in loving memory
Jeff Nardone The Tower Adviser 1994-2013
Remembering a legacy: A job for others, a lifestyle for Nardone BY THE TOWER STAFF 2013-14
Jeff Nardone taught his journalism students to never begin their stories with a name, unless that name was truly important. During his 23 years of educating in classrooms around the country, Nardone taught his students many lessons. He taught students how to recognize their strengths. He taught students to take risks and accept challenges. He taught students that the paper was never about them, or him – it was about every single person that picked up The Tower. On Sunday, Nov. 3, Nardone passed away at the age of 48 from T-cell lymphoma. He is survived by his wife, DeEtte, two sons, Kal and Cy, and stepdaughter, Shannon. Although he is no longer here, Nardone will always be remembered by the hundreds of colleagues and thousands of students he affected throughout his life. Following his death, there was an outpouring of love and memories from people across the country. Students, friends and colleagues took to Twitter and Facebook to share their memories of Nardone. A Facebook page, “Jeff Nardone Fan Club”, was created for the man that never had a Facebook account. As of Wednesday, there were 984 likes. A day after his death, the Michigan Interscholastic Press Association (MIPA) created a scholarship fund in honor of Nardone. These are a few of the ways he impacted others:
As a teacher:
Prior to teaching at South, Nardone taught for three years at East Detroit High School. He previously said that although he enjoyed his time teaching there, he knew as soon as he looked at South that it was where he was meant to be. In his words, it simply had the “wow factor.” “He walked right into that Tower staff room and made it his own,” said English teacher Meaghan Dunham. “And kept the reputation, if not even building the reputation, of this internationally recognized program.” Despite being only the third adviser of The Tower since it began in 1929, Nardone showed eagerness when beginning this new challenge, English teacher John Monaghan said. “When Jeff became the new Tower adviser, I asked him if he was intimidated, and he said he wasn’t at all,” said Monaghan. “He didn’t rebuild the program, he kept it strong. He incorporated technology, cared so much for the staff, and treated his students like adult journalists. That’s best shown with students calling him Jeff; he really saw students on a professional level.” Nardone always held his students to the highest expectations, English teacher Harry Campion said. Although they were not always able to meet these expectations, they would constantly try to reach this bar. Due to his belief that all of his students could succeed, he helped them grow as both writers and individuals, Leah Noecker ’11 said. “The way he taught it made it easy to learn, but you didn’t even realize you were learning,” said Noecker. “It was just how he handled others and his actions that really influenced me. His ability to go so far above and beyond and to remember the little things about everyone and just to be our friend. That’s his legacy, and I want to be able to do that as well.” Nardone taught his students to be real journalists and cover real issues, not just typical high school material, current New York Times reporter Pat Healy ’99 said.
“He worried about things really relevant to high school kids,” said Healy. “He wanted to show us that high school journalism isn’t just about Homecoming games, it’s really about human lives.” Through his approachability and sense of humor, Nardone was able to develop close relationships with his students, Healy said. “There were so many nights when Jeff was sitting on a ratty dirty couch reading over issues when he could have been home or he could have been playing basketball,” said Healy. “He was just there. He would stay there until everything was done.” Just as Nardone’s sarcasm and humor were a major part of his personality, his students often reciprocated with their own humor. Alex Lang ’03 said one of his favorite memories of Nardone is when they played an April Fool’s Day joke with the help of the administration. “One night we took everything out of his class room. I mean we took chairs, tables, chords, phone, everything,” said Lang. “We hid it behind the stage in the old auditorium. He ended up coming in the next morning on April Fool’s day and none of his equipment was there.” Although Nardone was livid for the rest of the day, The Tower staff could not stop laughing about it, Lang said. He eventually learned to laugh at the joke, as well. His colleagues said that they have always admired Nardone for his passion in the classroom. “I hope that I can remember to bring the enthusiasm for education to my work the way he did,” said Campion. “I hope I never forget what’s important about education, because he never did.”
As a colleague:
Nardone also developed strong relationships with South staff members over the span of his career. Many of these colleagues said that they are unsure as to how they will adjust to his absence. “I think I’m going to have to readjust my entire world view,” said Campion. “Even though he’s been sick for a while and been gone all school year, I still walk down the hall and expect to see him walking out of the office. I expect to look into his room and see him there.” As a sort of “ringleader” of the staff, Dunham said that Nardone always made sure that everyone could pull together in difficult times. This ability to step forward and do what was necessary was a unique attribute of his, and is one of the many reasons that he will be missed. “He was the heart and soul of our staff,” said Campion. “I don’t know what we’re going to do without him.” His kindness was also one of his greatest attributes, Dunham said. When her house burned down five years ago, the Nardones took her and her family in for the first week afterwards. Despite the awful circumstances, she said she has vivid memories of Nardone trying his best to cheer her up during the ordeal. “His ability to make you see the best and get you to laugh when there really isn’t something funny was really a gift of his,” said Dunham. Beyond the South staff, Nardone also made close friends with other high school journalism teachers and other leaders in the field. After working at countless workshops with Nardone, Betsy Pollard Rau, Central Michigan University journalism professor, said she was amazed by the sincerity of his love for others. “Everyone who worked with him was special to him,” said Rau. “How a man can have that much love for so many thousands of people totally mystifies me. There wasn’t an e-mail
Birthdate: August 23, 1965 Birthplace: Garden City, Mich. Bachelor’s degree: Eastern Michigan University Master’s degree: Michigan State University Honors: the Golden Pen Award from MIPA, named a Distinguished Adviser from the Dow Jones News Fund, Pioneer Award from the National Scholastic Press Association, and more. Father to Kal, Cy, and Shannon Husband to DeEtte or a text I had that didn’t say ‘Love you’ at the end, and he meant it to me and he meant it to everybody else he told that to.” Ultimately, both fellow staff members and other colleagues say that Nardone’s legacy is one that will not be easily replaced. “You see the richness and feel blessed to have known him and be a part of his life,” said Dunham. “But then you see what big of a hole that other people are going to have to fill.”
If you would like to make a donation in his honor, please consider the Van Elsander Cancer Center or the MIPA scholarship that was established in his name.
Dear Nard, The ultimate testament to what an incredible teacher you were is the fact we are using all the skills you taught us to honor you. You give meaning to the phrase ‘to know him was to love him.’ Even the times it was tough to love you because of your tough love, you were always just trying to help. When you transformed my writing from being all over the place with no direction, to direct and purposeful, you helped me make those same transformations as a person. When I learned your cancer had returned and that you could not teach this year, I was heartbroken. Selfishly, I was scared and had no idea how to go about leading The Tower without you. At the beginning of the year, the well-oiled machine you created kept running even though you could not be here with us. Because not only did you teach us how to do our jobs, you instilled in all of us the motivation to do them, even when you could not be here to yell at us for being lazy. I would give anything to sit down with you, the first seven issues of The Tower and a box of red pens just to watch you create one of your infamous mark ups. As the king of kicking ass, I promise we’ll make you proud this year. Thank you for the dozens of bagels and countless memories. For being the best teacher, adviser, mentor and friend over the past three years. For inspiring me, believing in me and helping me believe in myself. And finally, thank you for trusting me. You made a profound impact on my life and I’m blessed to have known you. I love you, knucklehead. -Megan Fleming ’14, Editor-in-Chief P.S. Since you were an avid baseball fan I’m not surprised you threw us one final curve ball by passing away the night before deadline. Well played, Nard. Trials and tribulations When you spend every single evening with someone for two years, you see each aspect of their identity. The good, the bad and the ugly. It’s the most rewarding and tragic part of the epic tradeoff of life—you have to stick with people during their gloomy “lows” to fully appreciate them at their “high” points. Over the years, I’ve been alongside Jeff Nardone during many of these trials and tribulations. We’ve had our fair share of favorable moments and we’ve also endured many challenges, ranging from minor flaws in an issue to his prolonged battle with cancer. Yet, in the face of overwhelming adversity, Nard displayed the same boundless resilience, signature spunk and endless devotion to his family and students that he’s always demonstrated. He taught me (and infinitely many others) that a teacher should be willing to work long hours, be dedicated to the freedoms of students and are passionate about the subjects that they teach. There isn’t one general term that accurately sums up my relationship with Nard.
“Teacher” doesn’t remotely begin to scratch the surface—I’ve learned so much more from him than how to properly write a lead or create a page layout. “Adviser” doesn’t capture it, either—it doesn’t take into account our heart-to-heart conversations, frustrating Monday nights at 9 p.m., the hours spent on plane rides to San Antonio and New York, or the slices of pizza we shared. I can’t put a label on our relationship, and I don’t need to. I doubt any of his students know how to explain it. All I know is that I am grateful for what it was. His unparalleled legacy will live on for eternity in the countless students he’s inspired. I’m thankful to have known Jeff Nardone, and sincerely hope he’s still calling me a “crackhead”, “knucklehead” and “numbskull” from heaven. -Annabel Ames ’14, Supervising Editor A lasting impact Nardone once told us that he did not care if we loved him or hated him, or how many awards we won during our time on staff. All that mattered, he said, was the impact he had on our lives. And I can honestly say that I am a better person and writer because I knew him. He truly believed in each and every one of us, and pushed us to be the best that we could be. I sometimes struggled to live up to his high standards (I could probably count on two hands the number of times he was visibly proud of me), but these expectations drove me to become better. So thank you, Nard. Thank you for setting such high standards and for caring so deeply about us, for taking us to San Antonio this past fall and for your incredible passion and enthusiasm. I have loved spending the past few years with my Tower family, and none of it could have been possible without you. I cannot even begin to describe how much I will miss you. -Meg Phillips ’14, Associate Editor It’s yours The fact I ended up in journalism was a last second decision. My eighth grade teacher told me something along the lines of, “I hear the teacher is wonderful.” And he was. Mr. Nardone taught us everything we needed to know about journalism from conducting meaningful interviews to writing successful stories that people wanted to read. He taught us to schedule that one extra interview and to reword our leads one last time. He set high expectations for us because he wanted us to be the best we could be. That is why awards line his room. That is why we can say we are The Tower with pride. I will always remember how passionate and committed Mr. Nardone was to The Tower. He spent so many nights with us checking every story, every cutline and every headline before it went to the printer. I’ll never forget all the cards he wrote each of us to express his appreciation or the meetings he had with us at the end of each quarter. Mr. Nardone made being a part
The Tower staff would like to thank Tom Campbell and the Argus-Press for donating their printing services for this tribute to Jeff Nardone. of The Tower the best experience I’ve had during high school. With all of the staff dinners, summer picnics, national convention trips, Editorial Board bonding activities, parties and more, Tower wasn’t just another class. I know this tribute isn’t perfect. My paragraphs are over 60 words, my lead starts with “the” and by the time this prints, there will be things I wish I had said. But as Mr. Nardone taught us, sometimes you have to accept your work as being the best it can be because deadlines must be met. So as we continue to produce our awardwinning, weekly publication, I just want to let Mr. Nardone know, in the words he spoke so often to us: This isn’t my paper. It’s yours. -Sydney Keller ’14, Associate Editor Shining love I owe my position, my personality and the person I am today to Jeff Nardone. He found my strength in talking to others, helping others and pushed me to pursue it. His passion for teaching pushed my passion for people. And what makes Jeff a legend is that he did not do it for just me; he did it for everyone. He individually molded each student and worked around everyone’s strength to create not only the best editors, but the best people, too. Nard’s strength is that he could find the best in anyone, magnify it and mold an even better person. The love he had for others shined through, despite everything he went through. His light never dulled and that’s the beauty of Jeff Nardone. His passion. -Jane Hess ’14, Managing Editor Thank you, thank you “Hey knucklehead!” That was pretty much the standard greeting people would get from Mr. Nardone if they spent any time working on The Tower. Nard had a way of making you feel important, even if he was insulting you in the process. Nard saw something good in everyone, even if he didn’t directly point it out. He could read people in an instant. He recognized the kids who were outgoing and loud, and those who were more reserved and needed help coming out of their shells. When I joined Pulse, Nard sat down with
me and told me he saw that I wanted to be a leader on The Pulse, but I needed to step up to the plate. He said it wasn’t enough for me to want to be in charge, but I had to show leadership qualities. Without his support I never would have been able to step out of my comfort zone. Nard was a take-charge leader, something that both resonates within me and inspires me to do better every single day. Thank you, Nard for pushing me to do better, and thank you for being there even when I didn’t ask for you to be. -Marissa Day ’14, Executive Web Editor The most passionate manly man Nard was a teacher different than the rest, and his relationship with his students was unique and unparalleled. He was not always nice, but you always knew he loved the paper and his students. His commitment to The Tower manifested itself in late nights, block scheduling rants and delicious breakfasts, and I will never be the same for experiencing those things. Every day, I would sit at the same table with my friends, talking about all things but Tower. He would chime into our conversations, adding a funny anecdote or laughing at whatever petty high school topic we were discussing. That was his style, get the work done, goof off and make sure you do both not just one. You could see it in his Honors Journalism classes; there would be days of long, boring lectures on libel law, and then there were days when you would walk into class and see a glint in his eye that meant he had something exciting to talk about. I almost feel bad using the word talk to describe words coming out of Nard’s mouth; if he said it, he ranted it. The man had such passion for any issue he thought would affect the school. To him, the sixperiod day was anarchy, and block scheduling was Armageddon. If there is one thing he left me with, it was to have passion and commitment for any endeavor I undertake, and for that, I will be forever thankful. Goodbye, my teacher, my mentor, my friend. -Archer Hauck ’14, Executive Web Editor
Past Tower editors in chief reminisce and reflect upon their time with Jeff Nardone.
Chiefly Remembered
Line after line When I heard the sad news, I opened a high school photo album, hoping for some snapshots from the Tower room. No luck, but tucked in the pages was a printout of an old e-mail from Jeff. He was stressed… but his worries weren’t about him. MIPA was coming up, deadlines were looming, staff members were clashing. In line after line, it’s clear how much he cared for his students. He fretted over their decisions, their stories and even their dates. He cared about them not just as student writers and editors, but as individuals. He loved them. He loved The Tower. And we loved him back. -Lauren Mayk ’95 Not simply a teacher Jeff Nardone was not simply a teacher. To me, he was a coach, mentor and friend. The hours upon hours he spent with his Tower students were opportunities for us to learn from him about writing, but also how to pursue the truth, live with integrity and passion, and stand up for our principles. He didn’t simply teach us how to be good journalists. He taught us how to be good people. By keeping in touch with Jeff over the years, I had the opportunity to continue learning from him. He was always available to provide a bit of levity in a difficult situation, reflect on old times or offer advice. Today, I am more mindful than ever of the many things he taught me, and there is no one else in my life who has had as much of an impact on my goals and aspirations as Jeff did. May his memory be a blessing to all who knew him. -Brianne Nadeau ’98 Icing on the cake I probably should have never even passed Beginning Journalism because I was too shy and nervous to complete my weekly beat sheet, but Jeff took a chance and gave me a coveted spot on the Tower staff my sophomore year. Turns out he was right to take a chance on me; my senior year I was selected for MIPA’s all-state staff and was chosen as one of The Detroit News’ brightest and best for the journalism category. But as Jeff always told us: awards are just the icing on the cake. The entire Tower experience, impossible without Jeff ’s love and dedication, was the cake. While I did not turn journalism into a career after my Tower days ended, Jeff ’s lessons have stuck with me. He taught me a lot more than how to interview a source, write a story and design a page- and even more than how to stay organized, manage my time and set goals. He taught me how to lead by example, how to fight for what matters and how to be a part of something bigger than myself. He believed in me before I believed in myself, and for that I will forever be thankful. -Molly Clarke ’00 Fitting in To say Jeff Nardone made a difference in the lives of the students he worked with is an incredible understatement. For me, personally, he was the one who was there on the summer day my mother walked me into the Grosse Pointe South office to register for classes as a 16-year-old transfer from Pennsylvania, and told me that, although it was technically too late to get into the journalism “class,” I still could. He was the one that crammed AP Style down my throat that year, and the next
year suggested I take the position as The Tower’s editor in chief. That helped me get into my college’s newspaper, which helped land my first job, which led me to where I am today as an entrepreneur and regularly published writer. He was the one that helped me fit into a town that, if we’re being honest, I needed help fitting into. He shaped my work ethic and my career path, and I know he did the same with hundreds of other students. -Mara Shorr ’01 The greater questions As a former member of the Tower staff, when I heard of Jeff Nardone’s untimely passing, I felt overwhelmed to put my memories of Nardone down in writing. And how appropriate, given all he taught us about journalism and life. He taught me to ask questions and actually listen to the answers– that an intentional pause could draw out information. He forced us to confront the greater questions surrounding the management and policy of our school, district and community, initiating a level of engagement in our surroundings that will last a lifetime. He gave us a level of independence unheard of for a group of teenagers. There was something so empowering about creating a product for the school to see and knowing that it was you who worked so hard to make it exist. We were able to take complete ownership over a product and Nardone’s trust in his students allowed us to fail, succeed and ultimately grow. But more importantly than anything else, he brought together a diverse group of people from across the school and somehow turned them into a family. That I still consider some of those people my closest friends is a testament to the strength of the bonds created in the bizarre little clubhouse we called the Tower room. I may not work in journalism but the life lessons that grew out of my experiences in Tower will always be some of the most formative and directive in my life, and Jeff ’s support and guidance through that time was essential to creating that environment. If I could relay any message to Mr Nardone’s family it would be that while his life was cut far too short, his impact in that period of time has been far greater than many of us can hope to aspire. My thoughts and prayers are with you. -John Monaghan ’06 His greatest legacy On a Wednesday morning in 2007, Jeff Nardone took me aside and explained a member of our staff had committed plagiarism, and it was to appear in that day’s issue. It was the end of first hour, and the papers were to be distributed prior to third hour. “Well wait,” I stopped him. “Knowing what we know, how can we distribute these?” He smirked. We both knew the answer. Tower students filed into Room 144 as the second hour bell rang. From the next room, Jeff and I walked in with 8,000 copies of The Tower, already rolled for distribution. We had a simple marching order for our staff: remove the middle page, which contained the disputed story, from every single copy. I can still see the grin on Jeff ’s face, beaming with pride at this teachable moment, as we threw away thousands of pieces of paper and began plans
for an internal investigation of the matter. To this day, I remain in awe of how ethical he taught a group of cynical teenagers to be. “Don’t take journalism in college,” Jeff would always say. “You’ll be bored.” He was right. I was bored. He had already taught me everything worth teaching. The rest was up to me. In my mind, this is Jeff ’s greatest legacy: he created a multi-year, internship-like media seminar that taught students more about the industry than any three-hour-a-week college course ever could. I weep for his family, but also for the generation of South students who won’t get that same opportunity I did. We lost a great man on Sunday. I’m hopeful one of his former students picks up the torch and keeps going. Now more than ever, my industry needs people like Jeff Nardone. -Kevin Bargnes ’07 Inspired If not for Mr. Nardone, I think it’s safe to say I would not have decided to be a reporter. He cared so deeply about Tower and his passion was infectious. Outside of Tower, we were just students and clueless teenagers. But Mr. Nardone treated us like real journalists. He told us to present an original opinion, to investigate the world firsthand, to ask questions. Lots of them. He honestly believed in us and our ability to effect positive change through our words. And because he believed in us, we believed in ourselves. He was a great mentor and friend, and an incredibly generous person. Long after I graduated, I’d go to him for advice. He is dearly missed. -Eva Dou ’08 Better because of him Looking back, high school was a bizarre time for me—I didn’t know what I wanted to do in life or where I fit in in the scheme of that strange world. But I did know, beyond a doubt, that I wanted to do Tower. And dear God, I’m so glad I did, and I’m so glad I met Jeff Nardone. He introduced me to what would quickly become the loves of my life—journalism and writing. When I shipped off out East to do my undergrad, I immediately zeroed in on the newspaper there because journalism had become my comfort zone; it was how I made friends. One of the things I brought with me in full force was all Nardone’s teaching. I taught so many Johns Hopkins News-Letter journalists exactly what Nardone taught me, and we were all better for it. Better writers, better designers, better reporters, better journalists. Jeff, I’m so sad you’re gone, but I’m even sadder for the troves of aspiring and future journalists who will never have you as a teacher. I’m better off for having known you and learned from you. I never got to tell you this, but thank you. -Rian Dawson ’09 Family first Jeff Nardone created a community and a lasting bond for students. Being on the Tower was and is more than just being part of a school newspaper, it was and is being a part of a lifelong family. Nardone challenged us to push ourselves and grow; he encouraged us to simply enjoy life.
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On deadline night he would stay late hours, helping to read copy, organize photos and he wasn’t afraid to kick out the “hoodlum” students who would hang out and make it difficult for Page Editors to focus. He goofed off with us, sat through numerous gag gifts at Christmas, organized classes so students could bring in a gross amount of bagels, and he made sure there was always dinner for the Editorial Board members on deadline night. I know that without his encouragement and support I would never have had the confidence to be editor in chief of The Tower or to make a strong impact on my college newspaper, The Denisonian. He taught me so much, from basic interview skills to teaching me what it takes to lead 65 other students. I will never forget everything that I learned from him, just as I will also never forget his big laugh and smile that he never ceased to share with others. Thank you, Nardone, for all you offered during your time here. Thank you for continuing to look out for us from above. -Katherine Palms ’10 No words “There are no words.” This was my first thought when I heard news last Friday that my beloved advisor, Jeff “Nard” Nardone, was going to be moved into hospice care the following Monday. Two days later, I received a call that he would not make it through the night; soon thereafter I received a call that he had moved on, but my thoughts remained the same, “there are no words.” Why were there no words? It was not because I couldn’t think of any, but because they were gone, taken with the man that taught them to me. Not only a journalism teacher, but a friend, mentor, personal support system, adviser and ally was lost. He essentially crafted me into the man I am today, giving me not only a traditional education, but lessons in time management, personnel management, friendship and how to properly eat a bagel. It is because of this, that I know Nard is not gone. Because he made such an impact on me, and my development, I know he must have done it to more. I would not be going to a top 20 university if it weren’t for Nard, and countless others can say the same. He lives on in each of these students, and he lives on in me. Having come to this realization, I rose from my bed after sobbing for 30 hours; I loved Mr. Nardone, and there are still no words. -Lewis Thomas ’12 Newspaper man Growing up, I was particularly close with my grandfather, a career journalist. He passed away when I was in middle school, and it was difficult to lose my best friend and mentor. But a couple years later, when I entered my Honors Journalism class freshman year, I met another newspaperman whose impact on me was about so much more than helping me find my love of writing. Like my grandfather, Mr. Nardone was someone who was great to talk with, whether about sports or more serious matters, characterized by his constant humor and overwhelming kindness. Mr. Nardone was also a great teacher who challenged me to become a better writer, leader and person, teaching life lessons many don’t learn until much later. Most importantly, he showed what it meant to be a great friend. Mr. Nardone made Tower like a family, and my Tower Room memories and lessons learned on staff will always be an important part of who I am. -Ted Berkowski ’12 Letter of Rec It was a little over a year ago, I was asking Mr. Nardone to write my recommendation letter that I would send to prospective universities. A character reference in a sense that would grant an inside look as to who I was as a student, journalist and person. It is now my turn to write my ‘recommendation letter’ for Jeff Nardone. As a teacher he was tough, approachable and effective. As a journalist, he was professional, modest and truthful. But most importantly as a person he was a mentor, friend and overall inspiration. He instilled in us a sense of pride and importance and expressed that our opinions hold value. He encouraged us to respectfully challenge authority when necessary, and had our backs every step of the way. His unparalleled standards and genuine compassion unequivocally strengthened the staff as a whole as well as each individual. Although my time with Mr. Nardone has come to an end, I know his passionate character and invaluable lessons will continue to impact all my future endeavors. -Jacqueline Francis ’13
“A teacher affects eternity; he can never tell where his influence stops.” -Henry Brooks Adams
All-inclusive Being one of the few African-Americans in the hallways at Grosse Pointe South was sometimes a daunting endeavor, but being the only one on staff became one of the best experiences of my life. After finishing the Honors Journalism course at the conclusion of my junior year, Mr. Nardone—or better known as just “Jeff ”—granted me the opportunity to serve as Page One Editor for my senior year. Not only was I shocked by this request, but more honored to serve a publication with amazing tradition and history. When I asked Jeff if I were the first AfricanAmerican to become Page One Editor, he responded: “How would I know? I just need you to get the job done.” That is what I loved most about Jeff. He did not care about race, but more importantly, he wanted to make The Tower the best high school newspaper in the country. During my experience on staff, Jeff treated every student with the same respect or disrespect; however you reacted to his wisecracks. Overall, my favorite moment on staff was when Jeff allowed me to write my first opinion piece in response to the historic election of President Barack Obama. That moment meant the world to me and I will always cherish it. From the Secret Santa exchanges to trip to New York City to allowing Tower to be the foundation for our senior class prank without knowledge, I want to thank you Jeff for making me feel part of the Grosse Pointe Community for the first time in my life. It was 15 years coming. -Dexter Mason ’10, Page Editor Legacy Jeff Nardone was more than a teacher and authority figure to his students, he was a mentor and a friend. He made sure every one of his students achieved greatness and enjoyed learning. I had the privilege of having Nardone as a teacher all four years at South and am extremely grateful to have been able to work with him. He helped me through school, gave me advice, and never doubted the greatness he felt I could achieve. The effect of his influence on my life, along with many others, extended outside the walls of South. He always pushed us to do better because he knew what we were capable of, even if we didn’t know it ourselves. The legacy he left behind reminds us all of what an amazing man he was and how much he will be missed. Rest in peace Nard. -Molly Mecke ’11, Staff Writer Life-changing To put it simply, I am not the man I am today without Jeff Nardone. There is no journalism degree that I will obtain next spring without Jeff Nardone. None of my internships, job opportunities or extracurricular activities happen without Jeff Nardone. Being a part of The Tower for three years changed my life forever. I can say all of that with extreme ease and extreme confidence because of Jeff. I was lucky enough to speak with him about a month ago on the phone. I could tell by hearing his voice when he answered the phone that he didn’t sound the same. What shocked me was that once I got talking to him, despite the medication and the chemo and everything else he was dealing with he was still the same Jeff Nardone. I tried to ask him how he was doing and how things were going for him and he deflected those questions and first wanted to make sure that I was okay and that things were going well for me. I think back to that conversation all the time. I was talking to a man battling cancer, bed-ridden in a hospital and he was
more worried about how I am doing. He was never in it for himself, he was in it for his family, his students and his coworkers. There is nobody else like Jeff. There never will be. He’s truly one in a million. The title “teacher” does him a disservice. He wasn’t just a teacher, he was a mentor, an adviser and most of all, a friend. The outpour of love and support on social media and the amount of thanks he is getting from students and even some that didn’t even have him as a teacher proves he was exactly that. -Mike Esse ’11, Managing Editor
grateful for the way that Jeff ’s thoughts and words have permeated my own self-concept and world views. That way, he is always with me. -Emma Maniere ’11, Page Editor Caring It seems odd to think of Jeff Nardone as a teacher. He was so much more than that to so many. He was a friend, a confidante, a counselor, even a surrogate parent to some. At first glance, it seems a grave disservice to think of Jeff as simply a teacher. But that’s what he was. He was a teacher in the truest sense of the word. He gave of himself regularly, never hesitating to find the time to give his students advice. It was nothing for Jeff to sacrifice his own free time to ensure the happiness and success of his students. To him, teaching wasn’t a job. It was a way of life. Jeff didn’t care if his students left his classroom with perfect GPAs. He only cared that they left with a better understanding of themselves and the world around him. Jeff taught me a range of incredible lessons; far too numerous to list here, save for one. Jeff taught me to believe in myself. Through long days and nights at Jeff ’s side in the Tower Room, I learned to be confident in my own work, to put forth maximum effort, and most critically, to follow my dreams, wherever they might lead. Jeff Nardone brought knowledge to those who lacked it. He brought confidence to those who lacked it. He brought inspiration to those who lacked it. He was a mentor, a friend and a teacher. And he will be missed. -Eric Huebner ’11, Page Editor Support system Jeff Nardone was so much more than a journalism teacher. He was a mentor, friend, support system, and second father after I lost my own. I first met Nard as a freshman in his very last Freshman English class. Almost immediately he became my favorite teacher and most days he was the reason I looked forward to school. Nard was unlike any other teacher; he went above and beyond to make us feel valued, loved, and important. He treated us like real people instead of annoying teenagers, which most of the time we were, and like this we formed inseparable bonds. I am honored to have been able to travel to New York and various MIPA camps with him, forming four years worth of irreplaceable memories. There are no words to describe just how much he impacted my life and shaped me into the person I am today. -Emily Dawson ’11, Staff Writer Knucklehead I’ll never forget how much I laughed during my first lecture with Jeff Nardone. It was so rare to hear a high school teacher skip the formalities and break out the black humor. There was a vibrant energy to him that I had never seen before. It was also rare to hear a teacher be so brutally honest. He never hesitated to tell me when my story sucked. We were all “knuckleheads” with so much to learn. He wasn’t just trying to teach people to write well. He was trying to teach people to suck it up and stop making excuses for why something could not be done. There was never a time when he didn’t have the students’ best interest at heart. I don’t think I’d still be involved with journalism without him. Being on Tower made me realize how much I enjoyed writing. In retrospect, I wish I had told him that when I last saw him over the summer. I’ll always be grateful for having had Jeff as a mentor. So thank you, Nard-One, wherever you are. -Marcus Hedenberg ’11, Pulse Entertainment Editor
legend Source of guidance I have spent much of the last day rifling through letters, emails, and texts I have traded with Jeff over the past five years. It has been both a heart-wrenching and cathartic process. The only element of our exchanges that was more evident than his sharp wit was precisely what made him such a great teacher, mentor, and friend: his genuineness. I had no clearer source of guidance during my high school career than Jeff; he made me feel valued, respected, intelligent, and loved. I have many memories of talking with him, and very rarely about journalism. Among those memories are lighter recollections involving Harry Potter trivia and Secret Santa. More often, though, our conversations were about parents, friends, college, life. I always left his classroom feeling calm. Jeff made sense of things. I fully believe those conversations I so treasure have made me a better person, the person he thought I was, and the person I therefore strove – and continue to strive – to be. I am immensely grateful for these memories, and yet more
“Narddawg” Anyone who has walked South’s halls will tell you it’s a special place filled with thoughtful, caring, inspiring teachers, all of whom have made a remarkably positive impact on thousands of fortunate students. But Mr. Nardone was unique. In Mr. Nardone, students had a teacher who had their backs. He spent a lot of long evenings with us in The Tower room–deadlines have to be met. But he made work fun. When it was time to break for indoor golf or football on the front lawn, he was the first to line up under center in that green and white sweater I saw far too often. We were treated like young adults; treated with respect and trusted. As journalists, we were taught to think critically and push boundaries, scholastically and creatively. As young adults, we were encouraged to practice acceptance, tolerance, and inclusion. In his classroom, differences were celebrated and opinions appreciated. He showed us that they moved us toward a closer staff and a better newspaper. We watched him love his wife, his kids, and their baseball. If the paper wasn’t done by game time, when Mr. Nardone had to run to see the first pitch, final edits were put in the hands of the brilliant Rian Dawson. We were cool with that. It was a student newspaper in its purest form. A pretty damn good one, too. -Ben Boyce ’10, Managing Editor Highlight of the day In my three years of having Nardone as a teacher, adviser, mentor and most importantly, friend, I grew an incredible amount. From my first year in Honors Journalism, listening to him share entertaining anecdotes and pushing us to become future journalists, to my last as Associate Editor, where he listened to me during both personal stress and the words I had to share in print, he was a constant mechanism for support. He gave me confidence to explore what I was passionate about and share it with others, in music, travel and voices waiting to be heard. My time in The Tower Room was never a chore; instead, it was the highlight of my day. His ability to create tremendous bonds with his students and his staff was incredibly admirable and left an enormous impression. With his enthusiasm and charisma, he didn’t just create a newspaper staff year after year, but rather a family that exuded encouragement, comfort and best of all, good humor. -Sara Becker ’10, Associate Editor Words of endearment Jeff Nardone taught me the power of words, and here I am not knowing what to do with them. Every high school morning started with me walking into The Tower room a few minutes after the bell rang. He would promptly call me a knucklehead or some other word of endearment, knowing I had no reason for my untimeliness, and then tell me to eat a bagel. I wouldn’t have had it any other way. I sat down to talk with him one day about some Tower things. I remember none of the Tower business we discussed. It was a rough time in my life. Too much going on, struggling to stay afloat. I only remember when afterward, the simple words he asked, “David, how are you?” Nobody walked out of the Tower room the same person they were when they walked in. The character I am today is because of the impact Mr. Nardone had on me, because he cared. He was a true teacher, in every sense of the word. And for that, there are no words to express my gratitude. -David Harris ’12, Newspaper Executive Editor Thoughtful and generous While Jeff Nardone’s official title was Honors Journalism Teacher and The Tower adviser, he was so much more. Jeff strived to not only let his students learn from him, but to learn from his students. He knew each student’s interests and hobbies outside of the newspaper and developed
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(a note found in his desk) personal relationships with them, drawing on the person’s outside interests so that they could grow and cultivate their talents. He knew all of our quirks and skills and put them to good use whether it be to improve the newspaper or just to get a good laugh. One of my favorite memories of Jeff was when he brought bagels in for my birthday and, mocking my energetic nature, he also brought me chocolate covered espresso beans, joking around that I needed a little caffeinated pick-me-up. Jeff was our mentor, our bagel provider, our thought provoker, our big city tour guide, our life advisor, our Monday morning Editorial Board buddy and our Monday night editing buddy, our college recommendation letter writer, our confidence booster, our serious educator and our silly confidant, our smiling and joking face on a crappy day, our biggest fan and our harshest critic, but most importantly, Jeff was our friend. -Leah Noecker ’12, Page Editor Second home Mr. Nardone was the most important and impactful teacher I have ever had. He not only taught me journalism, but he taught me how to be a better person. I have so many great memories of him at MIPA Camps, in Minneapolis, New York, and San Antonio, but my favorite ones came from in the Tower Room. If I was having a bad day he would go out of his way to try and make me feel better, usually in the form of a joke or a bagel. If it wasn’t for him and the Tower, I would have been lost in high school, but the atmosphere he created always gave me a place to go and feel comfortable. Reading his Letter of Recommendation to Michigan made me realize how much he actually cared for not only me, but for all of his students. If more people teach like Nard, the world will be a better place. To say that the Tower Room became my home and the Tower Staff became my second family isn’t far off from the truth, and I owe all of that to Nard. -Sam Metry ’13, Associate Editor Influential Having put Honors Journalism as my third alternative for my classes freshman year, my anxiety was through the roof when I walked in on the first day of school and found I was one of four freshmen in the full class. However, I can no longer imagine my high school experience being any different. Jeff Nardone was one of the most influential and inspiring teachers I have ever had and I feel completely honored to have had the opportunity to have him all four years. From
his sarcastic remarks freshman year when I would blatantly doodle during his lectures with a pile of sharpies neatly aligned on my table, to his seasonal advice of “get your shit together” every winter while basketball was in full swing, Nard never hesitated to speak his mind. His devotion, love for his profession and counseling to all students at South will be greatly missed. Without him, I never would have discovered my love for writing and I never would have continued on with journalism at the University of Michigan. So to Mr. Nardone, thank you, for so much more than he probably realized he did for me; his family will forever be in my prayers. -Christy Flom ’13, Managing Editor Hero Mr. Nardone changed my life. Before I took Mr. Nardone’s class, I hated writing. I wasn’t good at it, and I had no desire to become better. But Mr. Nardone taught me something no teacher had been able to teach me before: he taught me how to love writing. To Mr. Nardone, writing was more than spitting out five paragraphs about a topic nobody cared about. He taught me that writing could be a way to report on events or influence ideas, that writing could actually be relevant. Now, four years later, I love writing. I write almost daily, getting my work published frequently in campus publications. Whenever I see “Andrew Keating” in a byline or masthead, I have Mr. Nardone to thank. But what made Mr. Nardone truly special was that my story isn’t unique. There are probably hundreds, if not thousands of excellent writers who took Mr. Nardone’s class and now owe their skills and love of writing to him. On behalf of myself and ever other person you inspired, I say thank you, Mr. Nardone. You weren’t just a teacher or mentor–you were a hero. -TA Keating ’13, Managing Editor Mentor Jeff Nardone was more than a teacher and authority figure to his students, he was a mentor and a friend. He made sure every one of his students achieved greatness and enjoyed learning. I had the privilege of having Nardone as a teacher all four years at South. He helped me through school, gave me advice, and never doubted the greatness he felt I could achieve. The effect of his influence on my life, along with many others, extended outside the walls of South. He always pushed us to do better because he knew what we were capable of, even if we didn’t know it ourselves. -Claire Gazoul ’10, Staff Writer
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Teacher to teacher Mr. Nardone and I had some great conversations over the years. He was always open-minded and direct, a fierce supporter of teaching and the value of a GP education. Jeff knew that an effective teacher slowly steps back and lets students dig in and implement what they are learning. Through his tireless efforts, The Tower often explored tough social, political, and educational issues that other local media outlets could not or would not. -Kevin Cox, English teacher Endless devotion I was privileged to be part of the English Department with Jeff from the fall of 1994 to June, 2006 when I retired. My memories are fond ones of a man who was devoted to his Tower staff, his journalism and freshman English students, and to his colleagues. He believed in developing a sense of community for all of us with in-service day picnics, Friday Denim Days for charity, and a great sense of fun while maintaining South’s traditions. -Peggy Ptasznik, former English teacher Mediator, peacemaker, brother He was a good friend to me and my hope is that he got back as much as he GAVE to all of us. No one was more intuitive to the pulse of South than Jeff, nor as quick to act when there was a need. He was our ombudsman, mediator, peacemaker, brother and friend....always among the staff who stepped out first to speak the collective mind to administration or staff, when others just whispered behind the scenes -- afraid to get involved. His calm philosophy was applied to every decision he influenced. When he arrived with all the new, young teachers at South in the fall of 1994, he was a leader -- proving to the skeptic senior staff that they were all smart, capable and as committed to South as anyone, even if they hadn’t grown up in the Pointes or taught for 20 years. That group from 1994 has the experienced, seasoned teacher leaders, mentoring the 20-something new teachers and fine young student minds. I am so proud to have worked with everyone at South but especially with Jeff. He was my rock in so many ways through all of our political and emotional turmoils in the South community. Pushing us to be better, kinder and smarter, even when we felt we couldn’t. He fought his set backs and health issues better and longer than many of us could, but I am grateful he is at last out of pain and at peace. I believe he knows how much we all loved and admired him. He would have deflected any compliments quickly to others, rather than take the recognition himself. It would take a whole wall to contain the awards he has received during his career. Jeff was a true leader by example and South will miss him terribly. We all know it
takes many people to make South the most wonderful place it is to learn, work and live. The Tower will move forward, with his legacy of continued excellence in spirit and word. So those of us left will remember him and say...Go Tower..... Go South....and Go Spartans for Jeff! -Tudi Harwood, retired administrative assistant One in a billion I wouldn’t even know where to begin. I always felt like the sister that Jeff never had. What will I miss the most? Checking in every day at work? The Buffett concerts? The MSU games and tailgates? My 3 kids love him like an uncle. My husband loves him like a brother. That pretty much explains Jeff. One in a million, one in a billion trillion. -Tammy Chovich Slank, retired PE teacher Socialite of the century There will be many things I will remember about Jeff over my 17 year friendship with my brother, but a big one was his desire and ability to bring others together in celebration. Whether it was in or out of school, Jeff was always coordinating social events. I remember when Jeff and Tom Briske and myself brought our own grills in for an end of the year staff BBQ. Now, thanks to Jeff we have our own bonus grill and hopefully a tradition that will go on forever. I will always love you Jeff and sadly, once again, you bring us together. -Doug Roby, social worker Master teacher Jeff was a favorite of many of us. By the time I retired as an English teacher and department chair, Jeff had become what we call a master teacher. He was often quiet, and held his own counsel, which allowed others to express themselves freely and to grow. In his own steadfast way, he fought for ideas that were right, for rights of students and teachers, and for the integrity of his profession. His passing brings us to reflection and sadness. But aren’t we all glad to have had him pass through our lives? -Linda Banovetz, former English teacher My mentor I’m not sure I would still be teaching if it were not for Jeff Nardone. The first few years of teaching are always rough on teachers. There were so many times in those first few years that I felt so completely lost and didn’t think I would ever make it. Jeff was always the voice of reason with a ready smile or slap on the butt to let me know things were going to be OK. The reason I was in the Tower Room so much was because I was trying to learn everything I could from him. Being part of the Tower staff has been one of the best parts of my teaching career and I owe it to Jeff. His trust in me to create The Pulse and make it work meant the world to me. He saw something in me that I didn’t see in
myself. I will miss him every day and I will do my best to be the teacher he knew I could be. -Nicholas Provenzano, English teacher Out of the park ...I always thought of myself as an extremely loyal MSU and Detroit Tigers fan but Jeff ’s passion and commitment to ‘his teams’ made my loyalty pale in comparison...both teams have lost their most ardent crew-cut fan... -Greg Heffner, retired science teacher So much more to learn In the last e-mail that I sent you, I told you I would not try to fix something that was clearly not broken. What you built in room 144—from the grading system to the editorial board process to the almost-weekly celebrations of birthdays—will remain a part of the tradition of The Tower. Just as you honored Bob Button’s legacy when you took over his program, I will make sure that oil cans, mark-ups, and stars remain. These traditions won’t be here simply for the nostalgia factor, but because they worked. I still have so many questions to ask, but I thank you for taking me under your wing these last three years and making me feel like a member of this family from day one. -Kelli Fimbinger, jouranlism teacher The boss of the boss I remember Jeff ’s great love for his Spartans and Bruce Springsteen. He always had an opinion of the games either in football or basketball. We shared the love for “The Boss” and his music and talked with great excitement when telling stories of our concert experiences. -Bruce Pelto, social studies teacher (Bottom left:) Nardone with South staff members. (Bottom right:) Nicholas Provenzano and Nardone. (Top:) Harry Campion, Nardone, DeEtte Nardone and John Monaghan
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tion I asked myself, when I faced my biggest challenges as the newspaper adviser at Seaholm High School. My friend the Spartan: marked by brevity of speech, but Decades earlier, Jeff had advised my Tower staff. He as a one man army - selflessly leading from behind the had always made it look so easy. Some of the specifics scenes, nurturing and encouraging the best in his family, were hazy, but the lasting memories were of a tireless friends, and colleagues. advocate, who demanded our best, while being positive. Now, my role had changed. Instead of developing My friend the Spartan: courageous in the face of pain, sources, editing stories and designing pages, I was navigating the murky waters of angry parents, nervous danger, or adversity - no tells or tears - he went down administrators and school rumor mills. swinging. Being an adviser can be a lonely job. You’re in the My friend the Spartan: was whom Shakespeare must have English department, but no other English teacher publishes each test for the world to see. It’s a safe bet that rehad in mind when he wrote: search project on Moby Dick won’t bring local TV crews to park in front of the school. I’m not sure a report on “When he shall die, The Grapes of Wrath needs a teacher’s guidance and Take him and cut him out in little stars, scrutiny to avoid a libel suit. And he will make the face of heaven so fine So when that e-mail, phone call or situation brought That all the world will be in love with night about a moment of pause, Jeff was always the first perAnd pay no worship to the garish sun.” son I turned to. And every time I did, he always answered. Whether it was experience or his uncanny ability to My friend, you will always be our star. Love, Meags -Meaghan Dunham, English teacher know the right thing to say or do, Jeff always knew the solution. (Bottom left:) Nardone with John Monaghan and Harry Campion. (Bottom right:) It didn’t matter that he had his own paper to advise, Nardone with workshop buddy, Bobby Hawthorne. (Top:) Nardone with Meaghan Dunham and Tudi Harwood his own classes to teach and his own challenges to face, Jeff always took time -- often within minutes -- to send advice and offer help. As an adviser, I can’t begin to describe how much that meant to me. Losing Jeff is heartbreaking, but I’ll forever be thankful of his guidance and the impact he had on my life. -Ben Harwood ‘95, News Editor Encourager to all Jeff was an encourager: he encouraged staff to support each other, to enjoy each other’s company, to celebrate our school and all we do for our students. He also encouraged us to be fearless in using our voices to speak up, ask questions, and seek the truth — “it is liberating,” he said. He taught his Tower staff the same lessons. When I think of Jeff, I think of courage and conviction that never overshadow reason. Most of all, I think of a really big heart. Thank you Jeff! May the lessons never be forgotten! -Kit Aro, Art teacher
Believed in others As a former Tower kid, one of the first things I wondered when I came back to South as a teacher was who the new guy was taking care of our newspaper. I quickly realized that not only was The Tower’s legacy in safe hands, but that Jeff and his students would push it to new heights. It took me a little longer to see it was not only the paper. Jeff fought for, loved, and defended all that South’s students and teachers can accomplish together - I do not think we have ever had a more powerful advocate for what happens here at our school. It’s hard not to feel right now that the guard at our gate has fallen, the guy who always had our backs is not there. Jeff Nardone would have full faith his South family would pick up his torch, and knowing someone believes in us that much is maybe his greatest lesson of all. -Lisa Kline Richman ’79, German teacher Lasting memories We did Challenge Day together. It was emotional and we all felt closer as a staff. Part of Challenge Day was hugging. For months, when Jeff and I would see each other in the hall, we would tell each other we needed a hug. We would hug it out and it literally always turned my frowns upside down. -Amanda Moon, French teacher Funniest guy on staff When I first came to work at South, Jeff made a visit down to my office to introduce himself and welcome me. He told me that if I needed any help or if anyone gave me a hard time just let him know and he would take care of them. After the first year he said to me one day that he saw that I no longer needed his “protection”. During the time I was off earlier this year he picked out one of the funniest get well cards that could be found. He also checked in with me from time to time to see how I was doing. At one point, he got me to promise that I would return to work as I was the only one he knew of that could handle all the receipts from his yearly New York trip with the students. -Bea Birdsong, Business secretary Staff BBQ The man had a real talent for organizing staff BBQ’s. He made a lot of work SEEM so simple and his events played out seamlessly...maybe because HE never ate until he was certain that everyone else was well fed. -Chris Norris, Social studies teacher
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The avenging narwhal Every Monday morning, Jeff Nardone would run through weekly announcements for the 60+ Tower staffers. Depending on the day, these sessions could consist of fiery rants about the most recent Al Diver scandal or a shrill exclamation for everyone to “get the hell out of here and start working on your stories!” But one Monday meeting – during my Senior year - was different. At the end of his speech, Jeff suddenly paused and proclaimed, “Well, as a final note. I have this gift for someone on staff. I don’t usually buy gifts for staffers - but I saw this toy at a crazy novelty store near our conference center, and I just had to get it for her. It was just too perfect.” ... aaaand then Jeff slid a beautifullywrapped present my way. Once I had opened it, I sat and stared at the box in shock, awe, and bewilderment: Jeff had given me an amazing toy, entitled, “The Avenging Narwhal.” “The Avenging Narwhal” is a plastic narwhal figurine that comes with a number of adorable animal attachments. These adorable animals are included purely so that the user can impale them with the narwhal’s horn – thus the “avenging” portion of the name. Let’s be clear. A plastic narwhal figurine that impales tiny animals? From my 40year old journalism teacher? What. What. What. And yet: over time, I have realized that “The Avenging Narwhal” is EASILY the greatest gift I have ever received from anyone, at any point, ever. In the seven years since Jeff gave me this present - this narwhal has travelled with me to my college dorm in Chicago, my tiny room in Barcelona, through multiple NYC sublets and boroughs. Other than just being an amazing emblem of toy design – I love this narwhal because it reminds me of that incredible moment of amazement as I opened the gift... and then the flash seconds of awe when I looked back up at him, letting it sink in: Jeff Nardone had really and truly just gifted me a belligerent narwhal figurine. And he had the goofiest smile on his face! The guy just knew! Jeff and I didn’t always get along – in fact, we sometimes butted heads openly. But it was moments like that one that display that Jeff really, really cared about all of us: even when we had completely checked out of our Tower jobs; even when his face turned purple after we filled our editor in chief’s desk with cream cheese; even when we turned in our news brief on the big musical two weeks after its run had ended. He dealt with our BS and he dealt with our angst; and in his goofy way, he still really cared about us as individuals. Jeff, you were a great teacher, and you will be missed. Thanks for the narwhal. -Liza Andrivna ’08, associate editor
-Paula Friedrich ’11, editor in chief
A friend High school was certainly not my favorite, even while I was in it. However, I can say with certainty that being of a part of an award-winning journalism program for three years with Mr. Nardone made my experience infinitely better. I am forever grateful for signing up for Honors Journalism; if I had not, I would not have obtained mountains of gossip, traveled to Columbia University, and made friends with many I would not have normally. I will always have a deep love for writing because of Mr. Nardone. -Mary Biglin ’09, Page Editor A million thank you’s For the late nights and dedication. For the guidance and support. For the memories and laughter. For getting us out of class and putting up with our antics. For treating us like human beings at a time when we needed it most. For going to bat on our behalf. For the letters of rec and the parties. For taking us to MIPA camp and introducing us to the true greatest rivalry (The Dow Update). For being an incredible person and a tremendous adviser. For being the kind of teacher that teachers should aspire to be and students should be so lucky to have. For being our mentor. For helping to mold us into the people we are today. -Maya Reeves ’07, Assistant Copy Editor See you in another life My best memories of Jeff Nardone have nothing to do with journalism. Whether it was umpiring Kal and Cy’s Little League games as Jeff coached, tailgating with him while at MSU (they had a spot for many years literally on the banks of the Red Cedar), or getting him to sign me out of my tutorial senior year to “work on Tower stuff,” Jeff connected with me and other students on so much more than just academics. My fondest memory was the relationship we shared around the TV show “LOST.” We were both avid fans, and recapping and debating each episode every Thursday morning was the highlight of my week, at least as far as teacher-student conversations go. Being able to passionately converse about a mutual extracurricular interest worked wonders for our student-teacher dynamic. I’m still a little bitter he never approved my countless requests to write a weekly “LOST” recap in the Tower. My last meaningful conversation with him was when I went to South to visit (I was in college) after the show had ended to discuss it. To borrow a famous line echoed throughout the course of the show, Mr. Nardone: “Cya in another life brotha.” -Thomas Vander Schaaf ’08, Staff Writer Spirit lives on Jeff taught me how to take my opinions and turn them into effective arguments for or against school and district policies. He taught me how to win people over and how to twist the knife. In time, I could take an idea at 8 a.m. and turn it into a story by the end of my regularly scheduled school day. Jeff took me from being an average student to a hard-hitting journalist. He brought out the best in me. Since that time, I’ve become a teacher myself. Granted, I teach kindergarten, but I still try to teach my students the same lessons of fairness that I learned in Jeff ’s class. I aspire to have them question the world around them and recognize that there’s more than one side to every story. We lost Jeff, but we will never lose his spirit. He lives on in each and every one of his students. The beauty of Jeff ’s work is that he let a bunch of kids pretend that they were hard-hitting journalists and in turn they became – among many things – writers, editors, producers, teachers, and lawyers who understand the importance of ethics and love the written word. -Alex Morgan ’06, Deputy Editor Empowerment I was fortunate enough to have Mr. Nardone as my teacher for all four years of high school. In his journalism class my freshman year, I remember being so impressed by Mr.
Nardone; his passion and pride for reporting and The Tower were inspiring. I knew I wanted to be a part of the Tower staff. Thankfully, Mr. Nardone did select me as a member of The Tower and I spent my next three years growing as a writer, a leader and as an individual under his guidance. Mr. Nardone had a way of teaching that motivated all of us to want to be the best 100% of the time. He treated us like journalists and empowered us to make our own decisions, some easy, others much more difficult. Above all, Mr. Nardone respected each and every one of us. I am so thankful for the time I spent on Tower and for the years I had with Mr. Nardone as my teacher. -Alyssa Sullivan ’04, Sports Editor Feeling connected Jeff Nardone taught me journalism and common sense for four years. He lived and breathed The Tower and Grosse Pointe South. He knew their history and understood his role as steward of a nearly century-old tradition. He made 14- to 18-year-olds feel connected to something bigger – a rare feat in this society— and proud of their work and the work of their colleagues (natural, I suppose, as national awards kept coming in). I wish he could see how his lessons in investigating and writing help me daily in the field of law. -Brian Biglin ’04, Deputy Editor Because of you I spend my days chasing people around with a camera, trying to capture the perfect moment, much like I did in my Tower days; and frankly, I couldn’t be happier. And it’s all because of you. I probably would have never considered photography as a career path -ever- if you hadn’t pulled me aside one day in my junior year and told me you thought I was a great photographer, and made me Photo Editor for Tower. When I look back at my life, I consider that the moment everything changed. I am where I am today because you pushed me to try new things and take risks. You’ve given me the background, experience, and most importantly, the confidence to do almost anything with my photography. -Devin Zoltoski ’09, Photo Editor Household name Jeff Nardone will forever be a household name in the
Thalgott home. He helped to shape our young minds both as a mentor and as a friend, and for that we will forever be grateful. Every lesson taught was meaningful, thoughtful, and personal. Our family adored Jeff and will never forget his great sense of humor, and the impact that he has had on us. -Kourtney Thalgott ’08, Staff Writer Tower nerd As I approach my 10 year Grosse Pointe South reunion this month, I am deeply saddened by the loss of great teacher, mentor and friend, Jeff Nardone. My high school experience would have been vastly different without his presence. When you signed on with Nardone to be a “Tower Nerd”, you not only signed up to learn how to make a (really good) paper, he created a pseudo-world of a mini workplace where you got to learn about life, personalities, making things happen and standing up for what you believe in. I feel incredibly lucky to have been part of that Tower world. After 22 years, it will never be the same and neither will any of us. -Carly Copus (Feamster) ’03, Associate Editor Wonderful memories Jeff had an insurmountable impact on my life as a student, friend, and now as a young professional. He was the one who taught me the difference between principal and principle, and most importantly how to be passionate for my work. Everyone in Tower saw Jeff ’s passion for student journalism and how much he cared for his students’ individual successes. He challenged all of us intellectually as writers, designers, and editors. The critical thinking skills learned in The Tower Room are what propelled countless Tower alumni to successful careers in varying industries. When I spoke with Jeff recently, he felt grateful that I found time to give him a call. In reality, I am the grateful one for all the wonderful memories and life lessons learned from such an extraordinary educator and friend. Tower will always have a special place in my heart, as will Jeff. -Daniel Dickson ’09, Associate Editor (Below:) Nardone with his family.
“You’re that overachieving type” I always knew that I wanted to go into journalism, and Mr. Nardone knew that, too. I met Jeff the very first day of high school, freshman year, when I walked into his classroom for Intro to Journalism. He had assigned seating alphabetically, so I was right up in the front, next to his desk. He grabbed the class schedule out of my hands and began reading it. “Journalism, English, Spanish, Acting, TV Production… Well, it’s pretty clear what it is you want to do with your life,” he told me. I told him that what I really wanted was to be on his newspaper staff. He replied, “We’ll see how you do in this class, but I can already tell you’re that overachieving type that usually gets what she wants.” I spent the next four years — the entire span of high school — in Mr. Nardone’s classroom, and I still see the impact that he had on my life and my career; I realize now that he laid much of the foundation for my work and my work ethics. My fellow staff members and I learned valuable, sometimes difficult lessons in that room: We decided together how to appropriately cover (and try to make sense of) the events of 9/11; we were exposed to censorship issues involving a story on the car accident death of one student’s parent by another student; we won an award for our coverage of the equality and tolerance of openly gay students. The morning after I heard the news of his death, I sat in my office in silence, pouring over countless Facebook and Twitter tributes. And then, as if by his own prompting, I realized I was still on deadline. I went back to work: Mr. Nardone would have wanted it that way. -Shannon Adducci ’03, Managing Editor Friendships and memories In the middle of those angst-ridden, confusing and overwhelming teen years, Jeff ’s special ability was to bring out the best in us all, to highlight what made us unique and interesting, and so importantly, to make us proud of ourselves. I can see that who I am now – my interests, the path of my career, my work ethic – was all started in Jeff ’s class. He brought me a world of intellect, a place where I had ideas and opinions to share, and he gave me the forum in which to share them. I’ll never forget those days and long evenings spent in the Tower Room, technically putting together a newspaper, but mostly building friendships and memories. Jeff gave us all the courage to speak our minds, to stand up and make something great with our lives. He will be missed by all of us who knew him, but also by those who will never have the chance to be taught by him. -Katie Behringer ’02, Managing Sports Editor Leading by example I owe a great debt to Jeff Nardone, he helped make me into not only the occasional writer, but the driven person
I am today. I am positive of few things and one is that his work ethic and passion will continue for a long time through each and every member that was lucky enough to be a Tower member. Through Nardone, I learned being consistently great was what garnered the result you wanted, in everything you do. During my time on staff, Nardone not only helped steer the Tower through their only attempt at censorship by the South administration by empowering the staff to take charge of our paper, but he also helped me accomplish one my true passions with continuing with the Second Suburb comedy troupe. Though the Tower became second to me at the time Nardone never wavered in supporting me in something I was truly passionate about and for that I cannot thank him enough. Simply put through leading by example he helped shape countless writers into leaders. I learned more in my two years on the Tower than I learned in four years of Journalism classes and Michigan State and for that I also cannot thank Nardone enough. -Pietro Truba ’04, Sports Staff Trusting his students I joined The Tower a year after Jeff became its advisor. From him, I learned the craft of reporting—the sharp lede, the inverted pyramid. Because of him, I grew to love declarative sentences, incisive questions, and style guides. Jeff ’s teaching made me a better person. When there were difficult or controversial stories, Jeff asked students like me to tell them—considering all sides, confirming all facts, making hard judgments about what to publish. Jeff edited and critiqued, but with his deft touch, we never felt the journalism was anything less than completely our own. Jeff trusted us to handle these stories and, when necessary, defended our right to print them. In doing so, he challenged us, championed us, and made us grow. -Max Conrad ’97, News Editor Confidence I can’t say enough about how much of an impact Jeff Nardone has had on my life. Switching into that Beginning Journalism class on the second day of school was the best move I ever made. His passion for journalism ignited my own. His faith in making me managing editor on the Tower and a constant sounding board throughout my high school years instilled a sense of confidence in myself that prepared me for life beyond South, and as a professional in the journalism world. It was Jeff that I could still check in with as I was getting my masters in journalism and working in TV news. He was always eager to help put me in contact with the right people, especially as I parlayed my journalism experience into teaching it- hoping to give the other students the same quality guidance, instruction, and passion that I was so lucky to receive under his tutelage. -John Lund ’03, Staff Writer
Timeless dedication Jeff wasn’t just a teacher. He was a mentor. Most of all, he was a friend and an important leader during a time in our lives when we need direction the most. He also was one of the first adults who made me feel trusted and gave me the confidence to tackle any challenge that presented itself. It would take pages for me to illustrate his greatness and how much of an impact he had on me and every other student that walked into his classroom. I am lucky to have had the honor to learn from him 10+ years ago and feel comfort in knowing his legacy will continue through The Tower, MIPA, and through every single life he touched. -Leah Schilling Westphalen ’02, Associate Editor Treating students like real journalists There isn’t much that I need to say about Jeff Nardone, the teacher, to sufficiently praise him. I think one sentence sums it up: He made me think of myself as a writer and journalist. I spent three years on the Tower staff and didn’t think of myself as a journalist for one second before those three years or one second after those three years, but during my time with Jeff, I was a journalist. I fell in love with his subject because of his existence in my life. I am a rare person in that I grew up with two parents that are GPS teachers. So, GPS played a huge part in my life and I am loaded with positive memories of high school. Of all the great experiences I had, my time on the Tower staff was very much at the top of the list. Much like my experience with my own father and the GPS baseball program, the Tower was not a class to me - It was a championship caliber team and a family, and Jeff was the coach and the father. -Dan Griesbaum Jr. ’99, Tower staff One of a kind I entered Jeff Nardone’s classroom as a freshman. On the first day of our Journalism class, he posed an insightful question to the room. I responded with a less-than-insightful answer and started planning the class I would take when I dropped his. Mr. Nardone, though, considered my answer and suggested arguments to support it. I ended up joining Tower and spent a good part of my high school career in that same classroom. He valued autonomy, gave everyone a voice and considered all answers to a question. He taught his students how to prepare for and handle an interview, write an intriguing story and be educated consumers of the news. We will use these skills throughout our lives. He treated us as young adults, and his faith in our abilities allowed us to leave his classroom with more confidence than we had when we entered it. Mr. Nardone was an extraordinary educator and a wonderful man. -Kaitlin Arnold ’08, Associate Editor
(Left:) Nardone with his family. (Top right:) Nardone with his boys.
A lasting friendship I do not like to brag, but in this case I will make an exception. Jeff Nardone and I had a relationship unique to the typical student-teacher relationship. Well, I won’t brag that much, unique not just to me, but unique to the rest of the students he taught as well-that is to say, Nardone was not a run-of-the-mill teacher. Let me backtrack. Shortly after meeting in the fall of 2008, he and I meshed. Part of this can be attributed to the fact my eldest sister spent countless hours perfecting the Tower with him as Editor-in-Chief, but I think he enjoyed my “obnoxious” sense of humor and I, like most students, appreciated adults whom treated us as like. We have enjoyed countless lunches together. Typically going over papers or on light days even watching Jerry Springer. We would shoot the shit and talk about sports, family and school. He was my teacher, I his student and we were friends. I hold my fondest memories of Nardone in the fall of 2009. Nardone, myself and a handful of other Tower staff members left Detroit for Washington DC. We attended conferences, toured the city and enjoyed fine dining. Sure, the day off school, the hotel and the conferences were all rewards in themselves, but that’s not why any of us really enjoyed it. It’s how he made us feel. It’s the respect he gave us, the confidence he instilled in us. These are only some of the characteristics that embody Jeff Nardone, and if he is reading this now I hope he gives me a break on my formatting and grammar. -Nicky Diehl ’11, Deputy Editor An unexpected bond I didn’t know what I was expecting on my first day of Honors Journalism, but the words “Why are you late, you knucklehead,” were definitely not it. However looking back, I couldn’t have asked for a better start to the best three years of my high school experience. Being a part of the Tower staff under Mr. Nardone’s leadership is something I will always count myself incredibly lucky for, as should anyone else who had the pleasure. Mr. Nardone was like no other teacher, and I don’t just mean in the way that he wasn’t afraid to throw things at you for texting in class (I would know…), but in the way that he had an incredible compassion for his students. Jeff Nardone is the reason I am the student, and person, that I am today. Going into my senior year of high school, and applying for a copy editor position for the paper, Nardone sat me down and whipped me into shape. He told me I could do this, I was good at this, but I had to want it and show that I was willing to work for it if I wanted to succeed. That piece of advice has
followed me since then, fueling my continued pursuit of journalism and passion for writing for the past two years, and has gotten me to where I am today. There are so many things I wish I could have said to Nard, so many more days in the Tower room I wish I could have spent, and I would give anything to have him make fun of me once again for trying to get service to text even on the subway in NYC. He is someone I will remember for the rest of my journalistic career as the person who believed in me and gave me my start, and I am so proud and grateful to have been one of his students. Rest in peace Nard. -Alexis DeBrunner ’12, Copy Editor More than just a teacher Jeff Nardone understood his students to a tee. During high school, the time in our lives when we are itching for independence, Nardone was what we were searching for. He gave us the freedom we desired and with that came the respect to demand our best work. I think he was the first teacher, perhaps the first person, to treat me like an adult. To find a superior who would yell at me because I wasn’t working up to my full potential, while always caring about my life and respecting my aspirations, showed me what it felt like to be viewed as something real, something more than a mere child. This was more than a breath of fresh air—it was a revelation. To have someone like that within the institutionalized walls of South made it all the more incredible. Nardone saw us as brighter, older, and more able than we even saw ourselves. -Somers Brush ’12, Managing Editor Always a fighter Rest in peace, Mr. Nardone, one of the most influential teachers and role models I’ve had the privilege of learning from. The lessons I have learned from you shaped me into who I am today. You’ve certainly taught me a lot about journalism and what it’s like to be a part of an award-winning publication, but beyond the classroom, you’ve shown me what one is truly capable of and how to fulfill that potential. So many watched you fight your battle, yet rarely heard any complaints. From reading our stories in a hospital bed to hosting the annual Christmas parties through your fight, your dedication will forever be admired. You’ve inspired so many people and I know that your story will continue to do so. Forever in our hearts...love you, Nard. -Meghan Flanagan ’12, Business Manager Tough love It is quite rare to find someone who sacrifices so much of themselves for others. Jeff Nardone was one of those people. Teaching with passion and from years of experience, I learned not only about journalism, but about life during my years on Tower. He created an open work envi-
ronment for his students, constantly motivating us to push the boundaries and teaching us to stand up for what we believe in. People from all over the country recognize his name because of his vast amount of accomplishments, but he constantly let us know that it was the kids who achieved them . I highly disagree. Without the grade folder lectures, ripping our awful editorials to shreds, being told we were half-assing things, bringing in full meals for us to eat during deadline nights, leaving it up to a group of 15-18 year olds to decide what goes in a major publication, the positive words of encouragement and that “push” to strive for excellence, Tower would not be what it is. The thousands of lives he touched would not be the same either. Rest in peace Nard, there better be a Bruegger’s up in heaven. -Emily Cervone ’12, Managing Editor Enthusiasm is everything Nard was the first teacher I had at South who really treated me like an adult. We would either be laughing like friends about the time I ate three doughnuts in a row or be going over issues I was having with the page I was designing. Nard gave his students real responsibilities like strict deadlines, yet trusted us to be doing what we were supposed to. I remember one class last year he spent the entire time explaining to us how important it is to have “enthusiasm” in anything you do, even if it isn’t journalism. For the rest of the year, he would constantly remind us to either have “enthusiasm” while we worked on The Tower or to find something we could be enthusiastic about. I think that really shows he cared so much about his students that he wanted to make sure we all spend our lives doing what we love. -Neala Berkowski ’13, Page Editor Life lessons I will never forget the memories I made during my time as a part of The Tower newspaper staff, and Jeff Nardone is one of the major reasons why. He taught me so much, not only about journalism, but life in general. He taught me to expect a lot out of others, but also myself. He taught me to never settle for anything, to always aim higher and work harder. He showed me what true dedication and perseverance was, to always put others before yourself. Even when he was sick, his main concern was the Tower staff and overseeing an amazing publication, which couldn’t have been what it was without his overwhelming support. He not only changed my life, but also every other student’s life at South who was fortunate enough to have him. He, as well as the rest of my Tower family, will always hold such a special place in my heart. Thank you, Nard, for being the best teacher I could have had at South and helping me to become the person I am today. -Becky Weiland ’13, Page Editor
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To the man whose staff has accrued over 800 honors and accolades, this year’s staff offers their own through the tradition of paper plate awards.