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DECEMBER 2023 VOLUME 18, NUMBER 7
PUBLISHER
MS Christian Living, Inc. EDITOR
Katie Eubanks katie@mschristianliving.com ART/GRAPHIC DESIGN
Sandra Goff SALES
Teresa Howell CONTRIBUTING WRITERS
Courtney Connell, Courtney Ingle, Laura Lee Leathers, Brianna Rodgers, Dr. Daniel Ross, Jade Whitehurst
Dr. Farrah Newman is an ophthalmologist with EyeCare Professionals who served with her family — including all four kids! — in Kenya for two years. See page 31.
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columns
Rachel and Nettie Schulte, Jerri and Sammy Strickland, Rachel and Bob Whatley
8 Modern Motherhood Don’t be a Martha-Mama
10 Health & Wellness Jump into the new year with both feet
12 Let’s Talk It Over Protecting your recovery during the holidays
14 Faith, Fashion & Fitness 7 ways to craft holy habits
16 Redefining Retirement The benefits of at-home healthcare
Courtney Connell (far left) volunteering with coworkers at the nonprofit she established during a season of struggle. See page 18.
18 This Is My Story
cover story
34 Lagniappe
Why starting a nonprofit was exactly what I needed St. Dominic’s Sister receives lifetime achievement award
20 Christian Leaders of the Year Their stories and their hearts
feature story 31 Dr. Farrah Newman Through eyes of faith
in every issue 6 Editor’s Letter 38 Quips & Quotes 38 Advertiser Index
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39 years,
EDITOR’S LETTER
Count your Blessing
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don’t know how to say this without bragging, but I had a pretty fantastic Thanksgiving. (The one disappointment
Getting Christmassy with Stephen at the historical Chapel of the Cross in Madison.
Last month I mentioned my “faith crisis year” in Oxford. That year, I was taking college courses that should’ve been fascinating. At best, they distracted me. I lived in a town brimming with literary culture, live music, and good food. I found it all achingly hollow, especially the bookstores I used to enjoy. I was even surrounded by warm, caring believers. I saw Jesus’ love in them, but until I surrendered to that love myself, I suffered. Now, compare this with my recent holiday: A good book, family and friends — oh, and as I write this, we’re planning to attend Blue Monday at Hal & Mal’s tonight, to hear Azod’s brother sit in with the house band. I’m enjoying every bit of it. The difference? None of it has to satisfy completely, because I know the One who does. I can simply enjoy these other blessings for what they are. That’s why the title of this Editor’s Letter is not a typo. If you have put your trust in Christ, He is your Blessing, singular. You probably have other blessings too, though maybe it doesn’t feel like it. Either way, if you’re His, you can count (and count on) Him. If you’re not His, I pray you would believe in Him. Yes, that means turning from your sin and surrendering your life to Him. But no, it doesn’t mean “strain and strive to be better and hope He accepts you.” It means TRUST. Trust in His finished payment on the cross for your sins (John 19:30). Trust Him enough to follow Him (He’ll help you if you’ll only say yes). Then you will have everything your soul longs for, regardless of your thoughts, feelings, or circumstances (all of which can betray us). You will know the Blessing who satisfies. Merry Christmas!
was that my parents couldn’t make it to the Eubanks family turkey day in Arkansas, as Dad caught COVID. But he’s doing better now, and they hope to visit his sisters soon.) A lot of factors made Thanksgiving fun: –A good audiobook, Michael Crichton’s “Dragon Teeth,” for the drive through the Delta. –The discovery that Subway and McDonald’s are not the only viable lunch options in Lake Village, Arkansas. La Terraza was good! Try the Mexican Fried Rice. –Cheese dip at Stoby’s restaurant in Conway. It’s probably just Velveeta and storebought tortilla chips, but I grew up on it at the Stoby’s in Russellville, so it tastes like home. –Chilly but beautiful weather, more delicious food, good visiting, and games at the Eubanks family gathering. (It helps that I won a few rounds of badminton and Mad Gab. If you want to see just how angry I can get, watch me try to play Fortnight with my husband.) –Revisiting the place where Stephen proposed last Thanksgiving at Petit Jean State Park. No fog this year, just gorgeous fall colors and a spectacular sunset! –Hot chocolate and plenty of carbs at Cracker Barrel — including something called a Cinnamon Roll Pie? Good grief, it was tasty. Then, after we got home, we had another great day: Stephen’s best friend Azod was in town, and we went with him to a cookout hosted by other friends who have some land in south Jackson. More fabulous food and visiting. We are now “peopled out,” but I’ve found myself marveling over what a good time we’ve had in the past week. The other thing I keep thinking is an idea I read somewhere, probably Must-reads in this issue: from the late Timothy Keller: As believers, we ● Our cover story on our 2023 Christian can enjoy blessings like the ones I listed above Leaders of the Year (page 20) because they’re not our end-all, be-all. We ● Courtney Ingle’s column on avoiding already have an end-all, be-all, and it’s Jesus. “Martha-Mama” syndrome (page 8) In other words, if we relied on the “perfect” ● Our feature on Farrah Newman, an eye Thanksgiving or Christmas to satisfy our souls’ doctor with eyes of faith (page 31) Y deepest yearnings, we’d be left wanting. Earthly treasures — even the people we love most — cannot bear that kind of weight. They cannot be our end-all, be-all. They cannot give us what we need most: forgiveness, righteousness before God, Katie Eubanks Ginn katie@mschristianliving.com and the peace that passes all understanding.
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MODERN MOTHERHOOD by COURTNEY INGLE
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How to avoid becoming a Martha-Mama this Christmas
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he Christmas season is supposed to be one of joy and reverence as we celebrate the birth of our risen Savior. In my core, I know it. But while Jesus deserves our worship, it is so easy for me to be pulled into the commercialism and keeping-upwith-the-Joneses that often drives (and antagonizes) the Christmas season. There is a lot of pressure on parents this time of the year. The family Christmas-card pictures, the school play, the church singing, the live nativity, the decor, the school party, the work dinner, the Christmas list, the advent calendar, picking the perfect family devotional — not to mention the shopping and hiding of gifts. Regardless of whether Santa stops by your home, you only get about a dozen Christmases with your little kids. Then they’re teens and young adults, and the dynamic changes. Knowing this, it’s easy to want to throw yourself into making the most beautiful memories to cherish. But don’t be a Martha-Mama (Luke 10:38-42). Don’t work so hard making memories FOR your family that you aren’t making memories WITH your family. It’s one thing to want to serve your family and create these special moments. It’s another to turn that into a goal of perfection. This is coming from experience. My kids are 6 and 2. I’m already anxiously mapping out Christmas events, planning gifts, and scratching off neverending to-do lists. I’m feeling the weight of trying to do it all. And let’s be honest: If we ride and look at Christmas lights for more than 10 minutes, the kiddos will fall asleep, and the routine will be off. Then there’s the apocalyptic anger of the 2-year-old who doesn’t care about comfort and safety — he wanted to finish his nap in the car. Christmas is a joyous occasion to celebrate the birth of our Savior. So why do we add so much extra pressure? How can we slow it down? HERE ARE MY TIPS: Carve in the calm. Create stillness in the schedule. Bask in the moment with
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your family, even if that means just cuddling together and reflecting on what this season in life means to you. Keep it Christ-minded. Our home is one of Santa’s stops, but we consciously point our kids to the birth of Christ in this season. We read books about the nativity and have nativity sets for all ages (even toy ones). Do an advent devotional with your family, and find a solid advent study for your quiet time.
“ It’s one thing to want to serve
your family and create special moments. It’s another to turn that into a goal of perfection. This is coming from experience. My kids are 6 and 2. I’m already anxiously mapping out Christmas events, planning gifts, and scratching off neverending to-do lists.
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Be realistic. Moods sour. Illnesses happen. Nothing is perfect. Don’t set your heart on lofty ideas of what Christmas “should” look like. Make memories. Make memories, not media content. Truly embrace these moments with your family. Take a couple of pics and put the phone away. Let the kids help with baking, even if the kitchen gets destroyed. Create Christ-centered and family-involving traditions that your family will look forward to for years. Enjoy this season of celebrating our King. Merry Christmas! Y
Courtney and her husband, Jeremy, live in Brandon and are members at Park Place Baptist Church in Pearl. They have a daughter, Taylor, and a son, Jacob. Courtney is a full-time homemaker and can be reached at courtneyingle89@gmail.com.
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HEALTH & WELLNESS by DR. DANIEL ROSS
Wishing you a
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Jump into the new year with both feet
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he foot is a complex part of the human body composed of 33 joints, 26 bones, and more than a hundred muscles, tendons and ligaments, all working together to provide support, balance and mobility. The average person has walked about 75,000 miles by the time they’re 50 years old. Given how many moving parts the foot has, it makes sense that it’s vulnerable to injury and overuse. A few of the most common causes of foot pain include plantar fasciitis, bunions, and ankle arthritis.
◼ Plantar fasciitis is caused by inflammation in the thick band of tissue on the underside of the foot that connects the heel bone to the toes. It’s usually related to overstretching or overuse. Symptoms include pain in the heel and arch that is often worse in the mornings. Most patients respond well to conservative treatments like stretching, physical therapy, and/or more supportive shoes.
◼ Bunions are a bony protrusion on either the inside edge of
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the foot or the pinky-toe side. Bunions are caused when something, often tight shoes, puts extra pressure on your big toe and pushes it out of alignment and toward your other toes. The primary symptoms are bone deformity, pain in the joint, stiffness or swelling, and redness or tenderness. Many patients respond well to conservative treatments including changing shoes or anti-inflammatory medications. Painful bunions can be removed with a minimally-invasive surgical procedure.
◼ Ankle arthritis is a condition in which the ankle joint has damage or worn-out cartilage. Symptoms include pain and stiffness, tenderness when touching the joint, swelling all around or on only one side of your ankle, and decreased range of motion. Depending on the severity, treatments can range from simple lifestyle and activity modifications to ankle replacements for those who haven’t responded to other treatments.
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Most foot problems can be diagnosed with a physical exam, a review of your symptoms and medical history, a gait analysis, and an imaging test such as an X-ray, CT scan or MRI. The treatment for foot pain is based on the condition but can involve over-the-counter or prescription pain medication, orthotics, custom-fitted shoes, physical therapy, or surgery. If you’re experiencing foot or ankle pain, seek a professional opinion. We can evaluate, diagnose and treat your condition and get you back to moving and living better! Y Dr. Daniel Ross joined Capital Ortho in September as an orthopedic surgeon specializing in the treatment of foot and ankle problems. For over 30 years, Capital Ortho has provided general and specialized orthopedic care to residents throughout the state. They have locations in Flowood, Madison, Clinton, Brookhaven, Hazlehurst and Kosciusko. To learn more or schedule an appointment, visit capitalortho.com or call 601-987-8200.
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LET’S TALK IT OVER by BRIANNA RODGERS, LMFT, ASAT, EMDR, CTT
Protecting your recovery journey during the holidays
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s we approach the holiday season, here are some ways you and your family can prepare to stay on the path to recovery.
POTENTIAL TRIGGERS
◆ Family gatherings: Family conflict is more likely to arise, and buttons are pushed.
◆ Holiday parties: Many holiday parties involve
◆ Talk to your sponsor. It can be tempting to neglect your resources during the holiday season, but please utilize them. Discuss with your sponsor ahead of time if they plan to be unavailable for any length of time during the holiday season, and plan accordingly.
◆ Set boundaries. In order to protect your progress, incorporate boundaries that have proved to be helpful for you.
potentially destructive people, substances and behaviors.
◆ Engage in community service. This is a healthy way to
◆ Extended time off: While many celebrate extended breaks
stay productive, occupied, and around others who care.
from school and work, it can be difficult for someone in recovery to go without the consistent structure and community that work or school provides them.
◆ Postponed recovery meetings: While sponsors reserve the right to spend time with their loved ones, unanticipated changes or cancellations may present a challenge to someone in recovery.
◆ Environmental triggers: A room, an old friend, a store, a building, a house — these may all have significant memories attached to them that we won’t think about until we’re back in that environment. PRACTICAL TIPS
◆ Plan ahead. Before you visit friends or return home, it’s important to have a plan. What will you do when you need a break? A healthy lifestyle is not something we can afford to leave to chance — we need a plan.
◆ Attend recovery-friendly events. Don’t feel pressured to be in an environment that is not conducive to your recovery.
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FAITH, FASHION & FITNESS by JADE WHITEHURST
7 ways to craft holy habits
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sing your habits and routines to honor God is a wonderful way to integrate your faith into your daily life and experience Christ more fully. After
all, it’s the mundane tasks and habits of our lives that open up the possibility of achieving our health and fitness goals. It’s in our habits where we form the disciplines we need to be good stewards of our time and energy so we can use them in ways that serve and honor God.
Here are seven suggestions on how you can become more mindful in crafting your own holy habits:
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Seek God’s guidance. Begin each day by seeking God’s guidance and asking for His wisdom in choosing the right habits. Pray for His help in developing habits that align with His will and bring glory to Him.
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Study and meditate on scripture. Make it a habit to regularly study and meditate on God’s Word. Set aside specific times each day to read the Bible, reflect on its teachings, and apply them to your life. Allow the truths and principles found in scripture to shape your habits.
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Practice gratitude. Cultivate a habit of gratitude by acknowledging and giving thanks to God for His blessings. Develop a daily practice of expressing gratitude for the big and small things — even the things that might feel icky, like doing laundry. Recognize that all good things come from God, and offer praise and thanksgiving to Him.
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Pray without ceasing. Develop a habit of constant communication with God through prayer. Make prayer a regular part of your day, not just during designated times but also in the midst of your activities. “Thank you Lord for the laundry, for it is a blessing to have clothes to wash.”
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Serve others. Develop habits of service and selflessness by actively seeking opportunities to serve others. Look for ways to meet the needs of those around you, whether through acts of kindness, volunteering, or supporting charitable causes. Use your time, talents and resources to bless others and reflect God’s love.
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Practice self-discipline. Develop habits of selfdiscipline in areas that honor God. This can include areas such as managing your time wisely, maintaining a healthy lifestyle, controlling your words and thoughts, being a good steward of your finances, and being mindful of your social media scrolling. Seek the Holy Spirit’s guidance to help you develop self-control and resist temptations.
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Worship and fellowship. Make it a habit to regularly participate in corporate worship and fellowship with other believers. Attend church services, join small groups or Bible studies, and engage in meaningful conversations with fellow Christians. These habits help strengthen your relationship with God and provide opportunities for spiritual growth and encouragement.
Remember, developing habits that honor God is a lifelong journey. It requires intentionality, perseverance, and reliance on the Holy Spirit’s guidance. As you seek to align your habits with God’s will, trust in His grace and allow His transforming power to work in you. Change has to happen in your heart before it can happen in your habits. As you gear up to develop holy habits, I want to leave you with this nugget of truth from Matthew 5:37 — “Let your yes be yes, and your no be no. Anything else comes from the evil one.” Therefore, I want to encourage and challenge you to be a person of integrity who honors and stays true to their word (and actions) — even when it’s just to yourself! You are more precious than rubies, my friend, so live a life that radiates goodness by crafting holy habits, because this will help you tee up and achieve the goals you said you would. Y
Jade Whitehurst is a wife, mom, fitness coach and eighth-grade science teacher. You can follow her on Instagram @jadewhitehurst_thefaithfitmom.
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REDEFINING RETIREMENT by LAURA LEE LEATHERS
The benefits of at-home healthcare
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eality! Healthcare has drastically changed since the pandemic. Most people would agree with that statement. Furthermore, people are seeking quality healthcare as they age. That might mean homeopathic alternatives or finding ways to stay home versus going into assisted living or a nursing home. In an interview with Garrett Sawyer, vice president of clinical services and chief nursing officer with Prime Care Nursing, he shared the following: “Research is now showing that individuals over the age of 75 want to be cared for at home. Why? One of the top reasons is that it leads to better health overall. The family member or caregiver is aware of daily health needs and employment obligations, time, and changes. It also keeps a person engaged in family health? Then, what can be taken over by activities — physically and mentally. Another an outside provider? reason is that transitioning into an assisted living or nursing home is difficult.” ◼ If hospice is needed, Medicare provides Add changing routines, different medical some assistance, and at-home care can personnel, and learning to live with fill in the gap. strangers. Remember the isolation people ◼ Does the client need any of the in-home experienced a few years ago, family services offered by Prime Care? This members putting hands on window glass to could include overseeing daily “touch” a loved one? This is a significant household tasks or transportation. reason why more people consider at-home healthcare. Steps to start the process Prime Care Nursing is a staffing agency If you choose at-home healthcare for for healthcare facilities and individuals your loved one, where do you begin? needing at-home care regardless of age. Emry ◼ Contact a provider. Prime Care will Oxford established the business in 1987 and bring in a nurse to do an evaluation has seen the need steadily grow. Today the and consultation. agency has more than 1,500 employees who ◼ Working with a provider, determine are available to work throughout Mississippi. who is needed (RN, LPN, CNA). Garrett provided some tips for those considering at-home healthcare: ◼ How often is someone needed? Prime Care offers shifts from a minimum of Questions to consider two hours up to 24 hours, seven days How do you know if home care is the a week. route for you or your loved one? Consider ◼ If you are the caregiver, think about the the following: need for respite care, another benefit of ◼ Where does the individual want to stay? at-home care. The answer usually plays a significant ◼ Consider the benefits of Medicare, role in their attitude and willingness to Medicaid, a long-term healthcare policy, engage with the process. and personal finances. Even worker’s ◼ Is there a family member or friend compensation and private insurance can willing to be a caregiver? provide benefits. Push the pencil regarding costs. ◼ What are the specific needs? Reevaluate this subject regularly because health Financial planning needs change. What can a caregiver First, saving is always wise, regardless of age. provide, considering their own family, 16 DECEMBER 2023 ❘ Mississippi Christian Living
Set aside a monthly amount into a personal health or caregiving account if possible. Consult with a biblical financial planner who can give you another perspective by evaluating your assets, liabilities and equity. Are there new ideas or ways to trim expenses and grow income? Another option is to purchase a longterm care plan. Remember to study the plans carefully and seek an agent. My personal experience I (Laura) served as caregiver for my mother from 2010 until 2021. She desired to stay in her home as long as possible, which she did until her passing. My mom had a better attitude at home versus her three admittances to a nursing home. She was motivated to do more for herself because she wanted to stay home. We were blessed to find qualified people to assist when needed. Biblically, the decision was about honoring her and fulfilling examples from the scriptures. The journey was joyous and challenging. More information about Prime Care Nursing is available at 1-800-844-4298 or pcnursing.com. Y
Laura Lee Leathers is a writer and speaker. Imagine Lois Lane, over 65, living on a farm. Her metropolis is the area of freelance writing. Her primary love interest is the Word of God. She digs for information, interviews fascinating people, offers a cup of LauraLeeLeathers.com.
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THIS IS MY STORY by COURTNEY CONNELL
Why starting a nonprofit was exactly what I (and others) needed
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n 2020, despite the COVID chaos, I had a lot of time for reflection and prayer. Since 2019 I had been praying
for purpose in my single season of life. I had a killer career but was struggling with why the personal side of things was so lacking. I was learning how to be faithful and surrender every part of me to God’s glory. Due to this great career, I was financially blessed the year I prayed for purpose, and with that came the question, what do I do with the tithe associated with that blessing? God responded, and I was a little mind-blown. I thought, “There is no way He wants me to dive off into this by myself,” but I wasn’t alone. He was right there with me, along with some wonderful people who prayed for me and helped me Due to (a) great get ramped up. Two of those career, I was financially sweet souls were in my single blessed the year I ladies’ small group from church and are now proud prayed for purpose, board members of Pine Belt and with that came the Foster Resources (PFR). question, what do I It all happened so quickly. I do with the tithe had met with the president of Elijah’s Closet on the coast and associated with that blessing? God discussed extending their services to the Pine Belt. I responded, and I was wasn’t ready to take on all the a little mind-blown. paperwork and setting up a nonprofit, so she agreed to let us be an extension of them until we got established in Hattiesburg. I started looking for a storage unit. What do you know, the largest unit’s full year of rent was within $10 of my tithe amount. We signed the lease in January 2021 and started filling that thing up! In January 2023, we moved into a storefront five times the size of our storage unit. We serve the surrounding counties of the Pine Belt area, from Jeff Davis to Marion, Jones, Wayne, and even down to Perry and Green counties. We provide everything from clothing and shoes to beds, car seats and diapers. We have helped more than 250 children in the last three years. We have brought smiles, love and hope, along with practical necessities for children who are hurting. This passion project started out as obedience with a labor of love attached. Now that I look back, it was more about God’s love for me and giving me a chance to share His love in my community. He perfectly orchestrated this opportunity for me during a time that felt a little bit like a season of wilderness. Now it isn’t just for me — multiple people have this haven to come and give love, tenderness and support to children who desperately need it. Y
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Students from Parkway Heights and Main Street United Methodist churches in Hattiesburg participate in Youth Group Volunteer Work Day at Pine Belt Foster Resources.
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If you aren’t sure whether you have a relationship with God or where you’ll go when you die, please don’t put this magazine down until you’ve read the following:
✝ THE PROBLEM For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God. – Romans 3:23 For the wages of sin is death … – Romans 6:23a The natural result and consequence of our sin is eternal death, or hell (Revelation 20:15), separated from God. This is because God is completely perfect and holy (Matthew 5:48), and His justice demands that sin be punished (Proverbs 11:21).
✝ THE SOLUTION … but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord. – Romans 6:23b But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. – Romans 5:8 Jesus Christ died in our place on the cross and took on the punishment for all our sins (Isaiah 53:4-6). Then God raised Him from the dead (John 20)!
✝ HOW TO RECEIVE SALVATION If you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. – Romans 10:9 Trust in what Jesus has done for you — His death for your sins and His resurrection — and trust Him as Lord.
✝ IS IT FOR ANYONE? For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved. – Romans 10:13
✝ THE RESULTS Therefore being justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ. – Romans 5:1 For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. – Romans 8:38-39
✝ WHAT TO DO NEXT So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God. – Romans 10:17 If you decided to trust in Jesus, grow in your faith by reading more of God’s Word in the Bible. We recommend the gospel of John (it comes just after Luke) as a good starting point — or Romans! Finding a church close to you that teaches faith in Christ is another important step. It’s crucial to spend time with other believers so we can encourage each other in our faith. If you have questions about anything on this page, please contact us at 601.896.1432, or send us a message on Facebook @MSChristianLiving, Instagram @mschristianmag or Twitter @MSChristLiving. mschristianliving.com ❘ DECEMBER 2023 19
COVER STORY by KATIE EUBANKS GINN
Back, from left: George Hester, Jill Ford, Reta Haire, Kevin Reid. Front, from left: Tina Lakey, Andrea Reid.
MCL’s 2023 Christian Leaders of the Year F
or the fifth year in a row, MCL has asked for nominations for Christian Leaders of the Year, servant leaders in Mississippi who embody the character of Christ. Nominations this year were reviewed by the MCL Advisory Board, and six Christian Leaders of the Year were selected. They recently sat down with MCL Editor Katie Eubanks Ginn to share their stories and their heart for the gospel. This interview has been edited for space and clarity.
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Their influences, their stories, and why Christian leaders need the gospel
THE LEADERS
RETA HAIRE
KEVIN & ANDREA REID
Head of Middle School, Jackson Prep
Lead Pastor and Executive Pastor respectively, CityHeart Church, Jackson
From her nomination: “Several years ago, (a Prep student) made a mistake … While some would have called it grievous, I watched as (Reta) gently coached the child back on the path. She talked about mistakes and forgiveness and redemption … And although there was a fair punishment, she didn’t seek to make an example of said child … The relationship between (her) and the child (was) strengthened over time.”
From their nominations: “One of (the Reids’) greatest leadership traits is how they pour into and invest in others … Recently they have created a four-part leadership training for church members. (Pastor Kevin) has been teaching these classes sometimes twice a week because of the demand … Additionally, Pastor Andrea is a certified executive coach and offers this service to church members to allow her to pour into
the ladies of the church on a one-to-one level.” – Mandy Bufkin, Ministries Director, CityHeart “While most (churches) were trying to hold on and maintain (during COVID), Pastor Kevin and Andrea led us to not only increase in numbers but transitioned our church into a new building … Average attendance has gone up at least 40 percent and we are now thriving in our new location.” – Joo Reynolds, Connections Pastor, CityHeart
– Emily McClain, former colleague
JILL FORD
TINA LAKEY
GEORGE HESTER
Mississippi House of Representatives District 73 Rep., Madison
Retired District Director, CenterPoint Energy; serves on boards of several organizations
Chairman and founder, Navitas Wealth, Ridgeland; vice chair of the board, Unite Mississippi Foundation
From her nomination: “(Jill) encourages everyone she meets to form a personal relationship with Jesus … When we go out to eat she not only prays for our meal, but she asks the waiter how she can pray for them. As we travel in a cab, she witnesses to the cab driver … She has been involved with Manna, taught VBS and Bible studies in the Delta, and witnessed to everyone along the way: gas station attendants, homeless (people), and homebound.” – Amy Adams, friend
From her nomination: “There is no telling how many lives Tina touches through her daily devotions (on Facebook), her children’s book … her service to her church, her role model, her friendships, her mentorships, her love and passion which show through her volunteerism and willingness to serve on many nonprofit boards which help so many needy individuals. She walks the walk and talks the talk.”
From his nomination: “George saw a great opportunity to bring together pastors, business leaders and (other believers) for a monthly time of fellowship and faith sharing (to) equip and encourage the body of Christ to go out and make disciples. George has been faithfully committed to this for over 10 years and has a vision for the state of Mississippi to be fully reached with the gospel AND – Jan Collins, friend and colleague discipled out of this effort.” – Jamie Rasberry, colleague and friend
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THE INTERVIEW
MCL Editor Katie Eubanks Ginn (bottom right) interviews our 2023 Christian Leaders of the Year. From left: Reta Haire, Kevin and Andrea Reid, Jill Ford, Tina Lakey, George Hester.
Katie Eubanks Ginn: Who are the Christian leaders who’ve influenced each of you?
Jill Ford: My grandmother. She was a mother of 11, mostly boys. She taught me how to pray on my knees. I still, every morning, get on my knees and pray. Tina Lakey: My mother. We grew up very poor. My mother taught us about God, His love for us. When the church doors were open, we were there. Reta Haire: My parents. I was able to see them live out the Christian life in a very normal way. My mother was a servant leader. My dad was a leader by example.
Kevin Reid: My grandmother. She was a pastor before that was a popular thing (for women to be). She grew up without her parents from the age of 3. She was raised by siblings in a sharecropping family. She planted a church with her kids. (And) she never met a stranger. We’d go with her to the grocery store, and by the time we got through checking out … the cashier would be saved. (laughs)
alcoholic. But the good news is, he became my best friend later in life. (But) God brought people along(side) me — God gave me a passion for African American people because of where I was raised. I had a lot of really great mentors. At different seasons in life, God brought men and women alongside me to help me get to the next level, because I was broken in so many ways.
Andrea Reid: My grandparents. I remember seeing my grandfather reading his Bible and weeping.
KG: George, I know part of Unite Mississippi’s mission is to bring believers together across racial lines. How did that get started?
George Hester: My mother was probably the spiritual side … My dad was an
GH: When I turned 66, I asked God, ‘What do You want me to do?’ (He) said, ‘I want
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“ When I turned 66, I asked God, ‘What do You want me to do?’ (He) said, ‘I want you to go make disciples.’ I didn’t know what that meant. The next day, (a friend called me and said), ‘God told me to call you and say He wants you to go make disciples.’
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– George Hester “We got a prophecy (that said) it’s going to take heavy machinery to till the soil (and that we’re) part of that machinery,” Andrea says of planting CityHeart Church in Jackson.
you to go make disciples.’ I didn’t know what that meant. The next day, my black friend Smokey John Reaves in Dallas called (and said), ‘God told me to call you and say He wants you to go make disciples.’ Discipleship is when you teach someone to do the same thing you do for them — it’s a mentoring process. (Some friends) and myself started in my office and said we’re going to do this discipleship program for a year. Then God started stirring in our hearts, what’s wrong with the country is because the church hasn’t done her job. You can’t bring the country together if the Body’s not together. So we began to expand our thinking. If we begin in Jackson, and 10 people (each) discipled two people, and repeat that process, in 10 years we’d reach 590,000 people.
(So Chip Miskelly started) the Unite Mississippi Foundation … We started doing a (luncheon) once a month and have somebody share their testimony, and we exhort the body of Christ to amplify their faith in the marketplace.
You want to take God everywhere. So if I can go (sit on a board) and just one person sees something in me that they would like to have, and not because of me but because of God … then I’ll feel like I’ve been a big success.
KG: I know the rest of you also do a lot outside of your day jobs. Tina, you’re retired but probably busier than all of us. How do you decide which causes to get involved with?
KG: Jill, the last time I interviewed you, the COVID pandemic had just started. How have the last few years been for you in the Legislature?
TL: I think you start with people you trust who come to you. I don’t jump in until I feel that’s where God wants me to be. (I’m involved with The) Salvation Army because they do good, they help people … If it had not been for others helping us (when I was young), we would not have survived.
JF: The last four years have been incredible. It’s not an easy position if you don’t get on your face before the Lord every (day). I’ve seen Him answer prayers. For instance … last night, Gluckstadt voted to put in the second Baby Box in Mississippi. A Baby Box is where a mother (has) the
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KG: Andrea, what drew you to come back to Jackson to plant CityHeart Church, and Kevin, what led you to join her?
AR: (I grew up) in north Jackson, and we drove all the way to Farish Street for church. But it wasn’t until I left the state and went to Duke University … and then you come home and you’re like, ‘Oh, how did I not see this (poverty)?’ When we got married and started
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talking about ministry, the Lord placed Jackson on my husband’s heart. (I thought) oooh, that’s a tall order. We got a prophecy (that said) it’s going to take heavy machinery to till the soil (and that we’re) part of that machinery. So having that word, hearing from the Lord, having a husband that has vision — (because) when we first came home, all I could see was the devastation. But in the seven years of ministry here (I’ve seen) there are people with a heart for Jackson. (We’re) not doing this alone. KR: I remember the first time we visited Jackson. I didn’t know what to expect. I grew up in the north. … It was coming here, meeting the people and really just gauging people’s hearts that we really began to see, OK God, there really is a work to do. Everyone thinks, ‘We can’t be in Jackson after 5.’ No, we’re going to be here. (We’re going to have) fall fest and all the things that people think can only happen in certain enclaves. Sometimes we think it’s going to be a political fix or an economic fix, but really (it’s) spiritual. (It) even starts with how we speak … One of the things we’re saying in our church this year is, ‘Jackson Is Rising.’ (There) is business, there is economic development coming, but it’s going to take
Congratulates
Reta Haire HEAD OF MIDDLE SCHOOL
ON BEING NAMED ONE OF THE 2023 CHRISTIAN LEADERS OF THE YEAR “TRUST IN THE LORD WITH ALL YOUR HEART, AND DO NOT LEAN ON YOUR OWN UNDERSTANDING. IN ALL YOUR WAYS ACKNOWLEDGE HIM, AND HE WILL MAKE YOUR PATHS STRAIGHT." PROVERBS 3:5-6
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Congratulates Board Member
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awhile. There needs to be a spiritual presence here, fighting against the enemy. For a guy from Boston, having people tell me, ‘You’ll never be able to do that in Mississippi … ‘ (God has created at CityHeart) a community that is very diverse, not only generationally but also racially and people from different walks of life, different denominations. KG: Reta, you’ve been at Jackson Prep for your entire career. What are some of the changes you’ve seen in education, and how have those changes impacted the way you relate to students?
RH: I don’t think the changes are specific to Prep. (But) one of the biggest changes I’ve seen in students is a decrease in grit. It used to be, when the going gets tough, the tough get going. Now when the going gets tough, (students think) ‘I want to bail. …’ So we talk a lot at Prep about productive struggle (and) the things we learn through struggle. You cannot ignore the change from cell phones, the camera, social media, and the unbelievable pressures on children and parents. … this whole idea that my life has to appear perfect. In the middle school, we don’t have cell phones (in class). But I don’t ever want to sit in judgment on parents … We love the kids and families where they are. I am very privileged to work at a school where I can pray with my faculty, where I can pray for struggling parents in my office, where I can pray with students, and start the day with scripture. We’ve got to raise men and women of character. That’s what I want to do every day. GH: The root issue goes back to children’s identity. If they don’t find their identity in Christ, they’ve got to look to others for validation. And that’ll wear you out. If we could teach people, adults too, that their worth is based on what Jesus did for them 2,000 years ago … Why aren’t we sharing our faith in the marketplace? (If) you don’t know who you are in Christ, you’re going to keep your mouth shut. The Bible Belt is one of the hardest places (to share the gospel). We’ve still got a works mentality … when you’re serving God out of servitude, you’re not going to share your testimony.
“ (Being a state
representative) has allowed me the opportunity to walk out my faith. And trust me, there are days when I feel like I’ve forgotten I have faith. … You have to fight. And I grew up fighting — I had four brothers. (So) I’m not necessarily intimidated by men. … If they don’t have a chair at the table, I’ll just drag one up.
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– Jill Ford
“ You want to take God
everywhere. So if I can go (sit on a board) and just one person sees something in me that they would like to have, and not because of me but because of God … then I’ll feel like I’ve been a big success.
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– Tina Lakey
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RH: I think also (when we share our faith) we want instant gratification. (We) can’t forget the importance of planting seeds in someone’s life: the way you treat someone, the way you say you’ll pray for someone and then you actually follow up and let them know you prayed. And I don’t want to sound like it’s all doom and gloom with students today. I’m thrilled with how many students attend our Bible studies. The Fellowship of Christian Athletes at Prep is student-led. I think I’m seeing revival on my campus. I think through all these challenges that we all see, the bottom line is, Christ died for you. TL: If we can instill that one thing in our children … RH: That’s how much He loves you. That’s how important you are. Y
“ I think (when we share
our faith) we want instant gratification. (We) can’t forget the importance of planting seeds in someone’s life: the way you treat someone, the way you say you’ll pray for someone and then you actually follow up and let them know you prayed.
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– Reta Haire
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FEATURE STORY by KATIE EUBANKS GINN
From left: Will, Troy, Lynlee in front of Farrah, Nicholas, and Baty Newman.
DR. FARRAH NEWMAN Through eyes of faith
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rowing up in a single-parent household in Columbus, Mississippi, the future Dr. Farrah Newman spent a good amount of time alone. Her mother worked full-time while attending classes at night. Getting on and off the school bus each day, Farrah saw a church at the corner of her neighborhood. “I just felt drawn to go,” she recalls. “I didn’t know a single soul there.” At 13, Farrah walked through the doors by herself on a Sunday morning — and instead of being peppered with questions, she was met with love. She couldn’t tell you the name of that church today, but she
knows she heard the gospel for the first time there. She remembers giving her heart to Jesus. “I remember being in a little circle holding hands (in Sunday school) and being so overwhelmed that I wasn’t fatherless,” she recalls. “I knew I had the best Father ever.” In that moment, she whispered to God, “I am Yours.” As a teen, Farrah was active in the youth group at another church, Wesley United Methodist in Columbus, and several adults poured into her, including her grandfather, who escorted her on homecoming court. But besides Jesus and her grandfather,
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The Newman boys with Kenyan friends during the family’s two-year missionary stint in Bomet.
she never had a close relationship with a man who was faithful. She wouldn’t meet the next faithful man until med school.
“I wanted to get to know my patients and treat them for a lifetime,” she says. Ophthalmology fit the bill. While on an ophthalmology rotation at the VA Medical Center in Jackson, she met Kenya, party of 6 a fellow medical student from New At The University of Mississippi Medical Orleans. A mutual friend introduced Center (UMMC) in Jackson, Farrah knew Farrah to Troy Newman, and a year and a she wanted two things: a flexible schedule half later they were married. if she was able to be a mom, and continuity After having three sons — followed by of care. years of devastating “almost” adoptions and
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a miscarriage, during which they had to trust God like never before — Farrah became pregnant with their daughter. Then God called the couple to an even bigger leap of faith. While trying to adopt, Troy and Farrah had gone on short-term mission trips and desired more and more to share Christ overseas. So when Troy told Farrah he felt God calling them to serve somewhere long term, she said, “I couldn’t imagine us doing anything different.” They gave up 17 acres of land for which they had a contract; Troy gave up the ophthalmology practice where he’d become a partner; and they took all four children to Bomet, Kenya, where they served in ophthalmology at Tenwek Hospital for two years. “When we left (for Kenya) in 2016, our boys were 10, 8 and 4, and our little girl was 6 months old,” Farrah says. “I really feel like we would’ve thrown in the towel in the first three months if we hadn’t had precious, precious Kenyans who loved us so well and would come into our home and teach us how to live.” But the lifestyle change wasn’t the hardest part, Farrah says. They collected water in a rain tank, bought eggs from a neighbor, grew produce in the yard. Tough, but doable. “(The hardest part) was watching the people you love suffer. Because these were our friends, our neighbors. These were the ladies in my women’s Bible study.” While the Newmans could perform a cataract surgery that would free up a
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patient to make a living — and this was certainly considered miraculous — the Newmans weren’t Jesus, and they couldn’t fix every problem. However, “the believers we went to church with (in Kenya) suffered so well,” Farrah says. “(Their mindset was) God is going to provide today … And if it doesn’t look like abundance, or if it’s nothing for today, that doesn’t mean God’s not real. “I went over there as a missionary, to share my faith, and then I am inundated and overwhelmed by the faith of the people I went to serve.” ‘It’s a different hard’ Five years after returning to America in 2018, the Newmans have all the bottled water and grocery stores they could ask for. Now Farrah is dealing with more familiar, first-world stressors. “It was hard to live in Kenya,” she says. “It’s a different hard (here).” The Newman kids range from second to 12th grade. They participate in everything from gymnastics and ballet to baseball and swim meets. “We have times when we miss (church), but (we have) a lot of intentionality in fighting for (being at church),” Farrah says. “We need community with other believers. (We want our kids) to have mentors outside of mom and dad.”
Farrah and Troy are still on the journey and figuring it all out, “seeing where we’ve made some decisions that weren’t the best for our family,” she says. But at the end of the day, she wants to make sure her kids hear truth from fellow believers. “Another thing (that) I hold onto a lot more tightly now is praying for my kids. It doesn’t hit you till they get closer to that senior year — your period of influence ends. You hope they’ll come to you for advice, but it’s different,” she says. “One of the greatest things I can do for my children that I believe the Lord will be faithful over is to be in prayer for them.” As a working mom, Farrah doesn’t have gobs of time to spend with a prayer journal and a mug of coffee every morning. “What I’ve had to adapt to is (praying) wherever I am. If I made it to where it had to look a certain way, I wouldn’t have any time with the Lord,” she says. “And listening to (Christian) podcasts, or listening to the Bible on audio, I can do that as I’m driving to carpool.” In other words, moms: Give yourself some grace. “I tell my children this and I have to tell myself this, that God loves us anyway. If we could ever be good enough on our own, then we wouldn’t need Jesus.” Y
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St. Dominic’s Sister receives lifetime achievement award
Carol Marie Eddington, better known as Sister Mary Trinita, took her vows as a Springfield Dominican Sister at 18 years old. Little did she know that those vows would lead her on a journey that would touch so many lives in Jackson.
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“This recognition means so much to me because I feel like it is my cohorts, my St. Dominic’s nurses, who brought this about,” shared Sister Trinita. “That’s what makes this so special.” Carol Marie Eddington, better known to “St. Dominic’s and our nursing team most as Sister Trinita, took her vows as a nominated Sister Trinita to honor and celebrate her remarkable contributions and Springfield Dominican Sister at 18 years leadership over many decades,” said Tracey old. Little did she know that those vows would lead her on a journey that would Smithson, chief nursing officer at St. touch so many lives here in Jackson. Dominic Hospital. “Her unwavering After spending time assigned to the commitment and dedication have made an pharmacy, Sr. Trinita began her journey to irreplaceable mark on our healthcare become a nurse. A little over two years teams and community.” later, she received her first nursing degree The DAISY Lifetime Achievement and started out as a staff nurse until Award was created by the DAISY advancing to the positions of head nurse, Foundation to recognize nurses across the assistant nursing director, nursing services globe who have devoted their lives to the administrator, and eventually vice compassionate care of others. Award president. During that time, Sr. Trinita recipients are recognized for their dedication to nursing through outstanding received a bachelor of science in nursing and later a master’s degree in nursing and transformational leadership, administration with a minor in mentoring, role modeling, advocating for community health nursing. patients, and promoting a positive image After stepping down from her vice of nursing.
ister Mary Trinita Eddington, OP, MSN, RN, FNP, of St. Dominic’s was recently honored with the 2023 DAISY Lifetime Achievement Award.
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president role in the early 1990s, she began her work on opening St. Dominic’s Community Health Clinic. Through close ties with Stewpot Community Services and the Central Urban Ministry Center, the St. Dominic Community Clinic was established in 1996 and provides healthcare services free of charge for the medically underserved in Jackson. During that time, Sr. Trinita was not only planning and starting the community clinic, but she was also studying to become a nurse practitioner AND designing a program for a residential Alzheimer’s facility at St. Catherine’s Village. Although she has “semi-retired” from her nurse practitioner practice and role at the clinic, Sr. Trinita continues serving St. Dominic’s and the Jackson community as a nurse and leader. There are not enough words to convey how thankful we are for her unwavering support of St. Dominic’s, the Jackson communities, and the nursing profession. Y
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But the Lord answered her, “Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things, but one thing is necessary. Mary has chosen the good portion, which will not be taken away from her.
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~ LUKE 10:41-42, ESV
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