University of Michigan psychology professor who researches human misbelief and self-doubt. It doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you, he says. It’s just that we don’t typically reveal those doubts to other people — and they don’t typically reveal theirs to us, Dunning explains. Therefore, we don’t see that others are experiencing the same issues we are, he says. Building self-confidence was a central theme at the “Finding Your Voice” breakfast in May at Root in Salem. Panelists Samanda Morales, CEO and co-founder of Ahora Inc.; Karen Nascembeni, general manager of North Shore Music Theatre; and Janet Santa Anna, CEO and co-founder of The Resource Connection Inc., focused on public speaking, mastering difficult conversations and self-advocacy. The trio offered solid advice — illustrated through their own personal stories and career paths — to empower the audience and help us all move beyond those “imposter” moments. Their tips included: Know yourself. Recognize both your strengths and your weaknesses, then celebrate your strengths and identify ways to improve those areas that challenge your confidence. Seek out mentors. Connect with advocates who will support and guide you on your journey. Be authentic. Stay true to yourself and honest with others. When it comes to public speaking, being authentic is a great way to connect with the audience and banish your own stage fright. Be compassionate. Show compassion to both yourself and others. Use fear to empower and inspire. Instead of being immobilized by fear, let it serve to kick-start your personal and professional growth. Flip the script. Convert challenges into opportunities. Thrive’s mission is to empower and support women in business at every stage of their lives and careers. Its members, along with the larger membership of The Chamber, represent a wide range of industries on the North Shore. Together, they offer a wealth of knowledge and a built-in support system that we can all avail ourselves of. Stay tuned for more information on Thrive’s new Mentorship Program as well as upcoming events and initiatives. I NORTHSHORECHAMBER.ORG
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