From top left: Nan Kempner (in white) kept the most fashionable company, including (lâr) Calvin Klein, Kelly Klein, Mikhail Baryshnikov, and Valentino; with
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Ahmet ErtegĂŒn; ever the model hostess; Kempnerâs book, R.S.V.P., benefitted the Society of Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center; with Oscar de la Renta.
Who came? Only a cherry-picked whoâs who of the international jet set, titans of Wall Street, a smattering of celebrated artists and designers, auction types, show folks, and anyone posh who happened to be in from the provinces. âWear whatever youâre already in,â said Nan, and nobody missed it. Wryly, she called the guest list a âdogâs dinner.â Bar none, Nan was the best hostess. A San Francisco native, she came to New York as a young bride in the mid-1950s, met everybody, and became an influential society figure, esteemed fund-raiser, renowned wit, beloved friend, style icon, indefatigable hostess, and talented party-goer. Michael Taylor did up the Kempnersâ glamorous Park Avenue duplex in 1958 with a groundbreaking, elegant mix of proper-meets-relaxed-California. Designed for parties, it was a series of grand, inviting public rooms whose
NANâS BACON STICKS
Yield: 12 sticks âą âą
Ingredients 12 medium-width grissini (Italian bread sticks) 12 slices bacon (not thick-cut)
Preparation ⹠Pre-heat the oven to 375° F. ⹠Wrap one slice of bacon neatly in a spiral fashion along each stick then place each stick in a grated roasting pan. Make sure the sticks are not touching one another. ⹠Bake for 25 to 30 minutes, until the bacon strips are brown and crisp, fully cooked through. ⹠Remove the pan from the oven and let sticks cool completely before serving.
formality was tempered by elements like corduroy-covered banquettes made for lounging. Nan and Michael wanted comfortâand camaraderieâto such a point that Nanâs own mother suggested the pitch of those banquettes might have been better suited to a bordello. It seems now like another worldâno one there was checking Uber notices or Instagram feedsâand I was lucky enough to go often. That apartment had timeless intrigue, and still does; built for a silent film star, thereâs even a faucet for Champagne in the bathtub. So Nan. Of all my favorite things Nan and Silvina served, with gratitude to both husbands, Tommy and Bernardoâwho made it all happenâthese bacon sticks may be my very favorite things. They couldnât be easier. Spaghetti Dinner or not, there was never any other hors dâoeuvre. Just like Nan was, theyâre chic. And razor-thin. u APRIL 2015 67