World without words

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World without words

Exchanging business cards

Nodding

The simple act of

The Japanese find it difficult voicing

exchanging business

an outright“no”to a question or

cards is more

statement. In fact, as they listen to

complex in Japan

someone speaking, they may nod their

because the business card represents

head as if agreeing but do not take this

not only the person’s identity but also

as agreement.

the station in life. Here are some tips: •

The business card is held with both

Open mouth

hands, between the thumbs and

Displaying an open

forefingers;

mouth is considered

It is extended forward in a respectful

as rude in Japan.

gesture with the printing pointed

That is one reason

toward the other person. A slight

many Japanese,

bow is made at the same time;

especially the

The Japanese will take the card,

women, cover their mouths when

again with both hands and a

giggling or laughing.

small bow, and then read the card

• •

carefully. This may be followed by

Okay sign

another slight bow;

The okay sign in Japan

After this sequence, the Western

may be interpreted as

handshake may occur;

the signal for money,

When Westerners take the business

probably because of

card from a Japanese, they should

the circular shape

avoid checking it casually and

formed by the index

quickly tucking it into a coat or

finger and thumb, which suggests

shirt pocket. They have to look at

the shape of a coin. For example, a

it carefully, then place it on the

Japanese may make a purchase at a

table in front of them for further

food counter and then flash this gesture

reference;

to signal “Give me my change in coins.”

Avoid writing notes on the back of the card. This is considered to be

Smiling

disrespectful towards something

Among the Japanese, smiling often

that represents a person’s identity.

can cover several emotions: happiness, anger, confusion, apologies or sadness.

Presenting a gift should happen in the same way. 99


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