The Magic RETURNS
NEW JERSEY BALLET’S THE NUTCRACKER BRINGS HOLIDAY ENCHANTMENT BACK TO BERGENPAC.
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Happy December, Northern Highlands!
I’ve officially reached that point in the parenting journey where the holiday magic is… partially outsourced. For years, my husband was the chief elf wrangler in our house—moving “Alejandro,” our mischievous Elf on the Shelf, from one creative hiding spot to another each night. But as our family grew, so did the elf population. What started as one spritely visitor has now become a fullblown elf family, and let me tell you—the fun lasts about three nights before it turns into a logistical nightmare.
Thankfully, our oldest daughter (now nearly 17!) has taken over some of the elf duties. She’s far more creative than he is (and bonus points—she never forgets to move them). Last year, the elves spent the night ziplining from the kitchen to the Christmas tree—complete with ribbon, tape and just enough of a mess to leave me only slightly annoyed. I’ll admit, it was impressive. One of my favorite traditions, though, comes on Christmas Eve, when the elves leave behind a box filled with matching family pajamas before heading back to the North Pole.
On the cover this month is New Jersey Ballet’s “The Nutcracker”, a timeless holiday tradition that returns to bergenPAC in Englewood for a weekend of enchantment (page 12). With dazzling choreography, lavish costumes and Tchaikovsky’s iconic score, it’s a performance that continues to capture hearts generation after generation.
If you’re still searching for that perfect holiday gift, Cozy, Chic & Ready to Gift (page 20) from Dylann + Grace Boutique in Glen Rock has you covered—from soft sherpa coats and hand-beaded bracelets to festive home accents and sparkle-worthy accessories. Consider your holiday shopping officially simplified.
Then, turn to page 28 for local events and light displays to fill your calendar with cheer. And for a touch of nostalgia, The Little Red Truck That Could (page 22) shares the heartwarming story of Ruby Ray, a 1955 Ford F-100 that’s become a beloved Bergen County holiday icon.
From our family to yours, we wish you a joyful, laughter-filled holiday season surrounded by the people (and maybe the elves) who make life bright. May your days be filled with warmth, good food, unexpected moments of magic and just enough chaos to keep things memorable. Here’s to cozy nights, twinkling lights and traditions old and new that remind us what this season is really all about.
December 2025
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A Season of Enchantment
New Jersey Ballet’s “Nutcracker” Returns to bergenPAC for a
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1—7: Dink for a Difference served up doubles matches, cash prizes, bites and smiles as the community rallied to support Comfort Cases and foster youth.
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NEW JERSEY BALLET’S “NUTCRACKER” RETURNS TO BERGENPAC FOR A HOLIDAY TRADITION
A SEASON OF ENCHANTMENT
ARTICLE BY CARLY MAC MANUS | PHOTOGRAPHY BY NEW JERSEY BALLET
The holiday season in Bergen County wouldn’t be complete without the magic of “The Nutcracker,” and this December, New Jersey Ballet brings its cherished production back to bergenPAC for a weekend of enchantment.
Performances will be held at 1 and 4:30 p.m. Saturday, Dec. 6, and Sunday, Dec. 7. Tickets range from $35 to $65 and are on sale now through the bergenPAC box office.
A BELOVED HOLIDAY CLASSIC
For more than five decades, New Jersey Ballet’s “Nutcracker” has delighted audiences across the state with its blend of stunning choreography, lavish costumes and Tchaikovsky’s iconic score. Known as the longest-running original professional production in New Jersey, it first debuted in 1971 with international ballet star Edward Villella as the Cavalier.
Since then, the company has staged about 800 performances for more than 1 million viewers, involving more than 5,000 dancers and children. Today, generations who grew up attending the show return with their own children and grandchildren, making it one of the state’s most enduring holiday traditions.
ABOUT THE COMPANY
Founded in 1958, New Jersey Ballet has built a reputation for artistic excellence and accessibility, presenting world-class ballet across the state for more than 65 years. The company’s repertory balances timeless classics with contemporary works, reaching diverse audiences and inspiring a love of dance in new generations.
Under the artistic direction of Maria Kowroski, a former New York City Ballet principal dancer, the company has expanded its vision. Kowroski has added works by legendary choreographers such as George Balanchine, Jerome Robbins and Christopher Wheeldon, while also commissioning innovative pieces by rising stars including Harrison Ball and Lauren Lovette.
Her leadership has elevated New Jersey Ballet’s prominence, with recent appearances at prestigious venues including Lincoln Center, the Guggenheim and Kaatsbaan Cultural Park.
AT BERGENPAC
Located at 30 N. Van Brunt St. in Englewood, bergenPAC provides the perfect stage for this holiday favorite. A community landmark and nonprofit arts center, bergenPAC continues to bring world-class performances to northern New Jersey.
Tickets for “The Nutcracker” are available by phone at (201) 227-1030, online at bergenpac.org or in person during box office hours. Walk-up sales are also available two hours before each performance.
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A Cape May Christmas
SPEND A MAGICAL LONG WEEKEND IN ONE OF AMERICA’S TOP CHRISTMAS TOWNS, JUST TWO HOURS FROM SOMERSET COUNTY
ARTICLE BY PATTI ZIELINSKI
| PHOTOGRAPHY BY CAPE MAY TOURISM
Outside of the North Pole, there is one destination that simply lives the Christmas Spirit — and it’s in New Jersey, just a little over two hours from where you live.
Anyone who has visited the Victorian wonderland that is Cape May can understand how beautiful the historic homes embellished with intricately carved “gingerbread” and brightly colored paint become when layered with the twinkling lights of the season.
Cape May, America’s only National Historic Landmark City, embraces its title as one of the most iconic Christmas towns each year with events that allow you to celebrate the season as a romantic getaway, a fun-filled family long weekend or a deep-dive vacation for lovers of history, shopping and fine dining.
The holiday festivities occur from late November to just after New Year’s Day and are directed by the Cape May MAC (Museums+Arts+Culture), which promotes the preservation, interpretation and cultural enrichment of the Cape May region.
With so much to do, you can come back year after year and plan an itinerary that looks different than years past. City Lifestyle journeyed to New Jersey’s Winter Wonderland to give you what 36 hours in Cape May during the holidays could look like.
Want to stay in a historic inn? Take your pick!
Cape May Lodging can help you find the perfect place to rest and allow sugar plums to dance in your head. Our choice: The Southern Mansion, an 1863 mansion-turned-B&B, with well-manicured grounds and filled with heirloom furnishings and artwork. Just step into the Southern Mansion during the holidays and be transported: The roaring fireplaces, the floor-to-ceiling sparkling Christmas tree and cozy seating in the expansive lobby beg you to grab a bottle of wine and tuck in for a long winter’s night after exploring the town. Not staying here but pass by with your jaw agape? The Southern Mansion also gives tours.
To start your visit, book a seat on a trolly for a Historic District tour to get your bearings and delight in the city’s collection of 19th-century seaside wood-framed buildings (note the houses you wish to come back to on foot to examine more closely!). The guide will explain the variety of styles of Victorian architecture and give the town’s history and fun facts. (Did you know Cape May is an island?) Our trolley might not have been filled with choirs of angles, but we filled the night air with carols as we wound our way through the streets. The tour ended with our guide reciting “A Visit from St. Nicholas” (aka ’Twas the Night Before Christmas) by heart.
“To start your visit, book a seat on a trolly for a Historic District tour to get your bearings and delight in the city’s collection of 19th-century seaside wood-framed buildings.” - Patti Zielinski
Next, head to Washington Street Mall to browse the shops and dining options. Your travels will certainly lead you to the iconic Congress Hall, a seaside resort established in 1816 by Thomas H. Hughes, a prominent Cape May businessman. Originally called “The Big House,” the hotel was renamed in honor of Hughes’ election to Congress in 1828. Today, it welcomes travelers who tuck into tables at one of its restaurants (tip: Grab a table at the Blue Pig Tavern by the windows for great people-watching!) or relax at the spa.
If you’re looking for an adventure to get your body moving, head over to the 1859 Cape May Lighthouse and Oil House and climb the 199 steps up the original cast iron spiral stairway to the top for a breathtaking view of the Delaware Bay and Atlantic Ocean, the surrounding nature trails of Cape May Point State Park and Cape May Point Borough.
Book your stay so you can grab a seat at Cape May Stage in the evening. Housed in a church built in 1853 in the Georgian Vernacular style by Peter Hand, a descendant of one of the city’s founding families, the equity theatre produces shows with casts of nationally recognized actors and musical performers from Broadway.
By Day Two, you’ll have the lay of the land and will be ready to take a deep dive into history –with some Christmas fairy dust, of course! The self-guided Holiday Inns tour gives you entrance to several Cape May properties decorated for the holidays with garland, bows, trees and more. Although all the properties are walking distance, a trolley shuttle makes a continuous loop to all destinations, such as The Bedford Inn (1883), where you can delight in counting the
dachshunds and cats on an all-encompassing mural in the dining room. (The guides know how many but do not ask; they will not tell you!)
After, visit the jewel of Cape May: the Emlen Physick Estate. Built in 1879 for Philadelphia physician Emlen Physick, the 18-room mansion-designed by noted American architect Frank Furness-is one of the nation’s best examples of Victorian Stick Style architecture. In 1970, Cape May MAC formed to save the estate from demolition. Today, its first- and second-floor rooms are restored with period-accurate furnishings, décor and housewares. Here you’ll find ghost stories and tales of Christmases long ago. The estate embraces the wonder of Victorian Christmas and its ghostly reputation through house tours, including the “In the Voices from Beyond Tour,” which explores the property’s legends and long-told stories collected by Cape May MAC staff. Visitors will also learn about the lore surrounding Dr. Physick’s dogs as part of the estate’s folklore.
Book a table for discussion over what you saw at The Cricket Club, housed in the 1885 building where the city’s beloved Merion Inn operated until closing in 2022. Reopened by the owners of The Mad Batter, another Cape May institution, the Cricket Club gives a nod to history: The name is a reference to The Merion Inn’s association with The Merion Cricket Club. Watch the calendar for its live music schedule.
Finish your exploration of Cape May by stepping aboard an evening Holiday Lights Trolley ride along the lovely streets in the historic district, viewing the houses resplendent in lights.
And if you look up, you may just hear the jingle of bells of eight tiny reindeer over the shoreline.
“The estate embraces the wonder of Victorian Christmas and its ghostly reputation through house tours, including the ‘In the Voices from Beyond Tour,’”- Patti Zielinski
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Holiday Finds from Dylann + Grace Boutique
If you’ve got five minutes, you’ve got a great gift. Dylann + Grace Boutique, located at 227 Rock Road in downtown Glen Rock, has already done the sorting—elevated basics, cozy textures and festive finishing touches that feel personal without overthinking. Consider the holiday hunt officially over.
1 | Katydid Teddy Bear Coat–$68
Nuzzle up in this fuzzy, furry and oh-so-fluffy cardigan. Complete with a hood and pockets, it’s the ultimate sherpa wrap that blends cuteness and comfort—perfect for cozy nights in or chilly morning coffee runs.
2 | Pretty Simple Westlyn Woven
Bum Bag–$68 Polished, practical and just the right amount of edgy. This woven vegan leather bag features beautiful hardware, a chevron-lined interior and a unique blockstrap design available in solids, metallics and checkered prints. A chic, hands-free option for errands or travel.
3 | Capri Blue Glimmer Petite
Jar–$34 Light up the holidays with this seasonal favorite. The Tinsel & Spice scent blends juniper berry, cinnamon, clove and mandarin with warm vanilla and forest woods—capturing the essence of festive gatherings and cozy nights by the fire.
4 | Scout Little Big Mouth–$45 This easy-clean travel bag is a total game-changer. A built-in wire frame keeps it open wide so you can see and access everything inside—ideal for travel-size toiletries or on-the-go beauty essentials.
5 | IScream Kids Plush Shorts–$28 Made from silky fleece with a whimsical gingerbread café print, these shorts feel like a warm hug. A fabric-covered waistband and front pockets make them as comfy as they are cute—perfect for lounging or wrapping gifts in style.
6 | IScream Kids Plush Pants–$42 Soft, snuggly and covered in playful pups hitting the slopes, these plush pants are winter perfection. Cozy fleece and deep pockets make them a holiday favorite for staying warm all season long.
7 | Two’s Company Holiday Stripe Stemless Wine Glass–$16 Raise a glass to the season with this 16-ounce striped stunner. Durable yet festive, it adds instant cheer to any holiday table or cozy night in.
8 | Two’s Company Tortoise Martini Glasses and Tidbit Bowls–$30–$34 Bring timeless style to your cocktail hour. The set of four tortoise-print martini glasses and matching tidbit bowls adds a touch of refined glamour to every gathering — perfect for serving, sipping and celebrating.
9 | Marea Francesca Dress in Zinnia–$298 Polished and feminine, this versatile dress transitions effortlessly from desk to dinner. With its flattering silhouette and vibrant floral print, it’s the statement piece every wardrobe deserves.
10 | Libby & Smee Hand-Beaded Tile Bracelets–$40 Handcrafted and full of personality, these stretch tile bracelets are designed to be stacked and styled. Each one feels like a tiny work of art—making them the perfect stocking stuffer or best-friend gift.
11 | TLC Moving Forward Bracelets–$38–$56 These beauties aren’t just gorgeous—they’re stretch bangles designed to slip on effortlessly and fit like a dream. No clasps, no hassle— just instant glam.
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THE LITTLE RED TRUCK THAT COULD
‘RUBY RAY’ ROLLS INTO THE HOLIDAYS, BRINGING FRANKLIN LAKES TOGETHER
ARTICLE BY CARLY MAC MANUS | PHOTOGRAPHY BY MARIA ROGERS
- TINY HEARTS PHOTOGRAPHY
The gleam of a 1955 Ford F-100 in bright red has become a familiar sight around Bergen County each holiday season. Families pile in for photos, kids climb onto the running boards, and parents and photographers capture keepsakes they’ll revisit for years. The truck has a name— Ruby Ray—and a story rooted in family, community and remembrance.
Nick Vetterlein showcasing Vetter Vintage Taps
Owner Nick Vetterlein moved to Franklin Lakes in 2020. He and his wife, Paige, are raising two young children—Wyatt, 3, and Chloe, 2—whom Vetterlein affectionately calls “Irish twins.” The truck, he says, helped them quickly feel at home.
“Life has been hectic, but this truck, Ruby Ray, has really made us feel one with the community,” Vetterlein says. “We’ve met so many local photographers and families at photo shoots, and it’s amazing to be part of their lives and build memories for their kids that last a lifetime.”
Vetterlein, who has lived across Bergen County—including Upper Saddle River, Ramsey, Allendale and Midland Park— restores vintage vehicles as a side hustle. When he finally had enough saved to pursue a dream he’d held for years, he found a worn F-100 on Facebook Marketplace in New Hampshire. He and Paige rented a trailer and drove through snow to bring it home. The truck arrived baby blue, with rust on the fenders, cab corners and floorboards. Bit by bit, Vetterlein rebuilt it.
When it came time to paint, red was an easy choice. “My favorite color is red, and both of my babies’ birthstones are ruby, so it was very fitting,” he says. The name carried a deeper meaning.
Vetterlein’s father, Ray—his “hero” and “best friend”— fell ill while Paige was expecting Chloe. The family coordinated so Ray could meet his granddaughter in the hospital. He did, holding her shortly after she was born. He died days later. The truck became Ruby Ray in his honor; another truck Vetterlein rents for events is aptly named Rebel Ray.
The holiday season underscores that legacy. Vetterlein says more than 25 photographers have booked sessions with the truck this year. “I love seeing the kids’ faces when they see the old red truck and get to sit inside it and get their pictures taken,” he says. “Truly special.”
“Life has been hectic, but this truck ‘Ruby Ray’ has really made us feel one with the community.”
Traditions thread through the story. Vetterlein, the youngest of five, remembers his father dressing as Santa and arriving with a sack of gifts for the grandchildren. After Ray’s passing, the family created new rituals.
“It’s seeing the smile on Wyatt and Chloe’s faces when they wake up, run downstairs and open their presents,” he says, noting that his sister now dresses as Mrs. Claus to surprise Wyatt, who is “obsessed with Santa.”
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—NICK VETTERLEIN
The Vetterlein Family
Vetter Vintage Taps: Now Serving Toms River Brewing’s Stick Toss Kölsch-Style Ale, the official beer partnership of the New Jersey Devils.
On quieter days, you might find Vetterlein hunting parts at local junkyards or out with the family at Abma’s Farm or Wall Athletics gym in Oakland. Ask him to sum up his household in three words, and he doesn’t hesitate: “Loyal, beautiful, strong.” Ask what’s on the truck’s playlist, and he’ll cue up James Taylor’s “Fire and Rain,” his father’s song.
Vetterlein is now expanding beyond photo shoots with Vetter Vintage Taps, a mobile bar that can pull up to nearly any event and pour beer, wine, hard seltzer, coffee and nonalcoholic options. Think weddings, country clubs, corporate events, block parties, food festivals and backyard celebrations. When he gets a say in what’s flowing, his current favorite is on deck: Toms River Brewing’s Stick Toss KölschStyle Ale, the official beer partnership of the New Jersey Devils.
What began as a restoration project is now a community staple—a rolling backdrop for holiday portraits and hometown moments that outlast a season. For Vetterlein, it’s also a way to keep his father’s presence close. Ruby Ray isn’t just a photo op; it’s a memory maker.
Follow along or inquire about sessions on Instagram at @VetterVintage_Rentals.
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Wyatt and Chloe
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ARTICLE AND PHOTOGRAPHY BY GARDEN STATE CITY LIFESTYLE
A sweet family recipe perfect for gifting, snacking, and spreading holiday magic!
The holidays are all about togetherness, laughter and a little sugar-induced happiness. Few things capture that spirit better than baking cookies, filling the house with irresistible aromas and sharing sweet treats with neighbors, friends and family.
These festive sugar cookies are soft, chewy and covered in colorful sprinkles — perfect for gift-giving or sneaky bites straight from the cookie jar.
INGREDIENTS
COOKIES:
• 2 3/4 cups all-purpose flour
• 1 teaspoon baking soda
• 1/2 teaspoon baking powder
• 1 cup unsalted butter, softened
• 1 1/2 cups granulated sugar
• 1 large egg
• 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
• 1/2 teaspoon almond extract (optional, for extra holiday flair)
• 3 to 4 tablespoons milk
• Colored sprinkles or sanding sugar for decorating
ICING:
• 2 cups powdered sugar
• 2 to 3 tablespoons milk
• 1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract
• Food coloring (optional)
SPRINKLE JOY: HOLIDAY SUGAR COOKIES TO SHARE THE CHEER
INSTRUCTIONS
1. Heat oven to 375 degrees and line a baking sheet with parchment paper.
2. In a medium bowl, whisk together flour, baking soda and baking powder.
3. In a large bowl, cream butter and sugar until fluffy. Beat in the egg, vanilla and almond extract.
4. Gradually mix in dry ingredients, alternating with milk, until a soft dough forms.
5. Roll dough into 1-inch balls, then roll in sprinkles. Place 2 inches apart on the baking sheet.
6. Flatten slightly with a glass or your hand. Bake 8 to 10 minutes, until edges are lightly golden. Cool for 5 minutes before transferring to a wire rack.
7. For icing, whisk powdered sugar, milk and vanilla until smooth. Divide and tint with food coloring, if desired.
8. Decorate cookies as desired with icing and extra sprinkles.
PRO TIP:
Use cookie cutters for stars, trees, or candy canes to make them extra festive.
Perfect for gifting in tins, wrapping in cellophane with a ribbon, or sneaking a few bites while sipping hot cocoa.
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Local Magic
Tree lightings, carriage rides and cozy traditions brighten Bergen County small towns.
Holiday magic will light up the streets of Allendale, Ho-Ho-Kus, Upper Saddle River and Saddle River this year. Residents and visitors can enjoy tradition, cheer and community warmth—here’s a guide to the season’s most festive happenings.
Editor’s note: Event details are subject to change.
Please verify dates, times and locations with the host organization’s official website or social media before attending.
ARTICLE BY GARDEN STATE CITY
Allendale’s Winter Warmth
Downtown Allendale will soon shine with its beloved Holiday Walk and Tree Lighting. Families gather along West Allendale Avenue to sip cocoa, listen to carolers and count down to the lighting of the town tree. Santa makes an appearance for photos, while local shops open their doors with festive treats. Stay tuned for the official 2025 date and time from the borough. For a quieter holiday moment, the Celery Farm Natural Area offers snow-kissed trails perfect for a reflective winter walk.
Ho-Ho-Kus kicks off the season with its Holiday Lighting Event at 6 p.m. Friday, Dec. 5, 2025, complete with carols, cocoa and Santa on the borough green. The town’s historic centerpiece, the Ho-Ho-Kus Inn & Tavern, is also a favorite holiday stop. Decked with garland and glowing lights, the landmark offers a cozy fireside dining experience and a seasonal menu that makes every gathering feel special.
Upper Saddle River families look forward each year to the borough’s Christmas Tree and Menorah Lighting at Borough Hall. Expect student choirs, festive performances and plenty of photo opportunities with Santa. While the 2025 date has not yet been released, the borough typically posts details in November. The Upper Saddle River Library also adds to the holiday cheer with ornament-making workshops and family craft nights.
Mark your calendar: Saddle River has confirmed its Tree and Menorah Lighting for 5 p.m. Sunday, Dec. 8, 2025. Residents will gather for a night of music, lights and seasonal joy. The town also offers classic horse-drawn carriage rides and festive programming through the Saddle River Valley Cultural Center, where holiday concerts and children’s shows bring the community together. A drive through the neighborhood’s decorated estates is another local tradition, turning quiet streets into a winter wonderland.
Ho-Ho-Kus’ Classic Cheer
Upper Saddle River’s Family Traditions
Saddle River’s Old-Fashioned Magic
Beyond the Boroughs: Nearby Lights and Rides
A short drive to Hillsdale brings visitors to the Orchard of Lights at Demarest Farms, running Nov. 22 through Dec. 30, 2025. Guests can enjoy a guided lightshow tour through 32 acres of displays, cozy up by fire pits, meet Santa and warm up with hot cocoa.
Photo credit: Orchard of Lights at Demarest Farms
A Shared Season of Community
From small-town tree lightings to carriage rides and cozy tavern dinners, these Bergen County communities share one common theme: celebrating together. Whether you’re watching the Ho-Ho-Kus tree sparkle, snapping a family photo in Saddle River, or attending Allendale’s big night, the season promises plenty of moments to make spirits bright.
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PE ACE
Let’s face it—you can’t pour from an empty cup. And if you’ve ever tried, you know it usually ends with resentment, exhaustion or eating three extra slices of pie just to cope.
As a trauma-informed holistic mental health practitioner (and someone who’s heard every family dinner horror story imaginable), I can tell you this: Setting healthy boundaries during the holidays isn’t selfish—it’s science. Neuroscience shows that when we set and hold boundaries, we think clearly and speak kindly. This helps avoid snapping at Uncle Joe when he brings up politics—or when Cousin Linda asks if you’re seeing anyone new… again.
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Here are 10 ways to protect your peace (and your nervous system) this holiday season.
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Trauma-Informed Take on Healthy Boundaries That Actually Stick
ARTICLE BY HILARY RUSSO
1. REFLECT ON YOUR “WHY”
Before you say yes to anything, remember your inner peace is everything. From hosting dinner to buying another gift, pause and ask, Why am I saying yes to this? Studies on motivation and behavior show that acting from alignment, not obligation, decreases cortisol and boosts self-esteem.
2. SET REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS
Ditch perfection and choose progress. Your brain’s reward system releases dopamine when you complete tasks—not when you chase goals. Simplify your to-do list to what really matters, and let go of the rest.
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PRIORITIZE TASKS WITH INTENTION
Ask yourself, What’s a must? Overcommitting floods your system with stress hormones like adrenaline and cortisol. Choosing a few meaningful commitments instead keeps your body regulated and your mind at ease.
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SAY “NO” WITH CONFIDENCE
Saying no doesn’t make you unkind—it makes you clear. Research in assertiveness training shows that confident communication activates calm neural pathways, while people-pleasing keeps the brain in chronic stress mode. Protect your peace by declining commitments that don’t align with your goals or values.
In our fast-paced digital world, it’s easy to feel FOMO— the fear of missing out. Instead, try JOMO: the joy of missing out. Creating space for rest and reflection gives you back your agency, and choice is powerful.
5. COMMUNICATE WHEN BOUNDARIES ARE CROSSED
Boundaries aren’t walls—they’re bridges for healthy connection. When someone steps over yours, address it calmly. Try: “I prefer to talk about this another time,” or “I appreciate your interest, but I’m not discussing that right now.” Direct communication helps both parties stay regulated and respected.
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USE THE “FLIP THE SCRIPT” METHOD
This one’s a favorite—like giving yourself a high-five when you see how well it works. When the dinner table questions start (“Have you found a new job yet?” “Why aren’t you married?” “Are you ever having kids?”), take a deep breath and respond: “Thanks for asking! What’s new and good with you?”
This small redirect activates empathy circuits in the brain, shifting tension to connection. Suddenly, Aunt Sally is telling you all about her cruise to Alaska, and you’re no longer discussing the china pattern for your fantasy wedding registry.
7. HONOR YOUR TIME FIERCELY
Time is your most valuable resource. Research shows that time scarcity increases stress more than money scarcity. Schedule downtime like an appointment. You can’t show up for others—or “fa la la” anything—if you’re running on fumes.
8. PRACTICE SELF-REGULATION
It doesn’t take long to reset your nervous system. Try deep breathing, gentle humming or singing to activate the vagus nerve—your body’s calm-response system. To give your amygdala the ultimate hug, try a slow, rhythmic touch on your hands, arms or face while thinking of something pleasant.
This neuroscience-based method, called Havening Techniques, gently rewires the brain and can be self-applied.
9. BE CONSISTENT WITH YOUR BOUNDARIES
Consistency trains both your brain and others to trust your limits. Over time, this reduces conflict and builds emotional resilience. Remember: Boundaries are an act of self-respect that ripple outward. Everyone benefits from a calmer, more grounded you.
10. BE KIND TO YOUR MIND
Stress is inevitable. Suffering is optional. Hit the emotional reset button when you feel overwhelmed. Go for a walk, step outside for fresh air or excuse yourself for a few minutes of quiet. Your brain—and your future self—will thank you.
Healthy boundaries aren’t about keeping people out. They’re about letting peace in.
So this holiday season, before you pour another cup for someone else, check yours first—and refill as needed. A regulated nervous system is the gift that keeps on giving.
ABOUT HILARY RUSSO
Hilary Russo is a Bergen County-based trauma-informed holistic practitioner, health coach, journalist, international speaker and author. She is one of only 50 certified Havening Techniques trainers worldwide and a certified practitioner of this neuroscience-based method.
With a background in media and the military, Russo brings first-hand insight to her work with clients facing secondary trauma, stress and burnout. Her globally toprated podcast, HIListically Speaking (top 1.5%), features inspiring conversations with leading voices in holistic health, wellness and neuroscience.
Connect with Hilary at hilaryrusso.com or on social media @hilaryrusso.
NOVEMBER 28TH – DECEMBER 28TH
Holiday Classic Mansion Tour at Lyndhurst
Lyndhurst Mansion, 635 South Broadway, Tarrytown, NY | 9:00 AM
Tour the historic Lyndhurst Mansion adorned in holiday décor and enjoy guided discussions on its architecture and history. More information: lyndhurst.org/events/december-classic-mansion-tour
DECEMBER 9TH
Women, Wellness, & Wine Event in Bergen County
535 East Crescent Ave, Ramsey | 6:30 PM
Discover expert insights on managing menopause, weight gain, stress and more. Join Town & Country Compounding for an informative session on vitamins, supplements and prescription options to support women’s health, prevention and lifelong wellness. Sign up at tccompound.com/events
DECEMBER 14TH
“A Christmas Carol” at BergenPAC
Bergen Performing Arts Center, 30 N. Van Brunt St., Englewood | 1:00 PM
Enjoy a stage adaptation of Dickens’ classic holiday tale, perfect for families and theater lovers. More information: bergenpac.org.
