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JULY 2021 PUBLISHER

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Summer in Westport SUMMER’S IN FULL SWING! Our July issue is full of exciting things our town has to offer. From pool parties and backyard barbecues to baseball games and family vacations, this month reminds us to kick back and have some fun!

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What good is summer without a great beach read? We are honored to share this month’s cover story with you - a new memoir about trailblazer Eartha Kitt. Many don’t realize this, but Eartha lived in Weston! Her daughter, Kitt Shapiro currently lives in Westport and owns the boutique West on Post Road. Kitt wrote a memoir to keep her mother’s memory alive. In this issue we share excerpts from her wonderful book.

We’re also VERY excited to bring back our monthly calendar of events. Oh events, how we’ve missed you! “But, I have nothing to wear to events” you say? Check out our trendsetter feature with Jenn Falik’s ultimate summer edit.

This summer we’ve included some clever ways to keep cool - from refreshing seasonal recipes, to the best places to swim. Speaking of swimming, wondering what to expect when installing a pool? In this issue we speak with one of Fairfield County’s leading pool contractors to let you know what you’re in for!

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FEATURES 28 Jenn's Ultimate Westport Edit Summer Finds

34 Keeping Her Story Alive "Eartha & Kitt: A Daughter's Love Story in Black and White"

42 So, You Want a Custom Pool What You Need to Know Before You Begin

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54 Breathe 4 Jonathan A Beloved Westport Family Copes with ALS

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28 Trend Setter 34 Page Turners 48 Hot Spot 54 Inspired By 58 Travel Destination 60 Culinary Creations 62 Local’s Choice 66 DIY 68 Lifestyle Calendar 73 Realty Report 74

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Westport Farmers Market at Sugar and Olives On May 11, Sugar and Olives hosted the annual summer season kick off party for donors, sponsors, board members, town officials, local farmers, and representatives from the various programs of the Westport Farmers Market (WFM)! It was a wonderful opportunity for the WFM community to meet the people behind the WFM programming they help to support. Special thanks to Sugar and Olives! (PHOTOS: JERRI GRAHAM)

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Events are back! Pink Aid held its annual kick-off meeting in May to begin planning for the 2021 annual fundraiser, The Celebration of Life Fashion Show (and luncheon). This year the theme is Pink-a-Cabana and will be held October 7. Over 400 breast cancer survivors have walked this annual show. Pink Aid helps underserved women survive breast cancer treatment with support and dignity.

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LOCAL EXPERIENCES

SUMMER ADVENTURE SUMMERTIME IS THE PERFECT OPPORTUNITY FOR ADVENTURE! School is out, the weather is warm and we have vacation time to spend with our families. Make the most of this summer by exploring all our community has to offer. From the best spots to have a picnic to the perfect places to cool off in the water, there’s plenty of fun summertime activities to do as a family. Seize this season of adventure and make some memories!

BEST PICNIC SPOTS + Newman Poses Preserve- The Newman Poses Preserve is the only public memorial approved by the family of the late Paul Newman as a way to honor the actor and philanthropist. + Haskins Preserve- Bring a basket and blanket to this hidden gem, boasting plants and trees imported from around the world. + Earthplace- Look for the picnic tables near the playgrounds and trails, then stroll through the sanctuary. + JR’s Deli & Grille- Grab a sandwich or a grilled chicken salad and eat them behind the deli, in Adirondack chairs next to the river. + Compo Beach- Buy lunch or dinner at Hook’d, Joey’s, bring your own, or fire up one of the many grills and grab a coveted picnic table.

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WATERY WAYS TO STAY COOL + Compo Beach- Hey - ever heard of it? If not, then are you sure you live in Westport? + Burying Hill Beach- Compo’s smaller sidekick, just as beautiful and not as crowded. + Longshore

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SUMMER ACTIVITIES FOR FAMILIES

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+ Stamford Museum and Nature Center- Explore the farms, animals, and gardens. Food trucks on weekends in summer. + Maritime Aquarium- Focusing on the Long Island Sound, learn about aquatic life with fun interactive exhibits. + Grace Farms- A welcoming new center for people to experience nature, the arts, justice, community and faith. + Silverman's Farm- Orchards and Farmer's Market with animals, gardens, and more! + Ryan's Park- A park with new playground structures, basketball courts, a splash pad, walking paths, and landscaping.

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"EARTHA & KITT: A DAUGHTER'S LOVE STORY IN BLACK AND WHITE"

ARTICLE ROBIN MOYER CHUNG

EARTHA KITT IS, ARGUABLY, ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT WOMEN IN MODERN HISTORY. The new memoir, Eartha & Kitt, written by her daughter, Kitt Shapiro, is a moving reflection of their life as a family of two. Mother and daughter shared experiences as improbable as Eartha’s own rise from starvation to star, and Kitt’s unique perspective creates a portrait of an international entertainment icon - who moved to Weston when her daughter moved to Westport - that’s humorous, poignant, and entertaining.

EXCERPT FROM CHAPTER 11, BORN TO RUN She took me with her wherever she went to perform and, as she was internationally famous, that meant that we traveled to places near and far—New York, Great Britain, Sweden, Denmark, Australia, Japan. . . . You name it, I’ve probably been there...

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Eartha at a Hollywood movie premiere.

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Kitt as a newborn.

Kitt's memoir.

“When I think of not having her all these years, I wonder how I managed without her,” she wrote to my father in 1962, when I was 10 months old. “She keeps me going.”

EXCERPT FROM CHAPTER 18, GROWING PAINS I remember that she put out an outfit for me

It wasn’t just her imagination. I was somehow attuned to her every

once, and I just refused to put it on. She was not

need. I was a savvy little girl. Savvy, at least, when it came to my

happy because she had gone to great lengths to

mother. That’s where my “savvy” was.

go to some fancy store and purchase these clothes

I knew how much she needed me. Needed me to give her what-

for me. We were going somewhere and it was

ever stability, or family, she hadn’t had growing up. Giving birth to

important that I look nice. I was only about eight or

me had provided her with a sense of purpose different from anything

nine. She became so upset that I finally said, “Fine!”

else that she had ever had in her life. It was the one thing above all

Then I stormed off and put the outfit on, and when

else that she had felt was truly missing.

I came back in, she saw that I was, in fact, right. It

“I only feel human completely when she is near,” she wrote about

was hideous.

me in another letter. “Nothing has made me feel more real and alive

She broke into hysterical laughter. For years after

than she has . . . She is the nicest person I have ever met. She is very

that, she would recount the story of how, even at a

considerate, lovable, sensitive, and affectionate.” In these feelings,

very young age, I had known that outfit was dread-

expressed when I was still only a toddler, her desire to fill that void

ful and had refused to be seen in it. But from that

rang out loud and clear.

day forward, she decided that I knew what looked

On a very deep level, I believe I understood that. Even as an infant, I sensed the importance of this role that I believe I was meant to play.

good on me and I could be trusted to know what to wear . . . and what not to wear.

My mother felt that I was all that was left. I was a true foundation that

After that, I would put unexpected pieces

she could rely on and trust. This baby girl that she had birthed gave

together and mix interesting colors, or put on a pin

her unconditional love and devotion.

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T H E N E W M E M O I R , E A R T H A & K I T T, WRITTEN BY HER DAUGHTER, KITT S H A P I R O, I S A M O V I N G R E F L E C T I O N O F T H E I R L I F E A S A F A M I LY O F T W O.

would always say to people, “Kitt has such an incredible sense of fashion! She really has her own style.” I would beam with pride because, since I carried my mother’s name, it was one of the ways I could demonstrate my individuality.

And my mother encouraged that. My self-expression. My individuality. Even when I was an adult, she would often say to me, “You find

“Why would you want to hold on to something that’s so painful?

That’s toxic?” I would ask her.

And she would say, “I don’t think that pain is toxic. It’s WHO I am!

It’s a part of me.” Her having coined the phrase, “I have taken all of the manure that has been thrown at me all my life and used it as fertilizer” couldn’t have been more spot on!

the coolest-looking things to wear that work so well for you.” Then

Back in 1954, she had starred in Mrs. Patterson on Broadway,

again, if I offered to buy one of those “cool” things for her, she would

portraying a young Black woman in the South who dreams of being

say, “No, that’s OK.” She, too, knew what fashion pieces suited her.

wealthy. Summoning the pain that she still felt inside had made that

When I had kids of my own, I quickly learned that empowering

character a little too real for my mother. When the playopened to

your children with the freedom to make their own choices is not

stellar reviews, those memories made her feel uncomfortable and

always easy to do. Sometimes my daughter would put together the

unworthy of her success.

craziest outfits. I remember my husband once saying about one of

“Eartha Kitt was being accepted in the civilized world of luxury

them, “You can’t let her go out like that!” And I remember thinking,

and comfort, but could Eartha Mae be accepted also?” she later

“It’s not my style. But my style wasn’t my mother’s style, either.” I

wrote. “Eartha Mae is a child of the dirt, she knows how to survive

now realize how difficult it must have been for my mother to hold her

there, she knows poverty and rejection. She thinks once given away

tongue about some of my wardrobe decisions. But, as I have noted,

she will always be given away.”

she understood the value of being able to keep her mouth shut.

That continuing fear of rejection was often hard for my mother to quiet inside herself. Eartha Mae had a way of rising to the surface

EXCERPT FROM CHAPTER 25,

unexpectedly, as she had, to the extreme, that night after the show

AN UNWELCOME BLAST FROM THE PAST

at Carnegie Hall. When that would happen, my mother felt worthless

Yet no matter how far she had come, Eartha Mae always remained at the core of Eartha Kitt. Eartha Kitt had been built on that foundation.

and rejected all over again. Despite all of her success, she continued to struggle with the feeling that she didn’t really belong.

My mother never let go of that pain, in part because she didn’t want to. She wanted to remember who she was and where she was from.

She would use it to her advantage, keeping it under her control.

EXCERPT FROM CHAPTER 36, CURTAIN CALL

Not only did it help her relate to song lyrics and characters that she

By now, my mother had lost her speech entirely. She had

might play when she was working, but it was why she always felt

stopped speaking about two days earlier. But she had still

compelled to LISTEN when people would share their life stories

remained alert. Her eyes were wide open. I could tell if she was

with her. The pain from her past was always there right beneath

hungry, or if she wanted water. And she could still comprehend

the surface.

me and make her needs known.

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At an amusement park in South Africa.

Eartha and ex-husband, Kitt's father John McDonald.

Catching a flight.

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She could also still make herself heard. And that’s what she was doing right now, loud and clear. She literally left this earth screaming at the top of her lungs.

Tears were streaming down her face. And she was screaming with this sort of—this primal, animal-like sound. It was intense! That’s when I realized that she was actually going. Going now. But not willingly. And not quietly, for sure.

In typical mother-daughter fashion, I soon began screaming right back at her. “You can go!” I cried, my lips close to her ear, holding her to me with all my might.

“You can go!” I kept yelling again and again as I wept. “I’ll be all right! I’ll be all right!” Because it suddenly became clear to me that she had been waiting. Waiting until I wasn’t alone. Now that Allan was there with me, she could die. I wasn’t going to be alone.

It was an incredibly emotional moment, with these fierce, guttural sounds coming out of my mother as she screamed at the top of her lungs. Then, all of a sudden, she fell silent. And I knew that she was gone.

Gone.

Piggy backing.

Silence. Complete silence. From all three of us.

“Is she . . . dead?” I sobbed to Allan.

“I don’t know,” he said, equally stunned. We both looked at each other, bewildered. We didn’t know what to do next. That’s when I said, “Well, whoever is at those pearly gates waiting for her, they are going to get quite a handful. Because she is not coming peacefully, that’s for sure!”

Maybe I was in shock. Maybe it was disbelief. Or maybe I was able to joke, even at that moment, because as I said, my mother had taught me to find the humor in everything.

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FOLKS WHO’VE EARMARKED $45K-$125K FOR GOOD, CLEAN, SUMMER FUN WANT ONE THING: A SWIMMING POOL. Or a tennis court. So two things. Or, if your family is like mine, a slip ’n’ slide to replace the duct tape/trash bag/hose thing my kids scrapped together last summer for roughly $3.19 which killed a large swath of grass and looked about as terrible as you can imagine.

But let’s focus on pools. Contractors are crawling all over Fairfield County, anxious to over-promise and under-build these coveted custom watering holes.

But before you ink your tag on their line, it’s important to pony-up on the intel.

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Nick Vitiello, owner of in2blue design.

Nick Vitiello, owner of in2blue design, has been building swimming pools in this area for 25 years. What he sees this summer “is unprecedented.

Everyone’s chomping at the bit and they really don’t know what the process of building a pool [here] is.” So when these guys guarantee a shiny, new swim spot in a month? Be wary.

“There are no promises,” Nick warns.

Permits and surveys: The permit process alone can take 6-plus months. “Is the house on septic or wells, conservation or wetland areas? What about setbacks? A whole litany of things come into play,” Nick explains.

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a pandemic. The building department, conservation department, and every other necessary department is deluged with applications, making the approval process as nimble as a brick. Waiting times are slower for everything, not just your swimming pool.

Then you need a civil engineer to survey the property and consider where the drainage is going and how it will affect the septic. And you know who’s hiring surveyors? Everyone else who’s building anything. It all takes time.

Building and materials: Once your permits are approved, wouldn’t it be lovely if the pool guys swooped down like birds of paradise to crack sod? Yeah. That won’t happen.

“We work from permitted job to permitted job, so it’s tough to say definitely when we can start working,” Nick states. “Your pool is on the docket but it could be 1-3 weeks before we can begin. We have to mobilize equipment, stake the work site, and get ready for excavation.”

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Construction timeframes for pools vary with the material: Gunite, 4-8 weeks; Vinyl, 4-6 weeks; Fiberglass 2-3 weeks.

Then build in time for surrounding masonry and landscaping and you’re looking at 4-8 weeks minimum.

Aaaaaand a gentle reminder about how COVID is affecting everything in the world. Raw goods, filters, pumps, machinery - the supply chain is playing catch-up after quarantine.

Excavation site: If your eyes light up at the prospect of finding pricey antiquities beneath your grass during “excavation,” well… Nick’s team has unearthed plenty of treasures, from car parts to (cue: horror music) animals in caskets. “Typically when we find something, it’s not very good,” Nick apologizes. Sorry, dreamers. No one’s planting diamonds for posterity.

These “finds,” however, may cause more delays and expenses (parts of houses, bedrock). Something else to not look forward to.

It’s not all bad news, though. While you should be savvy to the pitfalls, the possibility exists that the process goes swimmingly. If it doesn’t, remind yourself that you’re super lucky to be building a pool in your yard instead of peeling duct tape and garbage bags off the grass. Then make some sandwiches, grab a bottle of wine, and go to Compo Beach for a swim. in2bluedesign.com CityLifestyle.com/Westport

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HOT SPOT

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WAKEMAN TOWN FARM DRAWS TEENS AND OTHERS WITH A NEW PIZZA OVEN

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SINCE THE WAKEMAN TOWN FARM (WTF) TEAM FIRST ARTICLE CHRISTY COLASURDO

FIRED UP ITS 800-DEGREE OVEN IN 2019, LOCAL CHEFS, VOLUNTEERS, AND STUDENTS HAVE EXPERIENCED WTF’S MISSION, “GROW YOUR FOOD, KNOW YOUR FOOD.” This incredible community resource furthers WTF’s mission to promote healthy food production, responsible land stewardship, sustainable practices, and community service; plus, it’s a heck of a lot of fun.

WTF hosts outdoor cooking classes incorporating organic bounty that students have grown and harvested on the property. It has also enabled the team to educate and serve pizza to students from underserved communities, including more than 200 campers from Bridgeport’s Horizons Program.

As hoped, the oven has become a social and community hub and a novel addition to WTF’s camps and programs. S’mores pizzas, anyone? The oven also allows WTF to provide food for casual events, like the spring and fall Beer Gardens. Finally, the

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(Photo: Charlie Colasurdo) Picnic tables. (Photo: Charlie Colasurdo)

pizza piazza, featuring picnic tables and string lights, is available for rent, which drive revenues and helps WTF be self-sustaining.

During the Pandemic, the new Pizza on the Patio nights offered safe, socially distanced outdoor adult gatherings for friends seeking to get out for a glass of wine, live music, and a homemade pie while touring the grounds and gardens. And who wouldn’t enjoy a multi-course dinner cooked by top local chefs like Frederic Kieffer of Artisan Southport, who used the wood-fired oven to cook roasted oysters, summer berry tarts, and more? Going forward, the pizza oven will continue to serve the Westport community as a good, old-fashioned outdoor gathering spot with some mighty-fine pizzas topped with WTF’s homegrown basil, garlic, hot peppers, and heirloom tomatoes. How great is that?

So, who cooked up the idea for a pizza oven?

A few years back, committee members at WTF were brainstorming ways to attract more teens. Liz Milwe and Christy Colasurdo, then-co-chairs, had seen a variety of pizza ovens at farms and wineries in their travels across the country and decided it was time to investigate.

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Garden-to-table ingredients.

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Who doesn't heart pizza?

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Now more than ever, a house becomes a home.

Back then pizza ovens weren’t ubiquitous.

Yet NPR predicted a trend which started in the Midwest as a way for farmers to increase revenues while utilizing their farm produce and products. It sounded promising.

The farmgals predicted that an outdoor oven would be a win, and modeled teen educational initiatives after “knead 2 know,” the Yale Sustainable Food Program’s weekly Friday presentation series, in which a stu-

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INSPIRED BY A BELOVED WESTPORT FAMILY COPES WITH ALS

ARTICLE ROBIN MOYER CHUNG

B R E AT H E 4 J O N ATH A N The Greenfield Family

“MOST PEOPLE ARE GOING TO DIE OF SOMETHING AWFUL OR TAKE CARE OF SOMEONE WHO’S DYING,” MENTIONS WESTPORT RESIDENT IRIS GREENFIELD. Her husband, Jonathan, 50, has ALS. Iris is the primary caretaker for the family, including their three kids, Zach (12), Skye (10), and Josie (8).

As Iris insinuates, their situation is not unusual.

However, in a world in which people use social media to craft idealized portraits of themselves, even during traumatic events, the Greenfield’s authenticity and openness is unexpected and touching.

It’s mid-afternoon and Jonathan is in a motorized chair at their dining room window, overlooking the front lawn. When Iris and I enter, she turns him so he and I can see each other. She wipes

Jonathan had discovered Wim Hof a few years prior and

the saliva from his chin, “Does the drooling bother

promptly resolved to travel the world teaching the Method, bring-

you?” She asks me.

ing his camera to film his experiences (he was a documentarian

Nah. I’m a mom, I’ve seen worse.

in Germany before he started his family.) A short time later he

“He has difficulty swallowing, he’s at that stage,”

began having foot problems, presaging his ALS diagnosis.

she explains. Jonathan smiles broadly, looking

By the summer of 2019 he needed crutches to walk. But that

every bit the blue-eyed intrepid traveler and tria-

didn’t stop him from traveling to Spain for a Wim Hof Method*

thaloner save for his wet chin and immobility. He

retreat with his best friend, Rob Gutman. This retreat included

communicates through a tablet, scrolling through

breathing exercises, impossibly shivery ice baths, and a challeng-

the alphabet with the slightest movement of his

ing hike up the side of a rocky mountain which Jonathan com-

finger. Iris reads his notes or a computerized male

pleted to a hail of applause from fellow retreaters.

voice reads them out loud.

reads her husband’s words, “Rob kept wanting to help [me] out and

after drying his face. “What he ate, how he breathed,

I kept saying ‘f@ck off.’ A New York couple overheard me and said,

his sports was at 150%.” She sits down and rubs her

‘We wanted to escape the city but it’s like we’re on the d@mn L train.’”

eyes. “It’s almost like he intuitively knew his life would be cut short so he tried to pack so much into it.”

Jonathan was diagnosed with ALS in December

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Iris talks about this hike while Jonathan ticks off his letters. Then Iris

“Everything he did was at maximum level,” Iris says

I laughed out loud, startled and delighted to learn that wheelchair-bound people with ALS are allowed to curse and tell funny stories.

2018. His father, Hy, died of ALS and passed the

“He loves to talk. A lot,” Iris smiles. “Sometimes people run and

mutated C9 gene to both of his sons, Jonathan

hide when they see him because they know they’ll get stuck in a

and Seth.

long conversation with him.”

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Jonathan and family at an ALS rally in Washington, DC, May 27, 2020.

He laughs out loud. Sort of. He looks like he’s laughing out loud but no sound comes out.

“He has so many good friends, from his childhood he has a group of eight or nine close friends; they’re all soul brothers. They visit us, to see Jonathan. So many people want to help us.”

The air shifts. Jonathan’s face falls and he nods forward. Jungian tears. I stare at my laptop.

I ask about their GoFundMe page.

Iris glances at the ceiling, “We have issues about people feeling

“Jonathan,” I ask. “How are you? How are you feeling?”

His head jolts up, his eyes dim. We wait. Iris looks at his screen, “I’m bored out of my mind,” she reads. “I’m not depressed. I’m tired of the monotony.” Jonathan adds, “I’m not desperate.”

“If you could wake up tomorrow and be cured, what’s the first thing you would do?”

He pauses, reflecting on the Wim Hof Method and how much he misses it. Then finally writes, “I’d take an ice bath.”

We say good-bye. Iris is driving me home, so I sit in the passenger

sorry for us. When we started a GoFundMe page for [their non-

seat of the car while their oldest child, Zach, climbs into the back.

profit] Breathe4ALS, we wanted to raise money for research and

“What do you think of your dad?” I ask Zach while Iris drives.

other people who need it; a lot of people go broke from medical

“I don’t know. He’s just my dad,” Zach responds. “A lot of people

expenses… we’re very fortunate, but the expenses for home care

want to do stuff for us. But I hope they don’t do it because they feel

have increased…” her voice trails off. His head nods down.

sorry for us,” he echoes his mother’s sentiment.

Nevertheless, a childhood friend of Jonathan’s and Westporter Jen Perkel each set up a GoFundMe page for the Greenfields.

I had planned to interview the Greenfields for 45 minutes, maybe

Iris brushes a a few strands of hair behind her ear. “Don’t make this a sad article,” she requests.

I promise I won’t. Because the sadness of death can never be

an hour. Two and half hours later our talk was cut short because their

greater than the happiness of a well-lived life.

son, Zach, wanted to meet friends downtown. Iris tells him to wait 15

*The Wim Hof Method uses conscious breathing, cold exposure, and

more minutes.

patience to become “happier, healthier, and stronger.”

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TRAVEL DESTINATION

Explore National Parks Across the U.S. 6 TOP NATIONAL PARKS TO VISIT NOW

THE UNITED STATES’ NATIONAL PARKS, WHICH ARE KNOWN FOR THEIR NATURAL WONDERS AND UNMATCHED BEAUTY, ENCOMPASS LANDS THAT HELPED SHAPE THE HISTORY OF THIS COUNTRY AND HOLD CULTURAL VALUE AND SIGNIFICANCE. The national parks invite us to stretch our imaginations—and our legs—and explore the great outdoors.

This list of national parks just scratches the surface of the natural wonders to wonderlands to discover, but it includes six of the most stunning national parks in the United States.

1.

ROCKY MOUNTAIN NATIONAL PARK Rocky Mountain National Park includes majestic mountains, abundant wildlife, incredible hiking trails and so much more. Popular activities include fishing, hiking, riding horses and bikes and enjoying the spectacular views.

Wintertime brings cross-country skiing, snowshoeing and sledding. Watching wildlife, such as bighorn sheep, elk, moose and mule deer, is a popular activity as well.

2.

YOSEMITE NATIONAL PARK Located in California’s Sierra Nevada Mountains, Yosemite National Park boasts giant sequoia trees, breathtaking waterfalls, vast meadows and more.

The park is home to unique rock formations like El Capitan, Half Dome and Glacier Point. Gaze in awe at Yosemite’s thousands of waterfalls, including Yosemite Falls, Ribbon Fall and Wapama Falls.

3.

YELLOWSTONE NATIONAL PARK Yellowstone’s 2.2 million acres include colorful hot springs, awe-inspiring waterfalls, fascinating mudpots, explosive geysers, diverse wildlife and more. It is home to more hot springs and geysers than anywhere else on Earth.

The oldest and largest herd of bison in the country lives at Yellowstone, as well as elk, wolves and grizzly bears.

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4.

BRYCE CANYON NATIONAL PARK Bryce Canyon National Park, located in southwestern Utah, is home to the world’s largest concentration of hoodoos on Earth. With its fascinating landscape composed of hoodoos, horseshoe-shaped amphitheaters and whimsical limestone rock formations, a visit to Bryce Canyon is often likened to a visit to another planet. This stunning landscape, formed by wind, water and snow, draws hikers, rock climbers, photographers, stargazers and cross-country skiers.

5.

GLACIER NATIONAL PARK Glacier National Park is located on the border of Canada and the United States and is often referred to as the “Crown of the Continent.”

Visitors will find more than 700 glacial lakes and many hiking trails, ranging in difficulty from easy to strenuous. Going-to-the-Sun Road, known as one of the most spectacular scenic drives in the country, is a paved, two-lane highway that divides the park into east and west regions.

6.

ZION NATIONAL PARK Zion National Park’s colorful sandstone cliffs, lush plateaus covered in pine and junipers, narrow canyons, the Virgin River, plus seeps, springs and waterfalls are just some of the scenic wonders here. One of Zion’s most popular hikes is known as the Narrows, the slimmest section of Zion Canyon. Other popular attractions include the Zion Canyon Scenic Drive, Angels Landing, Observation Point and Canyon Overlook Trail.

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CULINARY CREATIONS

COOL DOWN ON JULY 4TH WITH THIS VEGAN SPIN ON A CLASSIC TREAT!

Vega n Pat r iot ic Popsicles You will need a popsicle mold, popsicle sticks, and a blender.

Ingredients + Red: 3 tbsp lite coconut milk, 1 tbsp maple or agave syrup, 1 cup fresh strawberries

+ White: 1 ¼ cup lite coconut milk, 2 tbsp maple or agave syrup

+ Blue: 1/2 cup fresh blueberries, ¼ cup lite coconut milk, 1 tbsp maple or agave syrup

INSTRUCTIONS RED: Blend ingredients for the red layer until smooth and divide between popsicle molds.

WHITE: Stir together ingredients for the white layer.

Pour white mixture into the popsicle molds on top of the red mixture. Relax, it's ok if the colors mix a tiny bit.

BLUE: Blend "blue" ingredients until smooth.

Pour into molds on top of the white filling the molds.

Insert popsicle sticks and freeze for at least 8 hours.

Enjoy!

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HIDDEN HIDDENGEMS, GEMS, LOCAL’S CHOICE

14 THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW IN WESTPORT & WESTON

Organic produce.

Colorful, fresh produce.

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Upholstery and repairs.

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235 Lyons Plain Road, Weston Locally grown organic vegetable farm, including fresh flowers and events.

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400 Post Road East, Westport Grocery store flowers get a bad wrap (blue carnations?) but TJs has beautiful blossoms that last longer than most.

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D&M FURNITURE RESTORATION 748 Post Road East, Westport As Old School as it gets. They offer expert furniture and antique repair with free pickup and delivery - no job is too small.

392 Post Road East, Westport (next to Trader Joe’s) Come in with the vessel of your choice, walk out with a gorgeous floral arrangement.

There’s a beautiful river walk that runs behind Coastal Orthopedic/ Rive Bistro and up to the bridge

by Sunny Daes. It includes a lovely sitting gazebo that extends out into the river.

RIVERWALK

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LONGSHORE PADDLE COURTS AT 6 PM You get the sunset, the view, the exercise, and the fun of paddle.

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LOCAL’S CHOICE (CONTINUED)

MARINA AT LONGSHORE Look for the grassy area with the one or two lone benches overlooking the gorgeous view. Enjoy a solitary sunset, unless someone else gets there first.

Best views.

NAIL FACTORY 719 Post Road East, Westport All of the teenagers love their super cool designs (eggs over-easy, anyone?).

1765 Post Rd E, Westport Unassuming and unfussy, this is the go-to place for fixing fine jewelry and watches, trusted by high-end jewelers.

RENATO’S JEWELERS

Jewelry repair.

Fun nail designs.

THE WESTPORT OBSERVATORY

182 Bayberry Lane, Westport The Westport Astronomical Society is a group of volunteers who run the observatory, free and open to the public every Wednesday night from 8-10 if skies are clear.

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Dominique Dorie Distinctive French Art

Making braille.

CONNECTICUT BRAILLE ASSOCIATION 44 Imperial Avenue, Westport Volunteers who transcribe texts into braille or other formats for individuals with vision loss. Texts are available to Connecticut residents and others who apply.

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DIY

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ADULT- AND KID-FRIENDLY NATURAL BUG REPELLENTS FROM A BEAUTIFUL MESS

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WHAT YOU NEED: + 10 drops lemon essential oil ARTICLE AND PHOTOGRAPHY A BEAUTIFUL MESS

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+ 8 drops lavender essential oil + 8 drops eucalyptus essential oil + 1 ½ ounces distilled water (minus 1 teaspoon to make room for the essential oils in the bottle) + ½ ounce 95% proof grain alcohol* WHAT YOU DO: In a 2-ounce spray bottle, add the grain alcohol (or Solubol) and drop in essential oils. Swirl to combine. Place the cap back on the bottle. Allow the oils to disperse in the alcohol for about 1 hour, then add distilled water, swirling again to combine.

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K I D ’S WHAT YOU NEED: + 10 drops lemon essential oil + 10 drops lemongrass essential oil + 4 drops lavender essential oil + 1 ½ ounces distilled water (minus 1 teaspoon to make room for the essential oils in the bottle) + ½ ounce 95% proof grain alcohol* WHAT YOU DO: In a 2-ounce spray bottle, add the grain alcohol (or Solubol) and drop in essential oils. Swirl to combine. Place the cap back on the bottle. Allow the oils to disperse in the alcohol for about 1 hour, then add distilled water, swirling again to combine.

*The grain alcohol is used as a preservative as well as a carrier for the oils, but you can also use a product like this instead of grain alcohol at a 1:4 ratio (1 drop essential oil to 4 drops Solubol) if you’d rather and then just fill the rest with water to fill the 2-ounce spray bottle.

While there can be concern about citrus oils on the skin when exposed to sunlight, lemongrass isn’t a photosensitive oil, and if lemon essential oil is steam-distilled rather than cold-pressed (Oui Fresh essential oils are cold-pressed) it can be used on the skin. So just make sure to note which one your lemon oil is and only spray on clothes if you don’t have a skin-safe lemon oil (which is an application method a lot of people prefer anyway if they are more sensitive to oils).

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JULY

LIFESTYLE CALENDAR

MOCA SUMMER OPEN CALL EXHIBIT MoCA Westport, 19 Newtown Turnpike

MoCA

Westport

is

pleased

to

announce its first Summer Open Call, a

juried exhibition of emerging, mid-career and established visual artists over the age of 18.

Max Teicher and Emily White of Gagosian Gallery, NYC, are MoCA Westport’s distinguished jurists and curators for this year’s exhibition. Exhibit includes all mediums and all sizes.

4 FOURTH OF JULY!

Westport and Weston

We may not have the water-side crowds of yore, but it's a mask-less Independence Day (as of May 20) so whip up some Orange Mint Drink and enjoy a summer party with far fewer cares than last year! Hopefully! Even if it rains you can still enjoy a cocktail.

6 STORYTIME ON THE GREEN Jesup Green

Bring a blanket and relax on Jesup Green. Socially distance by staying on your blanket. Everyone over the age of 2 must wear a mask. Library books will be available for you to checkout following every program. Program will be cancelled in the event of bad weather.

No registration necessary. (Recurring event). WestportLibrary.org

6 CAMP EXPLORE: HOMEMADE MICROPHONE MAGIC WITH TRAVIS BELL Westport Library

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microphone for use anytime and anywhere. Start your own band or host a karaoke party. Travis Bell is the Verso Studio Manager at the Westport Library.

Specialty supplies will be available to registrants for pick up from the Westport Library.

Camp Explore is made possible by the continuing generosity of Roz and Bud Siegel.

9 MUSIC AT MOCA CONCERT SERIES

MoCA Westport, 19 Newtown Turnpike

Music at MoCA Concert Series continues!

Oshima Brothers, July 9, 2021: A harmony-rich blend of contemporary folk and acoustic pop.

Horzowksi Trio and Amadi Asikiwe, July 16 2021: A vital force in the international chamber music world.

All concerts will be held at MoCA Westport’s outdoor space at 7 p.m. Bring your own lawn chair seating. Food and drinks availabe to purchase at each concert. MoCAWestport.org

12 TV NEWS REPORTING CAMP Westport Library

This four-week camp led by two time Emmy-Award winning journalist and former ABC News correspondent Jay Schadler will provide hands-on experience in the exciting field of broadcast journalism, culminating in the production of a 20-minute newscast by students. Open to high school juniors, seniors and college freshmen. Tuesday, Wednesday,

and

Thursday

from

10:00 to noon July 12 – August 5.

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17 SUMMER SHOPPING DAY!

Downtown Westport and beyond.

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LIFESTYLE CALENDAR

Enjoy spacious and safe shopping outdoors

throughout

Downtown

Westport! Closed streets and accessible parking will allow you to roam freely and enjoy special offerings from many local merchants!

17 STEPHEN KELLOGG AND BAND

Lachat Town Farm, 106 Godfrey Road West, Weston

Grammy-nominated Fairfield

County

resident, Stephen Kellogg and his band will deliver some truly sublime folk, alt-country and Americana. Listed

FAMILY & MATRIMONIAL LAW

as one of the 10 New Country Artists

Exceptional Representation Customized to Fulfill the Unique Needs of Your Family

as "a singer-songwriter who can rep-

We work closely with our clients through Litigation, Arbitration, Mediation and Collaborative Divorce.

You Should Know by Rolling Stone Magazine in 2018, Stephen is described licate the power and electricity of a full band with only his voice and guitar" who will appeal to fans of "Tom Petty... and Nebraska-era Springsteen".

29 Experience guiding people through complex family matters.

MELVIN SEALS & JGB

Wall Street Theatre, Norwalk

Melvin Seals has been a powerful presence in the music industry for over 30 years as a performer, recording artist and producer, revered for his powerful, high spirited, Hammond B3 organ, and keyboards in the Jerry Garcia Band.

From blues to funk to rock to jazz, with a little R&B and gospel thrown in to spice things up.

Would you like to get in touch with us?

(203) 222-8686 | conlonmcglynn.com 222 Riverside Avenue Westport, Connecticut 06880

We would love to hear from you! Contact us

at

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A PA R A D I S E C A R V E D O U T O F A H I L LT O P

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T H E C I N DY R A N E Y & CO. D I F F E R E N C E We recognize that selling your home and selecting the right team to do so are incredibly meaningful decisions. You are trusting someone with one of your most valuable assets. At Cindy Raney & Co., we guide you throughout the entire process of selling your property. Passionate about our work and highly dedicated to our clients, we have a proven track record of providing an exceptional experience and outstanding results. It’s why our clients continue to rave about the Cindy Raney & Co. difference. We’d love to represent you and put our efforts behind selling your property.

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REALTY REPORT

WESTPORT

REALTY REPORT

NEIGHBORHOOD

ORIGINAL PRICE

SOLD PRICE

%SOLD/ORIG

DOM

BDRMS

BATHS

290 North Avenue

$5,295,000

$5,275,000

100%

41

8

9.5

10 Stony Point Rd. W

$3,299,000

$3,150,000

96%

261

6

4.5

11 Covlee Dr

$2,995,000

$2,705,000

90%

227

4

4.5

22 Manitou Rd

$2,295,000

$2,675,000

117%

13

4

4.5

14 Fairfield Ave

$2,300,000

$2,350,000

102%

17

3

3.5

7 River Ln

$2,320,000

$2,320,000

100%

15

6

6.5

10 Side Hill Rd

$2,290,000

$2,200,000

96%

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6

5

287 Bayberry Ln

$1,995,000

$2,200,000

110%

12

5

4.5

340 Compo Rd S

$2,095,000

$2,125,000

101%

29

4

2.5

6 Mayfair Ln

$2,350,000

$2,100,000

89%

122

5

6.5

Source: MLS Top 10 Listings by Sold Price in Westport (5/1/2021 - 5/25/2021)

OVERALL WESTPORT MARKET TRENDS THROUGH MAY 2021

23 Bayberry Lane | Westport, CT | Sold $2,845,000

• Percentage of homes selling at or over asking price: +61.7% • Buyers losing out in multiple bidding wars, forcing them to pay a premium to secure a property • Since the recession of 2008 through 2019, CT had the worst home price appreciation in the U.S. (-4.6%) • In 2021, average home sales finally erased their decline in value • Average home sale 2008 = $1.722mm • Average home sale 2021 = $1.787mm KEY TAKEAWAY At Cindy Raney & Co., we know now is a great time to sell your home. Pricing your home properly and staging it to sell are critical.

To get the highest price, choose the realtor who can expose your home to as many potential buyers as possible. Please contact us today and learn about the Cindy Raney & Co. Difference.

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ORANGE MINT DRINK

HOPS & VINE

M Y FAVO R I T E SUMMER C O C K TA I L THIS RECIPE GOES ALL THE WAY BACK TO MY MOTHER’S MOTHER. It’s time-consuming, but well worth it. The syrup lasts indefinitely in the fridge and it’s a good way to use the mint you planted a few years ago and is now proliferating faster than selfies at an influencer gathering.

You can mix it with seltzer for the kids, with champagne or - my favorite - vodka for adults.

INGREDIENTS + 2 cups water + 2 cups sugar + 2 enormous fistfuls of fresh mint leaves + Juice of 7 lemons (about 1 1/2 cups), plus zest of 1 lemon + Juice of 3 oranges (about 3/4 cup), plus zest of 1 orange

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1. Combine water and sugar in a saucepan. Bring to a boil. Stir until sugar dissolves. Turn off heat.

2. Crush and rip mint leaves with your hands. Add to saucepan. Add lemon juice, orange juice, lemon zest, and orange zest to saucepan. Stir to combine. Let sit for, oh, 4 hours or so.

3. Pass mixture through fine strainer, discard solids. Mix to taste with vodka, champagne, or seltzer. And ice.

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You can add fancy garnishes!

I don't, but it IS possible!

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