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Kids & Pets

EXPLORE the possibilities Private tours offered by appointment Monday-Friday from 3:30-4:30 p.m.

For virtual campus tours and more information about admission or tuition assistance, call 918-879-4755.

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Kids + Pets THIS ISSUE IS DEDICATED TO SOME OF OUR CUTEST RESIDENTS.

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We’ve highlighted some wonderful Tulsa area students and their pets. You’ll be reading about future leaders, artists, writers, dancers, chefs, world travelers, engineers, entrepreneurs, actors, food critics and animal lovers! These kids are amazing.

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We’ve also rounded up some learning supplements, back to school gift ideas, and the perfect places for pets and kids to hang out.

If there’s one thing we’ve learned from living in Tulsa it’s that we sure do love our pets! This issue highlights a new pet rescue that is making a positive difference for all of the Tulsa metro area.

As summer winds down and we prepare for another school year ahead, we remind you to take the time and enjoy some quality time with your kids—and pets—this month.

As always, thanks for reading, and we’ll see you around town!

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INSIDE THE ISSUE AUGUST 2021

FEATURES 14 Holland Hall at 100 Exploring the Tulsa school’s century of excellence

20 Time For Play Pets and Hobbies Provide Entertainment and Enrichment for Kids

26 Passion and Compassion For Saving Pets Placing animals in loving homes

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30 Keeping Our Kids Healthy Answering parents’ most common questions about dental and vision care

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Lifestyle Letter

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Around Town

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Local Experiences

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Hot Spot

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Times Past

26 Animal Kingdom 30 Healthy Lifestyle 32 Culinary Creations

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Does It Matter How Property is Titled in Divorce?

Many individuals wonder whether it matters how property is titled in a divorce. In other words, some theorize that if an asset is in their individual name, it might mean that they will receive this asset in a divorce.

It could be a variety of property or assets. Some might try to title a bank account in their own name. Others might purchase a vehicle and put it in their own name. In other cases, an individual might set up an investment account that only has their name on it, but not their spouse. The possibilities can be infinite.

When a divorce takes place, many think the asset will be given to them by the court because it is not jointly titled with their spouse. A common question for many is whether this is accurate or not.

The reality is that how property is titled in a divorce is normally not that important. Instead, in states where equitable jurisdiction is controlling, courts look to when the property or asset was acquired.

If the property is acquired during the marriage, it is normally labeled marital property. However, if the property was acquired before marriage, it is presumed to be separate property.

Courts then have to divide marital property in a just matter when consider-

ing all the factors. The factors can vary by state, but they can include different criteria. This includes contribution of each party, the length of the marriage, the education and work history of the parties, the conduct of the parties in some states, and a litany of other factors.

In terms of the titling of the assets, it is truly not that important. If the asset is in one spouse’s name, it does not matter if the asset was acquired during the marriage. A party cannot purchase property or buy an asset with marital funds and assume that the asset will be allocated to them in a divorce.

A prenuptial agreement is something to consider for those who have substantial property or assets prior to marriage. To ensure they receive it in the divorce, they must agree to it beforehand.

Through a prenuptial agreement, the parties can agree to have property or assets set aside to them in the future.

It is vital to draft the prenuptial agreement appropriately and that both parties have independent counsel. Other important criteria are that there needs to be full and fair disclosure and that there be no duress or undue influence.

Even after the marriage, parties could enter into a postnuptial agreement to denote who would get what property or assets in the case of divorce. That said, parties sometimes have little incentive to do this after the marriage.

One potential exception is where a party receives inheritance or gifts during the marriage. Inheritance or gifts are generally viewed as separate property in a divorce.

Thus, if parties place inheritance or gifts in a separate account away from other marital property or debt, doing so makes sense. Otherwise, there can be a risk that the separate property is commingled with other marital funds or property. When this happens, it can convert separate property into marital property.

For this reason, parties who receive inheritance or gifts should speak to an attorney if they want to ensure that it remains their separate property. It often makes sense before they receive the inheritance or gift to ensure it is handled appropriately. A separate account in this instance may make sense for liquid assets.

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Carnivale supports one of the most important causes in town, the fight to end homelessness, especially for our veterans. The work of the Association continues to make strides to provide housing, educate the public and remove the stigmas of mental illness. All Carnivale proceeds benefit Mental Health Association Oklahoma.

Show your support on Saturday, September 18, 2021. Event chairs are Tina Parkhill and Frauke Petersen and the event is Flapper Black Tie Attire.

Visit BestPartyInTown.org for tickets.

ROOSTER DAYS Rooster Days is the oldest festival in Oklahoma.

Returning for its 90th year, Rooster Days will be held September 2-5, 2021, at Central Park in Broken Arrow. There is something for everyone including live entertainment, Rooster Days Parade, carnival food, wine garden, carnival rides and more.

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THE CENTER FOR INDIVIDUALS WITH PHYSICAL CHALLENGES PRESENTS INSPIRE! CELEBRATING DISABILITY INCLUSION Join The Center for Individuals with Physical Challenges on Saturday, August 21, 2021 for Inspire! Celebrating Disability Inclusion in Legacy Hall at the Cox Business Convention Center in downtown Tulsa.

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Chaired by Tiffany Bjorlie & Eric Hilaire, the event will commence with a reception in the newly-renovated second-story foyer and outdoor deck followed by dinner, live music by Zodiac, and dancing. In addition, visit InspireCelebration.org for tickets.

EMERGENCY INFANT SERVICES PRESENTS KALEIDOSCOPE BALL The Kaleidoscope Ball raises over 25% of EIS’s annual budget and has a reputation for being the perfect blend of fun and fundraising! This year’s event, with a Starlight Starbright theme, will be held September 10, 2021, at the Cox Business Center. Join them for a night of color and excitement to help EIS in its mission to serve the needs of children and their families in the Tulsa community. Last fiscal year they provided basic needs to more than 17,000 children. To sponsor or purchase tickets visit EISKBall.org.

MARCELLO ANGELINI’S SILVER CELEBRATION Celebrate the 25th Anniversary of Marcello Angelini’s role at the helm of Tulsa Ballet. Featuring one-night-only performances from some of your favorite dancers from the last quarter-century, you won’t want to miss this exclusive celebration of one of Tulsa’s artistic leaders. The event will be held at the Tulsa Club Hotel on August 22, 2021, at 6 p.m.

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LOCAL EXPERIENCES

KIDS + PETS WHILE IT’S NOT OVER YET, SUMMER IS SOON COMING TO AN END AND WHAT BETTER WAY TO BID ADIEU THAN TO SPEND TIME WITH FRIENDS, FAMILY, AND OUR FAVORITE FOUR-LEGGED FRIENDS! Embrace the end of the season by gathering the kids, dogs, and adults alike for some indoor and outdoor recreation and exploration, pet-friendly destinations that embrace our furry friends, and our end of summer event’s you won’t want to miss.

END-OF-SUMMER HURRAH

Tulsa Drillers Baseball

+ The Tulsa Farmer's Market is a summer staple for local foods. Visit before it ends in the fall!

1 South Lewis Avenue Tulsa, OK + It's changed over the years, but Safari Joe’s H20 Water Park is a summer hotspot in Tulsa. There's something for everyone!

4707 E 21st St Tulsa, OK + Watch a Tulsa Drillers game before baseball season ends at the family-friendly Oneok Field.

201 N Elgin Ave Tulsa, OK + Redbud Valley Nature Preserve is a hidden gem just east of Tulsa.

Enjoy their trails through rocky, forested scenery.

16150 Redbud Dr Catoosa, OK + Stop by Guthrie Green on a Wednesday for a food truck lunch and live music between 11:30 and 1:30.

111 East Reconciliation Way Tulsa, OK

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KIDS AT PLAY

Tulsa Botanic Garden

+ There's something for every family at the Philbrook Museum of Art: Little Garden Explorers, Storytime in the Garden, Sprinkler Saturdays, not to mention the museum itself.

2727 S Rockford Rd Tulsa, OK + Check out Tulsa Children’s Museum Discovery Lab for an educational experience your kids won't dread. It's a hands-on, multidisciplinary experience for kids and families.

560 North Maybelle Avenue Tulsa, OK + The Woody Guthrie Center is free for kids 17 and under. You can view the folk legend's guitar and handwritten "This Land is Your Land" lyrics.

102 E Brady St Tulsa, OK + At the Tulsa Botanic Garden's Children's Discovery Garden, kids can hide out in a tree fort, explore a hollow, 15-foot stone face and more.

3900 Tulsa Botanic Dr Tulsa, OK

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+ The Tulsa City County Library offers activities like storytime, craft clubs and classes on a variety of topics for kids of all ages.

4329 S Peoria Ave Ste 320 Tulsa, OK

PET-FRIENDLY EXPERIENCES

Biscuit Acres Dog Park

+ The scenic trails at Turkey Mountain Urban Wilderness are a great place to enjoy the outdoors with your pets.

6800 South Elwood Avenue Tulsa, OK + Roosevelt’s is a popular Tulsa restaurant that allows dogs on their patio!

1551 E 15th St Tulsa, OK + The Biscuit Acres Dog Park in south Tulsa is part of Hunter Park, with two separate areas: one for large dogs and one for small ones.

5804 East 91st Street Tulsa, OK + You and your dog can both escape the heat at Heirloom Rustic Ales.

The brewery allows dogs inside!

2113 E Admiral Blvd Tulsa, OK + Leashed pets are welcome at Ray Harral Nature Park, a beautiful, forested area in south Broken Arrow.

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HOT SPOT AN ESSENTIAL STRATEGY FOR LEARNING

PLAY BUILDS THE FOUNDATION FOR

PANDA’S PICNIC IN THE PARK, 2+

A LIFETIME OF LEARNING. According

Kids

to LegoFoundation.com “children learn

turn-taking, gross and fine-motor skills

best through play. It's how they learn to

and vocabulary as they play.

practice

colors

and

shapes,

understand the world and deal with life’s

// play

challenges. It helps develop important life

GEOMETRIC FISHES MAGNETIC

skills, from reading, writing and numeracy

FISHING GAME, 3+

through to problem-solving, resilience,

Development of imagination, spatial think-

testing ideas and interacting with others.

ing, fine motor skills, geometric shapes.

Play also brings families together, giving parents and children the chance to learn,

ZINGO! WORD BUILDER, K-2

grow and have fun together.”

Improves reading skills, enhances letter

“In play, children develop a lasting dis-

sounds, phonics skills, spelling, word rec-

position to learn.”—ChildrensMuseums.

ognition and logic. Builds vocabulary and

org. Playing games with rules allow chil-

teaches spelling patterns.

dren to explain, question and negotiate

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the rules. Playing with adults offers a child

THE STORYMATIC KIDS, 5+

more mature and varied forms of play.

Ideal for early writers and readers,

We stopped by Tulsa Toy Depot at 101st

parents who need some fresh bedtime

and Sheridan and asked which games

stories, and teachers who want to nur-

were popular for learning and family fun.

ture creativity.

ARTICLE AND PHOTOGRAPHY

KATHY SLEMP

The Power of Play

FIVE CROWNS CARD GAME, 8+

Helps with sentence structure, figurative

Family fun! An addictive rummy-style

language, conversational skills, sequen-

card game that provides great interaction

tial thinking, memory recall, and fosters

for kids and adults!

imagination and empathy.

SLAPZI, 8+

STORYMATIC REMEMORY, 13+

Family fun! This game is all about

Family fun! Rememory helps you access

speed. Develops dexterity, quick think-

stories you already have— your mem-

ing and interaction.

ories and is a great tool for developing characters and exploring backstory. The

THE SCRAMBLED STATES OF AMER-

perfect family reunion game or to use for

ICA™ GAME - DELUXE EDITION, 8+

interviewing family members.

The whimsical, mad-dashing geography game that reinforces geography, hand-eye coordination and visual discrimination.

PUPPETS, 5+ Family nation,

fun!

Stimulates

creativity

and

imagi-

emotional

CAT STAX & DOG PILE, 10+

development, improves motor skills,

The purrrrfect logic or tail wagging

teaches etiquette, boosts confidence

game! Encourages spatial reasoning,

in speaking and reading skills, and

logic, critical thinking, problem-solving

increases group participation.

and creativity. Multiple levels of difficulty.

Additional

resources

for

learning

STORYMATIC SYNAPSIS, 10+

through

Ready for a challenge? A conversational,

Education.org, EducationWorld.com,

improvisational way to create stories.

ExchangeFamilyCenter.org, IXL.com.

play CenterForParenting

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Holland Hall Walter Arts Center

Holland Hall at 100

ARTICLE KACIE BROWN

EXPLORING THE TULSA SCHOOL’S CENTURY OF EXCELLENCE

TIMES PAST

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“ULTIMATELY, OUR RESPONSIBILITY IS TO HELP CHILDREN DEVELOP GOOD HEARTS, BUT ALSO LEARN HOW TO USE THEIR MINDS WELL TO SHARE THEIR LIGHT IN THE WORLD.” HOLLAND HALL STUDENTS HAVE A SPECIAL BIRTHDAY TO CELEBRATE THIS SCHOOL YEAR: THEIR SCHOOL’S. Founded

“Interestingly enough, Winnifred was of Dutch ancestry, so they named the school Holland Hall in her honor,” Culley says.

in Tulsa in 1922, Holland Hall has educated a century’s worth of stu-

A 1924 school catalog describes Holland Hall’s timeless mission, stat-

dents. And while the teachers, the technology, and the times have

ing “Holland Hall entered the educational field with a distinct mission,

changed, the core of its mission hasn’t.

that of placing a fully equipped college preparatory school of the highest

Holland Hall, which sits on 162 acres, made its goals clear from the

standing, where each student may receive individual attention, within the

start. Head of School JP Culley says ten prominent Tulsans, looking

reach of any citizen in Tulsa. It aims not only to prepare students to enter

to found a school that prepared students for the finest universities,

the highest instructions of the country but also to be useful members of

recruited Minnesota educator Winnifred Schureman to lead the school.

society. It stands distinctly for the highest educational standards.”

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“WE REALLY VALUE THE RELATIONSHIPS THAT WE DEVELOP WITH FAMILIES, AND I THINK THAT’S REALLY WHAT MAKES HOLLAND HALL UNIQUE,” WHITE SAYS.

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Culley says 1959 was an important inflection point in Holland Hall’s history. The year marked a return to co-educational enrollment and welcomed the school’s affiliation with the Episcopal church, both exemplifying Holland Hall’s commitment to inclusivity.

“We believe every child who attends Holland Hall is a child of God, no matter where they are in their spiritual journey.

As a mission of the church, we believe that having students from all different kinds of faith traditions, or no traditions at all,

1922: Holland Hall Founded in Tulsa

1959:

Return to Co-Ed Episcopal affiliation

is really important in deepening your own faith and your understanding of other faith traditions and other people,” Culley says.

He says their religious affiliation also complements their

1970:

Upper School relocated from downtown Tulsa to current campus.

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educational goals.

“Ultimately, our responsibility is to help children develop good hearts, but also learn how to use their minds well to share their light in the world.”

Middle School Head Jennifer White has experienced Holland Hall from three different angles. She’s a parent, an administrator, and a former student herself. She says even as a teenager after she graduated, she felt confident that she wanted a career at the school because of its positive impact on her and the community. She’s not the only one. She says alumni involvement within the school stands out.

Many alumni serve on boards, work as faculty members, and support their children and grandchildren as they attend at Holland Hall.

“It’s clearly a place that attracts people who value education and makes them want to come back,” White says.

In the future, Culley says he sees Holland Hall continuing to expand their efforts to educate and support students on their mental health and well-being. He says beyond academics, Holland Hall greatly prioritizes instilling a sense of resilience in students from a young age, especially in the midst of increasing levels of anxiety and depression among young generations.

Reflecting on time spent in every morning in the Upper School Commons, White says despite changes through the years, Holland Hall’s commitment to fostering deep community ties will always remain strong.

“We really value the relationships that we develop with families, and I think that’s really what makes Holland Hall unique,” White says.

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PETS AND HOBBIES PROVIDE ENTERTAINMENT AND ENRICHMENT FOR KIDS

CHARIS TOBLER MOM AND DAD, OMARE AND SHON JIMMERSON Festivals like Juneteenth make Tulsa a fun place to be, said 12-year-old Charis Tobler. She’s a fan of cultural celebrations. Her favorite class in school is Social Studies. An activity that brings people together, like playing Roblox with her friends, is always a good time.

“I get to dress up and play different games, and I like to move around. I really enjoy dancing.”

Charis would like to be an interior designer one day.

She follows Mina Starsiak on HGTV. Although Charis has no plans to claim the spotlight, her mom, Omare Jimmerson, says Charis lights up when performing in front of a crowd.

The Mexican restaurant Chuy’s is among Charis’ top choices when dining out. Their chips are made fresh, she noted, and “the creamy jalapeno sauce with their salsa is the best.” In the home-cooking arena, it’s hard to beat her dad’s hash-brown casserole, she said.

Taking walks and playing with her two dogs, Man and Justice, are among Charis’ favorite pastimes. “I also like to cuddle with them when I can,” she added.

Man, her 13-year-old Rat Terrier, is older than Charis, and as energetic. “Our floors are a little slick, and sometimes when he’s running full-speed and tries to stop, he slides across the floor. One time he slid right under the rug in our living room!” Says her mom, “Charis is really sweet and thoughtful when it comes to other people’s feelings and caring for animals.”

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Time F o r P l ay

J U L I A N TA L M O N MOM AND DAD, KIMBERLY BUTLER AND JOCHEN TALMON There aren’t many kids who can tell tales of fishing for piranha in the Amazon and swimming with penguins off the Galapagos Islands. At age 13, Julian Talmon is a seasoned traveler. “I caught two piranhas, including one red-bellied piranha,” recounted Julian of his recent adventure. “We caught them using a stick with a string and a hook with beef.

Don’t worry, we released all the fish.”

Julian’s family has two dogs, a cat, and a nine-yearold frog. “Murray is my dog, though,” explained Julian.

“We rescued him from the SPCA. He’s half-American Staffordshire and half Great Pyrenees. He takes up my whole bed when we sleep at night.” Added Julian, “My giant dog is scared of cicadas. When he sees one on the ground, he barks incessantly at it. We have taken videos of him trying to scare them away. It is hilarious.

He is so brave, except when he sees a cicada.”

One of Julian’s favorite meals is the vegan chicken sandwich at Mother Road Market’s Chicken and the Wolf, and he also enjoys Que Gusto, located in the Tulsa Arts District.

At school, Julian likes his geography and science classes best, which align with his goal to become and aeronautical engineer. Buzz Aldrin stands out for Julian as someone to emulate. “I would like to be on ground assisting the astronauts going to space someday.”

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AV E R Y A N D RILEY FRERE MOM AND DAD, APRIL AND BRIAN FRERE The Frere sisters, Avery and Riley, are engaged in a range of activities. Most of them involve exercise and being outdoors.

“I love riding horses,” says Riley (age 14). Riley also makes time for skateboarding and fishing. Art is her favorite subject in school, and drawing is a pastime. Artist Bob Ross has been an inspiration.

Avery spends playtime with her dogs and enjoys swimming, doodling and gaming. Through her involvement in “cheer,” she met “cheer and pom” coach Kim Clark, who has become a role model. There’s also a more pensive side to this 10-year-old. “I love to think up new ideas for businesses.” Also, she professed, “I like fidget trading.”

Both Avery and Riley are fond of Asian cuisine.

Avery lists noodles as her favorite food and enjoys meals at Osaka. Riley loves sushi, with Yokozuna topping her list of dining spots.

Their go-to place in Tulsa for summertime treats is the donut, dessert and coffee spot Sugar Llamas. The maple bacon donuts are Riley’s favorite, and Avery likes to order the “Vanilla Heaven” ice-cream.

The Freres house an interesting assortment of pets. The canine members of the family are

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Prince, a Yorkie, and two Golden Retrievers, Pete and Cane. The antics and loving nature of pets have added a satisfying and entertaining element to family life. Prince dances and barks at the inflatable duck in their pool. Cane is a retriever who loves to swim but refuses to retrieve! Pete loves to cuddle and play fetch. Cane was named in honor of the University of Tulsa’s Golden Hurricane, given that April Frere, the girls’ mom, is a TU alumna. Her husband Brian Frere had a hand in choosing the name for Pete. He’s a graduate of OSU where “Pistol Pete” keeps Cowboy fans energized.

Also included in the Frere pet family are Stubby, a Leopard Gecko; a Beta Fish named Azul; and their turtle, Roxy.

When the surf is up, the Frere family is known to head for Seaside, Florida or Grand Cayman. This summer, Avery and Riley are finding that Carlton Landing (a short drive from Tulsa) satisfies their fondness for fun in the sun. “We love the community. It is like the Seaside of Oklahoma,” said April Frere. “The girls love spending time there in the outdoors. They have lots of adventures and fun kayaking, paddle boarding, fishing, riding their bikes and playing volleyball games with the neighborhood friends.”

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MARGARET HOPE-HERNANDEZ MOM AND DAD, HEATHER HOPE-HERNANDEZ AND CHRIS HERNANDEZ The daughter and granddaughter of three writers, Margaret Hope-Hernandez (age 11) is understandably drawn to the world of books. “I enjoy reading in my free time, especially the Enola Holmes books by Nancy Springer,” she said. “I have fun doing Photoshop on my mom’s computer, and I love listening and singing along with music. I like to read because reading is a great escape from the real world. Photoshop is a great way to be creative when you can only draw to a limited degree, and singing is just fun for me to do.”

Margaret’s family sings her praises when it comes to her baking. Plum Galette and Prinsesstårta, a Swedish princess cake, are specialties. When dining on the town, this budding gourmet loves Stone Horse Café and The Polo Grill.

Earlier this summer, Margaret attended a twoweek camp at Clark Youth Theatre, where she was named “best actor.” “She has an amazing talent for memorizing her lines (and everyone else’s),” said Heather Hope-Hernandez, Margaret’s mom.

Included in the Hope-Hernandez household are Tommy, a six-year-old short-haired Belgian Shepherd mix, and two cats: six-year-old Rosie and one-year-old Trixie. “Trixie doesn’t meow like a normal cat,” said Margaret. “Instead, she squeaks if she just wants to talk to you and screams if she wants attention.”

Also, a beloved part of the family home is Margaret’s grandmother, Margaret Hope, a person young Margaret looks up to, along with Vice President Kamala Harris and U.S. Representative Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez.

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BENJAMIN PASCHAL MOM AND DAD, ALEX AND BRIAN PASCHAL “I really love my family. I like scary stories, and enjoy camping,” shared Benjamin Paschal (age 10). He includes soccer and tennis in his list of preferred sports. Sleepovers with his buddies and cousins, and wheeling around on his electric scooter are among his favorite activities. Hanging out with friends is time well spent, he affirmed, “because they make me laugh.”

Benjamin’s dog is a yellow-lab mix that was rescued from Turkey Mountain. “Raschal” Paschal is not only a constant companion but provides entertainment for the entire family. “He used to be able to open doors until we moved and now have knobs instead of handles,” told Benjamin. “He goes around the house and collects all of his toys into his mouth at the same time. He can usually get three, but tries to get four or more.”

Fried chicken and “any meat when it is on the bone,” are Benjamin’s perfect bite. The Tavern’s Sunday family fried-chicken night, KFC and Charleston’s barbecued ribs comprise some of his tastiest meals.

Writing is Benjamin’s favorite subject in school, he offered, “because it is fun to write stories and fantasize about something you couldn’t really do.” He credits his fourth-grade teacher, Mrs. George, for providing knowledge that he will need in the future, “and she is awesome,” he enthuses. Benjamin also recognizes the contribution his grandparents have made to his life. “… they teach me stuff that I will need to know when I’m a grandparent.”

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ANIMAL KINGDOM

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PLACING ANIMALS IN LOVING HOMES

PASSION AND COMPASSION FOR SAVING PETS ARTICLE JOE HARWELL | PHOTOGRAPHY CINDY ALVAREZ

FORMED IN LATE 2020, OKLAHOMA

every corner.” OPCS works with other shel-

PET COLLECTIVE SOCIETY, A/K/A THE

ters in the area and across Oklahoma to res-

FUR BNB, IS A NO-KILL FACILITY. They

cue animals and reduce pet overpopulation.

are all about saving the lives of unwanted,

In addition to placing animals with local fam-

abandoned, abused and neglected animals in

ilies that match the needs of the animal and

Oklahoma. In addition to rescue, OPCS vac-

the family, OPCS sends animals out of state.

cinates, spays, neuters and places animals in

“Animals in Oklahoma are property. In other

loving homes, locally and out of state.

states, animals are considered living beings,

Angel Woodstock, who handles day-to-

and the laws protecting them are more vig-

day operations, and Chris and Denise Mink,

orously enforced. We encourage Oklahomans

owners of Med Pharm, met through animal

to contact local and state elected officials and

rescue, which they all have supported their

bring this to their attention.”

entire lives. Denise shared, “Opening a

The OPCS website OKPetCollective.org

no-kill facility of this size is a very expensive

has a comprehensive but easy-to-navigate

endeavor.” They direct profits from their busi-

application for pet adoption. There are also

ness to support OPCS. “Thankfully we have

applications to foster animals, volunteer to help

started getting some much needed donations

out at the facility and forms for pet owners to

and volunteers.”

surrender animals, plus a stray surrender form.

Woodstock stated, “The reality is, there are

“Thanks to a generous donation of dog

areas of Tulsa where a stray dog is on almost

food, we’re in good shape there,” Woodstock CONTINUED >

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said. “Other needed items are treats, collars, leashes, blankets, towels, and cleaning supplies. We don’t accept toys like stuffed animals but sturdy chew toys which can be washed are welcomed.”

Chris and Denise Mink continue to support animal rescue through other responsible organizations like OPCS because it takes a village. Denise said, “Our volunteers, donors and supporters help us get the word out. A good example is Rick and Sherri Hayes with R-K Building Services who saw the story by William Blanchette with News On 6 about our goal to install central A/C at The Fur BnB. They jumped into action to get us two, 5 ton A/C units at cost, then reached out to Jackson Supply, A-1 Sheet Metal, Adair Electric, Green Acres Sod Farms, and Cornerstone Properties to donate material. Rick generously donated his time and services to get them installed and running giving us AC within one day of purchasing the units. Our volunteers and pups couldn’t be happier” Denise added, “When you shop at Med Pharm it goes to help those that need it most.

We are thrilled to see our transport van being used by other groups as well. It's truly a bucket list wish that has come true. Hopefully, with the support of our community, the sky's the limit.”

For more information visit OKPetCollective.org and MedPharmOK.com.

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HEALTHY LIFESTYLE

Keeping Our Kids Healthy

ANSWERING PARENTS’ MOST COMMON QUESTIONS ABOUT DENTAL AND VISION CARE

DE N TA L ORAL HEALTH IS SUPER IMPORTANT TO THE

+ Floss early, floss often: Once a child’s teeth start

OVERALL HEALTH OF THE BODY, AS WE GET

to fit closely together, it’s time to teach them the

OLDER IT HAS BEEN SHOWN TO BE CONNECTED

habit of daily flossing. You’ll have to take the lead

TO CARDIOVASCULAR DISEASE AND OTHER ILL-

at first, then they’ll get the hang of it by the time

NESSES. So, from a young age, it’s our job at Pediatric

they reach 8 or 10 years old.

Dental Group to teach parents about oral hygiene so

+ Tap is terrific: Water is the way to go! Encourage

that they can develop good habits that prevent cavities

your kids to drink water when they’re thirsty

and other oral diseases. We recommend that kids

instead of juice or soft drinks. Water washes away

begin their first appointments when their first teeth

decay-causing bacteria, plus most U.S. tap water

come in. Tooth decay is one of the most common

is enhanced with fluoride which helps build strong

chronic diseases among children, yet it is preventable

tooth enamel.

with good oral care.

ARE THERE PREVENTATIVE TREATMENTS WHY DO BABY TEETH MATTER IF THEY’RE JUST GOING TO FALL OUT LATER?

AVAILABLE FOR KIDS Yes! One of the best ways to prevent cavities is

Decay and bacteria can spread from baby teeth to

by applying dental sealants. They lock out decay

the adult teeth that are developing below the gum-

and provide a layer of super-protection for the deep

line, causing lifelong damage and tooth pain.

grooves on a child’s 6 and 12 year molars. Sealants protect the enamel from plaque and acid and can

WHAT ARE SOME BASIC HABITS THAT I CAN

last up to 10 years. The process is simple and can

TEACH MY CHILD FOR GOOD ORAL CARE?

be done at your dental office.

+ Follow the 2 X 2 rule: Brush for two minutes, twice a day and visit your dentist for a cleaning and checkup twice a year.

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V ISION Did you know that 85% of learning is visual? That’s

away for 20 seconds. This will give eyes a chance to

why it’s so important to make sure that your child

rest. Holding devices an arm’s length away is also a

doesn’t have vision problems. Children with undiag-

good practice.

nosed vision problems are three times more likely to fail a grade and children often don’t realize that they

WHAT ARE SOME SIGNS I SHOULD LOOK

aren’t seeing clearly and are labeled with behavior or

FOR THAT COULD INDICATE MY CHILD

learning problems when all they need is a proper pair

NEEDS GLASSES?

of glasses. The best way to ensure that your child is

There are several things parents can watch for.

seeing properly is to have a full eye exam every year.

Frequent headaches, rubbing their eyes or squinting and holding screens or books close to their

MY CHILD HAD A VISION SCREENING AT

face can indicate a problem. Also, clumsiness or

SCHOOL, ISN’T THAT ENOUGH?

frequently bumping into furniture can be a sign of

While school screenings are great at diagnosing

vision problems.

issues with near sight and far sight, a basic screening can still miss overall health concerns in the eye. This article was provided by Pediatric Dental Group A study from the American Optometric Association

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MY CHILD SPENDS A LOT OF TIME ON

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CULINARY CREATIONS

ARTICLE JENNIFER ANDERSON MSPH RDN

TE AC H I N G YO U R K I D S TO E AT H E A LTH Y

AS PARENTS, ONE OF OUR BIGGEST PRIORITIES

IS ENSURING THAT OUR KIDS ARE GETTING THE NUTRIENTS THEY NEED. But getting them to eat their

fruits and vegetables isn’t always easy, especially if your kids are picky eaters like many seem to be.

Let’s talk about the benefits of introducing healthy

food to your kids at an early age. Read on to find helpful information about feeding picky eaters.

3 T I P S F O R G E T T I N G YO U R K I D S TO E AT H E A LT H Y F O O D S Real Easy

MAKE SNACKS AND MEALTIME FUN

Weekdays

We all know that kids like to play and have fun, so why not make food fun? Whether you’re turning broccoli into a microphone at dinner, or playing tic-tac-toe with edible carrot sticks, kids get into it.

DON’T GIVE UP Parents often assume that if a child doesn’t eat a food the first or second time it’s served, the child doesn’t like the food. Many children may

Meal Plan

G R E E K YO G U R T RANCH DIP This goes great with raw veggies like celery,

need to see or taste a food 10 or 20 times before they are willing to eat it.

carrots, broccoli, snap peas, cauliflower, or any

FORCING HEALTHY FOODS ON KIDS OFTEN BACKFIRES

great with whole-grain crackers and pita chips!

veggie your kids might like raw. It also goes

Often, making a child eat food or eat a certain amount of food backfires. It may backfire in the short run by making a child more

INGREDIENTS

selective and less likely to eat the foods you want them to eat.

+ ½ cup full-fat Greek yogurt + ½ to 1 Tablespoon of Trader Joe’s Onion

S TA R T H E A LT H Y H A B I T S E A R LY

Salt (alternatives include Ranch dressing mix, onion salt, or a combination of onion powder and garlic powder)

The key takeaway here is to introduce healthy foods to your child at an early age. Be patient with your pickiest of eaters, and re-intro-

METHOD

duce a food several times. Stick with it; their long-term health habits

1. Mix Greek yogurt with seasoning. Serve.

depend on it!

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