Vintage Allies Quarterly Magazine VAV! MAG My Dear Tess, The gentle art of conversation can be mastered by following a few simple rules. First, stop and think about what you're saying before you speak. This will keep you from chattering on endlessly about a topic your dinner companion has absolutely no interest in. With a bit of thought and a leading question or two, you will find an agreeable topic that your neighbor will delight in. Remember giving your undivided attention to your companion's comments and asking a question or two will have him thinking you're the most charming girl in the room. Avoid trying to be too, too clever in an effort to be witty or popular. Never make a comment about anyone without imagining they are standing within earshot. No unkind or tactless remarks please. By Bonnie Pond Pardon us? Do you have etiquette matters and black tie manners on your mind?
Vintage Allies (VAV!) Reporter, Kitty Etiquette, is perfectly purring your way with proper manners for our Gentle Readers and Listeners. Dear Kitty I've been invited to a most elegant dinner party and while I'm excited about attending, I'm so very nervous. I want to make a good impression but I'll know only a few people there. I've never been a very good conversationalist and don't want to appear dull or boring. Please help! Tongue-tied Tess in Tulsa
Regrets are seldom for what was left unsaid. A dinner party is supposed to be a pleasant place so be careful not to let an amiable discussion turn into an argument. Gently redirect the conversation into more agreeable territory. Just remember that interesting conversation is a matter of give and take and you will be fine. Dress up in your finery and enjoy yourself, Kitty Etiquette
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