Contents Introduction It’s not you, it’s me 6 Chapter One Is it just me? 19 Chapter Two Shame: The blame game 29 Chapter Three Memories: Not so easy to leave them? 45 Chapter Four Anger: Fade to red 61 Chapter Five Growing up: It’s a family affair 78 Chapter Six Relationships: Who’s giving, who’s taking? 93 Chapter Seven Co-dependency: Can’t live without you 111 Chapter Eight Sexual ambivalence: You’re hot and cold 126 Chapter Nine Forgiveness: How will that help me? 139 Chapter Ten A new beginning: Dreams can come true 148 Endnotes 156 Finding further support in the UK 158
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