FROM HOMESICKNESS TO HOME

Overseas Students Reflect on Boarding Life

As the year draws to a close, some of our Senior overseas students reflect on the transformative experiences living in the Boarding house at St Peters. Olivia Fellingham-Beconcini (Year 12) shares how this unique environment has shaped her character, taught her invaluable life lessons and provided a supportive community crucial to her growth and development.

One standout event for Olivia was the House Camp, where students bonded more closely than ever. The camp was packed with activities that pushed students out of their comfort zones, fostering teamwork and camaraderie. Olivia realised the true essence of boarding life during these moments— the friendships and memories created with her Boarding sisters.

Living in a boarding environment significantly influenced Olivia’s growth. She learned patience and maturity, understanding the importance of compromise and sharing space and resources with others. This setting also fostered independence and responsibility, as students had to manage their time and tasks without constant supervision.

As an overseas student, Olivia faced the challenge of being away from family and friends. The initial period was tough, filled with homesickness and isolation. However, she overcame these challenges by surrounding herself with positive influences and seeking help when needed. The support from peers and staff at St Peters was invaluable in helping her adjust and thrive.

The St Peters community has been incredibly supportive throughout Olivia’s journey. Boarding mistresses and school counsellors provided numerous support avenues, ensuring students had someone to turn to during difficult times. Their guidance and encouragement helped Olivia navigate the challenges of Boarding life, making her feel valued and understood.

Olivia advises future overseas students to consider all options carefully. While the experience can be challenging, it is also gratifying. She emphasises the importance of surrounding yourself with positive influences and not hesitating to ask for help. The staff and students at St Peters are supportive and kind, ready to assist every step of the way.

More Reflections from Senior Boarders

Claire Tao highlighted the importance of socialising with peers and seeking support from staff members. Her most memorable experience was the House Camp, and she overcame homesickness through video calls with her parents. Claire advises future students to seek help when necessary and make friends.

Samantha Tan will fondly remember the small moments, like late-night trips to McDonald’s and heartfelt conversations with friends. She spoke about the extensive support network at St Peters, which helped her during her lowest moments. Samantha faced challenges like comparison and self-doubt but learned to embrace her unique journey. She encourages future students to “go for it”, as they will cherish the connections and memories made in Boarding for years.

Like her peers, Yarrah Zhang found House Camp the most memorable experience because it brought everyone closer together. She mentioned that the kindness of the mistresses helped her become more extroverted. Yarrah faced challenges like language barriers and cultural differences but learned to live with them. She appreciated the supportive environment at St Peters, which made her feel included and supported.

Boarding at St Peters has been a life-changing experience for many students. It has taught them patience, maturity and the importance of a supportive community. The challenges faced have made them resilient, and the memories created will stay with them forever. For anyone considering Boarding at St Peters, know it will be a journey filled with growth, support and unforgettable experiences.

Article by: Stuart Delaney, Director of Boarding