| health & wellness |
Count Your Blessings
30 DAY GRATITUDE CHALLENGE by LINDA HOLDERNESS
In the fall of 1621, after a grim year, the pilgrims celebrated their bountiful harvest with a feast. Four centuries later, we continue that tradition of gratitude around our Thanksgiving tables. And as the food feeds our bodies, expressions of gratefulness— voicing good fortune, being thankful—nourish us in other ways. According to a variety of recent studies, feeling gratitude instead of feeling sorry for yourself may reduce headaches and respiratory infections, lessen depression, increase empathy, foster better sleep, and improve the ability to overcome trauma. The key? Practicing gratitude must be more than a one-day-ayear habit. In honor of Thanksgiving, try a gratitude challenge. This month, instead of counting your blessings only on the fourth Thursday, practice gratefulness all 30 days, one small act at a time. To get you started, we offer 30 prompts, some for you, some toward others.
32
stylemg.com
| NOVEMBER 2021 |
The Little Book of Gratitude by Joanna Gray, $9.99 at Ruby’s Books in Folsom, rubysfolsom.com
Start a gratitude journal. Each day, record three things you’re thankful for. Find a pretty notebook at Ruby’s Books (rubysfolsom. com), Face in a Book (getyourfaceinabook. com), or Spin Gifts (facebook.com/ spingifts).
2
Sincerely compliment a stranger. “You have the best laugh”; “I like your style”; or “You’re wonderful at your job" are all great examples.
3
Donate used items in good condition to Snowline Hospice (snowlinehospice. org), Placer SPCA Thrift Store (placerspca. org/support/thrift), or Compassion Thrift Store (compassionplanet.org/ compassion-thrift).
4
Send a thank you note to a friend, your mom or dad, a coworker, etc. expressing how much you appreciate them. Even better, purchase one handmade locally by Jill Nieporte (jillcate. com)!
5
Invite an acquaintance to brunch or lunch, especially someone who might be lonely. Wondering where to treat them? Friends with Benedicts Mimosa House (friendswithbenedictsinc.com), La Provence Restaurant & Terrace (laprovenceroseville. com), and Karen’s Bakery and Café (karensbakery.com) all have mouthwatering menus and inviting environs.
/stylemediagroup /stylemediagroup /stylemediagroup /stylemags
6
Take yourself on a coffee "date": Splurge on an artful latte from your favorite barista. We love Totem Coffee Co. (totemcoffeeroasters.com), Shady Coffee and Tea (shadycoffeeandtea. com), and Reset: Café by Day (resetfolsom.com).
7
Say "please" and "thank you" as often as you can.
8
Compile a book of favorite family recipes for your relatives. Finish the pages with anecdotes, drawings, and photos. Looking for some Style-tested (and approved) recipes? Turn to page 76.
9
Donate your kids’ unwanted LEGO bricks to Teach for America. Shipping is free. givebackbox.com/lego
10
Call your mom.
11
Embrace nature. Revel in the sights, sounds, and smells of the air, flowers, critters, and dirt.
12
Get even closer to nature by planting a garden. Green Acres Nursery & Supply (idiggreenacres. com) can advise you on winter planting in our temperate zone.
13
Tip well for good service. The past year has been rough on people who serve.
14
Accept compliments with grace—you deserve them.
15
Volunteer to help others at a nonprofit whose mission you believe in.
16
Let your phone remind you to be grateful each day. Find free apps online.
Karen's Bakery and Café photo by Ray Burgess. Other images courtesy of their respective companies or organizations.
1
