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Obituaries
Obituaries Rev. Peter W. Grey (65-72) Born 26 November 1953, died 15 January 2008, aged 54 years old. David C. Grey (70-75) writes to tell us of the sudden and untimely death of his brother Peter, following a cerebral haemorrage. He was 54.
Always a keen amateur musician, Peter played cello in the school orchestra and continued to play guitar and occasionally piano for pleasure.
Tony Kysh (51-60) At the request of many friends who had been unable to attend the funeral in Cleveleys, our parents held a second memorial service at St Columba’s URC in Peter’s home town of North Shields on Saturday 1 March. Peter was a firm believer in the benefits of recycling and the family has since learned from the Manchester transplant coordinator’s office that his wish to donate his organs has resulted in a chance of life for at least three other people.
Born 29 September 1943, died 20 January 2008. Tony Kysh has died at the early age of 64. Always looking much younger than his years, Tony exemplified enthusiasm and inspired all who worked with him during his long career in television.
At school he excelled in swimming and diving and he captained the Swimming Team at an early age. In 1960, he won a scholarship through the English Speaking Union to the He left the RGS in 1972 after completing his A fine son and brother, devoted husband and Woodberry Forest School in Virginia, USA, A- levels to pursue a career with the Midland father, Peter leaves his wife, Allison, two where he spent the rest of the year. It was the Bank (now HSBC). He worked in the foreign children Andrew (27), Catherine (25) and a essence of ‘cool’ and when he returned, he exchange department using his talent for grandson John (4). sported a strong American accent which economics and modern languages on a daily lasted for at least two weeks! Tony regaled basis, but his career was somewhat curtailed us with stories of his great adventure which by the onset of epilepsy in 1983. Although the included seeing the great Ray Charles in condition was eventually brought under control Atlanta. Whether it was as a result of this with medication, the stresses of the financial odyssey or not, Tony was inspired to join the world encouraged him to seek an alternative fledgling Tyne Tees Television as a career. researcher in 1961. It was the beginning of a brilliant career in direction and production A lifelong Christian (and active member of the and whilst the list of his achievements is long Christian Union under John Rowling) Peter and impressive, it was the unseen work eventually followed his calling in 1989 and, which he carried out in passing his skills on with the support of his young family, left the to the young and sometimes less fortunate, bank to study at Manchester University with the Rev. Peter W. Grey which reflects so much credit on his memory. ambition to become a minister in the United Some of his last work was at Durham Prison, Reformed Church. where he enthusiastically worked with prisoners on a documentary. Earlier, of He graduated in 1993 and was ordained to course, there was Supergran, Byker Grove serve, first as minister for Christ Church URC and the Famous Five and much more. in Stanley, Co. Durham, then in 2000 moved west to take responsibility for the twin Always living on Tyneside, Tony married churches of Cleveleys and Fleetwood near Angel in 1966 and was devoted to his wife Blackpool. and two daughters Anya and Gemma. The essence of modesty, he refused to allow the A genuinely kind and caring person, he took to limelight to shine upon him and would rather his new role, becoming a popular, respected deflect credit on others who might have felt and well loved clergyman. After a private family less worthy. He was dedicated to passing his cremation, over 400 people, including his comprehensive skills on to the next congregations, friends, colleagues and fellow generation and his warm and generous clergy attended the thanksgiving service at his nature was something his family, friends and church in Cleveleys in January. The service colleagues will for ever remember. ended with a fine rendition of Vidor’s Toccata of which even Jack Wolstenholme would have David Goldwater (51-62) been proud.
