Tulsa, OK November 2018

Tulsa NOVEMBER 2018

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Thankful HOLIDAY GETAWAY, EXPLORING OKLAHOMA’S BACK ROADS CLAREHOUSE, WHERE A LOVED ONE IS ALWAYS HOME CROSSTOWN LEARNING, SERVING TULSA’S CHILDREN

WHEN YOU LIFT UP ONE, YOU LIFT UP ALL Giving Back. It’s long been a cornerstone of our company and our employees. Whether it be through charitable giving or volunteering with an organization that needs help, our dedication to Tulsa has never been stronger: Nonprofit Contribution – $2 million in annual contributions to local Tulsa nonprofits in 2017.

Learn For Life – Our employees are proud to teach financial literacy to children and through our program reached over 1,000 Tulsa kids in 2017.

MLK Parade – A proud supporter and sponsor of Tulsa’s MLK Parade for 22 consecutive years.

United Way – Over $1.7 million in annual contributions to the Tulsa area United Way. Bank of Oklahoma was honored to be named the 2017 Outstanding Philanthropist by the Association of Fundraising Professionals.

More important, we are grateful to be part of Tulsa’s past, present and future.

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LIFESTYLE LETTER

NOVEMBER 2018 PUBLISHER

Kathy Slemp | kslemp@lifestylepubs.com CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Hope Alexander, C.L. Harmon, Debra Laizure, Aimee Tonquest Mehl, Tamara Noel, Upper Crust Wood Fired Pizza CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS

November

Amber Gregg Photography, Jason Wallace, Sarah Baker Photography, Lori Zeller

AS NOVEMBER ROLLS AROUND, WE’RE ANXIOUSLY AWAITING THE APPROACH OF THANKSGIVING, THE HOLIDAY SEASON AND TIME SPENT WITH OUR LOVED ONES. The winding down of the year always brings about a time of reflection for us— remembering everything we’ve done or accomplished in months past; looking back on turkey disaster stories, mornings watching the Thanksgiving Day parade or afternoons spent curled up on the couch after one too many pieces of pie; thinking of the people, experiences and things we’ve been blessed with in the last year.

As we press pause on the hustle and bustle of life putting together a monthly magazine, we’re able to look back on the past year and, most meaningfully, the stories from all of you that have made what we do possible. We also take this chance to think of those less fortunate and encourage you to take the opportunity this giving season to donate to local organizations or charities giving back locally.

We hope that as you read this issue, you—like us—find inspiration in the lives and experiences of your neighbors and the connections that have been made.

Happy Thanksgiving, Tulsa!

CORPORATE TEAM CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER Steven Schowengerdt CHIEF SALES OFFICER Matthew Perry CHIEF FINANCIAL OFFICER DeLand Shore ART DIRECTOR Sara Minor OPERATIONS DIRECTOR Janeane Thompson EDITORIAL MANAGER Nicolette Martin EDITORIAL Kate Baxendale AD MANAGER Chad Jensen AD COORDINATORS Cyndi Harrington | Alicia Huff | Jessica Soetaert LAYOUT DESIGNERS Cyndi King | Dana Rudolph | Emily Stout Hailey Stepanek | Adella Wrisinger FIELD SUPPORT Carli DiMarco | Victoria Perry PUBLISHER SUPPORT Melanie Carlisle ACCOUNTANT Austin Park APPLICATION ARCHITECT Michael O’Connell WEB DEVELOPERS Tejaswini Jagarlamudi | Harshith Potu

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ON THE COVER A unique statuette of a woman releasing a dove positioned in front of the memorial wall at Clarehouse.

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INSIDE THE ISSUE NOVEMBER 2018 FEATURES 12 Orange Cardamom Scones (Gluten Free) & Parisian Hot Chocolate Add a Bit of Orange Zest to Your Holiday Menu

18 Holiday Getaway Make Family Memories Exploring Oklahoma’s Back Roads

24 Clarehouse, Where a Loved One is Always Home The End of Life Gift Which Gives Back

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28 Handbags (not diamonds) are a Girl’s Best Friend And that Love for Handbags Gives Back to Tulsa’s Children

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DEPARTMENTS 4

Lifestyle Letter

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Around Town

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Culinary Creations

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Hot Spot

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Open House

24 Inspired By 28 Local’s Choice 30 Lifestyle Calendar 34 Parting Thoughts

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AROUND TOWN Bring a friend or meet new friends. Choose your project; either traditional stained glass techniques OR glass mosaic on tiles. Cost of $35 includes all project materials and light snacks. Use the same materials and tools in class that are used for making authentic leaded stained glass windows. Limited space.

Reservations & details at TulsaStainedGlass.com.

Dates: Tuesday November 13th. Theme: Thanksgiving feather Tuesday December 11th . Theme: Holiday Poinsettia Times: Ladies Afternoon Escape: 12:30-4 p.m., mingle & snacks, class begins at 1 p.m.

Ladies Night Out: 6-9:30 p.m., mingle & snacks,

CIRQUE DU SOLEIL CRYSTAL A BREAKTHROUGH ICE EXPERIENCE

class begins at 6:30 p.m.

Cirque du Soleil is coming to Tulsa November 7-11

BLUESTONE’S ANNUAL "OVER THE TOP THANKSGIVING DAY BUFFET"

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SILHOUETTE ARTIST CLAY RICE

101st & Sheridan, will host a Thanksgiving Day Buffet on November 22. Seating times will be 11 a.m., 1 p.m. and 3 p.m. The Carving Station will include Turkey,

Silhouette Artist Clay Rice will be at Tulsa Toy

Prime Rib, Leg of Lamb, and Roasted Ham. The buf-

Depot for sessions on Monday and Tuesday, Nov.

fet includes multiple Dinner Items, Breakfast Items,

12th & 13th between 3 and 6 pm. Sessions are 5

and Extras such as Scottish Smoked Salmon, a Fruit

minutes and you can sign-up and get details/

Fountain, various salads, and homemade and assorted

pricing by calling the store at 918-938-0555.

desserts and pies. Adults are $36, children to 17 years

Don’t miss this once-a-year opportunity to have a

are $18 and children under 5 are free. Reservations are

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POP UP DENIM EVENT Donna’s Fashions at 101st and Yale is hosting

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What makes Holland Hall unique?

Learn more at hollandhall.org.

We start with the exciting possibilities of AND — our many exceptional electives, athletic teams, arts programs, instructional approaches, and active learning opportunities on campus and across Tulsa — and connect them to the solid assurance of ALL — the complete educational experience that prepares students exceptionally well for college, work, and the world beyond.

AND/ALL highlights our inscribed values. As an Episcopal school, we honor the individual integrity of each child, and we provide the bedrock education every student needs.

It’s a commitment so strong, it’s quite literally who we are.

HollAND HALL. The possibilities of AND. The assurance of ALL.

Tulsa’s PreK through Grade 12 Independent Episcopal School

AROUND TOWN

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UPCOMING EVENTS AT THE MARKET AT WALNUT CREEK The Market at Walnut Creek, located on the SE

Don’t leave your holiday shopping until the last

corner of 81st & Sheridan, has upcoming events

minute! Gift cards from favorite local restaurants

that appeal to all.

like Upper Crust Wood Fired Pizza are always

November 3rd - Grammy's Cottage and Kitchen

popular stocking stuffers. Stop by the restaurant

Store will host a Grand Opening with food tastings

at the southwest corner of E 91st St. and S. Yale

and giveaways.

Ave. to buy one in person, or send an e-gift card

November 8th - The Markets Holiday Grand

on their website at UCPizza.com. And if you hav-

Opening. Shop for everyone on your list with over

en’t tried their build-your-own charcuterie yet,

100 local vendors to choose from. Holiday décor and

now’s the time to do so! Bring a group of friends

accessories, 10-75% off selected items, snacks &

and share amongst yourselves. All boards with

wine in the evening. Rita Brumm book signing "The

three or more selections come with spicy mus-

Jingle Factor II”, beauty demonstrations at 2 p.m. at the

tard, crostinis and Fuji apples included. Meats

Beauty Counter with 3 stations set up for makeovers.

are $4, cheeses are $3 and extras like hummus or

November 29th - The Jingle Bell Walk Fashion

marinated olives are $2 each, making this a truly

Show is from 6-8 p.m. Food and prizes. Reservations

customizable option for all budgets. Selections

required-call 918.492.3500. The event is free and

include Italian Prosciutto Di Parma, Spanish

you’re welcome to donate an unwrapped toy for

Jamon Serrano, English Stilton, French Port Salut

Family and Children Services Santa Shop.

and much more! Be sure to share your unique cre-

December 1st - Essential Oil Make & Take starting at 3 p.m.

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CULINARY CREATIONS

ORANGE CARDAMOM SCONES

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& PARISIAN HOT CHOCOLATE ADD A BIT OF ORANGE ZEST TO YOUR HOLIDAY MENU ARTICLE HOPE ALEXANDER FROM ESPERANCE BAKERY

ORANGE CARDAMOM SCONES

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PHOTOGRAPHY AMBER GREGG

I N G R E D I E N T S ++ 220 grams almond flour ++ 85 grams sugar ++ 80 grams Potato starch ++ ½ teaspoon baking soda ++ ½ to 1 teaspoon (to taste) cardamom ++ 1 ½ teaspoon orange zest ++ 1 stick butter ++ 1 teaspoon orange or lemon juice ++ 2 eggs

D I R E C T I O N S Preheat oven to 350. Place dry ingredients (almond flour through orange zest) in a medium bowl. Cut butter into chunks and work into the dry ingredients until it is evenly dispersed and crumb-like. In a small bowl, whisk eggs and juice together. Fold this into the almond flour mixture until well combined. Using a scoop or spoon, drop the mixture onto a baking sheet lined with parchment paper. Bake for 13-18 minutes, or until internal temperature reaches 170 (turning pan once halfway through baking).

The base (everything minus the cardamom and orange zest) can be used with a variety of ingredients, i.e. cherry chocolate, lemon poppy seed, or whatever flavor combination your taste buds desire! Have fun and enjoy!

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PARISIAN HOT CHOCOLATE I N G R E D I E N T S ++ 2 Cups Whole Milk ++ 5 ounces bittersweet chocolate ++ 2 tablespoons brown sugar (or to taste)

D I R E C T I O N S Warm the milk on the stove and then whisk in the chocolate. Cook at a very low boil for around 3 minutes while whisking constantly. Remove from heat and add brown sugar to taste.

This can be made ahead and let sit for a few hours, just rewarm before serving. For a richer hot chocolate, use 1 cup heavy cream and one cup milk. For younger taste buds, milk chocolate can be substituted.

HOLIDAY SPECIALS AND TASTING Esperance Bakery will be offering these holiday treats at its Falliday Open House on November 3 from 1-3 p.m. Other holiday specials that will be available this holiday season are yule log, flourless almond torte, shortbread, and rum cake.

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HOT SPOT

ALL ABOARD, New Holiday Tradition In The Station

SEVILLE SHOPS, SOUTH TULSA’S NEW STATION FOR CHRISTMAS FUN ARTICLE C.L. HARMON PHOTOGRAPHY LORI ZELLER

All aboard the Christmas train that will be pulling into the Seville Station on November 10 and December 8 to offer holiday fun rides.

“IT IS OUR GOAL, OUR WISH TO START A NEW HOLI-

supporting our businesses through the years,” Zeller said. She

DAY TRADITION IN SOUTH TULSA," LORI ZELLER SAID.

explained that she and other business owners began meet-

She is one the organizers for the event and owner of Zeller

ings to brainstorm ideas as to how best show their appre-

Photography. To offer something special this holiday season to

ciation to the community. With the holiday season around

South Tulsa residents, a few business owners in the shopping

the corner and Zeller’s new knowledge of Tulsa Fun Express’

center Shops of Seville have decided to bring something special

train, it didn’t take long to propose a Polar Express type of

to enrich their Yuletide experience. “We are calling it The Seville

event...and hopefully a long-lasting tradition in South Tulsa.

Express," Zeller said. The organizers have selected November

Current sponsors are Donna's Fashions, Sweet Pea

10 and December 8, from 5-8 pm as the nights the train will pull

Couture, the Bistro at Seville, Canterbury Lane Gifts and Zeller

into the station. Both evenings will offer the festive and goodwill

Photography with many more expected to get on board soon.

Christmas feeling that makes the season so special. Christmas Train with rides, Santa, hot chocolate, cookies, prize drawings, photos with the train / with Santa, and much more is scheduled.

"It's amazing to be a part of the Seville Shops Christmas

“We wish to harness the excitement of the season to create

train event," Wanda Septiano said. She and husband Albert

a new Christmas tradition for our South Tulsa families, giving

recently opened Tulsa Fun Express which is providing the

back to our South Tulsa neighborhoods and to thank them for

train. They are expecting a busy season of train rides so listen for locomotive laughs this festive time of year.

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accessorizing your home

OPEN HOUSE

WITH THE HOLIDAYS COMING UP, MANY PEOPLE ARE MOTIVATED TO SPRUCE UP THEIR HOME OR MAKE A FEW

DECORATING

IMPROVEMENTS

TO GET THE HOUSE LOOKING ITS BEST FOR COMPANY. This can be a simple fix by editing your current décor or by introducing a few new pieces to introduce color or texture. Luxe offers complimentary house calls and design services to help accessorize your home, and during the month of November all accessories are an extra 15% off. You can stop by the store at 9922 S. Riverside or visit LuxeTulsa.com

FOR HOLIDAY COMPANY ARTICLE TAMARA NOEL | PHOTOGRAPHY SARAH BAKER PHOTOGRAPHY

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FLORAL CENTERPIECE 1. Large Floral Centerpiece - $399 2. Wood & Marble Cheese Dome - $84 3. Calyn Wax Candle

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›› When accessorizing bookshelves or built-ins, always remember that less is more.

Select a few statement pieces therefore

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requiring less fillers to achieve a clean and inviting look that doesn’t overwhelm the eye. Be sure to put air and space in between

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strategically placed items and mixed textures.

›› Try mixing both modern and traditional accessories so you’re not too focused on any one trend. Gold has come back strong as a popular finish choice that makes a bold design impact. Do not be afraid to mix metals and have silver, gold, and antique bronze represented in your space.

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›› Use an accent color to draw your eye into the room and soften the overall look.

Balance your color evenly around your room

1. Faux Shagreen Photo Frames (Set of 2) - $57 2. Garden Stool - $203 3. Art Glass Vase

in different portions. This room features

(Set of 2) - $128 4. Gray, Cream, & Navy Ceramic Bottles (Set of 3) - $174 5. Marble &

indigo in the patterned pillows, rug, art, and

Gold Horse Head - $40 6. Round Gold Mirror - $206 7. Mixed Metals Disc Vases (Set of

select accessories.

3) - $392 8. Marble Lidded Box - $94

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HOLIDAY MAKE FAMILY MEMORIES EXPLORING OKLAHOMA’S BACK ROADS

GETAWAY THE HOLIDAYS ARE UPON US. Cool breezes welcome family gatherings, house decorating, and baking sweet treats.

Unfortunately, it also brings on endless shopping, heavy traffic, and financial stress. Instead of a mountain of presents under the tree, pack up the family and create lasting memories by heading to the real mountains of southeast Oklahoma.

Talimena National Scenic Byway is Oklahoma’s most renowned fall foliage drive.

Photo credit: Jason Wallace

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ARTICLE DEBRA LAIZURE

FALL FOLIAGE DRIVE

BEAVERS BEND STATE PARK

About 2 ½ hours south of Tulsa is Oklahoma's most renowned

Keep heading south and you will wind up at the state’s

scenic drive. The Talimena National Scenic Byway invites foli-

most popular state park destination, Beavers Bend State

age fans on a 54-mile pathway through the Ouachita National

Park. Within the boundaries of this enchanting park, vis-

Forest right across the tops of ancient mountains in southeast-

itors will find towering trees ablaze with vibrant yellows

ern Oklahoma. The road twists and turns over the gently rolling

and deep reds dispersed throughout pine forests in a

Ouachita Mountains with a span of vistas more breathtaking

nature lover’s paradise.

than the last. Frequent scenic turnouts offer travelers the best

A favorite with hikers, backpackers, and fishermen,

views over the magnificent blend of autumn hues on the richly

this area offers tranquil seclusion. Reserve a rustic cabin

forested hills that seem to stretch forever.

at Beavers Bend State Park or pitch a tent for autumn

The Byway is in full color the first couple weeks of November

camping at its finest. Or, book a room at the park’s

but it isn't the only time to visit. The Talimena National Scenic

Lakeview Lodge and enjoy spectacular views of Broken

Byway is open all year long except when snow and ice make the

Bow Lake below. Visitors will marvel at the sight of fall

drive too dangerous to travel. In the winter, when the leaves are

foliage reflecting off the crystal-clear waters of the lake,

off the trees, you can see many different birds and animals. And

making Beavers Bend a king among fall foliage hot

there is nothing more beautiful than the sparkling winter's frost

spots. Visit TravelOK.com for a travel guide with sam-

in the morning. Visit TalimenaScenicDrive.com for informa-

ple travel itineraries, trip-planning tips, and directories

tion to plan your trip including maps and area events.

of attractions and lodging.

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HOLIDAY GETAWAY

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MOUNTAIN FORK RIVER Continue your drive on Highway 259 south past Broken Bow to the Upper and Lower Mountain Fork River for year-round trout fishing in the river’s rushing waters. Mark your calendar for the annual Beavers Bend Folk Festival & Craft Show November 9, 10th, and 11th and spend a crisp fall afternoon enjoying folk music, vintage crafts, hayrides and a wide variety of tasty treats.

The Mountain Fork River area is abundant with camp grounds and lodging options. But make note that although Oklahoma State Parks are open yearround, certain campgrounds are temporarily closed for the winter season, so it’s a good idea to make a call before heading out for a holiday camping trip.

LIGHTS ON THE ISLAND Lights on the Island is an annual drive-through light display held from November 16th though December 25th. The popular light display in Lake Wister State Park began over ten years ago with just a few donated lights. After years of dedication to the displays, the spectacular light show has grown with radiant color each and every year. Many volunteers brave the cold each winter to greet car loads of visitors and hand out candy canes. Over 300 light displays cover the entire island with several animated displays such as tumbling bears, dinosaurs, and a 32-foot-tall Lady Liberty.

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DISCONNECT AND RECONNECT Not trying to be a Grinch, but do you remember the gifts you received last year? Better yet, do you remember your last vacation? Most people, especially children, can recall all the things they did on their vacation but rarely remember the gifts they received during Christmas or Hanukkah.

Instead of the hustle and bustle the holidays create, imagine waking up in a cabin with high bluffs, rocky shoals, and clear water for breathtaking views on a beautiful river. It’s chilly but still warm enough to hop in a canoe and enjoy a day of easy paddling. Later, take the kids on a hike through the woods and have a picnic along the secluded riverside in the warm winter sun. Go horseback riding or bird watching in the woods; you might spot a Pileated or a Downy Woodpecker, a Kingfisher, a Blue Heron, or even a Bald Eagle.

Then end the day playing cards or putting together a puzzle. Delve deep into conversation and pop some popcorn or make s’mores over the fire. Then go to bed early and wake up for another day of family fun.

Trade in the TV, cell phones, and tablets for a chance to connect with your family. Your holiday outdoor adventure awaits! For more information about day trips, activities, and lodging in southeast Oklahoma, check out VisitMccurtainCounty.com or TravelOK.com.

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INSPIRED BY ARTICLE C.L. HARMON | PHOTOGRAPHY AMBER GREGG

The front view of Clarehouse located in South Tulsa.

The grounds are beautifully landscaped to offer a sense of peace and serenity to patients and loved ones.

Clarehouse, Where a Loved One is Always Home

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THERE ARE SONGS, POEMS, PAINTINGS AND PLAYS WHICH BRING ABOUT IMAGES OF LOVE, ANGELS AND HEAVEN.

These beautiful works of

they fill the gap left by hospice care and do so in a non-clinical non

art come from the imagina-

institutional way. Clarehouse offers the opportunity for the dying

tions and talents of people

to spend their final days in a beautiful and loving environment that

who see the darkness of the

is like home when they simply cannot be at home.

world and hope to open a

The facility is staffed with personnel who help with bathing, toi-

window and let in the light.

leting, medication, feeding, laundry and other daily needs. Most of

But it is not from song lyr-

these are volunteers. There are 250 of them who donate their time

ics and brush strokes that

to give to others. But it is not just basic needs that the volunteers

change the world from dark

provide. Many of them donate time to be bedside companions

to light; it is the passion of

while others are musicians who provide music. There is also a

those willing to open any

choir that comes out, pet owners who provide pet therapy as well

window to the world which accomplishes such a feat. These

as many others who provide services such as reading, massage

people are rare; through the ages performing great works of

therapy, and spiritual support.

compassion to benefit others while creating a lasting impres-

“I realized I was there for as much, if not more, for the staff and

sion on everyone who is touched by their creations. One such

the family members as I was for the guests. They are the ones

open window in Tulsa is Clarehouse.

who are left behind and for the staff of course, who is under an

Kelley Scott opened this window 15 years ago after realizing

incredible amount of stress all the time. For the dogs to come in,

how loved ones are often faced with almost overwhelming issues

it’s really a welcome relief and a sense of living and loving with the

while caring for a dying relative. She is the founder and Executive

dogs,” Julie Mueller said. She provides pet therapy and has been

Director for Clarehouse. Although it was a difficult one to open,

doing so for over four years.

she knew that this was something that had to be done. Working

“We do not charge a dime. We are a completely free commu-

as a hospital and Hospice nurse, she would see for herself the

nity-based philanthropy driven service. No one that comes here

difficulties for the loved ones and knew that there had to be a

and receives care is charged a dime,” Scott said. This aspect of

way to help them. She initiated the idea for a community home

caregiving is only one of many that make Clarehouse so unique.

for terminally ill people that offers care to Hospice patients who

This organization is not profit driven; it is passion driven. Through

are in their last days and weeks of life and not receiving enough

fundraising, the organization raises the $1.3 million that is needed

caregiver support to remain in their own homes.

to operate each year. “It’s a total community effort to keep us

“Most people want to die at home, but that is very challenging for a lot of different reasons. We provide a solution to those

funded,” she added. For more information about Clarehouse, visit clarehouse.org.

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issues,” Scott said. She explained that there are a plethora of social/financial reasons that make it difficult for people to care for their loved ones in the final days of life. This is where Clarehouse is an option. It is generally for the last month of life and is available to anyone enrolled in a Medical Hospice program.

“We consider ourselves as an extension of the family and fill that void as the 24-7 caregiver in the last weeks of life as well as provide the place for them to live,” Scott said. She added that they are not just another hospice provider in an environment where there are many already. She explained they are unique in the sense

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The view from inside the chapel offers a beautiful view for those wishing to pray or find solitude.

Each bedroom has a retreat type atmosphere and offers a balcony with beautiful views and a bed for a loved one to stay with the patient.

A unique statuette of a woman releasing a dove positioned in front of the memorial wall.

The quaint and rustic chapel for use by guests and staff on the Clarehouse grounds.

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LOCAL’S CHOICE

HANDBAGS (NOT DIAMONDS) ARE A GIRL’S BEST FRIEND AND THAT LOVE FOR HANDBAGS GIVES BACK TO TULSA’S CHILDREN

IN SEPTEMBER 2018, CROSSTOWN LEARNING CENTER MARKED 49 YEARS OF EDUCATING CHILDREN AGES SIX WEEKS THROUGH PRE-KINDERGARTEN. Crosstown, which is a 3-star early care center licensed by the Oklahoma Department of Human Services (DHS), has been continuously accredited by the National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC) since 2000—the first early childhood education center accredited in north Tulsa.

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All learning at Crosstown is done through play and reading—children have zero screen time as part of their educational experience at Crosstown. All students enjoy an extension of their classroom on age-appropriate outdoor play space located right outside their doors, and Crosstown’s multi-seat strollers are a familiar and happy sight in the neighborhood.

In November 2011, Crosstown participated in a national research study on autism, which launched the Early Foundations Program at Crosstown. Children at risk for placement on the autism spec-

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trum are taught three half-days per week in a one-on-one setting; they spend the balance of their week at Crosstown in a typical classroom, with their peers.

Crosstown serves children and families at all points on the socioeconomic spectrum, and all families at Crosstown have one or more parents working, or going to school—or both. A number of families receive financial aid through DHS or tribal subsidy, and the budget dollars raised through tuition are supplemented by support from various charitable foundations and donations.

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TRY IT FREE AT ORANGETHEORY.COM Crosstown’s major fundraiser each year is Monday Morning Mimosas, set for Monday, November 12, 2018, at Southern Hills Country Club.

New and gently used handbags are available for silent auction; five retail partners, including Bruce G Weber Precious Jewels, Ida Red General Store, Athleta Utica Square, Luxury Garage Sale, and Dillard’s Promenade Mall will have handbags, accessories, and specialty items available for purchase, and up to 20% of sales at these partners will come back to Crosstown. If you’d like to attend Crosstown’s 11th annual event, please visit CrosstownTulsa.org/MMM2018, call 918.582.1457, or email eventplanner@crosstowntulsa.org.

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LIFESTYLE CALENDAR

7 - 11 CIRQUE DU SOLEIL CRYSTAL-SAVE $10!

BOK Center, 200 South Denver Ave W, Tulsa, OK

For the first time Cirque du Soleil® pushes the boundaries of performance, redefining the artistic possibilities of

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FUR BALL 2018: SHANGHAI MUTTSQUERADE

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ice. Watch as world-class ice skaters

Oklahoma Alliance for Animals pres-

Tulsa Performing Arts Center (PAC),

and acrobats claim their frozen play-

ents Shanghai Muttsquerade on No-

3rd and Cincinnati

ground with speed and grace, chal-

vember 10 at 6 p.m., at the Southern

Tulsa Town Hall Speaker Series presents

lenging the laws of gravity with daring

Hills Country Club. The Fur Ball is

Lisa Genova, the Senior Star Speaker in

acrobatics. Cirque du Soleil Crystal is

Oklahoma’s favorite gala benefit-

honor of the Alzheimer’s Association. Ac-

coming to the BOK Center November

ing animals. Entertainment, wines,

claimed for enriching the public dialogue

7-11th. Tickets on sale now! SAVE $10

dinner, music, raffles, live and silent

about Alzheimer's, Lisa Genova wields

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her unique ability to tell stories that are

to end pet overpopulation, promote

equally inspired by neuroscience and the

responsible pet ownership, and en-

human spirit. November 16 from 10:30-

sure the humane treatment of ani-

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Let us all remember the great times spent together with family and friends and awesome clothes bought to celebrate this day.

Happy Thanksgiving!

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The Tulsa Garden Club kicks off its Emerald Anniversary, “Thanking Tulsa for 90 Years of Gardening,” on November 26 at 10:30 a.m. at the Tulsa Garden Center. The annual Holiday Tea, Green with Envy, raises scholarship funds for horticulture and landscape architecture programs of OSU and TCC. Tea luncheon, music, silent auction, raffle, Poinsettia sales. Info & reservations: TulsaGardenClub.org. Cost: $30

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Champagne, wine, beer, food, football, and live music. See the new eyewear lines! They will be giving away free glasses and sunglasses during the day. “Come celebrate 2 great years with us!” EyeCandyTulsa.com

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PARTING THOUGHTS

ENTERTAINING DURING THE HOLIDAYS? JOIN THE CHARCUTERIE BANDWAGON

A Charcuterie Board at Upper Crust Wood Fired Pizza

ARE YOU A CHARCUTERIE NEWBIE? NO PROBLEM. HERE ARE SOME GOOD PLACES TO START: PROSCIUTTO DI PARMA. This classic Italian ham is dry-cured and thinly sliced. It’s quite salty and pairs nicely with flavors like fresh tomatoes, basil and mozzarella.

A Charcuterie Board at Upper Crust Wood Fired Pizza

GENOA SALAMI. Seasoned

with

garlic, salt, pepper and a bit of wine, IF

IT

SEEMS

LIKE

CHARCUTERIE

marinated olives and roasted red peppers

this Italian staple has a characteristic

BOARDS ARE ALL THE RAGE LATELY,

come in at $2. If you select at least three

fermented flavor. It’s a bit heartier than

THAT’S BECAUSE THEY ARE. And what’s

options, the board even comes with spicy

the prosciutto and is a charcuterie

not to like? Cured and smoked meats, fancy

mustard, crostinis and Fuji apples.

board must-have.

cheeses, delectable add-ons…a charcuterie

On the list, you’ll find domestic fare like hot

board is perfect with drinks after work, as a

soppressata from New York, goat cheese from

MOZZARELLA. Upper Crust makes

quick snack or even for a late-night dinner

Krebs, Oklahoma, and house-made mozza-

their mozzarella in-house, and this

option. Needless to say, we’re firmly situated

rella. International selections include Italian

board choice is the same stuff you’ll

on the charcuterie bandwagon.

prosciutto and salami, Spanish jamón serrano,

find on their pizzas. It’s incredibly mild

English Stilton and French Port Salut.

and is universally beloved.

Upper Crust Wood Fired Pizza, located

at E 91st St. and S. Yale Ave., is our current

Trust us when we say you’ve got to round

favorite place to snag a top-notch char-

out that board! Upper Crust’s from-scratch

GRANA PADANA. This hard, slowly

cuterie board. At Upper Crust, you can make

hummus is seriously underrated (it’s also

ripened, semi-fat cheese is comparable

your board as small or as large as you’d

available as a starter), and their candied wal-

to a good Parmigiano Reggiano. It’s a

like—meats are $4 each, cheeses are $3

nuts and fig jam acts as nice compliments to

basic, albeit tasty, option that will sat-

each and additional options like hummus,

the salty meats and rich cheeses.

isfy those averse to the stinky Stilton.

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