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LIFESTYLE LETTER

DECEMBER 2020 PUBLISHER

Aaron Swart | aaron.swart@lifestylepubs.com EDITOR

Mary Ellin Arch | maryellin.arch@lifestylepubs.com

Happy Holidays, Midlothian!

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AS YOU RECEIVE THIS BEAUTIFUL ISSUE, THE LEAVES HAVE FALLEN,

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CHILLING TEMPERATURES ARE THE NORM, AND JACKETS AND SWEATERS AND HOLIDAY PARTIES ARE EVERYWHERE.

STAFF PHOTOGRAPHER

SOCIAL MEDIA COORDINATOR

PUBLISHER A SSISTANT

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Midlothian, welcome to your 2020 Ultimate Gift Guide! This issue brings you fes-

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tive revels, clothier fare, and gifts that will surely inspire and delight! We’ve got

Matthew Endersbe

inspiration for designing your own lovely wreath, offered by Salisbury Garden Club members who graciously shared their seasonal decor, Plus, financial tips on how to plan for 2020 taxes and get your money working harder for you in 2021. And, we celebrate wonderful new partnerships that bring warmth to our hearts and vision to our community.

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Kelsey Proctor CONTRIBUTING WRITER

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As you celebrate the season with friends and family, we want to express our incredible gratitude for you, our community and our partners - we are blessed to call you friends, and we know the best is yet to come!

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INSIDE THE ISSUE DECEMBER 2020

FEATURES 12 Deck the Doors!

Salisbury Garden Club members offer oodles of inspiration for unique and beautiful holiday wreaths

20 Gift Guide: Presents with Purpose These delightful holiday gifts support local merchants and help you keep those New Year's resolutions

27 Walking the Walk A journey down the winding life path of unassuming spiritual leader Francis Chan

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34 Get Financially Fit! Now's the time to get your portfolio in shape for 2020 taxes

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DEPARTMENTS 4

Lifestyle Letter

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Good Times

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Around Town

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Renovate & Refine

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Locally Owned

20 Local’s Choice 27 Inspired By 30 Lifestyle Calendar 34 Financial Buzz

GOOD TIMES

Midlothian Gather set to open Staffers from Midlothian Lifestyle took a hard-hat tour of Midlothian's new Gather coworking location while it was under construction. Here are a few photos from the tour (by staff photographer Emily Alwood) plus renderings and images provided by Gather. The magazine will have an office in the building when it opens in December. Come visit us there!

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Salisbury Garden Club Wreaths Our thanks to Salisbury Garden Club for sharing the creative wreaths made by members. We wanted to share as many as possible with our readers, so enjoy this selection as well as a few more in a story elsewhere in this issue.

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1. Massee wreath | 2. Young wreath | 3. Kalata wreath | 4. McGonegal wreath | 5. Sido wreath | 6. Wier wreath | 7. McKeever wreath | 8. Ward door decor 8

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“Be present in all ings and ankful f all ings�

-Maya Angelou

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CHESTERFIELD AGAIN RECOGNIZED AS TOP DIGITAL COUNTY For the 11th consecutive year, Chesterfield County earned the top spot in the 2020 Digital Counties Survey. This is the fourth time Chesterfield has ranked No. 1 since 2010 among counties nationwide with populations between 250,000 and 499,000. Additionally, the county has placed in the top 10 each year since 2010, including nine times in the top 5.

The Center for Digital Government and the National Association of Counties survey identifies the best technology practices among U.S. counties, including initiatives that streamline delivery of government services, encourage open data, collaboration and shared services, enhance cybersecurity, and contribute to disaster response and recovery efforts.

MIDLOTHIAN GETS NEW HOME DÉCOR STORE A new home décor store, Bee Charmed, has opened at 13716 Hull Street Road.

Bee Charmed, located in the Harbour

Point

shopping

center

anchored by Publix, features upscale furnishing, vintage finds, custom home décor, chalk and mineral paints, local food products, and more.

Local artisans provide much of the store’s stock, and customers enjoy DIY workshops and demonstrations. https://bee-charmed.com/

EXTRA BILLY’S GETS NOTICED IN CRAFT BEER CUP Extra

Billy’s

Smokehouse

&

Brewery, located on Alverser Drive in Midlothian, took third place in the 2020 Virginia Craft Beer Cup in the category Specialty - Other for its Capital Kolsch.

The Virginia Craft Beer Cup is put on by the Virginia Craft Brewers Guild.

This year’s competition included 267 beers in 21 categories. Judging took place earlier this year.

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DECK RENOVATE & REFINE

Ravn wreath

ARTICLE MEGHAN BUTCHER AND MARY ELLIN ARCH | PHOTOGRAPHY SALISBURY GARDEN CLUB

THE DOORS! SALISBURY GARDEN CLUB MEMBERS OFFER OODLES OF INSPIRATION FOR UNIQUE AND BEAUTIFUL HOLIDAY WREATHS

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IS IT REALLY CHRISTMAS WITHOUT A

mixture of fruits and winter greenery. Get

TREE AND A WREATH?

your own colonial look by blending lemons,

We found some great examples of holiday wreaths in Salisbury, as created by Garden

pineapple, and apples with magnolia leaves, pine, and fir tree branches.

Club members. Check on the four wreaths

“I have for many years been inspired by

here, and find more on our Good Times page

the Williamsburg style wreath decorated

elsewhere in this issue.

with fresh fruit,” said Anne Brigitte Ravn. “I

Style: Colonial: Wreaths like this one take

start out with a Frazier fir wreath and then

us Virginians back to Colonial Williamsburg

decorate with pretty limes, lemons and small

and those first famous holiday celebrations

apples. A floral wire goes through the fruit

in America. This look often incorporates a

and ties in the back.”

mean you can’t change things up. Frosted branches, monotone ornaments, and a festive bow for a pop of color create that great winter feel. Keep your door color in mind when selecting your design; in this case, the white pops even more because of the sleek black backdrop.

“The fresh cedar branches I cut that day inspired me to do a spray for my door,” said Anne McCormick, who says the Garden Club has been “my Happy Place” since she joined in 1996. “I like my Christmas door decorations to stand out both day and night. After laying it out, I spray painted it white, hung silver balls and finished with a red bow.”

CONTE MPOR ARY

Style: Modern: A holiday wreath on your front door is about as classic as it gets. But that doesn’t

STYLE TIP When designing your own Christmas wreath, you can't go wrong with fresh pine, cranberries and a beautiful bow. It’s simple, classic, and easy!

McCormick wreath

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RENOVATE & REFINE (CONTINUED)

Carragher wreath

STYLE TIP

TR ADITIONAL Style: Classic: There’s something about a traditional pine wreath for Christmas. If you’re all about nutcrackers, the smell of pine, and freshly fallen snow, you’ll love a time-honored Christmas-style wreath to complete the look. Consider standard seasonal elements like pine sprigs, pine cones, baby’s breath, and cranberries - all brought together beautifully in this traditional display.

“I start with fresh evergreens as a base, then interweave interesting contrasting greens like magnolia leaves and boxwood,” said Dana Dee Carragher. “I attach pinecones or holly in threes, and poke in hypericum and baby’s breath for color. The large ‘flowers’ are pinecones cut in thirds, spray painted and attached with floral wire. My sister-in-law and I picked them up along a country road in California where my family was raised for five generations.”

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Bring your own monogram to your front door by adding the first letter of your last name to your décor. It’s a great way to personalize your display.

Style: Whimsical: Who says a wreath has to be a wreath at all?

Get creative by using classic indoor elements outside! This stocking stuffed with winter favorites like pine, evergreen, gift tags, presents, and a festive bow really stands out. To boot, this holiday décor hangs on a fence, not a door.

STYLE TIP

“Several years ago, I purchased the metal stocking that holds my Christmas hanging,” said Delora Stites. “The plant material

Don't be afraid to step outside of

and ribbon are supported by rolled-up chicken wire and water

the box when it comes to color!

picks. The stocking is versatile and works as a door or wall hang-

Christmas is not just red and

ing. It is a favorite go-to accessory at Christmas time.”

green. Play into your creative side by adding purple, white, silver, gold or navy to your color story.

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Stites stocking

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LOCALLY OWNED

SUPPORT LOCAL! GATHER MIDLOTHIAN TO OPEN IN DECEMBER

offices for 1-15 people, open area workspaces,

Gather, the industry-leader that designs, builds

event space and meeting areas, and a wellness

and operates coworking locations in Virginia, will

room and soundproof podcast room. The commu-

open Gather Midlothian, its fourth location in

nal kitchen will be stocked with tea, kombucha,

Greater Richmond, in early December. With three

fruit-infused water and locally-roasted coffee.

locations in Greater Hampton Roads, Gather

Members will enjoy professional and social events

Midlothian expands the company’s presence to

including the popular Wednesday Cookie Hour

seven in the Commonwealth.

with fresh-baked goodies.

Gather Midlothian will occupy 25,000 square

Jon

Greenhill,

Director

of

Community

feet on three floors of a new building at 14321

Engagement, noted that Gather is intentional

Winterbreeze Drive in Winterfield Crossing. Its

about creating collision points for interaction and

modern design reflects the unique personality of

collaboration. “There are several spaces on the

the surrounding mixed-use area, which will include

first floor where community-making happens,

a pond, restaurants and brewery.

as well as space for quiet heads-down work,”

“Our newest location offers maximum flexibility

he said. “Gather manages all day-to-day office

to create and customize an office suite for com-

operations so that members can concentrate on

pany teams of up to 50 individuals,” said James

running their businesses.”

Crenshaw, an owner of Gather. “We’re excited

Gather has over 1,000 combined members in

about the opportunities for businesses to discover

Richmond (Downtown, Scott’s Addition, Short

the benefits of coworking at Gather. Our members

Pump, Midlothian), Newport News, Norfolk and

will have 24/7 access to all seven of our locations,

Virginia Beach covering a wide span of industries.

which is a unique feature at Gather.”

The spacious location can accommodate up to 400 members. There will be more than 110

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LOCAL’S CHOICE

gift guide: PRESENTS WITH PURPOSE THESE DELIGHTFUL HOLIDAY GIFTS SUPPORT LOCAL MERCHANTS AND HELP YOU KEEP THOSE NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTIONS

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ARTICLE MEGHAN BUTCHER | PHOTOGRAPHY

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g i f t s fo r

RESOLUTION: SELF CARE

01 BOOBOOBAG For your bumps and bruises, these flax-filled bags offer warming or cooling. Patterns vary. Alma House. $5 each | 02 BEAUTY BASKET Pamper yourself with all these feel-good pieces from Sassy Bee. $112.00 | 03 RICHMOND COACH CREW SWEATSHIRT Show your RVA pride with this cozy crewneck. Mongrel. $29.95 | 04 HYDRO FLASK Stay hydrated with this 18 oz. Standard Mouthportable travel buddy. $29.95 | 05 REINDEER SOCKS Cozy and adorable! Perfect for any Christmas lover in your life, these will make a lovely addition to your luggage while traveling. Sassy Bee $24.95 | 06 BODY BUTTER A blend of coconut oil, shea butter, Vitamin E and essential oils for an aromatic treatment that leaves skin super hydrated. Day Three Bath and Body. $25 | 07 SCENTED SPRAYS Made with notes of cranberry, pomegranate and peppermint, this blend comes in a soap or room/linen spray. Day Three Bath and Body. $8 | 08 SOAP Cleanse away stress with these handmade soaps crafted from natural ingredients, in small batches to ensure quality. Boho Basement. $7 | 09 BEADED BRACELET/NECKLACE 34-inch semi-precious gemstone strand can be wrapped once or twice around your neck, four or five times around your wrist. Presented on cards that tell the meaning of each stone. Papeterie. $30

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g i f t s fo r

RESOLUTION: COMFY HOME

01 RVA PRINT Richmond map print/Southside. 12 by 12 inches. Locally crafted. Paperterie. $45 framed, $25 unframed. | 02 THROW PILLOWS Style your couch with these realtor-themed throw pillows. 18 inches square. Boho Basement. $35 each | 03 WOOD MAGNETS Support your community with these eco-friendly wood magnets. Boho Basement. $6 each | 04 NEIGHBORHOOD CANDLE Soy candle poured into cocktail glasses emblazoned with either the the outline of Virginia or the name of your town. Once the candle is gone, remove the wick, hand wash, and viola! A unique rocks glass. Paperterie. $36 | 05 BATH CADDY Pine caddy fits most tubs. Variety of stain colors and sizes. Boho Basement. $35 | 06 COVID COPING CARDS Cute thinking-of-you cards customized to our unusual times. 4 1/4" by 5 1/2", with matching envelopes. Paperterie. $5 | 07 CERAMIC TREE PLATE Dress up your home and your snacks for the season. Ladles and Linens. $10.95 each | 08 MR. AND MRS. REINDEER A chic Christmas decoration to brighten up your home this holiday season. $32.95-28.95 | 09 SET OF 4 CLOTH NAPKINS Classic farmhouse-style napkins are perfect for your next dinner. $24.95 22

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RESOLUTION: EXPLORE MORE

01 HEATHER JERSEY SCARF Vibrantly colored heathered scarf. 19 by 78, handmade in Portland, Oregon. Paperterie, $38 | 02 BASKETS AND BIKES TOUR Select from various 3- to 4-hour tours. Explore wineries and other points of interest. Picnic lunch included on select excursions. $125$155 | 03 WALLET Alligator bifold made from select Italian leathers, hand stitched and hand dyed. $200. Shown with magenta color block card holder from Grand Leather Goods, sustainably sourced French goat skin, hand dyed and hand stitched. $85. Both from Boho Basement | 04 MARKET BAG Head to the local produce stand with this eco-friendly market bag. 100% organic cotton rope, about 30 inches from top to tassel end. Boho Basement. $43 | 05 CRAYON ROLL Keep your kids occupied on the road with this crayon roll that organizes their coloring supplies.

Alma House, $18 | 06 DOG/CAT COLLAR Take your furry friends on your travels with this dandelion print adjustable dog and cat collar. $15-$19 | 07 CUSTOM PET KEYCHAIN These custom pet portraits are drawn on a wood pendant from a provided photo, cut using a glowforge for precision.

Naked Dog Boutique. $30 | 08 BRUMATE WINE HOLDER Carry your favorite beverages on all your adventures! Sassy Bee $30.95 | 09 VEGAN LEATHER TRAVEL BAG Free your adventurous spirit with one of these stylish travel cases. Sassy Bee $14.95

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g i f t s fo r

RESOLUTION: ENTERTAIN MORE

01 OLD FASHIONED GLASSES Relax with your favorite adult beverage in a starry nights old fashioned glass. Mongrel. Set of 2. $36.95 | 02 FESTIVE HOLIDAY APRON Perfect for the chef in your life. Ladles and Linens. $24.95 | 03 ZIP CODE NAPKINS 3-ply cocktail napkins with local ZIP codes printed in white. Paperterie. $6 | 04 EMBOSSING COOKIE DOUGH ROLLING PIN This merry rolling pin leaves a festive stamp on your treats! Jane. $11.49 | 05 BREW SET Drink up the local brewery scene from home with this gift set. Includes a pint glass, coaster and bottle opener in a cellophane gift bag. Mongrel. $23.95 | 06 PLATTERS AND BOARDS: BEAUTIFUL, CASUAL SPREADS FOR EVERY OCCASION COOKBOOK Be ready for any entertaining with this gorgeous cookbook. Crate & Barrel. $24.95 | 07 SLICE OF VIRGINIA CUTTING/SERVING BOARD Serve a slice of home with this bamboo cutting board. Laser engraved to show points of interest.

Ladles and Linens. $15.95 | 08 CHRISTMAS MUGS Savor the holidays with a hot beverage in a seasonal mug. Ladles and Linens. $14.95 | 09 VIRGINIA SERVING PLATE Treat your guests to your Virginia favorites with this serving platter. Sassy Bee $34.95 24

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RESOLUTION: LOOK SHARP

All items from 707 Fine Clothing.

01 CUFFLINKS made in London: $150 ITALIAN POCKET SQUARES $75 LAPEL FLOWER PIN $20 | 02 707 LEATHER BELT California made. $100 | 03 DORMEUIL READY-MADE SUIT $2000 707 READY-MADE DRESS SHIRTS $175 707 ITALIAN MADE TIE $150 TAN CAPTOE OXFORD DRESS SHOES $395 ITALIAN COTTON SOCKS $20 | 04 NOVELTY LINING CHOICES WITH CUSTOM GARMENTS | 05 CUSTOM OUTERWEAR $2000 and up | 06 COMFORT STRETCH DENIMS $200 | 07 CUSTOM SHIRTING $250 and up ITALIAN SILK TIES $150 | 08 DRESS OXFORDS $375 to $450 | 09 CUSTOM DORMEUIL SUITING $2500 and up 707 Fine Clothing, 310 East Broad Street, Richmond. https://www.707rva.com/ CityLifestyle.com/Midlothian

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INSPIRED BY

WALKING THE WALK

A JOURNEY DOWN THE WINDING LIFE PATH OF UNASSUMING SPIRITUAL LEADER FRANCIS CHAN

IMAGINE YOURSELF AS THE LEADER OF A THRIVING MEGACHURCH IN VENTURA COUNTY, CALIFORNIA, WITH MORE THAN 5,000 MEMBERS AND GROWING. You’re a New York Times bestseller making a million dollars in royalties from your first book and people love you—you’re on top of the world.

Would you leave that all behind?

Better yet, would you trade all of that, giving away 90% of your income to end up living in the poorest region of Hong Kong surrounded by people struggling to make it by on just 50 cents a day?

For most, it probably sounds like a tale of riches to rags; an unfortunate and unwanted result of someone falling upon hard times. But for Francis Chan, a church planter and best-selling author who speaks to thousands of people around the world each year, it’s exactly what he did. And exactly what he needed—an opportunity to walk down a winding path that led him toward fulfilling his purpose; toward becoming a

ARTICLE NICOLETTE MARTIN

man who can truly say he lives the life he’s been called to and encouraging others to do the same.

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INSPIRED BY (CONTINUED)

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Francis, born in San Francisco, was raised in a very traditional Chinese home and navigated a challenging upbringing. His mother died while giving birth to him. His father remarried, then his stepmother died in a car accident when he was 8. His father remarried again, then, when Francis was 12, died of cancer.

Twenty-six and newly married, Francis and his wife Lisa founded Cornerstone Community Church in Simi Valley, California in the early 90s, beginning with a membership of 30 people. Within the first two months, the church grew to 100. By 2000, membership grew even more to 1,600. And by 2008, Cornerstone Community Church was one of the largest in Ventura County and Francis’ then-new book “Crazy Love” was a New York Times bestseller.

Then, in 2010, Francis decided to leave it behind in pursuit of a more humble and impactful way of life.

The $1 million his bestselling book made in the first year, plus the money it continues to make? Francis signed it all over to a charitable gift fund helping the poor and victims of human trafficking.

After making the decision to leave Cornerstone and wrestling with what the next step would be, Francis and Lisa ended up selling their Simi Valley house and moving their family of six at the time overseas to India, Thailand and China, where he was able to embrace new interests and activities by doing what the locals do, and where he also saw an inspiring shift in culture and spiritual values.

“I wish we could learn and see the sacrifice of others,” he says. “Their mentality really isn’t a consumer mindset of ‘Here’s my needs, here’s what I feel, no one cares about me— me, me, me, me. Overseas they’re just obsessed with each other and thinking about how to get to the poor—the truly poor—like ‘We’re going to starve today,’ or ‘We’re selling off kids today.’ That type of poor. There’s just a lot more urgency.”

In the throes of a pandemic, quarrels over U.S. politics, a growing divide among people and beliefs, and the unsurety of life, Francis’ message of focus and fulfillment can be summed up simply: take your eyes off yourself.

“People that I’ve found that have spent their lives truly loving others are the j o y f u l p e o p l e .”

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“A l l w e r e a l l y n e e d t o d o is hit that little button that s w i t c h e s i t o f f s e l f i e m o d e .”

“It’s so counterintuitive because, physically, if I break my arm, I’m not going to be thinking about anyone else. The only thing that’s going to bring me pleasure is getting this thing fixed. ‘Everyone look at me—my arm is broken; someone fix

he says. “I go, ‘You have no clue. This is like the happiest place on Earth. You’re gonna go nuts!’”

Francis says Rachel began to get very sad, asking if they could just go to Paint Pals.

it for me,’” he says. “But...the answer is actually to take your

“She’s working herself into tears,” he laughs. “Like,

eyes off of yourself. People that I’ve found that have spent

you’re crying because I’m about to take you to Disneyland.”

their lives truly loving others are the joyful people. You’ll find very few generous people who are miserable.”

Francis, pretending to hold up a phone facing him-

“I feel like we’re just like Rachel when she was 5,” he says, fondly recalling the Paint Pals days. “We’re accustomed to certain things and God has something so much better for us.”

self, goes on to describe how he sees this generation

Nearly six months ago, Francis’ path led him to the

as a generation all about taking selfies; noting that

Sham Shui Po area on the Kowloon side of Hong Kong

you could be in the Grand Canyon or Niagara Falls

with most of his family, including his wife, all but one of

and you’re always in the picture—always the center

his daughters, two sons-in-law and two grandchildren.

of everything.

It’s a place he later found is where his mother also did

“All we really need to do is hit that little button that

ministries in the 1950s, and allows him the continued

switches it off selfie mode,” he says. “And now I can’t

humbling opportunity to live out his journey working with

even see myself.”

the ultra poor to bring relief and sharing his spiritual ful-

Looking toward the future, Francis (non-prophetically, he clarifies, laughing) goes on to recall the story of his oldest daughter, Rachel—one of seven children and two grandchildren, when she was 5 years old.

fillment with others, even while enjoying a pickup game with locals on the neighborhood basketball court.

“It’s a pretty bizarre journey to think that, first of all, my wife has stood by my side for 27 years, and it’s just been

“We regularly visited this rundown place in our city

an amazing marriage. Two years ago at our 25-year anni-

called Paint Pals,” he laughs, reminiscently. “There was

versary, she asked me ‘Do you know of anyone on the

this old maze you walked through with only a few walls,

planet that is more blessed than we are? Because I feel

some little ceramic things you could paint and this big

like we’re the happiest people on earth. It’s almost like

bubble machine that was just a hula hoop dipped in

that can’t be true, but I haven’t found anyone happier,’”

bubble solution. There really wasn’t much more to it,

he says. “It’s one thing for me to say because that’s the

but she loved it.”

way I feel, but to hear that from my wife as well and those

“One day I was just like, ‘Honey, this week I’m going to take you to Disneyland!’ And she was like, ‘What’s that?’”

truly to be her sentiments. It just feels like an impossible life all the way around.”

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DECEMBER

LIFESTYLE CALENDAR

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members-only access to the exhibi-

Cumberland State Forest and Bear

tion. Single-cardholder members may

Creek Lake State Park. Registration

VCUARTS FACULTY LECTURE SERIES: ALGORITHMIC CHOREOGRAPHY, KATE SICCHIO

reserve one free guest ticket each

is capped at 200 runners for 2020.

week, and dual-cardholder members

Time to be announced. https://run-

may reserve two free guest tickets to

signup.com/Race/VA/Cumberland/

the exhibition. https://reservations.

BearCreek10MileTrailRun

Virtual Event

vmfa.museum/state/Policies.aspx

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Almost since the beginning of computing, there have been people using computers to create choreography.

This lecture-demonstration will introduce the field of algorithmic choreography and discuss the use of com-

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cover the making of Terpsicode, a mini

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about Virginia's snakes. Learn how to

programming language for live coding

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tell the difference between venomous

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Discover the enchanting night sky

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through engaging songs and art from

more about snake behavior, get tips

vcu.edu/event/vcuarts-faculty-lec-

VMFA's galleries. https://reservations.

on snakes as pets, and interact with

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vmfa.museum/state/Policies.aspx

Rockwood's reptiles. Children under 12

puters in the field of dance. It will also

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MEMBER APPRECIATION NIGHTS: TREASURES OF ANCIENT EGYPT: SUNKEN CITIES

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IT’S A SNAKE!

must be accompanied by participating

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adult. Registration required. $5. Till 8:30

RICHMOND ROAD RUNNERS CLUB'S BEAR CREEK 10-MILE TRAIL RUN

classes/it-s-a-snake-2020?int=

p.m. https://www.activekids.com/

Bear Creek State Park

This Richmond Road Runners Club

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Virginia Museum of Fine Arts

10-mile trail race starts and ends

Enjoy a series of special evenings that

at Bear Creek Lake State Park in

provide VMFA members the oppor-

Cumberland

tunity to view Treasures of Ancient

west of Richmond). The loop course

River City Roll is excited to bring

Egypt: Sunken Cities on a night of

passes through the Piedmont Hills of

Ward Davis to Richmond for a LIVE

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(about

45

minutes

WARD DAVIS LIVE @ RIVER CITY ROLL River City Roll

seated show in support of his latest

ultra runners. All runners will pass

a re-created Virginia Indian commu-

EP “Asunder." Doors open at 7:30

over the famed High Bridge twice

nity once located on the James River,

p.m., with special guest Charles

during the run. 7:15-12:45 a.m. For

and experience the Eastern Woodland

Wesley Godwin taking the stage at 8.

more information and fees and to

Powhatan Indian culture. Hands-on

Ward Davis will perform at 9:30. $30

register visit: http://virginiaadven-

activities and demonstrations of farm-

-$150. Till 10:30 p.m. https://www.

tures.net/freight-train-50k-100k

ing, food preparation, hunting, and fish-

eventbrite.com/e/ward- davis-

ing, plus cultural activities are included.

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DRAWING: LEARN FROM THE MASTERS - IN PERSON

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BOOKTHINK DISCUSSION GROUP

Participate in guided sketching in the

LaPrade Library

VMFA galleries. Practice different

WINTER SOLSTICE HIKE

"The Sympathizer" by Viet Thanh

drawing techniques by emulating

Take a hike to the High Bridge and

Nguyen is the featured book. Come

featured artists' signature styles, and

hear a talk about the history of win-

share your passion for reading with

learn to incorporate them into work

ter celebrations and how they have

fellow book-lovers at our monthly

of your own. Ages 13–17. $12 (VMFA

evolved over time, on the eve of

discussion group. New attendees

members $10.) Registration required.

the Winter Solstice. Parking fee $5.

are always welcome, no registra-

Check with the museum for addi-

Please bring water, sunscreen and

tion required. https://chesterfield.

tional times. https://reservations.

bug spray as needed, and appropri-

evanced.info/signup/Calendar

vmfa.museum/state/Policies.aspx

ate shoes and outerwear. https://

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1-5.

https://henricus.org/

plan-your-visit/calendar

Virginia Museum of Fine Arts

High Bridge Trail State Park

www.dcr.virginia.gov/state-parks/

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FREIGHT TRAIN 50K & 100K

PEOPLE OF THE RIVER: POWHATAN INDIAN CHILDREN’S PROGRAM

High Bridge Trail State Park

The Freight Train 50k/100k features

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Henricus Park

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a 50k and a 100k option. There is

Henricus offers its Powhatan Indian

an 18-hour time limit for both. This

program most Mondays and one

Tickets include your entry and all-you-

makes it a great choice for first-time

Saturday per month. Tour Arrohateck,

can-eat brunch. Alcoholic beverages

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LIFESTYLE CALENDAR available for purchase. Parties may

not exceed more than 6 people.

Masks are required when not seated at assigned tables. Cashless event.

Drinks must be purchased through a

walk on art

contactless ordering app. Tips for the

queens will be processed using their personal Venmo or cash app. $16. 11

a.m.-2 p.m. https://www.eventbrite. com/e/drag-brunch-at-tang-bis-

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ALL MONTH GARDENFEST OF LIGHTS

Lewis Ginter Botanical Gardens

GardenFest of Lights is a holiday

tradition featuring lights, decorations, holiday dinners, hot chocolate

(for purchase); & more. The region’s ultimate holiday extravaganza! To

learn more details about Lewis Ginter lights, this year’s theme and tips for your visit, see the main Dominion Energy GardenFest of Lights page. Pre-purchased, timed tickets are required. $14. 5-10 p.m. https://www.lewisginter.org/event/ dominion-gardenfest-of-lights/

ALL MONTH TREASURES OF ANCIENT EGYPT: SUNKEN CITIES IMPORTER OF HANDMADE ORIENTAL RUGS THOUSANDS OF RUGS IN STOCK OF ALL SIZES

Virginia Museum of Fine Art

Dive into one of the most astonishing underwater discoveries of all time.

This exhibition is a once-in-a-lifetime chance to see treasures recovered from two powerful ancient Egyptian cities that sank into the Mediterranean more than a thousand years ago, destroyed by natural catastrophes

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Get F i n a n c i a l ly Fit! NOW'S THE TIME TO GET YOUR PORTFOLIO IN SHAPE FOR 2020 TAXES - AND TO START STRONG IN 2021

Chris Weller

investments that lost value, assuming these investments are no longer essential to your financial strategy. Your tax advisor can evaluate this type of move and others to determine those that may be appropriate for you.

REVIEW YOUR INVESTMENT MIX. As you consider your portfolio, think about the events of the past year and how you responded.

When COVID-19 hit and markets plunged, did you

TIP #1 Add to your IRA. You

WE’RE NEARING THE END OF 2020 – AND

find yourself worrying about the losses you were

have until April 15 to make

FOR MANY OF US, IT WILL BE A RELIEF

taking, even though they were just on “paper” at

contributions for the 2020

TO TURN THE CALENDAR PAGE ON THIS

that point? Did you sell investments to “cut your

tax year. The sooner you

CHALLENGING YEAR. However, we’ve still got

losses” without waiting for a market recovery?

contribute, the quicker the

a few weeks left, which means you have time to

If so, you might want to consult with a financial

money can work for you.

make some year-end financial moves that may

professional to determine if your investment mix is

work in your favor.

still appropriate for your goals and risk tolerance, or if you need to make changes.

TIP #2 See your advisor. You

ADD TO YOUR IRA. THINK ABOUT THE FUTURE.

might be able to make

For the 2020 tax year, you can add up to $6,000

investment-related moves to

to your traditional or Roth IRA, or $7,000 if you’re

Are you saving enough for your children’s col-

improve your tax situation.

50 or older. If you haven’t reached this limit, con-

lege education? Are you still on track toward the

sider adding some money. You have until April 15,

retirement lifestyle you’ve envisioned? Or have

TIP #3

2021, to contribute to your IRA for 2020, but the

your retirement plans changed as a result of the

Review your investment

sooner you put the money in, the quicker it can

pandemic? All these issues can affect your invest-

mix to see if it’s still

work for you. Plus, if you must pay taxes in April,

ment strategies, so you’ll want to think carefully

appropriate for your goals

you’ll be less likely to contribute to your IRA then.

about what decisions you may need to make.

SEE YOUR TAX ADVISOR.

the moves to end 2020 on a positive note and

Looking back – and ahead – can help you make

and risk tolerance.

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TIP #4

It’s possible you could improve your tax situa-

Review progress on your

tion by making some investment-related moves.

financial goals.

For example, if you sold some investments whose

CONTACT CHRIS WELLER:

value increased, you could incur capital gains

804-763-1414

taxes. To offset these gains, you could sell other

Chris.weller@edwardjones.com

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start 2021 on the right foot.