Becoming a True Gentleman as a Tabler Embracing the Round Table Code

Chivalry:

• Embrace the spirit of chivalry by demonstrating courtesy, respect, and honour towards others, especially women and those in need.

• Show respect for your fellow Tablers, treating them as brothers and fostering an environment of camaraderie and mutual support.

• Engage in acts of kindness and service, whether it's helping a fellow Tabler in need or contributing to community projects.

Camaraderie:

• Foster a strong sense of brotherhood within your Round Table community, supporting and encouraging fellow Tablers in their personal and professional endeavours.

• Actively participate in meetings, social events, and projects, displaying enthusiasm and a willingness to contribute.

• Develop lasting friendships by engaging in open and meaningful conversations, sharing experiences, and offering support.

Integrity:

• Uphold the values and principles of the Round Table movement in all aspects of your life.

• Be honest and trustworthy, keeping your word and following through on commitments.

• Take responsibility for your actions, admitting mistakes, and learning from them.

• Etiquette in Round Table Settings:

• Respect the rules and guidelines set forth by your Round Table organisation, honouring the traditions and customs.

• Actively listen during meetings, allowing others to speak without interruption and valuing their opinions.

• Show appreciation for the contributions of your fellow Tablers, expressing gratitude and recognition when deserved.

Dressing with Style:

• Dress appropriately for Round Table events, respecting the dress code and representing the organisation with pride.

• Pay attention to personal grooming, maintaining good hygiene and presenting yourself in a neat and polished manner.

• Wear your Round Table pin or regalia with pride, symbolising your commitment to the movement.

Communication Skills:

• Develop effective communication skills by actively listening, speaking with clarity, and maintaining eye contact.

• Engage in respectful and constructive discussions, appreciating diverse perspectives and promoting open dialogue.

• Practise empathy and understanding, being mindful of the feelings and experiences of others.

Service to Others:

• Embrace the spirit of service by actively participating in community projects and initiatives organised by your Round Table.

• Seek opportunities to make a positive impact, whether through volunteering, fundraising, or supporting local causes.

• Act as a role model, inspiring and encouraging fellow Tablers to engage in acts of service.

In closing:

Becoming a true gentleman as a Tabler requires embodying the values of chivalry, camaraderie, and service. By adhering to essential etiquette and embracing the underpinning principles of the Round Table movement, you can not only enrich your own life but also make a meaningful difference in the lives of others. Embrace the Round Table code of conduct, and you'll find fulfilment and purpose in being a true gentleman and Tabler.

By Wesley de Kock, RT Gauteng PRO