September 2013

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On page 36, you will meet six women who are all different, but they are all fighting the same battle — ovarian cancer. September is National Ovarian Cancer Awareness month and so Syracuse Woman Magazine wanted to shine light on the fifth leading cause of cancer-related deaths in women.

Their strength will inspire you, and their hope will encourage you to keep looking forward, no matter what.

“Create your own style…let it be unique for yourself and yet identifiable for others.” — Anna Wintour The fashion scene in Syracuse could not be more exciting than it is right now, and we’re ready for every event that’s happening this month!

This year, we are proud to share that we are the exclusive women’s magazine for Syracuse Style. The fashion show highlights local designers and boutiques of the salt City. Plus, the runway lines Armory Square’s Walton Street and brings guests to the streets of Syracuse for a night of fashion. We’re honored to have the show’s producer, Lisa Butler, as our fashion edition cover woman. Her down-to-earth personality and flare for fashion come alive in this month’s cover spread on page 26.

Our cover truly features local talent in the fashion industry. Our cover woman’s fashion designs are featured on our two guest models, Kyle Robertson and Karla Riley. Lisa also dons her own creations for this artistic fashion spread. Makeup artistry and hairstyling was provided for all three ladies by Antonietta Mortiz, a local star in the beauty industry.

Plus, by popular demand, we are bringing back the SWM Runway Celebration, which features local women and men of Central New York and local fashions too.

The second annual event will take place on Wednesday, Sept. 25, at the Landmark Theatre in downtown Syracuse. The event will again benefit Ophelia’s Place while we are celebrating the beauty of real women and men. Turn to page 7 to read more about this fun fashion event that will feature well-known community members such as Lisa Butler, Missy Shafer, Heather Daley, Lauren Greutman, Maggie Walters,

Because it is ovarian cancer awareness month, we also encourage everyone, women and men, to sport the color teal on Friday, Sept. 6, on National Wear Teal Day. As I have shared before, I am proud to be the media spokeswoman for Hope for Heather Ovarian Cancer Awareness of CNY. My current Teal Marathon Mission fundraising effort is underway. By the time I run the 20th Annual Philadelphia Marathon on Nov. 17, it is my goal to raise at least $100 per mile (26.2 miles total).

Interested sponsors can support this local cause by emailing farah@hopeforheather. org. Let’s keep calm, and teal on!

As always, we’re here to celebrate your ideas and your achievements, but most of all we’re here to talk about what matters most to you. Keep in touch with us online at facebook.com/SyracuseWomanMagazine and on Twitter at @SyrWomanMag. Also, be sure to follow @cnytotalwoman to keep track of the SWM Total Woman Expo happening on Saturday, Sept. 28! Read more about the expo on page 24. You also can follow me on Twitter for behindthe-scenes coverage of SWM (and lots of tweets about running, food and fashion!) at @FarahJadran.

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The Family - Sept 13 A mafia boss and his family are relocated to a sleepy town in France under the witness protection program after snitching on the mob. Despite the best efforts of Agent Stansfield to keep them in line, Fred Manzoni, his wife Maggie and their children can’t help but revert to old habits and blow their cover by handling their problems the “family” way, enabling their former mafia cronies to track them down.

OUT & ABOUT Destino Italia – October 25-27 Destiny USA’s fall fashion event, “Destino Italia,” will inspire guests from Oct. 25 through 27. The events include a fashion show on Friday evening with activities all weekend long in the Canyon Area.

Well-known interior designer and Syracuse native Thom Filicia will be the fashion show’s emcee. The fashion show will be dedicated to Italian designers and showcase the “transformation” of Destiny USA to an international destination. Featured designers will be Armani, Ferragamo and Tod’s.

Each evening will feature a laser light show in the Canyon Area. An “Eataly” popup shop also will be on display. Some featured kiosks include Nino’s Italian Bakery, ICJ Cookies, Biscotti Café, Starbucks Espresso and Crepe & Gelato Boulevard.

The fashion show will kick off at 7 p.m. on Oct. 25, but the entire space will have an Italian influence during Destiny’s regular hours for the entire weekend. There also will be live street performers for attendees to enjoy. Added entertainment events include the Jason Wicks Band at Toby Keith’s I Love This Bar on Friday and Custom Taylor Band on Saturday.

Syracuse Woman Magazine is the exclusive women’s magazine sponsor of this event.

Rush – Sept 20 Set against the sexy and glamorous golden age of Formula 1 racing, Rush portrays the exhilarating true story of two of the greatest rivals the world has ever witnessed—handsome English playboy James Hunt and his methodical, brilliant opponent, Niki Lauda. Rush follows the two drivers as they push themselves to the breaking point of physical and psychological endurance, where there is no shortcut to victory and no margin for error.

Prisoners – Sept 20 How far would you go to protect your child? Keller Dover is facing every parent’s worst nightmare. His sixyear-old daughter, Anna, is missing, together with her young friend, Joy, and as minutes turn to hours, panic sets in. Knowing his child’s life is at stake, the frantic Dover decides he has no choice but to take matters into his own hands.

Cloudy 2 – Sept 27 Cloudy 2 picks up where the first movie left off, with Flint Lockwood discovering that his evil machine which turns water into food is still operating and now creating mutant food beasts. With the fate of humanity in his hands, Flint and his friends must embark on a dangerously delicious mission, battling hungry tacodiles, shrimpanzees, apple pie-thons, double bacon cheespiders and other food creatures to save the world… again.

2ND ANNUAL SWM RUNWAY CELEBRATION – September 25 Our annual Syracuse Woman Magazine Runway Celebration will hit the downtown scene on Wednesday, Sept. 25, at the Landmark Theatre in Syracuse.

The fashion show was created to highlight true beauty right here in Central New York! For every woman, there’s a style and we want to celebrate it.

Come and see more than 20 local ladies rock our runway in our celebration of the real woman.

Enjoy this year’s two-tiered fashion show that will feature several downtown stores, food, cash bar, raffle prizes, shopping and great company, while helping raise money for Ophelia’s Place.

The cocktail reception will begin at 6 p.m.; welcoming and seating at 7 p.m. and the Runway Celebration starts at 7:15 p.m.

Last year’s show featured a surprise male walk-off by members of the local media. This time we won’t keep a secret — we will indeed have a walk-off with well-known men of Central New York such as CNYCentral Chief Meteorologist Wayne Mahar and defending walk-off champion Michael Benny, of CNYCentral’s CBS 5.

Pre-sale tickets are $25, and $35 at the door. They are available at the SWM Office: 2501 James St., Suite 100, Syracuse, or at the Landmark Theatre Box Office.

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BY KAILYN JENNINGS I PHOTOS BY RICK NEEDLE “We’re not going in any specific direction, and that’s what keeps everything exciting.”— Alexia Falcone ALFA bar and dining room is a little far from the social scene, but don’t be fooled. The food and service is top notch, and don’t be surprised if you plan your next outing before leaving.

Alexia opened ALFA bar and dining room in April. She previously owned the French restaurant L’Adour in Armory Square. “L’Adour wasn’t meant to be my life’s project, but that is exactly what it was becoming, and I wanted to something different,” she said. The closing of Saratoga Steaks and Seafood opened the door to that new project for Alexia. “I knew I wanted to be on the East side. I grew up here and used to sneak out at three in the morning to run around the golf course. So when the space became available, I jumped at it.”

L’Adour was French-centric, and after opening ALFA, Alexia realized she missed out on local foods. “L’Adour was a little island we were living on. We didn’t see anything else,” she said. Alexia shifted her vantage point and got involved with the farm-to-table movement. She now works with local farmers and growers to prepare ALFA’s dishes with fresh local food — thus, her menu changes daily.

“The menu is a work in progress. We want people to be comfortable, but we also want to try new things and not scare them away. And ALFA feels a little more adventurous. Maybe it’s because we are no longer downtown, but everything is more relaxed and just a lot more fun for us.”

ALFA’s menu is clean, with simple and bold flavors attached to every entrée. The little amount of cream and butter she now uses shocked her. “However, we go through olive oil now like there is a run on it.” Alexia’s dishes may be lighter, but if we measured the flavor, the entrees would top the scale.

And the simplicity of the décor matches. The building has a farmhouse look, clean lines and unique artwork, with some pieces designed by her waiters. “It’s like the outdoors have been brought inside. Simple, but enjoyable,” Alexia said.

Because each entrée is paired with a wine, Alexia works side-by-side with a wine expert, Sarah Tumolo. They say the menu and wine list are becoming modern, with new world, organic and vegetarian options. “The menu is more modern than anything I’ve ever done before, and that is just so exciting for us. We’re free.”

Alexia’s team is mainly women. “I love having a girl-based team up front and in the back. We have a feminine touch — we pay attention to the little details and our menu items have female sensibility,” she said.

Their feminine team and touch is enjoyed, and it shows. Good conversation and people filled the restaurant on a Wednesday evening, with many regulars coming back for ALFA’s originality, charm and heartwarming atmosphere.

ALFA employees treat you as family members, with the utmost care and respect, tending to everything you can imagine. They want your experience to be remembered. And it will be an evening filled with great stories and lifelong memories.

Alexia’s love of food shines the moment you see her. Her passion for creating unique dishes from the simplest ingredients is obvious. Where else can you order a burger with in-house ground meat, snails with pistachios, swordfish tacos and rose flavored ice cream? Alexia thinks in flavors — that is her gift and we are lucky she shares it with our little city in this big world.

For reservations, visit www.opentable.com/alfa-bar-and-dining-room-reservations-syracuse.

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Goodbye summer…

Fabulousness Hello Fall

BY JASMON BROWN

It’s always hard saying goodbye. I will miss your steam on the nights when the sun continued to gleam. I will miss the good times shared with great friends. The cute skirts, bikini tops and strappy sandals that rock! You have been good to me…and for that alone, I will wait for you to return. But while you’re away, my friend “Fall” is coming to stay.

I look at fall as the middle man that eases us into winter. Not only do the leaves change, but our wardrobe changes too! With a new wardrobe comes the task of finding the right fall coat for those cooler days.

In the beginning of fall, the weather has not changed much and your outerwear should not be heavy. The perfect jackets for this time are blazers, jean jackets and the bomber jacket, which is increasing in popularity. Leather is leading 2013 fall trends. The style can vary from a full leather coat to jackets with leather on the sleeves. When the end of fall is approaching and you’re gearing up for winter, it is time to pull out those alter ego trench and fur coats.

These coats have been around for decades, but with evolving styles and designs, they will always remain fashion forward.

With your style selections made, let’s focus on fabric. The material of your coat is just as important as the style you’ve chosen. Polyester, jean and my favorite, faux leather, are all meant for the introduction of fall. They are light-weight, and with lining they will keep the cool breeze out. As the temperature begins to drop, look for coats with polyester blends, tweed and

nylon shells. These materials are thicker and can be warn for the majority of fall. Nearing the farewell to fall, your coat should consist of winter ready fabrics such as wool, corduroy and real leather. They will always win the battle on the coldest nights.

One unique element that has returned is shoulder pads. Oh yes, they are back! Shoulder pads are now age friendly and have a way of making outfits look more dashing. Cool buttons and hooks will also make your coat more exciting, as they add a subtle flare without overpowering your outfit. Add trim embellishments and designs to transform your entire look as well. They will make a simple coat appear more notable. The most common feature, especially when gearing up for winter, is fur. Fur is very versatile, and even a small fur feature will take your coat to the next level.

Not only does it keep you warm, but you will look amazing when stepping onto the scene.

The key to buying fall coats is having fun, being creative and switching it up. The weather can change daily so it is best to have multiple options, which include different fabrics to keep you warm. Patterns, colors and features will always take your look from drab to fab, and matching these size friendly items in your selections will keep you on trend. As we say goodbye to summer, we say hello to fall fabulousness!

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Setting the tone for Syracuse fashion Amanda Gold shares passion for style in 3 Armory stores

BY KAILYN JENNINGS I PHOTO BY RICK NEEDLE Amanda Gold cannot remember a time she didn’t love to shop.

“Well, maybe when I was really young wearing my Gap sweat suits,” she said. Despite her love for fashion, she always thought she would take over the family business in the future. After she realized she was not cut out for radio advertising, Amanda got a job at Frankie and Faye. She started out working part time, but within two weeks she worked more than any other employee, with a 40-hour work week. Amanda’s passion for retail grew, and it clearly showed. Her boss opened Bounce and immediately gave Amanda a key. Her sharp eye for fashion came from living on Long Island, and she got Bounce to sell brands Syracuse had never seen before. In 2013, Amanda and her father bought Jet Black, Bounce and Frankie & Faye, all women’s boutiques. Her dreams of pursuing her passion were coming true.

Amanda has fallen in love with owning the stores. She has gotten to know her customers, and her relationship with them helps her pick clothing to bring back to her stores. She never knew picking out outfits for other people could be so rewarding and, of course, who doesn’t love getting all dressed up. However, being located in Syracuse can be a little troublesome at times. Amanda said Syracuse fashion is “very status quo…it can be difficult to get people to think outside of the box because they don’t necessarily have any place to wear it. There aren’t a ton of night clubs or super fancy restaurants.” Her running joke is, “Where are you wearing it?

Wegmans.” The majority of Amanda’s customers are working and non-working mothers, so typically they are wearing suits or jeans and a sweater. “No one is getting super dressed up.” And therein lies Amanda’s challenge.

Amanda describes her style as being very eclectic, different from many Syracuse women. When she goes to shows to pick out clothing for the stores, she has to think about her customers whose style may vary from hers, which changes constantly because she is willing to try anything once. “Just because I like it doesn’t mean everyone will,” Amanda said, “the customer comes first.” Sometimes though, she likes to challenge herself. “I’ll see a trend that is risky and make it a challenge. Who can I get to buy it?”

Amanda has a few style tips with fall approaching. She recommends pairing a big, chunky sweater with jeans and high boots or booties.

Those items are worth the investment because with the short spring and summer in Syracuse, you can wear your fall clothes longer. If you are looking for some new designers, Amanda has a few favorites to share. For edgy items she wears every day, like blazers, Amanda chooses Elizabeth and James. When she needs a dress for a special occasion, she shops at Alice and Olivia. And for jeans, Amanda recommends J Brand.

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By owning three different stores that cater to various demographics, Amanda is bringing variety back to the city. Jet Black houses designer jeans, while Frankie & Faye has a variety of summer dresses. “There is definitely something for everyone in one of the stores.” And they will help you find the perfect piece.

A favorite staple piece could end up in your closet because of much hard work on Amanda’s end. Her “buying trips” are difficult because they are completed in a short period of time.

She shops for all three stores in three days or less, going to a different show for each store. Amanda also finds it difficult to know how many items to buy. “The store should always be full of the right things. I’m like Goldilocks. I can’t have too much or too little,” she said. Over time, Amanda has learned it doesn’t matter what she likes. It’s all about the customers and she looks for what will sell.

Luckily, Amanda does not face this challenge alone. Her mother, Helene, is right by her side. When Amanda first bought the stores, she thought her mom didn’t want to be involved.

However, when she talked about changing the style of Frankie & Faye, Helene jumped right on board. Frankie & Faye became her baby and, with her creativity and patience, she revamped the entire store and now runs it. “We definitely have our challenges,” Amanda said. “But working with my parents, I couldn’t do it without them.”

Helene is extremely proud of her daughter. “She took on a lot and is doing a great job,” she said. Every day is a learning experience. “We learned how to work together,” Helene added, “[and] which fights are worth it.” However, they still have their playful challenges. They love to see which of their stores comes out on top at the end of the day.

The pair became closer through the stores, their lives entwined with them, and thus each other. “When I’m not working I’m always thinking about it. I fall asleep every night thinking about what to do,” Helene said. “But it’s worth it. Not everyone gets to work with their daughter.” The time and love the pair put into their boutiques not only benefits their relationship, but the customer as well. You’ll be pleased when you find exactly what you are looking for, and most likely a little something extra.

For more information, visit jetblackboutique.com, frankieandfaye. com or bounceboutique.com. All three stores are located in Armory Square.

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BY LAUREN GREUTMAN

Let’s face it, all women want to look beautiful and have beautiful clothes. For years I couldn’t afford to buy new clothes because we were on such a tight budget. Over time I’ve developed some tricks on how to look fabulous for less (at least I hope I look fabulous!).

I love teaching women how to get new clothing on a budget, but more than that I love their smiles when they realize that they can get designer clothing for less than a Walmart shirt!

Here are some ways that I save money on my clothing: • Shop garage sales during the summer to look for clothing. Just last month I got a J Jill and a Lands End Shirt for only 50 cents each!

• Trade in your old designer clothing to a website called LikeTwice. com. This website is an online consignment store. You can trade in your name brand clothes for credits and then use those credits to shop. Better yet, find those name brand items at garage sales or thrift stores and trade them into LikeTwice.com to earn cash for new clothes!

• Shop Discount Racks with coupons. Target has online web coupons on their website, many times we see coupons for clothing items on there. Last year I got (two) pairs of jeans for FREE because I had a coupon for it and it was on clearance.

• Sign up for your favorite stores email lists, they often email out member only discount codes that you can use to shop on their website.

• Buy staple pieces of clothing that you can dress up or down, like a black blazer. Then find great deals on jewelry that will change out the outfit -two of my favorite websites for jewelry are www.ideeli. com and www.ModCloth.com.

• One of my favorite websites for discount shoes is www.6pm.comthey feature name brand clothing and shoes at discount pricing.

They are the outlet store to Zappos.com—so often times we find shoes like Nine West for under $20 per pair. They are brand new, and a great deal!

• Have a clothing swap party with friends. You can choose a theme for the month—maybe scarves or purses. Each person bring 2 to 5

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of those items from their house that they don’t want anymore, you put them on a table, draw names, and swap out the items. This is a great way to get a new item for free, and clean our your closet.

There are always so many creative ways that you can look fabulous and still be on a budget. I hope to see you out there getting those great garage sale deals, then trading them in for more fabulous items!

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BY ALYSSA LAFARO I PHOTO BY MATT TURNER

“Looking the part helps get the chance to fill it. But if you fill the part, it matters not if you look it.”— Malcolm Forbes, former publisher of Forbes magazine “I did not become a WBOC member for solely myself. I became a member to see what I could do for others, and enjoy the company of other professional women,” shared Teri Nichols, a current board of director of Women Business Opportunities Connections (WBOC).

After learning about WBOC through a conversation with Cindy Bell, a WBOC member and SWM cover photographer, at the New York State Fair in 2005, Teri joined the WBOC and volunteered to help setup and greet women upon entrance to the meetings. That was just the beginning. Since then, she’s been on the membership committee, the vice president of membership, the recording secretary and finally, director at large.

“I believe that when you help enough people get what they want, you will get the results you want,” Teri said. “In WBOC, each position I held was to build up and support the membership. The whole organization is like that — run by volunteers willing to share their time and expertise to create opportunities for all members to meet, connect, learn from and share with other members.”

Teri offers plenty of personal experience to fellow members too.

Thirty years ago, while working in the treasury department at the Niagara Mohawk Building, she was forced to choose between work and her family. “I needed to be at home with a sick child,” she explained, “and I was asked if I wanted a full-time job or to be a full-time mom.” She chose mom ― and a company that supported her choice.

Today, she works as an independent sales director for cosmetics company Mary Kay. “Mary Kay employees are encouraged to put their faith first, family second and career third,” says Teri. “Many of us have found that in that order all things come together. Deviating from that order creates stress and strife.”

Teri found this philosophy mirrored at WBOC. “It was easy to recognize the potential at WBOC,” she says, “because their mission statement aligns with my own — to ‘support and advance the success of women entrepreneurs.’ What I see in my future and the future of WBOC is creating an even greater impact on the CNY economy by supporting and advancing women entrepreneurs.”

When asked what advice she’d give fellow businesswomen, Teri told me, “Seek out and accept guidance and support when needed.

Work your business every day, focusing on the most important aspects for growth.”

With so many years spent working in cosmetics, she adds her two cents about the importance of appearance as an autonomous female entrepreneur. “The more authentic a person is, the more successful they are,” Teri said. “Dressing for success really can help a woman be taken seriously as a professional. Multiple studies have proven that skin care and some color cosmetics artfully applied greatly add to a woman’s professional look and could increase the potential for higher income.”

“One woman may not be able to do and be it all,” says Teri, “but she can look the part.” And she — for the women of WBOC anyways — can always look to Teri for guidance.

The WBOC is a non-profit organization that has been empowering professional women in the Central New York area for more than 20 years. Its members are women business owners, women in business and women business start-ups.

Syracuse Woman Magazine is a signature sponsor of the WBOC.

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BY FARAH F. JADRAN For the third year in a row hundreds of women will gather at the Stickley, Audi & Co. Showroom in Fayetteville to not only bid on designer handbags filled with gifts, but also to benefit the American Heart Association’s Go Red For Women Syracuse campaign.

Funds raised at the Sept. 19 Handbags Helping Hearts event will help pay for lifesaving research, continuing medical education, and helps empower women to fight heart disease through the Go Red For Women movement. Last year a soldout crowd took part in the event.

Women got the chance to bid on chic handbags filled with gifts, while also helping a great cause and getting lifesaving information about the No. 1 killer of women, heart disease.

More than 60 handbag packages are ready for auction, including bags from designers like Michael Kors and Coach.

All the bags are filled with goodies like gift cards to local restaurants and services, accessories, wine, chocolate and more. The bags and the items inside were donated by local women and businesses, including sponsor Stickley, Audi & Co., SRC, 93Q, Syracuse Woman Magazine, CNY Central, and the women in the American Heart Association’s Circle of Red. During the event, women will learn about the risk factors of heart disease and the warning signs of a heart attack from 22

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Dr. Uzma Iqbal, a cardiologist with SJH Cardiology Associates and a Circle of Red Member. Heart attack symptoms often present themselves differently in women than in men. In addition to chest pain, women can feel discomfort in the upper part of the body, shortness of breath, nausea, and sweating.

Women often pass it off as the flu or another ailment, without calling 911.

Speakers include President and CEO of Stickley, Audi & Co. Aminy Audi, heart disease survivors, AHA volunteers and Go Red For Women Chair Anne Messenger.

On Sept. 19, gather your girlfriends together to socialize and bid on handbags at the 3rd Annual Handbags Helping Hearts event to fight heart disease and stroke. This fun “girls night out” event will feature chic handbag packages, refreshments, and lifesaving information to empower you to make heart-healthy choices. Tickets are $20 and more information can be found at http://www.heart.org www.heart.org/handbagshelpinghearts.

Founded in 1924, the American Heart Association is the nation’s oldest and largest voluntary health organization dedicated to building healthier lives, free of heart disease and stroke. To help prevent, treat and defeat these diseases — America’s No. 1 and No. 3 killers — the AHA funds cuttingedge research, conduct lifesaving public and professional educational programs, and advocate to protect public health.

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BY FARAH F. JADRAN I PHOTO BY RICK NEEDLE Have you been looking for a fall women’s event in Central New York that would meet all your expectations and maybe exceed them?

On Saturday, Sept. 28, the first-ever Syracuse Woman Magazine Total Woman Expo will take over the Horticulture Building at the New York State Fairgrounds. “This expo is different from other events because the women organizing this event are from Central New York and committed to supporting women-owned businesses and womenfocused businesses from our area,” according to Nakesha Walker, the president of Expo Vision LLC. For a long time, Nakesha and some of her family members talked about starting a family business.

“At one of our family gatherings we seriously began to discuss putting our talents and over 50 years of combined experience together,” Nakesha said.

The business, Expo Vision LLC, was created to give voice to the “total woman” — women who work, cook, clean, are stay-at-home mothers, entrepreneurs, single, married, students and the many women who wear several hats to get the job done. In this group is Madelene Barkins, operations manager; Lenora Walker, director of finance; Tamika Scott, marketing and social media; Nicole Walker, vice president; and Dymen Barkins, Web designer.

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“Our inspiration was just that, ‘a total woman,’ our late great grandmother Louise Fowler who raised 15 children and still found time to open up a restaurant-nightclub in Hornell, N.Y.” Nakesha said. Also, their mother and grandmother, Helen Bell, also known as “Mother Bell” became a source of inspiration. Mother Bell passed away in 2010 from pancreatic cancer. She had her own cleaning service and was the cook for the family business while taking care of six children of her own.

Their Great Aunt Lilian Fowler was the first to attend and graduate college. She was a teacher during the 1950s. “We came from a long line of what we call, ‘the total woman,’” Nakesha said. “Growing up, we never realized how hard it was for them as women in the 1960s to accomplish what they did, but as my niece says, ‘Being a total woman isn’t easy. They just made it look that way.’”

Nakesha says the SWM Total Woman Expo is different because it has something for every woman, from 18 to 65. The expo also will apply to women starting a new career, going back to school, looking to network or just needing to let loose and have a fun day. “We have it all.”

The expo will feature numerous women-owned businesses, vendors serving to women and non-

profit agencies that focus on women. The event will feature guest speakers, information on social media, business and women voters issues, the Army National Guard, health, colleges, jewelry, nutrition, a wine tasting, and of course, the title sponsor, Syracuse Woman Magazine.

Expo Vision LLC is “Connecting You To What Matters.” Nakesha says the expo has connected with a diverse group of sponsors and vendors to bring together the best female consumers and businesses from all over Syracuse and Rochester and as far as Canada. “With Syracuse Woman Magazine, 93Q and Destiny USA, women should expect an exciting fun-filled day with women from all walks of life. shopping, laughing, selling and learning from each other.”

“On Sept. 28, women all over will stand up and say, ‘I Am The Total Woman,’ and celebrate the uniqueness of being a woman,” Nakesha said. “Who said women don’t support women?”

For more information on attending the expo or to be a vendor, visit “http://www.cnytotalwomanexpo. com” cnytotalwomanexpo.com. Follow the SWM Total Woman Expo on Twitter at @cnytotalwoman and “like” the Facebook page, Syracuse Woman Magazine Total Woman Expo.

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Bringing you Syracuse Style…

Lisa Butler

BY FARAH F. JADRAN I PHOTOGRAPHY BY CINDY BELL

Fashion is everywhere we look. It’s in magazines, it’s on billboards, it’s on TV and it’s on runways all over the world. But before fashion took over any of these scenes, it started somewhere else — it started with you.

No matter how much some of us (women and men) want to deny it, we’re all “in fashion” whether we want to be or not. What we wear on our bodies is a reflection of who we are and how we would like to be perceived by those around us.

Some of us might want to believe we truly have the, “I don’t care what I look like,” attitude, but usually that could not be farther from the truth. When you are in a store or shopping online for clothing, you’re making a choice. And when you decide what to wear before leaving the house, you are again making a conscious decision. Your look can reflect your mood for the day, your ambition, your need to stay warm or be cool (depending on the Syracuse forecast) or your desire for attention.

Whatever that thought process might be — you are a reflection of your fashion.

When you walk by a stranger, he or she may not know you, but they see you. And, of course, by human nature, they might just pass judgment upon you because of what you’re wearing and maybe even because of the way your hair looks that day.

Our body is the canvas when it comes to fashion. What inspires any of us to paint it?

Fashion forward from the start Since she was a little girl, she had a fashion mentor. Lisa Butler, a native of the Salt City, has her mother to thank for her love of design and fashion.

“My mother was quite the fashionista,” Lisa said. All through the ’60s, ’70s and ’80s, Lisa said her mother, Iphigenia “Effie” Panels, had a routine. Every Tuesday she ventured to downtown Syracuse to visit Helmer’s Department Store among many other regular clothing boutiques. And when school was not in session, Lisa was right there with her for the shopping trips.

For quite some time, Syracuse was the fashion hub of Central New York with large department stores such as Helmer’s, but also Chappell’s, Edwards, Sibley’s and Woolworth’s. “She loved choosing couture dresses for special occasions,” Lisa said.

On these Tuesday fashion adventures, Effie and Lisa would meet up with dad during lunchtime for a quick visit and then it was back to shopping.

“My mother was a huge influence in my life,” Lisa said. A genuine smile was present when Lisa spoke of her mother. It is true — there is something about reminiscing that brings light into someone’s eyes because they’re channeling some of their fondest memories.

Effie was “old fashioned” in the respect that she never wore pants.

“She was dressed up every day,” Lisa said. “One year we bought her a pantsuit for Christmas…she made us take it back!” Effie’s idea of being dressed up is most likely different from others.

A photo of Effie on the day of her engagement would prove that she had the striking look of a 1920s movie star.

Lisa said that her mother went all out for each day’s ensemble. “She would wear a girdle, stockings, a garter and she wore leopard printed lingerie throughout her life.” Of course, the mention of her mother’s leopard unmentionables brought an even bigger smile to her face. “She was one cool lady.”

Her attire always included a dress and some stylish heels, Lisa said. “She had great legs!” At this time, Effie was not a part of the workforce, but Lisa said if her mother had a formal occupation, she would have been an amazing interior designer.

Cultivating the artist within

After Lisa graduated from Stony Brook University with a degree in theater, she lived on Long Island and then in Portland, Ore. While living in the Pacific Northwest, Lisa started a theater company. However, Lisa returned to Syracuse in the late ’80s because her mother’s health was not well.

Although Effie passed away while Lisa was back in her hometown, there are clearly many memories that are living on and anniversaries to celebrate.

This year, Lisa’s fashion show creation, Syracuse Style, is in its fifth year and will take place Sept. 19 in Armory Square. The date is extra special this year because it would have been her parents’ 76th wedding anniversary. Also, her mother would have celebrated a centennial birthday this year.

Upon her return to the Salt City, Lisa began working for Syracuse Stage and began her graduate courses at the College of Visual and Performing Arts at Syracuse University. Because of her work at Syracuse Stage, she was starting to realize that costume design was her true calling. “I really cultivated my artistic interest through the theater,” Lisa said.

Inspired Designs

Now, through her personal line, Inspired Designs by Lisa Marie Butler, her theatrical experience is reflected in many of her creations.

“The theatre informs a lot of my work,” she said.

Lisa says she embraces her love for over-the-top fashion and prefers to not dress people for everyday events, but rather for special occasions.

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When is that one day that you can be the most over-the-top? Your wedding day.

It is because of Lisa’s own wedding day that she is now well known for her wedding gown designs. Although she did not sew it, Lisa designed her own wedding gown. “It was too much pressure to design it and sew it for my wedding day,” she said.

“I knew that I wanted something with sleeves, and that it was not going to be white.” It turned out to be a shade of burgundy with gold. The gown had a historical feel with flowy sleeves and two layers of chiffon over silk, a slit in the front of the skirt and an empire waist. Also, she said her “lovely husband,” Tim Butler, agreed to let her dress him in something non-traditional too.

When it comes to another woman’s big day, Lisa has a process for how she helps her visualize that dream dress. She asks the following questions: What is your day-to-day style? Do you have a design philosophy? Do you dress in classic attire? Do you like a Bohemian style? Or is there a color you’re drawn too? Are there fabrics you love?

“I find that most women have a hard time defining what they do want and don’t have a problem saying what they don’t want,” Lisa said. And so, she tends to get rid of the “do not want” list and figures out the design path from there.

Lisa says your wedding dress is not only the most important dress, but it is usually the most expensive dress you will ever wear.

When does a bride decide she wants a custom made gown? Usually Lisa says brides come to her when they have looked everywhere and can’t find what they want. Or they’re looking for something different, which you won’t find in a bridal shop.

The wedding venue and the time of day during which the ceremony will occur are important parts of the design process. Next, Lisa finds out what the colors of the wedding are and also asks if there is a certain piece of jewelry the bride-to-be wants to wear and how might they want to wear their hair. Of course the desired silhouette is important, but also Lisa says she finds out if her bride wants a certain area of the body emphasized or even deemphasized.

The most memorable wedding gown she designed, besides her own, was for a plus-size bride who had a “very cool” style. She brought Lisa a photo of a dress she liked, but she wanted it covered with lace and huge bell sleeves. “The dress she showed me was not it,” Lisa said. “She wanted to be a princess for the day.”

While Lisa wants all her brides to be comfortable for their weddings,

however, there are women that “don’t care and they sacrifice” comfort for the day. Lisa designed a nine-foot detachable train for the princess bride, incorporated a lot of boning and primarily used a heavy fabric.

Lisa has been creating over-the-top wedding dresses for women since 2004. She has a small studio space in Manlius and, as you may already know, she is a fashion show producer. While she loves shopping for fabrics in New York City, she only shows her designs in Syracuse.

Bringing the Syracuse Style

On the evening of Sept. 19, Armory Square’s main street — Walton Street— will once again become the premiere outdoor runway of the fall season.

The show mainly features Lisa’s designs and this year, fashions from Modern Pop Culture will be showcased too. The catwalk is elevated and lies on Walton Street. The event’s returning emcee, CBS 5’s Michael Benny, is pleased to be on the fashion scene, too. “There is some spice to this fashion show,” he said. “I always enjoy it.”

The community comes together for this annual event with the Downtown Committee of Syracuse as the title sponsor and co-presenter of Syracuse Style.

Because of Lisa’s love of original designs, this particular show mainly features clothing by local designers. The show is dictated by Lisa’s style and the music selection helps create the atmosphere.

It is clear that Lisa’s experience in the theater comes into play when setting the theme for a fashion show.

“I never think of my stuff as classic,” she said. “The lines might be [classic] but the fabric choices are mostly velvet and Bohemian, silk and romantic prints. I always think in terms of cohesion when I design a collection.”

Lisa and her husband travel frequently, which makes her fabric collection quite unique. “I find bolts of cloth that I love and I will buy it even though I don’t know what I am going to use it’¬ for.”

Sometimes the fantasy fabric becomes the centerpiece to one of her new collections.

Finding your style

“I wish more people would express themselves with clothes,” Lisa said. “It’s an easy way to express yourself. It’s wordless.”

Lisa agrees that everyone makes choices for what they wear, whether you shop at Walmart or spend $300 on a dress you wear once.

When it comes to being a woman in a society that is without question more judgmental toward women, Lisa says she does not feel the pressure. “Men almost have a uniform, but women are not bound to a uniform. Women can break the rules,” she said.

“Women rule the world, men just don’t know it.”

For more on Lisa Butler or Syracuse Style, follow these Twitter handles: @inspiredlisa and @SyracuseStyle. Syracuse Woman Magazine will be on the Sept. 19 fashion scene in Armory Square and at the 2nd Annual SWM Runway Celebration taking place Sept. 25 at the Landmark Theatre. Cover woman Lisa Butler will walk the SWM Runway this year, so be sure to get your ticket and join us!

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BY BARB DONAGHEY I PHOTO BY JUSSARA POTTER

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In 2008, when we announced the opening of The Nantucket Cat, a feline-themed gift shop in Baldwinsville, we were met with dubious reactions. Most observers wished us the best, but were pretty sure we had taken leave of our senses.

Never doubting our instincts, we proudly ventured forth and have loved every moment of retail life since then. Following many years of managing a full line pet shop, I understand the special bond between pet and owner. Cat lovers are no exception, and may indeed share an extra special relationship with their feline friends. Those of us who share our homes with felines know, a house is not a home without a cat!

Since 2005, my husband and co-risk taker in the business, Bill, has been the designer and builder of the finest cat furniture. Most orders are custom designs to fulfill a cat’s needs and complement the home’s décor. It is a thrill to receive photos and reports of happy kitties enjoying their lounging and climbing furniture.

To test the viability of a cat-themed item, we began attending C.F.A. (Cat Fanciers of America) shows throughout the eastern states selling furniture along with toys and treats. It wasn’t long before our inventory included gift items for the cat enthusiast, from clothing to ceramics and accessories. We were hooked! We loved the cats and met wonderful people who traveled with their pets to compete and share knowledge of their particular breed of choice.

The natural progression was to open a gift shop in our community.

Last year, we moved to our current location, “kitty corner” from where we started. Desperately in need of more space and better

parking facilities, we found the perfect solution in a beautiful 1860 Italianate home at 49 Oswego St. in Baldwinsville. This venue has the space and flexibility we needed to pursue our creative interests.

Accessories by famous American artist Laurel Burch shine in the sunny warmth of this former home. High arched windows perfectly display stained glass art handcrafted from Ohio, as well as sleeping kitties of all kind. Products designed and crafted in the U.S.A. make up much of our inventory as well.

Catnip toys are made in-house and filled with premium catnip grown in British Columbia and the state of Washington. Kitties love our catnip toys, which provide them with much amusement and entertainment.

Cat lovers have many interests, and finding unusual products to tickle their fancy has always been our goal. From accessories to ceramics, wine slushy mixes to candy and even jewelry and soaps, our product line is designed to delight all. We even have cat pajamas for the feline lovers.

The life of a retailer may be a busy one, but it is so rewarding. We meet wonderful people daily who share our love for all things feline.

It is truly satisfying to know our customers have found the perfect item, whether it be for themselves or a loved one.

Learn more about Barb and Bill and their feline focus at www.thenantucketcat.com. syracuseWomanMag.com ::august 2013

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An interview with CBS 5’s Michael Benny

BY FARAH F. JADRAN I PHOTOS BY CINDY BELL

I waited inside the Eastwood location of Café Kubal for my subject’s arrival. A text message revealed he was running late, but this time it was fashionably late.

I was going to sit down with CNYCentral’s CBS 5 News Anchor Michael Benny to talk about men’s fashion. If you’re one of his regular viewers and a follower on his social media platforms, then you know he offers creative ways to get you involved in the newscast. A recognizable mention on his Twitter feed is this: “What tie should I wear for the news tonight?” The tweet, complete with a selection of at least three ties, tends to get quite a few hits. And the same goes for Facebook posts.

On this Thursday afternoon, Michael was wearing tan trousers, a crisp white dress shirt, a soft green tie (undone) and a cologne that is worth mentioning — Eau d’Orange verte by Hermes Paris. It has an intense invigorating freshness with a woody signature, which I can attest to.

Michael owns around 400 ties, so there is no absence of selection. However, this simple question gave him the opportunity to change up his Facebook and Twitter posts. “If I just had a steady stream of news, it would be so boring.” He is best known for sharing breaking news and encouraging people to start discussions on the biggest news of the day, but his apparel would offer a different facet of his evening regimen.

“My tie may not always be in a perfect knot, but I try to the best of my ability,” Michael said. “My shirt is pressed and the suit is clean because people are inviting me into their homes for a formal presentation of what is happening today.”

For most of his suits, Michael says he prefers Banana Republic, but not because of the brand. Rather it is the perfect fit. “That’s the only place I shop that I can fit in a suit right off the rack.” For some of the 32

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famous inquiries on where he bought something, he tends to surprise viewers. “Women will email me and ask where I got a tie and I will reply with, ‘Marshalls or TJ Maxx,’ and they’re shocked,” he said. “I can count on one hand the number of ties I paid more than $13 for.”

And so it would happen that the tie becomes the most creative element of a news anchor or any man whose job requires a suit. “Unless you’re a millionaire, you probably don’t own 60 suits,” Michael said.

That said, you have a set number of suits and that tie is your key to a new look.

“For a guy, a suit and tie is not the most comfortable thing,” he said.

“I’ve got to be honest with you. The tie wrapped around your neck pressed up against you…” However, Michael said he will never complain about his level of discomfort when it comes to appearance. “Our biggest consolation as men is no one is really critiquing our hair. In the end, I’ll take the suit and tie.”

The fashion does not end in the newsroom, either. You might remember that Michael was the winner of our 2012 Syracuse Woman Magazine Runway Celebration walk-off. He took over the runway to triumph over three other local male media professionals.

We’re pleased to report Michael will once again strut his stuff on the SWM Runway on Sept. 25 at the Landmark Theatre at our fashion show that benefits Ophelia’s Place. “It was a lot of fun and outside of my element.” It is indeed different to be watched on TV versus watched on a runway, but nevertheless, Michael just might be looking to defend his walk-off title in a few weeks…

Find CBS News Anchor Michael Benny on Twitter at @MichaelBenny and let him know you saw him in Syracuse Woman Magazine! Ties in this fashion shoot ($10 each!) provided by Designer Warehouse in Armory Square, Syracuse.

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BY RENEÉ BENDA True fashion isn’t a look, it is a feeling. The way a new pair of pumps will make you feel unstoppable or a perfect top adds to a dramatic entrance. There is something about a great fit that makes you feel powerful. The same can be said about a fabulous fitness wardrobe.

Your fitness closet is a place you want to be comfortable and confident.

When setting up your fitness closet, start with a great base. A great base is created with pieces that make you feel your best and ready to tackle the challenge of any workout.

The basics: A comfortable fitting shoe, a great short or workout capri and one “super top.”

When building you base gear please note price isn’t the end all be all. Some of my favorite shirts are old worn out T-shirts.

It’s about how the clothes make you feel. I encourage women to find pieces that are multi-use, fun and give them a kick in their step.

So many women just find a size and color they like and purchase. But every piece and size is different, so be sure to try before you buy. When you try on gear in the dressing room, you should mimic moves that you use in your fitness routine.

If you are a runner move your arms as you would when you are running. If it is rubbing in the dressing room chances are it won’t be comfortable down the road. Don’t buy it, no matter how pretty it is. If you are purchasing a new pair of yoga pants, try a front fold in the dressing room. Also, ladies, yoga pants shouldn’t be see-through!

The most common question I get from women is, “How do I find the perfect shoe or sneaker?” A few years ago I made the best fitness decision of my life, I went to Fleet Feet and had a fitting. The staff is extremely knowledgeable and passionate.

They can help you analyze and select the perfect sneaker for you and your activities. My advice is, do not buy sneakers online unless you are familiar with the brand and know your

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current size with that specific brand. Save yourself the trouble of endless returns.

When picking out bottoms for your fitness closet base, choose a piece with flexibility. My go-to fitness bottoms are a black capri pant. They are multifunctional and give me enough coverage to never feel overexposed. They work for yoga, running and squats.

There are many options when it comes to workout tops.

T-shirts, tanks, sleeveless and long sleeves are just a few of the different options. Right now, a trend is the bubble tank. It is a great sleeveless option that allows easy movement, flatters all body types and tends to hide a larger midsection. Most races give out a tech shirt with registration and those are also a great confidence booster at the gym. The shirt reminds you of what you have accomplished and pushes you forward!

Building your perfect fitness closet can be a ton of fun but the confidence boost shouldn’t break the bank. Central New York has great options for fitness gear. Some of my favorite pieces have come from Waterloo Premium Outlets, Dick’s Sporting Goods as well as Marshalls. Both Old Navy and Target with its C9 line have great affordably priced pieces that make you feel your best as you sweat it out. With Lululemon Athletica opening in Armory Square in the fall we will now have another high end option.

Remember to hydrate and also fuel your workouts with your fitness fashions.

“If you’re bored, then you’re boring,” has long been Renee Benda’s favorite quote and her blog Bendifulblog.com proves there is a lot you can enjoy in one life. With spirit, spunk and spurts of seriousness, this busy mom of two boys gives her readers tips and tricks for healthy living and fitting in fitness. Follow her on Twitter at @cusecomm. We already do!

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The Faces of Ovarian Cancer

BY FARAH F. JADRAN I PHOTO BY CATHRYN LAHM

While it is the 10th most common cancer among women, ovarian cancer is the fifth leading cause of cancer-related death among women, and is the deadliest of gynecologic cancers. Mortality rates are slightly higher for Caucasian women than for African-American women. However, the approximate age of those diagnosed varies across the board.

Whether you think you’re young or old or far away from the likelihood of ever being diagnosed, that may not be the case. This is when awareness becomes a necessity. The most common symptoms are bloating, pelvic or abdominal pain, difficulty eating or feeling full quickly, and urinary symptoms such as an urgency or frequency.

Because many of these symptoms can appear to be common among women at different stages of a menstrual cycle or the possibility — “It’s part of being a woman.” It might not be anything, but it is better to find out first.

Syracuse Woman Magazine sat down with six ovarian cancer survivors in CNY this September for Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month. We talked about their individual battles and this is what they had to share with you: Suzanne Trapper— 12-years survivor; Age 43 at diagnosis “I am doing pretty well. I have gotten over my last treatments,” Sue said.

“This is the best time before I start up again. If you have ever visited the Hope For Heather Ovarian Cancer Awareness of CNY booths at the NYS Fair, then you know Sue or “Trap” as her loved ones know her. Last year, Sue was at one of the booths helping spread awareness for every day of the Fair and for every hour. She was passing out teal ribbons and sharing information — all while she was enduring treatment for a reoccurrence of ovarian cancer. “The reason I am such an advocate is because there must be a reason for me still being around. I am trying to put my energy, now that I am not able to work anymore, into this.” Sue’s initial diagnosis was a Stage 3 case and still to this day she wonders how she could have missed it. “I have always been vigilant with gynecological visits.” And now, Sue says this is really about “knowing your body.” Sue is a board member of the Ovarian Cancer Survivor Foundation of Montana and a board member of GRACE’S (Gynecologic cancer survivors Reinforcing Awareness, Caring, Education, and Support) in CNY. Ginger Denny – President of GRACE’s, 13-year survivor, Age 49 at diagnosis This year GRACE’S celebrates its 10th anniversary of providing a support group for women with ovarian cancer. Ginger acts as the facilitator during the monthly meetings so she can see how each member would benefit from the gathering. Ginger was surprised to receive her diagnosis because she thought she was doing all the right things — mammograms, pap smears and screening for colon cancer because of a family history. “More people are talking about it now. The symptoms are recognized and accepted now.”

Through GRACE’S, Ginger is able to help a woman find what works best

for her. “First we support, then it’s awareness — that’s our mission.”

Margaret Fernandes – 8-year survivor, Age 60 at diagnosis “When I was diagnosed, I never ever in my life thought I was going to get ovarian cancer.” Because Margaret had already undergone a partial hysterectomy, she thought this was impossible. However, this turns out to be a common misconception when it comes to ovarian cancer. At the time of her diagnosis, Margaret says she was not up on the awareness scene. But now, Margaret is sure to pass out teal ribbons and symptom cards from Hope For Heather information packets. When she visits her daughter in New York City, she always brings awareness materials along for the trip. “I look back and I did have the symptoms.” Margaret says she wants more women to be aware and that more doctors have information about the symptoms for their patients. While fighting cancer was one battle, Margaret said a family member (who also is a doctor) said she should consider switching doctors because she felt she was not getting information she needed in regard to the effects of her treatment. A cancer diagnosis is a personal issue, so for Margaret, she said she needed to do what was best for her.

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According to the Ovarian Cancer National Alliance, a woman’s lifetime risk of developing invasive ovarian cancer is 1 in 72. A woman’s lifetime risk of dying from invasive ovarian cancer is 1 in 95.

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Every cancer diagnosis is different and every outcome is different. However, it is the understanding of many Central New York ovarian cancer survivors that the strength in the fight is the same.

Kate Mahoney – 20-year survivor, Age 14 at diagnosis In 1992, there was only around 1,000 girls her age that were diagnosed with ovarian cancer. For Kate, her diagnosis was for ovarian germ cell, but her recovery was for organ failure. “When I was diagnosed, I had only had my period maybe once or twice and all of a sudden it was Stage 4 [cancer].” Kate’s experience at a young age made her understanding for research, awareness and support groups, even stronger.

“Women are more comfortable sometimes and they can talk to each other.” Because Kate underwent heavy surgery at a young age in one specific area, she said the toll of the drugs used for treatment caused trouble for her organs too. To this day, Kate has no memory from the end of November 1992 through the middle of February 1993. “Literally, when my organs began to fail, I didn’t remember a thing.” Kate was in the ICU for 46 days. Friends and family prayed to the Blessed Mother Marianne Cope for her recovery. “I do believe it is a miracle and I didn’t think I was any different than any other teenager. For me, I wanted to get up and return to a life as normal as it was before.” Now, every year on March 18, there is a gathering so her friends and family can celebrate her life. “I’ve been given the chance to bear witness to what it is and still be standing. That’s a huge gift to me.”

For all the members of our “Faces of Ovarian Cancer” tribute — there is indeed a common bond. They each want the teal ribbon to be recognized for hope, life and courage. Lastly, they want to see research come full circle and know that there is a cure for ovarian cancer.

This article is in memory of Lynne Heaviside, 66, of Fayetteville, who passed away after a four-year battle before this edition was underway.

She indicated she would have really wanted to share her story of why she made the choices she did at the end of her life. SWM would like to dedicate this edition to Lynne and her family.

Break Out Info Teal Ribbon Run When: Sunday, Sept. 29 Where: Inner Harbor, Syracuse What: Annual walk/run to benefit Hope For Heather Ovarian Cancer Awarenes-s of CNY Register: www.tealribbonrun.org syracuseWomanMag.com :: september 2013

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Becoming aware

for women fighting breast cancer

BY JAMES MANN

The morning rush — a part of the day almost no person looks forward to. Women are focused on making it to work on time and perhaps getting their kids to school on time too.

However, millions of women are just happy to be living another day.

Every year the American Cancer Society raises approximately $400,000 in Central New York alone.

“Women turn to us most often for support with breast cancer,” said Betsy Guilfoil, Director of Special Events for ACS. “One in two women in Central New York who are diagnosed with breast cancer will turn to the American Cancer Society for help.”

The ACS helps women fight cancer by setting up free services, such as Look Good Feel Better. This service brings in licensed cosmetologists to do makeovers and teach women how to take care of their skin with makeup and lotion. There is also a wig room where men and women battling with cancer can come in and get a fitted wig to use as long as they need it.

These services are funded by walks such as Making Strides Against Breast Cancer. This year, the 18th annual walk to be held on Oct. 20, begins and ends in Clinton Square. Each year, survivors from around the area come together to enjoy the three-mile walk and celebrate the battle they have won.

“Every year, looking out at the walk you see more and more survivors, so to me we’re doing our job,” Betsy said. “Just a few years ago, [data] showed that only one out of three people survived, but now two out of three survive and that’s because of the work of the American Cancer Society.”

Every year the ACS likes seeing more and more people come out for the walk and become aware that there are many other women

fighting the same battle. Every dollar makes a difference, and you never know which dollar is going to find a cure.

“We’re just going to keep fighting till we figure it out,” Betsy said.

The American Cancer Society also puts together Relay For Life, which is the largest walk ACS has. A Relay For Life event is held in almost every community around CNY. Relay for Life events support cancer of all kinds and occur from the end of the spring to the middle of summer.

“The reason we have a specific walk just for breast cancer is because we found that that was the call we were getting most,” Betsy said.

“For every two calls, one of them is for someone going through breast cancer.”

The walks around CNY give people who are fighting cancer a chance to show they are winning the battle.

Without some of the “great sponsors,” Betsy says all of this would not be possible. This year, some of the flagship sponsors are: Syracuse Woman Magazine, 93Q, News Channel 9, New York State United Teachers (NYSUT), Price Chopper, Hematology Oncology, Upstate Cancer Center and Excellus.

At the American Cancer Society, it is commonly suggest that if you’re 40 or older, you should get a mammogram and clinical breast exam every year. If you are under 40, but have a family history of cancer, you should talk to your doctor and get screened earlier.

No matter your age, you should to talk to your doctor and take action as early as possible.

For more information on the American Cancer Society or Making Strides Against Breast Cancer, visit www.cancer.org.

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ERIN L. MEHARG-HARRIS Owner, PETite Prints

BY JASON EMERSON I PHOTO BY CATHRYN LAHM

When Erin L. Meharg-Harris made herself a piece of reliquary jewelry to help lessen her grief over the passing of her beloved dog Gonzo, she had no idea the commemorative work would become her life’s calling. But when people started asking if she could make a reliquary — a locket containing items from a loved one — or a piece of jewelry stamped with customized portraits of their pet, she said yes.

Now, with love for her artistry and demand for her pet portrait jewelry, Erin has started an online fundraising campaign through “Kickstarter” to not only help her business grow, but also to create a coffee table book for people about their pets.

“I feel like I’ve found my calling. This is what I want to do,” said Erin, a Cazenovia resident and artist who previously owned Dragonfly Beads on Albany Street. “I’m hoping this campaign really literally ‘kick starts’ my career in getting this type of work.”

Erin’s professional background is in social work, although her passion is making jewelry. She graduated from Cazenovia High School in 1998 and moved to Vermont, where she received her master’s degree in social work from the University of Vermont. In 2008, she returned to Cazenovia with her dog Gonzo. Gonzo’s unexpected death from kidney failure in 2009 devastated her.

His illness started and ended in a one-week period.

“I was really heartbroken. He was my companion; he was my best friend,” she said. “He was such a physical presence. I needed something tangible after he passed away, so I made the reliquary.”

Her reliquary, a sealed vessel impressed with his image, contained a bit of Gonzo’s hair, soil from his burial site and fuzz from his beloved tennis ball. “It was just what I needed. It felt like a part of him was with me.”

While some people just did not understand her grief — they would say things like, “It’s just a dog!” or “When are you going to get another one?”

For the past four years, Erin has continued making her pet reliquaries, pet portrait jewelry and other jewelry charms with names, designs and animal images on them, such as specific dog and cat breeds. She currently works out of a studio in the Delavan Center in downtown Syracuse, as well as in a studio in Bethel, Vt., where she also spends time as an apprentice to renowned artist Celie Fago.

While making her specialized pet portrait pieces, Erin realized the jewelry was not only special to people, but so was the cathartic power of her clients sharing their pet stories.

This connection sparked the idea to create the “PETite Prints” book, which is filled with images of amazing animals, quotes about life with pets and comforting words for coping with the pain of their passing. It also includes images of her commemorative jewelry.

In a way, this method of assuaging people’s grief is a perfect blend of Erin’s social work background and her passion for creating (continued on page 44)

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MARILYN RINGWOOD

Owner, Elsbeth Rose

BY JAMES MANN I PHOTO BY CATHRYN LAHM

In today’s world, fashion has become a part of our everyday lives. No matter what’s on the agenda for any given day, there’s one choice that always has to be made — what to wear.

Many women wake up and know exactly what they’re going to wear, but for others, the choice may not be so simple. For 30 years, Marilyn Ringwood has been helping women all around Syracuse find their style and make sure they are happy with what they wear every day.

Marilyn is the proud owner of Elsbeth Rose, a clothing store best known for its Armory Square location in downtown Syracuse. Elsbeth Rose has been around since 2006, and is a staple in the downtown fashion scene.

“My shop is named after my beautiful daughters, Molly Elsbeth and Caitlin Rose.” Marilyn was a librarian before she became a store owner. She worked for eight years as a librarian, but always had a passion for fashion.

“I started to work in retail a little bit,” she said. “I worked at Ann Taylor for a couple of years. That is when I decided to start my own business.

This is something that can’t be learned, I think it almost has to be innate.”

While owning her own business is no easy task, Marilyn loves what she does. Being able to meet new people every day and help them pick out a new outfit is something Marilyn takes pride in.

“I love the fact that women can walk out of here feeling happy. It’s nice to make someone happy, and in my little way I can do that by finding the right article of clothing.”

Being in a small shop with merchandise that Marilyn has chosen herself, gives her the ability to be able to find exactly what someone is looking for. The fashion style in Elsbeth Rose is a mature style. The target audience is not that of a teenage woman, but ranges from young professionals to a woman in retirement.

When entering Elsbeth Rose, many women realize how amazing the fashion style is in the store and how many different outfits they could see themselves wearing.

“I hear a lot of women ask me, ‘Who is the buyer?’” Marilyn said. “I’ll say that I am, and they’ll say, ‘You have a beautiful taste level. You have a beautiful sense of style.’” Hearing people give you this compliment as a store owner would only propel one to continue on with work.

“That’s like the highest compliment. It is sort of like what my mother had. It is nice that I inherited that from her.”

Not only does Marilyn own Elsbeth Rose in Syracuse but also a second store in Fayetteville, Elsbeth Rose East. Marilyn has been the owner in Fayetteville for three years, and while the stores may not be exactly the same, one thing is — the style.

Marilyn does the buying for both stores, creating a nearly identical fashion style in both. Although the Fayetteville store is not her own invention, Marilyn brings a different style to women in Fayetteville who may not be aware of her store in Armory Square.

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GIOVANNA McCARTHY Owner, Paparazzi Salon & Spa

BY JAMES MANN I PHOTO BY JUSSARA POTTER

When a women talks about her appearance, her hairstyle could most definitely become a focal point. Taking care of hair is no easy task when you have a lot of it. However, when you have the passion and patience that Giovanna McCarthy has, making hair beautiful is that much easier.

Giovanna has a business degree under her belt, which was one big step in her becoming the owner of her own salon. She has been in the hair business for 30 years. Twenty-two of those years she has been the proud owner of Paparazzi Salon and Spa in Liverpool.

“I really wanted to concentrate on making people feel good, look good and be beautiful,” Giovanna said.

Giovanna enjoys a very eclectic style. While no person’s hair is the same, having a style that you are most comfortable with is something you can suggest to other women. The eclectic style gives diverse opportunities to women who may think that there is no style for them.

“It’s a fashion forward salon,” Giovanna said. “I go with whatever the fashion is at the moment.”

Choosing the style in the salon is not easy. However, with the help of her co-workers deciding to go with the fashion that currently “rocks the world” — is the safest bet.

A modern professional woman’s hair is an important part of her look.

Looking professional and trying to have fun at the same time is not always easy.

“I definitely feel that in life for women if they don’t look good, if they don’t feel good, they’re not having fun,” Giovanna shared. “I have done plenty of wedding parties…trust me, if women aren’t happy with their hair, they’re not happy with anything.”

According to Giovanna, the beauty industry is in a transition period, which it makes it even tougher to find a salon as good as Paparazzi.

Also, she shared that a lot of these places are unable to handle the cost of keeping the business open and have to shut down.

“I think that you’re seeing spas as a whole diminishing in size, but increasing in quality,” Giovanna said. “We’re definitely going through a peak type atmosphere, which is not as big as it used to be. It is smaller-end, and more personalized.”

While Paparazzi is famous for their hair stylists, they are also known for their spa. The spa has nearly everything. Including airbrush tanning, anti-aging treatments, ear care, foot care, hand and nail care, massages, services for groups and bridal parties, waxing and spa packages that might just take your breath away. The diverse service offering attests to Paparazzi’s versatility.

People of all ages come in from all over Central New York to see what the salon and spa has to offer. Making her clientele happy is something Giovanna takes pride in doing and gives people the desire to come back into the salon and receive treatment on either their hair or body. (continued on page 44) syracuseWomanMag.com ::august 2013 syracuseWomanMag.com :: september

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jewelry. She thus decided to create a business and set to work on a website, an Etsy business site, business cards and other marketing tools.

However, she needed a way to really get her business off the ground and into the marketplace, and that’s when one of her friends suggested she look into the Kickstarter website.

“It’s really for a woman who is looking for something a little bit different to wear. She may not want to leave Fayetteville to find it, so she can find it in my store.”

“I love what I do. I’ve always loved what I do,” Giovanna said. “I enjoy it so much. I enjoy my clientele. I have probably had one of the most eclectic, different, fun clientele that you can possibly have in Syracuse.”

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After agonizing over what type of funding goal and deadline to set, Erin launched her “PETite Prints: Custom Pet Portrait Jewelry” campaign on kickstarter.com on June 20. Her goal was to raise $3,500 in 30 days, or by July 20. For each monetary pledge she receives from $10 to $275, she offers a gift. For example $10 earns you a pdf of the “PETite Prints” book and $275 gets you a custom reliquary of your pet.

On June 25, five days after launching the Kickstarter site, Erin reached her goal.

“That was shocking; it definitely exceeded my expectations,” she said. “It’s so validating to have gotten this and see that people do respond and get really excited about this.”

On the final day of the campaign, which was July 20, 2013, she had 135 backers who pledged $8,573 to her project.

In the end, Erin wants to grow her customer base and put money back into her business, but more than that, she wants to help people. She also hopes to donate a portion of her business proceeds to local animal-related organizations.

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Before Elsbeth Rose, Marilyn was working with the community doing a lot of volunteer work.

While she was always a part of a committee, she had never chaired one for any of the charities she worked with: Catholic Charities, Home School Association for Immaculate Conception and Girl Scouts of America. There was a moment in her life when she told herself she could be the chairperson.

“I just needed to develop a little confidence, and I think in the doing, you develop confidence. So I said I am going to try it, and do it, and I did it.

I feel like I reinvented myself.”

Marilyn loves what she does every day and, with her confidence level, she has noticed she can do what she wants to do, and do it well. It was not just opening her store that she wanted to complete, but also she wanted to learn another language. And so, she became fluent in Italian.

Marilyn continues to enjoy her dream and loves helping women every day. “If there is something you really want to do, just go for it! You’ve got to give it a shot!”

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With such a great core group of people surrounding her, Giovanna has no plans to stop doing what she loves. With her wonderful right hand Jill Aloi and many other phenomenal employees — this job seems to be nothing shy of amazing for this Syracuse woman. Part of being able to enjoy your job, is having the ability to do it until you are ready to call it quits, she said.

That is one big benefit from working as a salon and spa owner.

“That’s the wonderful part about my industry — I can really work at my pace for as long as I want. I plan to do it till I die. I can honestly say there isn’t one day I wake up and don’t want to go to work.”

Paparazzi is open six days a week and is closed on Sunday. Already one of the premier spots in all of Syracuse to receive any hair or body treatment, she only intends to increase her clientele.

“Do what makes you happy, the money will come,” Giovanna said. “Don’t pick a job, don’t pick a profession based on a lifestyle on what people think you should be doing, do what’s right for you.”

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First Date Fashion Faux Pas to Avoid

BY SUSAN DUTCH

Most of us can’t deny that we feel a few jitters in anticipation of a first date with someone who has us intrigued or smitten, but figuring out the answer to that age-old question of “what the heck do I wear?” — adds another layer to our heightened anxiety.

Although I would always recommend staying true to who you are, there are a few considerations that you might want to ponder while rummaging through your wardrobe (or favorite boutique) in search of that perfect head-turning first date outfit.

Let’s start with overall style: If we dress up too much, it may look like we’re trying too hard. If we dress down too much, it could be interpreted that we lack interest in how we present ourselves, are less feminine; and although we may be seen as more down to Earth, we could also be labeled a plain Jane or worse yet, lacking mojo! If we reveal too much skin, tattoos or accentuate certain body parts, that’s all he’s going to see. We want him looking at us — in the eyes—while we’re talking to him. (There’s nothing wrong with providing a little mystery for him to figure out later.)

The next tip is obvious: What you wear depends on the destination of the date.

If it’s to a sporting event, most of us know to keep it casual but do we take it to the level of showing our team spirit? Let’s face it, not too many people actually can wear orange and look attractive. But you can choose to show that you’re a good sport by donning the team colors. (You can always throw on a jacket or sweater over that Otto T-shirt later.)

If it’s a typical lunch or dinner date, your attire will obviously depend on what restaurant you’re going to. Nice jeans and a crisp blouse or sweater and blazer with some great heels or boots make a sharp first date look. But if he says ‘we’ll

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figure it out when I pick you up’, go for your favorite work day to weekend items: i.e, black pants, casual skirt, or other basics that you like.

Now let’s talk about the shoes. What if you’re not sure if he’s taller than you and you show up in fabulous 4-inch pumps that make you look amazing but make him feel, well...small? Should you care? I must admit (and have in previous columns) that I steered away from dating anyone who was shorter than me — just a personal preference. I know. I know. There are many amazing guys under 5’7”. Call me quirky, but I was never real crazy about the awkward thought of kissing downhill. The few times I attempted to do so, it made me feel, well… large. It’s all about feeling great about who you are and how you choose to present yourself. If he has a Napoleon complex, my guess is he’s not your type!

One final piece of advice—it’s probably best not to get a makeover at the MAC counter prior to your date.. Guys typically don’t like to kiss lips globbed with lipstick and you certainly don’t want to leave a watermark of your face on his shirt after a hug either! It’s best to keep your look natural and show off your beauty in all its glory with as little makeup as possible.

All that take-it-or-leave-it advice said, we would be remiss if we didn’t turn this topic around on HIM. What would turn you off about the way he dresses for your first date? What does his choice of clothing tell you about him? What would be a deal breakers for you? Go to www.mizmatch.com and share!

Susan Dutch is a freelance writer who lives in Syracuse with her husband, Bill.

She has written articles on such topics as love, family, marriage and relationships for nearly 25 years, which have been featured in publications across the country.

Follow her on Twitter at @mizmatchblog or email her at mizmatchblog@gmail.com.

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2013 ATHLETA IRON GIRL SYRACUSE

More than 1,000 women gathered at Oneida Shores Park in Brewerton to compete in the fifth annual Athleta Iron Girl Sprint Triathlon.

This annual race has become the area’s leading all-women’s triathlon event in Syracuse. Women of all ages and athletic abilities register for this race months in advance with different goals in mind. For many women, this is not only their first triathlon but also it’s their first effort at becoming an athlete. Syracuse Woman Magazine has been the event’s exclusive women’s magazine for the past two years and sincerely applauds each and every woman who became an Iron Girl. The 2013 champion was Eri Spaulding, of Manlius; Amanda Hatfield, of Oneida, placed second, and Kristen Heath, of Brewerton, rounded out the top three. Great job, ladies, and here’s to 2014!

EVENTS CALENDAR

SEPTEMBER 2013 SYRACUSE STYLE

19 HANDBAGS HELPING HEARTS

19 SWM RUNWAY CELEBRATION-

25 SWM TOTAL WOMAN EXPO

28 TEAL RIBBON RUN/WALK

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WHEN: 7:30 PM WHERE: 100 Block Walton St., Syracuse WHAT: Runway fashion show featuring downtown shops and our cover woman’s designs!

TICKETS: Free fashion show; VIP Tickets available. Visit Syracuse Style on Facebook fo WHEN: 5:30 to 8 PM WHERE: Stickley, Audi & Co Showroom, Fayetteville WHAT: A night of handbags (via silent auction), wine tasting and delicious desserts to benefit Go Red For Women Syracuse.

TICKETS: $20; Call (315) 234.4744

WHEN: 6 PM Reception; 7:15 Fashion Show WHERE: The Landmark Theatre, 362 S. Salina St., Syracuse WHAT: Celebration of real women in our community and a walk-off featuring the Men of Syracuse!

TICKETS: Pre-sale $25; At the door $35; Available at the Landmark or at the SWM offic WHEN: 10 AM to 7 PM WHERE: Horticulture Building, NYS Fairgrounds WHAT: The ultimate girls’ day out featuring women-owned businesses and services focused on women. Syracuse Woman Magazine is the event’s title sponsor. One dollar from each ticket benefits Vera House Inc. WHEN: 9 AM Survivors Dedication; Paws for a Cause Parade 9:15 AM; Run/Walk 10 AM WHERE: Inner Harbor, Syracuse WHAT: Walk/run to raise ovarian cancer awareness. Event benefits Hope For Heather Ovarian Cancer Awareness of CNY. REGISTRATION: www.hopeforheather.org

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TEAL RIBBON

5K RUN - 5K & 3K WALK OVARIAN CANCER

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