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Indeed, God has a better way
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The unfortunate truth is that there are people in and around Charlotte who, despite their stated goals, seek not to unite, but rather break apart communities. These folks, motivated by a “life-or-death” mission, seek to push LGBT people back into the closet and even into the grave — both literally and figuratively. Perhaps the most well-known are now-convicted stalker and street preacher Flip Benham and professional anti-gay malcontent Dr. Michael Brown of Concord’s FIRE Church and FIRE School of Ministry. In 2009, Brown sought to disrupt Pride Charlotte, the annual LGBT Pride festival here on whose organizing committee I sit this year, through his “God Has a Better Way” rally and campaign. Like Prides the world over, the day serves for LGBT people and their friends and families as a time to simply gather and celebrate their lives, loves, struggles, victories, culture, art and community. For Brown and his church, however, the event is nothing short of a call to battle — a sign of a “demonic agenda” that seeks to overtake the Queen City and the world. I covered Brown’s 2009 “Better Way” campaign extensively here at qnotes and at my personal blog in “On the Edge: Religious militancy in the Queen City” (interstateq.com/ archives/3708/), an in-depth report on the radically violent and militaristic religious rhetoric employed by Brown and his associate, evangelist Lou Engle. Often, Brown and Engle paint the political, social and religious disagreement over LGBT equality as a life-or-death battle and struggle against evil, demonic powers. Brown has challenged and refuted my claims that his words have the potential to inspire real acts of violence, saying that that he’s always clear about his words’ meanings. “[T]ime and again, any time I teach on the subject of homosexual activism, I state emphatically that gays and lesbians are not my enemies, that they are people loved by God, people for whom Jesus died, and that the only enemy we are fighting is the devil himself,” he wrote in response to the report. But, the conflation of Satan with LGBT people and our struggle for peace, equality and justice is, at its core, damaging to any prospect of truly peaceful outreach, especially considering Brown’s consistent use of “battlefield”
rhetoric. Where’s the line? At what point is an LGBT person merely a victim of this so-called “demonic agenda” and when does this concept of “enemy” and “foe” extend to include both Satan and those Brown or his followers might see as a player in some supernatural, Satanic game to overtake the world? For any rational and reasonable person, it might be difficult to understand how a protest of a peaceful LGBT community festival is akin to dying on a battlefield or, say, a martyred priest’s challenge to the Nazis. Yet, it is with such outrageous language that Brown has approached his second “Better Way” rally and protest at which he hopes to gather as many as 1,000 others to join him in “reaching out” and “resisting” LGBT people and our movement for justice. Brown’s campaign seems peaceful enough on its surface. I have little doubt that on the day of the festival it will be. Regardless, it remains utterly incumbent upon each of us to understand and be aware of the underlying impetus and motivation for Brown’s actions and words, which I’ve argued are dangerous and for which the line between allegory and actualization is unclear and largely unforeseeable with an ultimate potential to incite both hatred and violence against LGBT people. Brown’s inflammatory rhetoric continues to this day. More chilling, however, is the involvement of his colleague Engle in the African nation of Uganda. There, lawmakers have proposed legislation, dubbed the “Kill the Gays” bill by LGBT peoples around the globe, that would have imposed harsh prison sentences and capital punishment upon gay and lesbian citizens there. Despite telling American audiences he would not be supporting the radical bill, denounced by governments the world over, once in Uganda Engle stood on stage with the bill’s sponsor and anti-gay religious leaders and gave his blessing to their movement. As in 2009, Engle, who compares young Christians to soldiers and prayer to machine guns, will make an appearance at Brown’s “Better Way” event this year. It is sad, indeed, after witnessing so much religiously-inspired violence throughout the world’s history that religious people in America would fall victim to such allegory and
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rhetoric today. Every atrocity ever committed in the name of God began with words; later, after years, decades or generations, those words became real. Such a movement has taken root in Uganda, where LGBT people fear for their lives and for their families. Brown — whose deep commitment to God, intellect and passion could be put to so much better use — refuses to contemplate the consequences of his words and continues to associate with Engle, a man who has blessed the potential genocide of LGBT people. Charlotte should be known as a place where all are welcomed and cherished as full people and as children embraced by a loving creator. There should be no room or tolerance provided for the constant vilification of LGBT
people or any other here. The agenda pushed by Brown, Engle and other radical, so-called “Christians” is clear and unambiguous. As evidenced in Uganda, it does not have a happy ending. I call on Charlotte — its elected, civic, business and religious leaders of all faiths — to publicly reject and denounce the inherently violent ideologies that underpin this movement to halt LGBT equality. God does indeed have a better way and our city deserves better than what Brown and Engle have to offer. It is time for this city to reject their agenda and instead take up the one true gospel championed by Christ: peace, equality, justice, community and inclusion. : :
general gayety by leslie robinson qnotes contributor
A donkey’s work is never done.
Jerusalem just held its Pride parade and over 4,000 people marched. There were protesters and one person was arrested for throwing stink bombs, but on the whole, Jerusalem’s 10th annual March for Pride and Tolerance went well. Because the asses never got there. I shall explain. On the day of the parade, police stopped four donkeys and what The Jerusalem Post described as “a few dozen extreme right-wing demonstrators” from entering the city. The humans intended to take their donkeys to the Pride parade. Not because the donkeys were gay or enjoyed a good parade. The animals were supposed to represent the “bestial” nature of homosexuality. Being stopped at the entrance to the city put the kibosh on that protest plan. The asses didn’t get to the parade route. The donkeys didn’t either. It wasn’t the first time people tried to put donkeys to this particular symbolic use in Jerusalem. Last year, Deputy Mayor Yitzhak Pindrus wanted to stage a “donkey parade” alongside the Pride march. He planned to march 50 donkeys through the streets. I wonder if he also had a plan for cleaning up after them. “This expresses what we think — that this is a beastly act,” the ultra-Orthodox Pindrus told the Ynet news website. He said plainly that he’s not just anti-gay,
but pro-donkey. “Doesn’t a donkey have a right to be a donkey?” Pindrus asked innocently. “This is a democratic state, so we will not accept the claim that donkeys have no right to march. There are donkeys who are proud of their donkeyness and want to have a parade.” I think they’d find holding a flag a bit of a challenge. The deputy mayor’s spokesman wouldn’t link this proposed parade of the donkeys with Pride. “Donkeys also have rights to be recognized as couples,” he told AFP. “We are in favor of donkey rights.” Isn’t it touching, how these guys are so sympathetic to asses? It’s as though they feel a kinship. Ultimately the Holy City did not host Donkey Pride. Jerusalem police rejected Pindrus’ request. But, they also offered a compromise: Pindrus and his friends could hold cardboard cutouts of donkeys. They did. Whether they also supplied the braying, I can’t say. Police reported that two male members of Pindrus’ band attacked a female carrying a pro-gay sign. Real donkeys would’ve behaved better. According to Ynet, right-wingers and an assortment of religious figures had used donkeys as a means of protest prior to Pindrus, so this isn’t new, this game of pin the symbol
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We miss you, Pamela
Upon my return from traveling on Tuesday, July 19, I found my inbox flooded with news that a dear friend had passed on. I can’t say that I knew Pamela Jones nearly as well as I would have liked, yet she and I shared many far-ranging conversations and I always felt her to be a kindred spirit. I listened to Jackson Browne’s “For A Dancer” that same day and Pamela’s visage overwhelmed me. I will forever think of Pamela Jones when I hear that song. … Keep a fire burning in your eye, Pay attention to the open sky, You never know what will be coming down, I don’t remember losing track of you, You were always dancing in and out of view, I must have thought you’d always be around, Always keeping things real by playing the clown, Now you’re nowhere to be found. I don’t know what happens when people die, Can’t seem to grasp it as hard as I try, It’s like a song I can hear playing right in my ear, That I can’t sing, I can’t help listening, And I can’t help feeling stupid standing ‘round, Crying as they ease you down, ‘Cause I know that you’d rather we were dancing, Dancing our sorrow away. (Right on dancing), No matter what fate chooses to play, (There’s nothing you can do about it anyway). Just do the steps that you’ve been shown, By everyone you’ve ever known, Until the dance becomes your very own, No matter how close to yours, Another’s steps have grown, In the end there is one dance you’ll do alone. We’ll let Pamela’s words, and those of the people who knew and loved her, show her to be the life dancer she always was and still is. Dana: “Pam was a wonderful friend, a dear confidant, and a classy lady. The lesson I have learned from Pam passing into heaven before I got to spend another day with her is to love our friends while we have time. I intend to make it a life policy to never be to busy to do what is right.” Pamela: “Each person here today has something special to offer a hurting world. Each of us will leave a legacy of some kind. May our legacy be not one of self promotion, but of genuine LGBT unity.” Juliann: “She was a lady and now a beacon, a light that now shines brightly for others to see on their own journeys.” Pamela: “If there is to be change, and there will be, the change must first begin within ourselves. We live in such a hurting world. We talk of coming out, but the first coming out must take place within our own heart. It is impossible to give love if we do not love ourselves for who we are.” Pastor Nancy: “Pamela Jones knew who she was. I can’t say that about very many people I’ve known. But then, not many of the people I’ve known have been as passionate
as Pamela was about being who they really are. Oh yes, she knew who she was!” Pamela: “They say each of us at one time has a face we hide from the world. There may be someone here today who is struggling to truly accept yourself as you are. There comes a moment in life when we ask ourselves, who is the person behind the mask I am wearing? There will be that defining moment when the time comes to take the mask off and be the person you were created. We need to grasp the reality that it is okay to be who you are, no matter who you are! Let us never forget that for both an individual and a community, it is never too late to be what we might become! It is never too late to become genuine!” Fred: “When ever I think of Pam to this day, the words grace and dignity always come to mind and always will. Pamela: “40 years ago, during the Vietnam war, there was a rock star named ‘Melanie’. She wrote a song, ‘Candles In The Rain.’ The last verse, ‘we were so close, there was no room, we bled inside each others’ wounds. We bled inside each others’ wounds.’ What if, just what if we were so close as a truly united LGBT community that we feel each others’ pain? What if we were so close, we bled inside each others’ wounds?” Lisa: “All of Charlotte has benefitted from her efforts to make it a better place for those who are different, and an easier place for them to find community when so many of them have been silent and alone.” Pamela: “Someday, in some other place, people will gather and speak of their progress, or the lack of it. They will speak of standing upon the shoulders of those who have gone before. Those will be our shoulders. We owe it to our brothers and sisters of the future to leave some broad shoulders.” Kimball: “She used her voice to work for her community. There are lots of women in the world, but Pamela was a true lady.” Pamela: “Each person has something special to offer a hurting world. Each of us will leave a legacy of some kind. May our legacy be not one of self promotion, but of genuine unity.” Becky: “She often asked me tough questions that would challenge anyone’s critical thinking, helping me to understand more about her, as well as myself. She could really make me giggle about some things. Sometimes she even made me mad, but Pamela most often said what was on her mind; she was true to herself in a world that can challenge anyone’s journey for authenticity. I am a better person for knowing her, and will miss her much on my journey.” Pamela: “Live, Love, Be…but most of all, Be The Change!” Above all, Pamela, you really were the change! : : — Comments and corrections can be sent to editor@goqnotes.com. To contact Robbi Cohn, email robbi_cohn108@yahoo.com.
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New pro-gay rally receives muted response Equality North Carolina declines to participate, pushes forward with constituent mobilization by Matt Comer :: matt@goqnotes.com
RALEIGH — A pro-gay rally planned for the first day of a special September legislative session has received little and muted responses from LGBT community members and organizations across the state. Organizer Dave Cappel told qnotes he intended to organize a rally opposing a proposed anti-LGBT constitutional amendment on the first day of the General Assembly’s return to Raleigh. Legislative leaders, including Speaker of the House Thom Tillis (RMecklenburg), have indicated that the amendment could come up for a vote at that time. “I realize this time it’s gone beyond what Equality North Carolina is doing with their emails and postcards,” Cappel said. “It’s time to put a face to the count. This past census showed that the percentage of gay families in North Carolina jumped. I don’t think people’s representatives are noticing that there are that many of us.” Cappel hopes to show state legislators the strength of the community at his rally on Sept. 12, though he admits that state lawmakers will likely not take the rally seriously. “I think they already know how they are going to vote,” Cappel said. “Politicians are all the same — one is scrubbing another’s back while the other is screwing you. It’s just one of those things where you hope and pray that they notice.”
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Cappel also admits he’s had some difficulties in organizing the event. Equality North Carolina, in particular, has declined to participate or help organize for the event. “I seriously can’t fathom why the only actions [Equality North Carolina] wants to do is make calls, write emails, send out postcards, and plan a day of action,” Cappel wrote recently in response to the statewide advocacy group’s decision. Cappel did not elaborate with qnotes on what other groups or individuals had declined to support his rally, but said members of GetEqual NC had indicated some interest. The event’s Facebook page, which had just 89 RSVPs at press time, listed only two speakers for the event. Alex Miller, interim executive director of Equality North Carolina, confirmed to qnotes that his group will not be participating in Cappel’s event. Instead, Miller said Equality North Carolina will continue its statewide, grassroots advocacy and mobilization efforts, which he credited for helping convince legislators to abort a last-minute attempt to hear the anti-LGBT constitutional amendment during their July session. “Our organization, in concert with our partner organizations across the state, went into overdrive and we activated our network of supporters,” Miller said. “Legislators in the
building that day told us that they were hearing from our supporters all day and, apparently, when votes were counted that day the votes were not there.” Miller said the amendment’s passage is “not a foregone conclusion” and that it can be stopped, though it remains a struggle with an uncertain outcome. “There is a tremendously well-funded and well-organized effort by groups pushing this amendment to see it passed at all costs,” Miller said, “so it is important for constituents to contact their legislators, to have business owners contact representatives and to share individual, personal stories on what kind of real-life impact this amendment would have on people.” Equality North Carolina is working on projects that will engage citizens in more direct action, though Miller stressed the importance of constituent communication and contact with legislators. “We appreciate that people want to take direct action and we are planning for opportunities for that, but I think it is more meaningful for legislators to have a constituent come to them and contact them and talk about why they want them to oppose the amendment and what kind of personal impact it will have,” Miller said. “That will have more impact than standing on the legislature’s lawn for a rally.” The anti-LGBT constitutional amendment has been proposed every year for nearly a decade but was never a serious threat until Republicans took control of the both chambers of the legislature in 2010. To pass, the amendment must gain the approval of three-fifths of both the House and Senate. The governor has no veto authority. If passed, the amendment would appear on the November 2012 ballot. Miller said a ballot initiative is a prospect no one wants to see and that they are taking the possibility seriously.
“It is crucially important that everyone understand that this fight is far from over,” he said. “When the bill is brought up for a vote it will either pass or fail by one or two votes. I can tell you that ballot campaigns are incredibly expensive and time consuming and almost always fail. We have better things to do for the next 14 months than fight what will be an enormously costly battle that would ultimately be bad for this state.” He added, “This is a harmful piece of legislation. We all need to get together to fight it. Folks can get involved on the local level and reach out to the legislators and help to mobilize other constituents. That’s how these battles will be won.” : : more: Stay up to date with the latest news on the amendment and from the legislature at goqnotes.com/in/ncga/.
General Gayety continued from page 4 on the donkey. What the donkeys think about it is unknown. But, over thousands of years, they’ve been put to so many uses in the Middle East — from pulling plows to carrying riders to dragging bomb-laden carts meant to be the death of them — that at this point, I can’t imagine they’re surprised by anything humans choose to do with them. Perhaps the next symbolic use will be running a donkey for the Knesset. The campaign slogan will be “Our ass beats your ass.” If Israelis are feeling at all about their politicians like we’re feeling about ours right now, the donkey will win. Next year, when Jerusalem’s Pride rolls around again, I hope the donkeys display some of their famed stubbornness and refuse to represent bestiality or anything else for that matter. Beasts of burden, yes. Beasts of symbolic burden, no. Besides, the animals will essentially be saying, we don’t hate gay people. Hate is a human thing. The way you humans keep nursing hate makes it clear you’re more stubborn than we are. : : info:
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Charlotte One Voice rehearsals slated
CHARLOTTE — One Voice Chorus begins its fall rehearsals on Sept. 6 and 13, 7-9:30 p.m., at the Unitarian Universalist Church of Charlotte, 234 N. Sharon Amity Rd. This non-audition chorus is comprised of both men and women who celebrate LGBT lives and inclusion through music. The chorus will perform in a special collaborative concert, “The Sounds of Pride,” with the Charlotte Pride Band and Gay Men’s Chorus of Charlotte on Aug. 25, 7:30 p.m., Mint Museum, James B. Duke Auditorium, 500 S. Tryon St. Rehearsals begin soon thereafter for their “Hee-Haw Holiday” concert on Dec. 2 and 3 at the church. To learn more, visit onevoicechorus.com. Tax-deductible contributions are always welcome. — L.M.
Triangle Minister says no to marriage ceremonies
RALEIGH — Pastor Nancy Petty of Pullen Memorial Baptist Church has taken a stand against anti-gay matrimony and has declared that she will not perform state-sanctioned celebrations until everyone is afforded the ability to wed. The lesbian minister told The Raleigh News & Observer that she would perform religious blessings, but will not sign a marriage license. She said that she will hold this position until everyone in the state can legally marry, be they gay or straight. If couples want a legal marriage, then they have to go before a magistrate to get one. Her decision was based upon the fact that New York now has legal gay marriage now. She feels that the church was “lagging behind.” Petty has been with the church for 20 years. When she was hired, the church decided to bless gay marriages which got it booted out of the Southern Baptist Convention. In the early years, she had to create certificates for gay couples because there were none. She is now waiting on the board and congregation to see if they want to bring this to a vote. She does know that a statement will need to be made on the issue. — L.M.
Center on hunt for new ED
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RALEIGH — The LGBT Center of Raleigh is seeking an executive director. The ideal candidate should be able to provide visionary leadership to the organization; is charismatic, experienced and can engage the center’s various constituencies to share in its vision, participate in its programs, while cultivating its volunteer talents and encouraging people to lend full financial support; and is articulate and a passionate spokesperson. Responsibilities include fundraising, relationship building and administration. Salary range for this position is between $40,000-$50,000 per year and includes a ben-
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efit package and paid time off. To apply, send a resume and cover letter in one Microsoft Word format or PDF file to hr@lgbtcenterofraleigh.com. For more information and a more detailed list of qualifications, visit lgbtcenterof raleigh.com. — L.M
Triad GGF begins annual $5 drive
GREENSBORO — The Guilford Green Foundation (GGF) is on the hunt for $5 contributions that will enable them to sustain their work. Wonder what this small amount can do? If a large number of people can collectively contribute, then GGF can ensure that LGBT youth are supported by the school system; support its leading role in uniting the community; produce educational materials; support diversity and inclusion efforts in the area; and address issues such as LGBT homelessness, as well as convene Pride events. Matching funds up to $2,500 will be made available from Dawn Chaney, Bill Baites and Stephen Dull, Mary and David Hagan, Dr. Harvey Lineberry II and David Cureton and Ron Johnson and Bill Roane. Funds are requested before Sept. 9. To participate in this annual drive, a check of $5 or more to Guilford Green Foundation, 301 S. Elm St., Suite 211, Greensboro, NC 27401 or visit ggfnc.org to make an online contribution. — L.M.
Western Retreat welcomes wild women
GREEN MOUNTAIN — Wild Women Gathering at The Garden Retreat will be held Aug. 26-28, 12855 NC Hwy. 197. Venture out for this female fun-filled weekend under the stars. Personal rituals, sojourns by remote waterfalls, sunrise stretching, dancing, talking stick time and reconnection with the nourishing energy of Mother Earth help round out the options available to participants. For more information, call 828-688-3344 or visit thegardenretreat.com. — L.M.
South Carolina Wedding announcement published
COLUMBIA — The wedding announcement of William Hasty III and Gregory S. Smith was published in The State after from their New York nuptials. Their marriage was on July 26 at Town Hall in Mamoroneck, N.Y. This is a first and a significant moment for the South Carolina paper, which in 2006 ran an editorial endorsing the state’s anti-LGBT constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage. The two met in Columbia in 1984 when they were in the U.S. Army. They have two sons, The Advocate reported. They honeymooned in Niagara Falls. They reside in Larchmont, N.Y. — L.M.
SC Pride fest on target for Labor Day weekend COLUMBIA — South Carolina Pride 2011 will take place on Sept. 3 in Finlay Park, 920 Laurel St. Kicking off the day’s festivities will be a parade, sponsored by WXRY 99.3 FM, which starts and ends at the park. Live commentary will be broadcast and will be hosted by Miss SC Pride 2006 Patti O’Furniture and Larry Hembre, executive director of Nickelodeon Theatre (pictured from last year’s festivities). Following the tour of downtown, attendees will be able to enjoy live entertainment, as well as stops along the way to visit stores, organizations and more in the vendor area. Headliners include Alexis Mateo, “RuPaul’s Drag Race” season three Puerto Rican bombshell; Amber, a worldwide smash hit singer who hails from Europe; Kristy Lee, an Alabaman acoustical musician; and Martha Wash, a powerhouse vocalist and club legend. The event is a project of The Harriet Hancock Community Center. On Aug. 20, the Miss and Mr. South Carolina Pride Pageant is being held at Workshop Theatre, 1136 Bull St. VIP tickets are $30 and general admission is $25. Included is an open bar, food and reserved seating. During the week leading up to the festival, an art show, Saint Sebastian: From Martyr to Gay Starlet, will be held on Sept. 1, 6-9 p.m., at Friday Cottage Artspace, 1830 Henderson St. Enjoy a night of art, performance, poetry and film, along with a cash bar and DJ. Admission is $15 advance/$20 at the door. A souvenir book of art and poetry comes with ticket purchase. Read the full story on the showing on page 10. Hotel reservations may be made through the Columbia Marriott, 1200 Hampton St. which serves as host. Rates are $99 per night. For parade applications (due by Aug. 26) or more information, visit scpride.org. — L.M.
National Bert and Ernie: No weddng plans
NEW YORK, N.Y. — “Sesame Street” puppets Bert and Ernie are longtime roommates who have famously provoked the question “are they or aren’t they” for decades. However, in recent weeks the push for the plush pair to come out of the closet has gained even more steam with the creation of a popular change.org petition calling for the adorable couple to get hitched to celebrate the legalization of gay marriage in New York. The campaign gained enough traction that the producers of the awardwinning PBS series were recently moved to issue the following statement. “Bert and Ernie are best friends. They were created to teach preschoolers that people can be good friends with those who are very different from themselves. Even though they are identified as male characters and possess many human traits and characteristics (as most Sesame Street Muppets do), they remain puppets, and do not have a sexual orientation.” So there you have it, folks. Bert and Ernie are “just friends.” wink — D.S.
Court protects trans inmates
CHICAGO, Ill. — On Aug. 5, the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Seventh Circuit upheld the right of transgender people to receive medical care while they are incarcerated. The American Civil Liberties Union, the ACLU of Wisconsin and Lambda Legal had challenged a 2005 Wisconsin law that prohibited prison doctors from prescribing hormone treatment or sex reassignment surgery to transgender inmates. The appeals court said the law served no purpose and “amounts to torture.” The law “cruelly singled out transgender people by denying them — and only them — the medical care they need,” said John Knight, senior staff attorney with the ACLU Lesbian Gay Bisexual and Transgender Project. — D.S.
Repeal Day celebrations coming
WASHINGTON, D.C. — Servicemembers Legal Defense Network (SLDN) has called for coast-to-coast “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” Repeal Day celebrations to take place when the law officially expires on Sept. 20. A flagship event is scheduled in the nation’s capital, accompanied by supporter-created events throughout the country. An online tool kit that supporters can use to manage their events is available online at sldn.org/HostResources. There, supporters can create and manage their events completely via the web, as well as download and print materials for use before and during their events. “We hope this online kit will give supporters what they need to be a part of this historic and momentous day,” said Army veteran and SLDN Executive Director Aubrey Sarvis. So, even if they can’t be with us in Washington, D.C., they will be able to host and join celebrations in their own communities — whether it’s in their home, at a community center, or in a local bar.” — D.S.
Calif. GOPers push moderation
SACRAMENTO, Calif. — The New York Times says California Republicans are considering changing the state party’s approach to gay and lesbian issues. Reportedly, GOP moderates are pushing for a more centrist platform that removes objections to domestic partner benefits and adoption by gays while softening the rhetoric against same-sex marriage. Other proposed changes would tone down language on gun control, immigration and abortion. Moderates hope to sell their platform document by invoking the agree-to-disagree principle and calling upon the name of arguably the party’s greatest hero of the last century. “It’s possible to have a broadly conservative party that doesnít agree on every specific. The guy who was able to thread the needle on this was Reagan — he was able to include the moderates,” said Jack Pitney, a political scientist at Claremont McKenna College. — D.S.
White House names LGBT liaison
WASHINGTON, D.C. —The White House has named Raul Alvillar as its interim liaison to the LGBT community. He replaces Brian Bond, deputy director of the White House Office of Public Engagement, who is leaving to become the Democratic National Committee’s director of constituency outreach. Alvillar served as western political director for the Obama campaign, where he assisted with LGBT outreach. For the past two and a half years, he has served as the congressional relations officer at the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development. — D.S.
Global Rwanda advancing gay rights
KIGALI, Rwanda — The International Lesbian and Gay Association (ILGA) says Rwanda is leading the push for LGBT rights in East Africa, a principled stance that separates them from the majority of virulently anti-gay countries in the region. ILGA noted that last year Rwanda moved to decriminalize homosexuality amd recently signed two United Nations resolutions on sexual orientation and gender identity, making them one of just six African nations to do so. Dr. Aflodis Kagaba is the executive director of Health Development Initiative Rwanda, a health-focused non-governmental organization that oversees a coalition of more than 40 groups working for sexual minorities within the country. He said the gains in Rwanda began in 2009. “Around that time in the region, there was a drive to criminalize homosexuality — not only in Rwanda, but also in Uganda and Burundi,” he told The EastAfrican. “All the parliaments in the region took up the cause to create articles to criminalize [it], and so when the article was introduced, there was a lot of pressure. “In the beginning, of course, it was very challenging. We were experiencing hate speech, people phoning in to radio programs saying ‘Kill them, take them back to the West — they’re not part of us.’ But the media themselves were fanatical at that time — so it required more of an individual engagement, talking to them and discussing the issues involved.” — D.S..
Politics Campaigns feature LGBT supporters
STATEWIDE — North Carolina sports a wide range of candidates who support the LGBT community. In Asheville, Cecil Boswell (D) is running for the Democratic nomination in the 11th Congressional District, opposing incumbent Rep. Heath Shuler (D-11th). Though a Democrat, Shuler has broken with most of his own party and has opposed the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA), hate crime legislation and, at one time, the repeal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.” Boswell currently serves on the city council and is an avid LGBT community champion, according to supporters. As an atheist, Boswell is also challenging Shuler, an evangelical Christian, and his ties to radically right religious organizations. In Charlotte, out lesbian candidate LaWana Mayfield (D) is running to unseat incumbent Charlotte City Councilmember Warren Turner (D-District 3). For more information, read our past coverage at goqnotes.
com/10915/ and goqnotes.com/11866/. Wayne Abraham (D) is running for a spot on Greensboro’s city council. He serves as party chair for the Sixth Congressional District and is a proponent for LGBT rights. As a member of the Greensboro Human Relations Commission, he led the charge to get domestic partner benefits for LGBT employees. — L.M.
Campus Scene ENC seeks ambassadors
RALEIGH — Equality North Carolina (ENC) is on the prowl for a new brand of organizers — post-secondary student ambassadors. Those selected will lead the fight for equality across the state in supporting the organization’s initiatives to secure equal rights and justice for LGBT North Carolinians. ENC Ambassadors will represent a statewide grassroots student leadership program that aims to put boots on the ground and help foster a new generation of fair-minded leaders — not simply to educate and mobilize supporters around LGBT rights, issues and legislation, but to strengthen the LGBT communities across the state — one campus at a time. Student ambassadors will become ENC’s pro-equality voice in their respective campus communities, embarking on online and outreach campaigns that mirror those happening on the statewide level. In return, our program provides students with unique opportunities to learn about timely LGBT issues, develop career-building leadership and organizing skills and connect with the organizations and activists behind the pro-equality movement. For more information or to apply, email Jen Jones at Jen@equalitync.org with the subject header “I’m Your Student Ambassador for [insert college or university name].” — L.M.
Safe campuses announced
CHARLOTTE — College campuses across the nation are gearing up to welcome students. To make sure students are aware of which colleges and universities are inclusive, Campus Pride announced it’s Climate Index 2011 is ready for review. Nearly 300 reports are available online at campusclimateindex.org, taking an in-depth look at LGBT-friendly policies, programs and practices. Colleges are rated from one to five stars, depending on their answers to a detailed, voluntary questionnaire submitted to Campus Pride, the national, Charlotte-based non-profit working to create safer, more LGBT-inclusive colleges and build future LGBT and ally leaders. Launched online in Fall 2007, the index has become a staple in student and faculty research, campus organizing efforts and benchmarking for LGBT student safety and inclusion on campus. Answers provided by students, faculty and staff are used as assessment tools for the report. Shane Windmeyer, executive director, encourages more Carolinas schools to learn how to use the features of the index to report on their LGBT climate and become listed. Currently, only Appalachian State University (Boone), Brevard College (Brevard), East Carolina University (Greenville), University of North Carolina at Charlotte, University of North Carolina at Greensboro, University of North Carolina at Wilmington and University of South Carolina at Columbia are listed. For more information, visit campuspride.org. — L.M.
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Artist Gil Croy says he never thought his Human Canvas project would grow to encompass so many others and gain the support it’s received from The LGBT Communtiy Center of Charlotte and the Pride Charlotte Festival, slated for Uptown on Aug. 27. “It grew into a much larger project from a planned art show just at The Center,” Croy says. “It started growing and started to become connected to artists all over our area, throughout the nation and even world.” Croy says artists in San Francisco, New York, the Caribbean and in South America and Australia have indicated interest in the showing — one that’s guaranteed to make a splash on the streets of Uptown Charlotte. Croy and his team of volunteer, communtiy artists have teamed up with The Center’s StillOut Photography club to present art across a wide range of mediums — photography, painting, videography — in the Wells Fargo Atrium during the Pride Charlotte Festival. Outside, a tent will house a working exhibit, where artists will be creating new masterpieces, doing body painting and more. Models painted in what Croy
calls a “Pride Tribe” theme — “natives” in “Pride colors,” he says — will walk around the festival as living, breathing, moving art exhibits. “The collaboration [between these groups] has worked out beautifully,” he says of the partnerships involved in the inclusion of such an art-focused attraction at the festival. The effort at the Uptown festival is meant to raise awareness of the commitment The Center has placed on community art. Croy’s Human Canvas exhibit opened on Friday, Aug. 19, the beginning of Pride Charlotte Week, and will continue through October. This fall, he says, a family-oriented exhibit exploring and celebrating the lives of local, LGBT families will also open at The Center. “We’ve all joined forces in this creative, collaborative journey,” Croy says. “The result is a collection of inspiring, thought-provoking photographs and other artwork inspired by the LGBT community — our thoughts, dreams, loves, political views and passions. It’s all so diverse and it’s amazing.” : : — Ed. Note: This writer is a member of the Pride Charlotte organizing committee.
Photo Credit: Gil Croy
Sex+Spirit SC Pride art show explores intersections of faith, spirituality and sexuality with Saint Sebastian-themed exhibit
‘The Liberation of Sebastian.’ Alejandro García-Lemos. Linoleum cut on paper. 2011.
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The Christian martyr Saint Sebastian is a professor of English at the University of South complex figure in Western art. He’s been a Carolina, is the author of three books of poetry religious martyr, a patron saint of athletes and and editor of “Out Loud,” a collection of radio of soldiers — and what might arguably be essays from Rainbow Radio, South Carolina’s history’s first recorded gay icon. only gay and lesbian radio show. Newman is a “Saint Sebastian: From Martyr to Gay documentary producer for South Carolina ETV, Starlet” will explore the quirky iconography who has for many years specialized in programs of the saint through contemporary revisions on the history and culture of South Carolina. in art, film, performance and poetry. This Admission is $15 in advance, $20 at the door. evening of art and performance will be held Ticket price includes a souvenir chapbook of 6-9 p.m. on Thursday, Sept. 1, at the Friday poetry and original art. The event will include DJ Cottage Art Space at 1830 Henderson St. (corand cash bar. ner of Richland St.) in downtown Columbia. The show is intended for mature audiences. The event, featuring work by various artFor more information go to: scpride.org. : : ists, is being held in conjunction with the SC — Compiled from release Pride Festival, which takes place on Saturday, Sept. 3 in Finlay Park. A portion of proceeds will benefit the organization. Artists include media and performance artist Santiago Echeverry, visual artists Alejandro García-Lemos and Leslie Pierce, filmmaker Betsy Newman and poet Ed Madden. A Colombian artist and now an associate professor of digital and media art at the University of Tampa, Echeverry works in video and performance art, with a commitment to gay and lesbian human rights. García-Lemos is a visual artist whose work focuses on social issues, especially aspects of immigration, religion and social justice. He is also a founder Palmetto LUNA, an organization promoting Latino arts and culture. Pierce, associate director of public programs and community relations at the Columbia Museum of Art and an active participant in Columbia’s vibrant arts community, has worked in many media, but currently works in collage. Madden, an associate ‘Sebastian in Stained Glass Window.’ Leslie Pierce. Collage. 2011.
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What the Rubberman Wrote: Chronicles from the International AIDS Society Conference Asheville-area educator travels to Rome for international conference on HIV/AIDS treatment and prevention by Michael Harney :: guest contributor
Michael Harney, The Rubberman, is an HIV/ AIDS/STD/hepatitis prevention educator and street outreach worker at the Western North Carolina AIDS Project (WNCAP) and operates the Needle Exchange Program of Asheville (NEPA). He attended the 6th International AIDS Society Conference on HIV Pathogenesis, Treatment and Prevention in Rome from July 17-21 (ias2011.org). “Treatment is Prevention” was the theme highlighted in reports including: vaginal and rectal microbicides; male circumcision reducing female to male transmission; pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) for men who have sex with men and transgender women; therapeutic vaccines stimulating immune response in HIV positives; adherence strategies involving longacting injectable nanoparticles; and activating and treating latent HIV from “reservoirs” — a potential cure. Addressing 7,000 attendees during three days of plenaries and breakouts were such HIV heavyweights as Anthony Fauci, director of the U.S. National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases; Elly Katabira, IAS president from Makerere University, Uganda; Françoise BarréSinoussi, Nobel laureate and chair of the 2013 IAS Conference in Kuala Lumpur; Nora Volkow, director of the National Institute on Drug Abuse; Joseph Eron and Adaora Adimora from the University of North Carolina Chapel Hill. Dr. Peter Leone, medical director of the
North Carolina HIV/STD Prevention and Control Branch, presented a poster on the importance of diagnosing acute HIV infection; Stella Kirkendale of Family Health International in Durham addressed follow-up for HIV patients in Africa disenrolled from U.S.-sponsored clinical trials. Dr. Peter Piot, director of the London School of Hygiene & Tropical Medicine, noted that even with a curable, preventable disease like syphilis, eradication has proved impossible; so HIV/AIDS will require immense resources for generations to come even if a vaccine or cure is discovered. Evidence that antiretroviral treatment works for prevention includes a Prevention Trials Network study, HPTN 052 (niaid.nih.gov/news/ newsreleases/2011/Pages/HPTN052.aspx), published last spring and much discussed at the conference. It showed 96 percent fewer HIV transmissions in “discordant” couples (one partner positive and appropriately treated), suggesting that a lower community viral load from expanded treatment would substantially reduce HIV infections. As Dr. Fauci observed, “Every new infection occurs in a discordant couple.” The long-range goal is “15 by 15” — 15 million of some 33 million HIV infected people worldwide taking antiretroviral therapy by 2015. It means scaling up to treat an additional 9 million in the lowest income nations. Gilead Pharmaceuticals was commended for licensing
competitive generic production of its antiretroviral medications regardless of patents, even those in development when FDA-approved. For example, Truvada could become available outside the U.S. for 28 cents a day, compared to its full retail price of $28 a day. Further regarding finance, demonstrators called on Italy to fully fund its pledges to the Global Fund to Fight HIV, Tuberculosis and Malaria (theglobalfund.org). The U.S. has been a major contributor — over $21 billion to date through the President’s Emergency Plan For AIDS Relief (PEPFAR), pepfar.gov. Also, protested were harassment and prosecutions in Eastern Europe and the U.S. of injection drug users and needle exchange. Women’s rights violations and stigma of gay men and AIDS itself, were identified as ongoing barriers to prevention and treatment. As PLWHA live longer, high-cost ARV therapy will likely become economically unsustainable, increasing cumulative demand for drugs and diagnostics. Portable instruments can now check CD4 and viral counts even in remote locations; good news for treatment, but also increasing detection of HIV resistance requiring expensive new therapies. This adds urgency to finding biomedical, genomic and behavioral answers to HIV/AIDS. Among emerging breakthroughs was a report by Dr. Gary Nabel of the US National Institutes of Health (pag.ias2011.org/session.aspx?s=97)
on immutable HIV segments to which antibodies can be cloned, renewing hope for a preventative vaccine. Co-morbidities that kill millions annually, including TB and malaria and hepatitis C, are often found on a back-burner for lack of research and funding. The Treatment Action Group (TAG) distributed their “2011 Pipeline Report on HIV, Hepatitis C, and Tuberculosis Drugs, Diagnostics, Vaccines, and Preventive Technologies in Development” (i-base. info/files/2011/07/2011-pipeline-report-FINAL. pdf). It is a comprehensive overview well worth reading. So, there is hope for a better and healthier future, but requiring refocusing priorities and redoubling our efforts. One more very important note — the U.S. will host International AIDS Conference XIX, July 22-27, 2012 in Washington D.C. Twenty years have passed since the conference was here, because of an HIV travel ban only recently lifted. We now know that “Treatment is Prevention,” but education is equally vital. The Western North Carolina AIDS Project and similar community-based agencies try within their means to provide this essential service. Please find out more at any of these websites: wncap. org, aids2011.org, cdc.gov and aids2012.org. : : — Read The Rubberman’s complete and more extensive report from Rome online at goqnotes.com/12027/.
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LGBT Dems take steps to form official state party caucus
Group meets in Greensboro, approves bylaws and officers by Matt Comer :: matt@goqnotes.com
Meetings: Program: Time: Membership: Information:
Third Thursday of every month, except when there is specialized programming, plus monthly socials to promote networking and friendship A wide variety of topics of interest to appeal to the diverse LGBT community After work with a cash bar social and heavy hor d’oeuvres with dinner and program following Visit the website for application options and benefits. Call 704.565.5075 or email businessguild@yahoo.com for more details or write to The Charlotte Business Guild P.O. Box 33371 | Charlotte, NC 28233
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GREENSBORO — Nearly five dozen LGBT Democrats from across the state gathered on Aug. 6 to form the LGBT Democrats of North Carolina. The new organization, which approved its bylaws and elected its first officers, will move to seek official auxiliary or caucus status from the North Carolina Democratic Party’s State Executive Committee. Ryan Butler, 31, who works for state Sen. Don Vaughan (D-Guilford) in Greensboro, was elected as the group’s first president. He told qnotes the new group will give LGBT Democrats a chance to speak out and have a more active role in state party politics. “I think many in our community feel like there is a potential for bad things to happen now because of the Republican Party’s taking control of the General Assembly,” he said. “I think that sparked a lot of people in the community to want to become more organized and mobilized. One place I think people saw a lack of organization or a lack of their own presence of LGBT people was in the state Democratic Party.” Clayton Brooks, 23, a recent Harvard grad and Laurinburg, N.C. native, helped to organize the group, fresh off his work as campaign manager for openly gay state Rep. Marcus Brandon (D-Guilford). He said part of the inspiration for the group came directly from the party’s recently elected chair, David Parker. “David suggested to a few folks that we needed to have one,” Brooks said. “There are national caucuses for LGBT Democrats and
with the Democratic National Convention being in Charlotte next year, we felt it was important to make sure there was a state body representing North Carolina with those groups of LGBT Democrats from across the nation.” Butler, who also serves on the party’s State Executive Committee, says the nascent LGBT Democrats of North Carolina will first focus on building membership and capacity. “We need to focus right now on organizing the group, making the community aware of it and letting people know that a group for LGBT Democrats in North Carolina does exist,” Butler said. Butler doesn’t foresee any problems in gaining official recognition from the state party. “If you think about it, the entire country is supportive,” he said. “We’re at a tipping point now with national LGBT issues where, for the first time, it seems as though a majority of the entire country is on our side. I don’t think we’ll have much of a problem with anything because so many people are on our side.” Those looking to get involved with the new organization are encouraged to search them out on Facebook, Butler said. The group, run by volunteers, is in the process of forming its initial online and social media presences. The new LGBT Democrats of North Carolina follows in the footsteps of organizing by the late Joe Herzenberg and Lightning Brown. In the 1970s, they worked to form the state’s first caucus for LGBT Democrats. : :
Kitchens, baths and gardens... Oh my!
The Southern Ideal Home Show celebrates 27 years Aug. 26-28 at The Park Expo & Conference Center. John Gidding from “Curb Appeal: The Block,” one of HGTV’s most popular shows, joins the Home Show on Saturday, Aug. 27 at the Plant It State. In addition to Gidding’s appearance, be sure to check out delicious dishes and recipes from Charlotte’s top chefs at the Walker Woodworking Cooking State, hosted by Heidi Billotto. The show will also feature several new product launches, making their debut for the first time in Charlotte. Check out PRP Wine International and their unique “wine education.” InStyle will also be on-hand with natural tile and stone. Landscaping design experts from Earth Graphics will also be on hand. Admission to the show is just $9 for adults with youth 15 and under free with an adult. Discount coupons for $2 off entry are available at SouthernIdealHomeShow.com. : :
HGTV’s John Gidding will be on-hand for Charlotte’s Southern Ideal Home Show, Aug. 26-28.
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Charlotte Gender Alliance charlottegenderalliance.info
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Gay Men’s Chorus of Charlotte P.O. Box 560661 Charlotte, NC 28256-0661 704-549-9202 info@gmccharlotte.org gmccharlotte.org
The LGBT Community Center of Charlotte 820 Hamilton St., Suite B11 Charlotte, NC 28206 704-333-0144 centeradministrator@gaycharlotte.com gaycharlotte.com Carolina Softball Alliance Charlotte, NC 303-324-0713 info@carolinasoftball.org carolinasoftball.org Charlotte NC Black Gay Pride P.O. Box 240572 Charlotte, NC 28224-0572 704-953-8813 info@charlotteblackgaypride.com charlotteblackgaypride.com Charlotte Business Guild P.O. Box 222131 Charlotte, NC 28222 businessguild@yahoo.com charlottebusinessguild.org
Human Rights Campaign Carolina hrccarolina.org MeckPAC P.O. Box 9807 Charlotte, NC 28299 meckpac@bellsouth.net meckpac.org One Voice Chorus P.O. Box 9241 Charlotte, NC 28299 info@onevoicechorus.com onevoicechorus.com PFLAG Charlotte P.O. Box 472532 Charlotte, NC 28247 pflagcharlotte@yahoo.com www.pflagcharlotte.org
qnotes’ third annual resource guide CHARLOTTE RALEIGH/TRIANGLE TRIAD Full directory available at goqnotes.com/qguide/
Statewide ACLU of North Carolina PO Box 28004 Raleigh, NC 27611-8004 919-834-3466 acluofnorthcarolina.org
Faith in America P.O. Box 1176 Hudson, N.C. 28638 828-612-4682 faithinamerica.org
Carolina Bear Lodge carolinabears.com
NC Pride Parade and Festival Pride Committee of NC PO Box 466 Durham, NC 27702 info@ncpride.org ncpride.org
Equality North Carolina PO Box 28768 Raleigh, NC 27611 919-829-0343 equalitync.org
PFLAG Salisbury/Rowan P.O. Box 5207 Salisbury, NC 28147 704-213-0181 salisburypflag@bellsouth.net salisbury-pflag.org
TransCarolina transcarolina.org Time Out Youth 1900 The Plaza Charlotte, NC 28205 704-344-8335 sbentley@timeoutyouth.org timeoutyouth.org
Pride Charlotte info@pridecharlotte.com pridecharlotte.com
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qguide u AIDS Service Organizations Carolinas CARE Partnership formerly Regional HIV/AIDS Consortium 7510 East Independence Blvd., Suite 105 Charlotte, NC 28227 704-531-2467 info@carolinascare.org carolinascare.org House of Mercy 701 Mercy Dr. Belmont, NC 28012 704-825-4711 thehouseofmercy.org Regional AIDS Interfaith Network (RAIN) P.O. Box 37190 Charlotte, NC 28237-7190 704-372-7246 info@carolinarain.org carolinarain.org Faith MCC Charlotte 1825 Eastway Dr. Charlotte NC 28205 704-563-5810 office@mcccharlotte.org mcccharlotte.org Myers Park Baptist Church 1900 Queens Rd.
Charlotte, NC 28207 704-334-7232 mpbconline.org Havurat Tikvah P.O. Box 12684 Charlotte, NC 28220 877-203-5848 havurattikvah.org New Life MCC 1900 The Plaza Charlotte, NC 28205 704-334-0350 newlifemcc@bellsouth.net newlifemccnc.org Temple Beth El 5101 Providence Rd. Charlotte, NC 28226 704-366-1948 keshet@beth-el.com beth-el.com Unity Fellowship Church 2127 Eastway Dr. Charlotte, NC 28205 704-567-5007 ufccharlottenc.org Nightlife The Bar at 316 316 Rensselaer Ave.
Charlotte, NC 28203 704-910-1478 thebarat316@live.com thebarat316.com Central Station 2131 Central Ave. Charlotte, NC 28205 704-313-4430 centralstationcharlotte.com Chasers 3217 The Plaza Charlotte, NC 28205 704-339-0500 scorpios.com/chasers.html Connections 420 E. Main Ave. Gastonia, NC 28054 704-866-7778 theconnectionsbar.com Hartigan’s Irish Pub 601 S. Cedar St. Charlotte, NC 28202 704-347-1841 hartigansnc@aol.com hartigans.com The Hide-A-Way 405 Baskins Rd. Rock Hill, SC 29730 803-328-6630 The Nickel Bar 2817 Rozzelles Ferry Rd. Charlotte, NC 28208 704-248-7683 TheNickelBar@live.com TheNickelBar.com Petra’s 1919 Commonwealth Ave. Charlotte, NC 28205 704-332-6608 petraspianobar.com Scorpio 2301 Freedom Dr. Charlotte, NC 28208 704-373-9124 scorpios.com Sidelines 4544-C South Blvd. Charlotte, NC 28209 704-525-2608 sidelines@thesidelinesbar.com thesidelinesbar.com
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Ask Dr. C…HIV and healthcare advice
Helping to keep you in the know with up-to-date information by Frederick Cruickshank ~ Medical Director
After many successful installments of “Ask Dr. C,” this is yet another opportunity to offer our readers information about HIV from basic questions to in-depth explanations. We are still receiving many of your questions and are working hard to provide responses to as many questions as possible to provide information for you and the community. The questions have provided us a forum to debunk myths and remove stigma from those living with HIV and AIDS. It is important to educate yourself, get tested, and protect yourself! We appreciate every question we receive! Dr. C looks forward to responding to as many emails as possible. I have heard that diseases like West Nile are transmitted from person to person by mosquito bites. Can I get HIV from a mosquito bite? — Dave from Charlotte Dave, thanks for asking this question. It is true that mosquitos often aid in the transmission of certain
diseases. In the case of the West Nile Virus, the mosquito is infected with the virus after a blood meal and spreads the infection by injecting its salivia in its next victim. In warmer climates where mosquitos flourish, people often use mosquito nets and insect repellant to protect themselves from bites. However, there is no need for you to worry about becoming infected with HIV from a mosquito bite. When a mosquito bites it injects its own saliva as a lubricant for the blood meal it receives from you. It does not inject blood or fluids that would contain HIV from its last blood meal. You will most likely just experience temporary irritation of the skin. I suggest a topical antihistamine, such as Benadryl cream, for relief. If you have a severe reaction to an insect bite resulting in a rash or swelling, I would suggest that you go to your doctor to let him/her check it out to be safe. Is there a vaccine I can get to protect myself from contracting HIV/AIDS? — Hillary from Mooresville Hillary, I am glad you are interested in protecting yourself from infection. While research is always being done to increase our knowledge of HIV/AIDS, currently there is not a vaccine or cure available. We can only hope for a future when both a vaccine and cure are a reality. Nevertheless there are many actions you can take to protect yourself. The most important is to only have protected sex by using a condom. It is also
important to talk to your sexual partners about STDs and HIV. The only way to know if your sexual partners and/or you are positive is to get tested. Here at Rosedale ID, we do testing on a regular basis. It is important to know both your status and your sexual partner’s status so that you can both make healthy informed decisions. Some tips on conversation starters for HIV testing with your partner can be found on the Healthy People 2020 website (healthypeople.gov/2020) by searching HIV. It is important to talk before you have sex by using phrases like “Getting tested before sex can protect both of us.” The next step is to share the facts about STD testing with your partner. The final step is to go get tested with your partner. It is much easier to go together in order to provide support for one another. Where can I find updated statistics on HIV/AIDS? — Billy from Charlotte This is a good question! It is always important for you to educate yourself on disease including its prevalence and incidence in the area in which you live. The best place for you to find up to date information is on the webpage for the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). This page is www.cdc.gov. Beyond providing you with statistics, this website also offers a good source of information on the disease itself. In addition you can view global statistics on HIV/AIDS at
www.unaids.org. It is important to remember that ANYONE can get HIV and it is not selective to one certain race, gender, or sexuality. Protect yourself! Does everyone who is exposed to HIV get infected? — Ben from Charlotte Good question, Ben. The answer is no. It is possible to be exposed to the infection and not become infected. Whether a person becomes infected after being exposed to HIV depends on how the virus enters the body and the amount of virus that enters the body. But, that doesn’t mean that you should exposure yourself thinking that you will not become infected. It only takes one exposure to HIV-infected blood, semen or vaginal fluids to contract the disease. Protect yourself and get tested if you think you could have been exposed. Always remember that this is an advice column based on your questions and the best possible knowledge out there. We need your questions to help educate the community, so email them to info@rosedaleid.com and be sure to include a first name and location. All respondents will remain anonymous. We will try to do our best to answer, educate and inform from your responses to this column. Don’t forget to visit our website at rosedaleid.com and friend us on Facebook for community and clinical updates. — Sponsored Content —
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qguide u The Rainbow In 4376 Charlotte Hwy Lake Wylie, SC 29710 803-831-0093
Media
The Woodshed 3935 Queen City Dr. Charlotte, NC 28208 704-394-1712 woodshedlounge.com
Pocket Rocket Guide – Charlotte charlottepocketrocket.com
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Creative Loafing clclt.com
QCityMetro qcitymetro.com Visit Gay Charlotte visitgaycharlotte.com
Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill Community LGBT Center of Raleigh 411 Hillsborough St. St. Raleigh, NC 27603 (919) 832-4484 info@lgbtcenterofraleigh.com lgbtcenterofraleigh.com Center for LGBT Life, Duke University 02 West Union Bldg. Box 90958 Durham, NC 27708 919-684-6607 lgbtcenter@duke.edu studentaffairs.duke.edu/lgbt Common Woman Chorus P.O. Box 51731 Durham, NC 27717 infocwc@yahoo.com commonwomanchorus.net Crape Myrtle Festival P.O. Box 12201 Raleigh, NC 27605 info@crapemyrtlefest.org crapemyrtlefest.org GLBT Center, N.C. State University 3101 Talley Student Center Raleigh, NC 27695 919-513-9742 GLBTcenter@ncsu.edu glbtcenter@gmail.com ncsu.edu/student_affairs/glbt
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The LGBTQ Center, UNC-Chapel Hill 919-843-5376 lgbtq@unc.edu lgbt.unc.edu N.C. Gay and Lesbian Film Festival The Carolina Theatre 309 W. Morgan St. Durham, NC 27701 919-560-3030 festivals.carolinatheatre.org/ncglff PFLAG Raleigh-Durham/Triangle P.O. Box 51776 Durham, NC 27717 919-929-0192 (Raleigh/Durham/Chapel Hill) 252-443-0345(Rocky Mount) info@pflagtriangle.org pflagtriangle.org Raleigh Business & Professional Network P.O. Box 18844 Raleigh, NC 27619 raleighnetwork.org RDU Prime Timers rdu_primetimers@yahoo.com meetup.com/rdu-pt Serenity Girlz, Inc. 1107 Bridlemine Dr. Fuquay Varina, NC 27526 919-623-6721 serenitygirlz@gmail.com serenitygirlz.org
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Triangle Black Pride triangleblackpride.org Triangle Gay Men’s Chorus P.O. Box 14452 Research Triangle Park, NC 27709-4452 info@tgmchorus.org www.tgmchorus.org
St. John’s MCC 805 Glenwood Ave. Raleigh, NC 27605 919-834-2611 stjohnsmcc.org
AIDS Service Organizations
Pullen Memorial Baptist Church 1801 Hillsborough St. Raleigh, NC 27605 pullen.org
Alliance of AIDS Services – Carolina 324 S. Harrington St. Raleigh, NC 27603 919-834-2437 info@aas-c.org aas-c.orgl
Sanctuary UMC at Lakewood 2317 Chapel Hill Rd. Durham, NC, 27707 919-621-4459 pastor@sanctuaryumc.org sanctuaryumc.org
Chatham Social Health Council 401B N. Ivey Ave. Siler City, NC 27344 919-742-3762 919-742-3618 chathamcouncil.org
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Faith Eno River Unitarian Universalist Fellowship 4907 Garrett Rd. Durham, NC 27707 919-489-2575 office@eruuf.org eruuf.org Imani MCC 304 E. Trinity Ave. Durham, NC 27701 919-251-6275 office@imanimcc.org imanimcc.org
313 Raleigh 313 W. Hargett St. Raleigh, NC 27601 919-755-9599 313raleigh.com East End Martini Bar Sunday nights 201 E. Franklin St. Chapel Hill, NC 27514 919-929-0024 myspace.com/stirateastend Flex 2 S. West St. Raleigh, NC 27603 919-832-8855 flex-club.com
Legends 330 W. Hargett St. Raleigh, NC 27601 919-831-8888 legendsclub@mindspring.com legends-club.com Liquid Lounge 311 S. Harrington St. Raleigh, NC 27601 919-803-8616 liquidraleigh@yahoo.com liquid-raleigh.com Sirens Lounge 1803 W. Markham Ave. Durham, NC 27705 919-416-6684 info@sirenslounge.com sirenslounge.com Steel Blue 1426 S. Miami Blvd. Durham, NC 27703 919-596-5876 clubsteelblue@gmail.com clubsteelblue.com Media The Triangle LGBT newspaper, resources www.trianglelgbt.com
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Triad / Greensboro, Winston-Salem Community Adam Foundation P.O. Box 21113 Winston-Salem, NC 27120-1113 info@adamfoundation.org adamfoundation.org Alternative Resources of the Triad/Triad Pride info@outtriad.org outtriad.org Equality Winston-Salem P.O. Box 20382 Winston-Salem, NC 27120-0382 equalitywinstonsalem@gmail.com equalitywinstonsalem.org Gay-Straight Advocates for Education P.O. Box 41044 Greensboro, NC 27404 336-327-7499 contact@gsafe.org gsafe.org Guilford Green Foundation 301 S. Elm St., Suite 211 Greensboro NC 27401 336-790-8419 info@ggfnc.org ggfnc.org
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Subliminal message may cure age-a-phobia
Hey Trinity, This may sound juvenile, but I’m afraid to tell my girlfriend that I’m younger than I said I was. I’m afraid she’ll dump me. She always says, “I really like that you’re older than me.” And, so on. What should I do? Yours, Age Caged, Houston, TX Hey Caged, It sounds cliché to say “she should like you for you, not your age,” but she should, period! However, she likes older and you must deal with your original lie. So, first while she’s sleeping, repeat often quietly in her ear, “younger is better.” If she’s still attached to your older, more established fake history, then it’s time to fess up, honey. Decide between spending the rest of your life lying or coming clean with the truth! If she still dumps you for your age, then consider yourself saved from a long life controlled by her irrational fantasies!
of bliss. Then comes the first fight when someone appears to be the Wicked Witch (or Wizard) of the West. But, only a cowardly lion needs to run. Sweetie, when a tornado strikes it often opens new doors. Fighting is a normal, and often healthy, way two people let it all out. So, let this fight make you two stronger not weaker. Practice communication, compromise and forgiveness! Until a house falls on your head, keep working on this yellow brick road!
Dear Trinity, I was wondering what you, as a celebrity, are doing for America and the war efforts? Standing Up For America, Buffalo, NY Dear Standing Up, Like everyone, I am trying to find my place as an American in these days of war. Pumpkin, we all must do what we can in whatever way we are able. (See how I wave Old Glory and dance away the evening in my cartoon.) Hello Trinity, I have strong feelings for a guy who knows about these feelings. But, one minute he’s very attentive to me and the next minute he’s unaware of my existence.
Dearest Trinity, My boyfriend and I had our first big fight. We have not talked in over a week. Does this mean it’s over? First Fight, Topeka, KS
Unfortunately, I can’t get over him! MEN (ugh!), Fort Lauderdale, FL
Dearest First Fight, Happily dating couples often think that they’re in “Oz”, the land
Hello MEN (ugh!), You’re either very young or very new to the ways and woes
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of men! So, here’s some hints, darling, for getting you through the next hundred years or hundred days. I suggest you cut and paste these on your wall and learn to accept them! Trinity’s Eye Opening Tips For Understanding The Lame Activities Of Men 1. Inconsistency, selfishness and cold mood swings are side affects of MSG and men! 2. If he’s madly in love with you and can’t stop thinking about you, but acts like nothing’s going on, then you’re with a man! 3. Emotional expressions are often found in women, artists and many living things but as for men, try again! 4. “My needs, my freedom, my sexual desires, my side of the story…” are phrases most often spoken by…guess who! 5. Some men are extremely kind, sensitive, warm and loving, but these men are mostly found in monasteries! 6. Cooking, cleaning, parenting and taking out the trash are things men find other people to do! 7. If you’re (tired of) hearing, “I’m late, it’s not my fault. I forgot our date. It’s not my fault.” “Sorry, but blah, blah, it’s not my fault.” Then you are definitely with a man! 8. Occasional flings and apparent flirting accompanied by puppy dog eyes and expensive presents can only represent one gender! 9. Men often appear to be clearheaded, practical, passionate types… until the third month of dating! 10. Lastly, now that you know everything about men, don’t fret, because they can also be trained to be incredibly romantic…given time! : : — With a Masters of Divinity, Reverend Trinity was host of “Spiritually Speaking,” a weekly radio drama, and now performs globally. info: www.telltrinity.com . Trinity@telltrinity.com Sponsored by: Provincetown Business Guild 800-637-8696 . www.ptown.org
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Our free-wheeling summer ways were fun, but now it’s time to get serious. Both the Sun and Venus enter Virgo and ask us to eat our peas and clean our rooms. Before you start shoving peas under your bed in protest, step back and see how nice everything looks when all is in place. Maybe even nice enough to keep it that way? LEO (07.24-08.23) If you have been feeling like you are down to your last pennies, worry less. Proud Lions discover new revenue streams and find ways to improve their financial outlook. Of course, it won’t happen by wishing it so. You have to make an effort. Do the necessary research and ask a reputable advisor. Become the billionaire you always wanted to marry. VIRGO (08.24-09.23) There are so many new things to try, new people to meet and new places to see that it may become overwhelming with all the choices. But, this is the time to jump in and see what is what and who is who. Queer Virgins are not only in the beehive of all the activity, they are also the ones who are creating all the buzz. Now, if you could also keep all the honey. LIBRA (09.24-10.23) There is something happening behind the scenes that will prove to be fun and enlightening, if you give it a chance. Open yourself up to possibilities. Anyway, you seem to know intuitively what it is and can prepare to enjoy any “surprise” to the hilt. Proud Libras might also have a secret admirer who, after a few false starts, finally reveals themselves to you. Uh, ho. SCORPIO (10.24-11.22) Queer Scorps are awash with pals. So many in fact that you may secretly ache for some quiet time. But, don’t retreat yet. There are opportunities to be mined that are very advantageous for you. In fact, you should expand your outreach to friends of friends because there is someone out there who can make certain things happen for you. Keep pressing the flesh until it manifests. SAGITTARIUS (11.23-12.22) If you think that your career plans have stalled, think again. This is the time to rev them up and take them for a spin. Gay Archers have grand plans that could advance them to the executive suite. So, what are you waiting for? Implement grand plans now while you have the personal charisma to charm any snake. And, there will be more than one in your work area. CAPRICORN (12.23-01.20) You know what is right, so do the right thing. Handle all legal matters with a dispassionate eye and they will go the way you want them to go. Expand your horizon by thinking of new approaches to old intractable problems and maybe even contemplate a change of scenery. I bet you will think of a lot a great solutions lounging on a chaise on some lovely beach. AQUARIUS (01.21-02.19) Aqueerians are sexy beasts and know what they need to do to grab all the adoring attention for themselves. Find ways to get yourself in the right crowd. Press and impress. But, as you ooze passion, don’t slip on your own oil by becoming a spoiled diva. Remember what happens at the stroke of midnight to your carriage and costume. Back to used cars and cut-offs? PISCES (02.20-03.20) Relationships hit a high point. Maybe that is because you realize how important it is to really connect with another person. Make every connection more meaningful and stronger. For those Guppies swimming in the vast ocean, don’t be surprised if someone nets you and hauls you in. But, you have to dive into the water and not hesitate by the wet bar. ARIES (03.21-04.20) Not only will the day-to-day job seem more appealing, you will also see that a happier attitude about work makes you more appealing too. Suddenly, co-workers don’t mind hanging out with you by the watercooler and you
get that envied position on the corporate softball team. Enjoy it while it lasts, gay Ram. Something will set you off again after Labor Day. TAURUS (04.21-05.21) You are the one to know and why not? Queer Bulls know how to have a good time and attract many followers. Plan some riotous get-togethers and get the gossip mill going. And, if you feel a spark of creativity, follow your gay muse and see where it takes you. You can set the stage on fire with your enormous talent. Well, at least you will think so. GEMINI (05.22-06.21) Family issues become much more important. So, see what you can do to make relatives more comfortable and agreeable. But, while you shouldn’t mind making some effort on their behalf, don’t become a doormat. Balance and compromise are very important in forming beneficial and successful relationships. Washington — take note. CANCER (06.22-07.23) You know just what to say to get others to do what you want them to do. So, what do you really want them to do, gay Crab? Spend some time cultivating and incubating fresh and profitable ideas that will not only benefit you but will also help your neighborhood. There will be time at the end of the month to successfully implement your plans. So, start to plan now. : : © 2011 Madam Lichtenstein, LLC. All Rights Reserved. Entertainment. info: Visit www.TheStarryEye.com for e-greetings, horoscopes and Pride jewelry. My book “HerScopes: A Guide To Astrology For Lesbians” from Simon & Schuster is available at bookstores and major booksites.
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audiophile by david stout david@goqnotes.com
Has Lady Gaga peaked?
I read a number of message boards devoted to music and I follow the “Billboard” charts pretty closely. I like to think I have my ear to the ground and am pretty good at spotting trends before they bloom. If it’s true, I have a feeling the presently scattershot sniping about Lady Gaga’s recent commercial results might kick into overdrive any moment now. If it happens and the “Decline of Gaga” becomes an internet meme, expect the music blogs and magazines to fall in line, followed dutifully by the mainstream press. Basically, I’m predicting a complete backlash in 5…4…3…2… The foundation of the growing chatter is
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the very good, but not great sales figures for Gaga’s latest album, “Born This Way,” and the singles it’s yielded thus far. To be fair, the title track was a smash hit that spent a month and a half at #1. Still, a persuasive argument can be made that as hot as Gaga was coming out of the “Fame Monster” era, the first single from the next album was guaranteed to succeed based on momentum alone, regardless of merit. In the wake of that initial success, however, both follow-up singles have failed to reach the same heights. “Judas” just scrapped the top 10 and was roundly labeled a dissapointment by listeners and critics alike, while “The
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Edge of Glory” debuted on the singles chart at a fantastic #3, but never bested that placement during its run. On the other hand, popstar Katy Perry — who has something of a Madonna/Cyndi Lauper thing going with Gaga — is poised to score a fifth #1 single from her album “Teenage Dream.” If she pulls it off, she’ll tie a record set by Michael Jackson in 1988 that seemed unlikely to ever be repeated. As for the album itself, “Born This Way” enjoyed massive first week sales but could only manage a puny run as the nation’s bestseller. Adele, the artist Gaga knocked out of the top spot, reclaimed the throne just two weeks later. To date, the U.K. songbird’s acclaimed “21” has scored 12 non-consecutive weeks at #1 overall (including the week I’m writing this). Before Adele, the last artist to spend a dozen weeks on top was Carlos Santana with his 1999 comeback juggernaut “Supernatural.” There’s no question that the stellar success of Perry and Adele is contributing to the
Gaga-fell-off tattle because it shines a harsh light on the superstar’s relative performance. And I do mean the superstar. Nobody in current popular music is as hyped, dissected, promoted and studied as Gaga. To justify all the ink that’s spilled and airtime consumed to examine her music, style and politics, Gaga needs to create work and achieve commercial success on a scale that answers the question “why should we care” before anyone even thinks to ask it. Otherwise, she’s an obvious target for contempt. Having said all this, far be it from me to tell Gaga what to do. But, if I were in her inner circle I would absolutely recommend that she substantially lower her profile when promotion for “Born This Way” wraps. Cliche or not, familiarity really does breed contempt — something the superstars of the past understood and embraced. I remember well a time when MJ simply
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removing his sunglasses to give fans a look at his eyes elicited roars at the Grammys. When TV footage of Prince walking through an airport was greeted like a UFO sighting due to his reclusive nature. On the flip side, a few weeks ago Gaga was a guest judge on reality show “So You Think You Can Dance.� Can you imagine “True Blue�-era Madonna even considering such a thing? Ridiculous! Clearly Gaga feels close to her fans and wants to maintain a real connection to them. She has more Twitter followers than any other person on earth. I love the idea of that, too, but the bottom line cost of that kind of accessibility is the loss of mystery. Looking at the situation from my living room couch, it seems the best way for Gaga to avoid being unceremoniously ushered out of the spotlight in favor of the next big thing is for her to step away from it on her own terms. It wouldn’t be long before “Come back, Gaga, we need you!!!� posts were appearing regularly online. : : info: audiophile@goqnotes.com
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Winston Salem, NC 27101 336-777-0116 aidscareservice.org
PFLAG Mt. Airy 1601 Cadle Ford Rd. Mount Airy, NC 27030 sdnichols@surry.net
Triad Health Project 801 Summit Ave. Greensboro, NC 27405 336-275-1654 triadhealthproject.com
PFLAG Winston-Salem P.O. Box 15477 Winston-Salem, NC 27113 1-888-PFLAGWS info@pflagwinstonsalem.org pflagwinstonsalem.org
PFLAG Greensboro P.O. Box 4153 Greensboro, NC 27404 336-285-6088 info@pflaggreensboro.org pflaggreensboro.org
Faith Church of the Holy Spirit Fellowship 1005-B Burke St. Winston Salem, NC 27101 336-631-1331 churchoftheholyspiritfellowshipnc.com
Triad Pride Men’s Chorus 200 North Davie St., Box 20 Greensboro NC 27401 336-589-6267 info@triadpridemenschorus.org triadpridemenschorus.org
PFLAG High Point 1215 Kensington Dr. High Point, NC 27262 336-841-5028 yerfmom@northstate.net
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Aug. 20 • Charlotte Charlotte Royals The Charlotte Royals rugby team faces off against Columbus Coyotes. McClintock Middle School, 2101 Rama Rd. For more information, visit charlotteroyals.org. Aug. 21 • Charlotte Interfaith Pride Service Pride Charlotte and local religious leaders celebrate the faith and spirituality of the LGBT community. Location TBA. 4 p.m. Free. More details at pridecharlotte.com/events/. Aug. 22 • Charlotte Bowling Night Sidelines Sports Bar and Billiards and AMC Centennial Lanes host a special “rainbowling” night. Donations accepted for free bowling on all lanes between 7-9 p.m. $5 minimum suggested. Proceeds benefit Pride Charlotte. AMF Centennial Lanes, 4501 South Blvd. 7-9 p.m. pridecharlotte.com. Aug. 22 • Charlotte Bowling After Party Sidelines Sports Bar and Billiards hosts a “rainbowling” after party. Free pool. $2 drafts. $3 well drinks. 4544 South Blvd. 8-11 p.m. thesidelinesbar.com. Aug. 23 • Charlotte Pride Charlotte Sounds of Summer Party A special Pride party at The Westin! Includes one complimentary drink ticket to the first 50 guests that arrive, half-off appetizers, $4 draft beers, $6 Smirnoff Cosmopolitan Martinis and a raffle for one complimentary one night weekend stay at The Westin Charlotte (one submission per guest). The Westin Charlotte Ember Terrace, 601 S. College St. 7 p.m. pridecharlotte.com. Aug. 23 • Charlotte 7th Son at Dolce Vita The Gay Men’s Chorus of Charlotte’s ensemble 7th Son performs at Dolce Vita for one of the group’s popular and free “Drive-By” performances. 3205 N. Davidson St. 7:30-8:30 p.m. gmccharlotte.org. Aug. 24 • Charlotte ‘Make the Yuletide Gay’ The GayCharlotte Film Festival brings Christmastime to summertime with a special screening of “Make the Yuletide Gay.” Olaf “Gunn” Gunnunderson, an out-and-proud gay college student, crawls back into the closet to survive the holidays with his family. He keeps his cool as his quirky Midwestern-
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Aug. 25 • Charlotte The Sounds of Pride A joint production of Pride Charlotte, Charlotte Pride Band, Gay Men’s Chorus of Charlotte and One Voice Chorus. Mint Museum Uptown, James B. Duke Auditorium, 500 S. Tryon St. 7:30 p.m. For more information and to purchase tickets (seating is limited), visit pridecharlotte.com/soundsofpride/. Aug. 25 • Charlotte Pride ShipRocked Join Snug Harbor for their weekly LGBT night, with a special celebration for Pride Charlotte. Snug Harbor, 1228 Gordon St. pridecharlotte.com. Aug. 26 • Charlotte Kick-off to Pride Charlotte Takoever Join the guys and gals of Takeover Friday for a special pre-Pride Charlotte Festival Takeover at the Bechtler Museum of Modern Art. Open to the public. Free. Bechtler Museum of Modern Art, 420 S. Tryon St. 7-11 p.m. For more event details: takeoverfriday.com. Aug. 26 • Charlotte Jessica Wild at The Scorpio Presenting Pride Charlotte Festival entertainer Jessica Wild from Logo’s “RuPaul’s Drag Race.” Showtime at 11:30 p.m. $10 cover with all-you-can-drink draft. The Scorpio, 2301 Freedom Dr. pridecharlotte.com. Aug. 27 • Charlotte Pride Charlotte Festival The LGBT Community Center presents its annual Pride Charlotte Festival, this year in a new and larger venue: Uptown Charlotte! Featuring entertainers ranging from drag and hip-hop to indie and folk, including Jessica Wild of Logo’s “RuPaul’s Drag Race,” Eyes of
entertainment. news. views. the Elders,arts. Richard Cortez, Snagglepuss, Ryan Cassata and more. S. Tryon St., between 3rd St. and Stonewall St. (Levine Center for the Arts). Noon-8 p.m. For more detailed information, visit pridecharlotte.com/events/festival/. Aug. 28 • Charlotte Buff Faye’s Sunday Pride Drag Brunch Food, fun and drag for the whole family! Benefitting Pride Charlotte and the LGBT Community Center of Charlotte. Hartigan’s Irish Pub, 601 S. Cedar St. Noon. bufffaye.com. Aug. 28 • Charlotte HRC Family Fun Day Come enjoy a family-friendly day in the park with members of the local Human Rights Campaign family. A cookout with hot dogs, hamburgers and sides will be provided. Event is free; No alcohol permitted. Independence Park Shelter 1, 300 Hawthorne Ln. Noon-4:30 p.m. Aug. 30 • Charlotte Gay Powers Activate The Bar at 316 hosts their second “Gay Powers Activate” mixer for LGBT community members and leaders — a chance for local organizations to connect with each other and the community. The Bar at 316, 316 Rensselaer Ave. 6-8 p.m. thebarat316.com. Sept. 3 • Columbia SC Pride The annual SC Pride Parade and Festival lights up downtown Columbia and Finlay Park. See our brief story on the event on page ##. For more information, visit scpride.org. Sept. 24 • Durham NC Pride Join thousands of LGBT North Carolinians for the parade and hang out throughout the day with vendors from across the state. ncpride.org.
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