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April 2018

Signature Memphis • 12 Don Hutson CEO of U. S. Learning strives to be an inspiration to others

StreetSeen • 14 Dr. Noelle Trent Life path led to the National Civil Rights Museum

StreetSeen • 18 Richard Copley Telling unforgettable stories with his photographs

RSVPhillippi • 49 Dennis Phillippi Demographics if television advertising says a lot


Hunter and Kim Thompson

Bodine Bash • 24 Fundraiser commemorated the school’s 45th anniversary

Julie Escobar and Stephanie Connelly

Memphis Moments • 16, 20, 22, 30, 31, 36, 42, 44 & 46

Cover Photo David and Angela Moss at the Mid-South Heart Ball Photo by Don Perry

Table of Contents Photo Mississippi River Landing, Memphis Photo courtesy Wikimedia Commons



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Mid-South Heart Ball • 32 Event spreads awareness of cardiovascular disease and healthy living

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Hand of Hope • 38 Auction Party benefits the Exchange Club Family Center

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RSVP Staff Volume XXIII • Number IV

April 2018 Publisher Roy Haithcock

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Carter is native Memphian and a veteran of the broadcast industry, and magazine publishing. He is also a freelance voiceover talent and can be heard on WKNO 91.1FM on Sundays. Carter is an avid animal lover and likes to work with aquariums as a hobby. He enjoys his East Memphis home with his wife and 2 dogs, and 6 cats.

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April 2018

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t is exciting to see that the annual “Greening of Memphis” is happening. Flowering trees and all sorts of bulbs are in bloom. The landscape is awakening its softer side after the winter and its time for us to get outside while the temperatures remain relatively mild. Check out the many trails at the Memphis Botanic Garden (MBG). Or meander the garden paths at The Dixon. With Food Truck Fridays returning this month, admission to the gardens is free on Fridays from 11:30 a.m. - 1 p.m. Looking to add to your own little patch of green? You’re in luck because this is also the month for our local Spring Plant Sales. Dates for the one at MBG are April 12, preview party; and April 13 & 14, plant sale. Lichterman Nature Center will hold its sale on April 13, too. The Dixon will not hold its Spring Plant Sale this year; however, some plants will be for sale when they host the Memphis Flower Show, April 14 & 15, which is open to the public, free of charge. The Dixon is also offering Saturday morning tours of its Memphis Garden Club Cutting Garden. Another way to “get your green on” can be found at our area farmers markets. Locally grown produce that has been nurtured on area farms and is now making its way to a farmers market near you. But before you head out the door, there are a few markets that, for one reason or another will be missing this seasons: Arlington Open Air Market - Walker Street; Church Health and MIFA Farmers Market - Union Avenue; Memphis Botanic Garden Farmers Market - Cherry Road; and MFM Squared - Court Square in Downtown Memphis. Some of these markets, like the one in Arlington, expect to return in another season or two, with bigger and better facilities. The others...well, not so much. But don’t despair, there are plenty of markets taking place across our community, and many of them will open this month. If the timing of these markets doesn’t mesh with your schedule, there’s something new since last Spring that might help — a Farmers Market delivery service call SingBean. You can pick and choose what you want and how much you want from a variety of farmers by going online to Customers can pick up their orders at Trolley Stop (704 Madison) on Wednesdays, from 3 - 8 p.m. Free deliveries are available on Wednesdays, 3 - 8 p.m. for orders of $25 or more, in selected zones (see the delivery map on their website). Watch for them to grow their hours as the summer season progresses.

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A Nonliving Celebrity/Role Model You Would Invite to Dinner: Sir Winston Churchill. If he’s tied up, Mark Twain. If another guest is allowed, I would love to have Jesus join us.

Your Favorite Memphis “Thang”: Boating on the Mississippi River Favorite Place to Travel: Singapore Best Memphis Hangout: The University Club First Car You Owned: A ’57 Oldsmobile 88 Coupe Place You Go to Think: My study, my deck or our community park Best Advice You Ever Got: Think abundance, not scarcity, in everything you do. Your Most Annoying Habit: To some, I’m sure it’s my endless optimism. The Highlight of Your Day: Waking up healthy and happy in America! Proudest Moment of Your Life: Walking down 6th Avenue in New York City with Dr.

Who Would Play You in a Movie: Mel Gibson Something You’ll Never Live Down: My nickname from high school, “Duck.” One Goal You’d Still Like to Accomplish: I’d like to achieve total peace and joy in knowing I’ve had a life well-lived — I’m still working on it!



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All roads led to the National Civil Rights Museum




r. Noelle Trent, a native of West Chester, PA, moved to the Washington, DC area as a teenager. She remained in DC for college, and earned her bachelor’s, master’s and doctorate degrees, at Howard University, where she was Phi Beta Kappa and Summa Cum Laude graduate. Although she started college with an undeclared major, it soon become clear that American history was her calling. “It wasn’t a great surprise for me that my career path led me to working in a museum,” explained Dr. Trent. “I grew up going to art museums, history museums and African-American museums. But even more influential was my relationship with one of our church members, an anthropologist who had a collection of black dolls, some dating back to the 1830s. These African-American images made me wonder about the stories connected with those dolls. That curiosity spilled over into questions about people. I found I was passionate about their histories and experiences. And being in DC, that’s like being in the ‘Hollywood’ of public history.” Dr. Trent’s academics were combined with internships at some of the nation’s most prominent institutions, like the National Archives and the Smithsonian Institution’s National Museum of American History. She later worked as a Park Ranger at the Frederick Douglass National Historic Site. These experiences cemented her desire to preserve people’s stories and their legacies. After graduation, she worked as a freelance researcher and contributed to the permanent exhibitions at the National Museum of African American History and Culture in Washington. With an eye toward doing something different, she began a job search that led to a posting for a position at the National Civil Rights Museum. “I had only been to Memphis once for a brief stay, but I liked what I had seen,” recalled Dr. Trent. “After a series of interviews and an in-person tour of

the museum that included meeting a number of staff members, I waited to hear their response. When the phone call came that they wanted to hire me, I was on my way to Memphis within two weeks. That was in August 2015.” Now as Director of Interpretation, Collections, and Education at the National Civil Rights Museum, Dr. Trent is having a profound effect on the face and the future of the facility. “If you want to look at, learn about or donate something, you come see me,” explained Dr. Trent. “I have team of five staff members that facilitates how the public interacts with the core exhibitions, items, programs of the museum.” Also, Dr. Trent works with the museum’s

Collections Manager, discussing possible acquisitions and traveling exhibitions. She explained that the exhibit “MLK 50: A Legacy Remembers” will include rarely seen photos from 1968, Dr. King’s last year. Of the museum’s 23 galleries, Dr. Trent recommended starting with the introductory film. “It gives background to help understand why the civil rights movement needed to happen,” said Dr. Trent. “Another place not to be hurried through is the Memphis Sanitation Workers exhibition. I think the museum does a really great job of honoring the voices of the sanitation workers. Also, through our presentation guests can hear a recording of Dr. King talking about his commitment to the workers. And what everyone wants to see is “The King Room,” Room 306 in the Lorraine Motel. That room has a very strong sense of ‘power of place’. It is one of the things that sets our museum apart, being on location where history happened.” Dr. Trent also pointed out that the museum’s outside courtyard offers iconic views and interpretive facts. “We want to inspire people to see themselves as part of the continuum for positive change,” concluded Dr. Trent. “Now, as it was then, regular, everyday people deciding to step up and take action.” For information about the National Civil Rights Museum and planned events, visit

April 2018



Memphis Moment


Alpha Omega Veterans Services Military Masquerade Ball


he second annual Military Masquerade Ball was a spirited fundraiser designed to raise money to help veterans and spread awareness about Alpha Omega Veterans Services (AOVS). Cordell Walker, executive director of AOVS, explained, “Alpha Omega Veterans Services is a nonprofit organization that helps homeless and disabled military veterans reintegrate into society by providing them with housing and other essential supportive services.” In keeping with the Mardi Gras theme, guests were encouraged to wear masks with their party attire. Colorful strand of beads decorated tables and Chef Gary Williams showed off his Creole cuisine with traditional dishes of red beans and rice, chicken and sausage jambalaya, crawfish etouffée, and bread pudding. Chef Erling Jensen spiced things up with an offering of buffalo meatballs. The Mighty Souls played lively tunes while guests perused silent auction items and later in the evening Memphis rapper Al Kapone brought his brand of music to the stage.

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ichard Copley grew up in Memphis. He went to Kingsbury and was a member of the first class to attend there for all 12 years. Upon graduation in 1964, he had begun to develop an interest in photography. In that way, the proverbial apple didn’t fall from the tree.

“My father was a really good amateur photographer,” recalled Copley. “And, my mother was gracious enough to let him use our only bathroom as his dark room. I fondly remember negatives and prints dripping from the shower rod over the bathtub to dry.” One of Copley’s first jobs after graduating high school was at Blue Light Studio, on the corner of Main Street and Beale. On Friday and Saturday nights, he says, “every walk of life would come in to get their picture taken.” Copley also found that he could earn extra income shooting weddings. Things moved up a notch while Copley was a student majoring in journalism at Memphis State. One of his fraternity brothers hooked him up with a parttime student job in photo services. “It was there that I met my mentor, Gil Michael, who was director of photo services at that time,” said Copley. “He called me in one day and told me that there was a union that needed some pictures taken. I was 22 years old at the time and had no idea what I was stepping into. It turned out to be the most important job of my life.” The union of reference was involved in the 1968 sanitation strike. “On Dr. King’s first visit to Memphis at Mason Temple, I covered that speech and he promised to come back to lead a march,” said Copley. “Then came a huge snowstorm that completely shut down the city, so the march was postponed. But on March 28, Dr. King led a march that started at Claiborne Temple and went to Beale Street. Sadly, the march turned violent. There was screaming and glass breaking — all hell broke loose. Almost immediately I was sprayed with pepper gas and tear gas, but I could still hear what was going on. It was a very sad day in Memphis.” Copley continued, “The National Guard was called in with tanks and patrolled the streets of Memphis. The next day there was a peaceful march that went on without incident and I managed to take my favorite photo of the civil rights movement.” That photo, titled, “Dignity,” features two sanitation workers wearing their Sunday best and stern looks, with

the word “Dignity” stenciled on a sign. However, Copley said his most famous photo from that time in Memphis is called “I am a Man”. Copley thought his goal was to become a photographer with National Geographic, but that didn’t happen. Five or six days later the sanitation strike was settled and he was back to being a college student — without any idea of the magnitude of the pictures he took being as important as they are today. As Copley’s career progressed, he became notable for other Memphis photos featured on CBS Evening News with Walter Cronkite, and shot live pictures from a helicopter showing limousines pulling out of Graceland for Elvis’ funeral. Copley worked in New York City providing photo coverage for NBC, CBS and ABC. He covered Katrina from Biloxi, and was on the top floor of “30 Rock” with Tom Brokaw doing the news the night of the 9/11 attacks. Fifty years after the MLK assignation, Copley’s iconic images are still taking him places. “I have an exhibit on display at the Stax Museum, as well as a show called ‘Striking Voices’ at the main library,” explained Copley. ”The latter photos are combined with photographs by Darrius Williams, who took portraits of family members of the sanitation workers.” Also, Copley is starting a countrywide tour to take his images to places that held significant events during the Civil Rights Movement, such as Greensboro, NC, where the International Civil Rights Center & Museum is located and where the now famous sit-in took place at a Woolworth counter. “The AFL/CIO is putting up an exhibit of my images in Washington, too,” added Copley. Copley’s iconic images are back in circulation, helping to tell the unforgettable story that happened right here in Memphis. For more information about Richard Copley and his photographs, visit https://

April 2018



Memphis Moment


Page Robbins Winter Gala The Emerald City


uests “followed the Yellow Brick Road” to the Grand Ballroom of The Peabody for the 2018 Page Robbins Winter Gala. The evening began with socializing and hors d’oeuvres. Attire for the event was black tie optional, but some partygoers showed up dressed as their favorite Wizard of Oz characters. Inside the ballroom, music from the iconic movie added to the festive atmosphere. Gala chairs Dodd and Carole Williams welcomed the crowd and Father Jeff Marx, Rector at St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church, gave the Invocation. A live auction, led by Terri Walker of Walker Auctions, added to the coffers of the evening in support of Page Robbins Adult Daycare Center. Attendees danced until midnight to the sounds of The Soul Shockers and a photo booth, sponsored by Renasant Bank, offered the opportunity for partygoers to capture their visit to “The Emerald City.”

Steve Cooper, Linda Stephens with Diane and Rogan Fry

Story and Photos by Emily Adams Keplinger

Dan and Patty Bullock with Jacqueline Lycan and Patrick Brannon

Leah and Ben Shull

Alexander and Elizabeth Mathew

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Mary Iberg and Sue Berry

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Memphis Moment


Association for Women Attorneys Annual Awards Banquet


he Association for Women Attorneys paid tribute to The Hon. Claudia Haltom during its 2018 banquet. Haltom accepted AWA’s Marion Griffin-Frances Loring Award, which recognizes individuals who have made outstanding contributions to women in the legal profession. Upon retiring from Memphis and Shelby County Juvenile Court, Haltom’s experience of serving as juvenile court magistrate for 17 years led her to found A Step Ahead Foundation. Since 2011 the foundation has provided Shelby County women free access to the most effective, long-acting, reversible methods of contraception. Its resources help women prevent unplanned pregnancies and enable them to plan their lives and their families. The banquet also included inductions of AWA’s 2018 officers and scholarship presentations to four students at the University of Memphis Cecil C. Humphreys School of Law. Story and Photos by Virginia M. Davis Judges Garland Erguden, Mitzi Pollard, Terre Fratesi and Loyce L. Ryan

Claudia Haltom and Tanja Mitchell

Tiffany Bowders, Anne Davis and Leah Hillis

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Kimbrely Dandridge, Melody McNally, Diana Comes and Jeremy Holliday

Elizabeth and Judge David Rudolph

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Sapphires & Blue Suede Shoes

he 2018 Bodine Bash was a lively event that took place at the Memphis Grand Carousel Pavilion and Ballroom at the Children’s Museum of Memphis. The fundraiser commemorated the Bodine School’s 45th anniversary and celebrated the organization’s positive impact on numerous children and their families since the school’s founding in 1972. “Bodine is a nonprofit independent school serving students in grades 1-6 who have been diagnosed with dyslexia,” explained John Murphy, Head of School. “Bodine School’s mission is to lead the Mid-South in teaching students with dyslexia to read and succeed. Bodine students thrive in an excellent, well-rounded elementary school environment with an emphasis on research-based language arts instruction.” With the theme of Sapphires and Blue Suede Shoes, it was no surprise to see that Elvis was in the building. Actually, it was professional Elvis tribute artist Brian Lee Howell, and he made sure things stayed upbeat and “all shook up,” as attendees enjoyed a dinner on the pavilion catered by A Moveable Feast & Hog Wild Catering Co. Complimentary red and white

wine and four unique beer selections were provided by Memphis Filling Station, along with nonalcoholic sodas and bottled water. Guests made their way through tables laden with one-of-a-kind auction items like sporting event tickets, a beachfront vacation, and Memphis restaurant experiences. People used their mobile phones to place their bids on Bodine’s on-line auction site. Many of the party-goers also kicked up their heels and took a spin on the recently restored 1909 Dentzel Memphis Grand Carousel. Live music by Memphis Soul Remedy closed out the evening. “This year’s fundraiser was sponsored by FedEx,” said Gretchen Klobucar, Director of Development at Bodine. “Proceeds from this event will enable Bodine School to make enhancements to the excellent elementary school experience that it provides for students with dyslexia. Charitable support helps make the school more accessible to mission-appropriate students across the Mid-South. Bodine School’s transformative programming is an essential educational resource for the Mid-South, as it is estimated that up to 20% of the population displays characteristics of dyslexia.”

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Miriam and Dennis Kennetz

Julie and Kevin Stonebarger

Kassidy Botwell, Andy Huffman, Leslie Beard and Audrey Bradshaw

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ICCS Mardi Gras Putting the Fun in Fundraising


he Cadre Building took on a festive glow with the colors of purple, gold and green as Immaculate Conception Cathedral School (ICCS) held its annual Mardi Gras celebration. The school’s chef, Anthony Terrell, catered a buffet filled with favorite New Orleans foods including shrimp and grits, jambalaya, red beans and rice, and shrimp and oysters po’ boys. King Cake and cheesecake topped off the meal. Memphis Second Line Jazz Band let the good times roll as brought their brand of music to the party and led guests in a procession. Afterwards, Fred Ross of DJ Sketchz spun records and brought everyone to the dance floor for the rest of the evening. Proceeds from the event will be used for the school’s general operating expenses. Story and Photos by Emily Adams Keplinger Kerry Ross, Lauren Fuchs and Jana Robinson

Cathy Armstrong with Carl and Ann Shorter Chelsey and Katy Kitchens

Genevieve and Stanton Thomas

Dr. Mikael Carrier and Paige Williams

Carlos and Marta Rivera

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Keith and Sara Yarrow

Mona and Carlos McAfee

Father Robert Marshall with Meg and Max Koss

Dick and Kathy Hackett


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Whiskey, Wine and Chocolates Benefit for Memphis Botanic Garden


Portia Robinson and Danny Ray, Jr.

Emley Henter and Rhea Stokes

sold out crowd was treated to an evening of Whiskey, Wine and Chocolates at the Memphis Botanic Garden. Guests were greeted with a signature cocktail before heading into the Valentine’s Day-themed Hardin Hall to sample gourmet designer chocolates from chocolatier Phillip Ashley Rix, paired with select whiskeys from Old Dominick’s Distillery, rich wines, and craft beer. A catered buffet offered a wonderful variety of heavy hors d‘oeuvres and a cash bar was available. BeLeaf Cigar Company displayed handrolling techniques and had cigars for purchase, and the patio was open for those wishing to sample cigars on site. The Amazin’ Grayson showed off his magic tricks, and Objekt 12 provided live music. Story and Photos by Gaye Swan

Grayson Smith and Ashley Carver

Khiira Harris with Lamarr and Ka’Ren Chatman

Mark and Ryan Harris with Lee and Colleen Wilson

Jeff Soucia and Alexandra Smoliar

Justin Totty and Grace Anderson

Tiffany Evans and Rich George




Mid-South Heart Ball


Mid-South Heart Ball


Chirag and Mandy Chauhan

Jennifer and Paul Kelley

Rockin’ the Blues

crowd of more than 600 people gathered at The Peabody for the 2018 Mid-South Heart Ball, an annual fundraiser for the American Heart Association (AHA). This year’s Heart Ball chairmen were John and Leslie Daniel. They were joined by Brad and Dina Martin, who served as honorary chairs. The Executive Leadership Team was comprised of Darrell Doane, Rob Heard, Christopher Jenkins, Kim Jordan, John Lewis, John Maki, Paulo Teixeria and Patricia Emory-Walker. First Tennessee Foundation was the event’s signature sponsor. The event began with cocktails and a silent auction in the Continental Ballroom. Guests moved to the Grand Ballroom for dinner where all-blue floral centerpieces, designed by Greg Campbell of Garden District, provided a visual delight. Guests dined on a three-course meal catered by The Peabody. Dr. Dharmesh Patel, a cardiologist at Stern Cardiovascular Foundation and President of the American Heart Association Board of Directors, welcomed attendees and spoke about the history that AHA has of partnering with local nonprofit organizations. Gerold Blum was this year’s “Open Your Heart” honoree. Through a video presentation, his parents, Jerry and Barbara and sisters Emily and Nicole shared the story of the sudden loss of See all the party photos at Password: RSVP

Gerold at the age of 18 to heart disease. They spoke about the need to fund the research of the American Heart Association and asked for others to support the organization’s mission. “AHA has given our family an avenue where we feel like we are able to find something positive out of our personal tragedy,” explained Jerry. “We think the American Heart Association is a great organization, one that is producing miracles and saving lives everyday through the research that they fund.” Barbara added, “My son, Gerold was bigger than life — he always had a smile on his face and never failed to make others laugh. Our involvement with AHA is a way for us to extend his legacy.” Auctioneer Jeff Morris led the group through a live auction of items. Afterwards, Morris solicited additional donations ranging from $500 to $10,000 as he asked patrons to open their hearts and their wallets in support of the AHA. The American Heart Association has set a goal that by 2020, they will improve the cardiovascular health of all Americans by 20 percent while reducing deaths from cardiovascular disease and stroke by 20 percent. All proceeds from this year’s Heart Ball will be used to spread awareness throughout the MidSouth about cardiovascular disease and try to help people lead healthier lives.

Julian Mangrum and Sara Stukenborg

Thelma and Stanton Brown


Ann and Gene Henson

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Jeff and Belinda Roth


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Bruce and Janie Hopkins


Lauren Berry and Sarah Greenspan

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Jenna Walter and Conner Townsend

Lisa Shurden, Teresa Wilkes and Brenda Grace

Bob and Tracy Moore

Manoucheka Thermitus and Schiller Jerome

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Su’Aaron and Ralph Travis

Clare and Bill Mann

James Robinson and Ashley Spencer

Deborah and King Johnson

Dr. Jennifer McNary-Mcilvain and Jeff Mcilvain

Tyler and Nicole McGlaughlin

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Jerry and Barbara Blum

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Memphis Moment


Science of Beer Popular Local Brewers Shine at the Pink Palace


hen ice and snow hit the Mid-South, the 5th annual Science of Beer had to be rescheduled – but the change in date did not deter beer aficionados. A sold-out crowd thronged to the Pink Palace to enjoy beer and food tastings, fascinating lectures and the chance to chat with vendors and fellow beer lovers. Local professional and home brewers offered IPAs, lagers, ales, stouts, porters and more. Tasty treats from some of Memphis’ best restaurants were on hand as well, ranging from barbecue and fried chicken to cupcakes. Pretzel necklaces, beer goggle sports and professor-led experiments proved popular again this year. Attendees enjoyed lectures on “Homebrewing Q&A,” “I Prefer the Aquifer” and “Trivial Trivia.” Fun new activities included a silent auction and a prize pull. Guests received commemorative glasses donated by Memphis Filling Station. Event sponsors included Diversified Trust and Pinnacle Financial Partners. Story and Photos by Gaye Swan Jennifer and Michael Goodin with Lauren Wong and Andrew Lee

Donna Lee, Kristy Delaney and Christine Lee

Donna and Alan Mullen

Jermaine and Katherine Shorter



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Regina Smith and Bob Galloway

Ben Palmer, Rebecca Rupff, Lacey Hall and Paul Shimek

Sarah and Andrew Soltau

Maurice Holeyfield and Elizabeth Moore

Phil Jones, Chuck Carter and Steve Nokes

Keana and Corey Allert

Mike and Stacey Piercey with Paul and Cathi Johnson

Hands of Hope


Hands of Hope Auction Party

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Justin and Cara Grinder

The Heart of it All

t’s been said that a little bit of hope can make big and wonderful things happen. For more than two decades, the Exchange Club Family Center has been in the business of hope and has made life better for fragile families throughout the Mid-South through trauma-focused counseling, group therapy and educational services. More than 300 supporters gathered at the Ballet Memphis Center at Overton Square for the 2018 Hands of Hope Auction Party, an annual fundraising gala. Guests arrived at valet parking and were ushered inside where they were greeted with glasses of sparkling wine and checked in for bidding in the silent auction. Among the many treasures up for grabs were tickets from Playhouse on the Square and The Orpheum Theatre, a case of fine wines from Southern Glazers Wines and Spirits, a $200 gift certificate to Capital Grille with a set of fine cutlery, and a black mink coat by Christian Dior. Others who generously donated items included Sissy’s Log Cabin, with an array of fine jewelry, FedEx St. Jude Golf Association, Nike, Advanced Dermatology Bounty on Broad, McEwen’s, Little Red Treehouse, Visha Skincare, and Silver Dunes of Destin. The live auction, presided over by Hunter Morris, featured paintings by local artists including Paul Edelstein, Rose

Sitton, Grace Skertich, Katelyn Russell and John Warmath. There was a wine and whiskey pull, as well as handcrafted birdhouses by Family Center clients, which could be purchased for a donation. Partygoers lined up for premium libations from the fully stocked open bar and feasted on mouth-watering goodies from CFY Catering. There was hot brown mac and cheese and cola braised Claybrook Farms short ribs served over smoked cheddar stone ground grits and cups of fresh vegan tomato soup. Desserts included lemon berry tartlets, white chocolate peach bread pudding and dark chocolate mousse cups. A fun addition to the party came from Marcy Milman Productions, who set up a photo booth, complete with props, for a unique picture memory of the evening. Guests danced the night away to the soulful sounds of Peabody Rocket. Presenting sponsors were IBERIABANK and State Systems. Other supporters included Ballet Memphis, Buster’s Liquors, North Berkley Wine, Holliday Flowers and Events, inferno, Bluff City Jaguar Land Rover, MCR Safety, Grinder Taber and Grinder, Ring Container Technologies, Signworks, Memphis Made Brewing, Autozone, AC Electric, Macy’s, and Morgan and Morgan.

See all the party photos at Password: RSVP

Story by Bill Bannister Photos by Baxter Buck

Lauren and Brian Yoakum

DeMone and Dr. Ledia Payne



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Tommie and Webb Baird

Tanya and Boo Mitchell

Ted and Kathy Ferguson with Henry and Heather Grosvenor

Edward and Grace Hartman


Lauren and Matthew Gant

Barbara and Bob King

Jessica and Mitchell Horst

Ben and Emily Graham

Molly Courtney and Haynes Westlake

Nikki Gardner and Jeremy Baer

Jason Steward and Gabe Taylor

Connie and Carl Barton

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Faith Sanford and Kristen Downey

Matthew and Elizabeth Domas

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Wesley Grace and Gina Deutsch

Anna Phillips and Dr. Jon Low

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Ryan Saharovich, Rachel Bressier, Lauren Pelts and Parker Trotz


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Memphis Moment


Literacy is Key A Book and Author Event


ook lovers and literacy supporters gathered at the Holiday Inn University of Memphis for the eighth annual Literacy is Key event, presented by the Memphis Kappa Kappa Gamma Alumnae Association as a philanthropic endeavor. Andrea Harano chaired this year’s event, along with assistant chairman Janie Lowery. “Literacy is Key is a book and author event, with a luncheon and presentations by three nationally acclaimed authors,” explained Harano. Emcee Darrell Greene, of WBHQ Fox 13 News, brought authors Kristy Woodson Harvey, Christina Baker Kline and Kim Wright onstage to tell their personal stories and share background about their books. One hundred percent of the proceeds from Literacy is Key go to organizations like First Books and other local literary, non-profit organizations. Story and Photos by Emily Adams Keplinger

Laurie Whiteley and Chesley Porteous


Linda Ashmore and Carole Pruett

Megan Westbrook, Emily Patterson and Sabrina Ackerman

Janie Lowery with David Harano, Andrea Harano and Marsha Berry

Tia Osment, Charlotte Bray and Samantha Towne

Marilyn Barnes and Ann Smith

Summer Godman, Heather Grosvenor and Carole Manley

Pat Luttrell and Mayor Mark Luttrell

Rochelle Fenton and Teresa Wilson

Lillie Kay Mitchell, Hope Cook and Patricia Cook


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TEP Gumbo Contest Let the Good Times Roll


elicious aromas filled the air at the annual Tennessee Equality Project (TEP) Gumbo Contest, as a lively crowd mingled and sampled the savory treats. Presented by Memphis Hilton, this year’s Mardi Gras celebration boasted 18 teams who competed for prizes awarded by a panel of judges, and by guests who voted for their favorites. Rouxing on the River won first place from the judges, while Roux-thless Dames captured the hearts (and tastebuds) of the people. “We are proud to do this for the eighth year,” said Jonathan Cole, chair of the event. “Gumbo is a very egalitarian dish that brings different ingredients and people together.”

Brandon Leslie and Robin Stevens

Rebecca Paulk, Laura Goodman-Bryan, Jakatae Jessup and Susan Moskop

Paul Linxwiler, Curtis Davis and Christy Tweddle

Sarah Katko, Helen Akin and Leslie Pace

Story and Photos by Gaye Swan

Chaz Fowler, Bri Kirwan and Justin Smith

Judge David and Elizabeth Rudolph

James Griffith and Thais Lloyd

Stephanie Wilbanks and Jeannie Aboaasi

Gerry Thomas, Becky Treace-Entrekin and Ruthie Northcutt

Betty Lu Jones, Kay Price and Nancy Chamblin

Joan Draper, Jane Curtis and Kathrine Getske

Ann Wieties, Pat Massengill and Barbara Layman

Anne Robilio, Annemarie Bobay and Donna Godwin

Pat Dunleavy and Jean Robinson

Duration Club Fun and Fellowship


embers of the Duration Fine Arts Club celebrated the holidays with a festive luncheon at the Crescent Club. Donna McManus was the event chairman. Club President Tommie Pardue led the group in a blessing. The seated luncheon included green salad and Sicilian chicken with rice and asparagus spears. Apple tarts were served for dessert. After the meal, under the direction of Joseph Powell, students from the A Cappella Choir of White Station High School entertained the group. The choir sang several traditional carols, then led the group in a spirited singalong. Story and Photos by Emily Adams Keplinger

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Tommie Pardue and Donna McManus

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Wine for Wishes Benefiting the Mid-South Chapter of Make-A-Wish


he Make-A-Wish Mid-South Associate Board hosted the eighth annual Wine for Wishes at The Cadre Building. Over 400 guests enjoyed wine tasting, a wine pull, a silent auction, heavy hors d’oeuvres, and live music. Buster’s Liquors donated the 16 featured wines, Staks Pancake Kitchen donated the desserts, and guests were treated to a signature cocktail donated by Old Dominick’s Distillery. The bartenders were courtesy of Memphis Bar Ties. Attendees enjoyed the sounds of Charvey Mac as they mingled and bid on the many silent auction items. “The Associate Board is a group of 19 young professionals who meet monthly to raise awareness for Make-A-Wish within our age group. Wine for Wishes is our premier event, and we are so happy with this year’s turnout. We expect to raise enough money to grant at least seven wishes,” said event chair Mallory Podesta.

Martha Podesta and Will Podesta

Carey and Philip Pontius

Story and Photos by Gaye Swan

Ari Hertz, Lauren Williams and Joseph Robinson

Gavin Lindsey and Sierra Penrod with Sara and Bryce Miller

Kathy King and Paul Winter


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Jamesha Hayes and Regina DeLoach

Amanda Montgomery and Sarah Bowe

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L ike a of people, as I get older I’m more and more likely to watch a rerun of an old television show than I am to watch a new one. It seems like By Dennis Phillippi most new TV shows are either about forensics, off brand superheroes, or some kind of contest where the idea seems to be to see which terrible person can be the most terrible. For me there’s great comfort in watching a sitcom from when I was younger, or even catching up on a silly detective show I never watched when it was new. The shows themselves are the broadcast equivalent of comfort food. Reruns of Cheers or Castle are like mashed potatoes or mac and cheese. The problem is that all of these shows appear on networks where the advertisers seem deeply concerned about my prostate health, possible malpractice suits I should file, or how much supplemental insurance we’re carrying. Which, by the way, is none. I refuse to take life advice from a duck. This had started to bother me because I thought; why on earth are they running ads on this channel? This is where I get my daily fix of M*A*S*H. Why aren’t they aiming at their ideal demographic? Then it started to really bother me when I realized I am their ideal demographic. Advertisers target different age groups for different things. Your 12-17 year olds are rich in stupid, so computer games and acne treatments get aimed at them. 18-24, believe it or not, is even thicker with dumb, that’s why they’re the ones flashy cars, energy drinks, and gym memberships are pushed towards. When you get to the 25-34 range you’re starting to get to people who have earned some actual money, and here come the ads for pricey booze, unpalatable but expensive beers, and websites to help them buy houses in safe neighborhoods. 35-44 is where the real moola can be found and they’re the ones who get non-stop encouragement to invest in risky things, go on ridiculous vacations, and websites to find houses in even safer neighborhoods. By the time they get to 45-54 the ads are all about the fact that the people in that demographic range are becoming aware that they are slowing down, so they need dietary supplements, cosmetic dentistry, and drugs to make a man more...manly. Then along comes my generation, I’m 54 but the 55-64 ads are mainly about whether or not using any of the things you were sold in your forties have given you a disease you don’t know you have.

My generation gets a lot of commercials about reverse mortgages, because those really safe neighborhoods don’t come cheap, invisible, comfortable, water proof undergarments and prepaid funerals.

For one thing; no one at your funeral is under oath. I don’t plan to settle for a formulaic sermon from a minister I’ve never met. I plan to have a eulogy delivered by a minister who has never met me all right, because he’s going to be reading a eulogy written by me and it’s going to be chock full of lies. Mourners are going to walk out of that service with a whole new appreciation of me. That’s the one that gets me. These ads are pure scare tactics that if you don’t go ahead and pony up the dough for your last hurrah, then you’re going to bankrupt your family, which will


make them hate you for dying. At first the idea of spending money on something so ghoulish was disturbing. It’s the ultimate example of paying for something you will not get to enjoy. Like paying into Social Security. Then it dawned on me; I have the power to dictate my own swansong. I’ve been to a lot of funerals that were obviously part of a list of options the funeral home already has in place. It’s an awful time when you lose a loved one and it’s a lot easier to just choose package B, that comes with this price range coffin, this type of flowers, and one of the many soothing musical choices. It’s perfectly understandable that a family in this situation would take the easiest possible option, but what if you planned ahead? For one thing; no one at your funeral is under oath. I don’t plan to settle for a formulaic sermon from a minister I’ve never met. I plan to have a eulogy delivered by a minister who has never met me all right, because he’s going to be reading a eulogy written by me and it’s going to be chock full of lies. Mourners are going to walk out of that service with a whole new appreciation of me. They’ll stand around before heading to the graveside discussing how they had no idea I saved all those kids form that burning orphanage. What a surprise that a guy who talked about himself so much never once mentioned his Nobel Prize. How modest he was, they’ll say. “I had no idea he was a marine”, one would say. Another would mention my relentless efforts to eliminate homelessness. Sure, they could hear a true eulogy, which would amount to saying; “He was married for a really long time, and is not leaving his wife with crushing debt because he didn’t plan his funeral.” Oh, and don’t think for one second I won’t be making an appearance. I might not look like George Clooney now, but I’m sure I look better than I’m going to look just before I have my very disappointing visit to the Pearly Gates. Lately I’ve been thinking about going ahead and shooting my final farewells. I just won’t mention anyone by name because there’s no telling who is going to idiot themselves right out of my final farewell between now and then. Then comes the really fun part; the visit to the graveside. People might not remember my tearful goodbye or the minister’s stirring description of my many heroic deeds, but that tombstone is going to be there until the dinosaurs come back and you’d better believe it’s going to be big, have my face carved into it, and have a long list of the lies I made that poor minister read. And the last demographic? It’s just 65+. Anything over 65 is apparently considered bonus time.

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his wonderful picture of young dancers all decked out in their tutus, ballet slippers and holding floral-festooned hoops, is part of the Nadia Price Collection at The Memphis Public Library and Information Center. Although we don’t know much about this particular photograph, we do know that Ms. Price was a premiere photographer in Memphis from the mid 1940s though the early 1970s. Memphians “of a certain age” will certainly remember her studio, Photography by Nadia, located on South Cooper Street. We welcome comments and/or information about this photograph, which is #84 in the Price Collection and simply titled “1958 Festival Garland Dance.” Photo courtesy of the Nadia Price Collection If you have a past photo you would like to share with RSVP readers, please contact Emily Adams Keplinger at 276-7787 ext. 105 or e-mail the photo and caption to All photos will be returned promptly.



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