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NOVEMBER 2021 PUBLISHER
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November – Give Thanks WHAT ARE YOU THANKFUL FOR THIS YEAR? When we look around this community, we have so many reasons to be grateful.
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If you’re coming up short, hopefully this issue will remind you of the thoughtful, kind and generous people we have living among us as our neighbors and friends. Read all about the ways our community comes together on Page 34. It always warms our hearts to see the myriad ways in which Westport celebrates
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the holidays—family traditions, bountiful feasts and giving back to the community we call home. This month, we hope your home is filled with the aroma of freshly baked pies, the sounds of laughter around the table and the feeling of gratitude in your hearts. As always, thanks for reading, and we’ll see you around town!
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10th Annual Westport Rotary LobsterFest Excitement and delicious food accompanied this year’s 10th annual Westport Rotary Club LobsterFest, held at Compo Beach on Saturday, September 18. Over 200 smiling, hard-working LobsterFest volunteers served twin lobsters, steak, and all-you-can-drink beer and wine to around 1,500 guests. Fond memories will linger with all those who generously participated – and the proceeds directly will benefit more than 39 local charities.
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1. Westport Rotary Club President Lyla Steenbergen gave volunteers a pre-LobsterFest pep talk. | 2. Dressed for success, Rotary members Tony McDowell and Rick Benson helped set the festive mood for the event. | 3. A magician mesmerized the children while their parents dined on lobster or steak. | 4. From 3pm till dusk, guests patiently lined up to collect their twin lobsters and fixings. | 5. Celebrating with family members remains one of the most cherished LobsterFest activities. | 6. Local group The Hot Rubber Monkey Band serenaded the crowd, playing rock and pop favorites.
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"Young Shoots" Photography Exhibit and Contest September 8: The “Young Shoots” Photography exhibit was created by the Westport Farmers Market to encourage young people ages 8 to 18 to show off their photography talent by submitting photos taken at the weekly Farmers Market. The Artists Collective of Westport partnered with WFM to help judge entries and to underwrite the award money. Creativity in Westport is alive and thriving, thanks to its youth! (Photos: Miggs Burroughs)
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WHERE ART AND TECHNOLOGY CONVERGE
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HEIDA LAUREATE PERFORMS AT MOCA Recent Heida laureate Priscilla Navarro will perform a piano program consisting of the complete Iberia by Isaac Albeniz. An exceptionally accomplished pianist, this 26-yearold has won a number of competitions across the U.S., Europe, and South America. Her work continues at the Frost School of Music at the University of Miami where she is currently pursuing her Doctorate in Piano Pedagogy under Santiago Rodriguez.
FREE ADMISSION TO MOCA WESTPORT! MoCA Westport announces that admission to our gallery is now complimentary for all visitors for one year, made possible through the generous gift of an anonymous donor. “This gift supports our belief in the power of art to educate, enrich and build connections between us – a power that should be equally accessible to all in the community,” stated Ruth Mannes, MoCA Westport’s Executive Director. MoCAWestport.org
BURY MY HEART AT WOUNDED KNEE DISCUSSION Discuss Bury My Heart at Wounded Knee with Bruce McGuirk and other history buffs at Pages Through the Ages. Using council records, auto-
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THANKFUL THIS MONTH, WE CELEBRATE THANKSGIVING, A TIME TO REMIND OURSELVES OF THE BOUNTIFUL BLESSINGS WE HAVE IN OUR LIVES. November is an opportunity to spend time with the ones we love during this holiday season and give more of ourselves to those around us.
HOLIDAY MARKETS + Meet Santa and enjoy holiday entertainment and gift shopping at the festive Continuum Holiday Bazaar on November 13, where all proceeds go to charity. 109 Legion Ave, New Haven, CT + Visit the Holiday Pop-Up Market at Fairfield Museum to kick-start your holiday gift shopping by supporting local vendors. November 20 and November 21. 370 Beach Rd, Fairfield, CT + Stew Leonard’s Wines & Spirits will show you how to pair their wines with traditional Thanksgiving dishes at their Taste of Thanksgiving event (November 20). 55 Westport Ave, Norwalk, CT + Take a stroll down Main Street and enjoy the dreamy holiday lights and decor while shopping at your favorite stores for that perfect gift. Main Street, Westport, CT + Spend quality time with your loved ones at the H. Smith Richardson Tree Farm, where you can cut your own Christmas trees. 1-19 Sasco Creek Rd, Westport, CT
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CAFÉ CRAWL + New to the area, Studio Cafe serves coffee, juices and casual Spanish fare in a chic setting that opens into The Tailored Home studio. 15 Myrtle Ave, Westport, CT + With a delicious selection of coffee and "concoctions," Winfield Street Coffee is a crave-worthy spot to grab your warm beverage before a stroll downtown. 13 Post Rd West, Westport, CT + GG & Joe offers yummy and healthy bites, along with their scrumptious hot and cold beverage menu. 165 Main St, Westport, CT + Kneads is an organic bakery and cafe with homemade delights that will have you feeling warm and fuzzy inside. 580 Riverside Ave, Westport, CT + Satisfy your sweet tooth at Donut Crazy, where you will find a wide selection
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of treats to pair with your coffee or tea. 1 Ferry Ln, Westport, CT
THANKSGIVING VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES + Support The Westport Public Library and sign up to lend a hand with book sales, events or volunteer as a docent year round. 20 Jesup Rd, Westport, CT + Help build homes for local individuals and families in need of affordable housing with Habitat for Humanity of Coastal Fairfield County. 1542 Barnum Ave, Bridgeport, CT + Spend some time with our furry friends at the Connecticut Humane Society as a volunteer animal cuddler at their Westport Adoption Center. 455 Post Rd East, Westport, CT + Get involved with Homes with Hope by helping out at the community kitchen at the Gillespie Center. 45 Jesup Rd, Westport, CT + Volunteering as a grocery shopper for Westport seniors through Westport
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Center for Senior Activities is one of the many great ways to get involved there. 21 Imperial Ave, Westport, CT
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Since his time on The Bachelor, Ben has taken the opportunity to use his fame to create not one, but two inspiring podcasts, publish a successful autobiography, while also elevating awareness of his “for-purpose” Generous Coffee brand. We sat down with him (virtually) to reflect on all that he has accomplished in this season of “thankfulness.”
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CL: WHAT DOES THE TERM ‘THANKFUL’ OR ‘GRATEFUL’ MEAN TO YOU?
Plus, we believe that people enjoy drinking life-changing coffee that has a story behind it over their regular cup of coffee.
BH: It may sound corny and cliche, but when I think of gratitude, it’s an every day break to look at where my life
CL: WHAT ARE YOUR RECOMMENDATIONS FOR PEOPLE TO GIVE
sits and to be thankful for the friends and family around
BACK IN THEIR COMMUNITY?
me and the things that I am able to be a part of.
BH: I think everybody can figure out what they can do in their local communities by asking the same question: What is it around me that makes me the
CL: TELL US ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE MOST PROUD
angriest? Maybe it’s people without homes, maybe it’s animals or the environ-
OF OR INSPIRED BY?
ment. What emotional pull is it? Go after that.
BH: I just want to be a part of really cool stories that I believe are good and healing. And my filter on whether
Plus, you can do that sitting on your couch drinking a great cup of Generous Coffee.
they are good or not comes from my faith. I just want to be a part of loving others and loving God well.
With over 1.2mm Instagram followers, Ben Higgins is co-founder of @generous_ coffee_, author of #AloneinPlainSight, host of @hopestillwins, and co-host of @
CL: HOW DID GENEROUS COFFEE BEGIN?
almost_famouspodcast.
BH: The idea came in July of 2017 and we launched in January of 2018. When the show [The Bachelor] happened, our fundraising increased 500%, but we also knew that it probably wasn’t going to last. We asked ourselves how we can make this more sustainable, and we came up with the idea that we could start a for-profit business and call ourselves “for-purpose.” We donate 100% of our profits to non-profits.
We believe that people enjoy drinking lifechanging coffee that has a story behind it over their regular cup of coffee.
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RENOVATE & REFINE
COZY up your HOME TAKE A CUE FROM THE SCANDINAVIAN CONCEPT OF HYGGE AND WELCOME THE TRANSITION OF SUMMER TO AUTUMN WITH A RELAXING REFRESH
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SPICE UP YOUR LIFE Pumpkin spice, apple and warm cinnamon are scents that bring the autumn air indoors. Adding these scents to your home will create a comforting and inviting atmosphere for your family and fall guests.
MAD FOR PLAID Plaid patterns are a staple for fall. Find unique ways to pull the pattern into your decor in the form of blankets, pillows and even rugs if you’re feeling adventurous!
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colors
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long-lasting blooms are almost as much a marker of autumn as football, shorter days and cooler weather. Incorporate some warmer-color blooms into your decor for a fresh addition that’s reminiscent of changing leaves.
AU NATURALE Wicker and natural materials like wood and jute are great ways to bring the outdoors in. Create a woodsy feel with dried flowers, natural wood accents and lots of baskets—great for storing your knit blankets!
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They share this data with schools and human services, to develop strategies and programs to teach peers and parents about mental illness and substance abuse. Says Gail Kelly, PD Board President, “[The programs] contribute to a healthy community. If you don’t have that issue, you’re at least educated enough to identify it and identify it early. Kids need to know what it does to them, what it does to their body and their decisions.” The best way for kids to learn about mental disorders and drug AS WE ALL KNOW, QUARANTINING WAS NOT KIND TO MANY
harm is from parents. “Kids may roll their eyes when their parents
OF US. Positive Directions (PD), an incredible Westport-based
talk to them,” states PD Board Secretary Lee Bollert, “but we know
non-profit center for mental health and addiction prevention, saw
that kids listen to their parents.”
a 50% weekly increase in clients, primarily for anxiety, depres-
So, how do we as parents, relatives, and friends, determine if a
sion, substance misuse, and family therapy. This may be a good
child or loved one needs help? Noticeable changes in activities and
thing. “It’s a positive sign that people are getting help,” states PD
moods - whether it appears positive or negative. It’s especially tough
Executive Director Vanessa Wilson. “It’s a sign of reducing barriers
with kids, sifting through normal teenage angst and identifying any
and reducing stigma.”
grains of concern. But PD Board Member Lynn Abramson cautions
Which is all the more positive given that the math is conclusive: everyone reading this has been or will be affected by substance
parents, and friends, to “err on the safe side. A significant change may seem normal but worth checking out.”
abuse or mental illness. Over 21 million Americans have at least one
Though the stigma is diminishing… slowly… a child or adult may
addiction, and 1 out of every 5 adults have mental illness. Oftentimes
have difficulty accepting or controlling mental illness or substance
addiction and mental health are inextricable.
abuse. PD also runs weekly “SMART Recovery” skills groups. These
The toll that mental illness and substance abuse takes on the
groups, free of charge, help participants “learn practical psychol-
afflicted person and their family can be dire. Despite this, I - and
ogy-based tools and gain social supports” for long-term success.
probably most of you - have seen educated people deny they have
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issues, and parents refusing to admit their child’s problems. This may be due to stigma, cost, or simply ignorance.
Staff of Positive Directions.
While the bulk of PD’s patients are between 21 years old to middle age, 25% of them are adolescents as young as 12 years old. 15.4% of their active patients are from Westport and Weston. PD’s youth surveys are a unique and important part of their work, enabling them to glean data regarding relationships, stress, and substance abuse. Results of an April 2021 survey in Westport Public Schools indicate that 25% of the students in grades 7-12 were using alcohol during the pandemic and one in ten was using marijuana. By senior year, 60% of Westport youths reported currently using alcohol and 25% reported currently using marijuana or vaping (typically both).* “The legalization of adult-use of marijuana in Connecticut has lowered the perception of its harmfulness,” PD Prevention Director Margaret Watt explains. “But it’s extremely dangerous for teen brains - they can lose 6-8 IQ points and are at a high risk for psychotic disorders.” As well, weed has become more potent in the last 20, even 10 years.
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“PD helps people who don’t have the access to private mental health. We help everyone, regardless of income level and socio-economic background.” - Angelina Miceli
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your life. your home. your realtor. They’re also partnering with turningpointct.org, a digital platform developed by recovering young adults for others to share their experiences. These individuals suffer from a range of mental health disorders and substance abuse issues. Many of the stories are difficult to read but, ultimately, glorious in the strength and self-acceptance by the author. None of us are alone in this. We will all need support at some point, on some level. “It’s important to know who we are - if you don’t need us someone else might,” states Angelina Miceli, PD Clinical Director. Vanessa adds, “Preventing substance abuse is the greatest investment a family could make.” *Survey from April 2021, 797 Westport students in grades 7-12 responded - roughly 20-30% of the student base. Founded over 50 years ago by [Westport residents] in recovery from alcohol addiction, Positive Directions today is a non-profit behavioral health organization providing a continuum of prevention, counseling, and recovery supports to individuals and families struggling with mental health or substance use disorders. We believe strongly that “prevention works, treatment is effective, and recovery is possible.” [PD] works to remove financial barriers and to provide supports beyond clinical treatment to ensure that individuals and families can lead healthy,
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P.T. Barnum Museum
WA I T W H AT ' S I N BR I D GE P ORT ?
Westport artsits Kat Evans and Kris Toohey at NEST Art Factory.
BRIDGEPORT ART TRAIL AND OTHER DELIGHTFUL SURPRISES!
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ARTICLE ROBIN MOYER CHUNG
HOPE at The Knowlton artists' studios. (Photo: Dariusz Kanarek)
THE THING ABOUT NOT KNOWING WHAT’S IN BRIDGEPORT
History, to house his collection of eccentricities, including a cen-
IS WE CAN ALWAYS BE SURPRISED AND DELIGHTED TO
taur skeleton and an unwrapped mummy.
LEARN ABOUT WHAT’S IN BRIDGEPORT! Such as the Bridgeport Art Trail (BAT). Who knew? I mean,
820 Main Street Barnum-Museum.org
besides the thousands of people who have known for years. Remember SoHo in the ‘80s? When it was spacious and gritty and
MOUNTAIN GROVE CEMETERY
filled with artists? That’s sort of like how a section of Bridgeport is now.
If the mummy isn’t enough death for you, visit Mountain Grove
It’s scattered with extinct factories and buildings which are now homes
Cemetery and Mausoleum for graves of P.T. Barnum, Tom Thumb,
to artist collectives, including a number of Westport and Weston artists.
Neal Ball, and some notable others.
13 years ago, to celebrate and promote this growing wellspring of creativity, the collectives conceived BAT. It’s a free multi-day
2675 North Avenue MountainGroveCemetery.org
event that includes just about everything possible. States Suzanne Kachmar, Executive Director of City Lights, “Each art place has its own character. The individual artist communities and entrepreneurs create their own schedule of activities.”
MERMAID AND MER-BABY SCULPTURE Restored in 2010, sculptor Gutzon Borglum - of Mount Rushmore fame - made this creepy statue of a sea nymph and her upset off-
Bearing in mind there are over 50 sites, the NEST Arts Factory
spring for sewing machine heir Nathaniel Wheeler. The baby was
(begun by Weston resident Vic Mulaire) alone is offering cool
modeled after Gutzon’s son, Lincoln, who completed the presiden-
events like art sale, glass-blowing demonstration, honey tasting,
tial peaks after his father passed away.
and belly dancing.
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Then there’s a day-long BAT urban bike ride tour, family scavenger hunt, WPKN vinyl sale… I won’t list everything because a protracted list doesn’t make the most compelling reading. Bridgeport-Art-Trail.org
ST. MARGARET’S SHRINE This practicing church has a garden full of religious statues, including a re-make of Michelangelo’s Pieta. From reviews, I gather it’s sort of a Disneyland of sacred symbols, some “myste-
Learning about the art trail made me wonder what else I didn’t know. I imagine we’re all familiar with the Beardsley Zoo, the
rious,” some… well, not exceedingly elegant but still fun to see, depending on who you ask.
Bluefish, the Discovery museum, etc. But here are a few places
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which may be new to you:
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P.T. BARNUM
THE CUSHING CENTER
Circus-man lived in Bridgeport for 40 years! He designed a
This Center houses the Cushing Brain Tumor registry, a collection
whimsical museum, originally the Barnum Institute of Science and
of over 2,200 human brain case studies in jars. You can view whole CONTINUED >
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brain specimens, tumor specimens, microscopic
BLOODROOT FEMINIST
slides, notes, journal excerpts and over 15,000 photo-
VEGETARIAN RESTAURANT
graphic negatives dating from the late 1800’s to 1936.
This survivor of the feminist restaurant move-
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ment has been serving food in an activist atmo-
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sphere since 1977. The movement was a “way to establish a feminist community and enable women,
Now that I’ve unearthed and promoted a bunch o’
historically barred from eating out without male
borderline-disturbing destinations in Bridgeport, let’s
escorts, access to public space.” Come prepared
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MONGERS MARKET A 75,000 sq ft shop of every conceivable antique,
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salvaged, and vintage item, including furniture, jew-
Bridgeport.StressFactory.com
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Pleasant View Farm in Somers, Connecticut. Enjoy a tour, a tasting, and a specialty cocktail.
and kids shows, DCT offers a lively line up of beloved
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GATHERING OF THE VIBES Each June, thousands gather for four days of a music, arts, and camping festival on Seaside Park.
LITTLE LIBERIA - MARY AND
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ELIZA FREEMAN HOUSE
Elvis Costello, Branford Marsalis - as well as extraor-
Little Liberia “began” in the early 1820s, when
Seaside Park
it had black-owned businesses and homes, two
GatheringOfTheVibes.com
churches, a library, and a four-story hotel for a black clientele. Today, only the Mary and Eliza Freeman House exists. 358-60 Main Street FreemanCenterBpt.org
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Stage Mom: T h e Tr u t h
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ARTICLE JILL JOHNSON MANN
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Jamie Mann (Photo: Curtis & Cort)
MANN CLAN MOM SHARES ALL
WRITE AN ARTICLE ABOUT YOUR LIFE AS A STAGE MOM. Now there’s a tricky task. Before I can even get into the life part, there’s that term — stage mom — to get past. It’s different from say, soccer mom. “Soccer mom” conjures images of a chatty, snack-toting carpool master, heartily cheering for the whole team and sharing umbreland I became friends and eventually launched
shrew in gaudy orange lipstick, known for shov-
Triple Threat Academy (triplethreat.us) together.
ing the enemies in the audition line and pocketing
Having had the wonder of theater opened up to
her precious little star’s paychecks. So let’s clear
me as a shy kid (thank you Marcus Olsen, wher-
this up right now: It’s not like that. I completely
ever you are), I was a believer in its powers: instill-
made up that orange lipstick part.
ing confidence, public speaking skills, empathy.
If you are looking for the mother of all stage
I did not expect to end up with three profes-
moms, she is not here in Westport, but she does
sional actors: Jamie, Cameron, and Natalia (aka
have ties here. Watch Bette Midler as Mama
“Talia,” but SAG and IMDb know her as Natalia.
Rose in the TV movie Gypsy, in which Westport’s
I wonder about that, is Talia Mann a better stage
own Cynthia Gibb garnered a Golden Globe
name? Do soccer moms have thoughts like this?).
nomination for her portrayal of Gypsy Rose Lee.
There is also Zoe, Cam’s twin. Not an actor. As
Gibb happens to be my kids’ voice teacher/acting
this is the Thankful issue, I must note: I am very
coach/therapist and my guide to this crazy biz.
grateful I have only three child actors. Zoe is a
Once I adjusted to the surreal notion that the
budding fashion designer. When her siblings are
Fame star dated Chris Atkins—swoon—Cynthia
grown and living in our basement, they at least will be clothed. Life is tough for Zoe; child actors demand
Natalia Mann (Photo: Curtis & Cort)
a lot of their parents’ attention. Much time is spent on Metro North for auditions a few times a week (pre-Covid), self-taping/editing auditions (at home—pandemic silver lining), and paperwork: accounting, corporate filings, union dues, child permits, resumes. Jobs can mean the family is divided for weeks or months at a time. But they also mean fun family trips: Florida when Jamie was playing Billy Elliot, Los Angeles while he was shooting Country Comfort for Netflix. And then there was the Mann Clan RV Trip. Let me back up and give you the lead up to that story, which gives a pretty clear snapshot of the pace of actor family life. Acting professionally usually means lots of auditions, rejection, and time sitting around waiting to book something. Even with three kids in CONTINUED >
MOM
las with the parents. “Stage mom” is a washed-up
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STAGE MOM: THE TRUTH (CONTINUED)
Cameron, playing Ryan Ross, with Kate Winslet on the set of Mare of Easttown.
Cameron Mann (Photo: Curtis & Cort)
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the biz, odds are good only one will be working at a time. But in 2020, there was some weird glitch in
Jill "Stage Mom" Johnson Mann with her daughter, Natalia.
the rejection system and the booking gods said yes to two Manns at once. My husband and I divided and conquered. Jamie (16 then), Talia (10), and I spent that winter in California. Jamie lived his dream on a soundstage and Talia went to a charter school right next door to the “lot” (as in Sunset Bronson Studios’ lot, which makes me feel very “L.A.” when I say it. It’s the Old Warner Brothers lot. The Jazz Singer was shot there in 1927. The Jeffersons was shot there. Donny and Marie. Jeopardy…). I digress, but not really, because this is important: As a kid I would have done anything to be on that stage with Donny and Marie. I understood Jamie’s dream. I was willing to forfeit planning more than 24 hours ahead in life and help him go for it. As a writer, I had the flexibility to do it, and I found it more fun than criss-crossing Westport from 4 to 8 every day driving.
As we all know, school did not open again that spring, and all productions shut down. We fortu-
Cameron, in the meantime, had landed a role
nately had rented a three-bedroom house in L.A. in
in Mare of Easttown. The HBO series was shoot-
a hilly, lovely neighborhood. When our lease was up
ing in Philly, with Kate Winslet. His shoot days
on May 7th, the six of us piled into a five-person RV
were spread out so he could go back and forth for
and road-tripped through 15 states. I roller skated
short stints. The kids have mostly stayed active
in the middle of a Utah highway, Cameron had a
students in Westport schools, which has kept
Zoom callback with Courtney Cox in the RV at the
their childhoods normal, minus the odd shout-out
foot of deserted Mount Rushmore, and Jamie visited
from an Emmy winner (thank you screen mama
the empty campus of his dream school. It was all a
Julianne Nicholson!).
tad surreal and amazing.
On the week in March 2020 when Covid hijacked
Natalia booked the Netflix movie A California
our lives, Jamie had a week off. He and I had flown
Christmas, which shot in July mid-Covid near San
back home and he jumped into school at Staples.
Francisco. It ended up being Netflix’s 13th most
My husband Ben flew out to be with Talia. I headed
watched movie in 2020, which was a huge surprise
to Philly with Cam, where he was scheduled to
to everyone, including the young actress, Lauren
shoot March 9 to 11.
Swickard, who played Talia’s mom and penned
On March 11, Cam was shooting and I was 6 hours into being on hold with the IRS (normal
the script—her first. (Watch for the sequel, out this holiday season.)
stage-mom stuff) when the news broke about
We are so grateful for these adventures of 2020
schools closing in Westport. I immediately texted
— a year that was so tough for so many. People
Jamie: “Get out of Staples!” As far as we knew, he
imagine this as a cut-throat business, but we’ve only
had to be on set Monday.
found big hearts, from the top down to the Covid
I changed our flights to the next day and added two seats for the twins. It was like Outbreak and we
supervisors and Crafty (who supply the endless free snacks, which is mainly what I’m in this for).
needed out of Westport fast. Cam and I would hop
As far as the moms… I’ve made countless lifelong
Amtrak in the morning, and and I’d have three hours
friends. We cheer for each other’s kids. We share
from stepping off the train in Stamford to get home,
scoop on the best coaches. We are each other’s
pack up, feed the goldfish, and skedaddle to JFK. If
families when we are away from our own. If we were
anyone can do that it’s a stage mom. (By the way, if
on location and a rainstorm hit, and the crew person
your kids are in the biz, goldfish are really as far as
assigned to hold umbrellas over our heads was not
you can go with the pet thing.)
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ARTICLE ALEX FRANKLIN
The grounds of the resort with brilliant blue waters
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BESIDE THE BRILLIANT BLUE WATERS THAT GIVE TURQUOIS BAY ITS NAME, THE GROUNDS OF THE RITZ-CARLTON, ST. THOMAS RISE DRAMATICALLY FROM THE SANDY BEACH TO THE HIGH RIDGES AND HILLS THE VIRGIN ISLANDS ARE KNOWN FOR. The pristine resort takes advantage of the elevation with guest rooms and restaurants perched high above the swaying palm trees and lush tropical gardens. The overall feel of the resort is that of a pristine private estate with striking views of the sea and neighboring islands. Hurricane Irma devastated the island four years ago and sadly some of the catastrophic damage is still visible around the island. The resort underwent a comprehensive $100M renovation and reopened with several alluring amenities. Updated guest rooms, a redesigned infinity pool, a kid-friendly pool with a waterslide and attractive restaurant options combine to make the resort the perfect Caribbean retreat.
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People are ready to start traveling again but the reality of evolving restrictions make pandemic planning complicated. As an overseas US territory, international travel restrictions don’t apply to the USVI. This reduces your chance of being stranded, although being stuck in St. Thomas wouldn’t be too bad. Passports are not required for the island and several major carriers have already added new regular flights. For those looking to travel with a group, the resort offers larger accommodations that can fit up to 8 people. The three bedroom presidential suites come with personal concierge service, a private oceanfront cabana and even daily laundry service. Guests also get access to the Club Lounge on the beach, which includes a private space on the beach and dedicated beverage service. This option is filling up fast with plenty of reservations already on the books for early next year. The resort is great for kids. Not only is there an expansive Infinity pool, but there is also a shallow wading pool for the little ones. Children can play on a cascading waterfall and enjoy the waterslide, careening down twists and turns to crash into the splash pool. If you’ve spent any time at all at a Caribbean resort, odds are good you’ve experienced a catamaran cruise. I’ve been on my fair share, but I have to say my experience on the lovely Lady Lynsey II was the most memorable I’ve ever had. The sunset cruise was breathtaking, with the 60-foot vessel gliding across the waves and the sun setting over the dramatic green islands dotting the horizon. The waters of the resort are some of the most picturesque I’ve ever seen and ideal for scuba and snorkeling. The abundant coral reefs are visible from the shore,
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An elegant Caribbean escape Couples massage with a view
Comfort and style
contrasting with the brilliant blue water. The steady
local seafood and some of the spice and season-
trade winds fill the sails of Hobie-Cats you can take
ing you can only find in the islands. For authen-
from the beach or hop in a kayak and explore the
tic Italian cuisine, Alloro offers dishes faithful
bay’s coves and inlets. If you’re interested in exer-
to Sicilian tradition with house made pasta and
cise, the resort provides a well-equipped gym as
fire-grilled seafood alongside an expansive vari-
well as organized aerobics and professionally lead
ety of fine Italian wines.
morning beach workouts.
Finally, what really makes the Ritz-Carlton,St.
Of course the spa is gorgeous, but for a more
Thomas special is the staff. Experiencing a high-
memorable experience you can pamper yourself
er-than-normal amount of seaweed, the staff was
in the seaside spa cabana. Perfect for those who
up with the sun clearing the beach of it and ensuring
are interested in enjoying a massage but reluctant
guests could enjoy the soft powdery sand. They’re
to spend too much time indoors, the private open
happy to whisk you around the resort on their many
space sits on a ledge overlooking the sea. You
golf carts, always smiling and welcome and ready
can listen to the waves while you relax and let the
to help. If you’re lounging by the pool, a friendly
breeze caress your skin.
attendant will offer sunscreen or aloe to those who
A key part of any resort experience is of
need it and shots of rum for those who want it.
course the food. Relaxing by the pool, Sails
The natural beauty of the resort coupled with the
restaurant is a reliable option that manages
remarkable amenities make this an excellent option
to turn out an excellent burger, fresh ceviche
for your next Caribbean trip.
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CULINARY CREATIONS
S P O U M M E P T K H I I N N G
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One cup of pumpkin!
C H O C O L AT E PUMPKIN CAKE
+ Preheat oven to 350 F and line a 9x5 loaf pan with parchment paper. + In a large bowl, using a hand or stand mixer, combine the butter
and sugar.
+ Add the eggs and mix. + Next add the pumpkin and mix. + In a microwave safe bowl, melt the chocolate chips, making sure
to stir every 25 seconds so the chocolate doesn’t burn. Once
melted, pour into the batter and mix to combine.
+ In a separate bowl add the flour, cocoa powder, baking soda,
baking powder, and salt. Stir to combine.
+ Pour the flour mixture into the wet ingredients and mix until
ingredient s
+ 1 cup canned organic pumpkin (not
pumpkin pie)
+ 1/2 cup salted butter (softened) + 3/4 cup dark brown sugar (packed) + 2 eggs + 1 cup flour + 1/4 cup cocoa powder
combined. Don’t over mix.
+ Pour the mixture into the loaf pan. + Sprinkle dark chocolate chips on top and bake for 40-45 minutes.
Check with a toothpick/knife to make sure it comes out clean.
+ Take out and let rest for 15 minutes. + Once cooled, sprinkle powdered sugar on top. + Serve and ENJOY!!
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+ 1/4 cup dark chocolate chips (melted) + 1/2 teaspoon baking powder + 1 teaspoon baking soda + 1/4 teaspoon salt + Dark chocolate chips to sprinkle on top + Powdered sugar to garnish
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TURKEY PUMPKIN CHILI (SLOW COOKER)
+ Fully cook the ground turkey on the stovetop and break into small
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pieces. When the turkey is almost done add in the chopped onions.
+ 1 lb of lean ground turkey
+ Add the turkey and onions to the slow cooker.
+ 1 28 oz can of crushed tomatoes
+ Chop up the peppers.
+ 1 15 oz can of diced tomatoes
+ Drain and rinse the beans.
+ 5 tablespoons of tomato paste
+ Add everything else to the slow cooker. The peppers (red, green,
+ 1 cup of canned organic pumpkin
and jalapeño), crushed tomatoes, diced tomatoes, pumpkin,
cumin, oregano, paprika, chili powder, pepper, and salt.
(not pumpkin pie)
+ 1 15 oz can of kidney beans
+ Cover and cook on high for 4 hours or low for 6-8 hours.
+ 1 15 oz can of black beans
+ When there is 1 hour left to cook, quickly take off the lid and stir.
+ 1 large onion (chopped)
+ 1 large green pepper (chopped)
+ Serve in bowls and add sliced avocado, shredded Mexican cheese,
+ 1 large red pepper (chopped)
+ 1 large jalapeño (sliced)
+ ENJOY!!!
Put cover back on and cook for the remaining hour. and a dollop of sour cream. Serve with tortilla chips on the side.
+ 1 teaspoon cumin + 1 teaspoon oregano + 1 1/2 teaspoon paprika + 1 1/2 teaspoon chili powder + 1/2 teaspoon pepper + 1/4 teaspoon salt + Sour cream + Avocado + Shredded Mexican cheese + Torilla chips
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Annette Norton, owner of Savvy + Grace.
WELL, THAT WAS SUPER FUN! I just created my own Savvy + Grace (S+G) basket. These bad boys became popular around Easter 2020, and now people are gifting baskets for all sorts of occasions - holidays, thank you, get well, corporate gifts, or simply because. If you haven’t been to S+G, it’s sort of a wonderland, an eclectic amalgamation of everything except cars and pet monkeys. There’s Ugg apparel and shoes, cocktail lollipops, bath bombs, Westport-themed items, jewelry at all price points, kate spade stationery, ’70’s concert tees… stop me when you’ve read enough. No other store in our quaint hamlet boasts a range of items as vast as S+G and, according to the owner Annette Norton, the prices are pretty much unbeatable. I know this is true because I googled everything in my basket when I got home (don’t tell Annette). Also, some of the items I couldn’t even find online. Who’s buying these? Everyone. A man came into the store to make an anniversary basket for his wife. He piled it high with everything he thought she would love - jewelry, scented lotion, funny t-shirt - while a chorus of female onlookers cooed “Awww!!!”
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My chosen basket.
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alized baskets for six of her employees. According to Annette, “This past year has made people more personal, we realize that
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life is about people.” For the whisky lover in JetWoman’s employ, Annette included chilling stones, nuts and cheese, and a book about whiskey. A dog lover received a champagne bottle chew toy, dog leash, dog book and… tea. (More than one proclivity? She has you covered.) Annette wistfully recalled working with a beloved Westport resident this past spring, before she succumbed to cancer. She purchased custom baskets for the nurses who cared for her. Annette explains, “We see their life experiences, sometimes joyous, sometimes upsetting. (Customers) share why they’re giving the gift. It’s a tiny slice of their lives in the basket.” If my basket is a slice of my life, it says I lounge, drink, bathe, and like sparkly jewelry. (To reiterate, it’s a slice, not a definition of our entirety.) I chose a cream loungewear set, shearling slippers, rock t-shirt, plaid flannel top, crystal bracelet, fancy soaps, and a drink-in-a-jar. And a sentimental little tray. Annette pointed to a fabulous cashmere sweater, “I’m surprised you didn’t choose this!” To which I modestly replied, “I do! But haha! I can’t choose everything!” Technically I could, because this was only an exercise in
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self-gifting; I wasn’t waltzing out of the store with a basket of freebies. I just didn’t want my slice of life to say “insatiable.” Savvy + Grace 146 Main St, Westport savvyandgracewestport.com
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1 WHEN CAGED BIRDS SING MoCA Westport
NOVEMBER
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Through November, MoCA Westport is honored to announce that When
Caged Birds Sing, a Teaching exhibition created by esteemed Westport, CT-based artist Ann Weiner, has been acquired for its permanent collection.
Weiner is a long-time resident of
FAMILY & MATRIMONIAL LAW
Westport, CT who has had a tremen-
Exceptional representation customized to the unique needs of your family through
MITCH ALBOM CLOSES STORYFEST 2021
• Litigation
special
• Arbitration
author Mitch Albom launching his
dous impact on our artistic community.
The exhibition will be on view at MoCA Westport every 3-5 years and
loaned to other museums and university museums in between.
2 Westport Library
StoryFest 2021 closes with a very in-person
event
featur-
ing New York Times bestselling
• Mediation
newest book, The Stranger in the
• Collaborative Divorce
more than 45 million copies world-
Lifeboat. Albom’s books have sold wide. Tuesdays with Morrie is the best-selling memoir of all time and
We work closely with our clients to guide them through a broad range of complex family matters, with experience you can rely on.
was adapted for the stage and as a television movie which garnered four Emmy Awards. WestportLibrary.org
6 GIRLS IN STEM Westport Library
Girls in grades 6-8 can join us
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to explore a variety of hands-on STEM
projects
with
Staples
High School Senior Molly Lilles. WestportLibrary.org
9 NATIVE ARTIFACTS
Westport Museum for History and Culture
Connecticut has been inhabited for over seven thousand years by Indigenous peoples, who left behind
artifacts
found
centu-
ries later. Hear more about the local Paugussett tribe and stone pieces found throughout Westport dating back thousands of years. Tuesday Treasures is a Westport Museum
programming
series
showcasing objects from the collection not normally on public view. WestportHistory.org
13 ALL TOGETHER NOW A NEW MUSICAL
Coleytown Middle School
Coleytown Company is thrilled to announce its new musical ALL TOGETHER NOW. This once in a lifetime event will provide a performance experience for the 7th and 8th grade students alongside
ten
amazing
Broadway performers.
21 PEQUOT ANNUAL 5K THANKSGIVING TURKEY TROT
Pequot annual 5k Thanksgiving Turkey Trot! Run any time between November 21-29 or run with us on Thanksgiving morning! This is a virtual event, so y run the 5K wherever you like. All funds raised go to Experience Camps, a nonprofit organization which provides free one-week camps for boys and girls who have experienced the death of a parent, sibling, or primary caregiver. PequotRunners.org CONTINUED >
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22 LET’S MAKE DUMPLINGS! Westport Library
For novice and seasoned cooks, Let’s
Make Dumplings! gives guidance on
folding styles and fillings from across Asia, as well as dumpling lore. This cookbook captures the deep level of
connection that dumplings bring to any gathering and shows you how
to create them in your own home. WestportLibrary.org
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MOCA WESTPORT AND BLOSSOM + STEM THANKSGIVING FLORAL ARRANGING WORKSHOP MoCa Westport
Learn to make your own beautiful
Thanksgiving floral centerpiece with Michele from Blossom + Stem! blossomstem.com mocawestport.org
23 BRADLEY-WHEELER HOUSE PAINTINGS Westport Museum for History and Culture
Through the years many artists have chosen to make Westport their home. Many of these artists – both professional and hobbyist – have used the Bradley-Wheeler house as inspiration. Join us in an exploration of the various depictions of this recognizable
downtown
building
which houses the museum’s headquarters. WestportHistory.org
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WE ARE ACCEPTING REGISTR ATIONS FOR OUR 2021 - 2022 CHILDREN’S PROGR AM. DANCE IN A SAFE ENVIRONMENT WITH THE BEST DANCE TEACHERS.
Open to Adults, Kids and Tots in Group Classes, Private Lessons, Livestream Classes Available Director Enrique Alarcon | (203) 341-8900 | 222 Post Rd. West VTheDanceCollective | thedancecollectivect.com | Bring a friend and we will wave your registration fee.
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FOOD & WINE
BOURBON HONEY GLAZED TURKEY INGREDIENTS + 1 turkey + 3 celery stalks + 3 apples + 3 carrots + 12 garlic cloves + 1/2 white onion + 10 thyme sprigs + salt + pepper + bourbon glaze (recipe below)
DIRECTIONS Dry brine turkey with coarse salt (1 teaspoon per pound). Set overnight in fridge. Preheat oven to 425 degrees. Slice apples, celery, and carrots. Place 3/4 of them along with 3/4 of the garlic cloves in the bottom of the roasting pan. Place turkey in roasting pan breast side up. Add remaining vegetables and fruit to the turkey cavity. Sprinkle thyme sprigs in the bottom of the roasting pan and in the cavity. Pepper the turkey well. Tuck wing tips underneath body of turkey. Tie legs together with kitchen twine. Pour the honey bourbon glaze over the turkey. Place in the oven and cook for 30 minutes at 425. Then turn oven to 350 degrees. Baste turkey every 20 minutes. Once turkey has reached perfect browning levels, tent with foil, being careful to avoid the skin. The turkey is finished when the internal temperatures from a thick piece reaches 165 (1520 minutes per pound). Remove foil and rest for 30 minutes before carving. Serve bourbon and butter smothered apples and veggies as a side. Glaze + 1 stick butter + 1/2 cup brown sugar + 1/2 cup honey + 1/2 cup bourbon Melt butter in saucepan. Whisk bourbon, honey, and brown sugar until combined. Keep warm to glaze the turkey. 70
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