Tulsa, OK September 2023

September 2023 - Style

Dear Reader,

I hope this letter finds you in high spirits and full of creative energy.

Today, I want to take a moment to celebrate and explore the fascinating world of style. Style is not limited to the clothes we wear or the way we adorn ourselves; it encompasses every aspect of our lives. From the way we decorate our homes to the music we listen to, from the books we read to the way we carry ourselves in conversations, style permeates every facet of our existence. It is the thread that weaves together the tapestry of our lives.

Style is deeply personal. And it evolves as we celebrate our quirks, our passions, and our desires. Style is a form of self-expression that communicates who we are, how we perceive the world and what we value. In this way, style becomes a powerful tool for connection, as it enables us to find common ground with others who share our aesthetic sensibilities.

As individuals, we have the freedom to embrace established styles, blend them together, or forge entirely new paths, becoming trendsetters ourselves. We hope this issue inspires you to forge new paths or perhaps explore familiar ones. There is so much here in Tulsa to uplift our spirits, boost your productivity and ignite your creativity.

What I’ve found is that the best style is an authentic expression of who you really are. And that’s something no one on earth can duplicate.

September 2023

PUBLISHER

Kathy Slemp | kslemp@citylifestyle.com

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Ashley Parrish, Kacie Brown, Heather Knife Chief, Joe Harwell, Tyler O'Donnell, Angela Broockerd

CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS

Tricia Miller, Melton Photography, Carsyn Crater Photography, Janie Jones

Corporate Team

CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER Steven Schowengerdt

CHIEF OPERATING OFFICER Matthew Perry

VICE PRESIDENT OF SALES Tiffany Slowinski

EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF HR Janeane Thompson

DIRECTOR OF FIRST IMPRESSIONS Jennifer Robinson

TECHNICAL DIRECTOR Josh Klein

KATHY SLEMP, PUBLISHER

@TULSACITYLIFESTYLE

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AD DESIGNER Evan Deuvall

LAYOUT DESIGNER Rhiannon Coffman

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Tracing separate property or assets in a divorce can be an important issue for lots of individuals. Take a situation where somebody has a 401k or IRA before marriage. They have put money into this account before marriage.

They then get married. After marriage, they continue to contribute to this 401k or IRA. At this point, pre-marital separate funds and marital funds are being mixed.

The parties then file for divorce. In these situations, the one spouse is often asking that the entire 401k or IRA be divided in the divorce. The spouse who had funds in these accounts before marriage argues that the pre-marital por-

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The Importance of Tracing Assets in a Divorce Case

tion should be set aside to them entirely. And they argue that only the funds put in during the marriage should be divided through the divorce.

The reality, however, is that the separate funds need to be traced out from the account. This often requires a forensic accountant reviewing statements and doing an analysis to determine the amount that was in these accounts during the marriage.

At a minimum, parties may need to subpoena the statements from the date of the marriage to try to determine the amount that was in there. However, it can often be hard to obtain statements at the exact date of the marriage.

In addition to 401ks or IRAs, tracing can be important for other assets like bank

accounts, investment accounts, whole life insurance policies, and other assets where a party might have built up cash value before marriage. In some instances, a party might consider having a prenuptial agreement drafted before getting married.

Stange Law Firm, PC limits their practice to family law matters including divorce, child custody, child support, paternity, guardianship, adoption, mediation, collaborative law, estate planning and other domestic relation matters.

Stange Law Firm, PC gives clients 24/7 access to their case through a secured online case tracker found on the website. They also give their clients their cell phone numbers. Call for a consultation today at 855-8050595.

Photography by Tulsa Hills Wine Cellar

1: Tulsa Hills Wine Cellar’s Spirits Specialist Nick Gartelos presented Introduction to Gin on July 20th. 2: Lindsey Fansler with an Aviation Cocktail. 3: Participants learned the basics of gin and tasted examples of various styles and classic cocktails.

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A round-up of exciting news from local businesses.

Aces for Alzheimer's tennis mixer

Registration is open for the annual Aces for Alzheimer’s tennis mixer on Sunday, September 10 from 1 to 4 p.m. at Philcrest Hills Tennis Club. Join the fun on the court or cheer on your friends from the stands. The afternoon includes 2 tennis rounds, a Pro v. Amateur match, and amazing raffle prizes. Proceeds from the mixer benefit the Alzheimer’s Association. Register online at aces4alz.org . Contact Karly McNeill at knmcneill@alz.org with questions regarding registration, donations, and/or sponsorships.

Maple Ridge Neighborhood Association Home and Garden Tour

After taking a break last year, the Maple Ridge Neighborhood Association Home and Garden Tour will happen on Sunday, October 1st from 12:30 - 4:30 p.m. Tickets will be available for purchase on the Maple Ridge website  mapleridgeneighborhood.com and at the homes on the day of the tour. The proceeds from the tour benefit the Maple Ridge Neighbors’ beautification projects such as shared green spaces and islands in the district. Visit the website for locations and details.

Resonance Center for Women Announces Aces for Stacked Deck 2023: Clue

Aces are community leaders who promote the Stacked Deck annual fundraising event. Proceeds further Resonance’s mission of providing addiction treatment and prison to community re-entry services for Oklahoma women. Event chairs and Aces Casey and Maggie Robinson announced Aces for this year: Candice Doctor, Vance Victor, and Austin and Cassidy Siegenthaler. The event will be held September 28th at the Cox Business Convention Center. For sponsorships and tickets visit resonancetulsa.org or call 918.587.3888. Photo: Casey and Maggie Robinson. Scan

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Candlelight Concerts in Tulsa

Enjoy concerts illuminated by candlelight and performed by live musicians. According to the German-American Society of Tulsa, “Candlelight is being held at the German-American Society of Tulsa Event Center. GAST is honored to be the venue for this wonderful event series and hope Tulsa will give the producers of Candlelight a warm welcome to Oklahoma. Candlelight is a very unique and popular musical presentation of various ensembles, soundtracks, and genres.” For tickets and upcoming shows visit www.feverup.com .”

Ladies Night Out: Wine tasting and Wine Glass Painting

Sponsored by Tulsa City Lifestyle, enjoy a night out painting a wine glass to take home! Serving wine and heavy hors d'oeuvres so eat a light dinner.  Learn the craft of dot painting then combine it with a flower theme to create a beautifully designed 19 oz wine glass. Grab a friend and your creativity for a funfilled evening. No experience necessary and all materials are included. 21 to attend.  September 14th 7-10 p.m. Tickets at tulsastainedglass.com

Tulsa Botanic Garden dinner features James Beard Awardwinning Chef

Tulsa Botanic Garden is hosting a dinner on September 21, 2023 with Chef Andrew Black, who was recently named 2023 James Beard Award winner for Best Chef: Southwest.

The dinner held at The Summit Club in Tulsa begins at 6 p.m. with cocktails and a four-course dinner culminating with a talk and Q & A with Chef Black. Tickets are $400 per person. To purchase visit TulsaBotanic.org or call 918.289.0330. Proceeds help support the Botanic Garden, a nonprofit organization.

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SEPTEMBER 2023

local experiences

The

best places and things to do in our area.

Everyone loves a closet refresh and stylish scene, so we’ve rounded up some of our picks for the most sophisticated and fashionable destinations that will have you feeling renewed as well as ready for the camera.

Our Picks for The Style Scene

THE VAULT: Enjoy a meal, drinks, or even a cocktail class at The Vault in downtown Tulsa. Their classic American fare and mid-century modern atmosphere won't disappoint!  620 South Cincinnati Avenue Tulsa, OK

PRC REJUVENATION CENTER: Let PRC Rejuvenation Center rejuvenate you from the inside and the out! They offer aesthetic medicine, allograft therapy, bioidentical hormone replacement therapy, nutrition and rebalance wellness. 5577 S Lewis Ave Tulsa, OK

BIXBY'S CRUISE IN AUTO SPA: Feel good in a clean car. Bixby's Cruise-In Auto Spa offers you the perfect combination of quality, service, value and convenience.  11130 S Memorial Dr Bixby, OK

THE PENTHOUSE ROOFTOP BAR: Enjoy a night out at The Mayo Hotel's The Penthouse Rooftop Bar, where you'll get 360 degree views of downtown Tulsa. 115 W 5th St Ste 100 Tulsa, OK

FARMBAR: Date night or celebration? Go out for a multi-course tasting menu experience at FarmBar, which uses local ingredients to create innovative dishes. 1740 South Boston Avenue Tulsa, OK

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MATCHING FOSTER FAMILIES WITH PETS IN NEED OF SHORT-TERM FOSTER CARE

ARTICLE BY JOE HARWELL

When we need to be away from home for a few days for surgery or other medical treatment, our support system of family and friends takes care of things in our absence. They check our mail, water plants, and most important, care for our beloved pets. Now, imagine needing a few days of medical care and being homeless with a beloved pet. Being homeless is a primary barrier preventing those pet owners from receiving care.

In 2018, Pause4Paws, Inc., a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization, began arranging short-term foster care for pets of Tulsans impacted by homelessness, mental illness, and addiction. The goal is to break down the barriers associated with animal ownership so that people can go inpatient for addiction recovery/detox, mental health treatment, or medical care.

Executive Director Clara Ndiraya started as a Pause4Paws foster three years ago. “We opened our home as a way to give back to the community. As a foster, we care for a pet as if it were our own, providing food, water, exercise, and plenty of TLC.” Last year Pause4Paws interacted with more than 20 agencies referring pet owners needing hospital or treatment center care. Clara said, “So far in 2023, we’ve exceeded all the services provided last year.”

This opens opportunities to help Pause4Paws by attending and sponsoring their 5th annual fundraiser, Trivia for a Cause, coming up Wednesday, October 25th from 5:30 to 8:30 p.m. at the OU Founders Hall, 4502 E. 41st St, Tulsa. Clara said, “We’re hosting a competitive game of Trivia in conjunction with a silent auction and dessert auction. The proceeds helps Pause4Paws facilitate pet foster care for pet owners who have been referred by an approved agency or organization that helps individuals experiencing homelessness, mental illness or addiction receive necessary emergency services that they could not otherwise receive.”

Please call 918-829-9811 to sponsor Trivia for a Cause or visit pause4pawsok.org .

Throughout the years, JONESPLAN has been privileged to help beautify one of America’s best campuses by working on projects throughout the OSU Athletic Village. At the football practice facility, and at the marching band practice area, JONESPLAN meticulously laser-graded for indoor, outdoor, natural, and artificial surfaces. The off-field areas at the baseball facility and soccer surrounds were graded to promote adequate surface drainage, and then finish graded and grassed. Tailgating areas, the tennis center surrounds and additional areas around campus were graded and sodded by JONESPLAN. The team atmosphere developed between JONESPLAN and the OSU facilities management team continues as OSU maintains its status providing some of the best overall athletic facilities in the United States.

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The Language of Clouds

NEW EXHIBIT FEATURES TWO ARTISTS WITH DIFFERENT VIEWS OF THE SKY

ARTICLE BY ASHLEY PARRISH

Anyone who has lived in the Great Plains knows that clouds have a language — at turns angry, peaceful or even whimsical.

How people hear that language is the subject of a new exhibit at Holland Hall’s Holliman Gallery. It is free and open to the public and runs Aug. 25 to Oct. 12.

Cloudscape oil painters David Holland and Marc Barker will feature ten 3-foot by 4-foot canvases — five by each painter — interspersed side by side on the 50-foot feature wall. The artists used the same size canvases and even the same horizon to unify the starkly different ways to interpret “The Language of Clouds.”

David’s work is based on accuracy and realism while Marc’s is based on spontaneous emotion. Both paint in oil, but Marc’s work is in charcoal and sepia tones while David’s is in full color. David works from photographs of storms and works to achieve a realistic representation of them, while Marc creates his clouds in the actual moment he

David Holland - The Source

puts brush to the canvas and knows by his own emotional response to what he sees that he has achieved his final image.

According to the artists: “Clouds speak a language that all of us hear, some hear it softly and some hear it loud and clear. Clouds speak for themselves, no translation necessary. It’s a broad language that transcends all borders, races, sexes and mentalities. Marc and David have been listening closely and have found their own voices in the Language of Clouds.

“Having seen both David and Marc’s work, I was hoping they might be interested in exhibiting their work,” said Holland

Hall Fine Arts Teacher and Holliman Gallery Coordinator Byron Shen. “With the help of my friend, Randy Marks from the Oklahoma City Arts Council, David, Marc and I were able to discuss a possible exhibition. Holland Hall is delighted to display  their artistry and share it with our immediate school and surrounding Tulsa community.”

A free public opening reception for the artists is set for 6-8 p.m. August 31 in the Holliman Gallery of the Walter Art Center, 5666 E. 81st St., Tulsa, OK, 74137. It is open to the public, but you may also RSVP by calling 918-481-1111.

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Transformative Treatment Restores Hope

INSPIRE MED SPA TULSA RELIEVES

SYMPTOMS OF PTSD AND PAIN WITH THE STELLATE GANGLION INJECTION

ARTICLE BY HEATHER KNIFE CHIEF

Living with PTSD or chronic pain can be debilitating – both can have incredibly harmful effects on both physical and emotional well-being. And while many treatment options are available, one innovative and promising procedure is making waves: the Stellate Ganglion Injection. At Inspire Med Spa Tulsa, patients are finding relief and renewed hope through the expert administration of this procedure. The clinic’s experienced physician employs cutting-edge techniques to alleviate a range of symptoms and improve patients' quality of life.

At Inspire Med Spa Tulsa, innovative treatments like the Stellate Ganglion Injection begin with comprehensive, personalized care. Located in Midtown, Inspire Med Spa and its highly skilled, compassionate team of professionals have earned a stellar reputation for high-quality care. Throughout the treatment process, the clinic's friendly and empathetic staff members create a supportive atmosphere, alleviating patient anxiety and fostering open communication. From the moment patients step into the clinic to their post-treatment follow-ups, they receive unwavering support, making the entire process as seamless as possible.

The Stellate Ganglion Injection itself is a specialized procedure involving an injection into the stellate ganglion, a cluster of nerves in the neck. This inhibits the sympathetic nervous system's activity, providing pain relief and therapeutic benefits for certain conditions, including PTSD. The procedure is commonly used to treat conditions such as complex regional pain syndrome (CRPS), postherpetic neuralgia, and vascular disorders that affect the upper extremities.

Inspire Med Spa’s success in administering the Stellate Ganglion Injection is attributable to its highly skilled physician, Dr. Sarah Knife Chief. She is not only well-versed in the medical field’s latest advancements, but also prioritizes patients’ comfort and safety throughout the treatment process. Dr. Knife Chief served as a major in the U. S. Army and sympathizes with the needs of veterans as they navigate struggles like PTSD, anxiety, and depression. Her background as an orthopedic surgeon and army veteran motivated her to expand the medical spa’s services to include Stellate Ganglion Injections.

Every patient's pain experience is unique, and at Inspire Med Spa Tulsa, individualized care plans are the cornerstone of our practice. Before proceeding with any treatment, the team conducts a thorough evaluation of the patient's medical history, pain symptoms, and overall health. This holistic approach ensures that the treatment aligns with each patient’s specific needs.

Testimonials from patients who have undergone the Stellate Ganglion Injection speak volumes about the procedure’s transformative impact. Many have reported significant pain relief, improved function, and a restored sense of hope after years of struggling with chronic pain and PTSD.

Inspire Med Spa Tulsa has emerged as a beacon of hope for individuals burdened with chronic pain, anxiety, and depression. The clinic’s expert administration of the Stellate Ganglion Injection and patient-centered approach are demonstrating that relief is within reach. As the medical community continues to explore this innovative treatment’s potential, Inspire Med Spa Tulsa remains at the forefront, dedicated to transforming lives and helping patients reclaim their quality of life. If you or someone you know is grappling with chronic pain, anxiety, or PTSD, Inspire Med Spa Tulsa might be the answer you've been seeking.

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2651 E 21st Street, Ste #300 918.340.6495

“As a physician who has offered this service for the past six years, I have witnessed life changing results for our patients in all aspects of life including mental health, pain and inflammation.”

- Dr. Sarah Knife Chief

YOUR WEDDING, YOUR WAY!

ARTICLE BY TYLER O'DONNELL

Perched upon a serene hilltop just outside of Tulsa, The Bella Donna Wedding Chapel and Event Center is where dreams become reality. With its classic European styling, vaulted ceilings, exposed wooden beams, wedding ceremonies are always remembered as unique and timeless. The fresh and open reception space will accommodate two hundred guests, and its large windows and spacious patio help bring the

Amanda and Cord’s Boho Chic Bash

beauty of the surroundings into every event. The timeless look of the chapel and reception hall create a fabulous foundation from which each bride can create her own unique day.

AMANDA AND CORD’S BOHO CHIC BASH

This bride spent months creating, building, painting, and assembling the perfect boho chic wedding. Using vintage gold

pieces purchased from thrift stores and secondhand shops, accented with wild flowers, she brought the boho chic theme alive. Each table was designed with a myriad of color and classic decor. Amanda commissioned her florist to create amazing floral baskets that hung from the ceiling in the reception area. The hanging baskets were gorgeous, completing the space perfectly. Boho weddings are unique and can be done at any time of the year

Amanda and Cord’s Boho Chic Bash

by simply changing the florals. This beautiful wedding took place in October and their color scheme consisted of terracotta, pink, oranges, and tans.

VENDOR LIST:

• Venue and Coordination - Bella Donna Wedding Chapel and Event Venue

• DJ - Banks Entertainment

• Food - Yes Chef

• Photography - Tricia Miller

• Videography - Sonder Films

• Floral - The Flower Shop Pryor

• Photo booth - Picture Perfect Mirror Photo

• Caricature - Tulsa Caricature

• Rental chairs - LaVintage

• Photo booth backdrop - Oakie Pine

• Marquee Letters - Alchemy Wedding Design

• Grooms Cake - Karacakes

• Brides Cake - All Things Cake

• Napkins & Table Runners - Telluria

• Table Linens - Party Perfect Event Rentals

• Neon Sign - It’s Lit

• Bartending - Blue Label Bartending

KELSEY AND BROOKS’S GARDEN PARTY

Garden parties are beautiful, but when you combine a garden party and a wedding, you get the perfect storm of elegance and whimsical. You can never go wrong with a spring wedding. All the flowers and plants are blooming and it feels like a breath of fresh air. Having all different colors and types of flowers is the perfect way to bring the garden inside to you and your guests. Spring pastels make the room feel so romantic and fun! That is the beauty of the Bella Donna, you can have an indoor (climate controlled) wedding, without having to cross your fingers that the weather will cooperate. The windows throughout the venue make you feel as if you are outside in the manicured lawn and gardens, without having to deal with or worry about the elements. This bride had perfect weather on her wedding day. She hosted a cocktail hour on the recently extended patio at The Bella Donna, complete with a charming wooden backdrop, surrounded by the beautiful gardens, making the cocktail hour even more special. The reception was light, bright, and romantic, without the worry of the heat or cold, bugs, and humidity! The true perfect garden party: enjoying the beautiful flowers and gardens from a climate controlled space!  The colors for this wedding were varying shades of pinks, oranges, and purples, with light and powder blue, and soft yellows.

Kelsey and Brooks’s Garden Party

“Your wedding ceremony will always be remembered as the first step in your exciting journey ahead as a married couple.”

Kelsey and Brooks’s Garden Party

Kirsten and Hayden’s Black and White Modern Moment

VENDOR LIST:

• Venue and Coordination - Bella Donna Wedding

Chapel and Event Venue

• DJ - Banks Entertainment

• Food - Yes Chef

• Photography - Melton Photography

• Floral - Roots and Blooms

• Brides Cake - All Things Cake

• Table Linens and Napkins - Party Perfect Event Rentals

• Draping - Daniel Weir Designs

• Bartending - Blue Label Bartending

• Neon Sign - It’s Lit

KIRSTEN AND HAYDEN’S BLACK AND WHITE MODERN MOMENT

Clean, classic, modern. This wedding was the perfect balance of black and white, with touches of green in the florals. A black and white color scheme for a wedding can be done at any time of year. Kirsten’s December wedding was accented with varying shades of greenery. Greenery

walls were used behind the cake table and as a photo backdrop for their guests. The walls added the perfect amount of natural color to the room. Brides can enhance the reception space to make it new with simple touches of color, while leaning into the classic and timeless modern elegance of the room. Each wedding is unique to the bride’s individual style. The natural beauty of the venue makes every event unforgettable, while the bride’s own special look is perfected on the timeless canvas that is the Bella Donna.

VENDOR LIST:

• Venue and Coordination - Bella Donna Wedding

Chapel and Event Venue

• DJ - Banks Entertainment

• Food - Yes Chef

• Photography - Carsyn Crater Photography

• Floral - Bayly Blooms

• Exit Car - Tulsa Wedding Car

• Brides Cake - All Things Cake

Kirsten and Hayden’s Black and White Modern Moment

• Table Linens and Napkins - Party Perfect Event Rentals

• Draping - Daniel Weir Designs

• Neon Sign - It’s Lit

• Bartending - Blue Label Bartending

• Valet Service - Royal Valet

Your wedding ceremony will always be remembered as the first step in your exciting journey ahead as a married couple.  Take that first step in the elegant, timeless setting of the Bella Donna Chapel. Being able to utilize the outdoor and indoor space, the manicured lawn and gardens, and the almost twenty acres of property will make your day even better. Being located on a hill, surrounded by greenery, you feel as though you have traveled far away for a destination wedding, when you are actually 15 minutes, at most, from whatever you want or need. Have your dream destination wedding just down the road.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR:

Tyler O’Donnell is the General Manager and Day of Coordinator for all of the events at The Bella Donna Wedding Chapel and Event Center. Tyler has coordinated almost 200 weddings and events over the past three years. Your perfect day happens at The Bella Donna!

Amanda and Cord’s Boho Chic Bash

Amanda and Cord’s Boho Chic Bash

SEPTEMBER 2023

events

A curated selection of the most intriguing upcoming events in our area.

SEPTEMBER 7TH & 21ST

Wine tasting Tulsa Hills Wine Cellar

7422 S OLYMPIA AVE, TULSA

Tulsa Hills Wine Cellar hosts a variety of free product tastings each month. In September, wine tastings are scheduled for September 7th and 21st. Visit tulsahillswinecellar.com to sign up for the mailing list and be the first to learn about tastings and events.

SEPTEMBER

7TH, 14TH, 21ST & 28TH

Children's Storytime at Tulsa Toy Depot

10114 S. SHERIDAN RD TULSA, OK 74133 | 11:00 AM

This is a popular Children's Storytime with Miss Carol Meyer, Tulsa's finest kids entertainer.  Carol leads the kids in music and story telling each week for 30 minutes of great active fun for the little ones. tulsatoydepot.com

SEPTEMBER 9TH SEPTEMBER 14TH SEPTEMBER 15THOCTOBER 1ST

FC Tulsa vs Phoenix Rising FC

ONEOK FIELD, 201 N ELGIN AVE, TULSA, OK 74120 | 7:30 PM

Watch one of Tulsa's newest sports teams take on Phoenix Rising at ONEOK Field on Saturday, September 9.

FC Tulsa is Tulsa's professional soccer club, a member of the USL Championship.Get tickets at fctulsa.com

Tulsa Hills Cigar Cellar & Market hosts Drew Estates Cigars

7420 S OLYMPIA AVE, TULSA

On Thursday, September 14th, Tulsa Hills Cigar Cellar & Market is hosting Drew Estates Cigars for an outdoor smoking event. They will offer deals and giveaways on Drew Estates products. They will also be pouring spirits samples for event goers. Follow @tulsahillscigar on social media for more information.

Theatre Tulsa presents Beautiful

TULSA PAC, 110 E 2ND ST, TULSA, OK 74103 | 8:00 PM

Witness the true story of Carole King's remarkable transformation from a young musical talent to a legendary rock hit-maker at the Tulsa PAC this month. Find showtimes and purchase tickets at tulsapac.com

Chamber Music Tulsa presents Junction Trio

16TH - 17TH

TULSA PAC, 110 E 2ND ST, TULSA, OK 74103 | 7:30 PM

See Junction Trio, a piano trio whose members include violinist Stefan Jackiw, pianist Conrad Tao, and cellist Jay Campbell, perform a dynamic program of works by Robert Schumann, Carlo Gesualdo, and more. Saturday's concert at 7:30 p.m. will be held at Westby Pavilion, and Sunday's concert at 3 p.m. will be at Williams Theatre. Buy tickets at chambermusictulsa.org

SEPTEMBER 16TH - 17TH

The German American Society of Tulsa presents ARTFEST

GAST EVENT CENTER, 1429 TERRACE DRIVE, TULSA, OK

GAST's newest public event will feature an art show and sale with 15 unique artists from around Tulsa. Wine and light snacks will be available to purchase and there will be a silent auction. Anticipated dates are September 16 & 17 so visit gastulsa.org/artfest for more information.

SEPTEMBER 16TH

WOOFSTOCK 2023

JENKS RIVERWALK, 300 RIVERWALK TERRACE, JENKS, OK | 10:00 AM

Oklahoma’s largest and grooviest pet adoption event is a fun-filled day of  Peace, Love, and Pets!  Attendees are invited to bring their own pets* to enjoy a day in the park filled with fun activities, music, food in a pet friendly atmosphere, but most importantly to adopt homeless pets from area animal rescues and shelters. Visit animalallianceok.org for more information.

SEPTEMBER 21ST - 23RD

Tulsa Greek Festival

1222 S GUTHRIE AVE TULSA, OK 74119 | 10:00 AM

Celebrate Greece's rich cultural heritage at the Tulsa Greek Festival from September 21 - 23. Visit the event for live music, dancing, and lots of traditional food! Find out more at tulsagreekfestival.com .

SEPTEMBER 26TH - OCTOBER 1ST

Celebrity Attractions brings Disney's Aladdin to the Tulsa PAC

TULSA PAC, 110 E 2ND ST, TULSA, OK 74103 | 7:30 PM

From the producer of The Lion King comes the timeless story of Aladdin, a thrilling new production filled with unforgettable beauty, magic, comedy and breathtaking spectacle. It’s an extraordinary theatrical event where one lamp and three wishes make the possibilities infinite. Find showtimes and purchase tickets at tulsapac.com

SEPTEMBER 28TH - OCTOBER 1ST

Disney On Ice presents Frozen and Encanto

EXPO SQUARE PAVILION, 4145 E 21ST ST, TULSA, OK 74114 | 7:00 PM

Two Disney favorites come to Tulsa this year in a magical and unforgettable experience for audiences of all ages. This mesmerizing adventure on ice promises to captivate audiences as they sing along to their favorite songs and witness world-class ice skating, awe-inspiring aerial acrobatics, and more. Find showtimes and buy tickets at disneyonice.com

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THE little BLACK DRESS

Most of us can say we have that one staple black dress that can be worn at any occasion, and the classic look is not only popular but is elegant and timeless. It is one of the most versatile items we own, never goes out of style and looks good on anyone. But how did this classic look originate?

Prior to the 1920’s, black was reserved for funeral wear, but when Coco Channel made the bold move to print a short, black dress on the cover of Vogue in 1926, all of that changed. The popularity of the black dress skyrocketed, and it became one of the most influential pieces of clothing. Because of its affordability, black remained a popular choice during The Great Depression. The black dress had another boom in popularity when “Breakfast at Tiffany’s’’ debuted, and Audrey Hepburn showcased her iconic black dress with long, black gloves.

We enlisted the help of stylist, Amani Skalacki, to show us how versatile the little black dress can be. “We usually think of the little black dress as a piece you wear to an event. However, because black is so flattering on all body types and skin tones, women have multiple black dresses from casual to evening,” Amani says.

“A sequin dress can be dressed up with heels, or that same dress can be transformed into a casual outfit with the addition of tennis shoes and an oversized blazer or a denim jacket. Transform that strappy dress you have been wearing all summer into an outfit that is perfect for chilly fall temperatures. Add a narrow scarf, a leather jacket and sandals or a tall pointy boot, and you have a whole new look for an evening out,” Amani adds.

If you have a dress in the back of your closet that you haven’t worn in years, don’t be afraid to dust it off and give it new life.

Are you looking for the best cut or style of dress that works best for your body type?

HOURGLASS FIGURE:

• V-necklines

• Cinched-in waistlines

• Tailored/fitted dresses

PEAR OR TRIANGLE

FIGURE:

• Tailored dresses

• Off the shoulder

ATHLETIC FIGURE:

• Embellished

• Ruffles

• Empire waist

• Volume is your friend

APPLE FIGURE:

• Drop waist

• A-line

The dress that all body types can’t go wrong with is a wrap dress of any length.

ARTICLE BY ANGELA BROOCKERD PHOTOGRAPHY BY JANIE JONES

STYLIST: AMANI SKALACKI

I’m a teacher at Holland Hall and an alumna.

What makes a Holland Hall teacher? Someone who is passionate, who is a master at their area of study and who cares deeply about forming relationships and learning about kids.”

— Tyne Shillingford ’03 Upper School Fine Arts Department Chair

Holland Hall, Holland Hall, Tulsa’s PreK-12th grade independent Episcopal school, offers a rigorous academic curriculum, but also more than 30 arts classes, state championship athletic teams and faculty members who have time to know your child. Ask about a private tour and tuition assistance.