75
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Ministry Highlight
ORGANIZING FOR HEAVEN GETTING AFFAIRS IN ORDER
By Carolyn Barta and the Rev. Greg Pickens
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he death of a loved one is a stressful time for family members and friends — and even more so for the one who also has the responsibility of planning and implementing the final arrangements for their loved one. However, this load can be lightened with just a few hours of planning. This is truly a wonderful gift to those we leave behind. While proper planning does require some thoughtful contemplation, our Worship and Liturgy staff offers assistance with funeral plans and, if desired, inurnment in one of our sacred spaces on campus. In addition, the Pastoral Care team offers a two-session series entitled, Organizing for Heaven to help one think through the general elements of having a funeral at Saint Michael.
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THE ARCHANGEL | Spring 2022
In the most recent series of Organizing for Heaven, the Rev. Greg Pickens, Associate for Pastoral Care, discussed various aspects of funeral planning and explained the options for choosing a sacred space at Saint Michael as a final resting place. Beginning with a history of Christian burial, the class discussed the ramifications of deciding to choose a church rather than another venue for a funeral. Funerals at Saint Michael are distinctly Christ-centered worship services in sacred spaces and so our parish has its own history and customs that bless and guide our Episcopal funeral choices. Next was presented an overview of the scriptures and music that constitute an important portion of a funeral and how those choices
shape the message of the preacher. Also, if a short spiritual reflection is to be read by a family member, how would those words inform the memories of the congregation? This portion of the service is an opportunity for the congregation to hear about the values that guide and support a life in Christ. The class then talked through the generalities of funeral bulletin offerings and the ways a single page Order of Service is different from a tri-fold format. Finally, the topic of funeral receptions was brought up. Saint Michael receptions are held in the Parlor or Garden Cloister. Families may choose something as simple as coffee and cookies or they may opt to engage a catering company for a more elaborate food offering. The Worship and Liturgy staff can provide contact information for specific
