DECEMBER 2015
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SINCE 1980 — VolUME 35 • NUMBER 12
F O G N I N A THE ME the season to be jolly?
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NO DOE IN CHRISTMAS DOUGH BUT LOTS OF MEMORIES
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He arose in the morning groggy and disoriented. He didn’t know where he was or recognize the surroundings. It was a small room, very neat and clean, with a sofa, desk and big bed. Anyone would recognize it as a hotel with all of the amenities. He had no memory of how he had gotten there. Sunlight peeked between the curtains. The television was playing a Christmas gala, complete with classic holiday music. The entertainment was broken up by the occasional commercial where announcers were promoting everything from toys to clothes, jewels and automobiles. Each announcer admonished viewers to hurry as there was just one day until Christmas. “Christmas? Where am I, where have I been?” He slowly stood up and went over to the window and opened the curtains to look outside where the grass and roads were covered with a thin layer of snow. It was cold, but not frigid. People could be seen walking on the streets carrying packages, cars moved quickly along a boulevard, and pine trees were adorned with tinsel, bulbs and lights. He didn’t recognize any of it, which confused matters further. He washed himself in the bathroom and then spotted some clothes neatly folded on the sofa, complete with shoes and socks. The clothes fit remarkably well. The shoes, which were actually a set of leather and rubber boots, also fit comfortably. He combed his hair before putting on the jacket and wool cap hanging on the chair at the desk. He unlocked the door and stepped outside into the cold air and surveyed the area around the hotel. Nothing looked familiar; did Europe look like this? A woman dressed in a heavy black coat passed by him and greeted him good morning. It was English, but the accent wasn’t recognizable. He replied, “Good morning,” to the woman, who hurried away before any questions could be asked. He watched her hurry down the street heading towards a large building where several cars were already parked. A sign in front read, “Springdale Town Mall.” He was curious and thought people at the building might hold some answers. So he followed the woman to the mall, crossing the street carefully as it was busy with vehicles. The traffic lights seemed strange to him, as well as the lines on the street, along with the the commotion of the cars and their horns. As he approached the entrance to the mall, he could hear the sounds of Christmas music coming See CHRISTMAS, Page 23
By Tim Bryce
A Gift Only You Can Give The angels danced the day we were born, as they celebrated an exciting new life, a unique gift and blessing to the world. Each of us has a spark of divinity in our DNA that enables us to do wondrous things and share our gifts with each other. Our responsibility and goal in the process of living is to figure out what our gift is, then use it to enhance the lives of others and ultimately ourselves. Some might be well aware of their gifts. For others of us it may not be as obvious, and may take some time for us to uncover. My gift/talent and yours will be different, and just think of the variety of possibilities when each of us starts giving our individual talent away. Pope Francis’ visit to the United States was a prime example of this. Regardless of one’s religious affiliation, one cannot help but be moved by this man’s love, humility and humanitarianism. At the age of 78, he even learned the English language in order to deliver his speech in English to Congress. He stressed the importance of family, visited prisoners, gave them hope for a better life and encouraged us not to give up on anyone, that all lives matter. I must confess that he also made me think. Here is a man See GIFT, Page 13
By Carolyn Shockey
3 STAGES IN RETIREMENT PREPARATION
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DECEMBER 2015
Health Roundup
Dentistry’s Technological Evolution According to sociologist Marrell Truzzi, unconventional ideas in science are seldom positively greeted by those benefiting from conformity Today, 175,000 dentists in the United States will treat nearly 2 million people. Some will receive treatment the same as in the early 1900s. Others will be treated with technology that is only recently proven, with the cost and expectation varying widely. So, you may wonder, what is the point? My point is this: Everything changes. Your health and available healthcare are no different. Exercise responsibility when choosing your health-care providers and the type of healthcare technology they use. Ask questions. Do your research. Check out those providers who will make decisions for your health. It has been said the physician of the future will utilize light and nutrition to bring the sick health. That is available and practical today. Hot and cold lasers are used in medicine and dentistry. Yesterday I was introduced to the irradiation of blood in the body to ultraviolet light. This offers increased possibilities of reduction of inflammation, the real cause of so many diseases like heart disease, diabetes, and cancer. Seek progressive healthcare providers whom you trust and with whom you can communicate. Seek providers who take the time to listen to you. It is you who should be served, not the other way around. We have a fast-paced world. Slow it down. Get it right. Live as healthy as you can and enjoy the pleasures of vitality at any age. Whether one is seeking a new dentist, second opinion or a new smile, Dr. Adams and his team at Healthy Body Dental have the education, experience and skills to make your dental experience pleasant, comfortable and safe assuring you the most advanced treatment in natural and cosmetic dentistry.
By Dr. Anthony J. Adams
Anthony J. Adams, DDS, PA, leads Healthy Body Dental, located in the Cypress Point Center, 25877 US Highway 19 N., Clearwater, Fla. Contact Healthy Body Dental at (727) 799-3123 or www.HealthyBodyDental.com.
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Health Roundup
Tips for Choosing and Using Your 2016 Medicare Health Plan It’s that time of year again: The Medicare Annual Election Period (AEP) begins Oct. 15 and runs through Dec. 7. Medicare is a critical source of health care for millions of Americans, and the Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services (CMS) sets this time for people to select and make changes to their plans each year. As AEP approaches, the old adage “good health is priceless” remains true. According to a survey by Cigna, a leading health service company and Medicare insurance provider, health, well-being and financial security are strongly linked in the minds of Americans. Their research shows that many people have anxiety about their financial health that goes far beyond making health care benefit choices. That’s why it’s crucial Medicare consumers consider their health and budget needs as they evaluate health care options for 2016. “Choosing a plan isn’t as simple as just keeping the one you had last year or looking only at the monthly premium costs. The goal should be to choose a plan that best meets your individual needs,” said Herb Fritch, president of Cigna-HealthSpring, Cigna’s seniors’ business unit. “Comparing affordability alongside the plan’s benefits and services is an important balance.” To help you choose a plan and get the most from it, consider these five tips: 1. Make a list of your priorities and use it to compare plans. Focusing on prevention? Keeping out-of-pocket costs low? Staying active? Take time to evaluate plan options according to the health and financial goals you value most. 2. Be sure your plan offers comprehensive preventive care benefits and use them. Many health plans offer preventive health benefits at little or no cost. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention estimates that 100,000 lives could be saved each year if everyone received the recommended preventive care. 3. Know your network. Many plans offer choices with a network of doctors. Choosing primary care doctors and specialists in network can provide better communication and care coordination, and keep your out-of-pocket costs down. 4. Get rewarded for staying active. Keeping fit is essential to healthy aging. Original Medicare doesn’t cover gym memberships or fitness programs, but some Medicare Advantage plans offer such benefits as part of their coverage. Many are free and some reward you for staying active. 5. Use free resources. CMS’ Plan Finder helps you compare costs, covered medications and other items. Many insurance plans offer free seminars with no obligation to sign up. You can also check health plans’ websites or call their customer service number for more information. Local and state agencies on aging also connect older adults and caregivers with community resources. Your plan may offer newsletters with helpful information about your benefits. As you weigh the options, Fritch offers this advice: “It’s worth it to take the time to set your priorities and see how plan benefits stack up. Only then can you choose a plan that really helps you get the most from it and reach your goals.”
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DECEMBER 2015
FROM THE PUBLISHER
Is there really a war on Christmas?
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I remember growing up and seeing so many houses in my neighborhood decorated for Christmas. Even being Jewish, I always liked this time of year. And growing up in Miami, well, there was no snow or cold to make you think this was the holidays, so all we had were lights and trees. It was such a nice time of year when the neighborhood would transform. But times, oh, how they have changed. Today we have people feeling there is some sort of “War on Christmas.” I have to tell you that I do not think there really is. Just because some people would prefer you say “Happy Holidays” doesn’t mean they are anti-Christmas. For years, my wife would tell me not to get snarky when someone wished me a Merry Christmas, because they were just being nice and assumed I celebrated that as well. Today, though, I just take it as a nicety. We have to face the fact that America is becoming more diverse and secular, and there are a wide range of individuals that have different beliefs or no beliefs. As we educate our children more, they tend to question religion more, and this includes even some of the most religious upbringings. And, do you really want to alienate a friend or come off as insensitive to others’ religions by wishing them a happy “whatever” that THEY celebrate, but they do not? Over the years I have noticed my friends begin to wish me a Merry Christmas, only to stop themselves and change it to Happy Hanukkah, and each time this shows me that they respect who and what I am. If you want people to accept your religion more or have an appreciation for it, invite them over the next time for a Christmas dinner. I have been to plenty of them, as well as Easter brunches, and over the last few years Diwali celebrations, etc., etc. And I have enjoyed them all. So all that being said, we at Senior Voice want to wish ALL our readers a Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, Happy New Year, Enjoyable winter solstice, happy belated Diwali and a general happy holidays!
Evan Gold
Contributors Abne M. Eisenberg • Garrett Matthews
FROM THE EDITOR
Carolyn Shockey • Steve & Jeanne Wolfen Ruth Fanovich • Dr. Anthony Adams Jean Mlincek • Joyce Holly • Alvin Bartz Tim Bryce • Joseph & Ruth Zammit Mary Gynn • Donnald B. Ardell • Karyn Rizzo Maggy Wolbers • June Hurley Young Would you like to write for Senior Voice America? Please email editor@seniorvoiceamerica.com.
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No matter where you’ve been and no matter how you’re feeling as this year draws to a close, the following words are for you. Because Psalm 73 feels like Christmas to me. When I carried sorrow inside of me and it hurt even to breathe and be alive, I couldn’t see or perceive your presence. I was like a terrified creature before you, not recognizing you as my creator, right there with me. But you never abandon me. You are with me physically and mentally and you have a wonderful plan for me. No matter what happens here, one day you will take me to be fully home, fully with you. You are the only one I’m waiting for, the only one I’m searching for, the only one I need, both in the next life and the one I’m living right now. You are at once present in all time and outside of time. Every single piece of my humanness and every single human I know will fail me. Over and over again. But you and only you make me who I am. You make me strong and you make me alive. You will fill me with your love forever.
Lauren Potts letters to THE EDITOR
Just read Evan’s article, “Religion: The great divider.” Bravo. Well done and well said. Dave Weber, Sun City Center, Fla. Our Security is at Stake In the wake of the attacks in Paris by ISIS, I am very concerned about the plan by the President of the United States allowing Syrian refugees to immigrate to the United States without having a competent means by which to vet them. We are living in turbulent times, and I question why it is that the majority of these refugees are young males without children or a wife. Why don’t they immigrate to the neighboring Arab countries? It came to my understanding that the vetting by these countries is very thorough and takes time. Why are we not employing the same thorough process? President Obama stated at the G20 in Turkey that to “close the doors in their face would undermine our American values”. Although I welcome refugees escaping religious persecution, we should not be compromising America’s security for the sake of “values”. Sincerely, Pam McAloon, Palm Harbor, Fla.
DECEMBER 2015
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Teaching for Health Series (Vol. 1 No.8)
Diabetes and the Elderly
Prior to developing Type 2 diabetes, a person will usually have pre-diabetes or somewhat elevated blood glucose (sugar) levels. People with pre-diabetes often have high blood pressure and other risk factors for heart and blood vessel disease. However, studies show that many people with pre-diabetes can lower their risk for Type 2 diabetes by losing approximately 7 percent of their body weight and starting a moderate exercise program, about 30 minutes of moderate exercise five days a week. Knowing you have pre-diabetes is a message to get active, attain a healthy weight and work with your healthcare provider and
By Mary Gynn, Diabetes Educator, RN, BSN, MSN, MPH
diabetes educator to improve your health. Long-term complications from diabetes include disease of the nerves and blood vessels, which can lead to damage of various organs, including the eyes, kidneys, heart, brain, the feet and legs. Skin disorders, such as bacterial and fungal infections, problems with hearing and gum disease also occur more often in people with diabetes. But long-term complications are not inevitable. One key to prevention is having a healthcare provider and diabetes educator who are knowledgeable about diabetes. They can coordinate your care and assure that you have the tools you need to manage your diabetes successfully. You are the key part of the team. Generally, if you are able to control your blood glucose levels over time, your chance of developing the type of nerve and blood vessel damage that contributes to long-term diabetes complications is reduced. Even if your blood pressure isn’t considered too high, you may be prescribed a medication that is normally used to treat blood pressure as a preventive measure against kidney disease. Learn how you can maintain near-normal blood glucose, blood pressure and blood cholesterol control to help prevent the long term complications of diabetes. You need to ASK your questions about self-management. Family support is important. Studies show that people with diabetes who have family support and are working with a diabetes educator tend to be more successful in dealing with the disease. Let your family members know what they can do to support you in your endeavor to keep your diabetes under control. When families handle a problem like diabetes together, the benefits can be from improved health for everyone to less of a feeling of isolation by the person with the diabetes. It can be helpful for adult children or a nurse advocate to accompany their diabetic family member to medical appointments to act as a second pair of ears and to remember to bring up any matters of concern. Nurse Patient Advocates who are knowledgeable in diabetes can accompany patients to their physician appointments. They can be involved in the post-appointment physician plan to help interpret any part of the home self-management plan that the patient may have missed or doesn’t understand. Patient education is extremely important due to the numerous tasks involved in managing diabetes. While visits to the doctor are important, almost all diabetes care happens at home. Mary Gynn, RN, MSN/MS, MPH, is a diabetes educator. Contact her at info@teachingforhealth.com or (847) 533-1197.
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Six Holiday Tips for Diabetics
Focus on Friends and Family Remember, the holidays are a time to slow down and catch up with your loved ones. Focus on friends and family, not food. It’s a Party, But Don’t Overdo It Eat slowly, and really enjoy the foods that you may only have once a year. Try to eat the same amount of carbohydrate that you normally would for a meal. If thinking about dessert, cut back on other carbohydrates. Bring What You Like Try not to worry about what will be served. Offer to bring your favorite dish to share. If you count carbohydrates, check your recipe’s nutrition facts so you know how many carbohydrates are in one serving and the size of a serving. Drink in Moderation If you drink alcohol, remember to eat something beforehand to prevent low blood glucose levels later. Whether it’s a glass of red wine or a beer, holiday drinks can add a significant amount of calories to your holiday intake. Keep it to no more than 1 drink for women and 2 drinks for men. Stay Active One reason that we have problems managing diabetes and weight during the holidays is our lack of physical activity. Even through busy times, try to exercise and don’t break your routine. Make the holidays an active time! Overindulged? Get Back on Track If you eat more carbs or food than you planned for, don’t think you have failed. Stop eating for the night and focus on spending the rest of your time with the people around you. After any holiday event, monitor your blood glucose levels, and get back on track with your usual eating habits the next day. For more informationwww.diabetes.org.
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DECEMBER 2015
Holidays
The Season to be Jolly? While the Christmas holidays are the happiest time of the year for most people, this is not the case for a growing percentage of the elderly. Research has revealed that one out of five people over the age of 65 suffers from clinical depression, especially at this time of the year. This same population unfortunately accounts for 16 percent of all suicides nationwide. Retirement is supposed to mark the beginning of our “golden years� and be a chance to pursue new interests and spend more time with family and friends. Unfortunately, for a growing number of seniors, the outlook is bleak. Deteriorating health, loss of loved ones and job-related responsibilities can lead to increased levels of depression. While all of these factors can lead to depression, scientists are discovering that it is the decreased efficiency of neurotransmitters that has significantly contributed to the rise of depression among the elderly. Perhaps because of the stigma associated with depression, the elderly are more like to complain about aches and pains or problems with memory and concentration. These are among the most telling signs of depression. Other indicators are loss of appetite and interest in previously rewarding hobbies and social activities. Problems include sleeping, increased loneliness and isolation. Depression is not just another aspect of getting older. There are a wide array of anti-depression medications and talk therapies that can help people deal with this silent killer. Unfortunately, little attention has been given to the fact that men are far less likely to seek help in dealing with depression, and are therefore more likely to take their own lives than women. It is also worth noting that, according to the American Institute of Aging, 50 percent of those suffering from undiagnosed chronic depression will develop Alzheimer’s disease or some other form of dementia. What can we do for ourselves? Get medical help. Besides increasing serotonin levels in the brain, we can become more active and exercise on a regular basis. We can increase our level of social activity and start doing the things that interest or amuse us, especially in association with others. Start finding things to laugh about and develop new stress reduction techniques. Cut back on the overuse of alcohol and proscription drugs and start finding ways to contribute to the happiness and well-being of others. If this holiday seasons finds you depressed rather than joyful, let someone you love know, and start getting the help you need.
By Alvin Bartz, Ph.D.
Alvin Bartz, Ph.D., is a resident of Village Green. He has been a clinical hypnotherapist and counselor in private practice since 1983.
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GARDEN CONNECT
caregiver relief
Winter Gardening Though it’s still too hot to maintain a garden, we can do a lot of preparation for the winter garden. First, we can start seeds or cuttings in containers. Try to find a semi-shady spot. Remember to water daily or put inside of a plastic bag with a tie to keep moist. Too dry or too wet is not good, and small containers dry out quickly if outside and it doesn’t rain. Here is a list of some cool weather plants: Lettuce, cabbage, broccoli, mustard greens, broad-leaf mustard greens, collards, spinach, kale, Asian greens, chard, arugula, leek (most of the greens), carrots, beets, potatoes, radish, fennel, celery, cauliflower, turnip, rutabaga and winter squash. Keep in your folder for future reference. It’s a good idea is to use folder tabs. Note down the seed names that you are planting this fall. We’ve learned from a friend who grew up on a home farm that wherever her dad buried kitchen scraps, the crop came up bigger and better. Note ‘kitchen scraps’ does not include meat or protein matter – crushed eggs shells are OK. If you have thought about your melons, calabaza or pumpkins from the previous crop, continue to put mulch, leaves, pine straw, etc. surrounding them as the rainy season is waning. We lost ours due to too much moisture. Jeanne and I need to stress that you should build up the land as we do continually to prevent rot (drowning plants). As you know we had an extraordinarily wet summer. Now it is becoming mild – thank God! Hope you have some wonderful gardening experiences. Why don’t you share them with us? Our email address is whtdovefarm@yahoo.com. We want to give some praise and acknowledgment to MaryHelen Zopfi and her husband for all of the joy of recycling she brings and the projects for the senior citizen home, growing things in halved rain barrels on stands. Hip, Hip Hooray!
By Steve & Jeanne Wolfe
Finding Respite Options So many caregivers find themselves running on empty, selflessly taking care of loved ones’ needs in a very task-oriented way, to the point that they may not even realize the fatigue and resentment they are feeling. There are so many reasons to utilize respite care options, not simply to avoid burnout, but because of the fact that healthy caregivers have healthier patients. You may be thinking, where do I begin? “START where you are, USE what you have, DO what you can.” Arthur Ashe, professional tennis player The simplest in-home respite options are to use family members, friends, church groups, students from health colleges, and volunteers. Many caregivers don’t want to impose upon others. However, many people like to help when asked. Furthermore, sometimes the patient may get tired of receiving care from the primary caregiver, and both can benefit from a much-needed break from each other. Make a list of simple tasks to offer people when they ask if you need anything. Have an answer ready: I’d love to have help with laundry, or have someone run a doctor visit, or pick up prescriptions, etc. There is a tool online that many families are using to distribute tasks to multiple care providers called www.ecarediary.com. The website has a message board, and the primary caregiver can put in tasks that they need help with, so that other family members can be notified and sign up. In-home assistance can also come from Medicare Home Health providers such as physical therapists and nursing evaluations. Private-duty home-care agencies sometimes offer special packages that can be easily afforded. In some states, Medicaid State Aid includes weekly private-duty care staff to provide some help with the activities of daily living, some Adult Day Care programs, and even, sometimes, Assisted Living financial assistance. To see if you qualify for Medicaid in your state, begin the process online at www.medicaid.org (enter state). In most cases, a case manager is assigned, and most interviews can be done over the phone or at home. Out-of-home respite options include Adult Day Centers, Residential Respite care, and Caregiver Support Groups. Assisted Living facilities often offer a threeto seven-day Respite Stay program that can be free or reasonably priced, and are key to help caregivers with attending family events, maintaining good work-life balances in their roles. Some organizations that offer respite financial assistance are listed below: • American Association of People with Disabilities: www.aapd.com • ARCH National Respite Network: www.archrespite.org • Family Caregiver Alliance: www.caregiver.org • Hospice Foundation of America: www.hospicefoundation.org • National Day Services Association: www.nadsa.org • Mental Health America: www.nmha.org • National Alliance for Caregiving: www.caregiving.org • National Volunteer Caregiving Network: www.nvcnetwork.org
By Karyn Rizzo
Retired military and their spouses often qualify for additional money to pay for care under the Aid and Attendance Benefit, which can pay up to an additional $2120 monthly to cover in-home private duty caregivers, adult daycare programs, and assisted living. If there are liquid assets totaling more than $80,000 (not including house or car), then it’s best to contact an Elder Law Attorney that specializes in Veteran Benefits to submit the application. However, if there are no liquid assets, or less than $80,000 (not including house or a car), then it’s best to contact the local Veteran Service Officers (free) through the National Association of County Veteran Service Officers at www.nacvso.org. There are many other benefits that may be available through the VA Healthcare System, including mental health counseling, social services and widows’ benefits. To begin the application for the Veteran Healthcare System, go online at www.va.gov. You will need the veteran’s DD214, your social security number, and your date of birth to get started. Achieving balance as a caregiver is essential to maintaining outside relationships as well as good physical, emotional and mental health.
By request our email is whtdovefarm@yahoo.com.
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DECEMBER 2015
Health Roundup
Understanding Chiropractic By Professor Abné Eisenberg A great many people are either not clear on exactly what chiropractic is or what chiropractic physicians treat. Briefly, the science and art of chiropractic was founded in 1895 by a magnetic healer named D.D. Palmer. At its inception, it consisted exclusively of spinal manipulation based upon the principle that, due to a misalignment of the vertebrae of the spine, the nerves emitting from it cause a great many illnesses. The treatment consisted of manually correcting these misalignments, called subluxations, which removed any interference with the nerve conduction to the rest of the body. Twenty years earlier, a frontier physician named Andrew Still founded a system of healing called osteopathy. One day, Still and Palmer had a falling out, prompting Palmer to leave and set up a practice in Davenport, Iowa, that he called Chiropractic. During those early years, both osteopaths and chiropractors practiced the manual manipulation (bone-setting) of anatomical body parts. In time, while osteopathy progressively simulated the practice of medicine, chiropractic continued to be a drugless profession. Today, in addition to a manual manipulation of the spine, and other anatomical parts, chiropractic consists of a complete range of diagnostic procedures and various other forms of drugless healing. What is generally not known is that the curriculum in chiropractic colleges consists of exactly the same basic science courses taught in medical schools with the exception of material medica and surgery. Patients are fortunate that the previous animosity between medical and chiropractic physicians has recently lessened. Practitioners in both professions, in the interest of better serving their patient’s therapeutic needs, make referrals to one another. All members of the healing arts currently subscribe to an holistic approach. It advocates rendering a patient whatever form of treatment will deliver the best results. The axiom, salus aegroti supreme lax – the welfare of the sick—is the supreme law. Chiropractic physicians hold the words of these three wise men in high esteem: “Look well to the spine for the cause of disease.” Hippocrates “The doctor of the future will give no medicine, but will interest his patients in the care of the human frame and in the cause and prevention of disease.” Thomas Edison “I firmly believe that if the whole materia medica [medical drugs], as now used, could be sunk to the bottom of the sea, it would be all the better for mankind, and all the worse for the fishes.” Oliver Wendell Homes Professor Eisenberg was born in New York City and now lives in Belleair Bluffs, Fla. He served in the U.S. Marine Corps in WWII. His career consisted of teaching various aspects of interpersonal communication for 60 years at leading universities. Send comments on his articles to aeisenberg3@tampabay.rr.com.
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in the community
‘No Room in the Inn’ for Clearwater’s Senior Citizens By Joseph and Ruth Zammit Our own lovely senior citizens’ campus was snatched from us in 2006, where the Marriott Hotel now sits on Court Street. Friends were scattered; some just sit in their rooms, some have joined groups at Dunedin and Largo, where we are fined as aliens from “out of town”— when we are even able to get there. After some time, we started a petition—but never received a reply. How many voting senior live in Clearwater? Then we come upon a small building on Roger Street, where we tried to regroup, finding a place to rest and talk, to play cards, to bowl on the Wii, to read newspapers and magazines, to use computers and get help with our own, to share a snack, to receive health services, to get advice on housing, transportation and legal matters from a friendly and knowledgeable staff. One day, that, too, was taken away and replaced with a couple of rooms at the Towers—now that, too, is gone. Who are we, the senior population of Clearwater, Fla.? We are your parents and grandparents, friends and volunteers. We need a place of our own that can be easily reached near the center—perhaps one of the many empty places we see all over town. Do we not have a director of senior services with a board of prominent people who care that we be ‘reimbursed’ for a lifetime of helping others? Perhaps a website could be created to address this very important issue.
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Welcome to a Wonderful World Step into the door at 330 Fifth Street N. in St. Petersburg, Fla. You’ll find a new world of fun, friends, interests and entertainment. You’re visiting the Sunshine Senior Center, a treasure house designed uniquely for you. The Sunshine Senior Center is open weekdays from 8:30 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. There’s a low-cost snack bar, patio picnicking area, and even free meals by application. A monthly newsletter lists free activities: There is Bingo, the Sunshine Chorus and Drama Group, Sewing and Knitting Group, Wifi, sports, a bowling league and computers. Ballroom dancing, the fitness room and Zumba along with exercising, painting and other classes are available for a small fee. Every afternoon at 1:00 pm, there’s live music entertainment from jazz to country music or the Mystery Movie. Day trips and field trips are available. In February there’s an overnight trip to the Mystery Train in Fort Myers with a tour of the Edison Estate. A weeklong excursion will even go to Washington, D.C in May 2016! There’s something for everyone at the Sunshine Center treasure house.
By June Hurley Young
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About the Spirit of Christmas
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By Nurse Ruth Fanovich
Celebrate Your Faith and Live Confidently in Your Salvation
It’s the time of year that creates excitement, anxiety, and an emotional roller coaster of feelings. Starting in August (yes, I know it’s summer), the department stores are already hyping up the season with Christmas decorations and the notion that it’s time to buy gifts and holiday decorations, even if we can’t afford or don’t need them. Oh, and let’s not forget Christmas in July. So, you can see where I’m going with my thoughts. Let’s talk about the unrealistic ideals and images grocery store advertising places upon us: THE PERFECT FAMILY HAVING THE PERFECT HOLIDAY DINNER, ALL SMILES. This is probably not so in many (if any) families. Now, let’s point out the gravy stains no one talks about! When I was growing up, the holidays were not as commercialized as they are today. I remember my mother always invited the neighbors for holiday dinner. One particular neighbor usually had too many spirits before dinner, and yes, would become, let’s just say, not so jolly. Of course, we were living in an apartment and there wasn’t a big, beautiful candlelit table, because we didn’t have one. Nor was there room. We were all crammed around the kitchen table with card tables added to allow for the extra person or persons to eat. Now, don’t misunderstand, we had great memories, but sometimes there was discord. My mother was always able to bring everyone together and keep the basic spirit of the holiday alive, which was sharing with those who have less and enjoying, with thankful hearts, the family, friends and food set before us. We couldn’t afford designer clothes or expensive gifts, but appreciate, we did, that in our stockings we had tangerines and fruit. Today, more than ever, many families are no longer intact. Children grow and move to other states, many families are separated by divorce. Some families have experienced the loss of a loved one; some don’t even have family. Others need to relocate because of financial stress, job loss or bankruptcy. Some through poor health have used up their savings or have been displaced to a facility. As a nurse, I see my clients slowly slip into depression and isolation during the holiday season.
So how do we keep the spirit alive? Keep Christmas in your heart Give a gift of yourself: Visit someone who is unable to get out Volunteer at a homeless or animal shelter Make cookies for someone and wrap them in a bow Invite someone to dinner Do charity work: Many groups look for donations not only of money but your time. Giving of yourself puts the spirit back in Christmas. Look for the spirit of Christmas within yourself. Don’t cling to the images the advertisers place on us, and put club soda on those gravy stains! Merry Christmas! Let’s Talk next year. Provided by Ruth Fanovich, RN, LHRM, Owner, Care Placement Home Health Agency, Inc. and RMF Care Management, Inc.
Life is Meaningful: Written in response to the article “Live is Meaningless” by Don Ardell
We have populated this planet a few thousand years, a mere hiccup in comic time. Many species have become extinct for one reason or another, but we’re still here. Why? Why do we exist on a planet that is just the right distance from our sun, so that we are comfortable? A planet that has enough oxygen so we can breathe? Enough water to drink? Enough food? Etc., etc., etc. Was all this just due to chance…some cosmic accident? The good news, recognized by billions around the globe, is that there is a grand scheme, a divine plan, an overarching design. In my opinion, your existence is totally amazing: You are unique; there is nobody else just like you. You are part of a pre-ordained plan. You are significant, like everyone and everything else. We are all in this thing called life—together. We are not alone. All of us have the capacity to interact with others as much or as little as we choose. If our home is on fire, we call the fire department. If our vehicle needs maintenance, we call a service garage. If we don’t feel well, we call a doctor. If we want to meet people, we join social organizations. If we have an interest in God, we call a theologian or do some research. In my opinion, each of us consists of a body, a mind (soul) and a spirit. A well-balanced person develops all three areas. In my opinion, and according to the Bible, there is a God and a Satan. A force for good and a force for evil. There is an afterlife (eternity), where we will be with God or not with God. The determining factor in where we spend eternity is what we come to believe about Jesus the Christ. Our life on this planet is brief when compared to eternity. However, we are given adequate opportunity to believe in God and develop a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, his only begotten son. When we know Christ, we can fully appreciate the beauty of his creation. We celebrate our faith, rejoice in the Lord, and live confidently in the assurance of our salvation. As Christians, we do not ignore the well-being of those around us. Our Lord said that we are to love God and to love our neighbor as ourselves. Through our church ministries, we help those in need, both at home and abroad. Many have discovered that serving others is a sure path to joy and real happiness. There are plenty of problems to be solved in this world. Each of us has unique skills, qualities and potential to be useful in solving problems and helping others. You would do well to develop a healthy lifestyle, including the development of your body, mind and spirit. You may be surprised to discover that there is meaning and a divinely inspired purpose for your life. Your choices are the determining factor in having a meaningless or a meaningful life. Choose wisely. May your life be touched by Jesus Christ and your eternity be victorious.
By Dennis C. Lysacht
Dennis C. Lysacht is retired and lives in Clearwater, Fla. He worked in the mental health field.
BlackNovember
This has been a strange month. Quite a few of my friends have lost loved ones this month. In particular, two lost granddaughters, another lost a mother, another a father, and a Masonic brother. I cannot begin to imagine their pain, particularly those losing young ones, but they seem to be resilient and quietly bear their grief. Another friend is about to lose his wife of nearly fifty years of marriage due to cancer. She was a great woman from Scotland and a good friend. The interesting thing is all these deaths have all come rather suddenly during the month of November. It seems such deaths come in cycles as I’ve heard of no other deaths this year. Then there are the recent deaths in Paris incurred by Islamic terrorists which none of us truly understand. I guess when it rains it pours. Losing a loved-one is a sort of rite of passage, something we must all suffer through. We generally expect our elders to pass before us, but not our offspring or grandchildren. I tend to believe it takes a little something out of us spiritually when this happens. All we can do is just take it, and hope we have family and friends to support us. Thanksgiving is just around the corner, and we will miss the smiling faces of our loved-ones around the dinner table. It would be sad if we forgot them, which is why I devised the following grace some time ago, titled, “A Thanksgiving Moment”: See NOVEMBER Page 23 “Let us enjoy the moment, cherish the moment, remember the moment.
By Tim Bryce
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book review
Alaskan Yarn Rekindles Rigors and Romance of Gold Rush Days If you’ve ever wanted to visit Alaska--the olde-tyme Alaska when men were tough and the women were, well, tougher—“The Seduction of Sister Skaguay” is for you. Author Bill Miles blends a cast of picaresque fictional characters as colorful as your imagination with the genuine history-making sourdoughs who battle for control of Gold Rush Skaguay (now spelled Skagway), Alaska. Soapy Smith, a peer of Bat Masterson and Jesse James’ killer, Bob Ford, has moved north to Alaska with his gang of gunsels, grifters, and ladies of the night to take advantage of the stampeders headed up to the Yukon Territory gold fields. He confronts Frank Reid, Skaguay’s original surveyor, and a handful of honest settlers. Into this mix pour thousands of rough-and-tumble Argonauts and one beautiful nun. Sister Skaguay, introduced as righteous and rigid, is wooed by both Soapy and Frank . . . and away from her calling. From the opening fight scene to the final confrontation—sorry, no spoiler here—Miles’ use of the language is sharp and precise. In an exchange after the nun shoots Two-Chew Calderone, Soapy’s main gunman, she tells Frank Reid that she wasn’t trying to kill the man. His reply? “You shot him through the center of the chest twice . . . strange place to shoot a man you’re not trying to kill.” Sterling Watson, the former director of the Eckerd College writing program, calls Miles “the true voice of the Northwest, a writer who walks with Bret Harte, Jack London, Nelson Algren and James T. Farrell.” Florida’s Bill Miles, 72, worked as far south as McMurdo, Antarctica after spending 35 years in Alaska as an oil-field hand, bartender, pilot, freelance writer and member of the Alaska House of Representatives. Along the way, he’s been a boxer, skydiver, teacher and snowmobile racer. He’s lived in the Tampa Bay Area since 2001. His fiction has been nominated for a Pushcart Prize and the Hemingway/PEN Award. “The Seduction of Sister Skaguay” is available at amazon.com/books: online version $2.99, print version $10.99.
By Maggie Wolbers
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opinion
Consider Adding an Existential Philosophy to Your REAL Wellness Lifestyle A few years ago, America’s most reliable news source, The Onion, published an interview with a courageous firefighter named James Farber. The story focused not so much on his heroic deed, remarkable though it was, but rather on his iconoclastic, notso orthodox views about meaning in life, human existence and virtue. From the start of the interview, Farber focused on a context far broader than the fire and the action he took that saved lives from the conflagration. To quote Mr. Farber: “Like any other man, I am thrown into this world, alone and terrified, to play a meaningless role in an empty life. In my case, that role happens to involve charging through towering blazes to pull helpless individuals from a sea of flames before they suffocate or are burnt alive. That hardly makes me a paragon of virtue.” Not surprisingly, the interview went viral. Farber’s reflections stimulated a national discussion of a deep philosophical nature. (Source: “Existentialist Firefighter Delays 3 Deaths,” The Onion, May 27, 2010, Volume 46, Issue 21.) Those of us striving to live a wellness lifestyle face one challenge in particular beyond the usual difficulties with which all humans contend, namely, how to stay focused, remain positive, cheerful, optimistic, kind and rational in the face of never-ending tragedies. Blazing house fires usually don’t turn out so well—and that’s just a small sample of larger difficulties all must face. Consider a few macro scale perplexing issues and ask yourself: How can we not be appalled and dispirited by daily accounts of dreadful realities? Who can ever get used to terrorist bombings and natural disasters, plus so many intractable problems (e.g., world hunger)? How are wellness seekers to look on the bright side, given these and other horrors and perturbations? Once again, firefighter James Farber’s case might provide help, not with physical actions, but with insights from his existential philosophy. The latter could relieve many people from mental travails common to our universal efforts to find what safety there can be in this life, at least temporarily. After all, nothing lasts forever. How can we continue to do what little we can for ourselves and others to remain as well as possible while connecting with the larger realm (loved ones, community and the environment)? Famed ethicist Peter Singer has described a few other challenges to expect in the years ahead:
By Donald B. Ardell
Look on the Bright Side
“The greatest ethical challenges facing us in the 21st century will involve questions of food, our changing view of life and consciousness in both humans and other animals, and the way we treat the end of life.” So, add these concerns to the stresses of familiar grim headlines. A wellness seeker might be tempted to give up, siding with Ecclesiastes, who cautioned that all is futile. But, doing so will not support a continued sense of optimism that wellness pioneer Halbert L. Dunn (1896-1975) and others held as an essential quality for positive lifestyle results. While Seeger identified universal challenges to a positive outlook, challenges will always depend on personal situations. Think of Syrian and other migrants today who are willing to board fragile raft operated by mendicant thugs to escape the horrors of life in their tortured lands. Such migrants knowingly risk their lives and those of loved ones on perilous, uncertain quests for a new life, knowing that even if successful they will find themselves in strange places to which they were not invited, where conditions are unsuited for other than short-term relief. Ethical and other challenges vary, but we’re all affected by the ultimate concerns identified by Dr. Seeger. Most of us care about others and feel some responsibility, not just for those we know and others similar to us but for all people, wherever they live. But, because simply looking after one’s own affairs takes so much time and energy, reaching out and being of service to others, particularly strangers, seems like a big ask. Despite our recognition that it’s the right thing to do, at some level, just what we can and should do is usually unclear and stays unresolved. Who isn’t tempted at some point, perhaps often, to put his or her head in the sand, hoping that our troubled reflections just go away? But, we can’t safely do this—it exposes our derrières, unguarded, for too long. The Onion has done for reality what religions have done for pie-in-the-sky. The satirical article in The Onion about a mythical existential firefighter named James Farber might hint at a partial response to some of the challenges described. Remove the details of the fire, the heroics and the other extraneous details and what remains from The Onion piece is a form of REAL wellness existentialism. It might be summarized as follows. All is ultimately futile, postponing the inevitable as we march toward oblivion. Life is meaningless. You can choose to be be despondent, enveloped in a deep malaise absorbed by dread, or you can seek to be curiously happy, to the extent possible, lightly looking around, amused and tolerant at the chaos, embracing a few mental allies to share “white wine in the sun. Alfred E. Newman famously preached the mantra, What? Me, worry? This was a variant on maintaining an emotionless and silent demeanor, as if nothing happened of any consequence, no matter what happened. Hard to do but the alternatives are not a lot of fun (grief, gnashing of molars, depression, etc.). Good and bad things happen every day, to someone near and dear to you, if not to you personally, at least not all that often. With an existential outlook, neither happens— ever, at least not so as to be emotionally damaging for long. (But only when you get really, really good at it, which can be mistaken for a mental condition by the unaware masses.) Contentment, joy, happiness, love and all the rest of the good stuff, like existence, are but provisional circumstance over which we exert limited control. Practice, however, makes better. How might we explain events and circumstances? Only as haphazard, amoral processes inherent in nature itself. Things will turn out, or not. Complete freedom is scary, a fact that is a foundation for the success of every dogma, all religions and all tyrants who imprison minds and harden hearts. Best to just keep doing what, at the moment, makes you happy provided it does not risk prosecution or other likely ill consequences. Despite the coming of anguish and sorrow at unknown points, maintain a determination to look on the bright side, anyway. Perhaps, with a little imagination and a bit of good fortune, the bright side will appear, in some form, sooner or later. For a while. There, does that make you feel a little better? All good wishes.
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Holidays
No Doe in the Christmas Dough, but Lots of Memories I love the Pillsbury Dough Boy and the Keebler elves, but when it comes to baking cookies, there’s no sweeter Christmas memory than when I and my siblings would help Mom bake batch after batch of sugar cookies, an endeavor just as exciting as opening gifts under the tree on Christmas morning. Seriously. I was probably seven when I debuted in “Heaven’s Kitchen.” I was not yet capable of handling an electric mixer, but was a pro with the aluminum cookie cutters with outlined shapes of Christmas trees, candy canes, and snowmen. My sister, a smidge older than me, was the Betty Crocker wannabe in our family, and worked magic with the rolling pin, spreading our “canvas” to just the right thickness. She was also more skilled at the intricate plastic cookie cutters, whereas I struggled freeing reindeer antlers from them, and thus my mangled dough (doe?) would be k ne a d e d back into the next roll out. Although my sister thought she was the boss of the whole operation, it was mom who wielded the mixer and decided who got a coveted beater to lick clean of its tasty batter. Unfortunately, mom sometimes had four of us clamoring for the prize, a dilemma she eventually settled by doling out either a blade, spatula or mixing bowl to each of her brood. The beaters had the most residual batter, followed by the spatula. One would think the mixing bowl would be the best, but there was always wailing by the bowl’s recipient as he or she watched mom too thoroughly clean the sides of the bowl with the spatula before handing it off. In truth, we kids probably snitched more dough than we baked. Despite the raw egg ingredient in the dough, we never worried about salmonella back then. Raw dough, to us, was a delicacy, but the baked stuff was divine. We would fill two cookie sheets at a time, pop them in the oven, and watch the cookies puff up and turn golden brown. Of course, we had to “test” the doneness of a cookie or two (or three, or four). We probably never left Santa a glass of milk because it would have meant fewer cookies for us, and, long before Sesame Street featured Cookie Monster, I like to think that my mom had four prototypes in her kitchen. A few years back, I got the urge to bring out the cookie sheets and try my hand at the entire process on my own. I headed to Publix to get the in-gredients, but when I got to the aisle with the bags of flour, I forgot whether we used self-rising or the regular flour. Desperate for an answer, I began polling the older ladies in the store. (Well, older than me at the time). To my dismay, none of them knew the answer. They seemed amused that I would even want to bother with baking cookies when I could go over to the frozen biscuit section of the store and find ready-to-slice cookie dough with imprints of Christmas trees or Santas already on it. OK, OK. I, too, have long ago ditched my aluminum cookie trays, and it would be an archeological find if a bag of flour were found in my cupboards these days. But, truly, I sorely miss that reindeer cookie cutter and all the splendid memories of “Heaven’s Kitchen.” I guess that’s just the way the cookie crumbles.
By Jean Mlincek
Jean Mlincek is a freelance writer who resides in St. Petersburg, Fla. From GIFT, Page 13
about my age, without a lung, limping because of sciatica, who has made it his life purpose to give hope to those less fortunate, who has been a world class mentor, one that isn’t tied to material possessions. No red shoes, gold crosses or ring, he came with two plain pope outfits and was perfectly comfortable in a small compact car during his trip, or a Jeep, looking like a “clown” car in comparison to everyone else, who rode in luxury limos. While it probably shouldn’t trouble me that he has far exceeded my attempts in giving back in as many years, I still have been motivated to take a personal inventory. I know that I haven’t done all I could or should have, so I’m trying to share my gifts more deliberately these days. I need to continue to rise to the call that is mine. Our gifts are ones always available. They do not have to be elaborate, be wrapped, or even cost money, from something as simple as a phone call to a shut-in, a ride to the doctor’s office, or volunteering for a favorite charity. We have many choices to do a good deed for the good of all. One cannot give without it coming back to us as blessings. Gift-giving has been a tradition each Christmas, but, in reality, we should be sharing 12 months of the year. The gifts I’m referring to would be hard to wrap, and one could save a few trees in the process. As we reach the winter of our years, there are so few material possessions that we need or want, but the gift of friendship—being available for each other with true caring and love—is the greatest gift of all. So, the question is this: Are you living beneath your God-given destiny? If so, now is the perfect time to make a change. What and who you are is ultimately God’s gift to the world.
Dr. Bonnie Sanchez, ABPM
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Senior Happenings Very Merry Christmas Party
Largo Community Center December 8
rade route has changed slightly but the best public viewing sites are from the Green Bridge Pier and the River House Reef and Grill Restaurant in Palmetto, along the Bradenton Riverfront and at the Pier 22 Restaurant in Bradenton.
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Hernando County Fairgrounds December 11 - 19
Get into the holiday spirit with dinner, entertainment, door prizes and golf cart tours of the holiday lights in Largo Central Park. 5:00 p.m. Tickets: $15.
Candy Cane Acres
This family festive annual Christmas event is back with opportunities for photos with Santa, decorating Mrs. Claus’ homemade cookies, Parade of Trees, sleigh rides, Experience this grand family Chanukah celebration on crafts to make and take home, Florida-style sleigh ride, Tampa’s Downtown on Ice Clearwater Beach. Food, music, dancing and dreidels for light displays set to music and games. Hot chocolate, apple kids. 6:00 p.m. Free. cider, water and soda will be available. Additional tickets Curtis Hixon Park Event’s location is 311 S. Gulfview Blvd., Clearwater are .50 cents each. 6:30 p.m. Price: $10 per carload, inDecember 1 - January 3 Beach, FL. cludes 10 free tickets. Even in Florida, you can get in the holiday spirit by Hernando County Fairgrounds are located at 6436 skating on an outdoor rink in the park. Each 90-minute Jingle Jangle Jam Broad St., Brooksville, FL. For more information (352) session includes skate rental. Log in for operating times or Tampa Airport Marriott Hotel 796-4552. more information. Tickets: $12. December 9 Curtis Hixon Park is located at 600 N. Ashley Drive, Join us for this holiday benefit. Snow will gently fall LARGO WOMAN’S CLUB INC. CHRISTMAS PARTY EXTRAVAGANZA Tampa, FL. For more information (813) 966-5505 or Royal Palms “Theater Room” over the 8th annual event with a holiday feast by celebrity www.friendsoftamparec.org. Chef Jeff Henderson, seasonal martinis, beer, wine and a December 12 silent auction. Benefits area children and families. 6:00 DANCE EVERY FRIDAY Bring a wrapped $10.00 gift with your name placed inp.m. Tickets: $150. side to participate in the gift exchange. Separate 50/50 St. Petersburg Tampa Airport Marriott is located at 4200 George J main drawing, give aways. 11:15 a.m. -3:00 p.m. Ticket December 4, 11, 18 & 25 (every Friday) Bean Outbound Pkwy, Tampa, FL. Price $20.00 includes: Lunch, Entertainment, Door Prize Dancing benefits us physically, mentally and socially! Bingo. Holiday Charity Ball Come dance and socialize with us from 7:00 p.m. - 9:30 Ticket Information and R.S.V.P (By Dec. 5) at: largop.m. Large, padded wooden floor. Live music, coffee, ice The Regent womansclub@yahoo.com, or Rebecca at (440) 533-5559 and water furnished. BYOB & snacks. Couples and singles -LIKE US ON FACE BOOK. (In the Palms of Largo ComDecember 10 welcome. $5 admission plex) 200 N. Lake Ave. , Largo FL. Dance and enjoy for a good cause. Dress Roaring ‘20s Directions: From US 19, go East on 62 Ave. N.. Turn style for this dinner with dancing, entertainment and a siright at 3rd traffic light onto 21 St., then Left at STOP sign. Reindeer Run lent auction. Benefits Toys for Tots. For information, call (727) 522-8329. Lake Jovita Golf and Country Club
Beachwalk December 8
St. Petersburg Power and Sailboat Show
Mahaffey Theater December 6
The Mahaffey Theater Yacht Basin and Albert Whitted Park will be filled with hundreds of sail and power boats. Once again, the event also includes a 40,000-square-foot clearspan tent housing marine gear, children’s activities, seminars and clinics. 10:00 a.m. Tickets: $12-$14, 15 and younger free. The Mahaffey Theater is located at 400 First St. S, St. Petersburg, FL. Holiday Tea
Center Place December 6
Hats or holiday attire are required for this formal high tea with holiday scones, Devonshire cream, desserts, holiday spiced teas, entertainment by the Southern Company Chorus, silent auction and prizes for most whimsical hats. 2:30 p.m. Tickets: $35. Center Place is located at 619 Vonderburg Drive, Brandon, FL. Holiday Tree Lighting Gulfport
Clymer Park December 7
Join Mayor William Hewes for the official lighting of Gulfport’s tree with a sing-a-long, refreshments, music and a visit from Santa. 7:00 p.m. Free. Clymer Park is located at Gulfport Boulevard S. and Beach Boulevard S., Gulfport, FL. Volunteers Needed
St. Petersburg December 8
Volunteers are needed to provide counseling related to Medicare, Medicaid & more. There will be a three-day Training Program in St, Petersburg for individuals interested in volunteering with the SHINE (Serving Health Insurance Needs of Elders) Program. The training will begin on December 8, 2015. Transportation costs are reimbursed and meals are furnished. For more information about the Program visit www. floridashine.org for an online application. Or call Shine Program Manager, Sue Samson at (800)963-5337 or email sue.samson@aaapp.org.
6:30 p.m. Tickets: $65.
The Regent is located at 6437 Watson Rd., Riverview, FL. Holidays Around The Ranch
Lakewood Ranch December 11
December 12
Run or walk through the country club’s south course on this family-friendly holiday themed 5K race. Includes a poolside post-race party with food, music and prizes for best holiday themed costume. Benefits Sunrise of Pasco Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault Center. 8:00 a.m. Tickets: $35 advance, $40 day of race. Lake Jovita Golf & C. C. is located at 12900 Lake Jovita Blvd., Dade City, FL.
Celebrate the holiday spirit in the style of the Ranch. Watch the lighting of the tree over the fountain, work on crafts in Santa’s workshop, ice skate on an acrylic ice rink with skates provided, there will also be children’s dance and music groups, the Choo Choo Express and welcome AIDS Walk Tampa Bay Santa’s arrival, too, along with more festive activities. 6:00 Vinoy Park p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Free admission to the public. Food & Drink available. December 12 Lakewood Ranch is east of I-75 off University Parkway Lace up and join a walk around the beautiful downin Sarasota. town waterfront area and the historic Old Northeast neighborhood. Registration begins at 8 a.m. Benefits AIDS Holiday Lights Spectacular Service Association of Pinellas. 8:00 a.m. Free (donations through sponsorship appreciated). Sarasota Jungle Gardens Vinoy Park is located at 501 Fifth Ave. NE, St. PetersDecember 11 &12, 18 - 24 See the twinkle of thousands of lights decorating the burg, FL. pathways and surroundings at the annual “Holiday Lights Tarpon Springs Christmas Parade Spectacular” Celebration. Stroll down “Candy Cane Lane,” Tarpon Springs see Santa, live entertainment takes place in the bird pavilDecember 12 ion twice each evening at 7:00 p.m. and 8:00 p.m.. Adult admission $11, $6 for children 3 to 12, under two are free. The annual parade includes Shriners clowns and memThe Jungle Gardens are located at 3701 Bay Shore bers on a wide variety of vehicles, floats and community Road, Sarasota, FL. marching units. After the parade, the fun moves to Craig Park for candy cane hunts and pictures with Santa and his Sarasota Christmas Boat Parade elves. 10:00 a.m. Free. Parade location: S. Pinellas Avenue and Mears BouleSarasota vard, Tarpon Springs, FL. December 12 The 28th Annual Sarasota Christmas Boat Parade of Dunedin Holiday Parade and Old Fashioned Christmas Lights is back again to please the family crowd. Usually Downtown Dunedin starting around 6:00 p.m., the boat parade starts from December 12 City Island bringing with it the millions of color light displays to brighten the spirit of the season. The parade of floats, bands, Santa and entertainers runs along Douglas Ave. to downtown Dunedin where an 18th Annual Manatee River Holiday Boat Parade old fashioned holiday family festival comes alive with carriage rides, live music, train rides, games, children’s activBradenton ities and a snow mountain. 4:00 p.m. Free. December 12 Parade location: along Main Street, Dunedin, FL. Another great holiday traditional boat parade starts at dusk, with lighted vessels that will assemble near Snead Hanukkah Celebration Island and proceed past the Yacht Club to Pier 22 then to Temple Beth David the River House Reef and Grill and back to Pier 22 and December 12 Twin Dolphin Marina where the awards will be given. Boaters will compete for cash prizes in several categories. Celebrate the Jewish Festival of Light with the local Judging will be at several points along the route. The pa- Jewish community. Each family will bring their own me-
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Senior Happenings norah and light them all at the same time - Night of 100 Menorahs. Songs, prayers and a meal will be shared. Open to the public. Reservations required. RSVP. 5:00 p.m. Free. Temple Beth David is located at 13158 Antelope St., Spring Hill, FL. Apollo Beach Lighted Boat Parade
Tampa Sailing Squadron December 12
The Tampa Sailing Squadron is hosting this event and the party afterward with hotdogs and hamburgers available for purchase. There is good viewing from the clubhouse and docks. Concession sales benefit the youth sailing program. 5:30 p.m. Free. Parade location:1250 Apollo Beach Blvd., Ruskin, FL. Pinellas Park Holiday Parade
Pinellas Park December 12
The 42nd annual Pinellas Park Holiday parade features bands, floats, soldiers, dancers and equestrian groups. The parade steps off at the 58th Street railroad tracks and proceeds down Park Boulevard to the Shoppes at Park Place. Road closures begin at 1 p.m. and prime spots for viewing begin filling around 4:30 p.m. Parade starts at 6:00 p.m. Free. Parade route: Park Boulevard and 58th Street, Pinellas Park, FL. For more information (727) 373-8507 or www. celebratepinellaspark.com. A Taste of Hanukkah
Beth Israel Sun City Center December 13
A little latkes, a little donuts and a litle fun. Bring a menorah and enough candles to light for the 8th night. There will also be a silent art auction. Reservations must be paid by December 7. 2:00 p.m. Tickets: $5. Beth Israel is located at: 1115 Del Webb Blvd. E, Sun City Center, FL. Hillsborough River Holiday Boat Parade
Lowry Park December 13
The Friends of the River hold this annual parade with decorated kayaks, canoes and traditional craft. Departs from the Lowry Park boat ramp, upriver to Sulphur Springs Park. Assembles at 5:30 p.m.; parade starts at 6. 6:00 p.m. Free. Lowry Park is located at 7525 N. Blvd. , Tampa, FL. Spine Scans, Vision and Glaucoma Screenings
Hale Senior Center December 15
Spine scans as well as vision and glaucoma screenings by Free Health Resources. Third Tuesday of the month. 9:00 a.m. Free. Hale Sr. Ctr. is located at 330 Douglas Ave., Dunedin, FL. Victorian Christmas at the Safford House
Safford House Museum December 18
Enjoy refreshments and live performances as you take a stroll through the 1883 Safford House decked out in Victorian era holiday decorations. Includes photos with victorian Santa, craft activities, Victorian carolers and a gift shop. 11:00 a.m. Tickets: $14, $12 members/students, $6 children through 6th grade. The Safford House is located at 23 Parkin Circuit, Tarpon Springs, FL. St. Petersburg Holiday of the Arts
South Straub Park December 19 - 20
An event for art collectors, those who enjoy purchasing art, or seek that unique holiday gift for a family member or friend. The 2nd Annual St. Petersburg Holiday of the Arts, co-sponsored by the St. Petersburg Arts Alliance and the City of St. Petersburg, showcases artwork of local, regional and national artisans. Talk with the artisans that create the pieces - all artists are available throughout the event. 10:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. both Saturday and Sunday. Admission and parking are free.
South Straub Park is located at 198 Beach Dr. NE, St. Petersburg, FL. For more information www.paragonartevents.com. St. Petersburg Bowl
Tropicana Field December 26
The post season college football game matches a representative from Conference USA against one from the American Athletic Conference. 11:00 a.m. Tickets: $40$200. Tropicana Field is located at 1 Tropicana Drive, St. Petersburg, FL.
Swingin’ the New Year
Sarasota New Year’s Eve Celebration
Coliseum December 31
Downtown Sarasota December 31
Ring in 2016 with the annual Pineapple Drop in downtown Sarasota with all of the traditional offerings including a family carnival in the afternoon on December 31, live music and beer stations on downtown’s streets and avenues, special deals at local restaurants and, of course. The Pineapple drops at midnight at Main Street and Lemon Avenue. Outback Bowl Parade
Ybor City December 31
Largo Community Center December 31
Don’t worry about sleeping through the ball drop during this day party with dancing, entertainment, door prizes, light refreshments and a champagne toast. 11:00 a.m. Tickets: $3. Largo Comm. Ctr. is located at 400 Alt. Keene Road, Largo, FL. Noon Years Eve
Lowry Park Zoo December 31
Celebrate the New Year family style at the annual “Noon” Year’s Eve daytime celebration on Thursday, December 31st! The party starts with games, arts and crafts, live entertainment, educational displays and more. Your family can ring in the New Year with noisemakers, hats and a juice toast as you watch the clock strike 12 Noon. Lowry Park is located at 7525 N. Blvd., Tampa, FL. New Year’s Eve Fireworks
Channelside December 31
Ring in the New Year at the largest Fireworks Celebrations in Tampa Bay at the 2016. Celebrate from 8:00 p.m. - 1:00 a.m. Event takes place at 615 Channelside Dr., Tampa, FL. First Night St. Petersburg
Straub Park (Center) December 31
Dress to impress for this all-ages dance with music by Mitch Woods and His Rocket 88’s Band, a countdown to midnight and balloon drop, party favors, noisemakers, chocolates, prize giveaways, cash bar and New Year’s decor. There’s also a vintage fashion photo shoot and contest. 9:00 p.m. Tickets: $27 advance, $30 after Dec. 10. The Coliseum is located at 535 Fourth Ave. N, St. Petersburg, FL. Outback Bowl
Marching bands and cheerleaders from the two visiting teams combine for this New Year’s Eve parade and pep rally with floats, walking units and more. The parade steps off at 5:30 p.m. and runs along Seventh Avenue between 20th St. and 14th St. in Ybor City. 5:30 p.m. Free. Location of parade is 1700 E Seventh Ave., Tampa, FL. Happy Noon Year’s Eve Party
St. Petersburg rings in the New Year with this family oriented celebration of the arts that includes music, art and entertainment at more than 25 venues. It’s free to wander around, but you need a button to participate in activities and enter venues. Organizers point out that the buttons help fund the annual event, which relies heavily on volunteers. Starting at 4:00 p.m. Tickets: $10, $5 ages 6-12, 5 and younger free (advance); $15, $10 ages 6-12, 5 and younger free (day of). Straub Park is located at Beach Drive and Fifth Avenue NE, St. Petersburg, FL. For more information (727) 823-8906 or www.firstnightstpete.com.
Raymond James Stadium January 1
Celebrating its 30th anniversary, the bowl game plays host to teams from the Big Ten Conference and Southeastern Conference. Gates open at 10:30 a.m., but kickoff isn’t until noon. 12:00 p.m. Tickets: $80-$170. Raymond James is located at 4201 N. Dale Mabry, Tampa, FL.
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RETIREMENT FINANCES
3 Stages of Retirement Preparation: What to Know Now
It’s never too early or too late to save for your retirement, whether you’re a young saver or approaching your retirement years. “There are actions you can take to help boost your retirement readiness at key points throughout your life,” said Jamie Ohl, president of Retirement Plan Services at Lincoln Financial Group. According to a 2015 Lincoln Financial Group M.O.O.D. of America study, 92 percent of Americans agree that putting money into a retirement plan, like a 401(k), contributes to a more secure financial future. Ohl and the professionals at Lincoln are offering retirement savings tips for various life stages that can help all savers take full advantage of their workplace retirement plan and become more confident about their retirement readiness at every step along the way. Getting Started: It may be tempting to spend your new paycheck exclusively on items you want or need now, and delay saving for retirement altogether at this point. Lincoln’s M.O.O.D. study shows that 78 percent of millennials feel that payments they need to make now, like bills, housing, and other necessities, make it difficult for them to put money toward their future. However, your monthly budget should include a line for retirement savings. Now is the time to create a habit of contributing regularly to your retirement savings plan at work. As soon as it’s available to you, enroll in your employer-sponsored plan and save at least up to the company match. Saving a small but steady amount early on can compound over time and pay off down the road. Keeping It Up: Life can get complicated as you get older. From mortgage and car payments to education expenses to raising kids, competing financial priorities can distract you from retirement savings goals. Resist the temptation to stop saving altogether or borrow from your plan. Lincoln’s 2015 American Consumer Study shows that 49 percent of Generation X and younger Baby Boomers would like to put more money into saving for retirement, but cannot due to present financial constraints. Now more than ever, keep up the momentum. A financial professional can help you evaluate your retirement savings picture and identify ways to maintain savings growth. As you navigate your career and make job changes, be sure to evaluate a potential employer’s benefits offering -- including a retirement savings plan -as part of your overall compensation. Learn about what options are available to you, such as a company match, investment choices and other resources to help you stay on track and keep a holistic view of your savings. In the Homestretch: At this point you have done most of the hard work and the retirement you’ve envisioned is in sight. Continue to save and set aside extra money from income boosts or bonuses. Work with a financial consultant to reset your savings strategies and learn about other savings tools like income guarantee options that may be available in your plan. Familiarize yourself with Social Security benefits, and any other income sources you’ve secured throughout your career. For more retirement preparation tips, visit www.lincolnfinancial.com. Being prepared for retirement requires some work and planning. For a more comfortable financial future, don’t delay your efforts.
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humor
Odd Names
“Your name, sir?” The police officer had pulled over a speeding driver. “Ben Dover” was the reply. An imaginary scenario, to be sure, but can you imagine possessing a name that actually says something? “And your name, miss?” “Barb Dwyer.” John Foster, Sun City Center retiree, is a passionate collector of such names. “I don’t seek to belittle any individual in assembling this sort of collection,” Foster said. “I simply regard these names as wondrous curiosities.” Sixty years ago, Foster inherited his father’s collection of remarkable names of real people and has expanded it to include some 1400 entries. “It costs nothing to collect these gems,” Foster said, “but their potential for amazement and humor is priceless.” The hobby began with Pearl Button and Myra Venge, women whom his father had known. The collection eventually grew to include Turner Fawcett, Durdy Drawers, Royal Butler, Josephine Gotobed, May I. Fish, Southern Drinker, Perley Gates, Sno White, Never Fail, Anna Gramm, Safety First, C. Sharp Minor, Kuhl Brieze, Santee Klaus, Perry Gorick, Warren Pease, Katz Meow, June Blue Moon, Thanks Lord, Lotta Junk, Sparkle Plenty, Pokka Dotts, Marshall Arts, Cherry Vanilla, Constant Bliss, Fuller Beans, Phillip deGrave, Ure A. Pigg, and Ima Rose Bush. Authenticity is Foster’s creed; they’re all real (to the best of his knowledge). No stage names, pen names or aliases (Englebert Humperdink the composer, yes. Englebert Humperdink the singer, no). Oddity is his criterion. Foster looks for “unusual and fun names which intrigue or beguile, and thus, give pleasure.” Sexious Boonjug. He gets them from newspapers, former students, friends, relatives and other collectors who are similarly afflicted. He used to swap names in batches with two or three avid “connoisseurs.” Through the mail flew the likes of Eucalyptus Yoho, Oldmouse Waltz, Odius Champagne and Dextrose P. Saccharin (of Glucose, Pa.). Honest. While some of his collection, when pronounced, seem to make a certain peculiar sense, many are just plain bizarre—names like Ichabod Onion, Gaby von Bagge of Boo, Arveseth Eyolf, Zip-ADee-Doo Dawb, Christ J. Seraphim, Trammel Sploun, Cashmere Tango Obedience, Oofty Goofty Bowman, and Romeo Yench. The latter chap belongs to Foster’s exclusive list of names that move from the sublime to something less than sublime. For example, we have Hyacinth MUDHEAVER, Gladiola WORMWORD, Opal SUER, Freelove OUTHOUSE, Valentine GERM, Elizabeth IZABICHIE (Lizzy), Gretel von GARLIC, and Portia KLUTZ. Foster also collects “names that reflect some aspect of a person’s occupation.” His examples include a Boston cashier named Fonda Cash, a burglar named Rob Robb, a lecturer on morality named Solomon Gemorah, dentists named Toothacre and Gargle, a swimmer at Stanford University named Stanford Schwimer, a police chief named Dick Tracy, an optometrist by the name of I. Doctor, a lawyer known as Jay Outlaw, and the former archbishop of Manila, Cardinal Sin. “It’s rare,” Foster said, “to find an individual whose first and last names are unusual. In those cases you feel you have added something truly worthy to your collection. Collectors place greater value on a Delphinium Potty than on a Henry Commode.” And what do you name such a hobby? “Onomastics” has been suggested; “name calling” has not. Foster prefers to think of himself not as a nomenclator, but rather as a nomenphiliac, though he knows purists will grouse that it’s part Latin, part Greek. But what’s in a name?
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from the mall’s PA system in the parking lot. In between songs, announcers touted their products and admonished shoppers there was just one more day until Christmas. He really didn’t grasp what was going on. From CHRISTMAS Page 1
He entered the mall which was the largest structure he had ever seen. Inside was a cavernous multitude of lights, more music, and thousands of people circulating. There seemed to be hundreds of shops offering a variety of wares; toys, cutlery, sporting goods, jewelry, and many other goods. Virtually all had signs in their windows promoting sales and reminding shoppers there was now less than a day to Christmas. He paused by an electronic store where many television sets were displaying Christmas shows. The shows were mesmerizing, and he became somewhat intoxicated by the sights and sounds emanating from the televisions. He wandered the mall examining the various stores carefully. Each was decorated in red and green colors, with wreaths, and the smell of pine and sweet candy hung in the air. Electric lights, snowmen, and miniature railroads offered animation. Gifts were wrapped in a special type of green and red paper and ribbons. All in all, it was a feeding frenzy of shopping. He wondered what the purpose of all this activity could be. There were several signs mentioning “Christmas,” but he didn’t make the connection. There was the smell of food in the air, which caused his stomach to growl in hunger. He passed the mall’s Food Court which featured several restaurants offering a variety of strange looking ethnic foods. He watched cooks prepare Japanese sushi and Chinese cuisine, none of which he recognized as something edible. The Mexican restaurant smelled of spicy hot peppers. The only restaurants which somehow resembled familiar food was the Italian restaurant, although He balked at pizza, and the Greek restaurant featuring gyros and souvlakis, both offered on pita bread. He asked the clerk for a gyro as it appeared to be made of lamb. The young clerk prepared the meal accordingly, complete with French Fries and a cola drink. “That will be $5 for the gyro special,” she said. He looked perplexed by her request but quickly figured she was asking for money of which he had none. He tapped his trousers with his hand and heard the distinct click of metal. He reached inside his pocket where he retrieved some coins valued at $2 each. “Will you take these?” He asked. The clerk took three of them and presented him with a $1 bill saying, “Here is your change. Thank you. Next!…” He walked away from the restaurant with his tray and found an empty table to sit and eat. He studied the $1 bill carefully. He had never seen paper money before and didn’t recognize Washington’s portrait. He ate the gyro hungrily. He enjoyed the taste of cooked lamb as well as the pita bread. The French fries seemed peculiar to him, though. He picked one up and inspected it carefully. Nearby at other tables, people were eating them. He then broke one in half and tasted it, and it was good, even though he didn’t know what it was. “A French fry? Hmm…,” and he ate the rest. He examined the cola drink suspiciously. He took a sip and found the taste medicinal in nature, and the bubbles tickled his nose. Spotting a nearby water fountain, he emptied the cola down its drain and replaced it with water which tasted remarkably clean to him. He saw others dumping the trash from their trays into the garbage and followed suit. The meal had served its purpose and he felt refreshed. He then returned to wandering around the mall. The music and hubbub was beginning to give him a small headache. It was mid afternoon when he came to the center of the mall where he sat at a bench on the second floor. He marveled at the immensity of the mall, and as he looked down to the bottom floor, he discovered a long line of children waiting for someone named “Santa Claus.” Dozens of children waited patiently to sit with a fat man dressed in a red and white costume. He assumed the man was elderly as he wore a white beard with matching color hair. An elderly woman came and sat on the bench to rest her feet. She was loaded with several packages and looked tired from her trek around the mall. “Excuse me, but who is that man down there?” He innocently asked the woman. She looked down to see the object of his attention. “Are you kidding me?” She said, “It’s Santa Claus and his elves talking to the kids, of course.” He said, “I’m sorry, I am not from around here. What is a Santa Claus?” She looked at him inquisitively but gave him the benefit of the doubt. “He is actually called by many names— St. Nicholas, Kris Kringle, and many others around the world. He is considered the patron saint of Christmas and is best known for delivering presents to children on Christmas.” “Christmas, there is that name again,” he thought. He watched the children one by one go to visit with the old gentleman. Some appeared timid and scared, others enjoyed a good conversation with the man, others were loud and animated, demanding certain presents on Christmas Day. It was all rather unclear as to the purpose of the meeting with Santa, other than it was an outlet to promote the purchase of more gifts. He was amazed by the length of the never-ending line and requests for more gifts. The greed and opulence of the season was too much for him to stomach any longer. He took his leave of the mall wanting to head back to the safety of the hotel room. Unfortunately, he became a bit disoriented and couldn’t find the same door from which he entered, and exited on the opposite end of the mall where nothing looked familiar. He had spent considerable time at the mall and it was now late afternoon with long Continues on Next Page
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shadows and the sun beginning to set. All he could see were rows of neat wooden homes adjacent to the mall. He was unfamiliar with the architecture and wanted to take a closer look. He entered a subdivision and was amazed how orderly the houses were aligned and well maintained. As the sun set, decorative lights were switched on and lit up the houses and the adjacent trees and shrubbery. Various statues of snowmen, Santa Claus, and angels were also lit and music could be heard in the air. There also seemed to be reindeer everywhere; on top of houses, pulling sleighs, or metallic statues on front lawns, some were animated appearing to be grazing. In was very reminiscent of the storefronts in the mall. He walked several blocks in amazement as the houses turned darkness into light. Other people also walked the neighborhood in order to see the decorations. Cars began to enter the streets where they moved slowly so parents and children could admire the decorations. As pleasant as this all ways, he was at a loss as to what it all meant. As He exited the neighborhood, he was presented with two large structures, one with a crucifix atop it, and another with the Star of David. He was appalled by the crucifix and began to wonder if people still practiced the tortuous custom. The large cross stopped him in his tracks, and he began to tremble. He noticed the other structure bore the Shield of David, a symbol he was familiar with through Judaism. It was nighttime now and both buildings were active with people, the Temple celebrating a Bar Mitzvah, and the Church preparing to celebrate Christmas mass. Being more familiar with the Shield of David, he approached the Temple, where people were exiting for the evening. Still inside was the rabbi, who was bidding goodnight to the attendees. He worked his way to the rabbi, a middleaged man who appeared to be of good nature. He said, “Rabbi, I am a stranger to this area. As I have walked around the village, I notice there is a fascination with ‘Christmas’ here. I would like to know more.” The Rabbi smiled and said, “Well, stranger, you are actually in a good place to learn. I would like to sit down and tell you more, but the hour is late and I have another appointment. However, I recommend you visit the church next door where they are getting ready to celebrate Christmas. I am confident they will tell you the full story tonight.” He took his leave of the rabbi, who locked the Temple after he exited. Many people were entering the house of the crucifix, men, women and children. As it appeared to be safe, he overcame his timidity and reluctantly approached the church. At the door, he was warmly welcomed by greeters. The inside appeared to be a place for religious retreats, with several rows of pews, and an altar at the front. As the service began, the congregation rose to its feet and began to sing, accompanied by an organ. He was startled by this, but found the music strangely comforting. He looked about and saw everyone singing in unison, along with a choir which sang as one. The pomp and circumstance was impressive. He looked on in horror as a small boy walked slowly down the center aisle carrying another crucifix with an effigy of a person nailed to it. The boy proudly presented the cross at the front of the congregation before placing it in a stand. He was bewildered by the display and was prepared to turn and run, but something inside him told him to stand his ground. After the entrance of the clergy, the music stopped and everyone returned to their seats. The minister welcomed everyone to the evening’s Christmas celebration. This was followed by a sweet celebration enacted by the children of the church who were dressed in colorful costumes. The minister narrated the story of the birth of Christ and the children acted out the story. He listened intently. He heard the names of Joseph and Mary, which were well known to him, as well as a place called Galilee. He listened to their story of the birth of their savior. Aside from the shiny costumes and some obvious literary liberties, it was a story he knew well, and his spirits perked up noticeably. He was no longer afraid but felt quite at home. After the play, the minister asked all first time visitors to rise and be recognized. One-byone he welcomed each visitor, asking who they were and where they were from. The minister finally asked the stranger to introduce himself. See CHRISTMAS on Page 23
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Entertainment Peking Dreams: National Circus & Acrobats from China
Women of Ireland ~ Celtic Angels’ Christmas
Helios Jazz Orchestra & Chuck Wansley
Straz Center - Ferguson Hall December 5
Van Wezel Performing Arts Hall December 10
Palladium Theater December 15
Peking Dreams, the latest, lush creation for the National Circus and Acrobats of the People’s Republic of China, unfolds in mesmerizing scenes of acrobatics, Chinese circus, martial arts, aerial silks, Peking Opera and the historical palace game, diabolo. Escalating in daring stunts and death-defying acts, Peking Dreams invites audiences into an artistic world full of history and wonder, sumptuous costumes and almost unbelievable physical capabilities. This production was performed for the Beijing Olympic Games in 2008 and has been performed for more than 600 shows in front of more than 400,000 people in China, Europe, Japan, Singapore, Hong Kong and Taiwan. 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $35 - $45.
Celtic Angels will enrapture you in an awe-inspiring show which encompasses vocal and instrumental seasonal favorites, stunning dance routines and Christmas themes with a Celtic twist. This family show is a holiday celebration of Christmas in Ireland presented in an inimitable fashion by some of Ireland’s finest female performers. If you have never heard “Ding Dong Merrily on High” performed as a toe-tapping instrumental reel or “In Dulci Jubilo” as an Irish jig, then you are in for quite a treat! Celebrate the many moods of Christmas inspired by the beauty, power, and passion of the Women of Ireland. 8:00 p.m. Tickets: $40 - $55.
PNC Bank Holiday Concert: Let Heaven and Nature Sing
Straz Center - Carol Morsani Hall December 11
University of Tampa Sykes Chapel December 6
This year’s series includes performances by organist Eric Plutz with The Tampa Brass, The Svyati Duo, comprised of cellist Rebecca Hepplewhite and organist Julian Collings and many more. 2:00 p.m. Free. Sykes Chapel is located at 401 W. Kennedy Blvd., Tampa, FL. Hernando Performing Arts Center Guild 2015-16 Season
Hernando County Performing Arts Center Guild December 6
Divas by DAWN, a tribute to Diana, Aretha, Whitney and Natalie. 90-minute show featuring Carlene Mitchell. 2:00 p.m. Season tickets are $80, individual shows are $25, and group pricing is available. Hern. County Perf. Arts Ctr. Guild is located at 790 Howell Ave., Brooksville, FL. The Harps of Christmas
Dr. William E. Hale Senior Activity Center December 6
The International Chorale presents a holiday collection of solos, duets and comedy numbers with a special harp ensemble. 2:00 p.m. Tickets: $5. Dr. Williams E. Hale Sr. Ctr. is located at 330 Douglas Ave., Dunedin, FL. South Shore Symphony Orchestra
United Community Church December 6
Diverse classical and pop selections with holiday and Christmas themes including, selected movements from Tchaikovsky’s Nutcracker Suite, the Overture from Bizet’s L’Arlesienne Suite No.1 and more. 2:00 p.m. Tickets: $15. United Community Church is located at 1501 La Jolla Ave., Sun City Center, FL. Florida Orchestra Masterworks: Handel’s Messiah
Ruth Eckerd Hall December 6
With guest conductor, David Lockington accompanied by The Master Chorale of Tampa Bay. Arrive early to hear inside stories about the music and the composers. Preconcert conversations begin one hour before curtain time in the concert hall. 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $15-$45. Christmas in Ireland featuring Michael Londra
Largo Cultural Center December 9
The Celtic and classical crossover singer who was the lead voice of Broadway’s Riverdance performs Irish and Gaelic carols, as well as songs from his holiday album, Beyond the Star. 2:00 p.m. Tickets: $19.50 - $34.50; add $5 at the door. The Largo Cultural Ctr. is located at 105 Central Park Drive, Largo, FL.
Florida Orchestra Pops: Holiday Pops
Conductor Bob Bernhardt will be the merry host of the orchestra’s family tradition, with Sleigh Ride, sing-along carols and a jolly rendition of Twas the Night Before Christmas. 8:00 p.m. Tickets: $15-$45. Florida Orchestra Brass Quintet Holiday Concert
Tarpon Springs Heritage Museum December 13
A program of Christmas and seasonal classics, from Barouque-era masterpieces to variations on Jingle Bells. 2:00 p.m. Tickets: $22; $18 Tarpon Arts members and students; $6 children (K-6th grade). The museum is located at100 Beekman Lane, Tarpon Springs, FL. The Bronx Wanderers “Bronxmas”
Ruth Eckerd Hall December 13
A father and two sons living the American rock ‘n’ roll dream. Quite possibly the best 90 minutes of ‘50s, ‘60s and ‘70s rock ‘n’ roll that you will experience on one stage. Their previous doo-wop shows have been very popular with fans and now The Bronx Wanderers, fresh off their full-length album Merry BronXmas, will return singing holiday tunes as well as the favorites. Classic holiday songs done with a Bronx twist that is instantly unforgettable and magical. Hear these songs as if it was the first time, as The Bronx Wanderers bring them to life. 1:00 p.m. Tickets: $18 - $35. Trans-Siberian Orchestra: “The Ghosts of Christmas Eve”
Amelie Arena December 13
Trans-Siberian Orchestra’s (TSO) 2015 Winter Tour featuring the group’s beloved stories performed in their own renowned audio visual manner is coming back to Tampa! This year’s enchanted Yuletide tale is The Ghosts of Christmas Eve, which TSO will take to 60 cities across North America for over 100 performances. Two spectacular shows at 3:00 p.m. and 7:30 p.m. Rockapella Christmas
Capitol Theatre December 17
The world’s most loved five-man contemporary pop vocal phenomenon is known for its astonishing live performances and Rockapella’s holiday show is a “must see” event! With their completely original take on the holidays, Rockapella creates a light-hearted and unforgettable holiday experience as they travel the country spreading musical holiday cheer. From unique takes on classic favorites to brand new originals destined to become classics, audiences of all ages can expect to be charmed by a holiday performance like no other. 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $30 - $59. Performance is at the Capitol Theatre, 405 Cleveland St, Downtown Clearwater.
Vocalist Chuck Wansley joins the 18-piece Helios Jazz Orchestra, directed by David Manson, in a special concert of swinging big band music at the Side Door. 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $15.
Palladium Theater is located at 253 Fifth Ave. N., St. Petersburg, FL.
TFO Coffee Concert Series: An Old World Christmas
Ruth Eckerd Hall December 16 Mahaffey Theater December 17
There’s complimentary coffee and doughnuts served before these morning performances, with a pre-concert conversation one hour before each show. 11:00 a.m. Tickets: $24-$42. Celtic Woman: Home for Christmas-The Symphony Tour
Mahaffey Theater December 16
The multi-platinum all-female ensemble performs music from their second Christmas album. 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $57.50-$99.50. Tampa Bay Heralds of Harmony Barbershop Chorus
Palladium Theater December 16
Enjoy a Christmas celebration with the Tampa Bay Heralds of Harmony Men’s Barbershop Chorus. Special guest Main Street. 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $25 - $55. Palladium Theater is located at 253 Fifth Ave. N., St. Petersburg, FL. The Family Blessing
Mahaffey Theatre December 19 & 20
“The Family Blessing” inspires a young man to appreciate the blessings of the Family Unit. You are sure to enjoy the story of a boy named Michael as he experiences the true blessings that come from having a FAMILY. If you enjoyed “The Chocolate Nutcracker” and “Nutcracker Twist”, you will really enjoy this. Don’t miss this fantastic inspiring production which features hundreds of the Bay Area’s most energetic and fiery youth performing ballet, jazz, hip hop, African, Mexican, Cuban Dance and much much more. Featuring Lakewood HS Jazz Band, Dundu Dole Urban African Ballet, Belinda Womack, Vincent Bingham and much more. Call 813.451.4410 for group reservations. 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $17 - $37. Santa’s Holiday Revue
Largo Cultural Center December 19
A musical that takes a round-the-world tour of dances, songs and stories from Christmas, Chanukah, Kwanzaa and many more. 11:00 a.m. Tickets: $8.50 Adult, $7.50 Children, $6 Schools, $26 Family 4 Pack, Season Pass starts at $18 for three shows. Largo Cultural Ctr. is located at 105 Central Park Drive, Largo, FL. Next Generation Ballet’s The Nutcracker
Straz Center - Carol Morsani Hall December 19
Internationally renowned guest artists join the cast of dancers and gymnasts to present the holiday classic. 2:00 p.m. Tickets: $30-$125. The Sound of Music
Straz Center - Carol Morsani Hall December 22 - 27
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Entertainment A brand new production of The Sound of Music, directed by three-time Tony Award-winning director Jack O’Brien, is coming to the Straz Center. The spirited, romantic and beloved musical story of Maria and the Von Trapp Family will once again thrill audiences with its Tony, Grammy® and Academy® Award winning Best Score, including “My Favorite Things,” “Do-Re-Mi,” “Climb Ev’ry Mountain,” “Edelweiss” and the title song. The hills are alive! Contact for show times. Tickets: $40 - $100. A Christmas Carol
Van Wezel Performing Arts Hall December 23
Since 1979 the Nebraska Theatre Caravan, has delighted audiences nationwide with this unique version of Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol. This Victorian version of Christmas magic is presented with a full array of traditional Christmas carols interwoven with the well-known story. Performed by a cast of 23 performers on a set evoking Currier and Ives prints and featuring special effects such as a spinning bed, this is a glorious holiday evening the whole family can enjoy! 7:00 p.m. Tickets: $35 - $55. The Nutcracker
Ruth Eckerd Hall December 23
Making their debut as the in-house ballet company of Ruth Eckerd Hall, Tampa Ballet Theatre presents this timeless classic re-staged by Artistic Director, Lindsay Clark. Tchaikovsky’s brilliant score comes to life with all the magic of the holidays, performed by local professionals alongside the students of the Marcia P. Hoffman School of the Arts. A holiday tradition for the entire family, filled with joys of the festive season. 2:00 p.m. and 7:30 p.m. Tickets are $25 - *$100. *$100 Dinner Package includes a premium seat, pre-show buffet and a voucher for free valet parking. Valet service begins 15 minutes before pre-show buffet doors open. Artist does not appear at buffet. Moscow Ballet Great Russian Nutcracker
The Lakeland Center December 30 Mahaffey Theatre December 26
The ultimate holiday tradition for the youngest to the seniors in every family, seeing Moscow Ballet’s Great Russian Nutcracker creates holiday memories that last a lifetime. The renowned, award-winning principal dancers and corps de ballet thrill audiences with their expertise, dramatic expression and stunning leaps, drops and turns. 7:00 p.m. Tickets: $28 $175. Mahaffey shows at noon, 4:00 p.m. and 8:00 p.m. Tickets: $32 - $97. The Producers
Ruth Eckerd Hall December 23
Bialystock and Bloom! Those names should strike terror and hysteria in anyone familiar with Mel Brooks’ classic cult comedy film. Now as a big Broadway musical, The Producers once again sets the standard for modern, outrageous, in-yourface humor. It is a truly “boffo” hit, winning a record twelve Tony Awards® and wowing capacity crowds night after night. 8:00 p.m. Tickets are $35 - $150*. *$150 Dinner Package includes a premium seat, pre-show dinner and a voucher for free valet parking. Valet service begins 15 minutes before pre-show dinner doors open. Artist does not appear at Dinner. Enjoy a sumptuous buffet prior to the performance for only $25 per person (includes tax). Doors open two hours prior to the performance. Due to limited seating, we suggest advance purchase. The Ten Tenors
Capitol Theatre December 30 Van Wezel Performing Arts Hall December 31
It’s the most wonderful time of the year and what better way to celebrate the holiday season than with international singing sensation The TEN Tenors Home for the Holidays is a magical experience for the whole family that will dazzle, delight and captivate audiences. Join Australia’s rock stars of the opera as they amaze and enthrall with their unique selection of traditional and contemporary seasonal favorites. With soaring versions of Joy to the World, Sleigh Ride, White Christmas, Amazing, Grace, Winter Wonderland, Feliz Navidad and many more, Home for the Holidays is the perfect way to celebrate the spirit of the season. Capitol Theatre
7:30 p.m. Tickets: $41.25 - $76.25. Performance is at the Capitol Theatre, 405 Cleveland St, Downtown Clearwater. Van Wezel 7:00 p.m. Tickets: $50 - $80. State Ballet of Russia: Romeo & Juliet
Mahaffey Theatre January 2
Founded by legendary dancer and former principal dancer of The Bolshoi Theatre Ballet Maya Plisetskaya, The State Ballet Theatre of Russia - now under the direction of award-winning dancer and Moiseyev Dance Company soloist Nikolay Anokhin - presents the most passionate romantic tragedy every told. This fullscale production is choreographed by Bolshoi Theatre Ballet Choreographer Michael Lavrovsky, and based on William Shakespeare’s timeless tale of tragic love. The State Ballet Theatre of Russia presents 55 of Russia’s brightest ballet stars bringing this celebration of true love onto our stage and into our hearts. A full-length ballet in three acts. 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $32.50 - $62.50. SHEN YUN
The Lakeland Center January 5 & 6
Through the universal language of music and dance, SHEN YUN weaves a wondrous tapestry of heavenly realms, ancient legends, and modern heroic tales, taking audiences on a journey through 5,000 years of Chinese culture with stunning beauty and tremendous energy. A SHEN YUN performance features the world’s foremost classically trained dancers, a unique orchestra blending East and West, and dazzling animated backdrops—together creating one spectacular performance. 7:30. Tickets: $60 - $150. Ringling Bros. & Barnum & Bailey®- LEGENDS
Amelie Arena January 6 - 10
Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey presents Legends unveils the unbelievable to children of all ages in an all-new show. Legendary circus artists from around the globe perform awe-inspiring feats of daring, spectacles of strength and thrills of wonder. Join us for an unforgettable family event of legendary proportions. For times and tickets prices www.amaliearena.com.
VENUE ADDRESSES AND CONTACT INFORMATION FL Studio Theatre 1241 North Palm Ave., Sarasota, FL 34236 (941) 366-9000 www.floridastudiotheatre.org Midflorida Credit Union Amphitheatre 4802 N. US Highway 301 Tampa, FL 33610 Telephone: (813) 740-2446. www.midflorida.com/amphitheatre The Historic Capitol Theatre 405 Cleveland Street Clearwater, FL 33755 Telephone: (727) 791-7400. www.rutheckerdhall.com The Lakeland Center — 701 W. Lime St. Lakeland, FL 33815. Telephone: (863) 834-8100 www.thelakelandcenter.com The Mahaffey Theater — 400 1st. St. South, St. Petersburg, FL 33701. Telephone: (727) 892-5798. www.themahaffey.com Ruth Eckerd Hall — 1111 McMullen Booth Rd. Clearwater, FL 33759. Telephone: (727) 791-7400. www.rutheckerdhall.com The Straz Center — 1010 North Macinnes Place, Tampa, FL 33602. Telephone: (813) 229-7827. www.strazcenter.org Amelie Arena 401 Channelside Dr. Tampa, FL 33602. Telephone: (813) 301-6500. www.ameliearena.com American Stage Theatre 163 3rd Street North St. Petersburg, FL 33701 Telephone: (727)823-7529 www.americanstage.org Van Wezel Perf. Arts Hall 777 N. Tamiami Trail, Sarasota, FL 34236 (941) 953-3368 www.vanwezel.org
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Senior to Senior Woman Seeking Man S W F NS ND looking for M NS 58-65, likes to walk, flea markets, dining, relaxing at home. Only sincere reply, I’m 55+, 5’3”, 125 lbs., LTR. Has no voicemail machine, but has caller ID and will answer and return calls. Pasco County (813) 395-6129. Retired lady, widow, late 70s, I like dancing, tennis, dining out, theater & movies, have a dog. I seek someone with same interests who is honest and nice. New Port Richey (727) 848-7948. W F 5’3”, likes dancing, eating out, kind, loyal, to enjoy each other for conversation. Not ashamed to show love. St. Pete (727) 826-0145. F NS SD seeking a gentleman in his 70s. I am 71, petite, workout 5 days a week. Good health. Enjoy dancing, movies, concerts. Prefer Tampa (813) 888-8309. WD C F ISO C M to spend quality time with. I’m 56, slender, blonde hair and love cooking, the beach, movies. Wanting to find that special person to share friendship, hopefully the man I grow old with. LTR. Tampa (813) 2052406. W W F NS ND attractive, healthy, kind, caring, seeking a sincere, caring, likeable, gentleman born around 1940. Likes short trips. Free and independent. Tampa (813) 428-1310. Seeking companion, educated, 70-90. Tall, attractive for dancing, dining, good time. Likes to cruise. (727) 389-3661. W W F 5’3” pre-diet Dolly Parton figure. Educated NS ND N-drugs. Seeks LTR w/ similar. A hopeless romantic, I seek a M w/ SOH. St. Pete/Tampa (727) 565-9297. S B F ISO LTR with someone who has plenty of positive love to give. Loves music, wknd getaways, movies etc. Widowers welcome Largo 917-376-2667 W F (from Europe) ISO W M for LTR 70s . MUST love animals, NY or NE preferred. I like dancing, dinner, flea markets and quiet times. I’m strawberry blond 5’3 134lbs, in 60s, but take care of myself, SOH. Size and shape does not matter, its personality that counts. Pinellas County (540) 604-6124. 50 YO SWF, attractive, very thin, positive, outgoing, ISO S/D WM ISO companion and friend for outings, conversations and such. Love animals, food, fun. Local events, theatre, movies, park, at home, sharing is better. Must be financial secure, kind, giving. Treasure Island (727) 614-2667. Do you want to share a part of your 24 hours with a 70 year J W F, talking, laughing, dining, dancing, likeminded male is welcome to respond. A good friend is hard to find. St. Pete (727) 504-1134..
man Seeking WOMan D B M 68, financially secure, seeking small/petite female friend 55-65 with laid back attitude seeking a LTR for enjoying sunrises/sunsets and scenic day trips. Tampa (813) 304-3975. Fun loving retired D W M seeking lady, no taller than 5’7” and 65+. Likes outdoors, dancing, travel. So enjoy life with me, we only have one. Largo (727) 409-0316. I’m looking for a F, w/ a good SOh, NS SD and single or divorced. I’m a retired man who likes to travel, dancing and long walking. I’m looking for a good healthy lifestyle. Zephyrhills (707) 230-7816. I’m H NS ND SOH. I’m 71 years old, man looking for a nice lady to make a home. I’m retired and work. I have 5’9”, brown hair, green eyes. I’m a nice man for you. Brandon (813) 900-4861. Are we compatible? Single, virile 5’11”, 165 lbs.
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romantic, like travel, reading, movies, dining out, music, exercise, looking for attractive lady w/ similar interests. Dunedin (973) 885-8013. Male 66 looking for slim lady for affection. Florida is warm but my heart is warmer. Call Holiday (727) 9386990. WD W M 70 NS 5’11” 170 lbs., likes walks outdoors, gardening, NS SD looking for LTR. Love beaches, picnics, ISO active, healthy, caring F 55-70. Live Laugh Love Tampa (813) 908-1834. Retired, fit, active, healthy, gentleman NS, walker, bicycling ISO fit, lady, active 58-78, auto road trips, adventures, shared expenses, race unimportant, SOH. South Pasadena (404) 217-7210. I am W WD, no substance or alcohol probs. Seeking LTR with W/B/L/Oriental, attractive F. Prefer degreed equivalent ISO F who is the protagonist of her destiny. No age specifics, personality, intelligence are paramount along with SOH. M D NS ND retired graduate level professional from India. 75yy ISO lonely woman & preferably similar level professional to share life’s beauty. Love comes natural. Largo (630) 201-5862
Kelt, healthy grandpa, NS ND, non-religious. I am a listener, thinker, independent, democrat. I care, I am honorable, positive, alive, active, fun loving. Call me to talk about happy times. St. Petersburg (727) 235-0166. S W M 55, down to earth. I like flea markets, music. ISO a S F who is honest, fun loving for a LTR. New Port Richey (727) 271-6644. friend Seeking friend M W D C ISO LTR NS SD SOH. I am 60 yrs. old, just call me. I ran out of room to write about myself. New Port Do you enjoy camping, freshwater fishing, canoeing, campfires under the stars? I’m a healthy, NS S W M ISO healthy Richey (727) 853-5819. W F over 50 for LTR. Exchange photos. More info, first WD W M 61 NS ND 5’6”, looking for W F 60-65, liv- send a letter. PO Box 86373, Madeira Beach, FL 33738. ing in Sun City Center area. If you’re tired of being alone, so am I. I have 1 dog and a parakeet. Looking for LTR. Sun Questing free spirit, English W M into natural living, classical music and movies, manifesting miracles. ISO friend City Center (813) 922-6733. to enjoy and explore life with. St. Petersburg (727) 384S W M 67 yrs., 6’1”, 182 lbs., NS ND, likes baseball, 4908. fishing, retired polo player ISO S W F euro. Asian, SOH, WS D W M ISO good friend to do and go places. I like to passionate, no players please. Largo (727) 580-5848. do lots of thing in and out of the house. I am tired of being S W M 80 attractive, healthy, loves music, danc- alone, call me, lets have a good time. St. Pete (727) 200ing, also plays music, travels, seeking petite romantic F 9977 with similar interests. Bradenton-Sarasota (941) 7582565. Hi. D W M SOH NS SD looking for nice lady, 50Senior to Senior™ 65 for LTR. I’m 65, 175 lbs., Mail to: Senior Voice America blue eyes, friends first, love later, to share things and P.O. BOX 1379, Lutz, FL 33548-1379 happiness in life. Pinellas Park (727) 460-4113. Email: sr2sr@seniorvoiceamerica.com D W M 67 NS ND lookFax: (813) 422-7966 ing for a NS lady for committed relationship. Enjoys kissing, hugs, and holding hands. No hangups or baggage. Can relocate. St. Petersburg 1 (203) 214-4711. S W M 70s attractive, 5’10”, 170 lbs., N/S easy to get along with, Christian,
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Let us first remember those moments where we shared many a story, a joke and debate, with those loved ones at this very table, those who have gone on before us, yet we fondly remember. Let us now take a moment and make our own mental photograph of every person at this table, what was said, what we looked like, what we ate, and the love in our hearts. Let us remember this moment, let us cherish this moment, let us give thanks for this moment, as time slips silently away. Amen.” I know it will be difficult for those of you who recently lost a friend or family member, but try to have a Happy Thanksgiving. Keep the faith! Tim Bryce is a writer and the managing director of M&JB Investment Company (M&JB) of Palm Harbor, Florida, and has more than 30 years of experience in the management consulting field. He can be reached at timb001@ phmainstreet.com. For Tim’s columns, visit timbryce.com. From CHRISTMAS Page 19
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“I am known as Jesus of Nazareth,” He said. The minister thought He was mocking the congregation and quickly confronted the stranger. Anger was in the minister’s eyes but before he could utter a harsh word, He said, “I am a stranger to this area,” and raised his hand in peace to shake the minister’s. It was only then the minister saw the scars from the crucifixion. There was something in the stranger’s demeanor and eyes that made him realize he was now in the presence of something special. The minister froze until He placed his hands on him in comfort. The minister smiled and knelt to his knees. The congregation didn’t quite comprehend the situation, but followed the minister’s lead and knelt. He said, “Please rise, you are all my children. I’m not sure why I was sent here but I believe it has something to do with the meaning of Christmas, something I didn’t quite understand until I witnessed your pageant.” “Yes, this is your birthday, your eminence,” the minister replied. “I have been among you this day and have witnessed many things, most of which I do not understand, particularly the greed of this day. I hope they are not using this day to celebrate such a weakness.” The minister was embarrassed, “I am afraid a lot of people have forgotten its purpose. It is not about shopping, it’s about You.” “In my time, we celebrated birthdays by the breaking of the bread. We didn’t have opulent presents. Instead, we offered our love, fellowship, and trust to others. If this is truly my Birthday, let us celebrate likewise,” and loaves of bread appeared in His hands. Jesus moved to the altar and broke the bread into small pieces for everyone to consume. The minister assisted by pouring wine. “Here, eat and drink. Do this for the remembrance of Me. My message is simple: I love you unconditionally. You may not believe in me, but have confidence that I love you. Do not dwell in hate. Practice love and do unto others as you would have others do unto you. It’s really not that difficult, is it?” As the last morsel of bread was consumed and wine drunk, He turned and disappeared into the ether with the exclamation, “Remember!” Keep the faith! Tim Bryce is freelance writer and management consultant in Palm Harbor, Fla. Visit timbryce.com.
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