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Camp Encourage By Beth Lipoff
When your child is on the autism spectrum, it can be hard to find activities for them where you know theyâll be comfortable and understood. For the last 15 years, Camp Encourage has been trying to fill that space. Located at the Tall Oaks Conference Center in Linwood, Kansas, the camp has four sessionsâone in the spring and fall
Overall, Camp Encourage isnât so different from your average sleep-away, but there are a few key modifications. Activities include the traditional lineup: zip-lining, swimming, arts and crafts, and more. But multiple things are always going on at once, so kids can easily opt out of something that makes them uncomfortable and select a more favorable activity.
âThey donât have to hide anything; they can be as quirky as they want, and everybody loves them.â and two in the summertime. Camp is open to children ages 8-18 anywhere on the spectrum as long as they donât require one-onone support. âWhen we first founded Camp Encourage, we found there were lots of other camps serving those with more severe needs,â says Aimee Gorrow, the campâs program coordinator. âThere wasnât really a space for those who couldnât find a home at the more restrictive camps, but they werenât quite ready to attend a completely traditional camp with no support.â
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In addition to visual schedules and activity choices, there are peer models on-siteâkids who donât have autism but participate like regular campers. They use their strong social skills to help the other kids learn to form better relationships and friendships. âNobody really knows who is the peer model and who is not, except counselors,â Gorrow says. Most of the volunteer counselors have backgrounds in special education, occupational therapy, or speech and language pathology. They must go through significant training to volunteer at the camp. Camp Encourage also puts a premium on social-emotional learning and boosting self-esteem. Thatâs made a big difference for Parkville residents Brian Henke and Gabe York in sending their 9-year-old daughter, Kennedy, to the camp. âTheyâre patient with her and communicate with her, and they get her to a point where sheâs rock climbing, which is something she would never normally do,â York says. âThe confidence it gives her, itâs really pleasing to see as a parent.â Itâs not easy to find a way to make that happen for kids like Kennedy. âI think the challenge with Kennedy is she has some social inhibitions or inabilities to form friendships,â says York. âSheâs silly. Some of the things she does are maybe not age-appropriate. Itâs been difficult in the past for her to partake in some things, even just going to friendsâ birthday parties at schoolâshe tends to be the odd man out.
Nine-year-old Kennedy York (in pink) participates in activities at Camp Encourage. Photos courtesy of Camp Encourage
She is sometimes left on fringes of whatever activity it is, and at Camp Encourage, sheâs dead in the middle of everything.â Things Kennedy has experienced at camp have crossed over to her daily life as well. âKaraoke is something that she did at camp. It was really kind of shocking to see the video and photos of her just being that confident in a room full of people, picking up a microphone and singing a song,â Henke says. Although the summer camp is for the kids, itâs actually helping the whole family. âWhen you receive a diagnosis of any sort, especially when itâs with your kid, you lose hope. You have these dreams for children and what they can do and what the world has to offer, and that really plummets,â Henke says. âSomething like Camp Encourage comes along, and it reenergizes that hope for parents, for the siblings, and for the kids with autism. Camp Encourage is just one of many organizations that help restore a little bit of normalcy and provide a glimpse into a world where your kid is accepted for who she is.â Henke and York are very involved with
Camp Encourage, and Henke is actually president of its board of directors this year. They want to make sure everyone can have an experience like Kennedy has. Theyâre not the only parents to feel that way. âWe have received email after email saying, âThank you for giving my son or daughter a place where they can come and unapologetically be themselves, where theyâre accepted for who they are, where they are, no matter what,ââ Gorrow says. âThey donât have to hide anything; they can be as quirky as they want, and everybody loves them.â Camp Encourage has space for about 250 campers a year across their four sessions. Spots are in such high demand that they take campers on a lottery system. A scholarship fund provides about $60,000 annually to allow kids whose families canât afford the camp to attend. Applications to attend the summer session closed in February, but the camp is still looking for volunteer counselors. For more information, visit campencourage.org/volunteer