Spunout ie Survival Guide to Life (First Edition)

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Sexuality & Relationships

Relationships: the good and the bad

It doesn’t end with your sexuality though, once you’ve come to terms with this, you’re probably heading towards relationshipsville and dealing with your romantic feelings towards other people. This can be like being on a huge rollercoaster; relationships can be hard but they are also lots of fun.

Being in a relationship When a relationship is going well it can be the best feeling in the world. When it’s not going so good there can be feelings of hurt, sadness, anger, rejection and isolation. Your confidence is low and it can be hard to think clearly. Just remember that if your partner puts you down then they’re not worth it so move on! If you are feeling pressured to do something you don’t want to do or don’t feel comfortable with: say no. Respect your own choices and make sure to respect your partner and that they respect you. If you are getting involved sexually then it makes sense to know about the risks and do something about them. Remember the age of sexual consent is 17 (find out more in our chapter on sexual health).

Being single Not everyone has to be part of a couple or in a relationship. Being single can be more fun as you are free to do your own thing, be with 86


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