RIMAG : Special Edition - Rima's Birthday

‫ﺭﲟﺎ ﻫﻨﺎﻙ ﻣﻦ ﻳﻌﺘﻘﺪ ﺍﻥ ﻋﻼﻗﺔ ﺍﳊﺐ ﺍﻟﺘﻲ ﺗﺮﺗﻘﻲ ﺑﻚ ﺍﻟﻰ ﺍﻟﺴﻤﺎﻭﺍﺕ ﻫﻲ ﻧﻔﺴﻬﺎ ﺍﻟﺘﻲ ﻗﺪ ﺗﻨﺰﻟﻚ ﺍﻟﻰ ﺷﻔﻴﺮ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻬﺎﻭﻳﺔ‪...‬ﻻ ﻳﻬﻢ‪ ...‬ﺍﳊﺐ ﺃﺑﺪﺍ ﹰ ﻟﻦ ﻳﻜﻮﻥ "ﻋﺎﺑﺮ ﺳﺮﻳﺮ" ﻓﻬﻮ‪ ،‬ﻭﺍﻥ ﻋﺒﺮ‪...‬ﻳﻜﻔﻲ ﺍﻧﻪ ﻗﻠﺐ ﺣﻴﺎﺗﻚ ﺑﺪﻝ ﻓﻴﻚ‪ ،‬ﺩﺧﻞ‬ ‫ﺗﺎﺭﻳﺨﻚ‪...‬ﺍﻧﻪ ﺍﳊﺐ! ﻋﻠﻴﻨﺎ ﺍﻥ ﻧﻘﺘﻨﻊ ﺍﻧﻪ ﺣﺮ ﻟﻴﺲ ﺑﺎﻣﻜﺎﻧﻚ ﺍﻥ ﺗﻘﻴﺪﻩ ﻓﻲ ﻣﻜﺎﻥ‪...‬ﻳﺄﺗﻲ ﺣﻴﻨﺎ ﹰ ﻟﻴﺮﺣﻞ ﺃﺣﻴﺎﻧﺎ ﹰ‪...‬‬ ‫ﺍﳌﻬﻢ ﺃﻥ ﻳﻌﺒﺮ‪ ،‬ﺗﺎﺭﻛﺎ ﹰ ﻟﻚ ﺫﻛﺮﻳﺎﺕ ﺟﻤﻴﻠﺔ ﻭﺑﺼﻤﺔ ﻣﺎ‪.‬‬

‫”ﺃﻧﺎ ﻣﺤﻈﻮﻇﺔ ﻓﻲ ﺍﳊﺐ‬ ‫ﻧﺸﻌﺮ ﺍﻥ ﺭﳝﺎ ﺣﺰﻳﻨﺔ ﺃﺣﻴﺎﻧﺎ ﹰ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻬﻮﺍﺀ‪ ،‬ﻭﻟﻜﻦ ﺑﺘﺤﻔﻆ“‬

‫ﻭﻣﻦ ﺃﻏﻨﻴﺎﺗﻚ ﺍﳌﻔﻀﻠﺔ "ﺳﻠﻤﻮﻟﻲ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﳊﺐ"‪ ،‬ﻫﻞ ﺁﺫﺍﻙ ﺍﳊﺐ ﺃﻡ‬ ‫ﺃﻧﺼﻔﻚ؟‬ ‫ﺍﻷﺫﻯ‪...‬ﻓﻠﻸﺫﻳﺔ ﺃﺭﺑﺎﺑﻬﺎ ﻭﻫﻢ ﺃﺷﺨﺎﺹ ﻗﺪ ﻳﺪﻣﺮﻭﻧﻚ‬ ‫ﻓﻠﻸﺫﻳﺔ‬ ‫ﻣﺎ ﻣﻦ ﺣﺐ ﻳﺴﺒﺐ‬ ‫ﺃﺣﻴﺎﻧﺎ ﹰ‪...‬ﺍﳊﺐ ﻫﻮ ﺃﺳﻤﻰ ﺍﻷﻣﻮﺭ ﺍﻻﻳﺠﺎﺑﻴﺔ ﻭﻧﺘﺎﺟﻪ ﺍﻳﺠﺎﺑﻲ ﺃﻳﻀﺎ ﹰ‪...‬ﺍﳕﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻷﺷﺨﺎﺹ ﻫﻢ ﻣﻦ ﻳﻀﻤﺮﻭﻥ ﺍﻷﺫﻳﺔ‪...‬ﻗﺪ ﻳﻜﻮﻥ ﺫﻟﻚ ﻧﺘﻴﺠﺔ ﻋﺪﻡ ﻓﻬﻤﻬﻢ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﺩﺭﺍﻛﻬﻢ ﻭﺍﺩﺍﺭﺗﻬﻢ ﻟﻌﻼﻗﺎﺕ ﺍﳊﺐ‪ ،‬ﺃﻭ ﺣﺘﻰ ﻟﺘﻮﻇﻴﻔﻬﺎ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻃﺎﺭ ﺍﻳﺠﺎﺑﻲ‪...‬‬ ‫ﻓﻲ ﻧﻬﺎﻳﺔ ﺍﳌﻄﺎﻑ‪ ،‬ﻓﻲ ﺍﳊﻴﺎﺓ‪ ،‬ﻳﺠﺐ ﺍﻥ ﻧﻌﻤﻞ ﻋﻠﻰ ﲢﺴﲔ ﺃﻧﻔﺴﻨﺎ‬ ‫ﻭﲢﺼﻴﻨﻬﺎ ﲡﺎﻩ ﺍﳋﻴﺒﺎﺕ ﺍﶈﺘﻤﻠﺔ‪...‬ﻓﺎﳌﻬﻢ ﺗﻔﺎﻋﻠﻨﺎ ﻧﺤﻦ ﻣﻊ ﺣﺎﻻﺕ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺼﻌﻮﺩ ﻭﺍﻟﻬﺒﻮﻁ‪...‬ﻓﻼ ﻳﻐﺮﻳﻨﺎ ﺍﻟﺼﻌﻮﺩ‪...‬ﻭﻻ ﻳﻜﺴﺮﻧﺎ ﺍﻟﻬﺒﻮﻁ‪...‬‬ ‫‪...‬ﺑﻞ ﻫﻮ ﺣﺎﻟﺔ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻬﺪﻭﺀ ﻭﻣﻦ‬ ‫ﺍﻥ ﺍﳊﺰﻥ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻬﻮﺍﺀ‪ ،‬ﻟﻴﺲ ﺣﺰﻧﺎ ﹰ ﻓﻌﻠﻴﺎ ﹰ ﺑﻞ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﺴﻼﻡ‪...‬ﻭﻟﻜﻨﻬﺎ ﺗﺼﻞ ﺍﻟﻰ ﺍﳌﺴﺘﻤﻊ ﺃﺣﻴﺎﻧﺎ ﹰ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺃﻧﻬﺎ ﻧﻐﻤﺎﺕ ﺣﺰﻥ ﻷﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻨﺎﺱ ﺍﻋﺘﺎﺩﻭﺍ ﺃﻥ ﺃﻛﻮﻥ ﻣﻔﻌﻤﺔ ﺑﺎﻟﻄﺎﻗﺔ‪....‬‬ ‫ﺍﳕﺎ ﻓﻲ ﺃﻱ ﳊﻈﺔ‪ ،‬ﻗﺪ ﲡﺘﺎﺣﻨﻲ ﻓﻜﺮﺓ ﻣﺎ ﺃﻭ ﻣﺸﻬﺪ ﻣﺎ‪...‬ﻓﻴﻔﻀﺤﻨﻲ ﺣﺰﻧﻲ ﺃﻣﺎﻡ ﻣﻦ ﻳﺴﻤﻌﻨﻲ‪...‬‬ ‫ﻗﺪ ﻳﻜﻮﻥ ﻧﺎﰋ ﻋﻦ ﺍﻋﺎﺩﺓ ﺗﻘﻮﳝﻲ ﻟﻠﺤﺐ ﻭﻟﻠﻌﻼﻗﺎﺕ‪ ...‬ﻭﻛﻞ ﺫﻟﻚ ﻃﺒﻴﻌﻲ ﻭﺻﺤﻲ‪ ،‬ﻓﺎﻋﺎﺩﺓ ﺍﻟﺘﻘﻮﱘ ﲡﻌﻠﻨﺎ ﺃﻛﺜﺮ‬ ‫ﻧﻀﺠﺎ ﹰ ﻭﺣﻜﻤﺔﹰ‪ ،‬ﻭﺣﺰﻧﺎ ﹰ‪ ..‬ﻭﻟﻜﻨﻨﻲ ﺃﻋﻮﺩ ﻷﺳﻴﻄﺮ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻛﻞ ﺷﻲﺀ‪...‬ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻬﻮﺍﺀ ﻭﺧﺎﺭﺝ ﺍﻟﻬﻮﺍﺀ!‬ ‫ﻫﻞ ﺗﺸﻌﺮﻳﻦ ﺃﻧﻚ ﻣﺤﻈﻮﻇﺔ ﻓﻲ ﻗﺼﺺ ﺍﳊﺐ ﺍﻟﺘﻲ ﻋﺮﻓﺘﻬﺎ؟ ﻭﳌﺎﺫﺍ ﻋﻼﻗﺘﻚ ﺑﺰﻭﺟﻚ ﻋﺮﺿﺔ ﺩﺍﺋﻤﺎ ﹰ‬ ‫ﻟﻠﺸﺎﺋﻌﺎﺕ؟ ﺍﻧﻔﺼﻠﺘﻤﺎ ﺃﻭ ﺣﺘﻰ ﻳﻘﻮﻟﻮﻥ ﺗﻄﻠﻘﺘﻤﺎ‪...‬‬ ‫ﻭﳊﻈﺎﺕ ﺍﻟﺴﻌﺎﺩﺓ ﻓﺮﺹ ﻧﻘﺘﻨﺼﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺃﻧﺎ ﻣﺤﻈﻮﻇﺔ ﻓﻲ ﺍﳊﺐ ﻭﻟﻜﻦ ﺑﺘﺤﻔﻆ‪...‬ﻓﺎﻷﺷﻴﺎﺀ ﺍﳌﺜﺎﻟﻴﺔ ﻋﻤﺮﻫﺎ ﻗﺼﻴﺮ‪...‬ﻭﳊﻈﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ ﺣﻴﻨﻬﺎ‪ ،‬ﻭﺗﻌﻮﺩ ﻟﺘﻐﺎﺩﺭﻧﺎ ﻟﺘﺒﺤﺚ ﻋﻦ ﺁﺧﺮﻳﻦ‪...‬‬ ‫ﺃﻣﺎ ﻣﻮﺿﻮﻉ ﺍﻟﺸﺎﺋﻌﺎﺕ ﻓﺮﲟﺎ ﻳﺤﺪﺛﻬﺎ ﺑﻌﺾ ﻣﺎ ﺃﻗﻮﻝ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻬﻮﺍﺀ ﻣﻦ ﻣﻮﺍﻗﻒ ﻓﻲ ﻣﻮﺍﺿﻴﻊ ﻋﺎﻣﺔ‪ ،‬ﻛﺎﻟﺰﻭﺍﺝ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻟﻄﻼﻕ ﻭﻏﻴﺮﻩ‪...‬ﻓﻴﺄﺧﺬﻫﺎ ﺍﻟﺒﻌﺾ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺃﻧﻬﺎ ﺷﺨﺼﻴﺔ‪...‬ﻭﻫﺬﺍ ﺃﻣﺮ ﻃﺒﻴﻌﻲ‪...‬‬ ‫ﺗﻌﻮﺩﺕ ‪ ...‬ﻛﻞ ﺫﻟﻚ ﻣﺎ ﻛﺎﻥ ﻟﻴﺤﺪﺙ ﻟﻮﻻ ﺁﺭﺍﺋﻲ ﺍﳌﻌﻠﻨﺔ ﺣﻮﻝ ﺍﻻﺳﺘﻘﻼﻟﻴﺔ ﺍﻟﺘﻲ ﺃﺅﻣﻦ ﺑﻬﺎ ﻛﻞ ﺍﻻﳝﺎﻥ ﻓﻲ ﻛﻞ‬ ‫ﺍﻟﻌﻼﻗﺎﺕ ﺍﻻﻧﺴﺎﻧﻴﺔ‪ ،‬ﻭﺍﳊﺮﻳﺔ ﲟﻌﻨﻰ ﺍﳌﺴﺎﺣﺔ ﺍﻟﺘﻲ ﻳﺠﺐ ﺍﻥ ﻳﻮﻓﺮﻫﺎ ﺍﻟﺸﺮﻳﻚ ﻟﺸﺮﻳﻜﺘﻪ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﳋﺼﻮﺻﻴﺔ ﺍﻟﺘﻲ ﲡﻌﻞ ﻣﻦ ﺍﳊﺒﻴﺒﲔ ﺃﻛﺜﺮ ﺍﺷﺘﻴﺎﻗﺎﹰ‪ ،‬ﺳﺎﻫﻤﺖ ﻓﻲ ﻫﺬﻩ ﺍﻟﺸﺎﺋﻌﺎﺕ‪.‬‬ ‫ﻓﺄﻧﺎ ﻻ ﺃﻧﻔﻚ ﺃﺭﺩﺩ ﺍﻥ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻻﻧﺴﺎﻥ ﺍﻥ ﻻ ﻳﺬﻭﺏ ﺑﺸﺮﻳﻜﻪ ﺑﻞ ﺍﻥ ﻳﻜﻮﻥ ﺷﺮﻳﻜﻪ ﺍﻟﻔﻌﻠﻲ‪،‬‬ ‫ﺍﻥ ﻻ ﳝﺤﻮﺭ ﺣﻴﺎﺗﻪ ﺣﻮﻝ ﺷﺨﺺ ﻭﺍﺣﺪ‪ ،‬ﻭﺃﻥ ﻳﻌﻴﺶ ﺧﺼﻮﺻﻴﺘﻪ‪ ،‬ﺍﻥ ﳝﻀﻲ ﻭﻗﺘﺎ ﹰ ﻣﻊ‬ ‫ﻧﻔﺴﻪ‪...‬ﻣﻦ ﺩﻭﻥ ﺍﻥ ﻳﺘﺴﻜﻊ ﻣﻊ ﺷﺮﻳﻜﻪ ‪ 24‬ﺳﺎﻋﺔ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﻴﻮﻡ‪...‬ﻓﻠﻜﻞ ﺍﻧﺴﺎﻥ‬ ‫ﻛﻴﺎﻧﻪ ﺍﳋﺎﺹ ﻭﺍﻫﺘﻤﺎﻣﺘﻪ ﺍﳋﺎﺻﺔ ﺍﻟﺘﻲ ﻻ ﻳﺠﺐ ﺍﻥ ﺗﻠﻐﻲ ﺍﻫﺘﻤﺎﻣﺎﺕ ﺍﻵﺧﺮ ﻭﺍﳕﺎ ﺍﻥ ﲤﺸﻲ‬ ‫ﲟﻮﺍﺯﺍﺗﻪ‪....‬‬ ‫ﻭﺃﻳﻀﺎﹰ‪ ،‬ﺑﺤﻜﻢ ﻣﻬﻨﺘﻲ ﺃﺗﻠﻘﻰ ﻛﻢ ﻫﺎﺋﻞ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﺪﻋﻮﺍﺕ ﺍﻟﻰ ﻣﻨﺎﺳﺒﺎﺕ‬ ‫ﺍﺟﺘﻤﺎﻋﻴﺔ ﻭﺛﻘﺎﻓﻴﺔ ﻭﻓﻨﻴﺔ‪...‬ﻭﺃﺣﻴﺎﻧﺎ ﹰ ﺃﺫﻫﺐ ﻟﻮﺣﺪﻱ ﻷﻥ ﺯﻭﺟﻲ ﺧﺎﺭﺝ ﻟﺒﻨﺎﻥ‪ ،‬ﺃﻭ ﻷﻧﻪ‬ ‫ﻣﺸﻐﻮﻝ‪،‬‬

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