Being Woman March 2013 by Shashank Naik

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MARCH 2013

A LIFESTYLE & FASHION MAGAZINE

“BIGG BOSS has made me a Household name”

Sanaa Khan

speaks on her dreams & Life after Bigg Boss

INSPIRING Women in Goa with all the A,B,Cs

Attitude, Boldness, Confidence

Prasad Bidapa’s FASHION WEEK

Travel to Athens A walk through History

Be Healthy & Happy

at every Age & Stage THE HINDI FILM HEROINE 100 Years and Young! BEING WOMAN | MARCH 2013 | 1

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EDITOR’S NOTE

BEING WOMAN! - Is the best gift we women have received, and I cannot express the joy I felt when this title was approved. Till now this was just an idea, a distant dream and I have to admit that this was a challenge! Perhaps the biggest risk I had taken in my life. But the journey began, and the last 6 months have been a frenzy of planning and finally here we are out with the first issue of ‘BEING WOMAN’ . What a great month to kick off ‘Being woman’ magazine as we celebrate woman’s day and ‘Being Woman’ celebrates each woman’s individuality.

EDITOR Lavina De Costa

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Aastha Banga Khandpur Santhi Krishnan Soumitra Roy Kalpana Sunder

SANAA KHAN

PHOTOGRAPHER Karthick Rajmohan MARKETING & BUSINESS DEVELOPMENT Ramesh Narayan Savio Glenville Ribeiro Neoma Noronha Surya Shirodkar

Being Woman is about being responsible parents. With so much happening against women its time we take responsibility to teach our sons to respect women. Being Woman celebrates 100 years of Hindi cinema and salutes all the lovely ladies who have mesmerized us with their performances. We are delighted to feature Sanaa khan as she speaks on her dreams and life after Bigg Boss.

ADMIN Nicola Ratisha Menezes Rosario Venick Desouza

I hope our readership will grow from strength to strength as we begin this long journey together. Feel free to write to us. Feel free to interact with us and share your views and ideas with us. Finally to all our readers, I hope you enjoy reading Being Woman as much as me and my team enjoyed working on it.

MAKE-UP & HAIR STYLIST Sephora Salon & Spa, Panjim, Goa

Finally I thank all the women in my life! Wishing you all a Happy Woman’s Day! Cheers! Lavina

Jonathan Rodrigues

The Team

Savio Glenville Ribeiro

BEING IN FOCUS

DESIGN COORDINATOR Shivani Kapur

Being Woman is about championing the ideas you’re passionate about, no matter the barriers that might stand in your way and that’s what our ambitious women have to say.

Rosario Venick Desouza

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FEATURE WRITER Jonathan Rodrigues

Being Woman is all about fashion and we have some great jewellery products to celebrate woman’s day and an exclusive coverage of Fashion Guru Prasad Bidapa’s fashion week.

Neoma Norhona

INDIA’S LEGAL DIVAS Corporate lawyers DEVIL WEARS PRADA How to cope with the evil boss REACHING FOR THE STARS Young entrepreneurs with their Brand ‘PAADUKA’ A BEAUTIFUL MIND VALANKA ALEMAO on what inspires her to work behind the spotlight

PUBLISHER Lency Dcosta

My team of young fresher’s have worked night and day neglecting their personal lives and through all this has emerged this beautiful first issue of this magazine. In a world oversaturated with unrealistic ideals, I am glad I have met so many women who are redefining lives in such amazing ways. All the women in our inaugural issue feel proud to share their story and give us an insight into their unique and inspiring lives. I feel proud that so many women in Goa have made progress for themselves by denying and defying social boundaries.

Aastha Banga Khandpur

BEING AMBITIOUS

CREDITS

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This league of inspiring women represent 09 the authentic, gorgeous women in Goa

100 SENSUAL YEARS 70 Celebrating Bollywood’s most charming ladies

Fashion Guru 22 Prasad Bidapa’s Fashion Week Celebrate Women’s day 31 with exciting jewelry Exclusive sarees in vogue 33

BEING HEALTHY Health care at 74 every age and stage Live happily ever after 76 with Diabetes says Dr. Sheetal Varalwar

BEING IN FOCUS SANAA KHAN: talks on life before and 38 after Bigg Boss

Workaholic and full of energy 50 SHARON D’SILVA shares her success story

ENTERTAINMENT

BEING TRENDY

EXPLORING HORIZONS

Let’s go vegan this month with great 62 Vegetarian food recipes SUMMER VEGETABLES 66 Go green to beat the heat with these great summer veggies

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Does your sonny boy know 46 to respect women? Be prudent before hiring your maid 48

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BEING RESPONSIBLE

THE COUNTRYSIDE EARTH MEETS ART 80 Women keeping the pottery tradition alive

TRAVEL A walk through history 84 -Travel to Athens

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WOMEN “She can take you on a high, Be your comfort when you cry, But if you look into her eyes, You’ll see the strength of a woman....” -Shaggy

he strength to endure the torture of childbirth. The strength to keep going even as everyone else gives up; making sure a meal is set on the table, even through sickness and fatigue. The strength to take on a new name, enter a new home, knowing she risks the possibility of loneliness and abandonment. But beneath all this ‘strength’ lies that divine charm that completes the essence of BEING WOMAN. Most men will agree that women can kill you both with their presence and absence. Women have charmed us through the generations – a Granny’s cuddly bear hug, a romantic night with your wife, a mother’s impeccable noon cuisine or a daughter’s warm peck on the cheek every morning as you wake up – making life worth living. They can just turn your world around and get your feet back on the ground. The more you try to understand them the more mysterious they turn out. Christian mythology narrates an incident where Adam, the supposed male ancestor, was robbed of one of his rib, to create Eve. The significance of God’s great

theft that night sometimes amazes me. Why give Eve that extra rib? We mysteriously discover that this stolen rib probably possesses heavenly characteristics of warmth and compassion, besides the hypothetical gift of ‘expression’ that licenses them to speak for hours, on any given topic, close to their heart. Some may call it a ‘Kebab mein Haddi’, but more often than not it’s that stolen rib which gives a woman her substance and completes a man. Goan women have had to live with an unfortunate branding of being seamless and un-ambitious. This rather prejudiced tag which was probably carved by a half-sober ‘broad-visioned’ man is now history. The author would like to hereby declare the ancient saying, “you will never know what a woman wants, because she herself has no clue” as total thrash. The women we met will prove to you that the once upon a time subdued species know exactly what they desire out of life. They bare their heart out to Jonathan Rodrigues on an exclusive theme of what it means to BE A WOMAN.

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“A witty woman is a treasure; a witty beauty is a power.” George Meredith

ometimes she’s the ‘lovey-dovey’ romantic; other times she’s as rude as a witch, she can make you laugh louder than she can make you cry; she can be an intimidating cop or a caring mother. This is no schizophrenic on the loose, but a charismatic personality who has captured the hearts of all those who have watched her dazzle on the stage. She has flirted with almost every possible role. “Experimenting with different characters makes an actor complete,” stresses the powerhouse of modern day Goan tiatr. However this sense of achievement comes with a few limitations - The audience begins to judge you as a person according to the characters you play on stage.

has respected marriage as a commitment for life.” She opines, condemning the exposure and themes used in daily soaps and advertisements to brainwash the audience. It sounded more like a rom-com flick when she narrates the story of how she found love at the railway station. “We saw each other for the first time at the Margao station,” she reveals “He has always been supportive of my career.” Her family means everything to her, though sometimes she just wants to be by herself, lost in her stray thoughts. “I have no regrets in life, since whatever I do, I do it to perfection.”

“People think I am proud and pompous and frightening. But when they meet me in person, they are shocked to know the real me,” she says referring to reactions on her vamp roles. Her claims are absolutely true. You wouldn’t find her menacing at all, as she sits in her drawing room all cuddled with teddy bears and soft toys and aquariums bubbling with aquatic life. Being a celebrity and having experienced the change in the acting world, she has got used to the false publicity. She says “Can’t mix reel and real life. In time, I have learnt to balance both.” Coco Chanel once said ‘dress shabbily and they remember the dress; dress impeccably and they remember the woman.’ Although, the negative roles have brought her some momentary notoriety, she is familiar with the fact that people yearn to see her on stage. “Sometimes, people come to just watch me dress. They say I haven’t changed at all,” says the heartthrob who has set the tiatr stage on fire all over Goa, Mumbai and the UAE.

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GOANAnne TIATR Quadros

She worked as a chartered accountant for six years, before plunging full time into Konkani theatre. “Those days, they used to have two plays at a time. There used to be a lot of prompting, today it’s all about improvisation.” Her fans love her, for her on the spot monologues and she even has the reputation of turning a damp plot into a hit. If the situation demands, she has the confidence to get on stage without reading any script and still get the crowd going. “The Marathi cinema artists were surprised to see that we had reached up to their level. “She says. Achievement has encouraged her to never look back on her dreams. “Appreciation from the audience appreciation is something that fascinates me.” Recently she has ventured into acting and producing films. “Tiatr acting is different from movie acting, “she explains, “they are two drastically diverse genres; even the makeup and costumes differ.” A firm propagator of decency and dignity, she has no qualms of the changing partying trends. “Occasionally, going partying is okay, but using drugs and drinking beyond limits is not acceptable.” Nonetheless, she wants young girls to be independent and stand on their own feet. “Do whatever you can do; don’t force yourself to do something because of someone else.” “Today, Women are judged equally with men; they hold different level posts in varied fields.” “I have no maid at home, I do all the home chores,” she boasts proudly. Besides cooking, she also spends time stitching - a hobby that she picked up on her own. “I design my own costumes and create my own jewelry.” Being a popular figure, she is very much concerned about the negative influence of the media, especially the ads and serials. “T.V. shows are wrongly interpreted. The crime prevention serials should depict more of the punishment and less of the crime.” The fact that people interpret what they see in the real sense worries her the most. “Family life portrayed in serials has no values, no role models. Polygamy is romanticized, when our society

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“Do whatever you can do; don’t force yourself to do something because of someone else.”

Her Thoughts on... Long lasting appeal “I am still slim and fit and people like that I haven’t changed. “ If she was a man “I would have freedom to make my own decisions.” What she would say at a final farewell “Hanv jhosi ailoli sadim, thosinch veta, sadim”. (I came into this world –simple, I am going back the same way – simple.) Advice to the young brigade “Be responsible for your actions and decisions.”

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“There is more to sex appeal than just measurements. I don’t need a bedroom to prove my womanliness. I can convey just as much sex appeal, picking apples off a tree or standing in the rain.” Audrey Hepburn

THE GOD MOTHER Aruna Har Prasad

he ‘private jungle’ as she calls it had a quiet peaceful ambiance until I approached the gate. Hell broke loose as the canines demanded my identity. In the distance I see a lady almost camouflaged with her pristine surroundings full of colorful butterflies and flowering plants. Her smile lit up my tired expression and the balance in the environment was restored. As she held my hand and escorted me to her home, I couldn’t help, but admire her love for nature. She even wore it in her hair. Amazingly, the timeline of her journey of life was framed by pictures on the wall. It appeared as if she had all the time in the world to recount her life story. Her style and grace might remind you of India’s first lady prime minister, but her charm is as unique as her tale. She believes that women hold the edge in this changing world. “A woman has the womb to give birth to the world.” “Today people want quick fix miracles, then we had the luxury of time.” she reflected before narrating how she had perfected the 12 bore rifle. “We found time for lucrative hobbies that pleasured us, like hiking and shooting,” she held, comparing those days to today’s trend of running to a counselor. “Hobbies were a perfect outlet for us to get rid of any stress.” Narrating an incident that took place in England, where she was all alone and confronted by a couple of hoodlums; she explains how after a brief surrender, she mustered up the courage to play along. “Always change the topic; never aggravate it when you are alone. Even if touched, pretend it never happened,” she further advices, “Try and diffuse the situation, don’t agitate it.” He demanded that he walked her home. Ignoring his arm around her, she talked of flowers and elephants and gradually got him interested in the conversation. Eventually his arm dropped off and the tamed thug accompanied her to her doorstep like a gentleman. She is quick to point out that not all situations are similar and that one must not lose focus when cornered. On the other hand, she refutes the theory of stubborn provocation. “It is basic instincts. You wear revealing clothes to attract the opposite sex and then you ridiculously say ‘Don’t get attracted’.

people travelling across the nation should learn to respect the local culture. “You don’t moralize from where you come. The skill is to blend with the locals by keeping your identity.” Now, having breathed in the homely Goan culture, she claims there is no place like it in India. Not someone to portray fake modesty, she discloses her secret fantasy, “I enjoy the bow after a standing ovation”. Her perfect day would consist of capturing her best photographs, suffering no writers block; and plan and inspire new ideas. She boasts of being an over the shoulder cook and claims to cook tasty pork chops that will put any restaurant to shame. With nothing to lose, I obliged to be the judge of that test at her ‘Kasa-Bebinca.’ Now behind this god-motherly picture is an artistic genius who has dared to venture where many men have not. For her, truth has always been stranger than fiction. A career that took off in 1978 became a lifelong passion, where her new interpretation of reality surprised her viewers to question their beliefs and discover little understood aspects of their lives. “India is full of stories but filmmakers never research. It is the foreigners who teach us our tradition,” she sighs referring to so many films that have become worldwide hits.

“It’s a sin when you have a gift of talents, but you are too stupid to recognize or too frightened to use”

Her Thoughts on... Generational Stress “The Older lot does not get burnt out; it’s the ability to find time and ways to refresh yourself.” Politics “Politics is an injection; the younger lot is more corporate than social, they need to reach out to people.” If I woke up as a man “Roam the world, rides horses, direct more feature films.” Being elegant “It is a signal to be treated the way you carry yourself.”

In 1988, she established her own company, KAS Movie Makers. The diverse influences and years of experience in production have helped her develop her own brand of a powerful narrative and visual story telling as a Director. Her documentary on ‘the tribes of the Andaman and Nicobar Island’ is marked by this distinctive bold style and remains till date, one of the most exclusive visual narratives on one of the last primitive tribes. Aruna Har Prasad is as real as a 3D motion picture. Decked in colour and grace, with a pair of yellow and red flowers plugged in her hair; she gave life to every word she spoke. Overwhelmed and stuffed with lemon and chocolate pies, I took my leave. “It’s a sin when you have a gift of talents, but you are too stupid to recognize or too frightened to use, “she reminded me.

Religion “Love the aesthetics in religion, but I cannot believe blindfolded. “

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“I am two women: one wants to have all the joy, passion and adventure that life can give me. The other wants to be a slave to routine, to family life, to the things that can be planned and achieved.” Paulo Coelho,‘Eleven Minutes’

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veryone should dream –Young and Old. Dreams do come true” vouches a name that radiates genuine hope and confidence. This is no fictitious wish fairy we talking about but a fashionable young woman who believes in living ‘today’ to the fullest. “You have one life so you should live it.”

watch a movie.” A huge John Denvour fan, she also loves classical music. I accuse her of being a romantic and she replies, “Totally, I like it when my husband sends flowers and writes little notes when he goes away.”

I took liberty in nicknaming her ‘the nerdy businesswoman’, since at a raw age of 19 she indulged into her bio-chemical research, only to concoct a business venture. Quickly, she dismissed my claims that science students are boring, “we can be a perfect combination of beauty and brains.”

THE

DREAMER Asha Arondekar

Growing up in a rather staunch Rajput family, when women were not encouraged to be ambitious, this tattooed talent was a positive rebellion. Respect was the order of the day in a family headed by a navy man and this strict discipline has shaped her personality immensely. “I am insanely punctual and time conscious, which could be a huge disadvantage”. On the plus side it taught her to communicate effectively with people of different ranks and cultures. “Little things like ‘aap’ make a big difference while communicating with fellow employees, it makes them feel equal and spruces up conversation,” she explains.

“How you prepare your girl to face the world is what counts. Family also inculcated the philosophy of living for Make her strong emotionally, physically, mentally,” today. Being daddy’s boy, she was very fond of him and credits him for her confidence to set goals and achieve them. His three favourite words “Live Playing the ‘agony aunt’ comes naturally to her and employing Life Now” continue to remind her of the times when she would go people and giving them a living makes her content. “It amuses to him pouted like a question mark before an important debate me to see the girls grow up in the company. Dealing with women or event. “He was always optimistic about me taking up new and instilling confidence in them is satisfying and when people challenges and supported me in everything I did.” appreciate our work, I feel really special.” She wishes to do some Her achievements would make a long list but the latest initiative to hospital ministry related social work, travel the world and write. make an impact to society is ‘The Goa Salon and Spa Association’ It is not often we see women speaking highly about her wherein the salons and spas in Goa will now have a licensed contemporaries; this admirable quality speaks tons about her sense certificate. “This will help the client distinguish between officially of security and self confidence. The Orchid awards are her way of authorised and illegal business. acknowledging people who dare to dream. She believes that she is on the path to achieving those dreams she dreamt as a kid and wants every young girl to dream big. Admitting that the new generation is full of creative vision and thoughts at such a tender age, she agrees that they should be given wings to fly. “How you prepare your girl to face the world is what counts. Indian women losing shape after marriage Make her strong emotionally, physically, mentally,” she reminds “The whole focus shifts to the baby, but a little positive motivation by adding, “Proper parenting can help a young girl make the right from her partner and she will make an effort to get back into decisions in life.” shape.”

Her Thoughts on...

Loaded with round the clock appointments and tight schedules, practicing Yoga has helped her find that inner peace. “Meditation and Yoga give me 25 hours in a day, besides keeping me healthy and happy.” Though a devout follower of Shri Ravi Shankar, to whom she feels indebted for life; she opines, “Religion doesn’t matter; the peace I have found in a church I haven’t found in a temple.” Spirituality is an integral part of her personality and this time with herself has kept her fresh and full of mischief. “There is too much of seriousness in this world. My Dad was so full of laughter and that is a reason, I guess, today I can just burst into laughter at any point.” She proved this point over and again, whenever I poked her with questions regarding her crazy side. “My weekends normally consist of cooking and sometimes we 14 | MARCH 2013 | BEING WOMAN

Woke up as a man “Go around and do all the things for women; which men today are not able to do.” Perfect Day “When I go around visiting and see my employees smiling and with no complains.” Media menace “Media is depressing and negative; more stress ought to be on the good things happening. News was an everyday affair when I was a kid, but now it is not recommendable.” Female Uprising “Handle yourself; do not flaunt your freedom.” BEING WOMAN | MARCH 2013 | 15

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“I’m tough, I’m ambitious, and I know exactly what I want.” Madonna

A FESTIVAL OF LIFE

A CELEBRATION OF FREEDOM Ethel Da Costa

true disciple of the liberal school of action, this dynamite of a lady is the changing face of women in our country. She is an extraordinary species that people are yet to discover. “Dad was my backbone; he somehow understood me. Mom is still figuring out where I have come from.” She sniggers referring to her family struggles in dealing with this fiercely independent girl. It isn’t that difficult to decipher the personality behind this ‘turned on brains’ as she calls herself, but the twist lies in her unpredictability. “I can’t tolerate stalemate or the routine; I am constantly in search for fodder to feed my brain.” Not someone who has loitered around with the mundane, this talented soul has tons of experience and exposure, gathered during her varied stints in the media world. “My children are my soul mates; I suppose they “No matter who you are, what chose me through you did or where you’re from, you a hidden pact with can always change; become an God.” enhanced version of yourself” and this attitude has led her to skipper the Radio Mirchi team in Goa - the only woman station director in the whole country.

melts down to make known her heart’s desire. “You are always in search of that chemistry with someone compatible to share your life with,” making it very clear about the type of equal she wishes for. “He should be kick ass and at the same time, a lady’s man - a complete charmer,” she blushes while illustrating. She agrees that women are tired of being the doormat. “We have been forced to be content with being second best. We have had to struggle to prove; oppressed to be liberated.” Nevertheless, for someone who has brought up her kids as a single mom, she has literally lived every girl’s nightmare. “I grew up with my kids, confronting dinosaurs at every step; trying to balance personal and professional life,” she says emphasizing that being a constant role model was the toughest task. “They are my soul mates; I suppose they chose me through a hidden pact with God.”

She has always been the Questioning child she says, “I was always curious and inquisitive, I never assumed anything.” This ambition to do what she believes in and the competitive restlessness of going after her dreams have resulted in creative growth; ultimately scripting her triumphant story. Her first taste of blood was when she did an investigative piece, while working at Gomantak Times. “People began recognizing me for I was outspoken.” From then on, her phone did not stop ringing; offers from youth and lifestyle magazines lay before her. “I always wanted to be rich and famous and travel the world,” she reveals. Femina presented her exactly what she was looking for. Travelling across the country and overseas, she warmed up to assorted cultures and inhaled the universality. “I have the best survival instincts; I ask myself - Can I do this, why can’t I do this?” explaining her decision to move from print media to radio. Just when you begin wondering if the song ‘I’m just a girl and I’m on fire’ rhymes with her persona, she 16 | MARCH 2013 | BEING WOMAN

Her Thoughts on... “I am a global citizen.” On setting and achieving goals “If you are multi-talented, you can be anyone you want to be.” Idea of the right companion “Someone who is confident; who is with peace with himself and his ‘manhood’.”

Developing self worth and self-respect has ignited in this free spirit, a unique spirituality. “I have lived many lifetimes. Everyone goes through the ‘who I am’ journey. You need to love yourself for who you are.” For someone who has lived her life on her own terms, she asserts, “With choice comes responsibility. We were created to flourish and we have the free will to love or hate.” This woman is a festival of life, a celebration of freedom. She believes that everything happens according to fate. “My intentions are strong, they come from a deep space of heart and soul,” She resonates “A girl should passionately believe in her dreams. You must be a preacher of your dreams.” I am glad she had turned on the air-conditioner at Radio Mirchi, as sitting across this inspirational firebrand could light up the road that you dared not take. I left the room in flames, totally motivated and energized to go out there and follow my dreams. Such is the effect of a woman, who desires that her tombstone reads – Ethel Da Costa – “Lived her life her way; on her own terms.”

Favourite music “Sting will always be my love, but Madonna was a symbol of womanhood. She had the talent and just did not care.” Making choices “I think from my heart; learnt to make unemotional, detached decisions.” Message to the youth ‘Find yourselves, be yourselves.” BEING WOMAN | MARCH 2013 | 17

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or someone who has lived in a Joint family all her life, warmth and hospitality are natural things. “Living amongst my near and dear ones taught me Patience and Respect, besides learning to share.”

Her Thoughts on...

Family is what matters most to her even if it involved putting her studies and her career on a hold. A post Graduate degree in Guidance and Counseling gave rise to a career in counseling. She is currently a student counselor at a well known college. She is also the Director of Prime Goan Resorts Pvt Ltd a company that owns and manages Resort Lagoa Azul. “I love my job, as it gives me a sense of purpose and fulfillment.”

“I am not an angel,” I asserted;“and I will not be one till I die: I will be myself.” Charlotte Brontë, Jane Eyre

She wants every young girl to dream big and work towards turning their dream into a reality. “Be surrounded by positive and happy people.” she suggests as a tip for living in a healthy environment, also including, “Be proud to be who you are and embrace yourself as a woman.” “Counseling has taught me three things- I come first; No Expectations and Do not judge others.” For someone who has tasted the oldest wines and sweetest pies, it is the simple gestures of a routine day that make her life worth living. “A word of praise and appreciation and a daily dose of warm hugs from my loved ones make me feel loved, appreciated and so special.” She admits being a demonstrative person and that family today shouldn’t restrain themselves from showing affection. “With a deep instinct I chose a man who compels my strength, never doubts my ability, gives me my space and allows me to be ‘Me’. Most importantly, he has the courage to treat me like a woman. He is my inspiration and my reason for describing ‘life as beautiful’. Not many women would call their husbands their role models but she does for a reason, “he taught me that there is no ego in a marriage”. Finding the extraordinary in the ordinary seems to be her spirituality. Her non-judgmental attitude and productive liberalism permits her to respect all religions. “My religion is simple. It’s a way of life for me. My connect with God is personal.”

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OPTIMIST Melanie Braganza

Quoting Eleanor Roosevelt, “The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.” she admits that she has definitely achieved much more than the goals she set for. In a democratic society that houses uncultured patriarchs who dictate to women their dress code, this woman is a force to reckon with. “Dress has nothing to do with rape. In much more open and permissive societies there is no rape. The attitude and mind set of society has got to change.” she highlights, also suggesting that, “It is the upbringing and education that can make the difference. Gender Sensitization is the need of the hour.” “Style is anything that makes me comfortable. It is not a display of wealth but an expression of my imagination” she opines reminding that it is important to carry one-self confidently. With domestic media continuously reinforcing stereotypical roles, where real modern women never get portrayed, she suggests “The media should portray images consistent with dignity of women. They need to remove negative, demeaning and degrading conventional stereo typical images of women and violence against women.” Melanie Braganza may seem to be the busiest person in the world, but when she makes time for you she is totally involved and listening to you. “Life is what you make of it. There will be ups and downs. You are going to mess up sometimes, that’s the universal truth. Just because you have failed, it does not mean you are going to do so again.” Her words are not hollow wisdom but a deeply rooted conviction that opens up your perspective of looking at life situations.

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“Counseling has taught me three things- I come first; No Expectations and Do not judge others.”

Being brave “Don’t be afraid to stand up for what you believe in, even if that means standing alone”” Being positibe “I LOVE BEING MYSELF” Rise of ‘weaker‘ sex “We are no longer the weaker sex; women today have gained economic independence.” Childhood fantasy “As a kid I use to play teacher and pretend I was in a classroom teaching.”” The right counsel “There is huge communication gap between parents and children and getting advice from peers may not be the right solution.””

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“Maybe we weren’t at the Last Supper, but we certainly are going to be at the next one.” Bella Abzug

eing associated with the Taj Group of Hotels as the Food and Beverage Manager and later the Group Training Manager (Western Region), she has spent the past 15 years training all levels of staff including young chefs to showcase their skills. A trained and certified Educator, her passion for writing is reflected in her critics. She is also the COO of a management consultancy O ‘n’ M Creative Consultants, based in Goa. This multifaceted woman certainly belongs to the species that has worked hard to deserve a sitting at the next supper. She has helped create a buzz and be an amplifier to all those whispers who are very much concerned about Goan cuisine. She says, “Being creative is all about being flexible to the changing times.” Besides the various books written and shows hosted, the latest project close to her heart is the Goa culinary club. This association aims to preserve the cuisine and pass on the legacy to the next generations. She writes in her blog, “We also hope to create a data base to of ‘local’ authentic produce (masalas) used for the preparations.”

THE MASTER CHEF Odette Mascarenhas

an event. Use whatever potential you have but don’t cross the line.” Agreeing that the choice lies with the individual, she stresses on being sensitive to the situation. “One must display some respect in temples and churches, since it reflects the values and characteristics of the person.” “It shouldn’t be about I but about we,” an attitude she regards will help market ourselves to the world outside. “Let the people talk about food, culture and hospitality that Goa has to offer.” On enquiry if it is an identity crisis that thwarts us from venturing outside with our cuisine. She opines, “The identity crisis is not about who we are or our heritage but about where we want to go.”

“The identity crisis is not about who we are or our heritage but about where we want to go.”

The club’s objective is to provide a common Platform for all Goan kitchen preparations used in the dishes. “If the legion of young Goan cooks is programmed to follow logical measures, then standardising is essential,” she says asserting that “Cooks coming from outside have no clue of the typicality of our food. Even hotel management academies lay less focus on our local Goan cuisine.” “The goal is to authenticate Goan food, but before that we must be confident of our own cuisine,” she says referring to how Indian dishes like Butter chicken and masala dosa are known in the USA. Goan cuisine is different from others. “It is a matured cuisine compared to the ‘a la cuisine’ style of Indian cooking.” At an event in Paris, she found it tough yet exciting to explain the tanginess of Goan food to the world. Inspired and determined to make a difference, she vows “I will make sure that Goan food makes an entry into this world.” Girls who want to take up baking as a career are constantly battling the dilemma due to their parents’ expectation and prejudices associated with such a passion. This fizzy lady could be the ultimate guide to any bubbling young cook who wants to make the kitchen her kingdom Elizabeth Peters once said “I do not scruple to employ mendacity and a fictitious appearance of female incompetence when the occasion demands it.” Odette Mascarenhas echoes a similar emotion, “Women lack the confidence to stand up in a man’s world and that needs to change.” Daubed in pink and white, Chateau Odette is like a fairytale palace. Her husband keeps pulling her leg and the two of them keep taking jibes at each other. “Parenting is an important aspect of married life,” she says “The main difference is how you utilize your values to make decisions and plan your life and how you communicate these values and virtues to your kids.” Self-confidence is her brightest asset, she suggests “You must be the master of your own conscious decisions of how to react; the person should know you are in control of what you want to do.” She believes there is a solution to most difficulties if one stays calm. “You must be instinctual; the moment you freeze there is no solution to the problem.”

Her Thoughts on... On cooking dreams as a kid “I did not want to get into the kitchen.” On being discrete to situations “You don’t walk into a pit of vipers.” On dressing sense “It’s not about being vain or pompous. It’s about being practical and not making others comfortable.”

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Stylishly Yours -BANGALORE FASHION GURU Prasad Bidapa

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AMANDA BACHALLI From being designer at SWEAR and NAMA ( Bangalore) to being Manager – Merchandising for TESCO Sourcing India, buyingfor the UK, Ireland and much of Europe; NIFT gave her a sound grounding in the intricacies of Fashion Designing. She graduated with honors from NIFT in 1998. Amanda has had a very exciting career. She taught part time at NIFT and the Shristi School of Design, Bangalore.. After a 5-year work experience in the corporate world, Amanda started her own labels “Amanda” and “Amanda Bachalli”. She has since then shown for many seasons with success. ANJALI SHARMA Anjali Sharma launched French Curve in December 2005, after an experience of 15 years in the garment industry as a R&D Head- Global Labels for 6 years and as Senior Faculty with NIFT for over 10 years. Studio FrenchCurve believes in the art of making clothes. The two labels from the studio are FRENCHCURVE which is a beautifully minimal western prêt line, and ANJALISHARMA which presents exquisite Indian traditional clothing with an edge. Anjaliwas part of FDCI and have shown in London Premier Fashion Week 2010, Wills Lifestyle Fashion Week 2011 and she has participated at the WIFW in New Delhi. ANU & SUSAN AnuNagappa - Anu earned a degree in Fashion Designing from the American College in London and has interned at Emmanuelle’s in London. She is a very experienced designer and specializes in exceptional cuts and fits. She has an anu & susan

his city on the fashion map. The Gitanjali Prasad Bidapa Fashion Week Bangalore premiered in February 2013 and showcased the rich designer heritage of Bangalore.

After colossal success of projects like ‘The Prasad Bidapa Megamodel Hunt’, ‘Colombo Fashion Week ‘and ‘Kingfisher Fashion Awards’, the legendary designer, image consultant and choreographer- The Fashion Guru, Prasad Bidapa decided to fulfil his longstanding dream of putting

The event showcased collections of a range of accomplished and brilliant designers from the city. Their collections ranged from formal evening wear to traditionally weaved khadi garments to high fashion- low price apparel. The event also played host to shows of designers like Seema Malhotra, Ritu Pande, Sanchita and Nimrita. While Seema is best known for her costumes in movies like Shakespeare in Love and Elizabeth, Ritu’s label is a member of Fashion design Council

ore than 30 young talented designers, sponsors like Gitanjali, Fashion Guru Prasad Bidapa and One Event that brought them all together. The ‘Gitanjali Prasad Bidapa Fashion week’ gave out the message loud and clear - Step away Mumbai and Delhi, make way for Bangalore, the new Mecca of fashion.

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of India. Sanchita is one of the Indian designers with maximum international exposure and has worked with labels like Etro, Cavalli, Armani and Versace and Nimrita has been a part of the Wills Lifestyle India Fashion week from the past six years. The event had city’s top models like Bruna Abdullah and Indrani Dasgupta walking the ramp and was attended by the Glitterati of Bangalore. The event was a phenomenal success and is now firmly established in the Bangalore Fashion Calendar as its most important fashion event.

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intuitive sense of what flatters you in fashion! Anu has the distinction of being among the first to introduce designer clothing in Bangalore. Susan Fernandes - Susan has a flair for colour and a keen sense of fashion. Highly creative and widely traveled, she and Anu make the perfect team. Susan drives the Astara sourcing requirements, while also contributing to the design and accessories development process. Not formally trained in fashion, she brings a fresh viewpoint to the Anu & Susan label. AVIRATE Aviraté is an international high-street fashion label offering an incredible range of western wear and accessories For Women. Derived from the Sanskrit word ‘Avirati’, meaning sensuality, launched and marketed in India exclusively by Fashion 365 Retail Pvt. Ltd. Aviraté has many stores in India – The Flagship store at 12th Main Indiranagar,Phoenix Market City, and at The Collection at The UB CITY – Bangalore’s Iconic Mall. They have four stores in Sri Lanka from where they offer their Global collection. Aviraté offers a dress to fit every occasion, designing clothes that are superbly made and reasonably priced. C.KRISHNIAH CHETTY & SONS The birth of Spirit. The birth of Art. The birth of Eternity. The legend dates back to early 1869, when Cotha Krishniah Chetty built a shrine as an ode to the divine feminine.

His first homage to the goddess was made from special tiny coloured beads. He crafted the most beautiful pieces of Jewellery that adorned, enhanced and defined her.In 1869, he gave the shrine a name. It was to be called C. Krishniah Chetty & Sons. His magic invocated the high one and soon found patronage in the Royal families of Mysore, Sandur and Travancore, who became a part of his discerning clientele. Also, his work was highly talked about in the British community located in the Cantonment area. CALANTHA Calantha is a luxury Ready-to-Wear line by Roopa Pemmarajuand Sudhir Swain featuring the original artworks of renowned Indigenous Australian artists on a canvas of ethically hand-woven Indian fabrics. Roopa Pemmeraju believes in Fair Trade and ethical dealings with artists and their communities. Royalties from the sale of each garment are returned to artists’ communities.Calantha, which means lovely flower in Greek, is a beautiful Studio in Dollars Colony, focuses on bringing together a variety of age old crafts and techniques that have been passed down through many generations. c. krishniah chetty & sons

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minimalism, often working with a restrained and elegant colour palette and fabrics that reflect the sophistication of his ouevre. JASON & ANSHU – A SMALL SHOP Jason Cherian & Anshu Arora together present their quirky and edgy label A Small Shop. Known for their alternative style and exquisite use of fabric, they add a dimension of fey nonchalance to their work in women’s wear. If fashion had a genre called Magic Realism, Jason & Anshu would be the designers who practically invented it.

HOUSE OF THREE House of Three is a luxury pret women’s wear label by Bangalore based designer & stylist Sounak Sen Barat. Launched in November A/W 08-09, Saunak is a NIFT alumnus who designs for corporate fashion biggies like Pierre Cardin and Tommy Hilfiger when he is not working for his own label. He believes in the luxury of 24 | MARCH 2013 | BEING WOMAN

LOKESSH AHUJA Lokessh Ahuja is one of Bangalore’s most prolific menswear designers. Considered a classical purist, Lokessh designs for the stylish man who leads an international life. Combining luxury fabrics with superb styling, Lokessh believes that less is more when it comes to the formal and casual ensembles he creates for discerning men. He offers his bespoke collections for men from his atelier on Queen’s Rd., Bangalore.

network of exclusive Metro showrooms at more than 72 prime locations across 32 plus cities in India designed to bring customers, an extensive collection of footwear and accessories to suit their every need. What began as a single outlet in Mumbai has today grown into a nationwide chain of exclusive fashion footwear and accessories stores for the entire family. nimirta

MANISH SAKSENA A lifestyle specialist with 18 years of experience in design, product, management, marketing,store design, visual merchandising in the Indian Retail industry,he has been instrumental in creating landmark changes in the Lifestyle sector through his experience in new and different formats of retail. From leading the growth, expansion and profitability of the iconic brand Tommy Hilfiger in India for the last 6 years as COO for its India operations, he makes his foray into the ecommerce environment with LimeRoad.com. With strong roots in St. Stephens College, New Delhi and London School of Fashion , he has worked in different genres and scopes with Madura Garments as Creative Director, with Landmark Group as Head of Buying.

DEEPIKA GOVIND One of Bangalore’s most senior designers, Deepika is a founder member of the FDCI. With an awesome reputation as a textile traditionalist who supports revivalist techniques & processes in weaving, dyeing & printing. Creating modern & beautiful shapes out of traditional silk, linen & cotton, Deepika celebrates an incredible Indian sensibility with a global sense of style. Her work in Khadi has elevated the freedom fabric into an international statement of design. She has worked on significant design projects with weavers from every part of the country. GANJAM For over one hundred years, leading Indian jeweller Ganjam has successfully risen to the challenge of adorning beautiful women with works of art that delight and satisfy them. The jewellery crafted by Ganjam has been desired and worn by Royalty, with many Maharajas and Maharanis continuing to patronize our wealth of designs. Ganjam continues to grace the women and men of modern India, and countries beyond. Inspired by the South Indian temple architecture, these pieces with the sheer intricacies of design and flawless craftsmanship is true to its traditional roots, becoming family heirlooms with an impeccable heritage.

decades, has been producing 100% pure silk with pure gold zari.

MOCHI SHOES In the year of liberation, 1947, a lone shoe store opened its doors to the public in Colaba, Mumbai. Metro Shoes, the brand, is now a household name in India. Over the past six decades, the company and the brand have become synonymous with unmatched quality, skilled craftsmanship and high-fashion products in the footwear industry.Metro Shoes has a countrywide manish saksena

They use a child’s innocence & suspended sense of reality as inspirations – creating dreamlike fashion in other-worldly colours and floating silhouettes that could easily be worn by the fairies who live at the bottom of the garden. KSIC Mysore is rich for its Royal heritage and Grandeur and it is no surprise that the silk produced there reflect the traditional splendor through its rich yet delicate motifs. The name Mysore silk is a befitting tribute to its ancestry. KSIC the proud inheritor of this royal legacy, has treasured it for over seven

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MOSSIMO MOSSIMO, the young fashion lifestyle New York brand, is here to appeal to the ambitious and creative Indian Youth. Coming from the house of Arvind Brands, Bangalore, this young brand looks at making a stylish statement across the country. With high fashion at low prices as it’s design mantra, Mossimo is part of the Megamart chain which offers a wide range of international labels under one roof. From Geoffrey Beene to Cherokee & Ruggers Young and a very special label called Anahi, an ethnic wear label for Women. NAMRATA G The quintessential designer, Namrata is unfettered by limitations. Her insight into couture is astute and contemporary. NAMRATA G is an established brand name on the rapidly emerging area of haute couture in India. The words describe both her and her style of fashion are Creativity, Flair and Elegance. Her two labels ‘NAMRATA G’ and ‘MAN BY NAM’ boast of Couture, Prêt, Casual and Luxury clothing for Women and Men. She is also a Style Consultant to Coats India limited and Guest Lecturer for various fashion institutes. Namrata is a Symbiosis Management Graduate.

NIMIRTA The Label “Nimirta” was conceptualized in early 2007. Largely inspired by vintage patterns and silhouettes of the 1930’s – 40s, the thought behind it was to give women a line that had an edgy look without undermining femininity and a fluid silhouette. The label retails at leading multi brand designer stores in India such as Ogaan, Chamomileand Internationally in the Middle East, Hong Kong, Indonesia and Singapore. The label has been showcased at the Wills Lifestyle India Fashion Week for the past 6 seasons. PALLAVI FOLEY Creativity is synonymous with Pallavi, one of India’s leading jewellery designers, who is known for her couture and avantgarde jewellery pieces. This young and enthusiastic designer is internationally renowned for her many distinctive award winning jewellery pieces. Her exclusive boutique is situated at level-C at the Leela galleria, Leela Palace hotel, from where she retails precious and semi precious jewellery. She also works as a design consultant for Indian and International jewellery brands. She graduated as an Accessory Designer from NIFT (The National Institute of Fashion Technology) New Delhi in 2000. Thereafter she designed jewellery for Tanishq for 9 and a half years. She has designed many collections for Tanishq and even won the NID Business World Design Award in 2004 in the category of ‘Best Accessory Design’.

working with eminent fashion designers in Malaysia as well as Indonesia, Ritu Pande combined a Pan-Asian take on design with Indian artistry to create subtly glamorous and unabashedly feminine clothes for the modern woman. In 2005, Ritu Pande launched her label ‘Ave Verum by Ritu Pande’ in Jakarta, Indonesia. Fluid draping, sophisticated detailing and textured accents mark her range of stunning cocktail dresses and evening wear. From June 2011, the label has been re-christened Ritu Pande. The Ritu Pande label is a member of the prestigious Fashion Design Council of India which has only 150 designer members comprising of the crème de la crème of Indian Fashion fraternity. RONY DUTTA Stylist & Silver Artist Ron Dutta’s works for 2012 saw an editorial list of selective designers as Savio Jon, Sanchita Ajjampur, Bibi Russell, Grasshopper etc, which dubbed him as a conceptual stylist. A regular at the fashion weeks in Delhi & Mumbai, he zooms in more into an alternative grunge sensibility, which reflects

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RAJ SHROFF Ravage, like its home town Bangalore, is already becoming known far beyond boundaries of town and country. In Florida and Milan, London and Colombo, and nearly every metro in India, the name is being identified with clothes that offer sharp silhouettes and yet, are still supremely user-friendly. There’s also a home line that extends the Ravage style to lifestyle furnishing. The look is undeniably international, the viewpoint indigenous, but in the new global Indian style that goes everywhere. In Ravage’s case, it’s a style that derives from upbringing, culture, and travel, influences as disparate as Simone de Beauvoir and dub remixes of Jilala Sufi trance music. Successfully showed at London fashion week, Paris prêt a porter, Seoul fashion week & Colombo Fashion Week. RITU PANDE Ritu’s debut collection in Mumbai in 1998 was the beginning of a journey which has seen her evolve as a designer with a distinct international sensibility. Honing her craft by

in his works. He offers a range of unusual jewelry and accessories at GPBFW 2013. ROYAL HOUSE OF MYSORE The glorious tradition of Silk in Karnataka is inexorably tied to the Maharajas of Mysore whose royal patronage ensured the development and continuity of this 2000 year old weaving tradition The present Maharaja Srikantadatta Narasimharaja Wadiyar continues this glorious tradition with his label The Royal Collection. He will BEING WOMAN | MARCH 2013 | 25

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be presenting a Heritage collection of Silk Sarees and ensembles. RUNA RAY Runa Ray is a graduate from NIFT. After winning the final collection award, she proceeded to Paris where she studied at the Chambre du commerce and completed her masters in Fashion merchandising and marketing. After which she wasselected to work with John Galliano for his private label and for Christian Dior. It was here where she learned to mix couture and pret in the most fantastic and creative ways possible. Back in India, she moved on to head the design Department Of Allen Solly. After her Paris experience working with the world”s great coutouriers Runa decided to launch a pragmatic yet visionary label in India and thus was born MOJO, her own label. SAMYAKK Samyakk is a niche boutique for all your Indian ethnic clothing offering a complete range of apparel ranging from traditional designs to even modern contemporary. The exquisite range is designed and inspired Samyakk’s strong sense of Indian culture and values. Samyakk offers a range of fabulous saree’s, lehengas and salwar suits for the quintessential woman. Samyakk accessories featurebeautiful designer jewellery, handbags and clutches. Samyakk also offers a range of elegant sherwani’s, suits and Indo-western wear for men as well that spans from traditional to neo cultural designs. 26 | MARCH 2013 | BEING WOMAN

SANCHITA In many ways Sanchita is the most international of Indian designers. Her work in Milan with designers like Etro, Cavalli, Armani & Versace prepped her for an international career. Though she is based in Bangalore she travels to market her beautiful collections in Europe. She is fascinated with the Indian market and feels this is where the future of fashion lies. Her sensibility translates Indian fabrics & techniques into a Global product. Her awareness of international trends keeps her ahead of most designers here and she ensures that she spends enough time in Milan & Paris to pick up on directions and the street beat to help her stay current and contemporary.She is available all over the country. SEEMA MALHOTRA For the last 20 years, Seema and Jamila Malhotra have been weaving hopes and dreams into intricate motifs that are hand-embroidered onto fabrics, sequin by shimmering sequin, and finally worn by the beautiful bride on the most important day of her life. The word “Shimmer” aptly describes the kind of intricate, illuminescent work that has given Jamila & Seema the reputation of being the Dream Weavers for some of Bangalore and the country’s most beautiful & foremost women, and have aptly been titled the “Queens of Couture”, in Bangalore. This mother-daughter team are the talent behind the exquisite, jewelencrusted costumes that Cate Blanchet wore in Elizabeth, the stunning peacock sanchita

gown that Judy Dench wore in Shakespeare in Love and the enchanting, fantastical costumes in Finding Neverland. If you drooled over the exquisite jewel encrusted costumes that Cate Blanchett

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wore in “ELIZABETH”, the stunning Peacock gown that Judy Dench wore in “SHAKESPEARE IN LOVE”, or the enchanting costumes in “FINDING NEVERLAND”, then you will be happy to knowthat the designers behind these ethereal costumes are JAMILA & SEEMA MALHOTRA, who launched their flagship store, “SHIMMER” in Bangalore’s Vittal Mallya Road five years ago.These prestigious films went on to win various Oscars,including best costume for” Shakespeare in love”,& Jamila & Seema have been an integral part of these Oscar winning design teams. SHALINI SUBRAMANIAN Shalini Subramanian has graduated from the National Institute of Design, India. Her label ‘ Plantation House” was established in 2003. Constantly drawing inspiration from ideas as disparate as the kimono, the bedouins, Ella Fitzgerald, Tadao Ando, the saree, a long Sunday afternoon, The Buena Vista social club, Dries Van Noten, Yohji Yamamoto and Commes Des Garcons, Shalini strives to achieve a simple, elegant identity that isn’t a generic high fashion, but a style that is inclusive, approachable and yet clearly speaks simplicity. Part of the BEING WOMAN | MARCH 2013 | 27

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task is to take Plantation House somewhere beyond just a clothing brand and make it buoyant enough to hold all sorts of product ideas that fit the identity. SHOBA NICKHAM Bangalore based designer Shobha Nickham offers Bridal and Trousseaux solutions that incorporate every ceremony that the bride needs for her big day. From Mehendi & Sangeet options to elaborate wedding ceremony and reception looks, Shobha is the master of the bridal look, constantly evolving season to season, interpreting the bride’s needs and offering her the most glamourous of looks. She also creates stunning masterpiece ensembles for Grooms, and has dressed some of the leading names in Bangalore at their high profile weddings.

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SNEHA One of Bangalore’s youngest designers, Sneha combines a zesty colour palette with a trendy sensibility, creating a youthful & vibrant collection of casual & evening ensembles. She loves embellishing her garments with exquisite embroidery and her modern silhouettes reflect a contemporary take on international fashion. She loves to mix & match genres, often embellishing beach wear with crystals and sequins while she leaves her evening dresses plain and simple, with colour as the only detail. SRISHTI Srishti’ means divine creation. An apt name for fine jewellery that comes to life throughlove, devotion and passion for perfection. It all began as Binti Arora’s informal but exciting hobby of designing and making jewellery in a home studio for friends and relatives, in Bengaluru. The enchanting designs soared to popularity and Binti had a privileged and growing clientele. The venture with a modern showroom, cater to the city’s elite who appreciate the finer things in life. Suresh Arora, a visionary with keen business acumen, has built Srishti, where all items are meticulously handmadeby skilled artisans, and finished to world class standards. In-house designers and marketing & sales teams ensure superior quality of products and better service to customers.

She takes her inspiration from her vast international travels as well as her visits to Premier Vision Paris. She oversees all creative production at Turquoise & Gold. She has excellent knowledge in product development, having worked for Stella McCartney, Burberry, Kenzo and IKKS to name a few. Having associated with such world-class brands gives her foresight into the current and upcoming international fashion trends. YASHASWINI NAIK Dubai based Yashaswini Naik launched her career as designer to The Maharaja of Mysore, with whom she worked closely in developing the Royal House of Mysore collection. Immersing herself in traditional heritage wear inspired by the grand costumery of the Maharaja’s was an enriching experience which gave her a firm grounding in the Bridal and Occasion wear categories. She led the label through many seasons and developed a range of western wear as well. She moved to Dubai after her marriage, but returned to launch a label called Y&S Menswear for the exploding retail markets. She presents her first collection at GPBFW under her eponymous label.

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TURQUOISE & GOLD Dimple Varma is the Managing Director at Turquoise & Gold. Her vast career expands from working in her family garment export company, ICU for 13 years to Turquoise & Gold Apparels Pvt Ltd, to now launching a family owned retail business. She has studied at the prestigious London College of Fashion and is also extensively welltravelled. It is this great exposure that has moulded her keen interest in fashion.

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SANA KHAN The ‘Toing’ femme fatale in Amul Macho commercial or the bubbly girl next door from Bigg Boss…Who is the real Sanaa Khan? Find out as Sanaa gets candid with Aastha Banga Khandpur from Being Woman about her childhood, success, controversies, life after Bigg Boss and her opinion on modern Indian women.

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“I wish god would grant me power to see through minds of others.”

was born in a conservative Muslim family. Me being the only child, my mother was under great pressure to have a son. Despite all that strain, she treated me like a princess. All my desires were fulfilled, but at the same time she made sure I didn’t get spoilt and took the luxuries for granted. As a person I am very emotional and cannot pretend to be something that I am not. I am lovable, fun, talkative person who can make you smile, laugh and dance. And yet I tend to get jealous, irritated and cannot be miss goody two shoes all the time. I am very

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naive and trust people way too easily. I wish god would grant me power to see through minds of other people. At the bottom of my heart I am still a girl who loves her pair of denims and tees, occasionally cooks and cleans and want my man to treat me like a princess. I respect all religions and follow my own but I believe that Humanity is the first religion that everyone should follow. You can claim to be a devout Christian or Hindu or Muslim but if you are harming your fellow humans you are simply flouting the basics teachings of your religion.

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â&#x20AC;&#x153;Every assignment that I get is a platform to showcase my talent and I put my heart and soul into it.â&#x20AC;?

As a kid I wanted to become a customs officer or a police officer but I realized that when it came to acting, I was a natural. I was sceptical because of my humble non industry background but eventually I decided to take the plunge. My family was apprehensive about me pursuing this profession and wanted me to study further. But once they realized that my heart was set on it, they gave me unconditional support. It was definitely difficult to get work. There was no one who would go that extra mile

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to recommend me or to put in a good word for my work. I could not be seen hanging out with stars or get invited to high profile gatherings. Especially when I started doing Tamil movies and moved to Chennai, I had no friends, no social life and had to face the language barrier. But I kept up the hard work and determination. My work spoke for itself and success followed. Every actor in this industry is beautiful and there are so many people with immense talent. But what makes me click is that I give 1000% to

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everything I do. Every assignment that I get is a platform to showcase my talent and I put my heart and soul into it. That is what has brought me to the position I am on today.

“When the going gets tough, my passion and enthusiasm for my work keeps me going” When I shot the Amul macho ad, I could not in my wildest dreams imagine that it would stir up such a controversy. But then whatever you do, there will always be people who would want to negate your work. So, I took the criticism in my stride. Despite the controversy, the ad became very famous and was highly appreciated by filmmakers and the audience. Even during Bigg Boss, I was tag lined as “the blonde”. But I just said that time will tell. The audience liked me, connected with me and voted for me. The fact that I was among the top three said it all. As far as the link ups with Vishal, Rajeev and Aashka go, I think people who attract the maximum attention of the audience become vulnerable to such allegations. That way these rumours get to kick up a lot of dust. No one wants to waste their time and energy on empty boxes. But then these rumours provided us with something to joke about. We all shared good times laughing over these allegations. When the going gets really tough my passion and enthusiasm for my work keeps me going. Cinema is one industry where even superstars go through high tide – low tide phases. There is practically no stability. So, I believed in myself and my work .Also, I think one should be little practical and know the right time to give up on something.

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“Bigg Boss has made me a household name”

Take your work seriously and put your heart and soul into your work. Dare to dream. Dreams do come true and miracles do happen. There were times when I had to do major planning and budgeting for a T-shirt worth 1000 bucks and now I

I totally enjoyed my stay at the Bigg Boss house. Sometimes I even wish that the show had gone on for a few more days. I learnt a lot during the show. I am not the kind of person who can fake friendships. I made some great friends on the show and I am in touch with many of them but Aashka, Rajeev and Delnaaz are my friends for life. I came out of that house stronger and wiser. Life has changed immensely since Bigg boss. The show has made me a household name. Earlier people used to recognize me only in Chennai but now people recognize me across the country. It gave me a platform to showcase myself as a person and the audience were able to relate with me. I have been offered many great roles since Bigg Boss. This kind of success was completely unimaginable for me a few years ago. I just purchased my own house in Mumbai and I am eagerly waiting for the official announcement of my next project.

“Dreams do come true and miracles do happen.” The time when women were just homemakers is long gone. Every woman has a right to pursue her passion and make a mark in her area of interest. These days women take care of their families, cook, clean and are successful in their careers. Women nowadays don’t want to be dependent on anyone. They are now a prominent part of the professions which were earlier considered as typical male domain. Women have stepped into all kind of power roles. Look at Sonia Gandhi. J Jayalalitha, Mamta Banerjee, these women are the powerbrokers of the country.

can buy an expensive dress without giving it a second thought. It happened only because I dreamt of it and worked hard for it. You have to believe in yourself and your dreams and leave no stone unturned to achieve that feat. Things will not change overnight, but be determined, trust your capabilities, have faith in god and you will overcome all hurdles.

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tatistics of eve teasing, molesting, ragging, teasing, and the ultimate scrooge- rape is on the rise. There is really no need to reveal the stark statistics of men indulging in doing things to make a woman feel degraded. The media splashes enough stories daily. Why blame only men? When one understands, it is their upbringing that is always in question. And it eventually falls on the women who have nurtured them into hellish adults. Does that mean that the empowered new generation of women who raise these shameless boys are equally responsible for the problem? If only the mothers taught their sons to understand the dignity of other women (and their wives too), our society would be a much better place. Teachings in early years are likely to stay with one all through life. Teach your child that it is objectionable to act aggressively towards women or girls. It is also important to explain in a simple language, which they can understand why this behavior is unacceptable. Let him learn that there are better ways to express anger and frustration such as having a healthy conversation. The child will naturally grow up as individual with high regard for women.

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WOMEN DOES YOUR SONNY BOY KNOW WOMEN OF ALL AGES DESERVE RESPECT?

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If Indian males are the purest breed of male chauvinist pigs (insult to snorting animals too, but honesty is in high demand), then obviously they were never taught the most crucial lesson when they were knee high-That apart from being mama’s boys even after turning adults they have literally forgotten what it is to respect women. Apart form being sisters bashers and eve teasing their sisters best friends and ogling at the white skin tourists, they make a spectacle of their own species.

It’s hard to be a role model but the effort has to be made. If a boy has hurt a girl, slapped or pushed her around ensure that he is explained why it should not be done again. Aggression towards girls can make the boys into young adults who can have their way. Our own homes are worst breeding grounds for despicable attitude. It is time; we create a generation who genuinely believe that women too have the freedom of traveling fearlessly, day or night. They too can employ their own judgment of proper dressing and not become sheepish victims to social prejudices. What would it take to create a world where men respect women’s personal space? Well, the world will not change for our daughters and for us, until we revolutionize the way our sons grow up. Young boys are exposed to a muddle of negative and positive influences daily via the Internet, television and movies. Regretfully, some stuff in print and electronic media portrays women in vulgar manner. Read what your son reads, watch movies together, listen to his music, and later on explain to him why some words and attitude towards women are unacceptable. Children often find negative attitude as shown in media to be cool, clarify to him that in reality they are shameful. You can gift your son

The reverence begins with women relatives. If boys are taught much about equality early in life with examples they don’t grow up as woman predators. As a mother, do a favor to your self and other women - Make a fine boy you will be proud of. Here are some simple ways to ensure that he isn’t a mama’s boy or a too chivalrous Sir Walter Scot but someone who shares healthy relationships with various women in his life. No matter what age your boys are now, remind them women are not objects for mental or physical harassment. He should be taught never to strike a girl not matter what the provocation is. Fistfights with sisters should be nipped early in life. Make the boys understand the need to fight for the sisters not against them. If the boy asks about the genders, explain it rather than leave it to the birds and bees and friends with half-baked knowledge. Between siblings there should be equal sharing of household chores. This also inculcates a feeling of equality between the two. Daughters should not be serving food to their brothers. If a maid is serving, she also should be respected. If you show respect automatically the children follow the same. No sexist jokes should be cracked between adults when children are around. Dads feel ecstatic when they see their sons copy their walk and talk. So, the next time you act bossy with your wife, two little eyes may be watching and replicating the same subconsciously. You certainly don’t want that! Treat your wife, her friends, your sister, daughter and any other women near you with respect and your son will naturally learn to do so. Gender stereotypes must be nipped at roots. They act as indicators to young minds that boys and girls are different. So, avoid archaic statements like “you are a boy and must not cry like girls”. It lets the child sprout a false sense of empowerment over girls, which enhances in later years. Let him know that it is perfectly all right to let your emotions out and it is not a sign of weakness. Let him also know that household chores are not gender specific. Encourage him to take up small domestic responsibilities.

books or DVDs that feature strong feminine characters. For bedtime stories, it is not always necessary for prince to act a savior to the princess. She can also act strong and win challenges by dragons and beasts. This will save him from making gender based false assumptions. Parents of teenaged sons are often confronted with a situation when their son uses sexist ideas or languages. This is the time when he interacts more with the outer world and may have strong negative influences outside home. At first instance, convey him mild message that such language or behavior is not only unacceptable but also disgraceful. It is natural to have conflicts with the opposite sex, after all they descend from different planets but there are gentlemanly ways to resolve such issues without being abusive and judgmental.

friendship with girls. When he feels the warmth of feminine care and commitment, it will be difficult for him to think negatively about any women at any stage of life. He also develops into a more understanding and caring person. As he grows up it is ok for him to take care of his own things. Avoid tiding up his room and cleaning his clothes, this may create a false notion that the house chores are ‘women’s work’. He is then likely to carry the same misogynistic mindset into his adult relationships, which is not desirable. Instill true family values in your son. Even if on any occasion he fails to meet your expectation, don’t forget to send the vibe that he is still loved. Raise your son not as a MCP but as an officer and a gentleman.

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BEING RESPONSIBLE

Caution around hiring

A MAID IN INDIA HER ATTITUDE VS YOUR HOUSEHOLD CHORES! Every woman living in urban India has a story about how she eventfully hired a maid. Called kamwali, bai, ayah, japa, naukrani domestic help, top servant and brownie, the eternal issue remains of ‘hiring with caution’ across Indian metros. Each is a unique story. During birthday parties the most over rated conversation is on maids by young mothers! NRIs return to India because of maid help or some migrate due to maid nuisances! Career women deal with three kinds of domestic help-unskilled, semi-trained and fully trained. Maximum domestic help belong to the female gender. But in some cases males are preferred from Bihar or Nepal. Here are some interesting facts and indicators around maids in India- a culture that exists from our colonial past.

ell, there is a method to madness when it comes to hiring domestic help. Unlike other countries where domestic help is considered serious business, in India it is largely an unorganized labor. A few placement agencies do exist but then the maids hired from there charge more than what you may earn as a monthly salary! After getting the perfect job, dream home, car and cool kids each of us pray for the maid who will be more than a domestic help. When being hired she is never told that along with cleaning the dishes she will also have to occasionally (read frequently) carry the veggie basket up from the vendor, take the dog out for a walk, water the plants, dust the furniture and also carry goodies from the car back home when the husband arrives. As times have changed, the maid expects that she will be given a bonus during the festive season (something unheard of 25 years ago), two days off, casual leave, sick leave and three meals a day, pay for her kids’ education, medicines and in some cases a day off with the cook/ driver/cleaner boyfriend. What’s more the aspirational maid will also ask if the home has amenities like the latest model of refrigerator, television, AC and time off to relax and raise in salary every year! Today’s maids want to be treated with respect. And is that asking for too much? And then it is her attitude Vs your household chores. Don’t ask her to do more! Or she walks away with the advance cash/ loan that she asked in your emotional moment and is unreachable on her latest cell phone! Now how the hell do you get over a maid who does not mind staining the pricey Persian rug with juice or floor cleaner and not even apologize for it? And in some cities like Mumbai the maid will not enter the home if the male species is alone-(too many high profile cases of rape and molestation have emerged against celebrities and their servants). Like there is two sides to the coin a little caution in hiring maids can mean less headaches for any career woman.

Maid Placements in Metros The concept of organized maid service

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exists in Indian cities. Taking the cue from western countries, many cities have national franchise or local companies that provide maids for household chores. Internet search or local sources provide maid services. The national franchise makes it mandatory for their local franchise to be licensed, insured and bonded. They maintain high quality service irrespective of the city they operate in. The local companies, the charges are lower but do not guarantee the background check on the placements offered. Not many franchises declare license for being in business. If, any agency claims to be licensed, smell the honey trap beneath. Alternatively look for words like ‘bonds’ and ‘insured’.

Bonds They are of prime importance. They insure you against any criminal act or act of dishonesty by the maid. Before employing a literate maid, make sure that she has signed the bond that spells in clear terms that she will not indulge in any form of criminal activities while at service in your home. All franchises offer bonds.

terms of leave. This may increasingly sound like a corporate interview but necessary facts must be double checked. Make sure you hire a maid from a trusted source. She must be educated and caring enough to know the child’s requirements. Basic knowledge of first aid, cleanliness and ability to handle emergencies is critical. A health check to know if is she suffers from any infectious disease is also necessary. This is in case your child will be with her for long hours. Notice her mannerisms for a few days. It is natural for a child to pick up the maid’s mannerisms and language. So, employing well-mannered help is also a priority. Collect a photo identity proof and phone number of the maid and keep a copy of that with you. Your spouse also should be familiar with her contact details. Police verification is a must. Check her last employment. Treat your maid with respect. They who take care of your home and the kids. Some kind words and occasional presents help in mutual trust. But remain cautious as ever.

Insured Very few local companies offer an ‘insured maid service’. This is to protect your home against any damage caused by her. She may loose the home keys or forgetting to switch off an electrical appliance and resultant subsequent damage. No matter from where you hire a maid, a personal interaction is must. It is better if you can interact with more than one maid and employ the most compatible and reliable one.

A detailed interaction While interacting with the maid know about her background. Match it with details provided by the company. Know her previous work experiences. Explain to her the kind of service you are expecting, with minute details. This leaves no room for confusions later on. Discuss the wage and BEING WOMAN | MARCH 2013 | 49

EXPLORING HORIZONS

From familiar shores

to unknown

Horizons Sharon Sephora D’Silva

They say when you smile, not only do you look happy, but you also brighten up the faces of those whom you meet. We met up with this dynamic and successful woman to know her mantra for success in Goa and UAE.

his enigmatic woman has melted down the stone cold faces of many pessimists and turned them into glamorous positive people. She is straightforward and brave, but believes that women should not be cheap with their attitude. “There are people who behave and dress in a particular fashion to simply show off, which I believe is crossing the line.” Having lived most of her recent past in Dubai, she is very much concerned about the tidings in Goa. She is never shy of voicing her opinion on matters close to her heart, “I am not bothered what people will say,” referring to the subjective mentality of people who don’t know her personally, “I know what I am. Rumours of me being sophisticated and proud will be always doing the rounds; but people who have spent time with me will know that I am simple and loving.” A mother of two daughters and a wife to a husband whom she considers to be her best friend, she makes sure she spends quality time with her family. “My husband makes me switch of my phone on Fridays. He doesn’t allow me to work and wants me to rest.” However, this busy bee cannot stay away from helping those in need. “My friends call me up, telling me all the sad news happening in India. It hurts me and If I get a chance I will do all that I can to punish the criminals.” Accused by her husband, of being too busy and not getting enough rest, she continues to stretch the time on her clock to meet new clients and spread her gift of hospitality beyond 50 | MARCH 2013 | BEING WOMAN

uncrossed boundaries. “I can’t sit idle. You give me a hundred jobs to do today; I will complete it and still have energy left.” This doesn’t mean she is indifferent to the whereabouts of her near and dear ones, “I keep in touch with my children all the time. I can’t live without them and call them several times a day.” Sometimes our plans don’t work out because God has better ones. “I wanted to be a Police Inspector or lawyer, “she reflects, revealing how she ended up taking a courageous decision which might have seemed crazy at that time. “ I took a bold step at the age of 16. I opened a beauty parlour in Chinchinim (a village in Goa) with my sister and called it ‘Sabrina’.” The rest is history as she spread her wings far and wide and touched the lives of all those clients her franchise has catered to. “Total dedication and commitment are vital elements to be successful in all that you do”. She urges that we need to move out of our comfort zones and strive for excellence. “Youngsters must make efforts and stop being dependant on parents. It is high time that our youth learn to stand on their own feet and spend from their own pocket.” Sharon is an inspiration to anyone who is ready to go the ends to accomplish their dreams. She summarizes her philosophy of life, by stating “Don’t do things to impress others; do things to impress Yourself, to make Yourself feel good.”

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BEING AMBITIOUS

hink corporate lawyer and our work hours. the law firms take notice and many of these mind conjures up images of firms now prefer to hire women. Extended Alpha men dressed in dark suits So what is it that makes these lawyers love support from husbands and in-laws and spending hours in oak panelled their jobs more than anything else? “Apart easy availability of domestic help has conference rooms trying to negotiate the from the excellent compensation we get enabled Indian female lawyers in becombest deal for their clients. Few years ago, to work with the smartest people and get ing arguably more successful than their US these images wouldn’t have been far off the excellent exposure. In corporate law you or UK counterparts. Against the common mark. Founding partner of AZB partners Zia are not stuck with one industry and get a perception that getting married and having Mody recalls “Few decades ago Law was lot of variety of work. Every transaction has kids means the end of the road for a female often looked at as a marriage degree for women - three years in law and then you get married”. But recently women have changed the laws of the industry and taken the legal community by storm. In 2009, Trilegal appointed their first female partner. The second female partner followed soon after. In May 2012, Amarchand Mangaldas promoted thirteen associates to partners and out of those thirteen, nine were women. Clearly the women in suits Climbing the legal ladder. Find out all about pursuing a career in have arrived. Corporate Law as Aastha Banga Khandpur takes you through the

INDIA’S

LEGAL DIVAS rigors and rewards of being a Corporate Lawyer.

That brings us to the most important question. What exactly is corporate law and what does a corporate lawyer do? As the Indian economy grew it attracted attention of many multinational companies. When these companies set shop in India they needed firms to help them operate in compliance with Indian laws. Corporate lawyers advice organizations on complying with regulations, guide them through mergers and acquisitions, public listings, joint ventures and negotiations. They rarely go to court but spend most of their time in boardroom with their clients drawing up plans and negotiations. The job involves researching aspects of contract laws, tax laws, property rights, licensing etc. Corporate lawyers invariably find themselves rewriting legal documents to finalise business deals which makes their jobs extremely time consuming. Average salary of a corporate lawyer ranges from 1.5 lacs to 2.0 lacs per month. To become a corporate lawyer one needs to have a strong memory, reasoning ability, and excellent analytical and communication skills. But most of all you must be really assiduous to be able to endure extremely long 52 | MARCH 2013 | BEING WOMAN

different aspects and angles and you end up learning something new with every deal. Also, the career growth is faster than any other field.” says Isha Shah, a young corporate lawyer working with a leading law firm. On the flip side work has to be the highest priority in the life of corporate lawyer. Apart from the long hours if you have a deal going on, you have to be available irrespective of what is going on in your life. “One has to really struggle to maintain a work life balance, you cannot plan ahead as you are expected to be available for work 24*7. It can get very stressful at times” says Isha. But the gender bias is slowly melting away as women are excelling in this field of work. Apart from questions on plans to get married and starting a family during interviews, women in this industry claim that that have never faced any kind of discrimination. When it comes to the boardroom it’s all about your work. The women’s keen eye for detail, dedication and the drive to put in their best in everything they do has made

lawyer, most of the successful women in this industry have children and have enjoyed all the perks like maternity leaves and health benefits. To become a lawyer you can either pursue an undergraduate five year degree or a three year postgraduate degree. Some of the top colleges in India are National Law school of India University Bangalore, Government Law College, Mumbai and Indian Law Society’s Law College, Pune. If you have your heart set on this line of profession make sure you start going that extra mile to get additional experience. Summer assignments and internships can really help you get ahead and secure a job with an established law firm. But as they say “nothing succeeds like success”. Most successful lawyers have achieved their goal because of their complete focus, grit and determination irrespective of the environment and familial expectations.

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BEING AMBITIOUS

The Problem Areas

Does the

Devil wear Prada

in your office?

Is your boss so bossy that it brings memories of the Devil wears Prada? Some office people claim too much authority and it has spread like workplace flu. It has increased full throttle worldwide scuttling ambitious and dethroning executives or sassy colleagues. One fitful sneeze and its all ‘gone with the wind’ for an innocent victim. The rivalry has reached a sickening peak. Cracks are showing in multinational organizations, medium sized companies and even small family run business. Can this deadly virus be curtailed to carry on business? Does the devil in the office care?

In the runaway successful 2007 film Devil Wears Prada, Miranda Priestley’s lackey keeps changing. To get that ‘place’ in the fashionable and glamour Runaway Magazine the staff is willing to go to the meanest, lower denominator to ensure the removal and displacement of the spice girl. Closer home, Hindi cinema tipped the ‘workplace flu’ iceberg with a film called Corporate. Nowhere have the chinks become so stark, since the mission and vision of multicore conglomerates get entrapped in the zone of human weakness. An ambitious organization’s culture is steeped in politics that can threaten careers and also destroy ethics. Of course it depends how the boss is and the ‘flu’ percolates down to the personal peon as well! For example had Miranda Priestley been a simpler magazine editor rather than a tyrannical devil, her staff would have also imbibed the same values. But Miranda’s character is such that even the simplest employee is nothing less of a bitch waiting to claw up the corporate ladder and please Miranda. Would a Kaamgar Union dislodge Miranda? Unthinkable. Her aristocratic manners are so infectious like the flu, that each employee is sucked in a similar vortex of ambition. The Hindi film Corporate also mirrors the current ‘work flu’ that threatens backstabs and also rages.

New comer blues It’s hard to work at an office with a ‘watchdog’ eyeing your every move, ready to bark every time he is having withdrawal symptoms. You didn’t meet him at the time of interview (now you think he should have been mentioned in the statutory warning on the offer letter). He is the right hand of your boss, and you are a newcomer, yet to prove your mettle in this dream job. Nor did you bargain for that mean bitch in accounts. Many young colts have been hit by the virus- a difficult colleague, an unreasonable boss or even worst, an arrogant peon (chai se zyaada kitli garam)- typical teething problems of adjusting and adapting to a new working environment. A simple solution would be to remember ‘when the going gets tough, the tough get going’. As a thumb rule, give any new workplace 6-12 months before making judgments. There are many forces at work. Over a period of time, one understands them better. If you have to or decide to stay put, you can begin with assessing the problem. Having a third person’s point of view always helps. It keeps in check any exaggeration even on your part. Some problems are tackled early, by nipping them

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in the bud. If you are inspired by Munnabhai, you can even employ ‘Gandhigiri’ to fix these problems. Stay away from caste politics to survive the onslaught. The ghetto attitude of keeping away, like whites from blacks in America is haunting the Indian work culture too.

Devil wears the attitude! It’s a different ball-game with a tyrannical boss like Miranda or Demi Moore in Disclosure. She makes you wait long hours. She insists you to complete a particular task on the same day though there is no pressing deadline. You might have to put up with her whims; and you can assert at other times. A balance helps you get through the initial tough months. Keep an open mind facilitates the learning process from such difficult bosses. Workplace flu can also be a result of not having a comfort zone. We all are cosier in one surrounding than the other. Out of that zone, we tend to feel lost like lambs and grope for support. If that support is lacking in the workplace, we tend to feel discouraged. If such is the case, the biggest support systems are close friends, family or spouse. Share problems give an insight of people who know you closely. They may have gone through similar situations at work, and can offer useful tips to deal with them.

GET IMMUNIZED! In today’s office culture only the fittest survive. It’s a jungle out there and to survive here are some tips. 1. Know thy enemy, rival, competitor, close buddy who is out to topple thy kingdom of peace and ambition. 2. Sacrifice at the alter of ambition, trust and faith (unsuspecting but become infectious as virus catches) 3. To build up immunity try making friends slowly. Hi-fives and gossip in the first week gives a bad impression. Do not show off (we did this or that in our previous org… then why the hell are you here, baby?) 4. Do not chat up the opposite sex and become gullible to office romance or become the flavour of the month. 5. Study the structure and culture for a week to figure out what works… other than the work you get paid for. 6. Don’t panic when someone influential sneezes… it’s just a cold! 7. Stay away from those who use power to threaten. 8. Difficult to avoid rumour mongers, they are like undetected virus but look for subtle signs to keep away. 9. Negative and disgruntled staff can be a complete kill-joy at work. Look for like minded and peers to keep you motivated. 10. Stop asking others ‘how much do you get’. Not a nice thing to know about other’s salary structure. If you quit every six months to a year, you will be avoided like flu. The virus cannot be stopped. But you can get definitely get immunity by the above tips to tilt the scales. And also ensure that even if the devil wears Prada or Gucci you can outsmart them with a little common sense.

BEING AMBITIOUS

WHAT IS PAADUKA? Paaduka is an online footwear and accessories shop. PAADUKA is a Sanskrit word meaning footwear.

THE TEAM Paaduka is a team of two. Hamsa Vamanan and her friend Priyanka Narasimhalu who share the love for footwear and design. Beyond business, they are the best of friends. Priyanka is pursuing her Bachelors in Electronic Media from MOP Vaishnav College for Women, Chennai. Hamsa has a degree in Visual Communication from the same college. She has worked for an e-commerce portal as creative writer and has also worked with the Deccan Chronicle as a lifestyle journalist. In conversation with Hamsa Vamanan.

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WHY PAADUKA? “We decided to start Paaduka over a casual phone conversation. Before we knew it we had taken the plunge. The love for footwear and design coupled with making a few extra bucks prompted us to start up.”

CLIENTELE… Our target audiences are young college girls and guys and people with a sense of style. In college, there is a need to look better, to be noticed and we are cashing in on that. Of course, now, we are slowly exploring the mindset of the working woman and will son bring out a collection for her.

USP? Our USP is our capacity to understand our target audience. Being of the same age as ouraudience, we know what they need. Also we price our products in way that students can afford them. We also customize footwear according to our client’s wish. For example, a client wanted the names of all the places in Chennai on her flip flops. And we were able to do that. To be frank, this is not a new concept. In the west, a lot of people are into this. When we started, few of our competitors attacked us by spamming our online networking pages. But we took it in our stride. We try to be different from our competitors, we try to do something different and not ape the west. We try to be original.

JOURNEY SO FAR?

BRANDING? Paaduka is already a brand. We feel it. When somebody walks around in our “smiley” chappal, we have heard girls saying “oh that’s paaduka”. Paaduka will grow to be one of the country’s leading design brands. Before investing our full energy in Paaduka, we are now equipping ourselves with practical and theoretical knowledge on design and business. Priyanka plans to pursue a masters in design whereas I am looking to gain on-the-ground experience.

FUNDING? We welcome like-minded individuals who would want to invest in our venture. More so, we would like to have people who believe in us. We value relationships more than business.

CHALLENGES? Challenges we have faced are many. We are still facing challenges. There are a lot of petty problems that crop up time and again. We are now taking time out to work on these small issues. We are working on branding too. We understand that it is very important now. Soon we will re-vamp Paaduka in a bigger way with our new collection.

Having launched in July 2011 the journey so far has been great. We are learning a lot. Initially we made we made mistakes. But we had opportunities to rectify them and learn from our mistakes. Being selected as one of the top student startup’s in India by TATA and National entrepreneurship Network has been a milestone for us. It is very encouraging when people appreciate your work. Also our college’s support all through this journey is something that we cannot forget. Our friends have been great pillars of strength.

OVERCOMING PROBLEMS?

CORE COMPETENCIES?

Being a student Entrepreneur gives you great happiness. Starting young is a great thing because you can afford to make mistakes and you can afford to experiment. And in return you get your share of fame, extra bucks and the satisfaction that you are doing something in life. On the flipside, you need to be more responsible, take ownership and sometimes sacrifice on fun. (Sometimes you can’t really go chill with friends when you are working on a client’s order).

Aesthetic sense, hands-on designing experience ( Me and Priyanka are students of art) and a whole lot of enthusiasm are our core competencies.

MARKETING? In the beginning, we walked around in college wearing our designs. This caught the eye of many girls and that is how we made our first sales. We use social networking sites to market our design. Word of mouth is something that has 58 | MARCH 2013 | BEING WOMAN

worked wonders for us. When one client buys our product, invariably his/her friend wants it too. We are now open to selling our product in boutiques.

Overcoming problems are quite easy when you identify the problems. Regular discussions with mentors (courtesy – National Entrepreneurship Network), absorbing the advice of friends and family and working on negative feedback are our ways of overcoming problems.

ON BEING A STUDENT ENTREPRENEUR IN COLLEGE

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EXPLORING HORIZONS

“Do not judge me until you know me, Do not underestimate me until you have challenged me; and do not talk about me until you know me” - Anonymous

AMIND BEAUTIFUL

VALANKA ALEMAO

There is more to a name or rather a surname than just a mere suffix that accompanies you wherever you go. There are many who despise her simply because they don’t understand her and they may never understand her simply because they despise her. She is the ‘girl next door’ who is never shy of a challenge; whether it be show-stopping at a fashion show or standing up for the girl child. This brave face doesn’t give a crap for the grapevine rumours and focuses her attention on things more close to her heart – her family and her work. She is bold and outspoken, but that doesn’t make her intimidating. Jonathan Rodrigues manages to crack up this charismatic personality at several instances and prove to you that Valanka Alemao is more than just her daddy’s girl. Here are highlights from an interesting chat.

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You represent a brand new image of a race that has been historically synonymous with anonymity. Does this revolution matter to you? VALANKA: “We Goans are known to be sussegado, which is not always a bad thing; but if the situation demands we can easily adapt to a metropolitan lifestyle. I think women today have identified their roles and scope in the world. I belong to a background where it is believed that ‘the substance of womanhood is complete when you run the family’; but today people are ready to accept that girls are more than just running the family.”

Studying in the capital and other parts of India, you must have often confronted the situation where you had to stand up for the destroyed image of Goa. How would you describe a Goan girl to an Indian? VALANKA: “I have done my law in Pune,

You belong to a rather influential and popular family. Does the ever-curious media scrutiny disturb the day to day activities at home? VALANKA: “I have always been type-casted for being an Alemao. That is something I have grown up with and adjusted too. There are numerous rumours that float around in the media, but I have learned to take them in my stride and not waste time on such frivolous issues. I have a strong sense of belonging to my family and I will never let them down. Like any other daughter, I love my father and will always look out for someone like him in my man.”

‘GOD’- what affect does that word have in your life? VALANKA: “Religion keeps me calm and united. I am a strong believer in Karma. For me religion is more about taking the message outside the worship place. I would do anything to see a smiling face.” You have taken stringent measures to save the girl child and even agreed to walk the ramp for a friend. Why is this subject close to your heart? VALANKA: “Youth (both girls and boys) are the future of our country. I would do anything that it takes to work towards it. I am eagerly waiting for the day when I see absolutely no difference made between Genders. I can see it; a woman shall walk shoulder to shoulder with a Man with equal respect from the society.” What is it about Social Work that appeals to you the most? VALANKA: “We can’t do great things in this life but we can do small things with great love. I feel it is my duty towards society and mankind. When we feel love and kindness toward others, it not only makes others feel loved and cared for, but it helps us also to develop inner happiness and peace. I feel strongly that helping an orphan is a great deed.”

What do you think makes Goa so different from other parts of the India? If born again; where would you like your home to be? VALANKA: “Goa has a beauty of its own; its cosmopolitan culture and the fact that it is my hometown, makes it even more special. We Goans are very lucky to be born here; it’s the best place on earth. If I was born again than I would love to be born in Goa and God willing in the same family.”

done my internship in Mumbai and currently working in Delhi. I feel there is a Perception that all Goans are Alcoholics, that needs to be changed. We can see this in many Bollywood movies too. A Goan girl is as Indian as she is a Goan, but a Goan girl has a different approach which makes her different from the rest of India.” Goan women are very cosmopolitan.

Many girls give up on life after being emotionally tortured from a broken relationship. Do you believe that love happens only once? What message would you use to counsel girls in such situations? VALANKA: “I don’t think anyone has a right to take away life, Its God who gave this life and one he can decide on it. Parents bring up their children with great expectations, So no one should even try or think of committing suicide. I want to tell all the girls please don’t think of committing suicide it doesn’t solve any problems. We have a long way to go and we need to fight all the odds against us and should rise to the strength so we can take care of social prejudice.

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FOOD

2 Bharwan Aloo Preparation time: 30 minutes Cooking time: 30 minutes To serve: 06 portions 2 tbsp chopped coriander (dhania) 4 chopped green chillies 1 tbsp raisins (kismis)

COOKING WITH

500 gms medium sized potatoes oil for deep frying

CHEF Parveen

100 gms grated paneer (cottage cheese) 10 chopped cashewnuts (kaju) salt to taste 1 tsp roasted and crushed fennel seeds (saunf) 2 tbsp oil a pinch of asafoetida (hing)

Holiday Inn Resort - Goa

1 tsp cumin seeds (jeera) 2 tsp grated ginger (adrak) 2 cups tomato puree

Vegan or not, the whole family is sure to enjoy these healthy, hearty and simple dishes. Chef Rehana Parveen shares a few of her favourite vegetarian recipes.

1/2 tsp turmeric powder (haldi) 1/2 tsp chilli powder 1 tbsp tamarind (imli) pulp 1/2 tsp dried mango powder (amchur) 1 cup jaggery (gur) 2 tbsp fresh cream

2 1 1 Doodhia Kebab

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Peel and halve the potatoes.

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Drain and keep aside to cool.

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Add the paneer, coriander, green chillies, raisins, cashewnuts and salt and mix well.

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Stuff the scooped out potato halves with this filling and keep aside.

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Heat two tbsp of oil in a kadai, add asafoetida, roasted fennel seeds, cumin seeds, ginger and sauté for few seconds. Add tomato puree and saute for 2 minutes.

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Add turmeric powder and red chilli powder, 1/2 cup of water and cook for three to four minutes.

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Add the tamarind pulp and mix well.

1 tsp cumin seeds (jeera)

Preparation time: 30 minutes

1/2 tsp Chaat Masala

Cooking time: 30 minutes

1/2 tsp turmeric powder (haldi)

To serve: 06 portions

1 tbsp chopped coriander leaves

500 grams Paneer

Method

4 chopped green chilies 100 gms grated Boiled Potato

Heat the pan and put ghee and crackle the jeera. Now add all the ingredients except the grated potato & chaat Masala. Sauté it for few seconds and then add potato . Cook it again for few minutes and finish it with chaat Masala. Keep it aside.

10 chopped cashewnuts (kaju)

Slice the Paneer and cut into pieces.

1 Cup dry bread crumbs salt to taste

Put the stuffing between two slices of the paneer and coat it with slight bread crumbs.

50 ml pure ghee

Heat a non stick pan, shallow fry the stuffed paneer

2 tbsp oil

Take it out when it is golden brown.

1 tbsp raisins (kismis)

Method Heat the oil in a kadai and deep-fry potatoes till they are golden brown from all the sides. Scoop out the middle of each half potato and chop the scooped out portion of the potatoes.

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3 Hare Chane Ke Kebab

5 Shahi Tukda

Preparation time: 30 minutes

350g Rabdi (reduced milk )

Cooking Time: 1 hour

600g sugar

To serve: 6 persons

1 drop Vetivier

½ kg green grams (chana) fresh and shelled

3g or ½ tsp Green Cardamon powder

6 gms. Coriander seeds powdered

12 slices milk bread

3 gms. Cumin seeds powdered

Groundnut oil to deep fry

50 gms. Green chillies ground with seeds

2 litres high fat milk

60 gms. Onions ground

10g Almonds

25 gms. Garlic ground

5g Pistachio

115 gms. Curd

1g Saffron

25 gms. Ghee for kebabs

Chandi- ka –Varq (Silver Leaves)

25 gms. Parched grams powdered

The Rabarhi: Add 100g/ ½ cup of sugar while it is still warm and stir until dissolved. Add vetivier and stir.

3 gms. Sugar powdered

The Syrpup: Boil the remaining sugar with water (approx 300ml/ 1 ¼ cups) to make a syrup of one- string consistency. Add cardamom powder and stir.

1½ tsp. Garam Masala powder Salt to taste Ghee for frying the kebabs.

The Bread: Slice off the crust and trim the edges to make discs. Heat oil in a kadhai and deep fry over low heat until golden brown and crisp

Method

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Boil the grams along with salt, coriander seeds, cumin seeds, green chillies, onions, garlic, curd and ghee in about two cups of water. When cooked, dry the liquids completely. Grind finely, and add the remaining ingredients, mix and knead well.

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Divide into 12 equal parts. Flatten, wetting hands with little water to give the kebabs a smooth and even shape.

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In a very little ghee fry on low heat till golden brown.

The Milk: Bring to a boil in a large, flat, thick – bottomed handi, remove and reserve 15ml/ 1 tbs to dissolve saffron. The Tukda: Immerse the fried bread in the remaining milk, the slices at least an inch apart. Return the handi to heat and simmer until the milk is absorbed, turning once in between with a spatula without breaking the bread. Remove from heat and pour on the warm syrup. The Nuts: Blanch almonds and pistachio, cool, remove the skin and cut into slivers.

The Saffron: Dissolve in the reserved milk while it is still warm.

4 Baingan Ke Lonj

60 gms Sugar Method

Cooking time: 30 minutes

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Make a slit, lengthwise, in the brinjals and rub in salt and keep for half an hour.

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Heat the ghee in a kadhai and fry sliced onions to a golden brown, remove and crush finely.

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Mix fried onions, red chillies, ginger and half the quantity of each of cloves, cinnamon, black cardamom and pepper corns.

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Stuff the brinjals with the above Masala. Tie a piece of thread around each brinjal to prevent the stuffing from running out.

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Heat the above ghee and add whole cloves. When they turn dark brown, add brinjals and salt. Cook on low fire. No water to be added. When cooked, add sugar diluted in lime juice.

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Put on a dum till liquid dries up completely. Add remaining half of the powdered masalas and stir gently.

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Salt to taste

To Serve: Cover the Shahi Tukrha with Varq and serve warm.

30 ml (1 oz.) Lime juice

Preparation time: 30 minutes

500 grams Brinjals

Assembling: Arrange the soaked Tukrha on a silver platter, spread rabarhi on top, garnish with nuts and sprinkle saffron.

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FOOD

Green

Vegetables? A

Many of us dislike eating green vegetables, be the young or the old, men or women. Green vegetables contain large amount of nutrition and vitamins. They are considered the healthiest food available in the nature. They are low in calories and have very less amount of fats.

ccording to the Business Portal of India, a Government of India initiative, India is named as “the fruit and vegetable basket of the world.” Primarily an agrarian economy, globally, the country ranks fifth in terms of areas under cultivation. Indian summer vegetables are those vegetables that are available between the months of April and August. These summer vegetables keep you fit and fine in such a hot and humid weather. The most commonly available vegetables are bottle gourd (Lauki), bitter gourd (karela), ridged gourd (tori), snake gourd (chichinda), ash gourd (petha),pumpkin (kaddu), amaranth greens (choulai), cucumber (kheera), and Beet Root to name a few.

Importance of these vegetables is: Bottle Gourd- This vegetable is popularly known as Lauki in India. It contains iron and Vitamins B and C. As bottle gourd is mostly made of water, it prevents you from heat and is also beneficial for stomach problems like acidity, which mostly occurs in summer. It is very beneficial for diabetics and people with digestive disorders. The paste of bottle gourd helps cure summer skin rashes. Bitter Gourd- It is most commonly known as karela in India. The bitter gourd is cooked and eaten as a vegetable. Drinking a glass of karela juice can control and cure you from pimples, diabetes and fungal infections. It contains vitamins B1, B2, and B3, C. Ash Gourd- Ash gourd is popularly known as petha. It keeps your body cool and healthy protecting you from heat stroke. It contains large amounts of vitamin C and minerals such as calcium, iron, and phosphorus. It’s the best food that cures anaemia. Amaranth greens- it is a green leafy vegetable loaded with nutrition. Being the richest source of Vitamins A, B6, and C It is also a wonderful cooling vegetable that 66 | MARCH 2013 | BEING WOMAN

can really help you fight the hot summer months. It helps cure respiratory disorders and diseases like Malaria. Drinking fresh juice along with honey can cure you from asthma, and tuberculosis. Beet Root – It is known as Chukandar. Fresh juice of beetroot mixed with a tablespoonful of honey taken every morning before breakfast helps to cure you from flatulence, vomiting etc. Beet juice with a little vinegar applied on the scalp will help you to reduce dandruff and make you feel fresh. Pumpkin- Pumpkin contains calcium, potassium and fibre. It is good for curing improper digestion and eliminating intestinal worms from the digestive system of a person. It also controls blood pressure and sugar and thus diabetic patients are advised to eat pumpkin. Ridged gourd- It is most commonly known as tori and is loaded with nutrients such as fibre, vitamin C, zinc, iron and magnesium. It helps to protect you from pimples and acne. As the ridge gourd is low in fat and calories it helps in reducing weight, purifies blood, controls the blood sugar level and is good for the stomach. Drinking the juice of this vegetable in the morning protects you from infections. Cucumber- Cucumber can be used for treating skin problems. It is beneficial for stomach and lung related problems. Since it contains a large amount of vitamin A, C, iron, calcium, phosphorous, etc. it is effective over problems related to teeth and gums. It is good for removing dead skin cells and making the skin smooth and relaxed. It can be added to a bowl of curd with a pinch of salt which can help to make us healthy and protect us from heat. Green vegetables are the perfect ingredients that can help you not only fight the hot weather but also provide you with some wonderful health benefits. Eating these green vegetables that are rich in vitamins and nutrition will keep you healthy. Go Green... Go Healthy, this Summer. BEING WOMAN | MARCH 2013 | 67

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interactive buffet stations offering South-East Asian, Indian, Italian and Middle Eastern cuisines with a live gourmet grill station, a mouthwatering selection of desserts and an unlimited supply of French champagne. This March, Grand Hyatt Goa welcomes you and your family for the new experience! For reservations call 0832 301 1125

month. For party animals - The Retro House is a celebration of Nostalgic Retro music at Capiz Bar every Wednesday, 8 pm onwards. Get ready for a high energy performance of all your favorite retro numbers from the 70’s, 80’s & 90’s at Retro House every Wednesday.

Rs 2,200 plus taxes, per person. Rs 1,100 plus taxes for kids between 6-12 years. Complimentary for kids under 6 years. Try out Easter chocolate or marzipan bunnies that will be available at the Confeitaria from 20 March onwards, along with all your favorite Easter goodies like Easter eggs, hot cross buns, chocolate Easter lollipop, innovative cakes and much more.

If you enjoy seafood, you’ll love the Goan Seafood Night Market every Thursdays, 7pm-11.30pm at The Dining Room. Enjoy live entertainment as you treat yourself to a scrumptious selection of seafood through the night. Shop till you drop. Experience a true night market ambience as you browse through stalls offering not only exotic food but also artefacts, jewellery, clothes and much more. Interact with chefs at live counters as they grill a special seafood meal for you.

Apart from the Easter festivities, Grand Hyatt Goa will also offer unique dining and entertainment experiences for guests this

For a Sunday dine-out option, try out Grand Hyatt Goa’s, extravagant Champagne Sunday Brunch at The Dining Room. It offers five

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ENTERTAINMENT

very famous author once said, “There is nothing that makes its way more directly to the soul than beauty” and this couldn’t have been more appropriate to anywhere else but to our very own hindi film industry where for 100 years now – Beauty has seen many faces, many figures, many styles and many forms of our admirably beautiful actresses. Their smile that brings a smile to millions of faces, their style and them that zillions try emulating and which all dream of having, this is the magic of The Heroine, with whom, all of us for once in our lives have fallen madly in love with!

beats and that impeccable confidence and vivacity that has made Aishwarya Rai Bachchan a household name across the globe – who can match up to this Bollywood Beauties’ Brigade, NONE!

This year is being celebrated as the 100th year of the hindi film industry but all that celebrations, jubilation, triumph will be completely incomplete without having mentioned the glamorous faces who have not only added eye candy to the film posters but also proved their mettle with impactful performances on the silver screen. Who can forget the mother of ‘Mother India’ who shot her favourite Birju just to protect a woman, who can forget the ‘Tragedy Queen Meena Kumari’, the never fading off notorious laughter of Madhubala, the beautiful dimpled oomph of Sharmila Tagore, the millions of eyes that dreamt of the “Dream Girl’ Hema Malini, those deep soulful eyes of Rekha who say a thousand words, the outstanding oeuvre of Smita Patil, the chirpy, bubbly ‘Hawa Hawai’ Sridevi that sizzled the screen and set it on fire, the ‘dhak dhak’ of Madhuri Dixit that increases your heart

with Ashok Kumar was immortalized by films like Jeevan Naiya, Janma Bhoomi, Achut Kanya, Izzat, Savitr, etc. Nassema Bano, mother of actress Saira Bano, was a great actress of her time. She was immensely beautiful and Sohrab Modi’s hit film Pukar (1939) made her a successful actress. Others in the league were, Shobna Samarth, Noorjehan, Khursheed and Suraiya. All of them are legends in their own rights and helped in making the mould that was to eventually shape the future of the hindi film industry for 100 yrs. Remarkably, the advent of the heroine in the hindi film industry started with actresses mostly hailing from film or music background, films not considered as a very respectable profession way back. The first name that comes to mind, Fatima Rashid started an early acting career at the age of 6 as Baby Nargis and went on to do

A complete rewind by 100 years will take us where films were of historic or mythological kind where our actresses had little contribution to make. However, in the 1920s-30s, there were women who made their mark in the Hindi film industry assertively. Devika Rani considered the first lady of Indian cinema, along with her producer-cum-actor husband, Himanshu Rai, churned memorable films like Karm and Savitri. Her pairing

over 50 films in a span of 25 yrs. Nargis appeared in many successful and commercially acclaimed films, many of which were opposite Raj Kapoor making them the hottest couple of their times. Be it winning a National Award for her portrayal of ‘Radha’ in Academy-Award Nominated Mother India or starting Ajanta Arts Cultural Troupe to do several stage shows around border areas, becoming the 1st patron of Spastics Society of India or getting nominated as a Rajya Sabha MP; Nargis’s achievements were many. During the same years, another face that was creating waves in hindi films was the

100 SENSUAL YEARS

BOLLYWOOD’S CHARMING LADIES Aarti Notiyal Kotnala takes us along the 100 years of Hindi Cinema and its leading beautiful women of substance.

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daughter of actress Shobana Samarth – though Nutan started her film career at a young age of 14 with her mother’s directorial venture, Hamari Beti (1950; her debut as an actress came only with Seema. Nutan was known for her willingness to experiment and play unconventional roles and that probably could stand testimony to the fact that till 2011 she was the only actress to have won the maximum Filmfare Awards in the Best Actress category – a record 6 times which 30 yrs later, was only matched by her niece Kajol. Nutan hailed from the popular Samarth-Mukherjee clan which also gave faces like Tanuja(Nutan’s younger sister), Kajol(Nutan’s niece) and Tanisha Mukherjee (Nutan’s niece) to the world of films. If the entry to the world of films would have to be taken into account, then Meena KuBEING WOMAN | MARCH 2013 | 71

stories on the ethereal beauty, a feature on her titled, “The Biggest Star in the World (and she’s not in Beverly Hills) appeared in a leading American magazine. Her debut film was Mahal but one film that the effervescent Madhubala will always be remembered for is ‘Mughal-e-Azam’ which released in 1960 (having her to shoot for the films for 9 long years), the film was re released in colour, 35 years after her death and garnered as much attention and fanfare as in the earlier case. In 2008 a commemorative postage stamp featuring Madhubala was issued by Indian Post, Nargis being the only other Indian actress to have this honour. Then, came the “Romantic Phase of Hindi films” which gave way to introduction to several faces best remembered for the gorgeous, attractive heroines like Sharmila Tagore, Hema Malini and Rekha. This was the time when the Sharmila-Rajesh Khanna’s onscreen chemistry was sizzling in movies like Aradhana, Safar, Amar Prem amongst 6 back to back hits that the two appeared together, Hema – Dharmendra’s reel life pair was romancing in back to back hits like Sharafat, Tum Haseen Mein Jawaan, Naya Zamana, Seeta Aur Geeta amongst 28 movies that they did together. Whereas the Rekha – Amitabh Bachchan pair is considered the hottest onscreen couple even today with several films like Muqaddar Ka Sikandar, Silsila, Suhag amongst others. Each of the three had created her own space and a defining style statement which was and is still followed by many. All 3 are beautifully active even today – Sharmila being the Chairperson of the Censor Board of India some time back, Hema energetically active with her movies and dance performances and Rekha with films and a recent first – by appearing in a TV commercial.

Priyanka Chopra

mari will have to be officially placed before Nargis & Nutan – Meena Kumari (1939), Nargis (1942) and Nutan (1950); but post several children and mythological films – the first film of Meena Kumari that got her to the limelight was Baiju Bawra in 1952 for which the first ever Filmfare award for Best Actress, as the awards were instituted in 1953, was awarded to ‘The Tragedy Queen’. Not many know that at the time of her birth, her parents not having money to pay the doctor, left the little Mahjabeen Bano at an orphanage but picked her up a few hours later and the rest they say is history. In majority of the films she essayed roles of a suffering woman with excellence hence obtain72 | MARCH 2013 | BEING WOMAN

ing the title of Tragedy Queen not knowing her departure would be as tragic as her birth. Kamal Amrohi’s Pakeezah took 14 yrs to make as was stopped twice – first due to KamalMeena’s divorce and then due to her health but ultimately the film released in March 1972 opening to lukewarm response but due to Meena’s death 3 weeks later, the film became a runaway success and is considered to be a classic even today. The similarity between Meena Kumari and Madhubala were, both having to start

working in films very early ages, 7 yrs and 9 yrs respectively; in order to support their families with parents and several siblings but what’s more interesting is the stark dissimilarity, the first being termed as “The Tragedy Queen” the other has a heartthrob to millions and titled as “The Indian version of Kitty Kelly” due to her several romantic link ups. She was probably the first actress in India to have attracted eyeballs and fanfare in Hollywood. Amongst several

And then came the era of dance with two heroines creating waves with popular dancing tracks which were to get many to groove to their tunes and moves. Sridevi and Madhuri Dixit – Both share numerous similar traits, be it their fantabulous acting skills, be it their dancing abilities, be it their sabbaticals post marriage to focus on their families or be it their comebacks – what’s most remarkable is both rule the hearts of zillions even today. From Himmatwala & Sadma to English Vinglish and from Tezaab to now shooting Gulaabi Gang and Dedh Ishqiya – both these actresses redefined the ‘Hindi film Heroine’ in the actual sense by still having filmmakers hoping to have them as their leading lady and audiences craving for more. Alongwith these dancing divas, a parallel platform to enter hindi films had already been created and that was the world of modelling and the Miss India platform. Beauty and the Indian film industry have had a very strong relation from the very outset. Glamour is one thing that attracts both the industries and hence winning a beauty pageant in a way became a stepping stone for the silver screen. From Poonam Dhillon, who won the Miss Young India in 70s at the age of 16, later joined Bollywood bandwagon later joined by the sexy siren Zeenat Aman, The finest examples of beauty, acting talent and innocence is Juhi Chawla. But what actually flagged off the entry for almost every Miss India to the world of cinema were the years 1994 and 2000. Miss Universe Sushmita Sen & Miss World Aishwarya Rai not only entered the world of films in India but achieved global acclaim and put our Indian beauty on the global map. And history soon repeated itself with the year 2000, when Lara Dutta won Miss Universe, Priyanka Chopra - Miss World and Diya

Mirza- Miss Asia Pacific. This again not only took the world by storm but also the Hindi film industry. The three obviously entered films and are the leading ladies of several films and doing remarkably well today and have been joined by several new faces. And the most recent trend is that of, offbeat cinema – which no longer is referred to by the usage of words like parallel or art cinema but rather referred as meaningful and intelligent filmmaking. Be it Vidya Balan who has been termed as “The lady Khan” or the most recent Huma Qureshi who have won accolades for their portrayal of the everyday women in our country. Ultimately, this tale of beauty, talent, essence, oomph, excellence and brains can go on and on but to sum it up – Women have been the architects for shaping up our society and likewise have played a similar role in giving the look and significance to our very own hindi cinema exactly the way the industry could have expected or asked for!

Around the same time, along with the romantic phase of cinema, film lovers were introduced to a more serious, unconventional side termed as “Art or Parallel Cinema” and this saw the emergence of sultry beauties like Smita Patil and Shabana Azmi. The former being regarded as the most talented and finest stage actors of her time. Apart from acting, in a short life span of 31 years - Smita Patil acted in over 80 films apart from which were that of an active feminist and a member of the Women’s Centre in Mumbai. She was deeply committed to the advancement of women’s issues, and gave her endorsement to films which sought to explore the role of women in traditional Indian society, their sexuality, and the changes facing the middle-class woman in an urban set up.

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HEALTH adequately treated and eradicated. Being young and energetic, many are tempted to explore and experience unknown pleasures and pleasantries. But from health point of view, youngsters should be on guard and accept proper guidance to avoid errors committed out of ignorance and negligence.

HEALTH CARE

Pregnancy

Women’s and the growing kids’ health is of paramount importance. Here are a few things to consider: • Never think of skipping regular prenatal care tests

exercises and a controlled diet would facilitate a healthy and peaceful life.

Post 60’

Life becomes a burden if we have to live with declining health, dropping mental status and added to that the sad state of having no one to care. At this stage women get victimized by common diseases like high blood pressure, low bone density, forgetfulness, cancer, diabetics etc. But with adequate health checkups and mental boosting, you can surpass all difficulties and keep fit enough to enjoy life with all its fun and frolic. Women who have chronic

at every stage AN investment for the future

Human body is like machinery: if it is properly maintained with frequent and required health checkups and body care; it is bound to stay in perfect shape and function smoothly in the long run by Santhi Krishnan

n this ever developing world we women find ourselves at the helm of almost all global matters. With our vibrant presence and perseverance, we are always thriving to attain new and novel goals. Achieving these targets requires a youthful mind supported by an undaunted physic. Ultimately the work load does take a toll and we end up spending our hard earned money and valuable time nursing our depressed minds, bolted limbs and weakened bones. I don’t see any meaning in living with a bundle of health complaints and consequently undergoing torturous medications.

The sensuous as well as strenuous stages in a woman’s life can be labeled as • An innocent angelic maiden before menstruation • Undefined glory of being a youthful damsel • Blessed state of motherhood & its responsibilities • Menopause or post menstrual state – a period of gains and losses

Based on the physical and emotional changes a woman’s life can be divided into four stages: Childhood, Adolescence, Adulthood and there onwards the stretched journey to reach Old age- an index to the final exit.

Generally speaking women’s health is considerably affected by the social, personal, familial, cultural and professional environment. Identifying and destroying the cause of the disease from its roots could assure a more safe and secured life.

When we discuss about our health care all through life we have to be well aware of the overall physical and mental changes that affect our total existence.

Childhood

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During all these stages women require personal awareness and external health in the form of regular pampering from their dear ones.

Taking timely vaccinations against deadly diseases; consuming antibiotics and

precautionary medications for mild common illnesses is essential.

Adulthood

Women become more open to various kinds of diseases both detectable and concealed. Doctors are of the opinion that the early twenties are susceptible to illness and it is preferable to go for screenings, minor blood tests, thus diagnosing the problem early and closing the door to stealthy diseases. We are the best judge of our health condition and never need to be shy or reserved when we are with our doctor or health consulter. As a preventive measure: • Go for periodical blood pressure checkups, mammograms, mainly breast and cervical cancer. • If sexually active do necessary screening tests to avoid sexually transmittable diseases.

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Include an energy rich diet to provide sufficient iron, calcium and folic acid supplements. Never skip medical checkups and health care programs. Consume healthy and nutritious drinks.

Menopause

A natural biological process is fearful and at the same time a relaxing term for any woman who knows what it indicates its salient symptoms and after effects. Major problems women confront during this crucial period in their life are irregular periods, weakening bones, weight gain, sleep disorders, Migraines, urinary difficulties, skin allergies, lack of interest and concentration caused by indefinable depression. During this period timely health care guidance, suitable lifestyle and medications can keep their health and mood intact to a great extent. Regular consultation with a doctor regarding cholesterol, diabetes, blood pressure, strict adherence to stress relief

troubles like Asthma should undergo annual vaccinations for preventing Influenza and pneumonia. But with adequate health checkups and mental boosting, you can surpass all

difficulties and keep fit enough to enjoy life with all its fun and frolic. Women who have chronic troubles like Asthma should undergo annual vaccinations for preventing Influenza and pneumonia. In short from the age of 18 to 80 make it a habit to undergo frequent heart, eye, and dental, bone checkups and over all undergo screenings for existing and expected diseases. “It’s hard to believe! You are a mother?” This is the sweetest compliment that any woman would like to get in her 50s and 60s when posing with a younger group. In short from the age of 18 to 80 make it a habit to undergo frequent heart, eye, dental, bone checkups and over all screenings for existing and expected diseases. The trick of staying ever fresh and ever green even at the twilight of your life is how you learn to sideline the wrinkles of aging by the beauty of wisdom. By abiding to a well-planned life style you can achieve it. Undoubtedly, many experienced beauty and health caretakers affirm it emphatically. Health, hygiene and beauty go hand in hand contributing and complimenting each other if maintained with intense care and motivation. Keep yourself clean and fresh with a daily shower, sweet smelling mouth, well nurtured skin and a youthful attitude. An organized life style, regular exercises, ample sleep, and a controlled diet to restrict weight gain can keep you fit as a fiddle and stress free. Beauty is indeed vital for any woman but equally or more important is the wealth of health regardless of her age and social background.

We have only one life to live... so leave nothing for the next.

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HEALTH

Diabetes

The art of living happily ever after Dr. Sheetal Varalwar

Diabetes can very closely be related to marriage: like it or not, you have to live it. Like all snags in broken affairs; the big problem with diabetes is the complications are silent in its progression. You do not observe any initial symptoms or signs of difference unless the situation grows very adverse with the advancement of the disease. Diabetes unlike marriage stays on to the affected person like a leech for the rest of his or her life. Diabetes is not a psychosomatic disorder and evidence suggests that changes in diet and lifestyle modification can prevent progression from Pre-diabetes to Diabetes.

ith a whole generation at risk of diabetes and its associated complications at an earlier age, the scale of economic & health care burden on the nation is unimaginable and so Dr Sheetal Varalwar, a consultant diabetologist in Goa shares her simple yet vital opinions on queries relating to Diabetes understated below. What are the signs that should encourage a youngster to come for a checkup? Dr Sheetal: Youngsters who are obese (especially fat around the abdomen, increased waist circumference - 31.5 inches or over for women, 35 inches or over for Asian men) should go for a checkup if they have a family history of Diabetes or are suffering from symptoms like tiredness, weight loss, feeling of thirst, passing urine more frequently, genital infections etc.. In this regard, it must be noted that youngsters that have borderline Diabetes must change their lifestyle to reduce the risk of becoming Diabetic. Can young children fall victim to diabetes? Dr Sheetal: Young children can develop juvenile diabetes (type 1 diabetes), which unfortunately cannot be prevented. Unlike type 2 diabetes, which is silent; type 1 is usually very symptomatic (thirst, weight loss etc). If left undiagnosed, it can take worse turns. What precaution should women who run the risk of diabetes take during pregnancy? Dr Sheetal: It is best to start taking precaution even before you conceive. 76 | MARCH 2013 | BEING WOMAN

Women who have a previous history of diabetic pregnancy, or have a family history of diabetes and are obese are at a high risk. • Avoid becoming obese after becoming pregnant as it increases the rate of becoming diabetic. • Take a balanced diet full of food rich in iron, vitamins & minerals. Also strictly avoid intake of foods rich in saturated fats and carbohydrates. • Maintain an active schedule with regular exercises as per your specialist’s advice. • Some diabetic women can control their blood glucose levels with diet; others may need medication or insulin during pregnancy. • Pre-conception counseling and planning the pregnancy ahead helps in controlling diabetes while conceiving. It’s in the first 8 weeks that all the major organs of the fetus are formed, so it’s important that during this time a mother’s diabetes is under good control. • Diabetic women tend to have bigger babies. Regular scans are to be done to watch the growth of the baby and plan the mode of delivery. Is diabetes curable? Can exercise cure diabetes? Dr Sheetal: Although research is ongoing, so far there is no cure for diabetes. It however can be controlled effectively and one can lead a normal life. Treatment needs to be started early & it continues for life. It’s important that one takes medications regularly besides controlling the diet and exercising consistently. Exercise cannot cure but help control

diabetes. It is a must for all diabetics to exercise regularly. A minimum of 150 minutes a week (30 minutes a day) of moderate intensity exercise is recommended. What are the reasons that risk age of diabetes has decreased drastically to 30? Dr Sheetal: The reasons are universal and responsible for the diabetes epidemic worldwide. One set of factors is urbanization: a rise in living standards and the spread of calorie-rich, fatty, fast foods cheaply available in cities to rich and poor alike. Another is the increased sedentariness that has resulted from the replacement of manual labour by service jobs, and from the advent of video games, television and computers. How does check up at an early stage help? Dr Sheetal: Early diagnosis and treatment of diabetes is essential to pick up any early complications and reduce long term adverse outcomes. Long-term complications include how diabetes affects your eyes (retinopathy), heart (cardiovascular disease), circulation, kidneys (nephropathy), and nerves and feet (neuropathy). Unless detected early these complications cannot be reversed, they can only be prevented from getting worse. Retinal screening for eyes, regular feet check, and blood & urine test for kidneys must be done yearly. Three tests of average blood glucose levels, blood pressure check and blood test for cholesterol must be done semiannually. BEING WOMAN | MARCH 2013 | 77

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THE COUNTRYSIDE potters’ community all over India and Goa is not an exception. The big question however is: would the tradition of pottery which survived against all odds for four thousand years (due to resolute patronage of the village economy) acclimatize to forces of globalization, multiple consumer choices, urbanization and industrialized mass production? Globalization has caused dumping of cheap and disposable substitutes for various traditional pots and utensils made of metals, alloys, thermotolerant glass, plastics and composites. Consumers have switched over to different cooking and storage techniques. The potters are Goa’s oldest craftsmen and pottery is Goa’s oldest craft. Long before history was recorded, it was the Goan potter who provided the temple with clay lamps and cooking vessels. It was them who brought fresh supplies of eating, drinking and cooking vessels for mass meals. Freshly made clay vessels were considered pure by their very nature. They were fashioned out of earth, water and fire - three out of the five basic elements that support life. This raised the potter’s status in Goan society. Today’s potter fashions containers for planting ornaments, clay idols of saints, gods and goddesses, tulsi vrindavans and fancy articles just as he or she continues to produce traditional containers and cooking vessels that are both functional and beautiful. You will also see them selling these articles at church and temple fairs all over Goa. A ride through the steep circuitous bi-lanes of Succor, a quiet village away from the dusty NH-17 highway, will make you understand why it is a perfect setting for an endangered craft.

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EARTH MEETS ART THE POTTERS

Jonathan Rodrigues meets up with these amazing business women from the potter’s community.

Those summer evenings at granny’s still make fresh memories, when we would come back all tired and sweaty and dash straight to the earthen jar. Jogging back from the beach we drooled at the thought of the liquid inside that clay cooler. The summers in the 80 | MARCH 2013 | BEING WOMAN

90’s were not as hot as that of today; but they were warm enough to burn you out and leave you dehydrated. Fortunately, back then we had more natural means to refresh and rejuvenate. A tumbler of cold water and we would fall flat on the cow dung carpeted

floors and stare at the clay tiled roof. No air condition, no fridge needed, the earth with all its generosity comforted us with its riches. Globalization is impacting the traditional

She further explains, “It is then dug out and foot or hand kneaded. The wheel rests on a metal spike set into the floor.” Men normally worked on the wheel while women crafted it out bare handed. “The hand built pots were started on a coarse biscuited saucer with a flat pancake of clay and coiled up. The pots were either for water or cooking and as they would stand on a dirt floor or sit on a clay stove, they all had smooth rounded bases.” Calorine sighs helplessly as she continues, “Sadly aluminum and plastic pots are starting to replace these in many areas.” She then took me for a tour of her production displaying various items: a base made for vases, piggy banks, baking and steaming utensils to cook sannaas and cakes; and lamps for incense. The daily schedule of this septuagenarian is mindblowing. She wakes up at 5am and rushes to the fields. If time permits, she goes to help at the bakery owned by her daughter and later goes to the Mapusa Market to sell the pots. “I have brought up the kids from clay,” she smiles, her toothless charm radiating a childlike innocence, “we believed that ‘more the children, more the blessings.” Her granddaughter Janice Vales, a carbon copy of herself, has taken an interest to the hobby and is slowly mastering the craft which her granny fears in dying out. “She is a fast learner and she is very keen, but I don’t know if she would continue with the

talent. Whenever her friends come along, she leaves the work and runs off to play,” she exclaims in an effort to express her desire to the little protégé. Janice however is keen to keep up to her granny’s expectations, “I am not shy or embarrassed to have such a hobby, I like what I am doing.” With a fast paced world and lucrative job offers, it would be a brave initiative if the little girl decides to follow her grandmother’s dreams. A few houses ahead, I met Milagrine Rodrigues who has been into this business for many years. Apart from having her stall in Mapusa market, she travels across Goa to the various fairs.“I normally camp around the site, may be in an old school compound or in some locals verandah where I can keep a watch through the night,” reveals Milagrine, about the gypsy lifestyle of the pottery traders. The business demands a lot of passion and patience as clients are not easily available. Milagrine shares her experience, “It is hard work and sometimes involves long days and sleepless nights; but the business is encouraging and the demand by locals and tourists motivates me to go on.” A salute to these brave and confident women who are keeping this great culture alive.

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I inquired for Thereza Maria Vales, much to the amazement of many who were clueless of the name. I was in the right place alright, though I later learnt that they call her Calorine. This spirited soul, who is as restless as a young kid, has been in the pottery trade, along with her husband for more than 60 years. In 2008 they celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary with great joy amidst all their loved ones. It was not difficult to get her talking. After a preliminary scan that she conducted with her piercing eyes, she opened up to all kinds of candid topics. “Unlike today, there was no transport. We would walk miles or travel by the bullock cart. There were no bridges, we would cross the ferry.” she encounters, further adding that, “You will be surprised that we would actually reach south Goa within a day and travelling by feet those days was not as tiring as today, the roads were lined with trees and greens.” She is all eager to explain the science behind the skill. “The clay is processed in the time honored way of soaking in vats where it is broken up by trampling and the slurry poured off to pits to mature” Says the grand lady who picked up the skill from her brothers. BEING WOMAN | MARCH 2013 | 81

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WALK THROUGH HISTORY KALPANA SUNDER The author is a Japanese language specialist, travel writer and blogger based in Chennai

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ascend the marble steps lined by cypress trees, to the still mighty symbol of democracy, the Parthenon, which stands sentinel over the city, with its 46 Doric columns buried in a maze of clumsy scaffolding and a thicket of cranes. This has endured centuries of wear, bombing and attack and even pollution. From the vertiginous heights of the Acropolis, I look down at the urban sprawl of Athens- the Temple of Olympian Zeus with its Corinthian columns, the conical Lycavittos Hill in the distance and hardly any tall buildings in sight. The economic woes and protests, unemployment and modern day troubles seem so far away from this spectacular view of this ancient city. I walk through the Propylaia Gateway, to the Erecthion with figures of draped women as pillars (I hear that the originals are at the Acropolis Museum). The graceful women seem to casually support the weight of the roof on their heads. The temple was built at the sacred spot where Poseidon struck his trident and Athena produced the olive tree, and had a sacred serpent that was

fed honey cakes by the priestess. I wander through the hill littered with fragments of columns and fragments ready for restoration and shutterbug tourists looking for the perfect photo-op. The Parthenon built on the highest point of the Acropolis has been a temple, garrison, a mosque and a church over its long history. Sculpted friezes and pediments, a fascinating triumph of geometry and architecture, this housed a mammoth gold plated statue of Athena with a statuette of Nike, the goddess of Victory in her hand. I walk to the stunning stone structure of the Odeon of Herodes Atticus, a two thousand year old amphitheatre with Roman arches nestled into the hill. I am lost in visions of goatskin clad men dancing and singing on the south eastern slope of the Acropolis, in the golden ages, when politicians sponsored dramas and comedies. From May through October, this five thousand seat structure comes alive with theatre, dance and music during the Athens Festival. Top performers like Yanni and Nana Mouskouri have performed here. We

wander through the atmospheric Anafiotika, where homesick masons from the Greek island of Amafi built narrow alleys and white washed dwelling reminiscent of their island homes. Cars have been banned from the historic centre; significant ancient sites have been linked with a long pedestrian promenade. My favourite part of town is vibrant Plakathis was the heart of the city from Antiquity until modern times- it was known as the â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;Neighbourhood of the Godsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; because of its location in the shadow of the Acropolis. We wander through the narrow winding lanes with pastel coloured 19th century houses with red tiled roofs and balconies festooned with bougainvilleas and geraniums. There are small tavernas hosting dance shows, souvenir shops with Greek jewellery in traditional designs, replicas of archaeological finds, worry beads called kombouli, olive oil soaps, evil eye amulets and marble busts of gods and goddesses. Old men in white coats sell hot flaky pastries, small groups gather around a backgammon board and tourists sip BEING WOMAN | MARCH 2013 | 85

frappes on outdoor tables. During the 70s this area became a sprawl of noisy bars and clubs. I hear about the Minister of Culture, Melina Merkouri who was responsible for cleaning up this area and pedestrianising it. I love the sleek New Acropolis Museum, with the ancient city under the transparent floor, showcasing layers of history and with over 4000 exhibits. Built at a whopping cost of 130 million Euros and designed by a Swiss Architect, with straight lines, glass, concrete and a sloping entrance hall, it follows a route that steadily climbs up with statues, busts and sculptures as well as great views of the Parthenon. My favourites are the 6th century koresstatues of maidens with flowing robes and elaborate headdresses who were votives to Goddess Athena, recovered from a pit on the Acropolis. The top floor of the museum is the piece de resistance: it mirrors the dimensions and the structure of the Pantheon. It has the frieze that ran around the Parthenon once- many are plaster 86 | MARCH 2013 | BEING WOMAN

copies, the missing pieces were removed by the controversial Lord Elgin and are in the British Museum now. I watch the Change of the Guards at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier in Syntagma Square, a bustling plaza lined with orange trees which is the backdrop for both protest rallies and festivals. The show stoppers here are the handsome evzones in their trademark uniform of red hat, pleated skirt with four hundred pleats and red clogs with pompoms. It is said that the tallest and the most handsome soldiers from the Greek military service are selected for this job. They are trained to remain silent and motionless for hours. They neither march nor walk; they kick their feet up as if dancing! I escape to the quiet oasis of the National Gardens just behind the square, with pines and cypresses, orange trees and small brooks and bridges. There are whispers of history everywhere. I peek into the luxurious Grande Bretagne Hotel dating back to 1862, with a marble

lobby, Persian rugs and grand interiors. Its guest list over the years includes crowned heads of states; it has even been the Nazi headquarters. I walk through Adrinou Street to the atmospheric Monastiraki Flea market with stalls selling anything from leather footwear to old gramophones. I walk along the Unification of Archaeological sites- a two and a half mile long walkway connecting ancient sites. I chase the ghosts of Socrates and Plato in the ancient Agora, the real heart of ancient Greece, a giant field scattered with swaying olive trees and rambling ruins. I imagine the titans clad in togas, making speeches and indulging in political debates. The sleek metro system holds a surprise which thrills me. When the city began excavations for the Metro line in the 90s many of the stations were in the shadow of the Acropolis. Many statues, aqueducts, cisterns, graves, cemeteries and artefacts were dug up and many of the finds were showcased in the stations themselves. Along with some contemporary art, some

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of these metro stations now look like sleek mini museums. My favourite is the Monastiraki station which has an old stream and remains of an ancient settlement under glass. At Syntagma station, below the Parliament Square, I see artefacts from different periods of Greek history ranging from pre-historic and Byzantine to classical. Huge urns, ancient roads and mosaics from the 5th Century BC are some of the other exhibits. I spend my afternoons as the Greeks doescape the blistering sun in cool tavernas or sidewalk cafes with ice cold frappe. The Greeks have always had a tradition of dancing at weddings, at religious festivals and ceremonies. I attend a traditional dance show with Greek dinner in the Plaka area where women dancers in traditional skirts with ruffled blouses, twirl and prance, and men in embroidered boleros move gracefully in unison. The best for the last...

The city shines at night too! Athens by night is magical thanks to some wizardry created by brilliant illumination of the ancient monuments by French designer Pierre Bideau. I look forward to my evenings when I sip on wine and sit in my balcony looking at the Acropolis illuminated by spotlights and casting mysterious shadows. Somehow I am both humbled and elated in the face

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of such a sight. Much later, when I am back home that is the enduring image in my memory chip- the illuminated Acropolis with its bewildering cocktail of ambience, history and culture.

How to get there: Fly Emirates through Dubai to Athens. Where to Stay: A good medium range hotel is the Hera Hotel at the base of the Acropolis and close to the Plaka area. If you want a luxurious option head to Grande Bretagne near Syntagma Square. What to do: Visit the archaeological sites like the Acropolis, the Agora, museums like the New Acropolis Museum and the National Archaeological Museum. Visit the mini museums in the subway stations; take a funicular to Mount Lycabettus for a birdâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s eye view of the city. Take a daytrip to the temple of Poseidon at Cape Sounion. Eat/drink: Greek staples like souvlaki, Greek salad, fried kalamari, Mousaka, flaky pastries with spinach and cheese. Try the local tipple ouzo- a kind of aniseed flavoured aperitif. Buy: Silver jewellery with traditional Greek designs, marble busts of Greek gods, religious icons, olive oil, and handmade leather sandals and bags.

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