a woman's work the list of all the props and decorations that have to be taken to the venue, make sure all the external details are in place, so AV systems I may have ordered, makeup artists and hairdressers have made it to the bride on time, checking the bows have made it to the wedding car. So there’s list after list to make sure everything is in place after months and sometimes years of planning.
movie and then the most bizarre stories too.
I had the sweetest bride turn out to be a bigamist, a man once asked me to break the news to his bride that the wedding was off, because he didn’t have the guts to tell her himself – which I obviously did not do, and I even had an 80-year-old groom who had been married I actually 12 previous times – the wedding love working I organised for him was lucky with my number 13!
I’m in the background for the first part of the day, until the wedding clients – starts in the afternoon - it’s then especially I had high school sweet hearts that I change from the organiser, from the US find each other denow that to the planner. I’ll change my cades later and get married right clothes, put my heels on and I’ve totally here in Gibraltar with me. make sure I look decent, then turned I’ll be at the wedding, receiving into a total Their stories are really importguests, allocating seats, ensuring bridezilla ant to me, and it’s beautiful to everything goes to plan and folmyself! create something you imagined, lows the itinerary we set, right up presented to the bride and until the first dance. Only then is groom, and it becoming a reality – which is my work done, and the party really begins - with Gibraltarian weddings that can often the biggest gift of all, it’s like an art for me really. mean my day finishes at midnight. Monica Coumbe I chose this career because… I wasn’t inspired to start the business actually, I was thinking of focusing more on event planning. For me weddings were a no-go area, only because my father died four days before my own. But a few friends really insisted that I should become a wedding planner instead, and it almost happened by chance, not by choice and I was roped into it slowly. Obviously I enjoy it thoroughly, because I’ve been doing it for the last 10 years.
She’s showcased her work to an audience of two million viewers, organised the Chief Minister’s wedding and in the last year organised over 100 weddings.
I didn’t even know what planning a wedding entailed, I had done events but I thought weddings meant I was going to have to be too close to bridezillas and that would do my head in, but I actually love working with my clients – especially now that I’ve totally turned into a total bridezilla myself! A typical day looks like…
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You feel like you’re on call 24/7, and that can be tough. Sometimes the most challenging part of the job is having to meet demands outside of working hours, as you have to be on it almost all of the time because you’re helping your client create their vision and acting as their problem solver. But 3:00am requests in some cases can feel a bit much.
My first destination wedding, which took play in the Canary Islands. I was thrown completely out of my comfort zone, I had to coordinate about 250 guests coming from all over the world and there were 16 events over the course of a few days – and I had to organise it all in three months. It was the most stressful wedding I’ve With ever been a part of, but Gibraltarian the results were fantasweddings tic, so it all worked out that can in the end.
often mean my day finishes at midnight.
Another highlight was being featured in Channel 5’s Gibraltar: Britain in the Sun. The programme changed everything for me really, it had 2 million viewers, I was even recognised by someone while on holiday in the Caribbean.
The wedding I organised for him was lucky number 13!
On the morning of a big wedding I wake up at 6:30am and the first thing I do is check my mail and messages to make sure there aren’t any last minute hiccups or requests that have come through overnight. I get up go to my office on Governor’s Street, have my first coffee, and then check the rota to see who’s helping to set up that day. I double check
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Seeing a vision come together, and learning about the stories from the couples I work with. Interesting stories about how people meet from all over the world, how they end up in that chair, organising their special day with me in Gibraltar. I’ve had epic love stories straight out of a
If I could be anything else, I would be… I always wanted to do a bit of everything as a child, I never saw a clear vision of what I wanted to do but I always loved being creative, so really this is what my job is. It gives me a balance between being creative and doing all the logistics behind it.
But I always wanted to be a flamenco dancer; I still have the urge to learn how to dance like a sevillana. The advice I’d give to anyone wanting to go into this business… I think you need a flair for piecing together a vision, so having a creative side is key. You also need a lot of patience; you need to be customer friendly and above all very organised. Having a great team behind you is another important factor, because most of what I do would be impossible to execute alone. GIBRALTAR MAGAZINE FEBRUARY 2018