I MESSENGER

Page 1

I Messenger

February 8, 2019

I Messenger

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

1

at

Marcus Bowers She's Happy Hair

Terry Lacy-Little Eagle Barricade

Jimmy Gaston Premier 360

Jason Robinson Sound Design Studio

Christopher Ross Eight Digit Media

Royce West West and Associates LLP

BEHOLD:

What Success Looks Like!


2

WSSTANDS IN IN .EWSSTANDS

wlett Rowlett quite esquite rdson hardson E.Dallas Dallas

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

I Messenger An IMM LLC Publication MAILING ADDRESS 320 S. R.L. Thornton Freeway Suite 220 Dallas, TX 75203 WWW.TEXASMETRONEWS.COM 214-941-0110 Cheryl Smith PUBLISHER - EDITOR news@texasmetronews.com Nina Garcia Marketing/Sales Manager EDITORIAL TEAM Lajuana Barton Eva Coleman L. Diane Evans Dorothy J. Gentry Vincent Hall Richard Alexander Moore Betheny Sargent Dr. Felicia N. Shepherd Monique P. Stone Dareia Tolbert Andrew Whigham III MARKETING TEAM Carlton McConnell Terry Allen PR DESIGN/LAYOUT 619 WEB/SOCIAL MEDIA EDITOR Alana King

Free Free- Take - TakeOne One CIRCULATION/DISTRIBUTION MB Distribution

Editorial submissions cheryl@texasmetronews.com

I Messenger

03) 450-13971 Year 1 Year Subscription $45.00 450-1397 Subscription $45.00

Established 2011

CREDO OF THE BLACK PRESS The Black Press believes that America can best lead the world away from racial and national antagonisms when it accords to every person, regardless of race, color or creed, full human and legal rights. Hating no person, fearing no person, the Black Press strives to help every person in the firm belief that all are hurt as long as anyone is held back.

I Messenger

Quest for Success Class of 2019 When the Dallas Black Chamber of Commerce (DBCC) hosts the 35th Annual Quest for Success Awards Luncheon on Friday, February 8, 2019, they will highlight businesses in the Dallas/ Fort Worth area that have an impact on the local, state, and national economy while contributing to the economic ecosystem in the African-American

Community. In 1985, the DBCC established the Quest for Success Awards to recognize African-American entrepreneurs in the Dallas/Fort Worth area for outstanding business achievements and service to the community. This luncheon is designed to spotlight African-American entrepreneurs and inspire other en-

trepreneurs to make their mark in Dallas/Ft. Worth. This year’s awardees are Jason Robinson of Sound Design Studio, Chris Ross of Eight Digit Media, Terry Lacy-Little of Eagle Barricade, the Honorable Royce West of West and Associates LLP, Marcus Bowers of She’s Happy Hair and Jimmy Gaston of Premier 360.


I Messenger

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

3


4

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

MY TRUTH

By Cheryl Smith

Publisher

Last week I met an angel. Talk about a beautiful spirit. Well, she was absolutely adorable and exuded kindness, love, patience, compassion and a deep, abiding faith. She was also a caregiver to her baby son who was injured 12 years ago and is a paraplegic. This caregiver is still able to smile and speak with joy when talking about her son, whose voice she hasn’t heard in years. But, she said, he loves to hear other voices. So I spoke to him, introducing myself and telling him that he was in my prayers. Although his mom was told by numerous doctors that her child was not going to make it, she kept the faith. And although her son has not walked, talked or been able to take care of himself, she has never given up on him.

I Messenger

Let’s care about caregivers

It has to be difficult at times. Which brings me to my truth. I knew another mother who took care of her son. We lived on the same street in Newark, New Jersey and for at least three years of my life I walked past the house where a young man, who was bedridden, always had a cheerful word as he lay in his bed; speaking from his window. My friend, his niece was my age and while I can’t remember much about the scenario, I did know that he was paralyzed and there was no expectation that he would ever walk again. Now as a 4th grader, I couldn’t wrap my head around all that was going on. Sometimes I would stop in and visit, to say hello and ask how are you? I remember thinking that he looked like the musician extraordinaire Stevie Wonder.

For some reason, I never felt sad when I was around him. I wasn’t afraid as often young children are when faced with something or someone they are not familiar with; and I didn’t pity him either. I never let a day pass without stopping to speak, even if I was running to keep from being late to school. And he always had a pleasant word or message for me. As an adult, I can’t help but wonder what was going through his mind. He was a young man, I would guess in his 20s, and it appeared he would live life watching from that window, as the world passed him by. Then there was his mom, like the mom I met last week; who seemed to have a smile on her face every time I saw her. Have you ever thought about what goes into caregiving? Have you wondered about the toll it takes caring for someone who can’t do


I Messenger

for themselves? And sadly, today, there are people who are letting the world past them by when they actually can get up and get out of bed. They’d rather stay in the bed all day; watching television, in a drunken or drug-induced stupor, or “chilling.” Now, there is nothing wrong with “chilling” or having fun. Nothing at all. But what about the people who would absolutely love to get out of their beds. Sometimes we don’t realize how good we have it. Sometimes we need a reminder. For some, laying around in bed all day long is not an ideal situation because they’d rather be up and moving around and living life to the fullest. From time to time I would wonder about that young man on Schley Street. Is he still alive? And if he is, who’s

taking care of him now? Either the young man I met last week or the one from decades ago could have easily been you or I. Hopefully we would be fortunate enough to have someone in our lives who would dedicate their lives to making ours comfortable and safe. And hopefully we would have the love and compassion to be of service should anyone in our families or circles find themselves in need of a caregiver. It’s not easy. Caregivers need love and support or they could find themselves in a bad state because many work themselves into bad health, taking care of others. Next time you are thinking about something; think about the men and women who are caregivers. Too often people rationalize for the work that a caregiver

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

5

does, just to absolve themselves of guilt because they aren’t doing anything — you know the ones who are the loudest at funerals or make insensitive comments about the work the caregiver is doing, or worse yet, they act like the caregiver is doing it for the money. In most cases, there’s not a lot of money. Actually folks tend to spend entirely too much time “thinking” about the wrong things. They should think about how to be a blessing to others. It doesn’t have to be big or expensive. It really is the thought that counts. If you don’t know, ask somebody; don’t assume. Now November is Family Caregivers Month, but every day we should show love to caregivers because they need love, compassion, understanding, food, prayers, and so much more. God bless them!

CREDO OF THE BLACK PRESS The Black Press believes that America can best lead the world away from racial and national antagonisms when it accords to every person, regardless of race, color or creed, full human and legal rights. Hating no person, fearing no person, the Black Press strives to help every person in the firm belief that all are hurt as long as anyone is held back.


6

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

By Stacy Brown

Black Women remain backbone of the struggle

For years, Black women have had to rise above adversity, exude humility and care for others — all while not appearing tired, hurt or showing the struggle. Though almost inarguably the most discriminated and oppressed of all people, Black women might be the single-biggest reason to celebrate Black History Month. “What a Black woman can do seems easy to the naked eye but rarely do others consider what it takes for them to get there — overcoming stereotypes about women, Blacks and who they are in general,” said Terri Broussard Williams, a Cornell University graduate and founder of the Movement Maker Tribe, which aims to inspire others to create change. Black women are the backbone of the Black family — college-educated and business-oriented individuals, said Jamila Choyce of Choyce Plus Size Models. “I believe that the media does such an injustice when we are portrayed as the stereotypical, high school dropout, eyes rolling, trash-talking, ass-kicking, loud-talking b—h,” Choyce said. “We voted for our families, communities and for our future. Our legacy is to use our vote as our voice for change.” Choyce said Black women

spearheaded the Women’s March and created the #MeToo movement. “We watched CNN, CNBC, and even Fox News, and decided #NOMORE, #MeToo, and #TimesUP for racism, disenfranchisement of our community, being raped, sexually assaulted, and being less than white women and all other women,” Choyce said. As an African-American woman and therapist, Ginger Lavender Wilkerson said she believes Black women play a huge role in African-American history. They are the storytellers, record-keepers and, in many homes, the matriarch, she said. “As we have seen with women empowerment movements in general, women are tapping into their voice and their ability to influence through power,” Wilkerson said. “Many African-American women are stepping out of the shadows of their Caucasian counterparts and standing in their own light and power. They are no longer subscribing to the world’s standards of beauty and power. “In addition, to their own shifting, the world is beginning to recognize and embrace Black women as true equals and acknowledging their contributions to enhance the world of business, politics and leadership,” she said. Wilkerson said many Black

women have begun to look within for validation and are shunn i n g accepted societal standards of beauty and worth. “There is a sense of collective power which has supported Black women growth,” she said. In Texas last month, 17 Black women made history when together they were sworn in as judges in the state’s most populated county. It’s widely believed the women are the largest group of Black female judges elected at the same time in the history of Harris County, which includes Houston. In January, California Democratic Sen. Kamala Harris, a Black woman, announced her candidacy for president on the anniversary of Shirley Chisolm becoming the first Black woman to win a seat in Congress. Many experts said the blue wave of the November midterms would not have been remotely possible without Black female voters. And in January, the Congressional Black Caucus welcomed its largest membership ever — a 55-member group

I Messenger

that includes a number of Black women such as Lauren Underwood of Illinois, Ayanna Pressley of Massachusetts and Jahana Hayes of Connecticut. “What a Black woman can do seems easy to the naked eye, but rarely do others consider what it takes for them to get there — overcoming stereotypes about women, Blacks and who they are in general,” Williams said. “So it’s no surprise that we don’t truly honor the phenomenal women that they are. People like Stacey Abrams are bringing the struggle to the forefront and with a narrative that others are beginning to understand. “Abrams was the more prepared candidate and clearly won an election,” she said. “Because of movements like the Women’s March and #MeToo, society is finally realizing the role that Black women play in shaping our economy, communities and country. This is extremely important, as the success of many in our country was built off their back.”


I Messenger

Laurel Land Funeral Home holds grand opening for new facility in Dallas Photos: Oak Cliff Chamber of Commerce

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

Laurel Land Funeral Home & Laurel Land Memorial Park, this week, celebrated the grand opening of its new 22,000 square foot faciity. Working together, the teams at Laurel Land Funeral Home & Laurel Land Memorial Park are dedicated to celebrating every life in a very personal way and manager Pamela Sing-Prater praised her team and touted their service to all.

7


8

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

I Messenger


I Messenger

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

9


10

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

I Messenger


I Messenger

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

American Airlines celebrates

Black History Month

with the renowned Kinsey African American Art & History Collection

February 13th, 2019 11AM-2PM

- Featuring Bernard, Shirley and Khalil Kinsey Highlighting their journey and incredible story of African American achievement and contribution throughout American history. Come meet the Kinseys, and experience select art and artifacts from the collection on display in our atrium. The Kinsey Collection coffee table book will be available for purchase and signing. For more information please visit: www.thekinseycollection.com

Click Here to RSVP by February 8th: American Airlines Headquarters (HDQ 1) 4333 Amon Carter Blvd. Fort Worth, Texas 76155 Visit us at: AA.com/Diversity & Inclusion

11


12

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

I Messenger


I Messenger

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

13

Open a book, explore the world: Philadelphia African American Children’s Book Fair

The Last Word By Dr. Julianne Malveaux

We hear the words “national emergency” so often from the bloviator that masquerades as a President that we forget what an emergency really looks like. One of our most pressing crises is the educational emergency that our nation faces, with the quality of inner-city education, in particular, so lacking that many young people are graduating from high school unequipped to manage either post-secondary education or employment. This hits African American communities hardest, with an achievement gap well documented by the National Assessment of Educational Progress and the National Center for Educational statistics. Why? Researchers like Georgia Perimeter College’s Dr. Tiffany Flowers consider everything from what happens at home to what happens at school, noting that parental involvement in literacy makes a difference in a young person’s reading ability. Some homes have bookshelves that are groaning with books, though, and others have just a few. The difference in access to children’s

books may partly explain the achievement gap between Black and white students as well as between children in lower-income and higher-income families. What are families to do? Vanesse J. Lloyd-Sgambati has one of the answers. As the founder of the African American Children’s Book Project she has, for 27 years, hosted the Annual African American Children’s Book Fair. This year it was held on February 2, 2019, at Community College of Philadelphia (CCP). With the theme, A Book Opens Up A World of Opportunities, it feeds literacy hunger, bringing together book authors, booksellers, parents, and children who are eager to experience culturally relevant literary experiences. Last year the event drew more than four thousand people, along with dozens of authors and illustrators. Vanesse Lloyd-Sgambati is passionate about her mission, noting that many economic and cultural factors contribute to the wealth gap. “You can’t tell a child to read at home if there are no books in the household. With fewer retailers offering diverse books, the need is even greater.” Her event not only salutes those who produce diverse books but also provides young

people with the opportunity to have access to books. Says Lloyd-Sgambati, “Adults who attended the program as children now bring their children. They understand the importance of having books in the home and the life-long impact of reading on the journey to success for their children.” I am writing about this local Philadelphia event because it is the kind of activity that needs to take place all over the country. Black children’s literacy is improving, but the achievement gap is a national emergency. We combat the gap by encouraging literacy among young people, by embracing children’s literacy as a cause, and by developing traditions like the African American Children’s Book Fair to salute those who write and illustrate diverse books and to provide opportunities for parents and children to buy books. Books, says Vanesse, “empower, enrich, and enlighten the lives of all children.” She doesn’t have to convince me. I’ve so frequently had my nose in a book, that I once wrote an essay about the ways I escaped my childhood life through reading. I was one of those kids who put books in front of my dolls and gave them lessons. Once forbidden to read a thick book because the con-

tents were not child-appropriate, I climbed up a shelf to get the book, injuring myself but then allowed to devour the contents. I went to New York City without leaving San Francisco by reading, inhaled parts of the African continent without boarding an airplane through reading, and became livid about issues of economic justice because I had my nose in a book. I wish the literacy experience for every young person, not only because it will influence their life experiences, but also because it can bring them joy. I commend Vanesse Lloyd-Sgambati who is, in full disclosure, a dear friend, for the work that she does to ensure that teachers and librarians have new books in their schools. Philadelphia is blessed to have her fantastic book fair. If she had the resources, she could replicate this event all over the country. When a child opens a book, she explores the world. Her book fair is a stellar commitment to children’s literacy. There ought to be a similar book fair everywhere an achievement gap is documented! Julianne Malveaux is an author and economist. Her latest book “Are We Better Off? Race, Obama and Public Policy” is available via www.amazon. com for booking, wholesale inquiries or for more info visit www.juliannemalveaux.com


14

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

I Messenger

DBFF’S “Women, Wine & Wisdom By M. P. Stone

Denton Black Film Festival's preeminent event, Women, Wine & Wisdom was held on January 26, 2019 at the Patterson-Appleton Arts Center in Denton, Texas. The panel forum moderated by Freda Frimpong, featured distinguished women professionals in the industry such as Amy Adrion, Christie Herring, Patty Newton and Justina Walford. The creative media panel, introduced by Women In Film Dallas past President Patty Newton, spoke extensively on the evolving diversity in the film-making landscape for female leadership roles and their personal experiences as they fought for a foothold in their career. According to DBFF, Amy Adrion, is a director and writer whose work has screened at the Sundance, SXSW, Tribeca and Los Angeles Film Festivals, been broadcast on PBS and MTV, and won numerous awards. Amy’s debut fea-

Director, UPM, Art Director and everything in between. In 2001, Newton won the prestigious Cine Golden Eagle for producing the award-winning short, A Window That Opens. She also produced the Beverly Hills WIFD Membership Director Anietie Antia-Obong, former 5-year WIFD Board Member Vivian Fullerlove and new WIFD member P l a y h o u s e Monique Stone production of Danny and ture, HALF THE PIC- duced Code: Debugthe Deep Blue Sea and TURE, celebrates the ging the Gender Gap groundbreaking work and co-edited NOVA’s wrote, directed and of women film and TV Point of No Return. edited the award-windirectors and had its Christie’s credits in- ning short film Pursuit World Premiere at the clude work with PBS, which played for over Sundance Film Festi- National Geographic, three years on the val in 2018. It also won A&E, MBC1 and the domestic and internathe #WhatNext Award History Channel. Her- tional festival circuit. at Sundance: London, ring received her MA Justina Walford is a the Audience Award in Documentary Film- Japanese-American for Best Documenta- making from Stanford filmmaker and artisry at the Lighthouse University, was a 2013 tic director of Women Film Festival and the San Francisco Film So- Texas Film Festival. Impact Award at the ciety Film House Fel- Critically acclaimed Through Women’s low and is currently writer, producer, and Eyes Film Festival. a member-owner of performer of stage and screen, Walford Christie Herring is New Day Films. an award-winning Assistant Professor was formerly the A.D. editor, producer, and of Practice/Filmmak- of Split Stage Perfordirector who has er, Patty Newton has mances in Hollywood. worked in documen- worked professionally During that time, she tary filmmaking for in film and television produced a dozen over 20 years. She re- in Texas, Georgia and full-length produccently edited and pro- California as Producer, tions and countless

one-night shows, many of which were her original work. Justina left Los Angeles for New York City and began creating with husband John Wildman, including writing and producing the horror thriller, The LADIES OF THE HOUSE, shot in Dallas. Freda Frimpong is a multi-talented media professional with a background in acting, writing, producing and under her company, KUUMBA Media; content distribution can be added to the list. She holds an MBA from Bryant University but calls the University of North Texas, UNT, home as a past alumnus. Her goal is to find the bridge between media and technology that compliments the African educational and entertainment sectors. KUUMBA Media, a video-on-demand platform to catch up on the latest African cinema, is founded by Freda and is operated by her and a small Afro-centric team in Brooklyn, New York.


I Messenger

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

15


16

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

I Messenger


I Messenger

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

17


18

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

I Messenger

FEBRUARY 23, 2019 6:00 P.M. HYATT REGENCY DALLAS AT REUNION REUNION BALLROOM, 300 REUNION BLVD. EVENT CONTACT: Kristie Patton Foster dallasinfo@uncf.org 972 234 1007


I Messenger

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

19


20

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

I Messenger


I Messenger

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

21

QUIT PLAYIN’ By Vincent L. Hall

This year, on this annual commemoration of Black History Month, pledge to do something you never have before. As you celebrate the honorable handiwork and intellectual inventiveness of Dr. Carter G. Woodson, you should attempt something extraordinary. Find a book or two that you haven’t read and commit to learning something new about Black history. It’s time to Quit Playin’ like you’re a scholar on the subject. My grandfather, Ed Hall, used to say something that pushes me daily, and it could probably help you too. He would say that they could take all of the knowledge in my possession out of this world and the world wouldn’t miss much. Take a deep breath and mull that one over. Scary, isn’t it? Don’t get it twisted. He wasn’t implying that I lacked intellect or ability. What he meant was that there can be no exhaustion of learning and searching. You should never be satisfied with the small amount of facts and minutia that you can personally con-

sume, comprehend or contain. There is no room for complacency in the field of education, formal or otherwise. Dr. Michael Eric Dyson, a college dean, preacher and one of the 10 most intelligent and spherically-learned people in America, delivered a sermon that will never leave me. Along the length of a virulent diatribe, he declared that one of his misgivings was having black students in his African-American studies class who thought they were exempt. They made the erroneous assumption that being black made them experts at Black history. Quit Playin like you don’t think so too!! Some of you deem yourself too old to learn, or too smart to study. However, we must encourage our young people to do a

School Is In!

deep dive into Woodson, W.E. B. DuBois,

Mary McLeod Bethune and others. If they know all the trademark folk, have them read up on Marcus Garvey,

Shirley Chisolm or H. Rap Brown. Hell, what do you know about the fearless and faithful White abolitionists like William Lloyd Garrison and Harriett Beecher Stowe? What about the Reverend John Brown, who along with his supporters was the chief architect of the Pottawatomie Massacre and the Battles of Black Jack and

Osawatomie? What you know bout’ that? Before you venture toward Alabama to visit the National Museum for Peace and Justice, you can read up on the subject of “strange fruit” in a book by Ralph Ginzburg. After perusing “100 Years of Lynching,” you will discover that Texas was as likely a place for the museum as anywhere else in the country. Crowds of so-called Christians, just like the ones who cram into airplane hangars to see Donald Trump, used to lynch “niggers” on Sunday evenings for sport. Waco, College Station and points nearby, played host to many a vesper service. Texas and Alabama have always been kissing cousins! Education and especially one of social relevance, is like prog-

ress. It is neither a monument nor a mosaic; it’s a movement. It is neither static nor stationary; it’s slippery. We behave as if there is nothing left to grasp. History rewound reminds us that the greatest of our accomplishments in this society ran parallel to our educational gains. You can’t separate fact from bullshit if all your reading material comes second or third hand on the internet. You can’t just Facebook; you have to literally put your face in a book! Don’t worry. Those of you who are gracious enough to put up with my weekly railings won’t be chided. However, you must become cognizant of the true purpose for Black History Month. Some of us have been playing so long that we’ve forgotten. History lessons, like school, cannot begin without someone ringing the bell to summon our attendance. That’s my job. And you better Quit Playin’ or the “F” you get won’t be for February. #dingdong Vincent L. Hall is an author, activist and award-winning journalist.


22

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

I Messenger

SPIRITUAL AND CRYSTAL ADVISER FEATURED STAR: AQUARIUS – The Water Carrier – 01/20 – 02/18 Deep conversations, someone may fall for your mind, and you theirs, let is flow. Inspiration/Influence – It's a good time to express your feelings. Lucky Numbers – 24.05.29.33.16.07 PISCES – The Fish – 02/19 – 03/20 Make sure you are as flexible as possible with your plans this week. ARIES - The RAM - 03/21 - 04/19 Communication is key, now is the time to let people know where they stand with you. TAURUS – THE BULL – 04/20 - 05/20 Don't worry about the friend acting "strange", look deeper, it's you, take some time out if needed. GEMINI – The Twins - 05/21 – 06/20 Take care of the important stuff first, get to the fun stuff later. CANCER – The Crab – 06/21 – 07/22 You take things seriously, you may have one more that requires a family talk. LEO – The Lion – 07/23 – 08/22 Feeling impressed by someone new, show impressions back, you have what it takes. VIRGO – The Virgin – 08/23 – 09/22 Your mental energy is sharper than usual, make the most of it. LIBRA – The Scales – 09/23 – 10/22 You see both sides to most things, but not today, let your energy be right for a side. SCORPIO – The Scorpion – 10/23 – 11/21 Play it safe with work or business, feeling cautions than usual. SAGITTARIUS – The Archer – 11/22 – 12/21 Someone close to you is all talk right now, let them take you away on adventures. CAPRICORN – The Goat – 12/22 – 01/19 Now is a good time to clean out your closet or desk, old things need to go.

Ref#: 97852514187 Orlando - park city - Gatlinburg myrtle beach - las vegas - branson Williamsburg - Miami


I Messenger

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

23

Protecting Social Security From the Capitol By Congresswoman Eddie Bernice Johnson

Recently I joined more than 200 members of the House of Representatives in an effort to ensure the future of Social Security by co-sponsoring the Social Security 2100 Act, legislation designed to expand the benefits program and keep it solvent. Supported overwhelmingly by Democrats in the House, the legislation would increase benefits, including the minimum amount that retired Americans receive. The Democratic Party has resisted attempts to privatize Social Security. The proposed legislation will

fix the system, and ensure that the program does not run out of funding. Andrew Biggs, who worked as a commissioner of Social Security under former President George W. Bush, praised the proposed legislation, saying that it ensured the solvency of the program. The Social Security Act was a brainchild of President Franklin D. Roosevelt’s administration. The legislation creating the program was signed into law in 1935, creating a financial safety net for senior citizens and unemployed Americans. Approxi-

mately sixty-four million people received Social Security benefits in 2018. The bill is a common sense approach to a problem that we face as a nation. Social Security represents a promise that our nation made to its senior population, one premised on a pledge that they would not be left to suffer in poverty once their working years were concluded. Social security represents the only income that many of our senior citizens have at their disposal. Many worked jobs where they did not receive a pension and a large number of seniors have exhausted their savings due to personal medical emergencies or those experienced by relatives. Over the years people have become increasingly anxious about

what they will do in their retirements, and whether or not social security benefits would be there for them. The legislation attempts to abate that anxiety and give people the confidence that they will be taken care of. Similar legislation is being proposed in the Republican-controlled Senate. I would hope that the measure would pass in the Senate as this is not a Democratic issue or a Republican issue, but an American issue that benefits our nation’s seniors who have been the bedrock of our economy. I urge my Republican colleagues, in the House and in the Senate, to support the Social Security 2100 Act. It is in the best interests of all of our citizens, and is in the best interests of our nation.

Do You Need Money! We will provide you with the money you need for • Personal • Business • Education If you have a FICO score of 680 or if you are military or family of military with a 625 FICO score then you qualify. Stated income only! • No pay check stubs

Check it out

• No bank statement • No income tax returns To learn more information call Clifton Sneed at 214-815-4428


24

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

I Messenger

$3

off $15

order with ad


I Messenger

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

25

Hollywood Hernandez Live

The Church of Mormon

The Book of Mormon is a hilariously funny, crowd-pleasing musical written by South Park creators Trey Parker and Matt Stone with music from Robert Lopez. The play tells the story of two young Mormon missionaries who travel to Uganda to convert the people of the war-torn African country. The two young missionaries very quickly learn that this is not the Africa that they had expected from seeing The Lion King. The play has a very adult theme and seems like an episode of South Park has come to life. There is some very vulgar stuff in the play; still, it’s the kind of comedy we’ve

come to expect from Parker and Stone. The play was well received by the audience at the Dallas Summer Musical presentation. And while some of the play was shocking, it had me

laughing nonstop. Although the musical starts out making light of Mormon beliefs, in the end, the play uplifts the message of service and love for one’s fellow man.

Denied Benefits? Unable To Work?

MORE HD CHANNELS, FASTER INTERNET AND UNLIMITED VOICE. • Speeds up to 60Mbps • Unlimited data – no data caps

Fighting For Your

SPECTRUM INTERNET™

2999

AS LOW AS

1

$

/per mo. for 12 mos when bundled*

Blazing fast Internet is available and can be yours with Spectrum Internet™ With speeds starting at 60 Mbps

125+ CHANNELS

SPECTRUM TRIPLE PLAYTM TV, INTERNET AND VOICE

89

UP TO 60MBPS

$

UNLIMITED CALLING

from

97 /mo each for 12 mos when bundled*

CONTACT YOUR LOCAL AUTHORIZED RETAILER

877-648-7394

*Bundle price for TV Select, Internet and Voice is $89.97/mo. for year 1; standard rates apply after year 1. Available Internet speeds may vary by address. WiFi: Equipment, activation and installation fees apply. Services subject to all applicable service terms and conditions, subject to change. Services not available in all areas. Restrictions apply. All Rights Reserved. ©2017 Charter Communications.

The musical, which has grossed over $500 million, is one of the most successful plays in the history of the theater.

We Can Help!

Helping 1000’s Get The Benefits They Deserve

SOCIAL SECURITY BENEFITS For Over 35 Years!

Do You Qualify For Disability Benefits? Call For A FREE Evaluation

2

Assisting With: - Initial Applications - Denied Claims - Hearings

3

We Simplify The Process & Strive For Quick Claim Approval.*

(855) 399-1916 Bill Gordon & Associates, a nationwide practice, represents clients before the Social Security Administration. Member of the TX & NM Bar Associations. Mail: 1420 NW St Washington D.C. Office: Broward County, FL. Services may be provided by associated attorneys licensed in other states. * The process for determining each applicant’s disability benefits varies greatly, and can take upwards of two years.


26

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

I Messenger

Valder Beebe Show

THAT CELEBRITY INTERVIEW:

Tony Gaskins

Loving what you do and doing what you love is a joy. My interviews on the Valder Beebe Show:That Celebrity Interview, each interview has been sprinkled with insightful words culled straight from the conversations that I have with CEO’s, Oscar winners, and agents of change. I wanted to have the pleasure of introducing many in my audience to Tony A. Gaskins Jr., a celebrity life coach, author and international speaker; but, to him those accolades come second to being a faithful devoted husband for twelve years and the father of two sons. I invited Tony into the Valder Beebe Show RES Studios to talk about his successful book; Make it Work: 22 Time-Tested, Real-Life Lessons for Sustaining a Healthy, Happy Relationship. A self-proclaimed servant of the people, Tony

has had an amazing journey supporting many in a multitude of situations. His social media presence, which spans several plat-

Right, and Single Is Not a Curse. Find out more about his courses, books, and speaking events at TonyGaskins.com.

forms and reaches over a million people, has made it possible for Tony to share his insight and wisdom on relationships, love, and self-development. Beyond offering those nuggets of inspiration, Tony has also written a number of books, including: Make It Work, The Dream Catcher, Mrs.

After Tony spoke out about how weak and insecure men control women in relationships in 2009 on several globally televised shows, he launched his career as a life coach and relationship counselor. Since then, Gaskins, who has been a faithful and committed husband for over a decade, has counseled

thousands and inspired millions online, becoming one of America’s foremost experts on love and relationships. His newest book Make it Work: 22 Time-Tested, Real-Life Lessons for Sustaining a Healthy, Happy Relationship is being reviewed as “excellent, note worth, the best advice on relationships” and much more. You will want a copy of one of today’s foremost voices on relationships with a positive twist. Tony A. Gaskins Jr; PODCAST Soundcloud. com/valderbeebeshow, Soundcloud.com/kkvidfw, 411RadioNetwork.com and VBS affiliate broadcasters. On-demand at ValderBeebeShow.com, Youtube.com/valderbeebeshow, 411RadioNetwork.com, PChatman Network-- Valder Beebe Show is a Power of 3 Women media influencer consortium partner. Find more THAT CELEBRITY INTERVIEW; ValderBeebeShow.com, Youtube.com/valderbeebeshow, SoundCloud.com/valderbeebeshow, Soundcloud.com/kkvidfw, 411RadioNetwork. com , PChatman Network and VBS affiliate broadcasters. Valder Beebe Show is a Power of 3 Women consortium partner.


I Messenger

Dear Alma:

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

Girlfriend Doesn’t Get It

Within my group of friends, I have a female friend who likes a male friend who is also within the group. The female recently joined the group, but the male has been around some time. The female has tried her best game and, to much dismay, has not won over the male friend. The male friend, however, has given every cold shoulder possible. She, unfortunately, is slow to catch on. Others have tried to politely intervene, but the female keeps knocking. It has progressed to the point that the male friend has stopped coming around, and no one in the group is happy. The group now feels the need to address the issue, almost like an intervention. What do you suggest? Leah

ways to handle this situation: Your way (the easy way) or my way (the harder way). We both know that this woman has been reading too many Cosmo and Essence articles describing the perfect relationship. You know the ones – “How to Make

Ask Alma by Alma Gill Alma Gill’s newsroom experience spans more than 25 years. Email questions to: alwaysaskalma@gmail.com. Follow her on Facebook at “Ask Alma” and twitter @almaaskalma.

Him Love You in 30 Days.” (I wonder why we never see such articles in a men’s magazine. LOL). I remember back in the day when I would read and scan the information into my memory, hanging on every word. Thank goodness I’m all grown up now and I know better. Here’s what I suggest: Somebody pick up a copy of the book by Greg Behrendt Hi Leah, There are two and Liz Tucillo, He’s Just

27

Not That Into You. It’s based on an episode of “Sex and the City.” It gives straight up, no-nonsense descriptions of when a man just really doesn’t like you. Some women can be extremely smart about everything in life except man. Some lose all sense of rational thoughts and acceptable behavior. We come up with the best of the best excuses for dealing with a dead-end and or non-existent relationship. I know you know what I’m sayin’. This book offers the best guidance one can receive. Wrap that book in a pretty gift bag with beautiful tissue paper. I mean, go all out. Not in front of everybody, but at the end of the evening, walk her to her car and give it to her. This should take place just between the two of you. Umhm, that would be nice. Alma

Alma Gill’s newsroom experience spans more than 25 years, including various roles at USA Today, Newsday and the Washington Post. Email questions to: alwaysaskalma@gmail.com. Follow her on Facebook at “Ask Alma” and twitter @almaaskalma.


28

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

I Messenger

Butterfly I emerge from this darkness changed. Leaving behind so much of what was me; whole but with missing parts. Pushing myself through a realization that does not include you, physically. Your transformation complete. Mine ... only beginning. La Juana and Patricia Barton

authors of Faithful Remembrances - Volume I

Black & Clark

Funeral Home “Excellence is our tradition... Service is our legacy� 2517 E Illinois Ave Dallas, TX 75216 (214) 376-8297 Linda Mitchell, CEO


I Messenger Reach Nearly 10 Million Homes

Their Price

CrestorTM

914.18 Typical US Brand Price

for 40mg x 100

Our Price

Rosuvastatin* $

148

Small Price. Big Results.

PUT THE POWER OF NEARLY 10 MILLION HOMES TO WORK FOR YOU

With a combined circulation of

of charge with distribution audited

nearly 10 million households,

by CVC. They reflect the character

CADNET member publications

and heart of the communities they

carry advertising messages across

serve.

Generic equivalent of CrestorTM Generic price for for 40mg x 100

You can save up to 97% when you fill your prescriptions with our Canadian and International prescription service.

Get An Extra $15 Off & Free Shipping On Your 1st Order! Call the number below and save an additional $15 plus get free shipping on your first prescription order with Canada Drug Center. Expires June 30, 2018. Offer is valid for prescription orders only and can not be used in conjunction with any other offers. Valid for new customers only. One time use per household. Use code 15FREE to receive this special offer.

Call toll-free: 844-522-6848

Please note that we do not carry controlled substances and a valid prescription is required for all prescription medication orders.

their ad network.

Use of these services is subject to the Terms of Use and accompanying policies at www.canadadrugcenter.com.

If you are a business looking for

CADNET CLASSIFIEDS

new markets to promote your

15 words, nearly 10 million homes, $749 ($15 each additional word). All new advertisers can take advantage of our buy 2 get one free offer.

Display Ad Network

Only $1595 a week for a 2x2 ad reaching nearly 10 million homes. Take advantage of our buy 3 get 1 free offer.

The CADNET advertising network

product or service, and need to

is an innovative advertising tool

reach beyond the local media,

that reaches readers and buyers

then CADNET is your solution.

across the country through mem-

For more information about the

bers of the Independent Free

CADNET program or to place

Papers of America (IFPA).

an ad contact Danielle Burnett •

Autos Wanted

866.224.8151 • Fax 866.864.2051

Place your ad today by calling 866.224.8151

IFPA member papers are all inde-

• or email her at:

pendently owned, distributed free

danielleburnett-ifpa@live.com

NATIONAL ADVERTISING NETWORK

A-1 DONATE YOUR CAR FOR BREAST CANCER! Help United Breast Foundation education, prevention, & support programs. FAST FREE PICKUP - 24 HR RESPONSE - TAX DEDUCTION 855-403-0213

w w w. c a d n e t a d s . c o m

Are You Still Paying Too Much For Your Medications? CrestorTM

914.18

$

Typical US Brand Price

for 40mg x 100

Our Price

Rosuvastatin* $

148

Generic equivalent of CrestorTM Generic price for for 40mg x 100

Bitcoin and Crypto currencies are creating millions of millionaires every day. If you would like to own your own Bitcoin and Crypto Currency business, where you can make $100K a year and much more, then please call 214962-0951

the country each week through

Classified Ad Network

Their Price

29

How to earn $100K a year with Bitcoin

Are You Still Paying Too Much For Your Medications? $

From Coast To Coast

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

CARS/TRUCKS WANTED!!! All Makes/Models 2000-2016! Any Condition.Running or Not. Top $$$ Paid! Free Towing! We’re Nationwide! Call Now: 1-888-985-1806

You can save up to 97% when you fill your prescriptions with our Canadian and International prescription service.

Get An Extra $15 Off & Free Shipping On Your 1st Order!

Got an older car, boat or RV? Do the humane thing. Donate it to the Humane Society. Call 1- 855-558-3509

Call the number below and save an additional $15 plus get free shipping on your first prescription order with Canada Drug Center. Expires June 30, 2018. Offer is valid for prescription orders only and can not be used in conjunction with any other offers. Valid for new customers only. One time use per household. Use code 15FREE to receive this special offer.

Call toll-free: 844-522-6848

Please note that we do not carry controlled substances and a valid prescription is required for all prescription medication orders. Use of these services is subject to the Terms of Use and accompanying policies at www.canadadrugcenter.com.

Medical

AND JUSTICE FOR ALL DISH TV - BEST DEAL EVER! Only $39.99/mo. Plus $14.99/mo Internet (where avail.) FREE Streaming. FREE Install (up to 6 rooms.) FREE HD-DVR. Call 1-800514-6901 Acorn Stairlifts. The AFFORDABLE solution to your stairs! **Limited time -$250 Off Your Stairlift Purchase!** Buy Direct & SAVE. Please call 1-800-591-3291 for FREE DVD and brochure Tired of the same old dating sites? Meet real people in your area & make a new connection on your terms! 18 plus only. Call 1-800-239-9374 Got Knee Pain? Back Pain? Shoulder Pain? Get a painrelieving brace at little or NO cost to you. Medicare Patients Call Health Hotline Now! 1- 800-718-9452

Got Knee Pain? Back Pain? Shoulder Pain? Get a pain-relieving brace at little or NO cost to you. Medicare Patients Call Health Hotline Now! 1844-502-1809 Misc. For Sale KILL BED BUGS! Harris Bed Bug Killers/KIT. Available: Hardware Stores, The Home Depot, homedepot.com Miscellaneous Make a Connection. Real People, Flirty Chat. Meet singles right now! Call LiveLinks. Try it FREE. Call NOW: 1-888-909-9905 18+. Cut the Cable! CALL DIRECTV. Bundle & Save! Over 145 Channels PLUS Genie HD-DVR. $50/month for 2 Years (with AT&T Wireless.) Call for Other Great Offers! 1- 855781-1565

Spectrum Triple Play TV, Internet & Voice for $29.99 ea. 60 MB per second speed No contract or commitment. We buy your existing contract up to $500! 1-855-652-9304 A PLACE FOR MOM. The nation’s largest senior living referral service. Contact our trusted, local experts today! Our service is FREE/no obligation. CALL 1-844-722-7993 HughesNet: Gen4 satellite internet is ultra fast and secure. Plans as low as $39.99 in select areas. Call 1-855-4404911 now to get a $50 Gift Card! Social Security Disability? Up to $2,671/ mo. (Based on paid-in amount.) FREE evaluation! Call Bill Gordon & Associates. 1-855-498-6323. Mail: 2420 N St NW, Washington DC. Office: Broward Co. FL., member TX/NM Bar. Lung Cancer? And Age 60+? You And Your Family May Be Entitled To Significant Cash Award. Call 866-428-1639 for Information. No Risk. No Money Out Of Pocket. Wanted to Buy Wants to purchase minerals and other oil and gas interests. Send details to P.O. Box 13557 Denver, Co. 80201 CASH PAID- up to $25/Box for unexpired, sealed DIABETIC TEST STRIPS. 1-DAYPAYMENT.1-800-371-1136 ADVERTISE to 10 Million Homes across the USA! Place your ad in over 140 community newspapers, with circulation totaling over 10 million homes. Contact Independent Free Papers of America IFPA at danielleburnett-ifpa@ live.com or visit our website cadnetads.

Reader Advisory: The National Trade Association we belong to has purchased the above classifieds. Determining the value of their service or product is advised by this publication. In order to avoid misunderstandings, some advertisers do not offer employment but rather supply the readers with manuals, directories and other materials designed to help their clients establish mail order selling and other businesses at home. Under NO circumstance should you send any money in advance or give the client your checking, license ID, or credit card numbers. Also beware of ads that claim to guarantee loans regardless of credit and note that if a credit repair company does business only over the phone it is illegal to request any money before delivering its service. All funds are based in US dollars. Toll free numbers may or may not reach Canada.

Learn about bitcoin

BUY- SELL - MINING

903-268-7390


30

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

I Messenger


I Messenger

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

Trinity (TX) Chapter The Links, Incorporated

S AV E T H E D AT E 12th Annual

Saturday, March 2, 2019 Hyatt Regency Dallas Benefitting So SMAART, Scholarships and Community Outreach

Celebrating 25 Years of Friendship and Service

31


32

FEBRUARY 8, 2019

I Messenger

Do you know this man?

POLICE have not apprehended “Pookie” the serial rapist. We know he has attacked members of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. and there is a $5,000 reward offered by Crime Stoppers.

HE IS A SERIAL RAPIST

He targeted members of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. but this is more than about a sorority. We’re talking about a community. Come on PEOPLE! Don’t you CARE? Will it matter when it is your sister, mother, aunt or grandmother or maybe YOU?

877-373-8477


Issuu converts static files into: digital portfolios, online yearbooks, online catalogs, digital photo albums and more. Sign up and create your flipbook.