Inter Nos - Fall 2020 Newsletter

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INDEPENDENT VOICES Saturday Song Share: A Virtual Gathering Place in the COVID Crisis by Cynthia Vaughn

M

arch 2020. The month that

Collins, to bring me a weighted

everything as we know

action 88-key keyboard and

changed. Everyone has their

speakers that his church was

story and this is mine: how an

not using because the churches

hour a week of community kept

had also been shut down. I had

me going during a pandemic and

packed my other electronics

family crisis.

in my luggage, including my MacBook, two iPads, a Blue Yeti

My father, 80, passed away

USB mic, and a ring light I had

unexpectedly of heart failure

purchased but never used. I

on Monday March 16 at home

took the weekend to set up my

in the Colorado mountains. The

temporary studio and I started

next day, my mother, 80, who

teaching remotely from Colorado

lives in Denver was hospitalized

the very next week. My primary

for a previous health condition.

job was taking care of mom, so I

She was treated and was due

limited my teaching to three hours

to be released on Wednesday, March 18. The hospital needed beds for COVID patients, and the

a day, three days a week. My Studio in mom’s bedroom March 23, 2020

recommendation was for Mom to go to a nursing home rehabilitation center. This was very early in the corona virus outbreak and we didn’t know very much,

students were very understanding and several of them were facing

severe challenges of their own with jobs, family, illness, and teaching children at home. Twelve of my students opted to

however we knew that nursing homes were being devastated

end their Winter semester lessons early and wait to return in-

by this novel virus. My mom and my sisters and I needed to

person. That self-selection left me with a manageable teaching

make a decision—quick! Options were discussed, including

load of 15–18 thirty-minute lessons. I had four days a week to

moving mom a couple of hours away to my sister’s house that

focus entirely on mom and take her for medical procedures,

would need to be made handicapped accessible (in one day?!)

doing studio administration late at night after Mom was asleep.

and mom wouldn’t be able to bring her cat. My heart and my

Three days a week we had a comfortable work-day routine.

mind became quiet and focused . . . then I had an epiphany,

Teaching 10–11am and 1–3pm Mountain time allowed time for

“Wait! Wait! I will come to mom’s house and take care of her.

me to cook and eat meals with mom and spend our evenings

The governor of Washington just shut down my music studio, so

reading and watching TV and, when she was stronger, playing

I can teach from anywhere.” So, on Thursday, March 19 I took

endless games of gin rummy. She always won! She even let

a direct flight one-way from Tri-Cities Washington to Denver,

me post Facebook photos of her big gray cat that I nick-named

Colorado. I was one of six passengers (masked, gloved, and

“Church Cat” because he likes watching live-streamed church

distanced) on the plane. With the blessing of my husband back

services on Sundays.

in Washington, I stayed with my mother in Colorado from March 19- June 4 until she was able to be on her own. It was a very special time that I will always treasure.

Everything was working well and there was a remarkable synchronicity in the whole situation. But I missed my students. . . . and I missed the performances that had been

Before I boarded that one-way flight to Colorado, I reached

cancelled. . . . .and I felt isolated in my tiny make-shift bedroom

out to local Denver friends, asking if anyone had a keyboard I

studio. So, Saturday March 28 I decided to test my new Zoom

could borrow to set up a temporary voice studio in my mom’s

software pro-account and invite students, teachers and friends

guest bedroom. Within hours, I had several offers and accepted

to a free noontime Pacific time “Saturday Vocal Performance

an offer from Jeff Kadavy, the former President of Opera Fort

Class.” Six people showed up and it filled me with surprising

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