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CONTENTS
6 TASTE BUDS The Chintz Room: A Taste of History
20 FEATURE Artist Brian Reaume
30 FEATURE Q & A with Bianca Del Rio
8 SCENE Capital University’s Pride Scholarship Benefit
22 SCENE Cultural Arts Center’s collusion
32 COUPLE Tayo Clyburn & Tara Polansky
24 PERSPECTIVE Urban Pride … Moving Forward
34 UPCOMING The Yes List: 6 April Events
25 SCENE Kate Bornstein’s OSU Visit
36 SEXPERT Need To Know Basis
26 DEVELOPMENT car2go Columbus Expands
37 ANNIVERSERY Quorum Celebrates Our Second Year
10 MOVIES Matthew Shepard: Martyr and Friend 12 STYLE Wild Night! Good Morning! 16 BARTENDER Meryl Scarton, Slammers 18 FROM THE ARCHIVES Berenice Abbott: Behind the Lens
28 SINGULARLY SINGLETON Brightening My Own Path 29 SARA SHARES Fandom, Representation & Pleasing Everyone
41 ADJOURN Progress: 2005 to 2015 – Elyzabeth Holford
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| MICKEY J. HART Welcome to our second anniversary issue. I’m proud that we have been able to celebrate Columbus’ LGBTQA community and the city in a way that has entertained, enlightened and engaged readers over the past two years. From day one, I asked the writer to “tell me a story” with each column. Telling the stories of the LGBTQA community is important in changing hearts and minds outside of and within the community. The storytelling continues. We feature local gay artist Brain Reaume. Jeffrey Wise tells his story and Ray Lavoie shares photos from the opening of Reaume’s current exhibit with Chad Cochran at the Cultural Arts Center. We also feature Chad Stoffan’s Q&A with Bianca Del Rio about her comedy show coming to Columbus this spring. Amy Tannenbaum presents the story of Tayo Clyburn and Tara Polansky’s relationship. Thomas McClure presents a night and day style guide. Clayton Walter previews Michele Josue’s moving documentary about her friend Matthew Shepard. Adrian Neil-Hobson catches us up on the work of Columbus Urban Pride. Kari Jasinski documents the Kate Bornstein event at OSU. Elyzabeth Holford, executive director of Equality Ohio, wraps up our anniversary issue with a reflection on the statewide organization’s 10 year anniversary. Creating a magazine is a collaborative undertaking. As editor I see the care and commitment of the entire crew and our many contributors. I send a heartfelt thank you to everyone who contributed to the first two years of Quorum Columbus. As I announced in our March issue, this will be my last issue as editor. I am stepping down to focus on another creative pursuit: Making art. While I will no longer be at the helm, I plan to contribute to future issues. Serving as the founding editor has been an incredible and rewarding experience! On behalf of the entire crew, I send a special thanks to our readers and supporters for joining the Quorum. Year three starts now. Mickey J. Hart Editor mickey@quorumcolumbus.com
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THE TASTE BUDS
| CRAIG CHADWELL & MIKE MOFFO WE WALKED INTO The Chintz Room on High Street with much anticipation. The revolving doors spun and we escaped the rainy, wintry mess to find the illustrious Beverly Ford sacheting from behind the bar. (If you don’t know who Beverly Ford is then shame on you, new gay. Read the history books. She’s in there.) And she started our evening flawlessly. Simply being at The Chintz Room is delving into Columbus history with its décor collected from the The Ohio Theatre, Southern Theater and The Neil House Hotel. (Google that last one if you are not familiar...now that’s history!) There are, of course, also items from the old Lazarus Department Store in which The Chintz Room is located. The Lazarus theme carries into some of the signature drinks. What? You’re surprised we jumped right into discussing booze? Themed cocktails include:The Ladies Luncheon Lemonade (vodka martini with lemon, basil and blueberry puree), The Escalator (Lemon-infused gin, St Germain and lime), and The 5th Floor (rye whiskey, muddled blueberry, lime and ginger ale). Not into cocktails? Check out their great microbrew selection! Going straight from drinks to desserts – hey, who among us has never done that – there are more carry-overs from the original 5th Floor Lazarus Chintz Room. If you’re over 30 you may recall the trademark Blueberry Cheesecake with sour cream topping and blueberry compote. Now back then we didn’t know what in the heck “compote” was, but they’ve got the recipe. There is also the original-recipe Bourbon Bread Pudding. If you’re there with the one you love it’s time for splitskies!
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“Come Hither” (as their menu suggests) into the world of appetizers. There are two that are must-haves. The House Croquettes are deep-fried balls of magic in spinach-artichoke or buffalo chicken. We suggest a few of each. Our other favorite gave us trouble. You see, the Hot Onion Dip came with house-grilled bread that was perfectly done and a great compliment. Unfortunately we could only manage to pile the onion dip on about an inch high before it ran over the sides. And it wasn’t quite appropriate to drink the dip or have it as soup. Alas, we easily managed to finish every bit of the captivating “appeteaser.” One of us – we’ll never say who – actually licked the dish to get the last bit. The menu overall is middle to upscale and definitely full of variety. From a Double-Decker Club Sandwich, to Alfredo Bacon Chicken Sausage Pizza, to an Open-Faced Eggplant Sandwich, to Filet Mignon, there is something for every sized appetite and every type of palate. Taste Bud Mike opted for the house specialty Chintz Burger, which is topped with a fried egg, grilled capicola, sautéed onions and spicy aioli. There were moans and “mmmm’s” abound and the portion was a little too much to finish. Perfection! Craig opted for the Grilled Keta Salmon with capers and housemade lemon dill sauce. As one would expect from the upscale-casual feel of the entire place, The Chintz Room is not above calling the salmon’s side dish simply “grilled veggies.” The Chintz Room truly is an impressive stroll into Columbus history in a very nouveau chic environment. The service, drinks and food were all perfectly in line with what we had hoped for: Something casual upscale with reasonable pricing in a great setting. So as you might expect, The Taste Buds quite tastefully give four thumbs up to our tastings at The Chintz Room.
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MOVIES
Matthew Shepard Martyr and Friend
| CLAYTON WALTER EVERY SOCIAL MOVEMENT is defined by and remembered for its watershed moments, fearless leaders and – most tragically – martyrs along the way. One of the defining moments of the long journey toward equality for sexual minorities was the horrific murder of Matthew Shepard in Laramie, Wyoming in 1998. Though it was far from an isolated incident, the sheer brutality of Shepard’s death made it headline news, and served as a catalyst for greater activism, awareness and outcry from the queer community and its allies. The road to equality is paved with blood, sweat and tears, the outpouring of which becomes stronger in light of such events. In the wake of his death, Matthew Shepard became an unlikely icon. He lived a fairly ordinary life, albeit in some pretty extraordinary places (he lived abroad for many years before returning to his native Wyoming to resume his studies). He was compassionate, friendly, self-confident, nervous and flawed, just like anyone can be at times. The tragedy of his death raised his profile, making him a rallying point for people who were sick of being treated as second-class citizens and who were fed up with being persecuted and attacked for who they are.
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The impact of Shepard’s death was huge, resulting in new legislation and the establishment of a foundation in his name by his mother. But even with that legacy, Matthew Shepard is no longer a household name. Few names from headlines a decade and a half ago remain as familiar now. Today’s ceaseless news cycle all but guarantees any event is only in the public consciousness for a moment before the next viral video or celebrity gossip washes it away, only to be sporadically remembered in the days, months and years to come. Older stories become increasingly buried in a pile of quickly forgotten news. With her deeply felt documentary Matthew Shepard is a Friend of Mine, Michele Josue seeks to remind people of what happened to Shepard, but, more so, to restore his humanity. He’s an icon, yes. What happened to him matters. But Josue wants people to see Shepard for who he was before he became a headline. The film serves as a moving eulogy not to the tragic victim of a hate crime, but to a vibrant human being who touched many lives, and who would’ve touched many more had his life not been unfairly cut short. Shepard’s friends, family members and teachers are candid in interviews and Shepard himself gets a say in the form of various notes, letters and videos revealing a goofy, kind kid who grew into a thoughtful, caring man.
THE ROAD TO EQUALITY IS PAVED WITH BLOOD, SWEAT AND TEARS. As one would expect, it’s a tough, emotional film to watch. After so many years the wounds are still fresh for those who knew Shepard, but there must be some catharsis in committing these memories to film and sharing their loved one with people who only knew him as the bloodied man tied to the fence and left for dead. Matthew Shepard is a Friend of Mine is as close as most of us will ever get to counting him as a friend of ours and effectively reminds us that just because the news fades from our awareness, doesn’t mean it ceases to matter, especially to those most closely touched by tragedy.
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Berenice Abbo | TOM QUEEN “PEABODY HERE. Today, we’re going to set the Gayback Machine to the year 1898, and the town of Springfield, Ohio. There, on July 17th, a little girl named Bernice Abbott is born, who would grow up to become one of the most important photographers of the twentieth century.” Bernice was raised in Springfield by her single mother. After graduating from high school she moved to Columbus to attend OSU. After one year the lure of the Bohemian life caused her to drop out and head to New York City. Soon after arriving in Manhattan she moved in with a group of “artsy fartsy types” (including writer Djuna Barnes and philosopher Kenneth Burke) who shared a communal apartment in Greenwich Village. At first she pursued a career in journalism, but after meeting the likes of Man Ray and Marcel Duchamp (both who lived in Paris and were founders of the DADA art movement) a move to Europe transpired and her life took a decidedly different turn.
MANY CONSIDER HER TO BE THE DEFINING PHOTOGRAPHER OF NEW YORK CITY. Upon arriving in Paris in 1921, Bernice changed the spelling of her name to Berenice (the French equivalent) to coincide with her newfound life there. At first she studied sculpture, but after working as a darkroom assistant to Man Ray (the American expatriate and avant-garde photographer) she soon “took to photography like a duck to water. I never wanted to do anything else.” Man Ray allowed her the use of his studio to take photographs, and by 1926 she had exhibited her work in a solo show.
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In 1927 she opened her own studio where she became well known as a portrait photographer. Most notably, she photographed some of the leading members of the Parisian gay, lesbian and bisexual community, including the artist Thelma Wood (a former lover) and filmmaker Jean Cocteau. She photographed the noted Parisian photographer Eugene Atget. Upon his death soon after Abbott acquired a number of Atget’s original negatives from his estate, including his groundbreaking work focusing on everyday life in Paris. On a foray back to Manhattan in 1929 to pitch the idea of a book of Atget’s photographs, Abbott fell in love with the city all over again and chose to move back. She put aside the portrait work and decided to focus on the city itself. Many consider her to be the defining photographer of New York City. Her large body of work records a period of time when New York was booming and becoming one of the most important cities in the world. In the early 1930’s she met the art critic Elizabeth McCausland (nicknamed “Butchy” by Abbott), who she moved in with soon after. They remained together until McCausland’s passing in 1965. Abbott moved to Maine in 1968 where she remained for the rest of her life. Oddly, she distanced herself from her lesbian past, essentially denying any involvement with women whatsoever. She died in 1991.
ott Abbott’s body of work contains some of the most iconic images of New York City and some of the most important artistic and literary figures of 1920’s Paris. Her passion for photography includes inventions such as the telescoping light pole, known by today’s studio photographers as an autopole. In Abbott’s own words, “Photography can never grow up and stand on its own two feet, if it imitates primarily some other medium.” There are several books available which contain some of Abbott’s most important photographs, including Changing New York, A Portrait of Maine and Berenice Abbott: Photographs.
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Brian Reaume: Inspiration, Memories and Shelter
| JEFFREY WISE INSPIRATION IS THE driving force behind any great work and Brian Reaume is brimming with it. Growing up in rural Michigan set the stage for Brian’s love of art and his passion for bringing new life into the structures bedeviled with decay strewn about the rural countryside. It is particularly in the change of light as the day evolves from morning to midday to night that affects how the barns speak to him. This daily transformation, along with the ongoing degradation of these structures time imposes, moved him into expressing their presence in the abstract. Brian explains, “I give these structures a continuation of their stories; they have to speak to me, but once they do, their story is continued on in my art.” Brian started painting early in his life. His first canvases were old wooden doors and other objects one would find on any country farm. His passion is expressed through these salvaged pieces. His art is the new life he breathes into them. It was not a part of Brian’s original plan to come to Columbus. As with many other artists, he had the dream of making it big in New York City. Before moving to the Big Apple, Brian was asked by his brother to stay with him in Columbus for a year. In turn, Brian found a new home and new sources for inspiration that kept his creativity flowing. Brian’s first show was an unexpected opportunity. One day while Brian was at the original Union location, a buddy of his (who was a manager) got a call from an artist scheduled for a show in two weeks’ time. The artist cancelled, leaving Union without an artist for the upcoming show. Brian offered to take his place. It was a challenge, but he pulled it off; his work featured wooden doors painted in abstract art. The show was a hit and the reception of his art was a needed positive reinforcement for him to pursue art further in Columbus. Hurricane Katrina slammed into the Gulf Coast of Louisiana, Mississippi and Alabama in August 2005. When Brian heard the extent of the damage caused by the storm he immediately went to Louisiana to try to help with the cleanup efforts.
He called all of the organizations who were there for the recovery efforts to offer his help. He was turned away by all the major organizations until a small Baptist church accepted his help in Tylertown. He stayed for two weeks and worked in the kitchen, feeding the hungry and sometimes displaced people who were there. Brian’s passion for the idea of shelter and the necessity of it was deepened by his post Katrina experiences. Brian very purposely uses the term shelter, rather than house or home. Brian shares, “We need shelter. The idea of necessity has changed and become a status symbol. The idea of these shelters, I am kind of working off the necessity of it...The point that you start guarding your shelter is when it becomes a home. These shelters are at the end of their road. I give them a last voice, a final purpose.” Brian’s life is full of passion and it shows in how he lives, how he expresses himself and how he loves his family. Brian has a five year-old son who he has raised with his son’s two mothers. Brian’s son is one of his main inspirations and has even been the source of some of his ideas for his art. His current exhibit, entitled collusion, is at the Cultural Arts Center until April 10th. As a part of this show he built miniature shelters. Brian’s son asked what they are for and his response was, “They hold people’s memories.” The question inspired the design of the miniature shelters to include slots for people to put their own memories into the tiny structures, allowing their purpose to be so expressed. For collusion, Brian collaborated with photographer Chad Cochran. The two artists worked simultaneously but separately. Chad’s work is intertwined with Brian’s for the show. Without any consultation, Chad photographed the structures that spoke to him and Brian took those photographs and breathed new life into them by allowing them to speak to him and expressing that in his art. Brian only used the ones which spoke to him and created his art from it. Brian’s inspiration is evident in his life and his work. Not only does he push the limits of art in our city, but he is an incredible addition to our community. If you have time before the 10th, be sure to check out his work at the Cultural Arts Center downtown to witness his talent first-hand.
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PERSPECTIVE
| ADRIAN NEIL-HOBSON AS I HAVE WRITTEN BEFORE, every now and then I like to use this platform to highlight various people and organizations and this month I will highlight Columbus Urban Pride. Columbus Urban Pride was founded in 2012 by a small group of local community leaders. These leaders came together in an effort to organize culturally competent social and educational events for LGBTQ people of color during Columbus Pride in June. Unlike other cities, such as Atlanta, Chicago and Washington D.C., Columbus did not have a Pride specific to LGBTQ people of color until the creation of Columbus Urban Pride. Before that there wasn’t anything that celebrated the LGBTQ community of color nor were there any LGBTQ community of color specific educational and informative events. This group of leaders saw that as a problem and decided to change it. People may question why there needs to be separate pride. For me it’s simple: LGBTQ people of color face challenges that are unique to them. Not only are we dealing with homophobia, but we are also dealing with race issues and discrimination due to race. We are disproportionately affected when it comes HIV, poverty, education and more. It’s imperative that there are events that speak to the LGBTQ community of color. Last year members of Columbus Urban Pride came together and strategized about how to move forward with the program. Out of the strategic meeting it was decided that there would be an executive committee that would oversee C.U.P. The executive committee is made of five leaders, including myself. Each member is in charge of their own subcommittees (social, education, spiritual and financial). One of the biggest changes taking place is the fact that C.U.P. will be doing events all year that cater to the LGBTQ community of color. Events will range from networking events, socials, community conversations, community service and more. This will allow C.U.P. to better serve the community.
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Another goal of C.U.P. is to become a 501(c)(3) in an effort to stick with the new mission statement, which is to provide a safe space for the celebration of racial diversity while empowering, building community and providing resources within the LGBTQ communities in Greater Columbus. In an effort to reach this goal C.U.P. will be hosting our first fundraiser event. The Columbus Urban Pride Variety Benefit Show will feature drag queens, drag kings, dancers, spoken word artists and more. The fundraiser will be held at Axis Night Club on April 10th from 7pm to 10pm. TIckets can be purchasedby going to columbusurbanpride.org/events. For more information about Columbus Urban Pride and how to become involved email ColumbusUrbanPride@gmail.com or visit the website ColumbusUrbanPride.org.
PEOPLE MAY QUESTION WHY THERE NEEDS TO BE SEPARATE PRIDE. FOR ME IT’S SIMPLE: LGBTQ PEOPLE OF COLOR FACE CHALLENGES THAT ARE UNIQUE TO THEM.
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| JM RAYBURN MORE YOUNG AMERICANS are forgoing the dream of car ownership for public transport, bikes and car-sharing. Smartphones and other technologies have made this shift in transportation preferences possible. It’s an example of the rise of the sharing economy, where accessibility is valued more than ownership. The sharing economy has taken root in Columbus through several companies like Uber, Airbnb and car2go (which launched in October 2013). The Columbus car2go operation boasts 300 smart cars that can be accessed 24/7 without committing to specific return time or location. Instead, the company’s fleet is scattered throughout a defined service area and each car is rented by the minute. As a member of car2go myself, it’s been a handy addition to the mix of transportation options I use, especially for one-way trips downtown. The company is now taking their commitment a step further in the Columbus market: car2go memberships for businesses.
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SINGULARLY SINGLETON
| SILE SINGLETON IN THE CHRISTIAN world the season of Lent starts on Ash Wednesday (February 18 this year) which is the day after Mardi Gras’ Fat Tuesday and it ends on Easter Sunday (April 4 this year). Lent lasts 40 days excluding Sundays, in accordance with Christian culture’s already preordained holy worship days. The idea behind Lent is to simplify everyday living into a time of little distractions and much reflective thought. Ash Wednesday is about thinking intentionally about “from whence we came, our vulnerable nature and that hope reigns supreme.” One is supposed to take the reminder of the “mark of the ashes” and ponder the negative temptations in life, make some soul stretching decisions about how to manage those unhealthy distractions in a way that grows the emotional, personal, physical, and spiritual self for the betterment of the total being. Many folks I know stop eating chocolate or cut out soda or join a gym or buy a bike or make a deal with themselves to volunteer more or eat less fried food. While these are challenging choices I often wonder, especially on Easter when the chocoholics are demolishing those bunny ears and Church’s fried okra (maybe that’s just my family) makes its way back on the Sunday-after-church dinner menu, what significant change and growth has occurred?
I COULD DO WITH A DOSE OF HOPE AND POSITIVE GROWTH ON A VARIETY OF LEVELS. Is it just a “I’m good Jesus lover” move, something to cut the guilt? Kinda like calling mom or dad on Mother’s and Father’s Day? You know, where you basically just say hello, have some quick conversation because that’s what a “grateful child“ does and then feign a heavy work load so you can get off the phone or get to back your “real life.” Or is the person truly better for it? I don’t know.
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What I do know is given what seems like an onslaught of strife, hate and social injustice swirling around me, I could do with a dose of hope and positive growth on a variety of levels. So this year for Lent I chose to just meet the eyes of every person who crosses my path and smile. I greet them with a, “hello or g’day…” something kind. I’m not worrying if they don’t respond or they look at me like I’m crazy (could be) or “say blow it out your butt.” I am practicing intentionally putting “light” in the world and I believe it will brighten my own path. There are days I just want to know anybody cares. There are days when the smallest wisp of kindness changes the trajectory of a crappy week. My belief is at the end of the 40 days of Lent, there will be 40 days more and maybe, just maybe there will be a better me.
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| SARA ERNEST I LOVE A GOOD STORY. Disappearing into the universe created by an author, screenwriter, playwright, choreographer or graphic novelist can be entertaining and fulfilling. A wellcrafted story can be an escape and a place of belonging. I read books and watch TV shows and movies because I want to see someone else’s interpretation of life. If I can find an interpretation that mirrors my own I can relate, and if I’m feeling particularly out of place I can be reminded that there are other people out there like me. Over the past few years I have come to realize how important these stories are and how much some people depend on the community that develops among a given fandom surrounding a story. Simply put, fandom, is a term used to refer to a subculture composed of fans characterized by a feeling of empathy and camaraderie with others who share a common interest (according to Wikipedia). For the sake of this piece I will focus on TV fandoms. A hotly debated topic among some fandoms is one known as “queer baiting.” In the state of modern TV, LGBTQ couples and characters are finally becoming more prevalent. TV writers are becoming more responsible in their inclusion and representation of queer characters but they still have a long way to go. Many times it feels like the writers don’t really understand the story they are trying to tell, but other times it feels like they are exploiting it.
Queer baiting moves past this phenomena into storylines and arcs that are no longer just reserved for ratings, but taunt us throughout the show runner’s entire storytelling process. Many times we find characters that we identify as queer, who sometimes even self-identify as queer, who constantly fall short of receiving the satisfaction of the acknowledgment of their story. Some people argue that the creative team is just telling a story and they see the characters a little differently than a segment of their fandom. This may be the case. Who is to say? It seems to me, based on the under-representation of LGBTQ characters on TV, that those fans are probably not far off. What other explanation could there be for the number of near misses we see or the amount of relationships that exist only in the subtext of a show? I understand and agree that it is up to the creators, writers and directors of any given show to present their stories as they see fit and, as my partner reminded me while we were discussing this piece, they can’t please everyone all of the time. I don’t however, think it’s too much to ask that every once in a while, rather than taunting their queer audiences, they might provide us with more realistic and representative storylines.
A HOTLY DEBATED TOPIC AMONG SOME FANDOMS IS ONE KNOWN AS “QUEER BAITING.” Let’s recall the days when we only saw same sex couples kiss during sweeps, shall we? Even when they did, more often than not the couples we saw kissing were women. Whether it was strictly for the titillation factor, or viewers’ refusal to acknowledge that couples were also made up of two men it’s hard to say, but it seems to me that this is indicative of our willingness to accept less than we deserve when it comes to our representation in our favorite stories.
Editor’s Note: Designer Patrick adds, “The Doctor might say that Queer characters are almost as cool as bow ties and fezzes, but I’m just guessing.”
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Q & A with Bianca Del Rio
PHOTOS | MAGNUS HASTINGS
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| CHAD STOFFAN WHEN THE SIXTH SEASON of RuPaul’s Drag Race began, it was clear that Roy Haylock, best known as Bianca del Rio, was a front runner. Del Rio was a strong competitor from the start, stomping the competition and excelling in challenge after challenge, ultimately winning the crown and the $100,000 prize.
Del Rio’s razor-sharp humor and lightning-fast wit cut deep, especially when she tackles racial issues and stereotypes. She is an equal opportunist, meaning no one is safe from her facetiously discriminatory banter. She makes sure she lands a joke at everyone’s expense. She is utterly original and a staple in the NYC club scene with her wicked tongue, snappy comebacks, witty repartee and eclectic style. The New York Times called her “The Joan Rivers of the Drag World.”
Q: Where does the Wild World of RuPaul’s Drag Race have you today? BDR: I’m in Springfield, MO, and it’s cool and not freezing, so it’s pleasant.
Q: What would you say was your favorite moment from RuPaul’s Drag Race, aside from winning of course? BDR: Wow, I think it was nice to get to be in the company of Ru. Not Ru the Glamazon or Ru behind the Judges table but, Ru. People don’t realize that it’s more than just the 2 minutes that you see on TV of Ru in the workroom. We have conversations and chit-chat and share input on things. I learned a lot from Ru as a person. I’m sure we’ve all heard stories from other queens, but when you are there she’s really hands on with the show which I didn’t expect. Ya know? She really didn’t have to care but she does. It was nice a nice surprise for me. Not that I believed any of the stories I heard (Ha-ha). Ru and Michelle were great to be in their company. A lot that they had to offer was very helpful. For me, I’ve been around forever, and I thought I knew everything. You get stuck in the rut of “You” and you just assume that’s how it works. So, it was nice to get the criticism, or just the conversations with them.
Q: Did you wear your short shorts today? BDR: Oh, God, No. No No No No. Q: Who is your drag Icon? BDR: I really don’t have one. I kinda like a mixture of everyone. There’s an amazing performer named Charles Pierce, who I loved. She’s very, very funny and was someone I always admired. Of course, Lady Bunny. I like bits and pieces of everybody, not just necessarily drag. So, even Ru. I love the Glamour look and costumes, but that was never really my aesthetic. I appreciate all of those and luckily I’ve been able to work with people like Coco Peru and Jackie Beat, both brilliantly funny and smart, that are Pre-Drag Race and a lot of these queens don’t know about, which is kinda sad. These are people that have been working forever and are genius, but in a day of Social Media, people assume Drag Race is the only Drag. Which there is so much more to it. Q: What is your favorite show to binge watch? BDR: I don’t really watch any new shows but, of course, Golden Girls. I’ve seen every episode there is and can recite all of it and I still laugh hysterically. I can’t really get hooked on anything new because I’m always on the road and the hotels never have more than 3 stations, so it never really works out for me. I usually end up on Lifetime. Q: Who would play Bianca del Rio in the Lifetime Original Movie about your life? BDR: Shannon Dougherty. Not because she’s like me, but because she needs the work. Q: What song do you think should play as you walk into the room? BDR: The “Wicked Witch of the West” Theme from Wizard of Oz.
Q: What’s next for Bianca Del Rio? BDR: I’m currently doing my own show called Rolodex of Hate, which is two shows a night, mostly an hour and a half of me talking. Q: Well Bianca, it was a pleasure. Thank you for your time. We look forward to seeing you for your Columbus, Ohio, showing of “Rolodex of Hate” on Friday May 1. Here’s a tip from me to you: When a cop asks you why your speech is slurred, just say you are speaking cursive. BDR: (Haha) Thank you, Baby. See you then.
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Tayo Clyburn & Tara Polansky | AMY TANNENBAUM AS GRADUATE STUDENTS at OSU, Tara and Tayo first crossed paths when they both served on the staff of one of the university’s summer institutes. Tayo was the coordinator of the program when the program’s director recommended Tara as an ideal candidate for the teaching team. At the time Tara, a ceramic artist, was out of town doing a residency at a brick factory. No cell phone signal meant she was impossible to reach in the weeks leading up to the first meeting of the teaching team. Tayo was worried that Tara had lost interest in the job, but was intrigued when he heard of what was keeping her: “I just knew she was going to show up to our first meeting in a flannel shirt in overalls,” he says. When their meeting finally did happen, Tara appeared to be nothing like Tayo’s expectations. “When I walked into the café and she stood up to shake my hand, I was a little dazed by how beautiful she was,” admits Tayo. “I tried to be professional, but I definitely found myself rambling from time to time.” That day happened to be Tayo’s 30th birthday, and Tara was surprised he was having a work meeting. “I remember thinking that Tayo was very warm, and I wanted to spend more time with him,” recalls Tara. Tara and Tayo’s meeting was special – they were engaged in a project together that they were both very passionate about.
Tara and Tayo had a much larger religious ceremony in Columbus for their friends and family. “The second ceremony was different because it was about telling Tara’s family and friends that they could count on me to love her and take good care of her,” says Tayo. “For me the Columbus wedding was also about introducing Tayo to my larger community, extended family and framily, friends who have known me since way back when, and having them welcome him as part of our family, too,” says Tara. “It was like a big welcome party.” Planning two weddings gave Tayo and Tara the opportunity to share meaningful conversations with each other. They each come from very different backgrounds and traditions. “There isn’t really a template for Jewish/African American/ queer weddings,” says Tayo. Tara adds, “We couldn’t take a single ritual for granted. We developed ceremonies that were intimate, personal and deeply meaningful.” “I think what makes a really great wedding is when you have two people who are going to live happy and healthy lives together, and for this reason, I think we had two really, really great weddings,” says Tara. The next chapter of their lives is around the corner
There isn’t really a template for Jewish/African American/queer weddings,” says Tayo. Tara adds, “We couldn’t take a single ritual for granted.” “It was a perfect foundation for our relationship,” says Tara. Their relationship started professionally, quickly developing into a close friendship before turning romantic just over a year later. When they took their friendship to the next level it was because they both agreed (and had an unspoken agreement for some time) that they were going to spend the rest of their lives together. The next step was presenting that to their families and loved ones – in the form of two separate wedding celebrations. “We had two weddings because same-sex marriage isn’t legal in the state of Ohio, and it was very important to me that we be legally married,” explains Tayo. “For me, our first marriage was a way to communicate to my family in particular how sacred and special our relationship is, and it was important to me that they get it.” Tara and Tayo were legally married in a small, beautiful ceremony in Massachusetts, in Tara’s parents’ backyard.
as they prepare to welcome a child in June. They are deep in nesting mode, trying to be ready for her. “I’m surprised by how fun pregnancy is,” says Tara. “Even any uncomfortable symptoms I might have are just a reminder of this wonderful thing that we have to look forward to.” Tayo enthusiastic feeling: “Everyday I’m amazed that I love someone so much who I haven’t even met yet.” All along their journey together and as they look forward to what the future brings, Tara and Tayo find themselves on the same wavelength, always laughing. Tayo describes their relationship as “best friends who laugh together.” Before they got together, Tara thought that relationships by definition had to involve a lot of difficult compromise. She says, “I’ve learned from our time together that compromise doesn’t feel like giving anything up when you’re both on the same team.”
UPCOMING
THE YES LIST: Featuring 6 Not-To-Be-Missed Columbus Events in April
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Equality Ohio’s Volunteer Nights Contribute to EO’s 10 years of work to win full equality in Ohio.
Nina West 1978 Enjoy Nina, Virginia and others in a spring party where anything can happen.
Columbus Urban Pride’s Benefit Variety Show Featuring some of the best in spoken word, drag, music, dance and more.
AIDS Walk Central Ohio Join 2,000 walkers and runners to raise $300,000 for ARC Ohio.
An Evening with David Sedaris Don’t miss this chance to laugh along with a favorite queer humorist.
Race to Eliminate Sexual Violence 5K Run/Walk Don’t Stand-by. Stand Up! Help raise funds and awareness. Sunday, April 19 9:00 a.m. Wolfe Park, Bexley $30+
Say Yes, Columbus: Tweet your ideas to @QuorumColumbus and use #YesListColumbus
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ENTERTAIN ENLIGHTEN ENGAGE
SEXPERT
| JOHN HENRY, JR HONESTY HAS ALWAYS been a central focus of this column. Over the past year and a half I have encouraged readers to be honest with themselves and their partners about their past, their needs and their desires. Open and meaningful conversations can foster trust and protect you and those you care about from many issues that could affect your mental and physical health. This month I want to encourage everyone to be honest with another important person in your life: Your doctor. While coming out to your health care provider may seem like an incredibly daunting task, it is extremely important. LGBTQ individuals have unique health concerns that may be overlooked by a provider who is unaware of your sexual orientation or gender identity. Health care should be individualized and address a person as a whole. Without complete and accurate information it is impossible to provide the highest quality of care. Still, many LGBTQ people do not feel comfortable coming out to their doctors due to a number of factors. The fears of judgment and confidentiality concerns are real things to consider. While not everyone is in an immediate position to switch their doctor, I would make that transition as soon as possible. If you truly feel that your physician lacks cultural competency or ethical standards, you should feel empowered to find a new doctor.
YOUR SEXUAL AND SOCIAL LIFE PLAYS A SIGNIFICANT ROLE IN YOUR OVERALL WELL-BEING.
ABOUT THE LGBTQ HEALTH INITIATIVE: The initiative was created to address gaps in care and issues of health inequity within gender and sexually diverse communities. LGBTQ people face a vast range of significant health disparities worse than other groups. While some are a result of behavior, most are linked to social and institutional inequities resulting from homophobia and discrimination. Key Areas: -Cultural Competency Training Program for health care professionals to create more safe places. -Greater Columbus LGBTQ Health Coalition made up of health care providers, caregivers, community leaders, organizations and allies. -Health Promotion and Prevention to promote healthy lifestyle choices with programs geared toward LGBTQ communities.
Others feel that their personal lives are just that: Personal. While I agree with this statement for the most part, when it comes to your health your personal life is a factor. Your sexual and social life plays a significant role in your overall wellbeing. If you are looking for a doctor or health care provider who is LGBTQ friendly, there are a number of great resources. Locally, The LGBTQ Health Initiative at Columbus Public Health and Stonewall Columbus are two great places to start your search. Being open with your doctor or finding a physician who is accepting and knowledgeable of LGBTQ health care needs is the first step to a healthier you. 36
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LOCAL & STATE ORGANIZATIONS Stonewall Columbus 614-299-7764 www.stonewallcolumbus.org The leading visionary, inclusive and fun-spirited LGBT organization in Central Ohio – sets the pace for increasing the visibility and acceptance of the community. It continues to be the driving force on LGBT issues and our Center is the first stop for many in the LGBT and allied community. ARC Ohio 800-252-0827 www.arcohio.org Fghts the spread of HIV, works towards reducing its transmission, stigma and the resulting discrimination through education and awareness, and provides quality services to individuals and families affected by HIV/AIDS. BRAVO (Buckeye Region Anti-Violence Organization) 614-294-STOP www.bravo-ohio.org Works to eliminate violence perpetuated on the basis of sexual orientation and/or gender identification through prevention, advocacy, violence documentation and survivor services. Equality Ohio 614-224-0400 www.equalityohio.org A statewide lobbying organization working to secure equality for LGBT Ohioans. Kaleidoscope Youth Center 614-294-5437 www.kycohio.org Provides advocacy, education, support and a safe environment for LGBT youth in Central Ohio. P-FLAG Columbus 614-806-8025 www.pflagcolumbus.org An educational advocacy group working to increase awareness and understanding. Education and advocacy are the primary means of creating a hospitable environment for Central Ohio’s LGBT citizens and our families, friends and allies. Rainbow Sisters www.rainbowsisters.info A social and community-oriented group for lesbian women age 40 and over. Sisters of Lavender www.sistersoflavender.org A social/support for women 40 and over. S.O.L. is the oldest lesbian organization in Columbus. TransOhio 614-441-8167 www.transohio.org Serves the Ohio transgender and allied communities by providing services, education, support and advocacy to promote and improve the health, safety and life experience of Ohio transgender individuals.
NATIONAL ORGAN1ZATIONS GLAAD www.glaad.org National organization that promotes fair, accurate and inclusive representation as a means of challenging discrimination based on sexual orientation or identity. Human Rights Campaign www.hrc.com The nation’s largest gay and lesbian political organization. NGLTF www.thetaskforce.org The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force (NGLTF) is a leading progressive civil rights organization that has supported grassroots organizing since 1973. The National Coalition for LGBT Youth www.outproud.org A wide range of resources available for youth and educators. The Queer Resources Directory www.qrd.org The QRD contains over 20,000 files about anything and everything queer including families, youth, politics, resources, media and more.
ARTS & MUSIC Capital Pride Band of Columbus 614-325-1590 www.cappride.org An Ohio-based LGBT organization that formed in 2003 and currently has a membership of over 70 instrumentalists.Our "all are welcome" policy applies to anyone interested in membership, regardless of race, color, creed, religion, national origin, sex, disability, age and sexual orientation. Columbus Gay Men’s Chorus 614-228-2462 www.ColumbusGayMensChorus.com Singing out since 1990, this chorus presents a series of concerts year. Open auditions held prior to rehearsal for each show. Evolution Theatre Company 614-233-1124 www.evolutiontheatre.org A semi-professional theatre company that presents musicals, dramas and comedies that have not been seen in the area before. Recent Off-Broadway and Broadway shows as well as new works and world premieres at an affordable price! Imagine Productions 614-398-1110 www.imaginecolumbus.com Imagine Productions is a non-profit community theatrical troupe committed to entertaining and educating community stakeholders in the Columbus Metro area through performing arts. We believe in inclusiveness, openness, and tolerance, and recognize that empowerment and growth occurs with audiences and performers, alike. Wexner Center for the Arts 614-292-3535 www.wexarts.org Internationally known contemporary arts center at
Ohio State, offering visual arts, performing arts, film, and educational programs, as well as a store and a café (Heirloom), all under one roof in an architectural landmark. COUNSELING Randi Cohen, LPCC-S 614-267-1993 www.randicohen.com Private practice in counseling working with adults helping to create strong sense of self, good communication tools & to get a clearer sense of how others see you, by focusing on awareness and working in the present. Shawn D. King, PhD., LISW 614-655-3554 www.shawnkingphd.com Providing individual, family, and group counseling services to the LGBT community. Specializing in relationship issues, anger management and mental health services including anxiety and depression. HEALTH & WELLNESS CHOICES 614-224-4663 www.choicescolumbus.org Takes pride in being the premier direct service provider of accredited domestic violence programming in central Ohio. Since 1977 they have provided counseling, shelter, crisis intervention, education and community and legal support and advocacy to central Ohio residents facing domestic violence. The Crystal Club 614-214-4828 www.thecrystalclub.org A non-profit support group for crossdressers, transsexuals, female impersonators, and other transgender individuals. Huckleberry House 614-294-5553 www.huckhouse.org Established in 1970 to provide a safe place for runaway youth in Columbus. Today, it provides many programs to help teens all over Franklin County who are in crisis situations, who are homeless or runaways. NetCare 614-276-CARE www.netcareaccess.org Provides twenty-four hour mental health and substance abuse crisis intervention, stabilization and assessment for Franklin County residents. Planned Parenthood of Central Ohio, Inc. 614-224-2235 www.plannedparenthood.org The nation's oldest and largest sexual and reproductive health care organization. America's most trusted name in women's health. Trevor Project 866-4U-TREVOR www.thetrevorproject.org Determined to end suicide among LGBT youth by providing life-saving and life-affirming resources including our nationwide, 24/7 crisis intervention lifeline.
PROGRESS: 2005 to 2015
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| Elyzabeth Holford THE VALUES OF OHIOIANS are clear. Dignity. Freedom. Equality. But when it comes to LGBTQ Ohioans these values have not always applied. About 10 years ago many Ohioans had at least a passing understanding of LGBTQ people, even if that was only through the filter of TV shows like Ellen and Will & Grace. But this didn’t ensure equality for the LGBTQ community. In fact, in 2004, the Ohio legislature passed its very own Defense of Marriage Act outlawing marriage between samesex couples. That law further purports to prohibit recognition of anything even resembling a marriage. On the heels of that legislative effort a group of well-funded Ohioans began a ballot campaign that resulted in the passage of an amendment enshrining marriage inequality into the Ohio constitution. Ohio activists quickly organized to resist this overt attack on fairness and justice. LGBTQ community members and allies met in family kitchens and church basements planning demonstrations, activating neighborhoods and combating hatred. They did everything they could, but it wasn’t enough. Ohio voters approved a marriage inequality amendment as did more than 30 other states. After the loss, LGBTQ activists and allies gathered from across the state. They realized that securing equality in Ohio would require the ability to cultivate local voices into organized, statewide power. In April of 2005, Equality Ohio was founded to reach the hearts and minds of Ohioans. The creation of a statewide network allowed local activists to learn from defeats and share successes. Cleveland could draw upon the experience of Coshocton. Columbus could learn from Toledo. And the landscape began changing. Even though Equality Ohio was started in the aftermath of the marriage inequality amendment battle, our founders knew that full, lived equality could not be achieved in Ohio without attending to state and local laws that govern our everyday lives at work, at home and at play.
We began partnering with local communities to lead campaigns for nondiscrimination ordinances. We communicated and collaborated to lift up domestic partnership registries. It wasn’t just the major metros that benefitted from these shared experiences; it was rural counties, towns and villages. Through it all, Equality Ohio continued to work with legislators to introduce statewide legislation to end LGBTQ discrimination in Ohio. And we are still going strong. In 2013, we began building the largest, multi-city infrastructure we have ever had for nondiscrimination. In the same year we formed Why Marriage Matters Ohio with local and national partners to move the hearts and minds of Ohioans forward. By the summer of 2014, we had over two-dozen staff with offices in four Ohio cities. Organizers and volunteers canvassed the entire state – at festivals, at events and at every single Pride. Each and every conversation has been grounded in love and kindness. Once people see, learn about and talk to a person who is LGBTQ, we become real to them. Our issues become personal. Intolerance becomes harder to sustain and shared values of dignity and fairness are easier to act on. We moved the needle. Nearly eight in 10 Ohioans now support nondiscrimination protections and 53 percent of Ohioans now support marriage equality. Unfortunately, the last legislative session ended without passage of a nondiscrimination bill. But we never thought it would be easy when we started down this path. We are building on the foundation that we established. This spring the Supreme Court will hear arguments on marriage equality, including two cases from Ohio. We’ll get a decision in the summer that could affect the whole country. We’ll be even closer to legal and lived equality in Ohio. Until then, let’s keep creating change together ... one heart, one mind at a time.
Elyzabeth Holford is the Executive Director of Equality Ohio. She began her career as a trial attorney with Ohio State Legal Services Association. Holford held various roles during a 12-year career in academia at Virginia Tech as a tenured associate professor, as director of the office of Equal Opportunity and Affirmative Action and as director of two separate campuses. She left academia to pursue international organizational consulting in the nonprofit and profit sectors. Holford said, “I feel fortunate to be returning home to Ohio at this pivotal moment in time. Ohio is poised to provide full rights and recognition to all of its citizens and Equality Ohio has the team and the capacity to lead this effort.” Holford also served on the leadership council for Gay Games 9 and as the board chair of Why Marriage Matters Ohio.
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