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LIFESTYLE LETTER

New Year; New You

January 2024 PUBLISHER

Rachel Burk | rachel.burk@citylifestyle.com E D I TO R

Stacy Leach | stacy.leach@citylifestyle.com AC C O U N T M AN AG E R

Jamie Allgood | jamie.allgood@citylifestyle.com

A predictable title, but if you read this, you'll understand that as cliche as it is, a new you, is YOUR choice. If you want to stay the same you, that's okay too! There are no expectations other than what you set for yourself. For many of us, this time of year is full of excitement. It's a season of resetting, envisioning new horizons, and charting courses toward our goals. Yet, in the midst of this collective enthusiasm, January can also cast a shadow for some—an unwelcome reminder of past endeavors that may not have come to fruition and the weighty expectation that this year must somehow diverge from the patterns of the past. We approached this issue of Porter City Lifestyle from a mindset of mental health and wellness. All too often we stretch ourselves thin trying to do all the world asks of us. This year, let's just take a minute to focus on what's important. Take a stroll through the pages and get inspired by real people in our community. Starting each day with a focus on oneself is a powerful ritual. Whether it's through meditation, journaling, praying, or simply taking a few moments to breathe deeply, dedicating time to our mental well-being sets a positive tone for the day ahead. In the quiet moments of self-reflection, we can gain clarity, find gratitude, and cultivate a sense of inner calm that resonates throughout our daily experiences. Remember that self-care is not selfish; it's a necessary investment in our overall well-being. When we take the time to nourish our minds and souls, we become better equipped to navigate life's challenges with resilience and grace. This New Year, let's release the weight of expectations and embrace the journey of self-discovery. Explore new passions, set realistic goals, and celebrate the small victories that contribute to our personal growth. As we embark on this new chapter, let's also extend kindness and compassion to ourselves. Embrace the imperfections, savor the joys, and learn from the challenges. Surround yourself with positive influences and cultivate a supportive network that encourages authenticity and vulnerability. Here’s to you! We’re rooting for you. R AC H E L B U R K , P U B L I S H E R @PORTERCITYLIFESTYLE

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Pediatric Chiropractic Holistic Health for Your Babies

A Cloak of Courage The Battle for Life

The Digital Detox

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Departments

Francie with Fireheart Photography skillfully captures the nurturing expertise of Dr. Lauren Baker as she effortlessly soothes and connects with infants and toddlers.

Lifestyle Letter

City Scene

Business Monthly

Family Care HEALTH + WELLNESS

Healthy Lifestyle FITNESS

Trend Setter ENTERTAINMENT

Culinary Creations FOOD + BEVERAG E

Mental Wellbeing LIFE + CULTURE

Goodbye Virtual, Hello Reality! Photography: Fireheart Photography: Pictured - Dr. Lauren Baker

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1: Madison Duxbury and family, with Edward Jones, at her Valley Ranch office’s open house. 2: Addi’s Faith Foundation Holiday Home Tour event hosted to continue the fight against childhood cancer. 3: Lots of people out supporting our local vendors at The New Caney Community Market. 4: The Beyer Family at the 4th annual Peggy Beyer Memorial Foundation Chili Cook Off. 5: Back Pew Brewing hosting a vendor event. 6: Porter City Lifestyle’s Ribbon Cutting with Greater EMC Chamber of Commerce. 7: Monthly business luncheon at the Greater EMC Chamber of Commerce.

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HOLISTIC HEALTH FOR YOUR BABIES

ARTICLE BY KELSEY GALLOWAY PHOTOGRAPHY BY FIREHEART PHOTOGRAPHY

Pediatric and Chiropractic. Two words you may not realize can and should go together, but they do. Dr. Lauren Baker, owner of New Leaf Chiropractic, considers infants and young children to be ideal candidates to benefit from Chiropractic work. “They (babies) go through so much trauma during the birth process, and Chiropractic helps gently unwind them from the folded position they were in for so long.” It is a different kind of manipulation than what’s used for adults as you do not ‘pop’ a

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baby, but gently mobilize them, taking special care with their tiny joints. Dr. Baker graduated from the Texas Chiropractic College in May of 2002 with a Doctor of Chiropractic and a Bachelor of Science in Biology. She also holds a specialization from the ICPA (International Chiropractic Pediatric Association) specifically to work on the littles, and it’s paid off for so many! In one memorable case, Dr. Baker helped a 12-month-old baby girl who had already experienced nine rounds of antibiotics for ear infections and was due to have tubes inserted but decided to try chiropractic as a last resort first. She was seen twice a week for six weeks and hasn’t had an ear infection since without needing tubes inserted. She is truly impassioned about helping heal through chiropractic adjustment and body manipulation. It may be physical, emotional, or chemical stress causing the issues, and Dr. Baker is passionate about working with her patients holistically to determine the root cause to prevent it from recurring.

“It’s miraculous to see the results they [babies] can achieve with the right touch...”

The following are key indicators when considering pediatric chiropractic care per Dr. Baker: 1. Baby is not latching/not gaining weight 2. Baby has reflux, colic or is uncomfortable and has to be constantly moved or held to be calm 3. If baby was born via section, spinal misalignments could be present. 4. Toddler with ear infections, but medicine doesn’t seem to be helping

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ARTICLE BY KELSEY GALLOWAY

Getting Active in 2024 READY TO GET FIT BUT NOT SURE WHERE TO START?

Spi n C l as s e s Spin classes utilize a stationary bike indoors with differing levels of speed and resistance to increase the difficulty. Spinning is considered a fun, full-body workout, as well as a great cardiovascular exercise.

Hot Workouts Hot workouts, such as Hot Yoga, Hot Pilates, and Hot Barre is taking a traditional class and turning up the heat. Higher temperatures are believed to increase the heart rate and metabolism as you work out, thereby burning more calories.

C ros sFi t CrossFit is a great option for competition and growth in a group setting. Imagine a high-intensity workout program that incorporates elements of weightlifting, running, and gymnastics with varied and inventive exercises designed to challenge you physically and mentally.

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a cozy classic OLD FASHIONED CHICKEN AND DUMPLINGS ARTICLE BY RACHEL BURK

We took a poll and YOU voted that Old Fashioned Chicken and Dumplings is the top family favorite meal that is both comforting and delicious when it’s cold outside.

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chicken and dumplings ingredients • • • • •

2-3 bone-in chicken breasts 2 quarts broth 3 cups flour 1/2 cup butter 1 cup milk

directions 1. On low heat, in a crockpot, cook chicken for 5-6 hours in 3 cups of water. Keep the broth. 2. In a medium bowl, combine flour, softened butter, milk, and some broth from the crockpot. Mix it all together well. 3. Dust counter with a generous amount of flour. Roll the dough out to about 1/4” thickness. Add more flour as necessary to keep from sticking underneath or to rolling pin. Using a knife or a pizza cutter, start cutting out dumplings into squares. 3. Bring 2 quarts of chicken broth to a boil. Add shredded chicken and begin adding dumplings one at a time. Season to taste. Stir frequently. Allow dumplings to cook and broth to thicken for 15-20 minutes.

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A C l o a k o f C o u ra ge THE BATTLE FOR LIFE

ARTICLE BY RACHEL BURK PHOTOGRAPHY BY FIREHEART PHOTOGRAPHY

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Life presents challenges to everyone, varying in intensity and impact. The response to these challenges is a personal choice, and while adopting a positive mindset is an effective way to confront them, the journey may not always begin with such optimism. Francie Baltazar – Stonestreet, owner of Fireheart Photography, and Porter City Lifestyle’s own photographer, knows about life’s trials, and there isn’t a better person to exemplify regarding those obstacles and a positive mindset. The words faded and her whole body froze. Time seemed to halt, and in that breathless moment, the world became a distorted echo of normalcy. A tear fell after trying fiercely to hold it back. With a quivering lip and a paused brush of her hand to her cheek, the outward expression of fear was erased, leaving a faint, glistening remnant. This was nothing more than an indication that a fight was on the horizon; a fight of will, mental focus, and trust. It was time to adorn the warrior cloak. As she surrendered to the journey, the medicine flowed through the tubes, and right into her soul. Her heart pulsed with power knowing that all the cells were slowly dying, but her body felt anything but powerful. Fatigued from the internal battles, her head drooped low as she released a weighty sigh. This was her new reality—tethered to tubes, combatting an invisible adversary. Her “happy” thoughts pillaged through the wreckage of her mental state -vying for any space that wasn’t occupied by negativity, and yet, those spaces seemed scant. “How did this happen? I’m in the best shape of my life! 100 pounds down, great diet, daily activity; I just don’t get it... Oh no, I’m going to lose my eyebrows again. Here comes Uncle Fester… No!! I will not succumb to the darkness. I will be the light for myself that I want to see in others!”

Rewind to September of 2020, Francie Baltazar Stonestreet, faced Endometrial Uterine Cancer Stage 2, a soul-crushing diagnosis. The treatment seemed to last forever, ravaging her body and mind. Facing the dichotomy of the situation, Francie armored herself with a new mindset, Xena Warrior Princess: brave, tough, and hopeful. Following an arduous battle, in May of 2021, yielding her sword of restitution, she was able to ring the victory bell on cancer. But just recently, she sat in the doctor’s chair, trying to catch her breath after receiving news that once again she would have to wield that sword. Cancer, round 2: Diffused Large B-cell lymphoma, stage 1, a silent killer. After curating a new, healthy normal, doubt tried to creep in and she was thrust back into the struggle of emotions from round one of treatment. But just for a second. There was only one way to face it: head-on with courage. As she stared into the mirror, facing her current reality, she tried to conjure that courage; the urge to release the floodgates weighed heavy on an already battered heart. Locks of curls trailed the floor and filled the sink. The reflection that stared back was a monster that couldn’t be tamed with rouge or lipstick. Cancer is a thief of more than just energy and wellness, it depletes any sense of beauty causing psychological scars- which are sometimes harder to heal than physical ones. With most treatments, hair loss is a known side effect, however, losing hair could be the most traumatic experience in the cancer journey, especially for a woman. As strands fall, so does a piece of identity, leaving an emotional canvas where vulnerability and strength coalesce. Crafting mindful beauty through makeup and a curling iron is a meaningful pursuit, yet with each lost strand, beauty feels increasingly bereft. CONTINUED >

“...I have a choice as to how to approach every day: attack with positive and healing thoughts, or drown in my fear. I choose healing thoughts and positive outcomes.”

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“It’s a balance of listening to your body and giving yourself grace to just be.”

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Alas, Francie found solace in some of the unwanted: quicker showers, no undesired hair anywhere, and wig experimentation! Available are a plethora of colors, and she wore lavender as a crown of confidence. A sanguine perspective reveals that having no hair is indicative of the treatment’s efficacy—eliminating cancer cells and forging onward to a healthier body and revived soul. Xena didn’t stay in the dark, she rested when needed, grieved when necessary, then stepped into the light. But not all days were easy; that’s part of the journey. Amidst the stagnant days of healing, it may have seemed like the world continued to progress without her. On those harder days, the journey to motion was not rushed but rather undertaken at a pace more comfortable. Penning words of inspiration and gratitude in a journal, slow walks in nature listening as the wind whispered encouraging words of hope, and surrounding herself with supportive friends proved instrumental in maintaining Francie’s warrior spirit. She found solitude and that zest for life in continuing her work. Even equipped with all these weapons for mental combat, she knew that on the battlefield of life, she was never alone. The hidden casualties of cancer extend beyond the diagnosed individuals to encompass their families. The impact on loved ones is profound, demanding an emotional resilience that is often overlooked. They wait, bedecked with hope, but understand the possibility of death, and watch as their loved one slowly withers from the champion they knew into a fragile state of dependence and need – focused solely on survival. Emerging from the shadows, Francie confronted the stark aftermath that cancer had wrought. Her family had grappled with the reality of potential loss, and having to witness

her suffering was a harrowing challenge. Providing support to family members in such times is invaluable. Caregivers, in particular, deserve respite. Meals that were sent, grocery shopping, and friends that would take a peaceful walk with her in the park were gestures that offered her caregivers a crucial break and affirmed to be remarkably helpful. It was always the actions, and never the words. On the contrary, words do carry some weight. Condolences seem meaningless at times, but Francie found positive affirmations like “you’ve got this” and “cancer doesn’t stand a chance” emphasized resilience over sorrow. Any warrior of words is an attribute to Xena! However, sometimes, using the wrong words felt like salt in a wound, “You don’t look sick”... How does sick look? Francie chose to speak words of positivity to herself and others; she chose to fight; she continues to choose life. Xena Warrior Princess, although an alter ego, is personified through her words and actions. Cancer is a tumultuous battle, yet amid the chaos, awareness stands as a guiding beacon for choices. Diet, exercise, rest, and cognitive acuity are all within one’s control. The choice to stroll and let the sunshine rejuvenate a tired spirit - or not; the choice to eat food with healing properties - or not; the choice to find the reasons to smile, to laugh, to live… or not. In this battle, don’t settle for “or not”. Francie hasn’t. Xena has awoken for round two of the cancer journey and has taken up arms to fight the mental fight. She wears the cloak of confidence that will create the path to victory once again. When a diagnosis leaves life feeling incomplete, find Xena, and let Francie serve as the source of inspiration.

It’s not how you enter a room, but how you exit. When it’s my time to go, I want people to remember my Xena Warrior Princess positive and motivating attitude!

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Close your eyes, and think of some of the top moments you’ve experienced in life: kissing someone special for the first time; holding your newborn baby; the salty tang of the ocean and the gritty sand under your feet; puppy breath and furry, squirming bodies climbing on you. When opening your eyes, did any of those start by scrolling social media? Social media has become a major part of society and everyday life, and in many ways, it can benefit your business or even social life. The problem is some people let it start to replace the real world in which they live. Social media, while ‘social’, can never be a replacement for real-world human connection, and it’s important to understand that. Spending too much time engaging with it can increase your loneliness and lead to feelings of isolation. Rising levels of depression and anxiety are linked to heavy social media use, along with feeling disassociated from your life and those around you. Body dysmorphia and feelings that your life/appearance are inadequate are also linked to social media use. Teenage girls are a true victim to social media; ask any school principal, vice principal, or counselor. However, it’s important to realize that what’s seen is what those who post want you to see. Photos can be edited and enhanced, and most only post the good things that happen, which is fine. We all want to root for the good! But you aren’t getting the whole picture from the glimpses seen online. Don’t let those feelings of dissatisfaction or envy settle into your mind. Remember to find the good in your life, then toss your phone aside and go enjoy it.

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It’s time to be intentional with your life. FOMO, or a fear of missing out, is another common problem seen with heavy social media use. The thought of maybe missing out on things can impact your self-esteem, as well as trigger feelings of anxiety. All of this can drive more excessive social media use, like an addiction, compelling you to constantly check your phone and compulsively respond to every alert noise. Are your notifications turned on or off for social media? On the flip side, social media can make you have an unhealthy obsession with yourself and cause you to link your self-worth to other’s reactions on the internet. You may find yourself posting tons of selfies, or constantly sharing your innermost thoughts, then checking frequently to see how many likes or comments it engenders. This signals an unhealthy link between your self-worth and social media. The two should not be interlinked. It’s time to be intentional with your life. Instead of looking at what other people are doing with theirs, live for yourself. Create

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your own utopia! Go outside and truly dive into the moment. Take in the smells, the way the air feels on your skin, and the sounds of birds chirping. Don’t take your phone. Leave it on the couch and put it out of your mind. This is your time. This is your moment that’s not shared with anyone else... maybe just your significant other or kiddos. A great challenge in the new year is to take a break from social media. Now, it’s highly unlikely you can, or even want to, just go cold turkey, but maybe it’s time to set some real-life boundaries and start implementing them. The goal is to have less of a virtual presence and more of an actual presence in your own life because you only get one. Start with baby steps such as no phones at the table, no social media before 9am, and set time limits on how long you can scroll so you don’t get sucked into the abyss. Set actual goals on real actual paper with a pen! Remember, it’s your life to live, in real time, in real ways. How will you be more present in the new year?

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9-24 months.

Pout Medspa is a concierge Medspa that focuses on delivering the highest quality medical aesthetic services in a comfortable, relaxing atmosphere; that’s why we come to you!

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