PLANNING
1 MONTH
o the final RSVP count and chase up any outstanding ones, D then finalise catering numbers.
ave the final wedding dress fitting, and bring the maid of H honour along to learn how to bustle the dress. Have the dress pressed and store it neatly at home.
nsure every item is purchased for the bridesmaids’ and E groomsmen’s outfits, right down to the shoes, jewellery/ cufflinks, undergarments and men’s socks.
all all key vendors to confirm arrangements, make C payments, fill in any last-minute forms and submit required itineraries.
ake personalised itineraries for the wedding party members M and any other key wedding vendors, including the day’s proceedings with times and a list of key contact numbers, and nominate a person responsible for each key area on the day so vendors know who to talk to in case of an emergency. Also, organise someone to return any hired items the day after the wedding.
Make a wedding program to be handed out to guests on the day.
o the reception seating chart and send to the wedding D planner/decorator or related person.
Photography: Mickala Thomas – Pure Mac Photography.
2 WEEKS
ive a list of essential photographs to the photographer, G including any key family pics you want, to ensure you don’t miss out.
onfirm a final song list with the DJ or musician, and the C songs for important moments – such as the walk-in to the reception, the first dance, the father-daughter dance, and the exit song for the end of the night – and an indication as to what time these should occur.
The bride should get a haircut and colour.
1 WEEK
The groom and groomsmen should go for their final fitting and pick up their suits. Call all wedding vendors to re-confirm arrangements, ask for any last-minute details they require and make any final payments.
The groom should get a hair-cut.
2–3 DAYS
ouble check that the wedding dress is crinkle-free; if not, D organise a last-minute press.
rop off the place cards, table numbers, menus, decorations D and bonbonnieres to the person responsible for the wedding/ ceremony venue set-ups.
Have any fake tan and manicure/pedicure appointments.
NIGHT BEFORE
Aim for a relaxing evening with key loved ones.
lso ensure you are in bed early and don’t drink too much, so A you are well rested for the wedding day.
ive a small memento to the wedding party members the G night before, as a thank-you for their support. For bridesmaids, often this is some jewellery to wear at the wedding.
ive wedding bands to the best man and maid of honour to G hold during the ceremony.
DAY BEFORE
o a dress rehearsal with the wedding party to ensure D everyone knows what to do, where to stand and when to walk.
sually the table settings are done in the afternoon; double U check these once complete and make any last-minute suggestions to the decorator.
I f there is time, book in a relaxing massage for the late afternoon or early evening.
WEDDING DAY
ou are well organised and the key people have been Y nominated as responsible for particular tasks/areas on the day – so now it is time to simply relax and enjoy the day yourself.
AFTER THE HONEYMOON
Write and send thank-you notes to guests and helpful vendors.
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