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Gratitude WOW – NOT SURE HOW, BUT EVEN WITH THE STRUGGLES OF 2020, THE YEAR HAS SEEMED TO FLY BY. The holidays will be here before we know it, and pretty soon we will be writing out our 2021 resolutions.

We want to take this time to pause and reflect. This year has been trying, but despite it all we are grateful that we get to create this magazine every month and connect with each and every one of you. Thank you for sharing your stories with

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Not Your Father's Cannabinoid WELCOME FRANNY'S FARMACY! Franny's Farmacy on Church Lane.

(Photo: Maya Porrino)

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ONE OF MY FAMILY’S THANKSGIVING

ELLYN: Have you tried CBD yet?

TRADITIONS IS TO GO AROUND THE

WLM: No.

TABLE AND SAY WHAT WE’RE THANKFUL FOR. Last year I said, as always, “my

EW: CBD makes you feel like you’re giv-

children.” This year I’m saying “CBD.” It’s been

ing yourself a hug. And who doesn’t need

a tough year and remote-learning has made

a hug now?

me a touch less grateful for my charges.

Franny’s Farmacy (FF), a purveyor of

WLM: We all do. What was it like, opening a new CBD store during a pandemic?

high-end CBD treats, opened the moment

GRIFF: Well, Franny’s is the first new

we collectively stumbled into our odd new

business to open during COVID, after

world. While we appreciate the help of

quarantine. At first families walked by

therapists, lawyers, and liquor store own-

the store, stopping for water for their

ers, CBD offers a more affordable, less fat-

dogs. Then people started coming in,

tening antidote to our internal maelstroms.

saying things like “I just want to get out

We strolled over to their Church Lane

of the house!” and “You’re the first per-

location on a breathtakingly beautiful early

son I’ve seen since February!” They were

afternoon. Diners from nearby restaurants

coming for relief. Bravo to the whole lane

were enjoying long lunches and leisurely

[for opening up and increasing foot traf-

glasses of wine in the cordoned-off lane.

fic]. I can’t keep product on the shelves,

Griff Conti, the owner of FF, had scattered

a good problem.

lovely sunny furniture near his storefront

Since Day One we wanted to activate

and put out a bowl of water for dogs. The

the community on a very local level and

scene was easy, friendly, and made me

bring everyone together at a time when

want to day drink. Nearby visitors nodded

many of us felt anxious, stressed, and

their concurrence.

even lonely. In our hearts and minds, the

We entered the store and sat in a cozy

entire team at Franny’s Farmacy felt this

corner. A few games near the window

was the right time and place to introduce

encouraged customers to sit and stay a

a product to the community that could

while. I chatted with Griff and his market-

help heal all of us on so many levels.

ing director, Ellyn Weitzman.

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CBD products, from hemp bars to lotions. (Photo: Maya Porrino)

CBD Gummies (Photo: Maya Porrino)

Hemp soap.

(Photo: Maya Porrino)

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NOW OPEN (CONTINUED) CBD Honey (Photo: Maya Porrino)

WLM: Any negative repercussions to a CBD store?

GC: There’s one woman near Sherwood Island who doesn’t get it.

WLM: What’s the difference between CBG and, like, pot?

GC: CBD. Although there is a CBG. WLM: Riiiiight. My mind was hooked on CBGB’s.

GC: CBD is a non-intoxicating cannabinoid in cannabis, it won’t get you high. It’s different from the THC cannabinoid which can get you high. CBG is another less wellknown cannabinoid which may help slow down cancer.

WLM: What are your popular items and what do you use?

GC: Oh, our gummies are number one, then the honey, the salves, the tinctures. I use the tincture and a little bit of the bath salts for me and the baby [son Julian], and the lotion.

My husband Mitchell’s skin care regime is insane. He used to spend hundreds on “high end” skincare products. Now he uses this (waves his arm toward the lotions shelves).

WLM: Okay, let’s stop here. What does CBD lotion do that other lotions don’t do?

Griff, Julian, and Mitchell Conti (Photo: John Videler)

GC: (while applying lotion to his hands) Two things.

First, hemp permeates layers of skin that other carriers don’t. Second, it’s good for healing scars, inflammation, and discoloration.

WLM: Oh! It helps get rid of scars??

GC: Yeah. But don’t use it on open wounds.

WLM: No. That… sounds painful. So, what about the tinctures and salves?

GC: Franny’s uses the same highly concentrated whole plant extract in all their products, which makes it the real deal and unique to their brand. Her tinctures are for overall wellness. Use them in cooking, rub on an irritation, put them on your temples to help with a headache.

While the lotion has a warming effect, salve is greasier with a cooling effect.

WLM: This is actually a beautiful store.

GC: Thanks! I designed it with guidance from the Franny’s team and my stepfather [Mike Pagett] who’s a local custom cabinetmaker. I didn’t want a glass-case concept, so I took it a step up, using the corporate Franny’s colors, grey and the green. Actually, this is now the look for future premium franchises.

MM: I bet [Mike’s] gotten some business from these cabinets.

GC: My stepfather’s gotten several kitchens out of this!

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Julian, Mitchell, and Griff Conti (Photo: John Videler)

WLM: So, you were recruiter of the Year at Bradsby for starting their cannabis division. What kind of person works in cannabis? I imagine a bunch of smart hippies wearing tie-die and bandanas.

GC: The cannabis industry is emerging and is beyond the point of hippies and stoners; the money always quietly flowed from a much more professional crowd. For the first few years it was a free-for-all until people realized it was a consumer product. I mean, you do have the certain person who’s attracted to parts of this industry. But we place professionals from CEOs and COOs, to scientists and engineers. These are people entering the cannabis industry from some of the most notable market leaders in the country, coming from consumer goods, retail, manufacturing and more.

WLM: And why Franny’s?

GC: Franny’s just felt different from the others. I was talking to a client, to recruit for a candidate they needed. This client described how they aspired to be like Franny’s. Franny created this seed-toshelf product, where they have control over quality every step of the way. I wrote her name on a post-it note. I googled it. I was intrigued by what I saw and cold called Franny and said, ‘you don’t know me but I am a recruiter for the industry and I want in.’

Listen, I love this industry and while we are a business, my real goal is to educate people about the potential of this plant. I am not in it for the money, which is why I haven’t quit my day job!

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GIVING BACK

CVH SANCTUARY A DAWN AFTER THE LONGEST NIGHT

ARTICLE ROBIN MOYER CHUNG

THE CVH SANCTUARY IN NEWTOWN IS A MEMORIAL

curious as to why they had received $125,000 of donations

TO A YOUNG GIRL KILLED IN THE SANDY HOOK MAS-

in Catherine’s memory.

SACRE OF 2014.

When visiting the sanctuary this summer, I felt anxiety crossing the Newtown border. The town’s historic beauty

These women had a better idea than endless yarn balls and doggie treats: build an animal sanctuary. A “place of healing” for four-legged creatures and endless bugs.

belied its lingering tragedy. Yet if the sanctuary’s director,

Jenny loved the idea; Catherine loved all things crawly.

Jenny Hubbard, is any indication, residents will not be defined

She smiled, “My rule was, if you’re going to capture a frog or

by grief but by extraordinary resilience and compassion.

a worm or a butterfly it’s only for a day. You have to release it.

Jenny is the energetic and optimistic mother of Catherine

[Catherine] would let it go and whisper to it. I asked what she

Violet Hubbard, for whom the sanctuary is named and ded-

was saying to them. She said, ‘I’m asking them to tell their

icated. Catherine was six when she was killed. Her older

friends that I’m kind so they’ll come back more.’

brother, Freddy, now 16, was across the courtyard in his 3rd grade classroom. No one could know at the time that her death would tip off what would become a symbol of community strength and power of collective good.

“Sometimes I laugh about it - she wanted more and more bugs around her! “[The sanctuary idea] really afforded me her wish to care for animals.” Moreover, she felt if kids had a space of

In the days following December 14, thick with tragedy

“Acceptance and understanding that what’s not accepted

and confusion, Jenny was tasked with penning her daugh-

as beautiful still serves a purpose, they might look at other

ter’s obituary. “In lieu of flowers,” she wrote, anxious to get

people that way.”

it over with, “the family is requesting donations be made to

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the Newtown Animal Center.” Catherine always brought milk

acres of farm land right in the center of Newtown itself. In

bones to the dogs in the pound, so Jenny figured they’d raise

May 2014 Governor Dan Malloy conveyed this land for the

a few dollars to purchase dog biscuits in her memory.

creation of CVH Sanctuary and handed Freddy the deed,

Serendipitously, she meant to write Newtown Animal Control Shelter. When they contacted the Newtown

to make “an impressive and thoughtful haven for animals and people.”

Animal Center a few months later, they learned it was

But it takes more than the ambition of one woman to

a group of four women who rescued cats and dogs, all

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Beautiful property landscape. (Photo: Bill Glass)

Catherine with Freddy at the Bronx Zoo.

“AN IMPRESSIVE AND THOUGHTFUL HAVEN FOR ANIMALS AND PEOPLE.” Guided hikes through the sanctuary. (Photo: Bill Glass)

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GIVING BACK (CONTINUED)

and beyond. It takes architects, landscapers, stonemasons, volunteers, donors, and nice people to help fix things.

PH Architects donated hours of research and renderings for a library and multi-functional space, including a colonnade designed to emulate Catherine’s outstretched arms and pavilion with a terra-cotta roof to represent her bright red hair. Stonemason Gino Vino constructed a large stone retaining wall, gratis, embedded with an image of the sun. For Gino, “the rays of sun are where heaven

Education classes.

(Photo: Bill Glass)

reaches down to earth and earth reaches up to heaven.”

And so many more stories.

With their help, the sanctuary sprang to life. While touring the impressive grounds, Jenny talked about the

Jenny Hubbard planting.

(Photo: Bill Glass)

classes and parties thrown in pre-COVID days and their ambitious plans for the future.

Jenny and her team created educational programming for elementary school kids and Sunday “Mindful for Monarchs” butterfly tagging. October sees a notso-spooky Halloween party where kids learned the importance of scary things like snakes. Christmas sees an annual gala. Each December 14 they light Catherine’s “giving tree” decorated with popcorn and other treats for wildlife to eat.

Catherine’s Butterfly Party began in 2014 as a pet adoption event with free crafts and make-up for kids. The first year they hosted eight rescue organizations and 1,500 people. By 2019 the number ballooned to 28 organizations and 7,000 attendees.

COVID abruptly ended these gatherings but did not diminish their spirit. Working with the housing authority, social services, and a volunteer corp, they’ve delivered over 90,000 free meals to pets of senior citizens strapped for money (in 2019 they donated 3,500 meals.)

In the next few years, CVH Sanctuary plans to welcome thousands of children and families to witness how kindness enriches the lives of every living thing, from healing animals to growing vegetables to pollinating flowers and thistles.

Editor’s note: Jenny’s and Catherine’s (and

“I’m so proud to see what her life is able to do,” Jenny

Freddy’s!) story is painful and triumphant. To

says. “I hate how this happened, but I wouldn’t change the

write everything would fill numerous pages.

outcome for the world.”

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HEALTHY LIFESTYLE

ATE, DRANK, AND BEEN MERRY NOW IT'S TIME TO WORK OUT

ARTICLE ROBIN MOYER CHUNG | PHOTOGRAPHY MINDY BRIAR

WELL, WE WOULDN’T BE WESTPORTERS IF WE DIDN’T ASSOCIATE FEAST WITH FITNESS, MENTALLY TALLYING THE

Mo Prester

NUMBER OF WORKOUTS REQUIRED TO BURN THE CALORIES WE IMBIBE. Or eat.

We asked two popular fitness instructors for exercises we can do in a gym, at home, or al fresco; masked or maskless; and easily distanced from another’s globular inhalation zone. We also replaced Gabby’s hand weights with canned pumpkin, because not all of us have home gyms. You could also do, say, the lunges with a frozen turkey, but then we’d be advocating lunges with a frozen turkey.

MO PRESTER Instructor at JoyRide, DJ, personal trainer, and a bunch of other things.

Mo has pretty much elevated Westport’s passion for fitness to an entirely new level. His wit, style, and infectious energy motivates legions of residents to get fit, stay fit, and not waste their time with lousy music.

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He says, “I’m thankful for being able to train this terrific community of people in health and exercise. I’m thankful for traveling, for all my amazing experiences and seeing different parts of the world.”

01. ONE ARM PLANK

+ Move legs/feet wide + Put one hand behind your back and (try to) hold the position for 10-15 seconds + Switch hand behind your back. + Over time work up to 20, 45, 60 seconds each side.

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+ For more difficulty, raise one leg 05. BENCH KNEE LIFTS + Stand in front of bench, one foot firmly on top + Press down on left foot and push your body up while lifting your right foot to 45-degree angle

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HEALTHY LIFESTYLE (CONTINUED) Gabby Aiardo

GABBY AIARDO Associate Trainer at Physique 57.

Physique 57 managed to open moments before closing for quarantine. Then it re-opened in June, offering full-power sculpting,

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cardio, a full body burn and stretches in exactly 57 minutes.

Gabby’s a dancer with loads of experience in pilates and personal training.

She states, “I’m thankful for the opportunity to lead people through their workout - seriously!- it makes them feel awesome, this is a feel-good atmosphere. It’s all positive. They’re here because they want to be here and everyone leaves feeling good. And I’m thankful for my family.”

01. ROUND BACK ABS + Hold the legs in tabletop + Lower and lift the legs or march them towards the floor.

Make sure: low back stays round, core stabilizes the body, chest stays open. Nothing should move but the legs.

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02. ALL FOURS FOR GLUTES + Kneel with hands on the floor, flat back + Lift one leg; pulse, lower and lift, circle, draw a triangle, etc. while the core stabilizes the body + Extend opposite arm Make sure: abs pull in, low back stays long, engage

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the glute of the working leg, reach long through your opposite fingertips.

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04. LUNGES + Pulse in a low lunge with arms holding over head or arms pulling down as you lower.

Make sure: Front knee stays over your heel, back knee stays hovered off the floor. Shoulders pull down your back.

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INSPIRED BY

Tattooed for Gratitude

AMANDA MAS IS OUR TATTOO ARTIST FOR EMBLEMS OF THANKFULNESS

HISTORICALLY, BATTLE HEROES WERE TATTOOED TO COMMEMORATE BRAVERY. Then somewhere along the line ARTICLE ROBIN MOYER CHUNG

society decided that inked individuals owned pet rats and wor-

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shipped Satan, or they had slammed enough bathtub gin to want snakes punctured onto their bicep.

In short, what started out as a form of honor became a polarizing form of self-expression.

The pendulum is swinging back. Instead of hula girls and MOM hearts (which I would happily commission for all three of my kids),

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Jon and Emily Cafasso's "Benjamin" tattoo.

tattoos have become imprimaturs and intimate symbols of

Fortunately, the images most people want to symbol-

gratitude and thankfulness. With tattoos, people today are

ize the bumps and ruts in their life journey are discreet

celebrating loved ones, recovery from illness and addic-

and picaresque. Of the art, the placement, even the pro-

tion, travel, life change, or simply finding the strength to go

cess, Amanda states, “It’s an intimate thing.”

ahead and get one even though a partner dislikes them.

Westport’s Amanda Mas, praised for her creativity and

Amanda introduced me to two of her clients who were willing to share their stories:

skill, is the tattooist of choice for many Fairfield residents seeking these deeply personal types of emblems. As

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the rare female tattooist in this area, or any area (unless

I watched Amanda at work on a woman in her 80’s

someone’s lurking in the shadows…), she’s both artist

who was accompanied by her granddaughter. They

and confidante to numerous women and men who share

asked to remain anonymous, so I’ll call her “Rose”.

their stories while enduring not-unpainless needle pricks.

Rose had endured numerous surgeries and courses

Amanda is that even rarer tattooist who sets bound-

of chemo to fight stomach cancer. This August, doc-

aries. “I don’t do face tattoos, I don’t care if you’re post-

tors delivered her final prognosis: there was no more

Malone.” And if you think you and your girlfriends are

they could do for her. On her bucket list was to get

going to stumble in after too many mimosas, well, first,

a tattoo. She’d always wanted one but her husband

she’s booked solid right now. Second, no. Also, she

disliked them.

doesn’t do hands (unless you already have arm sleeves)

Her granddaughter asked Rose’s doctors about it.

or neck unless it’s already covered with images. “I’m not

They encouraged her to do whatever Rose wanted to do

going to be your job-ruiner,” she says.

during her last days.

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INSPIRED BY (CONTINUED) Transferring the image.

A very happy client!

Post-inking care.

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As Amanda inked Rose’s and her husband’s initials onto her wrist, I asked what else was on her bucket list. Rose paused, then said, “Actually, this is it.”

When it was finished, Amanda carefully wrapped Rose’s wrist in plastic wrap. Then Rose’s granddaughter walked her carefully out of the studio and into the rest of her life.

BENJAMIN Emily and Jonathan Cafasso shared with us their heartbreaking story. On July 1, 2020, Emily gave birth to a stillborn son, Benjamin, due to an undetected umbilical cord knot.

Grief-stricken, they sought ways to honor his life and cope with their anguish.

A family member suggested a tattoo and Jonathan recalled reading an article about Amanda Mas a few days before.

They contacted Amanda and, though her schedule was full, she created an appointment for them.

Amanda inked Benjamin’s name on their right arms. “Whenever we hug someone,” Emily explains, “Benjamin is in the middle of it.”

Though it can’t mitigate their burden, their tattoos are a constant reminder of their blessings and of the love in their lives.

According to Emily, “It’s a story of great loss and great love.”

Of these stories, Amanda admits “It’s an emotional job. I have to call my Mom a lot.”

Editor’s note: While shooting this story, our photographer, Jerri, finally folded and got one for herself. A camera, to commemorate her career and the decision to open her first studio on Riverside Avenue in Westport.

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ROAD TRIP

ESCAPE TO THE E M P I R E S TAT E A ROAD TRIP TO THE FINGER LAKES

ARTICLE HELEN PHILIPS PHOTOGRAPHY MINDY BRIAR

BETWEEN VIRTUAL LEARNING AND WORKING FROM HOME,

treat; we were all thankful to experience this trip together while

WE ALL DESERVE AN ESCAPE THIS FALL. As a life-long

being safe!

Connecticut girl, I’ve never had to look far for gorgeous fall foli-

Watkins Glen, NY is only a four and a half hour trip from Westport

age. Previously, my autumn adventures always led me further north

and the trip boasts scenic fall foliage vistas. (If you’re looking for

in New England. It wasn’t until this year that I ventured to New York’s

even more of an adventure, consider Clayton, NY, a river-front town

northern country.

that boarders Canada.) Insider Tip: along your route in Middletown,

Early in September, I embarked on a four-day Empire State

NY, you’ll find the best restaurant in the area, Oak & Reed. It’s the

Road Trip with two of my friends, Kristy and Mindy. After months

perfect way to break up the drive while also enjoying delicious cui-

of hunkering down at home, this road trip was a much-needed

sine (they do takeout too).

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+ THINGS TO DO

The Finger Lakes region is brimming with safe, socially-distant fall activities. We kicked off our first full day by exploring Watkins Glen State Park, which recently underwent a $6.5 million renovation. The park has 19 waterfalls and miles of hiking trails. Make sure you wear a good pair of boots!

A winery or two has to be on your Finger Lakes itinerary. We had the opportunity to tour Lakewood Vineyard. Afterwards we enjoyed tasting their award-winning wines while soaking in the vineyard’s stunning countryside views.

Apple-picking is another must while you’re there. The Finger Lakes are known for their orchards and Reisinger’s Apple Country did not disappoint. Only a 10-minute drive from downtown, Reisinger’s is the perfect place to pick your own apples. Make sure you grab some of their fresh made apple cider donuts before you leave.

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ROAD TRIP (CONTINUED)

+ THINGS TO SEE Spend an hour or two exploring Watkins Glen’s charming downtown. As you stroll down main street you’ll find beautiful murals on the sides of buildings that highlight the town’s ties to racing.

Perhaps the most well-known spot on Seneca Lake is the Seneca Lake pier with its iconic red harbor station. You might even see some wildlife -- one morning I’m sure I spotted an otter!

+ WHERE TO STAY We stayed at the Watkins Glen Harbor Hotel, a four-diamond property right on Seneca Lake. The property’s central location to everything made our time in Watkins Glen effortless. The hotel’s staff were extremely attentive, friendly, and took all necessary safety measure.

We enjoyed our meals outdoors at the hotel’s lake-front restaurant, the Blue Pointe Grille (indoor seating is an option). If you’re looking for some good lunch places around town, we enjoyed our sandwiches and wraps from Holy Cow Deli. Additionally, some suites at the Watkins Glen Harbor Hotel have kitchens if you’re more comfortable cooking your own meals.

If you decide to stay at the Watkins Glen Harbor Hotel like we did, I’d recommend a lake-view room with a balcony to get the full Finger Lakes experience. Our rooms had huge Jacuzzi tubs, which we thoroughly enjoyed after a day of outdoor activities.

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DOMAINE LA SOUMADE RASTEAU - Blend of Grenache, Syrah, and Mourvèdre, velvety on the palate with ripe red and black fruit, very supple, nice amount of acidity in finish. Will elevate the cranberry note on the palate. Organic viticulture. $26.99

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DOMAINE CROS DE LA MURE - Grenache and Syrah blend, richly flavored with blackberry and cherry fruit, soft on the palate, a total pleasure. Biodynamic viticulture. $21.99

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