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Roma, Not Gypsy

OSCAR DAVISON

Hello, my name is Oscar, and I am the President of the QUT Student Guild. I am also Roma, or what some of you may know as gypsy. Today, April 8, is International Roma Day, and so I felt it important that I use this opportunity to write about our wonderful people, and hopefully educate some of you about our community, and some of the struggles we continue to face.

Roma – not gypsy.

Something I’ve always been quite outspoken about, especially in recent years, is correcting people on what to call us. The word “Roma” was adopted by our community at the First World Roma Congress in 1971. The most important thing to get out of the way is, Roma and gypsy are not interchangeable. They do not mean the same thing.

History of the word “gypsy”

Roughly 1000 years ago, the Roma were forced out of northern India. Thus began 1000 years of migration, nomadism, and further persecution. Roma travelled through West Asia, the Middle East, and many of us found ourselves in Europe. Coming from Northern India, most Roma had dark skin, dark eyes, and dark hair. Many Europeans’ only interactions with people of darker complexion came from Turkey and North East Africa. The story goes that Eastern Europeans thought that Roma were Egyptian. Egypt -> Gyp -> Gypsy.

The origins of the word itself is problematic, as we’re not Egyptian, we’re Roma. However, it is easy to dismiss this as a mistake, which warrants discussion about the past and present treatment of Roma in society. During World War Two, more than 500,000 Roma were systematically exterminated in the Holocaust. This amounted to 80% of the Roma population. We call this the Porajmos, or ‘the Devouring’. A specific “Gypsy Camp” (Zigeunerlager) was established at Auschwitz for the extermination of Roma. The Porajmos was not recognised as a genocide by Germany until 1981.

Roma were also victims of 500 years of chattel slavery in Romania, which only ended in 1860.

Many European countries including Switzerland, Sweden, and the Czech Republic enacted policies of forced sterilisation of Roma men and women. Forced sterilisation of Roma women only ended in the Czech Republic in 2011.

Segregation is still common across Europe. Schools, churches, shops, and villages are segregated across Europe, including in Italy, Hungary, the Czech Republic, and Ukraine.

And racism against Roma people is overt in Europe. Zsolt Bayer, co-founder of the currently elected Fidesz Party in Hungary has been quoted saying:

‘ The Roma are unfit for coexistence. They are not fit to live among people. These Roma are animals, and they behave like animals. When they meet with resistance, they commit murder. They are incapable of human communication. Inarticulate sounds pour out of their beastly skulls. At the same time, these gypsies understand how to exploit the achievements of the idiotic Western World. But one must retaliate, rather than tolerate. These animals shouldn’t be allowed to exist. In no way. That needs to be solved immediately and regardless of the method.’ Gypsy developed into the word gyp, which is a synonym for stealing, hence the phrase, ‘I’ve been Gypped.’ This is a false and harmful stereotype that has followed our community for hundreds of years and follows us to this day.

Bc we were talking about France and pick pocketing

And she's like "yeah it's because of all them gypsies!"

Message I received from a friend when she was in France.

This stereotype is harmful for a number of reasons, mainly that it is untrue – you have the same chance of being pickpocketed by anyone – and that it ignores the effect discrimination and persecution have on criminality. It minimises crime to a personal feature of the Roma, rather than a situational response to discriminatory legislation that keeps Roma in poverty.

Media Representation

The media tends to portray Roma people in two key ways. Either as a poor beggar and a pickpocket, or a hypersexualised temptress (the most common representation of the latter is Esmerelda from The Hunchback of Notre Dame).

‘Her complexion was dark… she danced, whirled, turned around… her large, black eyes flashed lightning… with her smooth bodice of gold, her colourful dress that swelled with the rapidity of her motions, with her bare shoulders, her finely turned legs that her skirt now and then revealed, her black hair, her flaming eyes, she was a super natural creature… in truth,’ Thought Gringore, ‘she is a magical creature, a nymph, a goddess, a bacchanae of Mount Menelaeus!’ At that last moment one of the magical creature’s tresses came loose, and a piece of yellow brass that had been fastened to it fell to the ground. ‘But no,’ he said, ‘she is a gypsy!’ The illusion was shattered.”

– Victor Hugo, The Hunchback of Notre Dame.

Due to the way Roma women have been represented in these two lights, the word gypsy is incredibly dangerous to Roma women. Either a criminal to be persecuted, or a mystical sexual creature to be conquered. The word gypsy has transformed into a synonym for “free-spirited”, a fetishisation of nomadic lifestyle of the Roma. This was not a lifestyle that was chosen, but one that was forced via 1000 years of murder, genocide, torture, and slavery. This is not a word to be rebranded because you had a life-changing experience while backpacking. It is a word with a millennium of pain behind it. There are thousands of ‘gypsy’ rings, earrings, books, and more being sold online, appropriating a word which has been used to persecute, for a quick profit due to the wanderlust of an ethnic minority.

My Relationship with the Word in Australia

I have a complicated relationship with this word gypsy in Australia. In the UK and Europe, it’s well known that ‘Roma’ is the correct term for us, so when people use terms like gypsy, or cigani (Eastern Europe), or zigani (Germany), it’s quite evident that the word is intended as a slur. Whereas in Australia, we face very little oppression. There are very few of us here, between 5,000 and 25,000. Many people do not know we’re here, and those who do often have no idea the word gypsy is considered a slur by our community, or what the appropriate term is. Therefore, I struggle communicating my culture in Australia. The conversation usually goes something like:

Them: So, what’s your background?

Me: I’m Roma[ni].

Them: What’s that?

Me: *sigh* You would probably know us as gypsies.

After which I have to go through the motions of explaining the origin of the word, how it is rooted in 500 years of slavery and racism. It’s often easier to go ‘I’m a gypsy’, which sometimes feels like a betrayal of my community.

Roma is the Romani word for person/human. The word Roma is so liberating. After 500 years of persecution, genocide, and slavery, it was chosen that we would simply call ourselves ‘human’. 500 years of being dehumanised, and we choose to call ourselves ‘human’ rather than a word which has become synonymous with thievery, poverty, hyper-sexualisation, and barbarism.

So, I’ll finish this article the way I started it. Hi, I’m Oscar and I’m the President of the QUT Student Guild. I am Roma, not gypsy.

A Straight Man’s Guide to the Perfect Tinder Profile

ELLA BRUMM

Hint: you don’t reel in women by having a photo with a fish. The tips in this guide should go without saying, however, almost every straight man on Tinder continues to ignore the unspoken criteria of what makes a decent human.

The Bio:

1. If you feel the urge to write your height followed by

‘if that matters’ – please don’t. Some girls may prefer men who are taller than them but honestly, it’s not as big an issue as you may think. Just like the size of other things, most women are not overly fussed.

It’s truly just a dick-swinging contest between yourselves. Function over size always.

2. Include your pronouns. It signifies respect of other people’s identities and queer women will feel more comfortable knowing you will not assume gender or sexuality just from photos. HOWEVER, if you do this purely to enhance your chances and you’re not committed to doing the work of an ally for the

LGBTQIA+ community, we’ll figure it out very quickly. 3. In the same realm, include and learn about the

Indigenous land you are living on. Here is a link to the map of Australia’s Traditional Custodians. 4. Write something short and sweet, introducing yourself in a nonsexual way. Women don’t want to hear jokes about your dick, especially ones you’ve copied from the internet.

5. If you are specifically looking for a relationship, make reference to it in your bio in a casual way.

6. You’re looking for a person, not your weekly groceries, so please don’t put up a shopping list describing what kind of woman you are looking for. The following is an example from a profile I was blessed with (I wonder whether you can guess which way I swiped):

‘Looking for someone to get along with, must be into fitness, be driven, fun, confident, and actually wants to meet up. Also, must be low to medium maintenance, I’ve dealt with enough psycho women for one life *laugh emoji*’ And if you mention the phrase ‘bonus points’, I hope you know that we are the ones judging you not the other way around.

7. It’s best to include as many talking points in your profile that Tinder will allow that are still quick and easy to read such as, your age, work/study, education, and interests. So maybe you’ll be able to text something other than ‘hey’ because as most women are very aware, y’all are not a fan of that but seem to expect a response back when you do it.

8. Try to write a cute/funny line – even if it’s objectively not that funny, we’ll still appreciate the effort and the fact that you haven’t used the age-old one liners that are filled with sexual innuendos and immediately make us feel uncomfortable.