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Joanna Lumley appears the epitome of confidence but here she reveals how she has to psych herself up to speak out


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❝What makes me nervous❞ S he’s made politicians quake in their boots and more recently prompted an unprecedented public apology from Gordon Brown over what she called a smear campaign regarding her Gurkha campaign. So it may come as a surprise that Joanna Lumley is human just like the rest of us and needs to boost her confidence before stepping out. “I get nervous when I have to give a speech so beforehand I psych myself up by saying, ‘I’m longing to be out there to be talking to my darling friends (as yet unmet) but who I know I’ll like, on a subject I’m longing to talk about it. I can’t think of anything I’d rather be doing. Let’s go!’ ” It’s this get-up-and-go attitude that has stood Joanna in such good stead over a career spanning four decades – and why she is as busy as ever. When we meet on a cloudy spring morning this strikingly attractive women, unbelievably 64 next month, is full of enthusiasm for her latest project, an epic 4,200-mile exploration of the Nile from end to end in the four-part ITV1 series Joanna Lumley’s Nile. It’s a factual programme, like others Joanna has so successfully presented on the northern lights and cats, that capitalises on her likeability factor. For after Joanna’s triumph in securing UK

settlement rights for Gurkhas last year, her cachet went through the roof and cemented her reputation as a national treasure. In middle age she’s on a career high that much younger starlets would give their supersmooth skin for. “Yes, the sun has come out and I can’t see a cloud at the moment, but we all know what the weather’s like – it changes,” chuckles Joanna. “So at the moment I’m just fantastically lucky that some of these things that I’ve longed to do all my life are happening. On my wish list was doing good work as an actress, and I’ve got a play that’s going to Broadway this autumn. I also did four episodes of BBC1’s Mistresses and then I’m in a film with the lovely Isabella Rossellini. This is all wonderful stuff. “But things can go ‘Bang!’ I’ve been hot before and then it goes cold and you’re like, ‘Hang on, what went wrong?’ Nobody can sustain a level, and nobody does. It’s wrong; everything goes in waves. The sun is shining now, so shake the apple tree now because it will go away again.” With her love of adventure – she and her husband, musician

On the campaign trail – Joanna pictured on a visit to Nepal where she was hailed a hero by the nation

Stephen Barlow, don’t book hotels when they travel abroad, preferring the excitement of the unknown. Nor is Joanna the girliest of girls. “I think there are masses of tomboys who like climbing and travelling and things that are considered men’s domain,” muses Joanna. “Like me, they couldn’t be more in love with men, but they don’t just want to be sissy girls.” There’s nothing sissy or girly about Joanna’s latest adventure, Joanna Lumley’s Nile, in which she heads down

Joanna shares a secret Psst… ‘While filming the Nile series I became really sick. I felt dreadful, but I had to keep filming. We were in the Sudan filming this man who was acting out a story of how he’d survived a crocodile attack. I was down in the sand commando-crawling with him and you’d never know I was nearly dead! My face looks a bit chalky and you can see the sweat on my face.’ YOURS

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9/4/10 15:32:00

dream I followed my

Doing a marathon

changed my life Lesley Sinfield, 67, from Essex, struggled to walk one mile but she was determined to take part in the London Marathon...



Running the London Marathon gave Lesley the courage to take on new challenges

I asked my friend and seasoned runner, Chris Collins, for tips and began training on Christmas Eve. I walked as far as a tree then toddled to a lamp post and by the end of December I was running a mile. As the miles grew so did my confidence. One winter’s night I ran round and round a running track in sleet and snow and loved every moment. Three days before the race, when I was beginning to feel really nervous, Mandy said: ‘Just go for it, you have my support.’ This gave me the confidence boost I needed. The big day arrived. After slathering my tender spots with Vaseline, I joined the long queue for the loos. Then we were off! There were so many runners it took 20 minutes to get out of the gates. Along the way, the spectator support was overwhelming and kept me going. Around the Isle of Dogs, nature called. I spotted a pub and dived into the ladies. By the time I entered Parliament Square the cars and buses were running again. My husband David stepped out and stopped the traffic so I could run to the finishing line – what a star! I had done it, in just

over seven hours. My family made such a fuss of me. The fitness bug hasn’t gone away. Completing the marathon has pushed me to be courageous in other areas of my life. Fired up after with the thought that I could do anything, I enrolled for an English A level and passed with an A grade. Running has given me a lifelong belief in active body, active mind. ✤ For information on The London Marathon visit www. *Always consult your GP before taking on any training or exercise programmes. ✤ Have you followed your

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very April my two daughters, Mandy (46) and Jane (45), and I would watch the London Marathon on telly. Brilliant as the elite runners were, we’d always be willing on the first timers, the young, the old and the fat. I’d say wistfully: ‘I’ll be there one day,’ and Mandy would reply: ‘Mum, you never will’. I secretly vowed to prove her wrong. I was 47, short and round, with legs like Ernie Wise – definitely not built for running – but in September 1989 I filled in my entry form and sent it off, thinking it was very unlikely I’d get a place. Two days before Christmas a letter dropped on the doormat. I’d been accepted! My first thought was, ‘How on earth am I going to run 26 miles when I struggle to oemneoamw oaklm k eo ne. m .lil.’e?’. walk one mile?’.


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On my 60th birthday I felt the only thing I regretted was that I’d never had the chance to learn to play the piano. It was now or never, because my hands were getting weaker with arthritis. I bought myself a beautiful baby grand piano and a few tutor books. At first my brain didn’t take anything in and the pain in my hands limited me to no more than ten minutes. Six years later, I can play for two hours, at grade five level and I almost feel I’ve had a brain transplant! I am so contented and happy and now have new laughter lines to prove it. Cynthia Rigby, Shropshire

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It is depressing when someone says it’s ‘old age’ when they’ve forgotten something. People of all ages forget sometimes. My daughter recently booked tickets doonline Gf ofordr o a show; they arrived, she put them away and on the day of the show got them out and realised she’d booked tickets for a previous date and at another venue! Margaret Sillett, Wiltshire ✤ We receive hundreds of letters and cannot reply to each one. We publish as many as we can and if they do not appear they may be used on our website or in other Yours publications. Those not printed help us to keep in touch with your feelings and concerns and we enjoy reading them. We like to include photographs, so please send them with your letters and, if you want

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Giraffe print embellished top, £24, sizes10-22

Best 50+ Retailer BON MARCHÉ Floral print top, £19, sizes 10-22; white jeans, £24, sizes 10-22, David Emanuel; beaded flat sandals, £10, sizes 3-8; gem necklace, £8 D Highly commended: Marks & Spencer, Bhs

‘You can’t beat Bonmarché for flattering fashion at a great price’

Rhinestone starburst necklace, £6 Square print chiffon neck scarf, £4

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Black glitter sandals, £10, sizes 3-8

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Flower stud earrings, £2.50

Embroidered cardigan, £38, sizes 8-20, Betty Jackson Black; print dress, £65, sizes 8-20, Betty Jackson Black; patent bow heels, £25, sizes 3-8, Red Herring; sunglasses, £25, Butterfly by Matthew Williamson; spike necklace, £35, Betty Jackson Black; bangle, £20, Star by Julien MacDonald; white leather bag, £55, Star by Julien MacDonald D Highly commended: Bhs, Next


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Ask us anything… about money


your money at 50, 60 & 70+ Sarah Jagger shows you how to give your cash a well-earned boost in your 50s, 60s – and throughout your retirement years ✤ Pay off debts before starting to save. This is because the interest cost of debts is much higher than the interest earned on savings. ✤ Set up a savings safety net. Once you are out of debt, set up a standing order from your bank account into a high interest savings account. Aim to set aside enough to cover you against emergencies for at least three months.




Aim to set aside enough to cover you against emergencies ✤ Cut down on your dayto-day spending. Keep a spending diary for a few weeks and you’ll soon find out where the money is going. ✤ A cash ISA should be your first consideration for saving cash, simply because it’s taxfree. You can save up to £5,100 in a cash ISA this year. For best providers see www.which. ✤ Your easy access savings

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account can currently earn three per cent. If it doesn’t, switch. Financial companies drop their rates without warning. If this happens to you, move to a better account. ✤ It’s possible to get rates of five per cent if you’re willing to lock up your money in a fixed-rate savings account for four or five years. However, if interest rates improve between now and 2015, you won’t be able to move your money. Best deals at ✤ Keep your money safe and don’t put more than £50,000 in one banking institution. ✤ If you are a married and one of you pays a higher rate of tax than the other, reduce tax by making sure all sources of taxable interest or investment income are held only in the lower tax payer’s name.


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credit union, call the Association of British Credit Unions on 0161 832 3694 or see ✤ If you live alone you are entitled to a 25 per cent reduction on your Council Tax. If you have a ‘severe mental impairment’ such as Alzheimer’s disease, you don’t have to pay at all.

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r tes just for you r wri The all-round entertainer and Yours columnist pays tribute to Corrie’s best-loved harridan, Blanche


I saw just how much Maggie herself was loved when, back in February, Debbie and I went up to Manchester for a thanksgiving service for her life. The beautiful Salford Cathedral was packed to the gargoyles not only with friends, the cast and production team of The Street, but with hundreds of people who just knew her from the telly. It was the most perfect tribute – a close-knit family of fellow workers joining together in salute to a very special lady. Anne Kirkbride, Sue Nicholls, Anthony Cotton, Graeme Proctor and William Roache all read, as only friends can. Bill’s tribute was a collection of the great one-liners Blanche had delivered over the years. To her daughter: “Good looks are a curse – you and Ken should count yourselves lucky.” On her childhood: “Oh yes, rickets, TB, rationing – those were the days!” How fond everyone was of Maggie was summed up by almost the youngest person there in a poem written and spoken by Brooke Vincent, who plays Sophie Webster. Brooke told me I could Roy makes a welcome share it with you, return to the Corrie cast at Blanche’s funeral so here it is…

Roy, aka Archie, on the Corrie set with the late Maggie Jones, who played Blanche

My poem to Maggie: What do I say, where do I start? The fact is you were very close to my heart. Whenever I saw you, whenever we talked, Whenever we sat or whenever we walked You always made me smile, we always had a joke, We always shared a laugh whilst having a smoke. I loved the time the iPod was introduced to Blanche, I said that I would get you one so you could have a dance. The next was when I said Primark was where my top was from, You said to me that next time you deffo wanted to come. The one thing I loved was that you were like my Nana, You didn’t have a clue who was Hannah Montana. You didn’t know about the iPhone, You didn’t know JLS, In your own head the Beatles were always the best. The only thing I wanted to say is that you are missed so much By so many people whose hearts you have touched. Thanks Brooke – no one could have put it better. YOURS

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inally someone has persuaded the powers that be at Coronation Street that Archie Shuttleworth is needed back in Weatherfield. I was so thrilled to be asked back. What would be my story this time? I had visions of having a hot affair with Sally – after marrying and divorcing Carla, taking Becky for a naughty weekend in Bolton and winning Strictly Come Dancing with Norris. What a jolly time I would have had. But I’ve been asked back – to bury Blanche! My sparring partner from The News Huddlines, June Whitfield, will be there with me (playing an old friend of Blanche’s). That’s good news because I always feel happy when I’m with June and I, and everyone else in the cast, will need a bit of cheering up when we film the scene. So many of us will be thinking of the late Maggie Jones, who played the vitriol-tongued harridan so marvellously. She made Blanche a real and greatly loved character.


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Yours Magazine # 87  

Yours magazine Issue 87 brings you news and views on issues that matter to you from the UK's favourite magazine for women in their prime.

Yours Magazine # 87  

Yours magazine Issue 87 brings you news and views on issues that matter to you from the UK's favourite magazine for women in their prime.