Too Big for Your Boots Balancing Arrogance, Self-Esteem, and Humility
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ew people believe themselves to be arrogant; even fewer aspire to be humble. In our competitive world of corporate ladder climbing and โkeeping up with the Joneses,โ the trait of humility seems counterproductive. And yet we can all recognize the value of having a good self-esteem. How do these three concepts โ arrogance, humility, and self-esteem โ interplay with one another? How highly should one think of oneself, and how lowly? This class will explore the Jewish perspective on the dangers of arrogance, the necessity for self-esteem, and the lofty goal of humility. In the process we will clarify how these terms interrelate and how the Torahโs understanding of them can help us to strike a crucial balance in our own lives. In doing so we will seek to answer the following questions:
What is wrong with being arrogant? Is it arrogant to think highly of yourself? Are humility and self-esteem mutually exclusive? Why should I be humble? How can I become more humble?
Class Outline:
Introduction. General, Another Glass of Wine Please Section I. Arrogance Part A. Defining Arrogance Part B. The Pitfalls of Arrogance Part C. The Torahโs Attitude towards Arrogance Section II. Self-Esteem Part A. The Definition of Self-Esteem Part B. The Benefits of a Positive Self-Image Part C. Self-Esteem as a Torah Value Part D. The Case of King Shaul Section III. Humility Part A. What Humility is, and What it is Not Part B. The Advantages of Humility Part C. How to Work on Acquiring Humility
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