia

LAST ISSUE’S Q & A

Part 1: In what year was the City of Chesterfield incorporated? Part 2: What in heaven’s name did gumbo have to do with it? Extra credit—What city is the county’s largest by land area? What’s the largest municipality in terms of population? Part 1: Chesterfield was incorporated as a city in 1988. Part 2: Chesterfield Valley got the nickname ‘Gumbo’ because when the ground got soaking wet out yonder, it felt underfoot like gumbo. Really. Extra credit: The county’s largest city by land area is Wildwood. (Chesterfield is No. 2.) The county’s largest municipality in terms of population is Florissant. (Chesterfield, again, is No. 2.)

IF SQUIRRELS ARE RODENTS, THEN WHAT ARE RABBITS?

BILL BEGGS JR. HAS WORN MANY HATS AT NEWSPAPERS, MAGAZINES AND IN MARKETING COMMUNICATIONS SINCE BEFORE THE ERA OF THE FLOPPY DISC. NOW HE JUST WEARS A HAT TO KEEP HIS BALD SPOT FROM GETTING SUNBURNT. YOU CAN REACH HIM AT WRTRS.BLCK@GMAIL.COM

kirkwood

This, the lead of our regular personality profile in T&S’ first issue of the New Year, is brought to you by the letter ‘K’: Kathy Schrenk of Kirkwood. She’s completed two books for active, curious people like herself—a guidebook on hiking/biking the Katy Trail and another on hiking with kids. Now, she’s released a paperback on Kirkwood. She and her family have lived in and explored Kirkwood, notably considered to be the first planned community west of the Mississippi, for the last decade. Kirkwood—A Walk through History demonstrates how wonderful strolling through it is, and walkability was at the top of the list of things Schrenk and her brood were searching for when they moved here from the San Francisco Bay Area in 2013. The book is divided into five walks through specific historic neighborhoods and areas of interest, with Schrenk’s lively prose and photos—while many were compliments of historical societies, Schrenk composed and shot many of the contemporary color pictures. Alas, when we met with her at Pioneer Café, it was clear Schrenk wasn’t going to be doing any vigorous walking in a while … her left leg was protected thigh to shin by an elaborate orthopedic brace, and she used a cane. She was recovering from knee surgery

and didn’t expect to be guiding any walks through Kirkwood anytime soon. In 2018, she and her oldest son, now a senior at KHS, were hiking in the Sierras when she damaged her meniscus, a cushion of cartilage protecting the knee. Over time it wasn’t getting any better, and she chose to undergo surgery to keep up with her inveterate backpacker family. Her husband, Nathan, is a software engineer whose job had kept the Schrenks in Silicon Valley since the late ’90s, and his move to the StL for a new opportunity meant Schrenk had to shift gears somewhat, from journalist to fulltime mom and part-time author. She’s written for the Oakland Tribune San Jose Business Journal and San Francisco Examiner, all while hiking, cycling and backpacking. These days, you may find her outdoorsy journalism in Terrain magazine, available at select bicycle shops and locations such as the Alpine Shop in Kirkwood. Upon meeting, we surmised she’d hurt her knee skiing, but active as she is, skiing isn’t in her fitness portfolio. That has something to do with growing up in Chicagoland—Buffalo Grove, specifically. “I don’t need to see snow ever again!” she exclaims. But the mountains are just fine, otherwise. “We enjoy ski areas in the summer.” Around 40-50 degrees Fahrenheit and sunny is just fine,

as it was here for many days after New Year’s, but Schrenk isn’t too fond of our summers. “It’s not the heat—it’s the humidity” isn’t a frequent complaint on the west coast, as it is here. At any rate, as her enthusiasm for the great outdoors is contagious, you, too, may enjoy meeting the gregarious outdoorswoman on a trail in the metro … Grant’s Trail, with its northern terminus in Kirkwood, is a favorite. Of course, don’t hesitate to ask about bringing the kids. Her comfort zone is broad enough to include most anybody. See for yourself: Visit kathyschrenk.com. &

Kathy Schrenk

for our furry friends

Last month, the Animal Protective Association of Missouri celebrated the opening of the St. Louis County Pet Adoption Center at 10521 Baur Blvd. in Olivette.

IT SPELLS SUCCESS!

Saint Louis University School of Education is an official 2023 Scripps National Spelling Bee regional partner, giving local students the opportunity to participate in the country’s longest-running educational competition. The St. Louis region spelling bee will be held March 25 at SLU’s Center for Global Citizenship.

PATTY

by patty hannum

THE INSIDER

SAINT LOUIS SYMPHONY ORCHESTRA

WILL BRING TWO WORLD PREMIERES TO THE STL

THIS MONTH.

On Jan. 21 and 22, music director Stéphane Denève will present the SLSO-commissioned Concerto for Orchestra by Pulitzer Prize winner Kevin Puts and the first performances of Detlev Glanert’s Weites Land (Open Land). Then on Jan. 28 and 29, the orchestra will premiere James Lee III’s Visions of Cahokia FOR TICKETS AND MORE INFORMATION, VISIT SLSO.ORG.

The United Way of Greater St. Louis finished its centennial celebration with a bang. The organization's annual campaign raised just under $67.5 million to support local nonprofits.

UNDER NEW OWNERSHIP Cinema St. Louis has acquired the Hi-Pointe Theatre. The oldest locally owned and continuously-operating arthouse theater in St. Louis, the Hi-Pointe will become the nonprofit’s new base of operations and programming.

FIVE YEARS AGO, I had one of my more interesting and fun years—even though I ended up with a torn rotator cuff. If you are a long-time reader, you might remember this was the ‘Year of Yes.’ I accepted every invitation, whether it was to try a workout class, visit a new distillery, experience an activity I hadn’t before or meet a stranger for coffee—all in an effort to burst the thick bubble I keep around myself. I had safeguards in place just in case any of you readers were nutjobs, of course. And the year was fun. So, let’s try it again. Anyone want to play?

Here’s how it works. If you have a small company—perhaps you make candles, soap, candy or jewelry—and are looking for a way to get a bigger audience, then I want to help you. But I don’t just want to write about you, I want to first learn how you do what you do! And if you know me, this means I will likely make a mess of things, which will prove why you’re in the business and

I am not. The most fun I’ve had so far was making fudge in St. Charles at Kilwins. I’m sure they would invite me back … pretty sure. And don’t worry, you don’t need a storefront, just a way for the readers to see your offerings.

Another of my favorite pastimes is showing the world how out of shape a 63-year-old can be, even with attempts to exercise. Are you the owner of an exercise studio? Got a new class that won’t turn me into a puddle of water? Let me know, and I will try it out. I often like to bring my daughter, Tess, so that while I am sucking up the oxygen, she can tell me how great the class was!

There is a laundry list of things I’ve always wanted to try and am afraid to do like ride a horse, weld and get cosmetic procedures. I want to take a long hike along the bluffs of the Mississippi River and also canoe in it. Most of the time, I can find someone to go with me, but is there anything you want to do that we could

conquer together in my Year of Yes? Oh, and just to be clear, Town&Style isn’t paying. This Year of Yes is on those of us saying yes!

So, what do you think? Have ideas you would like me to try? A business I could visit for half a day while you do what you do? All you need to do is email me. Think of me as just your old aunt poking her nose in your business—but then writing a funny column about it. I already have soap-making and floral arranging lined up, so stay tuned!

One other thing … When I meet people, they often say “I feel like I know you and would love to chat.” Well, I am the world’s biggest chatter! Would people actually show up to chat with me? I’ve been writing this column for a long time and could use some feedback. And yes, I would pay for the coffee and, mostly likely, a scone or two.

Hope to hear from you. Peace my Peeps. phannum@townandstyle.com &

STORE FRONT

A PEEK INTO THE WINDOWS OF THE ST. LOUIS RETAIL WORLD

by stephanie wallace

ethical skin care

Last November, skin and body care brand Ester & Mila opened its flagship boutique in the Central West End. It offers five skin care lines and seven body care lines designed around the idea of harmony between the human body and the world around us. All are packed locally and produced in small batches, using plant-based formulas that include ingredients like lavender, rosemary, clary sage, grapefruit, Peruvian balsam, coffee and oak moss. Along with skin and body care, the shop offers a selection of jewelry and unique crystals.

well read

Last year, Ymani Wince opened The Noir Bookshop at 2317 Cherokee St. The shop is designed to highlight the Black experience, offering new and used copies of works by BIPOC authors. It also features items created by local artisans of color. The Noir Bookshop also is designed to be a community space, offering programming that includes storytime for children, book club discussions, community panels, author signings and lectures.

ready set play

Kids at heart won’t want to miss Armory STL. Located at 3660 Market St. in the historic 138th Infantry Missouri National Guard Armory building, the entertainment venue offers more than six acres of space to play, eat, drink and discover. The main hall includes more than 20 games, such as table tennis, beer pong, four-square badminton, ladder golf, 8-player foosball, giant checkers and chess, arcade games, washers and cornhole. The attractions also include a two-story slide, an adult-sized seesaw and a photo booth.

reaching a “whole” new market

A local brand is launching nationwide at Whole Foods Markets. Woman-, Black- and veteran-owned, Gyal Bashy offers sustainably and ethically sourced clothing inspired by the Caribbean. Inclusively sized, the brand features bold and vibrant apparel and accessories created with recycled fibers made from plastic waste, organic cotton or plant-based materials.

find your glow

Skin care brand Pure Vibes opened its second location in St. Louis at City Foundry STL. Launched in 2013, the brand focuses on locally and ethically sourced products, such as body cleansers, bar soap, body butter, deodorants, body oil and facial oil. The new shop also will offer a selection of products from other brands, such as Dermalogica, Fur Skincare and Skin Script, and spa services are available for booking.

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MEET THE EXPERTS

Casey Breslin, Physical Therapist

20 MINUTES TO FITNESS

Can you really get fit with just one 20-minute

session a week?

Yes! At 20 Minutes to Fitness, our slow-cadence techniques make it possible to achieve in one weekly 20-minute session what might take three or more hours in a traditional gym.

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Andy Schenck and Lynn Schenck

ACCESSIBLE HOME HEALTH CARE OF ST. LOUIS

What differentiates Accessible Home Health Care from other home health care agencies?

No. 1 is our dedicated team members. They all have a minimum of four years of experience, and most of them are certified CNAs. The second is our ownership involvement. Andy Schenck meets with each client personally, and all clients have his cell phone number, making him available 24/7.

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Maggie Holtman, R.N., BSN, Owner

ADVANCED NURSING SERVICES OF ST. LOUIS

Will I get the same nurse or aide from the start of service?

We always strive for continuity of care for each client. We do our best to match up the right patient with the right private duty nurse aide, licensed practical nurse or registered nurse. We have served the St. Louis area with quality nursing care since 1984. We work as a team, so you will always speak to a team member.

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Courtney Christine Carr

PUR-ONE MEDISPA

What types of services do you offer as an esthetician and brow artist?

I have more than four years of experience in microblading for eyebrow shaping and enhancement and performed hundreds of procedures for the StL and surrounding community. As a licensed esthetician, I offer microneedling, microdermabrasion, hydrafacials and various chemical peels

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by dr. tim jordan

CELEBRATING DIFFERENCES

EVERY KID FEELS THEY’RE DIFFERENT from others in a negative way. Last summer, I had my campers do an exercise where they went around the circle and shared one way they felt different. I’ve performed this exercise at my weekend retreats, summer camps and my Strong Girls Strong World School Program, and it never fails to deliver valuable life lessons. Kids’ judgments tend to fall under seven categories: size, appearance, behavior, labels, family, things and abilities. Let me offer some real examples of what kids have shared— with names changed for privacy.

Size: Alexa was the first girl in her grade to start puberty, and she feels different because she is taller than every girl and boy in her class. Gymnast Ray feels fat because her muscular thighs were so much bigger than her skinny friends. Carl is insecure because he’s the shortest in his grade by far.

Appearance: David is self conscious because he‘s the only person he knows with flaming red hair. Kavita feels different because she was born with just one finger on each hand. Sam felt like an outsider being one of the only Black kids in her school.

Behavior: Kyle feels different due to having misophonia, which means he’s sensitive to noises. Kaitlyn has a hard time connecting with other girls because she’s never been a girly-girl. Anna thinks she’s the only girl her age who confides in her pet dog when she’s down. Seth feels different because he’s the only introvert in a family of loud extroverts.

Labels: Abby was recently diagnosed with ADHD, Bobby with depression and Lindsey with social anxiety, and they all feel like they are the only ones dealing with these issues.

Family: Kayla was adopted at birth and has always been a bit sensitive about it. Dylan has a brother with autism, Tess has a sister with Down’s Syndrome and Cat has an older sister who has acted out and caused stress at home. All three feel different because of their experience.

Things: Dwayne feels different because he’s the only one of his friends who does not have a phone or social media. Claire has no down time to hang out with friends due to an overscheduled life.

Ability: Roger has dyslexia, and being pulled out of classes for tutoring makes him self conscious. Dani feels different because she’s the worst athlete in her class and is always picked last for games at recess.

Sharing helps kids see that they are not the only ones dealing with self criticism. During the exercise, we help campers reframe these beliefs about themselves and embrace who they are. No matter their circumstances, they are always in charge of what they let it mean about them. I encourage parents to share stories and biographies about people who overcame obstacles and tough life challenges to create a life that was fruitful and fulfilling. These kinds of people used their differences to make a difference in the world. &

Here’s to the kids who are different

The kids with the mischievous streak; For when they have grown, as history has shown, It’s their difference that makes them unique.

—Digby Wolfe

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Around Town

1. Saint Louis Ballet

Just in time for Valentine’s Day, a weekend of performances demonstrate love and the powerful combination of music and movement. Saint Louis Ballet is pleased to perform its annual February repertory program at the beautiful new Kirkwood Performing Arts Center.

210 E. MONROE AVE. 314.534.1111

STLOUISBALLET.ORG

2. St. Louis Estate Buyers

Get paid cash for your gold, diamonds, watches, costume jewelry and more. Do not miss the Jewelry Buying Event being held from Jan. 26 through Jan. 28, 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. at West County Mall.

63 WEST COUNTY CENTER 314.691.2888

Take Note

3. Clarendale Clayton

Our high-rise, luxury senior residences place you at the center of it all, offering independent living, assisted living and memory care surrounded by elegance, superb hospitality and exceptional amenities at every turn. 7651 CLAYTON ROAD 314.789.8173

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4. Forsythia on The Park

Coming soon to Clayton! This new condo development offers a luxurious and walkable living experience with only 38 units available. Reservations begin shortly; inquire online for details.

8250 FORSYTH BLVD. 314.924.3555

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314.961.1642

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6. Life Media

Convert your home into a smart house so you can adjust your music, TV, thermostat, shades, lighting and more through your phone or tablet. 314.966.3775

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7. Nurses for Newborns

Join us as we celebrate the 25th Annual A Night for Newborns April 15 at The Chase Park Plaza in the Khorassan Ballroom. It’s for the babies!

3 SUNNEN DRIVE 314.544.3433

NURSESFORNEWBORNS.ORG

A hOLIDAY HIGH NOTE

By Julia M. Johnson

in George Eliot's 19th-century novel Middlemarch, a character observes wistfully how rich, full colors can penetrate one's consciousness as thoroughly as scent does. That scene came to mind as I took my seat at the annual Bach Society of St. Louis Christmas Candlelight Concert, held in December at Powell Hall. The performance reminded me that well crafted music embeds itself just as deeply in the senses as other forms of beauty.

On this particular evening, the orchestral tones came in shades of holiday red, green and gold, with music director and conductor A. Dennis Sparger at the podium, the Bach Society Chorus and Orchestra providing vocal and instrumental inspiration and guest soprano Sherezade Panthaki taking center stage for selected numbers. During the evening, Sparger encouraged audience members to consider the Christmas theme of "peace on earth" as applying to everyone, including those who are not fortunate enough to live in peaceful circumstances.

The program was a pleasantly textured collection of classical and popular pieces including "What Child Is This," "Do You Hear What I Hear," "O Holy Night" and Johann Sebastian Bach's own "Jesu, Joy of Man's Desiring." Other less well known selections were just as stirring, such as Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart's "Exsultate, Jubilate," William Mathias' "A Babe Is Born," Felix Mendelssohn's "Verleih Uns Frieden" (Grant Us Peace) and "Infant Holy, Infant Lowly," a Polish carol.

Music is a universal language and should be a participatory endeavor, so audience members were encouraged to stand and add their voices to two Christmas favorites, "Joy to the World" and "God Rest You Merry, Gentlemen," with spectacular effect. Guest conductor Ron Klemm and assistant conductor

Stephen Eros joined Sparger in helping the audience feel at one with the music, Panthaki's mesmerizing voice kept the house at rapt attention, and I found my gaze moving from one section of the orchestra to the next, anticipating each instrument's contributions. It wasn't a surprise to hear about Panthaki's critical acclaim, including the Los Angeles Times' praise for her "full, luxuriously toned upper range" and the Calgary Herald's appreciation of her "astonishing coloratura with radiant top notes."

Other highlights of the evening included a candlelit procession by the choir, and the palpable anticipation leading up to Panthaki's resounding high note near the end of "O Holy Night." Watching and hearing the choir members weave through the aisles during "Silence to Joy" gave the audience an unusual opportunity to experience their voices individually, and an encore of "Silent Night," sung in German, tied the bow on an inspiring evening.

One of the best things about this annual musical celebration is that it's not just for people who celebrate Christmas. It's for anyone who appreciates holiday music as a means of lifting the senses, stirring the mind, carrying on tradition and creating a sense of wonder and community.

The Candlelight Concert ranks among BBC Music Magazine's top 20 live Christmas events in North America, so it is well worth marking your calendar to reserve tickets for 2023. It's likely to be a full and festive house once again.

Upcoming Bach Society of St. Louis concerts include Handel's Messiah on March 5 at the First Presbyterian Church in Kirkwood and Bach's St. Matthew Passion on April 29 at Missouri Baptist University. To learn more about the organization, founded in 1941, visit bachsociety.org. &

ON THE TABLE

photo by bill barrett TIGER SOUP

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DUMPLINGS

If walking into Tiger Soup Dumplings gives you a sense of déjà vu, odds are it’s the mural painted on the wall demonstrating the proper technique for eating xiao long bao (AKA soup dumplings). Co-owner Yue Zhai also created wall art for her mother’s restaurant, Soup Dumplings STL, in University City. She’s now branching out with her own take on the dish. Tucked away in a shopping center in Fenton, Tiger Soup Dumplings is ready to show customers how it’s done—literally! One of the restaurant’s standout features is the large demonstration window, offering a glimpse into the dumpling making process.

must try

CUCUMBER SALAD, $3.75: Refreshing with a big flavor, this is one of two veggie sides that were on the menu during our visit. Unfortunately, those were the only vegan or vegetarian options available, so be aware if you’re dining with someone who has dietary restrictions.

SPICY WONTON NOODLE, $7.95:

This was definitely the star of the side dishes. The meat-filled wontons are delicious and pair wonderfully with the chili oil they are drenched in. It is available without noodles, but they’re great for picking up that extra chili oil. Plus, who doesn’t love noodles?

PAN FRIED SHRIMP & CHEESE SOUP DUMPLINGS, $10.99: Fans of Soup Dumplings STL will recognize most of the soup dumpling varieties on the menu, but this is the exception. The shrimp tasted great. The cheese is not too in your face, with its presence limited to the broth. Pan frying is something else unique to Tiger Soup Dumplings, and it’s awesome. The addition of the crispy edges creates a wonderful balance of textures with the dumpling and tender filling.

wash it down: To complete your dining experience, Tiger Soup Dumplings offers a variety of bubble teas and smoothies. The Strawberry Oreo Marble ($9.25) was a surprisingly refreshing smoothie option. The Oreo was used sparingly for a nice pop of sweetness that didn’t become overwhelming. Many of the beverages feature a cheese foam, which can be an acquired taste.

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For soup dumpling fans (which this reviewer admittingly is), Tiger Soup Dumplings is certainly worth the drive to Fenton. While the menu is limited, everything is fantastic. On both occasions our dining party visited, the restaurant was packed— with an equally impressive collection of dine-in and take-out customers. It’s exciting to start off 2023 celebrating the success of a local business.

PAN FRIED BEEF SOUP DUMPLING, $11.99:

I’ve always been a sucker for beef soup dumplings. They have a richness that just isn’t there with white meat and seafood. These were no exception with their wonderful umami flavor. Again, maybe it’s the novelty of the preparation, but pan fried is the way to go. That added crunch is just an all-round win.

STEAMED PORK SOUP DUMPLINGS, $8.99:

The most traditional of the items on the menu, a classic is classic for a reason. The broth is full of flavor, mostly savory with a slight sweetness on the end. It pairs beautifully with the vinegar and chili provided for dipping. Sure, I’ve been talking up the pan fried varieties, but you really can’t go wrong with the steamed either.

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OPENS CLOSES &

More than a year after closing its previous restaurant to make way for Costco, Nobu is back in University City at 6253 Delmar Blvd. on The Loop. The new location is focused on chef-created multicourse omakase meals centered on sushi and sashimi … Brew Tulum Specialty Coffee Experience is bringing traditional Mexican practices to the StL at 5090 Delmar Blvd. In addition to specialty roasted coffee, the cafe serves a traditional Mexican breakfast menu. … Matt McGuire’s second restaurant, Wright’s Tavern, is now open in the former home of I Fratellini at 7624 Wydown Blvd. in Clayton.

My Marie is serving up Haitian cuisine at 3147 Cherokee St. The menu was created to reflect owner Marie Louis Jeune ‘s Haitian roots, with items like fried pork griot and stewed goat and oxtail.

QUICKBITES

by stephanie wallace

GOOD BREWS

In November, Blueprint Coffee launched its inaugural giveback blend Tektōn. For every pound sold, $1 will be donated to a local nonprofit organization chosen quarterly. The first is LifeWise StL, which helps individuals and families achieve economic well-being.

SWEET SUCCESS

Bijoux Handcrafted Chocolates opened a second shop in Webster Groves at 7930 Big Bend Blvd., Ste. A. The new location will allow chocolatier Meggie Mobely to expand her offerings with more than three times the space of the original Des Peres location, which will remain open. … If your sweet tooth still isn’t satisfied, Clementine’s Naughty & Nice Creamery plans to open its seventh location this spring in the Central West End at 308 N. Euclid Ave.

UNDER NEW OWNERSHIP

Months after being put up for sale, Kohn’s Kosher Meat & Deli Restaurant in Creve Coeur has found new ownership. The iconic restaurant was originally opened in 1963 by Simon and Bobbi Kohn, and most recently, it was operated by their children Lenny and Rosemary. Now, day-to-day operations will be handled by A.J. Moll, who also will be a minority partner in the new ownership group. … Benton Park Cafe is reopening its doors after closing in April. Co-owners Gavin Haslett and Elicia Eskew plan to stick with its original concept and a streamlined menu.

FEEDING

GOOD 〉〉

Tacos 4 Life in O’Fallon, Missouri, is celebrating donating enough money to provide 500,000 meals to those in need since it opened in November 2021. For every taco, salad, quesadilla, rice bowl or nachos sold at the location, 24 cents is donated to Feed My Starving Children. &

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Choose a livable goal. You know your own limits better than anyone. If exercising every day or cutting out alcohol isn’t going to work for you, don’t make it your resolution. To be successful, your goal has to be sustainable. Choose something that can translate into a long term behavior. For example, fad diets are not great choices in the long run, but focusing on something like not eating after a certain time can easily become part of your daily routine.

Don’t try to do too much. You may have started off the year with big plans like losing weight, volunteering more, eating your vegetables, reducing your screen time and spending more time with family. According to experts, that’s too much for a New Year’s resolution. Instead, pick one or two specific goals. This sets you up for success rather than feeling like a failure when you can’t do everything.

Know your challenges.

If there weren’t obstacles to success, it wouldn’t really be a resolution. Knowing what might get in your way can help you be more successful. Challenges might be physical like finding time for a new behavior or emotional, such as fear if you’ve resolved to try something new. Proper planning will prepare you to overcome whatever may stand in your way. For example, if you want to quit smoking, research possible setbacks and how long it usually takes to kick the habit.

Keep a record.

Keep track of your progress. You can journal or use an app to follow your fitness or food-based resolutions. On days when you’re struggling, it can be motivating to look back over how you’ve done. It also can provide you a helpful reminder to keep going. It can be easy to set a goal and then forget about it as life gets busy.

2023 is here, and for many of us, that means New Year’s resolutions. As we reach the midway point of January, potential setbacks to success have probably already started rearing their head. It’s important to remember that making any change is a process. It will take time to adapt to new habits, but in the meantime, these tips will help you stick with it. Even if you didn’t make any resolutions as the clock wound down on Dec. 31, it’s never too late to set some goals for self improvement.

Focus on starting new behaviors.

Research has shown that it is much easier to start a new behavior than eliminate an old habit. If you’re spending too much time mindlessly scrolling on social media, make a goal to take a daily walk, read more or start a new hobby. If you want to eat healthier, don’t make your goal to eliminate something like sugar or processed food from your diet. Instead, aim to increase your daily intake of fruits and vegetables.

Get support.

According to experts, social support is one of the top predictors to keeping a resolution. A goal set as a group may be more likely to succeed since you’re accountable to someone else. Find a friend who is willing to work out with you, or as family, choose to set aside time every week for a board game night without phones. You also can find support from a professional like a health coach to help keep you on track and motivated.

BE SPECIFIC BUT ALSO FLEXIBLE.

If you resolve to be a better person, what does that mean? Set firm, realistic goals to achieve. If moral improvement is what you’re looking for, commit to volunteering once a week. If you want to exercise more, set specific days and times to work out. However, also give yourself some wiggle room. If weekly volunteering is conflicting with other commitments, scale it back to once or twice a month. If you’re forgiving and flexible, it will mean less disappointment and frustration down the line.

pick a new resolution

Do you set a goal to diet every year, but February always finds you reaching for the junk food again? Mix it up by modifying your usual goal or choosing something different. This helps you avoid falling into the same pitfalls that tripped you up in the past, increasing your chances at success. If healthy eating is what you want, instead of completely revamping your diet, aim to

Veiled Prophet Ball 2022

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was a magical evening where Miss Grace Piccione Nix, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Richard L. Nix Jr., was crowned Queen of Love & Beauty.

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The Veiled Prophet organization is committed to making St. Louis a better place to live for all. For more than 140 years, the Veiled Prophet continues to partner with like-minded community service organizations to serve our region each year through:

• Providing thousands of hours of service to the St. Louis community

• Staffing hundreds volunteer positions at local charities partners and organizations

• Helping to fund and staff Mission St Louis’ Affordable Christmas events

• Saving local charter schools thousands of dollars by providing volunteers to clean, organize, paint, and create sustainable gardens

• Funding school supplies and backpacks for the Beyond Housing Back to School event at Normandy High School

The Veiled Prophet is honored to support the St. Louis region through its tireless service, both large and small.

Making St. Louis a Better Place to Live for All

COVER STORY

veiled prophet organization

by julia m. johnson

Challenging times bring out the best in people, and nowhere is that more evident than in St. Louis, where philanthropy and service are as integral to the region’s identity as the Mississippi River or Gateway Arch. At the center of the city’s helping heart are the Veiled Prophet Foundation and its Community Service Initiative, which offer members and their loved ones a wealth of opportunities to make St. Louis a better place to live.

Every year, members and maids who walk in the annual VP Ball complete service projects, and that focus is expanding to get their family members involved as well. That’s how the organization helps to ensure the tradition of volunteerism stays alive in St. Louis, says Tim George, who is in his third year as chairperson of the VP Ball. Each season, families roll up their sleeves and complete projects for a variety of area nonprofits, from food collection to campus improvements and park beautification efforts. “We do 35 to 40 projects a year, including working with Habitat for Humanity, gardening for nonprofit organizations and improving playgrounds for schools in the area,” George says. “We love getting whole families involved and putting as many hands to work for our city as possible. Our members and their loved ones want to build community here, and this is an ideal way to do it.”

By the time the young women hit the VP Ball runway in their stunning gowns, they’ve made an equally striking contribution to the people of St. Louis, who can see the effects of their efforts all over town. “Six years ago when my daughter was part of the program, we worked on a downtown park project together, and every time we drive past, it’s a great reminder of the importance of giving back,” George says. “We can proudly say we did that for the community.”

The VP Ball, held in December, is a time to celebrate all of the people who have worked on the Community Service Initiative, Fair St. Louis, the VP Parade and other programs, and it’s also a chance to make each member feel appreciated for their work, George says—a tradition that grows richer with time. “Like many other members, I joined the VP in my 20s, worked on various projects over the years, then enjoyed the satisfaction of seeing my own daughter walk 23 years later,” he says. “It’s so rewarding to be in the audience, get recognized for your efforts and watch everything you’ve contributed over the years come full circle.”

George says another reason the program endures is that it encourages networking just as much as family bonding and community building. “The VP organization is made up of St. Louis leaders and businesspeople who have been here a long time, as well as newer members,” he says. “People just moving to town can take advantage of opportunities to engage and meet long-established locals, and that helps them gain an understanding of what St. Louis is all about so they can help it grow too. Getting involved with the organization is a great way to gain a wider social and community perspective.” Members are encouraged to suggest nonprofits the VP might work with in the future, and their ideas are considered carefully to see if a partnership is possible. “We enjoy figuring out how to best address areas of need in St. Louis,” George says.

He adds that it’s no coincidence the St. Louis VP Ball ranks among the top such events in the world. “People from all over know this is a city that understands how to put on a very special formal event, and I think that shows very well for St. Louis,” he says. “This is a place where people truly want to be of service, and we enjoy getting the chance to celebrate it.”

the court

The Queen’s Supper, held Dec. 22 at the Hyatt Regency St. Louis at The Arch, was a joyful occasion for the friends and families of the young women of the Court of Love and Beauty.

In this, the 137 th Veiled Prophet Ball, Miss Grace Piccione Nix was named the Queen of Love and Beauty. She succeeds retiring queen Brooke Lambert Behan.

Queen of Love & Beauty

MISS GRACE PICCIONE NIX

Richard L. Nix Jr.

VP SECTION COMPILED BY STEPHANIE WALLACE

PHOTOS COURTESY OF THE VEILED PROPHET ORGANIZATION

TIM GEORGE

PHOTO COURTESY OF THE VEILED PROPHET ORGANIZATION

/ 3rd Special Maid

MISS MARY MARGARET GUERTIN CHRISTOPHER

Laurence G. Christopher

MISS SARAH CATHERINE REED

Winthrop B. Reed III

MISS SPENCER MEREDITH HERRON

Craig M. Herron

/ 4th Special Maid

MISS ELEANOR JOAN STEVENS

Gregory T. Stevens

the maids

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MISS GRACE MARGARET VOGEL, C. BAXTER SOUTHERN III

MISS HADLEY ANN JONES, TIMOTHY A. BOYLE

MISS CAROLINE COURTNEY CARR JOHN H. PHILLIPS

MISS LAUREN NICOLE CEDERGREEN, CHRISTOPHER B. HIBBARD

MISS ADDISON PAIGE BRENNAN, WILLIAM J. BRENNAN JR.

MISS AMANDA LYNN ROTH, THOMAS F. SCHLAFLY

MISS TAYLOR KATHARINE JOHNSON, ANDREW T. BRYAN

MISS ALLISON WRIGHT JOHNSTON, EVAN T. GATCH

MISS NELL HAMILTON MELTON, JOHN J. KANG

MISS OLIVIA RING FUSZ, PAUL D. FUSZ

MISS VIRGINIA MARION HOWELL, BENJAMIN F. EDWARDS

MISS ELIZABETH ANNE WEBER, DAVID V. BOUDINET

MISS BREE CARLEN BAKER, MICHAEL REYNOSO

MISS SALLY WHITING ARNESON, JEFFREY J. ROSS

MISS PAIGE ELIZABETH DAWS GREGOR D. YUSKA

MISS CHARLOTTE CATHERINE KOLMAN, J. MICHAEL WEHRLE

MISS LINDSEY KATHRYN LAWRENCE, TREVOR D. REESE JR.

MISS ISABELLA MARIE FRANCOIS, WILLIAM J. GUECK

MISS MARIAN MARIE FONSECA, PHILIP A. FONSECA

MISS KATHERINE ELIZABETH KOSTECKI, ROBERT J. TOMASO

MISS ELLISSA CLAIRE KREKELER, CHARLES H. KRAUSE

MISS MOLLY CATHERINE MCLAUGHLIN, TUCKER RUWITCH

MISS RILEY RORY OLIVER

DONALD J. DIEMER

MISS LAUREN ELISE ADAM, RICHARD B. HALL

MISS CATHERINE ANNE CHERRICK, CHARLES DAVID MINIFIE

MISS HOPE ALIYA POHLMAN, KIP J. BILDERBACK

MISS GARRETT GILPIN GOLTERMANN, JOHN ENGLER

MISS ELIZABETH HAMILTON GEORGE, BRYAN M. SWIFT

MISS CAROLINE DOROTHY LATTA, MICHAEL D. LATTA JR.

MISS ELIZABETH ROSE LAWLOR, MICHAEL G. LAWLOR

MISS CLAUDIA MARGARET LATTA, GEORGE C. BITTING JR.

MISS CLAIRE MICHELLE MUCKERMAN, ANDREW R. SPANN

MISS CHLOE VICTORIA BURNHAM, KENT E. PISKULICH

MISS AVA CLAIRE CELLA, STEVEN G. CARANI

MISS PAIGE NOEL SCHNEIDER EDGARDO L. MAYUGA

MISS KATHRYN ADRIENNE SANDS, ANDRES A. BONIFACIO JR.

MISS LAUREN MARGARET SCHROEDER, DOUGLAS H. MURDOCH

MISS VICTORIA NOEL WOOLBRIGHT, BRYAN CERNICEK

MISS EDEN MARY TYNES, KEVIN D. SULLIVAN

MISS ELIZABETH DEBARY WILKINSON, L. CARTAN SUMNER JR.

MISS SARAH ELIZABETH THAMAN, DANIEL J. GOULD

MISS KATHERINE JUNE PITTENGER, ROBERT L. GRAVES

MISS ABIGAIL MARGARET MAULL, LOUIS T. MAULL IV

STRONGER

TOGETHER

mission : st . louis

by stephanie wallace

One in five people in St. Louis lives in poverty. Statistics like this may be shocking and upsetting, but it’s important to understand the impact it has on our entire community. Mission: St. Louis is dedicated to working with people to remove barriers to success and self sufficiency. As a community hub, its multigenerational approach empowers individuals and families for social and economic growth by offering support in areas like education and employment. The end goal is a stronger St. Louis that is a better home for all of us.

“At our core, we are looking to address systemic poverty through education, workforce development and housing," explains Josh Wilson, Mission: St. Louis president and executive director. “We are focused on maintaining dignity and building relationships. Our goal is to act as a bridge between local talent and opportunity.” Along with employment services, the organization works with schools to ensure children can be set on the path to success, organizes projects so underserved neighborhoods can grow and flourish and provides housing assistance through the Healthy Home Repair Program in partnership with the City of St. Louis.

Without the support of community partners, Mission: St. Louis’ work would not be possible. Wilson explains that the nonprofit’s North St. Louis campus acts as a hub of resources. “We work with Enterprise Bank and Trust to provide easier access to capital, and the Saint Louis University School of Law has a legal clinic,” he says. “It’s a really cool system that helps remove barriers to long term employment.”

The organization also is part of the Neighborhood Healing Network, an initiative designed to help individuals and communities impacted by violent crime or other trauma.

For around five years, one of Mission: St. Louis’ community partners has been The Veiled Prophet Organization. “They reached out and wanted to get involved in our work because they have a similar dedication to investing in St. Louis,” Wilson notes. Through the VP’s Community Service Initiative, members and their families, including the young women who walk in the annual VP Ball, started volunteering with the nonprofit on projects. Initiatives include working in community gardens and at schools Mission: St. Louis partners with.

One of the projects that VP members and their families are involved in annually is Mission: St. Louis’ affordable Christmas program. The initiative allows families to shop for donated toys and other items at a reduced price. For example, Wilson notes that a brand new bike can be purchased for only $4. “It’s

like the biggest Black Friday sale you could imagine,” he says. “We wanted to do something that allows families to celebrate with dignity. It’s still the parents who are paying for the items, so they get to be the heroes.” For the 2022 store, more than 500 families came to shop. VP volunteers help by securing items, raising funds and donating their time working at the store the day of the event.

Wilson is grateful for the support the VP has offered Mission: St. Louis. He notes the nonprofit is excited for what the partnership will continue to do for the community in the future.

“We share a passion for improving St. Louis for everyone,” he says. “The VP brings knowledge and resources that help us reach people—whether it’s through business connections or mentoring. The members have done a great job of donating not just their money and time, but also using their talent to invest in the community.”

MISSION: ST. LOUIS PRESIDENT AND EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR JOSH WILSON PHOTOS COURTESY OF THE VEILED PROPHET FOUNDATION

ladies of honor

MRS. JOHN FRANCIS KENNEDY JR. KEVIN A. MAHER JR.

MRS. MATTHEW R. SCHUMACHER JAMES BENNETT TERRILL

MRS. EVAN TRIPP GATCH STEVEN R. TSCHUDY

MRS. PAUL J. CAMBRIDGE KEN BOWER

MRS. CHRISTOPHER J. CARROLL MICHAEL C. MOREY

MRS. CHRISTOPHER B. DANFORTH JACK L. OLIVER III

MRS. JAMES LEE JOHNSON III JAMES F. MAUZE JR.

MRS. CHRISTOPHER BARNES HIBBARD DAVID G. PLUFKA

MRS. CRAIG R. CAMPBELL ROBERT J. MINKLER JR.

MRS. MARK BRINLEY LEWIS PAUL LOCHNER

MRS. EDGARDO L. MAYUGA RICHARD J. CHRISMER

WOMEN

OF NOTE

former queens

photos courtesy of the veiled prophet organization

BROOKE LAMBERT BEHAN PARKER B. CONDIE JR.. 2021

MRS. ELEANOR HAWES BRENNAN RICHARD B. HAWES JR. 1980

MISS CORINNE MARIE CONDIE RICHARD L. NIX III 2017

MISS JULIE ANNE STUPP JOHN P. STUPP JR. 2005

MRS. ELEANOR BRENNAN HUGHES JACK S. CIAPCIAK 2011

MRS. DAVID F. SABINO KISHEN M. MAHENDRA

MRS. TALBOT MCCARTHY PAYNE DANIEL F. ORTHWEIN 1981

MRS. JOSEPHINE MARIE CONDIE FINNEY WILLIAM H. REISNER 1998

MRS. ETHAN SILVERMAN REID M. CRANMER

MRS. MAT MADISON TURNER CHRISTOPHER W. HANAWAY

MRS. GRANT LEE WEBER MARK B. LEWIS

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JENNIFER ROBIN INTERIORS’ SUGAR BOWL PROJECT

1. KITCHEN ▶ Natural white oak cabinetry and marble countertops create the perfect pairing of modern and organic influences.

Matte black accents, solid wood floating shelves and modern light fixtures add a contemporary charm and elegance, while the large granite kitchen island and custom marble trough sink serve as a stunning reflection of the home’s snowy surroundings.

2. DINING ROOM ▶ A gorgeous outdoor view isn’t the only beautiful thing in this refined dining area. The large reclaimed wood dining table, rustic built-in banquette and leather dining chairs create this inviting, layered space, perfectly designed for sharing a warm meal with loved ones.

3. GREAT ROOM ▶ Amidst an array of soft blues, grays and whites, you’ll find cozy

textures and upholstery complemented by thick timber beams, a reclaimed wood-paneled ceiling and cool metal accents. A grand stone fireplace and large windows add warmth and light, while the Scandinavian influence creates a rustic feel.

4. READING NOOK ▶ A favorite feature in this winter retreat, this cozy reading nook is tucked away at the bottom of the stairs. Filled with blue tones, plush pillows and a soft throw, this inviting space serves as the perfect place to snuggle up with a book.

5. STAIRCASE ▶ A dark, angular firewood cubby adds a bespoke touch to this simple yet stunning set of stairs. The contemporary metal railing contrasts beautifully with the rustic timber beams above, setting the tone for a harmonious transition between

the more traditional main floor and the Scandinavian modern-inspired upstairs.

6. PRIMARY SUITE ▶ Featuring an additional office space, this primary suite carefully fuses rustic and Scandinavian influences. The curved built-in desk and floating shelves add texture and personality, while a custom, dark wood headboard, sleek light fixtures and a set of whimsical, plaid upholstered accent chairs add a modern softness to this versatile retreat.

7. PRIMARY BATH ▶ A mix of wood tone hues are at the forefront of this beautiful primary bath, while the rustic timber beams, light marble and clean lines contained in the space extend the elegant, cohesive feel found in the rest of the home.

8. THE MEDIA ROOM▶This warm and cozy media room is the quintessential gathering area. Reclaimed wood spans wall to ceiling, while a large custom sectional fills the space. Added accents like the antique light fixtures and a custom white oak game table make the room a cozy area for coming together away from the outdoor elements.

9. SECONDARY BEDROOM ▶ Referred to as the “Queen Cave,” this intimate secondary bedroom features walls wrapped in a uniquely stained wood wall with built-in shelving and bedding in an array of blues and whites that mirror the peaceful, snow-covered window view. &

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ARCHITECTURE: MARK BECKER

CONSTRUCTION: MT. LINCOLN CONSTRUCTION

PHOTOS: PAUL DYER

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PLAY WITH PATTERNS .

New Year’s resolutions are all about challenging yourself, so don’t be afraid to go big and bold. Bring depth and personality to your home by layering patterns. You can bring in varying designs and textures through the floors, walls, upholstery, window coverings and accessories—or any combination of those elements. Pillows and throws are a great place for starting small, or you can go big and experiment with a space like a powder room or bath. The small area ensures any patterns will pack a punch.

RESOLUTIONS

FOR 2023

by stephanie wallace

Making a positive change in the new year doesn’t have to be limited to eating right or hitting the gym more. Why not also focus on your home? Organizing and refreshing your space can breathe new life into it. Here are some design resolutions that can help you make the most of your home in 2023.

EXPERIMENT WITH COLOR.

Color is an easy way to make a bold change to any space. For a big but simple difference consider changing up your wall color. New hues also can be brought in through smaller decor items like pillows, blankets and paintings. If you’re willing to make a bigger commitment, larger furniture can be used to add a pop of interest. Don’t know where to start?

Pantone selected Vivid Magenta as its color of the year. If that’s not your style, other experts have chosen moss green, red-orange, blush and deep teal.

STYLE THOSE SHELVES.

Whether you’re working with built-ins, a bookcase or free floating shelves, you can elevate any space with some simple shelf styling. Plus, this is a design element you can easily refresh throughout the year. Just rearrange items or bring in new ones. To make a space more meaningful, choose to display items with a personal connection—don’t just clutter your shelves with trinkets. Balance your accent features with books. You likely already have ones you love at home, and displaying them will offer guests a glimpse into your hobbies and interests. Whatever you’re displaying, create interest by varying arrangements and spreading out color.

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GO ECO-FRIENDLY.

Sustainability is a trend everyone can get behind. When picking furniture, textiles and flooring, go with renewable materials like wool, cotton, bamboo, linoleum and cork. You also can resolve to be greener by making a few simple changes. Opt for LED bulbs and low-flow shower heads, switch off lights when you leave a room, and turn off your air conditioner when you leave the house. In the garden, create a bin for composting, and plant drought-tolerant landscaping so you’ll have to water it less. You can even set up a clothesline to give your dryer a rest. Using something like a trellis can make it a design feature rather than an eyesore.

GET ORGANIZED.

Keeping your home tidy may not seem like the most exciting of resolutions, but it doesn’t have to be without style. Taking the chance to revamp an entryway, mudroom or laundry room can help your family stay organized while adding a striking design element. Keep dirty shoes at the door by pairing a chair with a shoe cabinet in the entry, or create a designated spot for backpacks and school supplies with a bench and baskets. At the back door, a stylish floor-to-ceiling storage unit can keep sports equipment, outerwear, pet supplies and other odds and ends out of sight.

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SAINT LOUIS, MISSOURI

PICTURE THIS…

ECLECTIC GRANNY STYLE

by lauren rechan

PINTEREST OFFERS YEAR END TREND REPORTS based on which search terms are skyrocketing. In 2022, “eclectic interior design vintage” jumped by 850%! The interior trend, sometimes referred to as eclectic granny style in online circles, makes perfect sense given the popularity of reusing items versus purchasing new—think vintage clothing, upcycled furniture, estate sale buys. Pulling these items together with modern elements and vintage antiques creates a very distinctive yet homey vibe that is all the rage. Look for layered patterns and color galore!

For those of you that want a more traditional version of the style, try patterned wallpaper, heavy velvet curtains with curved valance and chinoiserie accents.

Look for stained glass to be reused in this new interior style.

One thing we all remember from grandma’s house is the chachkies—or maybe it’s tchotchkes!

Buying vintage pieces is a key component of this new trend, and pulling them together artfully can be tricky.

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The style can be described as a controlled mess: layers of different patterns, art of all sizes, books strewn on bookshelves as if

Look for old school floral and heavily patterned wallpaper to appear more and more on the pages of interior magazines.

The play with pattern in eclectic granny

A wall of mixed art in various shapes and sizes is a common element of this trend.

Check out estate sales for unique finds.

Rugs and textiles are juxtaposed with one another in an artful and playful manner.

Recognize grandma’s kitchen table and chairs?

Crocheted quilts in the bedroom? Look for these to make a comeback!

eclectic granny style, yet it still combines vintage elements.

artful mix of color, vintage elements and eclectic wallpaper exemplifies the trend.