Helping Peter to become pain-free

“When Peter went into the Bedded Unit, that just opened our eyes. What they did for himfor his pain - and for me, was just amazing.”

In 2016, Peter was diagnosed with an unknown cancer. It affects the nerves in his lower back and has significantly impacted his mobility, causing him to become bedbound. But having the support of the hospice has made a real difference to him and wife, Pam.

“Having Karen, our hospice nurse, visit us at home is great,” said Peter. “She’s always so happy to see us and has really helped with my pain. It feels good to have the hospice there to support us. Whatever we need, I know they’re only a phone call away.”

Pam also attends the hospice’s support group for carers, where she can share her experiences in a safe and comfortable space, with the support of hospice counsellors.

“I just love coming to the Carer’s Group” said Pam. “Everyone is so friendly and we learn a lot from each other. When I come in, my hospice volunteer driver, Andrew, drops me off. I get a cuppa, then settle myself in one of the comfy chairs, there are always fresh flowers from the hospice gardens. It’s little things like this that make a big difference, make you feel welcome.”

While Peter is currently receiving care in his home, a previous stay at the hospice provided a welcome relief for the couple at an incredibly difficult time.

“When Peter went into the Bedded Unit, that really opened our eyes,” said Pam. “What they did for him - and for me - was just amazing. Being cared for there for two weeks was the best thing ever. He went in with so much pain and came out with hardly any. You couldn’t wish for a better place.”

Peter and Pam will need more support as his illness progresses. With your support, the hospice can be there for them every step of the way.