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Be Adventuresome!

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riends often comment on how adventuresome they think I am. This sort of assessment baffles me a bit because I really do think of myself as a practical, playit-safe, stay-in-my-comfort-zone kind of gal.

But then I think back to that first summer as a junior counselor at a camp in the beautiful North Woods of Minnesota. Several weeks into the summer I was asked if I’d like to co-lead a five-day canoe trip to the Boundary Waters with a veteran counselor.

Sure, why not? And can someone give me a quick lesson in advanced paddling before we go? And am I correct when you say ‘portaging’ means we have to carry the canoes on our shoulders?!

Looking back, I think that trip was a turning point. Once you’ve succeeded at something so far outside of your normal world, outside of your comfort zone, a tiny little part of you realizes “If I did THAT, surely I can do this OTHER THING…” Six years later I found myself looking at a brochure for the Avon Breast Cancer 3 Day. A 60 mile walk over three days with two nights spent in tent cities, and a fundraising effort for the disease that was now near and dear to my heart. I called a college friend and asked if she was up for a summer adventure. After a few months of training and a few new pair of running shoes, we were off. We loved every minute of our three days of non-stop chatter and memory making.

Years later, I started jogging 5Ks, which eventually prompted my running partner to suggest a half marathon. This led to a dozen more half marathons, which meant I just HAD to try one full marathon, simply so I could put a check mark in THAT box. And suddenly people looked at me like I was a ‘real runner’ even though I insist that I simply jog long distances.

And now, I suppose there is a part of me that thinks, yeah, I’ve done some pretty cool stuff. And I wouldn’t change a thing. And because of my experiences, I’ve made sure my boys tried some adventuresome new things like paddling those same Boundary Waters for five days. “Because if your Mom can do it with a group of 12-year-old girls, surely you can do it with the Boy Scouts…”

So get out there and try something really adventuresome. You’ll inspire someone for sure, even if it’s only your future self.

november 2014 editor-in-chief Lisa Harrison | Lisa@LifestylePubs.com assistant editor Kendra Mathewson | KMathewson@LifestylePubs.com sales director Michael Arel | MArel@LifestylePubs.com advertising sales Mary Beth Stauch | MStauch@LifestylePubs.com Troy Coup | TCoup@LifestylePubs.com contributing writers Lisa Allen, Ann Butenas, Christopher Clark, Lisa Gartland, Rebecca Murphy, Elizabeth Rosenberger, Denise Snodell, Kimberly Winter Stern, Tracy Sullivan, Jenny Wolff contributing photographers Paul Bonnichsen, Alexis Cook, Jessica Janasz Photography, Jim McConnell, Susan Motley

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Good Times

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Around Town

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Family Feature

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Giving Back

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36 A Wild Experience Awaits in the Wetlands

Squaw Creek provides refuge for our national bird.

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Healthy Lifestyle

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Dozens of Arboretum enthusiasts gathered in mid-September for the first ever Dinner on the Prairie.

More than $7,000 was raised to fund the Arboretum’s prairie restoration project.

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SCOUTS HONOR REAT UNDERWOOD This past April, the Corporon Family lost their son Reat Griffin Underwood (Losen) and his grandfather Dr. William Lewis Corporon as a result of a shooting at the Jewish Community Center. Reat’s scouting family also lost a fellow Boy Scout and a good friend. At the time of his death, Reat was working on the final requirements for the rank of Eagle Scout. His fellow scouts in Troop 92 decided to carry on his work in honor of his memory. In September they delivered the first phase of collections to Operation Breakthrough, which Reat had chosen as his project beneficiary. During the 75th Anniversary of the KC Order of the Arrow Lodge, attendees brought donations to benefit Operation Breakthrough. The scouts of Troops 92 organized and delivered the collection.

“You averted a crisis. We received everything from staples that will feed growing children, to laundry detergent to wash their school uniforms, to candy for our Halloween festivities” says Jennifer Heinemann from Operation Breakthrough. Troop 92 held a collection in October and a third is planned for early December. Reat’s mom wrote, “We are realizing the impact that doing good (over evil) can have on our community.”

In 2010, American Express founded Small Business Saturday to help businesses with their most pressing need — getting more customers. The day encourages people to shop at small businesses on the Saturday after Thanksgiving. The single day has grown into a powerful movement, and more people are taking part than ever before. This year, the big day is Nov 29.

At Lifestyle Publications, we encourage all of you to make an effort to shop at a small, locally owned business this month and to support this day. Your dollars will stay in the community and make a big difference.

CONSTRUCTION OF NEW INTERCHANGE BEGINS An interchange and new development are coming to 159th Street and U.S. 69. BluHawk development includes homes, retail, office buildings and a new public safety center.

Crews recently began working on a diamond interchange. Currently, there is no access to U.S. 69 Highway from 159th Street. The new interchange is expected to reduce traffic at 151st and U.S. 69.

This project is a first-of-its-kind agreement involving the state, the city and a private developer.

The Kansas Department of Transportation, Price Brothers and Overland Park are all contributing to the cost of the $18.9 million project. Price Brothers owns 300 acres of undeveloped land at the southwest corner of the interchange.

Work on the project is set for completion in the fall of 2015.

ST. JAMES ACADEMY NAMED SCHOOL OF EXCELLENCE TURN THE PORCH LIGHTS ON Veteran’s Day is on November 11. Let’s all honor the veteran’s in our neighborhoods by turning on the porch light that night.

This tradition began decades ago when the Veterans of Foreign Wars reminded those of us at home that since veterans have lighted the country’s way it was our job to leave on a porch light to light their way home. It’s a simple act on one night that can help send an important message.

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The Cardinal Newman Society named St. James Academy of Lenexa a 2014 School of Excellence on the Catholic Education Honor Roll. Less than 5 percent of Catholic High Schools in the U.S. earn this distinction.

St. James Academy, with an enrollment of 839, is the first high school in the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas to earn this designation. The Honor Roll schools’ common trait is an institutional commitment to providing an integrated and faithful Catholic education across all disciplines and in all areas of student activities.

“This is a compliment to all our supporters,” says Mr. Andy Tylicki, president of St. James Academy. As we celebrate our tenth year of educating great students in our region, the credit for this award is shared among our founding leadership who established the culture and expectations, the families who took a chance by enrolling in a new school community and the faculty, staff and coaches who honor and abide by our mission.”

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Around Town WWI MUSEUM NAMED ONE OF TOP 25 IN THE US TripAdvisor, the world’s largest travel site, named the National World War I Museum at Liberty Memorial among the top 25 museums in the United States as part of its 2014 Travelers’ Choice Awards.

The National World War I Museum, which houses the most diverse collection of World War I objects in the world, earned a No. 23 ranking from TripAdvisor among the more than 35,000 museums in the U.S. The Museum was one of only eight recognized on the top 25 list from the Midwest and the only museum from Missouri to receive the distinction.

In the midst of the Centennial commemoration of World War I (1914-18), the museum recently experienced its highest trafficked month ever with nearly 25,000 guests in July.

NEW OP PUBLIC WORKS DIRECTOR HIRED Anthony “Tony” Hofmann is conscious of the importance a robust infrastructure plays in people’s lives.

He has to be in his new job as the fourth Public Works Director in Overland Park’s 54-year history. He began his new job in early October.

“I am looking forward to continuing my public service career with the city of Overland Park, the city my family and I call home,” says Hofmann. “Overland Park residents have said in citywide surveys that streets and infrastructure maintenance are top priorities. I know residents, businesses, elected officials and city management have great expectations for outstanding service.”

Hofmann’s experience includes twice being a district engineer in the Corps, in Walla Walla, Washington, and Kansas City. He joins the city after working for Stantec, an architectural engineering design firm with an office in Overland Park.

Hofmann replaces Doug Brown, who retired from Overland Park after 17 years with the city.

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ST. THOMAS AQUINAS JUNIOR TO COMPETE WITH U.S. WORLD GYMNASTICS TEAM The Saints of St. Thomas Aquinas are especially proud of junior Maddie Desch. It was recently announced that Desch would compete as a member of the 2014 U.S. World Gymnastics team, which competed in Nanning, China, in mid-October.

The team was selected following the conclusion of the World Championships Team Selection Training Camp held at the USA Gymnastics National Team Training Center at the Karolyi Ranch, an official U.S. Olympic training site, in Huntsville, Texas.

“This is an important year for our team development,” says Steve Penny, president of USA Gymnastics. “The World Championships is a valuable proving ground for this group of athletes, and we are confident that the U.S. Team will deliver an impressive performance.”

NOW OPEN IN OVERLAND PARK The Overland Park Chamber reports that several new businesses are opening in town. Some of these include: -Meineke Car Care Center has opened at 15100 Glenwood Avenue in the former Stanley Tire and Automotive space.

-Kulture Kurry a fine dining Indian restaurant is now open in The Shops at Corporate Woods.

-Merit Bank has converted its loan production office into a full-service facility providing a wide array of deposit and loan products at 10000 College Boulevard in the Shops at Corporate Woods.

PANERA BREAD EXPANDS WITH DRIVE-THRU LOCATION New Panera Bread location opening Saturday September 20th in Overland Park! Located at College & King, this is the first Kansas City Panera bakery-cafe in the Panera Kansas franchise to open with a Drive-Thru. Come check out the new location and receive the same great products and services you love from Panera Bread!

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OLATHE SENIOR NAMED TO NATIONAL HONOR BAND Olathe East High School senior Henry Zimmermann has been named to the 2014 National Association for Music Education All-National Concert Band Honor Ensemble. Zimmerman recently joined 670 students for a once in-a-lifetime experience of performing on the stage of the Grand Ole Opry House in Nashville, Tenn.

These students, named the “best of the best” from about 2.5 million students nationwide from local, district and state music festivals, will rehearse a repertoire of challenging music.

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Financial Fitness

5 Financial Questions to Discuss with Your Aging Parents B

eing prepared for the unexpected may not be high on your priority list. There are people who would have trouble locating their breaker box if the power went out, the fire extinguisher if cooking dinner took a wrong turn, or the car jack if they popped a tire. However, these situations produce immediate emergencies that could easily be overcome with a little preparation. The same goes for health or other issues that may affect the financial situation of your aging parents. These five questions can help you when approaching your parents about their financial well-being and discussing their wants and wishes.

1. Would you feel comfortable talking to me or a financial professional about your finances so that we are prepared in the event of a health crisis?

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situation. Make sure they are comfortable being open and honest with the person they choose. Their dignity may feel threated when having conversations about financial matters, so a protected and comfortable environment is necessary.

2. Do you have any of the following estate planning documents in place: a will, durable power of attorney, or health care power of attorney?

These documents will help determine your parents’ wishes on matters such as asset distribution and end-of-life requests, and names someone to make decisions if they are unable. If they have been developed, make sure they are up to date and reflect any recent changes in their lives. If they haven’t started, work with an estate planning attorney to get the documents in place.

3. Where have you stored your estate planning and other important documents/items?

Knowing where your parents store important documents is just as important as knowing they have them prepared. You should

also know where they store keys to safety deposit boxes, insurance policies, investment accounts, original certificates and passwords for their digital accounts and assets.

4. Do you currently work with any professional advisors? Have you given them permission to speak with specific family members?

Developing a relationship with, or at least knowing the contact information for your parents’ advisors, will be helpful in the event of a crisis. These professionals can help you locate documents and understand the wishes of your parents that have already been discussed. If they do not currently work with a financial advisor, consider working with one who incorporates the entire family into financial planning discussions decisions.

future, you may find comfort knowing you are carrying out their wishes.

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5. What concerns do you have about aging and being prepared in the event of an emergency?

This last question may or may not result in an answer related to finances, but it could be some of the most valuable material your parents share with you. Knowing their concerns and discussing ways you can best comfort them or help them during a time of need can be emotionally helpful for your parents and yourself. In the event that they are unable to communicate with you in the

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Angie Ripley, Ashley Rhoades and Nita Criswell

Make It Your Own BUY OR BUILD? CREATING THE HOME OF YOUR DREAMS CAN BE A REWARDING PERSONAL JOURNEY ARTICLE CHRISTOPHER CLARK | PHOTOGRAPHY ALEXIS COOK

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t’s a buyer’s market. Wait, no. It’s a seller’s market, right?

If those questions keep you up nights as you step gingerly into real estate as a home buyer, maybe it’s time you created your own market by building the home of your dreams. That’s where an experienced real estate agent — versed in buying, selling AND building — can help point you in the right direction.

Each one of us has a very different idea of what that space should be. So why settle for someone else’s pre-owned space when you can customize your very own.

“Building a new home is about reflecting your values and lifestyle, not altering someone else’s,” says Angie Ripley, who leads R Associates with RE/MAX Elite, a team of full-time professional agents who offer clients extensive knowledge of new construction and are active members of the Kansas City Home Builders Association.

Ripley started her real estate career in new construction nearly 14 years ago and is happy to report that as of 2013 new construction is back on the rise.

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— from lot size and neighbor proximity to layout and amenities.

But with nearly endless options comes difficult choices that without an experienced hand can lead to trouble down the road. A good builder in today’s new home market will meet higher energy standards and codes not in place in the past. Delivering a quality home personalized for you with high-performance energy efficiency and state-of-the-art ventilation and air filtration. The result is year-round, draftfree comfort and higher indoor air quality.

Unlike most resale homes, new homes are made of cutting-edge building products that often require less care and maintenance then the alternative pre-owned tired products that may soon need replacing.

Once you’ve made the decision to build, the question comes down to how many choices you’d like to make to determine the unique look, feel and function of your new home. Costs are a big concern, and can accrue quickly but staying within budget is possible, especially when you do your research upfront. Never sign an agreement with a builder before fully understanding every cost.

Choosing the right lot, views or piece of land for your new home should be the first personal expression about your inspiration and layout. Don’t build your dream home if this is not the location of your dreams.

“We can look at a lot and decide whether we like the views. The orientation. If you would have a walkout or daylight basement. Would there be a patio or deck off the kitchen.” says Ripley, “But what you can’t see can also be a healthy addition to any home price. Whether that involves removing rock, adding piers, etc., there are ways to ensure that unseen site costs don’t put you in the hole.”

Hiring an agent that considers these competing factors is crucial, Ripley says, because your new home “should be a place of inspiration and comfort.”

Knowing what to expect at each stage – and especially what choices you’ll make and when – can make your home-building process smooth and result in the home you’ve always dreamed about.

Ripley is particularly proud of her team, which she says has been routinely exposed to many builders and transactions that have educated her agents through the years. Ripley was honored with the Kansas City Regional Association of Realtors Salesperson of the Year Award in late 2013.

“An agent’s ethical duties are to educate and disclose, guiding their clients through a smooth transaction,” she says. “We are in the field daily experiencing all the ups and downs. If you decided to sky-dive, do you prefer the instructor with a few jumps or the instructor with thousands of jumps?”

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Three Generations of Friends are Like Family ARTICLE LISA GARTLAND | PHOTOGRAPHY PROVIDED

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ast May, two outstanding Saint Thomas Aquinas High School seniors were selected to speak at the graduation ceremony.

Annie Lind and Pete Andrews eloquently represented the class of 2014, but they are more than just high school classmates. They have known each other and have been friends their whole lives. In fact, their friendship started two generations ago.

It all started back in the late 1950s when Mary Pat Gueguen from Lexington, Mo., and Colette Diederich, from the small Kansas farming community of Kimeo went to Mount Saint Scholastica College in Atchison. Both were piano music majors and they became fast friends. Piano recital performances and the prestigious Schola Choir at the college helped to create a strong affinity between the two young women. While they were students, both ladies met their future husbands who were already friends as well, students at Saint Benedict College, also in Atchison.

Colette married Burton Huerter in 1961, and Mary Pat married David Miller in 1963.

Both couples moved to the Kansas City area to raise families. The Huerter family had five children and the Millers had three. Family life kept the young mothers very busy and they were unable to see each other often. However, their friendship never faltered. They spoke on the telephone and saw each other at alumni events, including a Shrove Tuesday party hosted at the Miller home each year. The Huerters hosted Easter dinner one year, and Mary Pat taught piano lessons to a couple of the Huerter kids over the years.

Growing up, Lisa (Huerter) Andrews and Kathleen (Miller) Lind knew of each other because of their mothers’ friendship, but they did not know each other well. Their paths again crossed when Lisa started her freshman year of high school at Bishop Miege. Kathleen was a sophomore at the same school.

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Andrews says, “One of the reasons my family went to Miege was because of the Millers. We transferred from public school, and Kathleen was one of the few familiar faces there.”

While they had a literature class together and both participated in theater productions, they were a year apart, and each ran with her own group of friends. After high school, they both attended Benedictine College (Mount Saint Scholastica and Saint Benedict colleges merged in 1971 to form Benedictine College).

Within the small college community, Kathleen and Lisa frequently ran into each other. A large group of mutual friends also fostered their friendship. By the end of college, they’d became closer, going on canoe trips, attending happy hours and socializing more frequently.

Kathleen was married in 1990, and Lisa married in 1991.

With their parents, they attended each other’s weddings, and soon after, they became parents themselves. They both lived in Mission, just a few blocks from one another. Often, they

visited, and their children played together. They were part of a young mothers’ group at St. Pius X Catholic Church and were in the same bunko group.

Now those same mothers do not have little children anymore, the bunko group just gets together to visit instead of actually playing the game and youngest generation of family friends is growing up. Kathleen and Lisa each have two children in college (three of the four attend Benedictine), they each have one at Aquinas, and Lisa has two in grade school as well. The friendships in these two families have bloomed for more than half a century and continue to flourish through three generations.

Sadly, the generation that established it all is now incomplete. Colette died in 2007 after fighting cancer for two years.

Mary Pat recalls, “Colette was a wonderful, wonderful girl. I miss her dearly to this day.”

The two most recent high school graduates have gone to different colleges; Annie has followed in her mother’s and grandparents’ footsteps, and is attending Benedictine College. Pete has gone down south to the University of Tulsa.

As time continues, there is little doubt the strength of friendship between these two families will remain, likely for generations into the future.

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hen you suffer from dietary restrictions due to diseases or allergies, it can often feel as if food, typically the center of our lives, is no longer an enjoyable aspect. Fortunately, there is a gluten-free bakery in town that understands this.

“I wanted to start a bakery that would give people their lives back. Food is such an important part of life, and an autoimmune disease or food allergy shouldn’t take the joy of food from you. And it doesn’t have to. Our promise is to fully satisfy taste buds without compromising health,” says Kneaded Specialties proprietor Sherry McGarrah.

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out in hives constantly and endured a regimen of daily allergy shots. Throughout her formative years, she struggled with anemia and vomiting for no apparent reason. By the time she reached adulthood, she also struggled with infertility.

After visiting numerous doctors and underdoing countless tests and physical exams, she was inaccurately informed over the course of a decade that she had Irritable Bowel Syndrome, depression, anorexia, and the most injurious diagnosis of all: “It’s in your head.”

After plummeting to just 80 pounds, her doctor tested her for Celiac disease, and once diagnosed, a dark cloud finally gave way to understanding how she could embrace her life again. The solution rested in changing her diet. As she learned all she could about the disease, she adopted a gluten-free diet.

“Within the first few months, one by one, several of my family members were diagnosed with the disease,” recalls McGarrah. “We thought the enjoyment of food was over.” (Celiac disease is a genetic autoimmune disease that does not allow for the

absorption of nutrients. Statistics have shown that one out of 130 people will test positively for this disease.)

Resigned to the possibility of a life without the mouth-water i ng pleasures of pumpkin pie at Thanksgiving or fresh bread at dinner seemed like a prison sentence for her taste buds. Additionally, her love of baking and cooking were pushed to the wayside.

“Two of my favorite pastimes were something I wanted to avoid,” she notes.

Determined to find the light through all of this, she soon reawakened her culinary prowess and through much trial and error, began to make desserts that were so tasty that family members had to look twice at the ingredients, causing them to question if the treats were truly gluten-free.

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It has become her mission to continually improve each day and prove to individuals who suffer from food allergies and intolerance that they do not have to sacrifice taste to cater to their illnesses.

“You don’t have to live without the simple pleasures of warm bread and pumpkin pie,” says McGarrah.

As a result, Kneaded Specialties was born and is now a warehouse facility in Lee’s Summit that is family-owned and operated.

This company is fully dedicated to peanut-free, tree nut-free and gluten-free products, which are also free of soy, dairy and casein.

Their products are now available at multiple locations throughout the metro area, including Hy-Vee, Nature’s Pantry, Minsky’s Pizza, Waldo Pizza, Red Robin, V’s Restaurant, 491 Deli and more.

The company has also met the requirements to qualify for the Celiac Sprue Association’s Recognition Seal Program and is in full compliance for the production of products that are appropriate for a medically prescribed celiac diet.

“I know better than anyone that the right ingredients can be a matter of life and death,” says McGarrah.

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Complete Home Remodel Combines Comfort and Style for a Timeless Impression ARTICLE ANN E. BUTENAS | PHOTOGRAPHY PAUL BONNICHSEN

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hat exactly does it take to make a house an inviting home when you find yourself having to accommodate previously large-space requirements in a smaller environment? The key rests in space planning, which is essentially code for maximizing the space one has and accommodating the tastes and lifestyles of the homeowner around that end.

For one homeowner who relocated from a large house in the Northland to a quaint villa in Leawood, the transition from an expansive and high-maintenance residence to a comfy, stress-free and relaxing home happened quite seamlessly. With her children grown, her former residence was more than she needed and it was time to embrace a new environment.

“I moved from a five bedroom home in the Northland to a small villa in Leawood and basically got rid of all of my furniture and purchased all new pieces for my new home,” states the homeowner. “I had so much fun. I was like a kid at Christmas!”

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facelift to bring it up to speed. Additionally, with a lifetime of furnishings that fit perfectly in her former home but did not exactly partner well with the new abode required a call to an interior design expert: Arlene Ladegaard of Design Connection, Inc. “I met with Arlene and explained what I wanted,” expresses the homeowner, who collaborated with Ladegaard on several options in terms of colors, fabrics, countertops, furniture and appliances, ultimately selecting what fit not only her lifestyle, but also her space.

“Arlene came in and did everything,” says the homeowner. “I chose what I wanted and she tailored them to meet my needs and taste.”

The entire home was painted with a warm neutral gray and the kitchen cabinets were painted white, creating a flawless appeal when complemented by the new Cambria countertops, GE Monogrammed appliances, kitchen table and chairs.

“Arlene found a kitchen table that accommodates several people,” explains the homeowner. “My kitchen is small, but with the leaves added, this table can swivel around, fully maximizing the existing space.”

Further, the unique glass and chrome chandelier hanging over the dining room table provides a regal touch, blending beautifully with the design of the space while accenting the dark wood of the table and the warm gray fabrics of the custom-designed chairs.

One of the main reasons the homeowner chose to work with Arlene was because of the emphasis on space planning, as she did not want to purchase furniture that would prove to be too large for the rooms.

“We choose furniture that is not only functional, but comfortable, while at the same time remaining sensitive to the space,” notes Ladegaard.

The living room boasts a beautiful sofa that looks like velvet but is actually a polyester fabric, and the adjoining windows are outfitted with light filtering solar panels in a neutral color that allow for perfect lighting while providing sun blockage from the western exposure. Eye-catching wall sconces accent both sides of a painting that is large enough to handle a big wall without over-powering it. This all adds up to comfort and style.

The master bedroom was remodeled and completed with new bedding. The master bathroom was completely re-tiled and new cabinetry, a mirror and shower doors were installed.

Throughout the home, new brushed nickel hardware was also installed and updated light fixtures were added to complement the warm tone of the walls and carpeting.

“I love my new place,” smiles the homeowner. “It is small, but cozy, and when guests come over, they absolutely love it.

Arlene made sure everything was done right and the end result is fabulous.”

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Veteran, Pilot, Author: Meet Leonard Porter ARTICLE LISA ALLEN | PHOTOGRAPHY ALEXIS COOK AND PROVIDED

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ot long ago, in a hangar in Gardner, Kan., retired Lieutenant Colonel Leonard Porter climbed into the back of a PT-19 aircraft. He was at the airport by request, discussing a potential speaking engagement about his experiences in World War II. “It taxied in as we were talking,” says Porter, “and I said ‘Man, would I love to fly that baby again.’

I had a lot of helpers,” he says, to climb up and get into the back seat. They lifted his legs and helped him settle in, asking often if it was uncomfortable or if it hurt him at all, to push and prod him until he was seated.

“It hurt like hell, but there was no way I was going to tell them that!” he says. The pilot climbed into the cockpit and off they went.

Then the pilot said to me “You said you can fly it, you’ve got it.”

And I flew it. You can pilot from the backseat, so I did. I flew for 45 minutes. I was overjoyed.

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“Then he said to me ‘you said you can fly it, you’ve got it.’ And I flew it. You can pilot from the backseat, so I did. I flew for 45 minutes. I was overjoyed,” he says.

The first time Porter climbed into a PT-19 was on March 23, 1943. He was in Muskogee, Okla., to begin Primary Flight Training. The flight lasted 25 minutes, and air sickness got the best of him on that inaugural flight. He was sick after five subsequent flights as well, and was considered for elimination. On his seventh flight, the one that would determine if he’d ever fly a plane again, he landed the aircraft without being sick and was allowed to continue flight training. It was April Fool’s Day. “I had a natural aptitude for flying,” says Porter. “It didn’t take me long to solo, and I loved it. Absolutely loved it.”

And so began Porter’s career as a B-24 bomber pilot. But before we can talk about that, we have to talk about what matters most to Porter.

“I have a story to tell,” says Porter. “My story doesn’t really begin until I married Marty. From that point on, it’s the events that tell the story.”

The events include Porter’s decision to take time off work from his job at North American Aviation in Fairfax—a B-25 factory—to take an exam that would establish his eligibility for Aviation Cadet Training.

Of the 13 men who took the exam, Porter was one of three who passed.

On December 6, 1942, Porter’s wife and her parents, his mother and several other relatives waved goodbye as Porter departed Union Station for San Antonio, Texas, to begin active duty. This was one week before the Porters’ first wedding anniversary.

Porter doesn’t just have one story to tell; he has scads of stories to tell. Never a good student in school, Porter says he surprised everyone—including himself—when he exceled in ground school and then again in B24 Bomber school in Liberal, Kans.. From there he moved on to pick up his crew, nine young men who would become like another family to him during their service together.

“We really got to know each other. We were a cohesive group,” says Porter. They were sent to the mountains of Nevada for crew training in a bomber airplane.

The training was simulated, but the near misses were real.

On February 20, 1944, on a training flight from Nevada to Arizona and then California, their B-24 entered a cloud and encountered heavy turbulence right before they were scheduled to turn on course for Los Angeles. No moon that night meant no visibility, and as the captain became unresponsive, Porter and his co-pilot took over. Despite being very inexperienced, Porter was able to correct the spiral, rehabilitate the plane and land safely. Of all the emergencies he faced, he says this was the most dangerous.

Then he went into combat.

Porter and his crew went to Oahu, then to Saipan. Unbeknownst to Por-

he says he had the best navigator in the fleet. He noticed that the strikes hadn’t been hitting the intended targets, and he attributed that to timing. He talked to his crew, and proposed changing the bomb run interval to 32 seconds instead of 30.

They hit at 100 percent for the first time in almost two weeks after changing that time.

Porter was 23 years old when he was in combat in Iwo Jima. He flew a total of 40 combat missions, and says part of his confidence and much of his success was due to his youth.

“You have to be young, innovative and able to think on your feet,” he says. He survived dengue fever, nicknamed ‘break

Porter is the last surviving member of his crew.

Porter kept track of each of them and their respective families through the years, and penned a personal letter to each family when a crew member passed. ter, his crew was slated for a single plane bombing of Marcus Island three days after their scheduled arrival. Because Porter’s crew was still on Kwajalein with engine problems, another crew was sent in their place. That crew was shot down.

No one survived.

“Happenstance controls your life,” says Porter. “My name was still on the board, too.”

Porter was a quick study in combat, and

bone fever’ because of its trademark excruciating aches and pains. With the permission of his crew, Porter flew even when ill, because he couldn’t leave his men when they needed him most.

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times Marty was with him.

Times were hard for service wives then, he says, and he doesn’t know how she coped with travel issues, loneliness and hardships that occurred while he was gone.

He shared some of his sadder memories with me: the double shot of booze he’d get from the physician prior to the frequent debriefings, the men who were lost even though no one saw them go, and how hard it was to visit his crew in the hospital. It’s the only time his voice catches in almost three hours of conversation, and he says that part of combat is something he still can’t think about.

It’s too much, even with the cushion of double digit years and too many miles to count.

Porter is the last surviving member of his crew; his bombardier, Charlie West, died a year ago last February. Porter kept track of each of them and their respective families through the years, and penned a personal letter to each family when a crew member passed.

“I wrote to tell the family about their loved one’s unique talents and characteristics from my perspective,” says Porter.

“And I signed each one with my name and my rank. We were in something together that other people just can’t understand.

There were always ties, even after we were done.”

After combat, Porter continued his career in the Air Force so he and Marty moved from base to base for 22 years before retiring in 1964, after being promoted to chief pilot. He then accepted

a position as a contract pilot with Trans World Airlines, where he spent 16 years navigating the dangerous skies of the Middle East. Porter and his family lived in Saudi Arabia, once for two years then again later for four.

Porter retired from TWA as a pilot instructor.

Now Porter is an author.

He’s chronicled his life story in two books, and he gives presentations throughout the Kansas City area. He’s also taken up the task of helping residents at his retirement community get to know each other better, by taking pictures of other residents and mounting them on a board with corresponding apartment numbers. He posts them in the common area, and jokes that he makes them big enough for everyone to see easily.

He pulls silly cartoons off the internet and photocopies them, then distributes them to the center of each table at meals. He also does his best to keep other residents apprised of what’s happening in the world.

“I blew up pictures I’d taken in Saudi Arabia, and set them up on tripods. I switch them out. Sometimes I’ll put up colorful pictures of foliage from last fall, and everyone likes those. I just try to show them something that they can’t get out to see, since I can still get around.

I’m lucky,” says Porter. “I race around in my Mustang.”

Porter’s books, Reflections of a Pilot, Part 1: Seconds to Eternity and Reflections of a Pilot, Part 2: Danger in the Desert are available on Amazon.com.

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alling all wildlife watchers, shutterbugs and anyone else who wants a ‘wild’ experience in the wetlands. Squaw Creek National Wildlife Refuge is hosting its 34th annual Eagle Days event November 30 through December 2. Located in northern Missouri, the refuge sprawls across the lowlands offering 7,415 acres of wetlands, grasslands and forests along the eastern edge of the Missouri River flood plain – the perfect winter retreat for eagles, snow geese and other wildlife.

More than 400 bald eagles will end up migrating to the refuge by late fall and early winter and on occasion, a golden eagle may be seen during the migration peak; usually by the first of December.

Bald eagles migrate to Squaw Creek National Wildlife Refuge to seek out open water and wetlands. Both of which also attract snow geese and waterfowl that are hunted by the bald eagle.

Corey Kudrna, wildlife refuge specialist at Squaw Creek says snow geese and other waterfowl continue to take refuge in the wetlands.

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“If we’re lucky, snow provides a beautiful backdrop to all the wildlife at Squaw Creek,” says Kudrna. “Visitors can take a tour of the refuge by bus which will stop at specific sites for viewing or in hopes of spotting the eagles.”

Missouri Master Naturalists and students from area universities volunteer at the specific interpretive sites that also provide spotting scopes for a better view of the various water fowl and wildlife.

“We have an average of 5,000 visitors each year,” says Kudrna.

“There is a 10-mile loop around the wetlands where visitors can drive by car and enjoy the surroundings.”

The Missouri Department of Conservation (MDC) is a partner in presenting this free event along with the U.S. Fish and Wildlife Service. Friday’s events are reserved for school groups that have made arrangements to participate in advance. On Saturday and Sunday, Eagle Days activities will be open to the public from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m., including a driving tour of the refuge wetlands.

Programs with live, captive eagles will be presented on Saturday each hour on the hour from 9 a.m. - 3 p.m on Saturday and from 11 a.m. - 2 p.m on Sunday.

“Staff from Dickerson Park Zoo hosts the captive eagle exhibitions which provide our visitors to learn more about our national bird and emblem, its habitats and life cycle,” says Kudrna.

In 1935, President Franklin D. Roosevelt by Executive Order established the refuge as a feeding and breeding ground for migratory birds and other wildlife. Almost 80 years later, Squaw Creek Wildlife Refuge remains true to its roots.

The refuge was officially named one of America’s top 500 Globally Important Bird Areas by the American Bird Conservancy in 2001. The Western Hemisphere Shorebird Reserve Network designated Squaw Creek National Wildlife Refuge a “Site of Regional Importance” in 2007.

In the late ‘70’s, when the eagle population was low, the refuge started a Hacking Program (process where they bred and raised captive eagles) to increase the population and create a refuge for them during the winter months.

“Squaw Creek lies between the Mississippi and Central Flyways of the U.S. which brings birds from all over the North – Canada, South Dakota and Minnesota,” explains Kudrna. “Eagles switch over to eating waterfowl during this season and that is what attracts them to come back to the refuge every year.”

Cassie Treymar from Lee’s Summit has attended the event for the past three years and says it’s an adventure for her three boys ranging from ages 13 to seven. Every year, they load up the minivan with packed lunches, cameras, sketch books and binoculars to head north for the day at Squaw Creek. For the Treymar family,

it’s more than a huge learning experience, but a way to capture the wonder of nature around them with a fun, family event.

“We are truly ‘city people,’” says Cassie. “But this gives our family an opportunity to glimpse nature at its best. The boys love it and enjoy snapping photos and drawing pictures of the wildlife they see firsthand other than what they’ve seen on a cable documentary.”

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Treymar says the programs the refuge offers are top-notch. Last year they attended one of the programs that exhibit live captive eagles – an up close and personal experience that any wildlife lover must see – and the boys talked about it for months.

Visitors can reach the refuge headquarters easily. It is located on U.S. highway 159 South. The refuge headquarters and visitor contact station is open on weekdays from 7:30 a.m. - 4 p.m. The station is also open weekends during the migration in the fall

Know Before You Go The refuge is open from sunrise to sunset daily. Closing hours are posted at refuge entrances. Restrooms are available at the headquarters and comfort station in the headquarters parking lot. The MDC website recommends comfortable walking shoes and warm heavy clothing in winter. There will be one food booth set up during Eagle Days that will be selling snacks, hot dogs, hot chocolate and water. Depending on the season you visit, be sure to check for ticks and know how to identify and avoid poison ivy. Bring water for protection from heat stress and sunscreen for the sun.

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ropped against the Ozark Mountains’ lush foothills and situated on the Arkansas River is Tulsa—a congenial sprawl of a city that pulses with art, architecture, food, recreation, music and shopping.

Tulsa is a city of surprises and a heady trifecta of old, modern and natural: Stunning art deco buildings (remember to look up for the captivating details) and elegant turn-of-the-century mansions mingle with glass-and-steel high rises in a landscape abundant with woodsy parks, biking and walking trails and water features.

A cool city that takes pride in its rich oil heritage and historic claim as the “Birthplace of Route 66,” Tulsa embraces its strengths and flaunts the crop of 21st century creative entrepreneurs who are opening everything from hip bars and farm-to-table restaurants to world-class museums and boutiques.

Close enough to Kansas City for a long weekend—door-to-door in about four hours—Tulsa has more than enough to see and do for a 36-hour weekend or a seven-day vacation.

Tulsa’s vibe is organic and welcoming, with options tailor-made for family adventures, girls’ weekends, couples’ getaways, single travelers, foodies, art aficionados and music fans. Here are some highlights to start planning your own nonstop, fun-filled Tulsa weekend. And once you’ve dipped your toes in what T-Town has to offer, you’ll want to come back and discover everything you missed the first time around.

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Philbrook Museum of Art is regarded as one of American’s finest art museums. Housed in a jaw-dropping restored 72-room Italian Renaissance villa surrounded by 23 acres of well-manicured grounds, the Philbrook boasts collections of African, American, Asian, European, Native American and Modern and Contemporary Art, in addition to Antiquities, Decorative Arts and Works on Paper. The museum’s satellite location, Philbrook Downtown, feature’s highlights from the Museum’s extensive Native American art and objects. The Thomas Gilcrease Museum, in an idyllic setting in the Osage Hills on the edge of Tulsa, is renowned for its preservation and study of American art and history, including a robust collection of Native American Art and artifacts. The Sherwin Miller Museum of Jewish Art has the largest collection of Judaica in the American Southwest and also features the Herman and Kate Kaiser Holocaust Exhibition. The Woody Guthrie Center is dedicated to celebrating

one of America’s most famous folksingers and influential songwriters. The interactive museum, which contains Guthrie’s art, writings and handwritten lyrics, is a fascinating journey into the Oklahoma native’s complex ideas and at the center is a display devoted to his beloved song, “This Land is Your Land.”

A must-see is the Oklahoma Aquarium in Jenks, a Tulsa suburb on the Arkansas River. This delightful experience for kids and adults includes 200 marine and aquatic animals plus a fishing tackle museum. The nonprofit has a half-million-gallon tank with the world’s biggest bull sharks in captivity—plus some other creatures such as a 120-year-old alligator snapping turtle and a giant eel that sets off an alarm when it feeds.

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Tulsa Children’s Museum: Great interactive exhibits.

Tours of Tulsa: Get up close and personal with the city’s Art Deco wonders.

Entertainment LISTEN TO LIVE MUSIC, DANCE THE NIGHT AWAY OR ATTEND A CONCERT.

BOK Center, located in the heart of Tulsa’s downtown district, books major artists and hosts sporting events with the Tulsa Shock and Tulsa Oilers in its arena. Check out Winterfest through Jan. 4, 2015, one of the city’s favorite holiday traditions. Put on your dancing shoes for a night at Cain’s Ballroom under the famous neon star and disco ball. The historic, top-notch performance venue known as Tulsa’s Pioneer Ballroom, Cain’s was the home of Bob Wills and The Texas Playboys from 1935 - 1942. Catch a modern rock or country act in this popular destination. The Tulsa Performing Arts Center is home to Tulsa’s most prestigious arts organizations including the Tulsa Ballet, Opera, Symphony Orchestra and Town Hall.

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Recreation WALK, BIKE OR HIKE.

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Mixology is alive and well at Valkyrie in the Brady Arts District, where bartenders focus on crafting classic and modern drinks made with fresh ingredients. McNellie’s is an Oklahoma born-and-bred pub which serves cold beer and bar fare in a family-friendly atmosphere.

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Dust Bowl Lanes & Lounge: Old-school bowling and bar in the Blue Dome District with great drinks and a retro-inspired menu of gourmet tater-tots.

Weber’s Superior Root Beer Restaurant: Family-owned and operated since 1933, this is a true mom-and-pop serving award-winning root beer and outrageously good onion rings, plus burgers.

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Dilly Deli serves three squares in a quirky atmosphere right across from the famous Blue Dome. The Tavern on Brady, in the Brady Arts Tulsa’s skyline from Centennial Park

For Kansas Citians, searching out good barbecue in other cities is almost like a sport—we like to stack our familiar ribs and brisket and beans and slaw against out-of-towners’ versions. Oklahoma has a style all its own, whether you have lunch at Albert G’s original location, a refurbished gas station at 2748 S. Harvard, and order perfectly-charred ribs, cinnamon-laced beans or a surprising side of Mediterranean-style tabouli or go to Burn Co. at 1738 Boston Ave., a newcomer to Tulsa’s barbecue scene for The Fatty sandwich (bacon wrapped around ground sausage and hot links), smoked bologna or barbecue chicken drumsticks. The real reason anyone visits a barbecue joint is just as evident in Tulsa as it in Kansas City: ribs, pulled pork chicken, turkey, brisket, the United Nations of meats slapped between buns. Pump bottles with hot, mild and sweet sauces. Drips of juice wiped from chins with thin paper napkins. Savoring of a tradition, a city’s ode to barbecue, a chance to be one with the ‘cue. Amen.

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PostOak Lodge and Retreat is nestled on 1,000 acres in the rolling Osage Hills just minutes from downtown Tulsa. The nature setting is perfect for a large family or a reunion, with a scenic zip line on the property.

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District, is an urban treasure that riffs on the classic neighborhood pub, serving sophisticated interpretations of pub dishes, along with handcrafted cocktails and from-scratch bread and desserts. Mod’s Coffee & Crepes serves signature sweet and savory crepes and house-made gelato. Get your caffeine fix at Topeca Coffee Roasters, a boutique, family-owned company with roots in El Salvador, and satisfy your chocolate craving at Glacier Confection.

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Hyatt Regency Tulsa is centrally located downtown and within walking distance of the Blue Dome District, BOK Center, bars, restaurants, shops and attractions. A perfect headquarters for your getaway, the Hyatt features the Daily Grill, which serves classic American cuisine. The

Justin Thompson, chef owner and founder of a quartet of Tulsa’s hottest restaurants—Juniper, Prhyme, Tavalo and 624 Kitchen and Catering—loves his native city. So much that when Thompson was pondering where he wanted to establish his career, the choice was natural.

“It was important to stay in my hometown and help make it a better place,” says Thompson, known as one of Tulsa’s best and top philanthropic chefs.

In addition to running his acclaimed restaurants, Thompson thrives on building relationships within the community and mentoring his staff of nearly 100 employees. Giving back to Tulsa is a staple on Thompson’s menu and part of his business plan—on any given weekend, in addition to regular business and catering events, he is attending a charity function, giving away creative packages for nonprofit auctions or hosting a party.

No trip to Tulsa would be complete without a meal (or two) at one of Thompson’s eateries: Juniper, a seasonal, farm-totable concept; Tavalo, an Italian bistro; Phryme, a downtown steakhouse; and 624 Kitchen and Catering that serves a sumptuous Sunday brunch in a spectacular Art Deco setting.

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The bride was escorted by her father and she wore an Enzoni classic lace gown with a mermaid silhouette. She carried a bouquet of white roses with deep purple floral accents. Bridesmaids were beautifully attired in Mori Lee knee-length, royal purple chiffon dresses, with a sweetheart neckline and a ruche bodice.

A reception with dinner and dancing was held at the Lodge at Ironwoods Park in Leawood until the wee hours of the night. The last dance culminated with bride and groom in the center supported by a circle of family and friends. They were sent off with a sparkler farewell.

The Matron-of-Honor was Katelyn Mark. Bridesmaids were longtime friends Jessica Bettoni, Heather Jones, Jenae’ Walk-

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er, Rebecca Phillips and Sigma Kappa sorority sisters Keeley Smith and Kristen Mize. The Best Man was Jose Duarte.

Groomsmen were Bryce Benlon, David and Daniel Phillips, Kyle, Kolby and Kirk Koczanowski.

The bride is a proud graduate of Kansas State University where she earned her degree in elementary education. She is a 4th grade teacher at Rosehill Elementary School in Overland Park. The groom is a graduate of the University of Kansas and is currently attending Avila University for his master’s degree in secondary education. He is a teacher in the Kansas City, Kans., School District.

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Learning to shoot an M-16 is part of Army Reserve training for Teal Williams.

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eal and Scott Williams are a traditional Johnson County couple. This two-child, two-career duo owns a home, takes their children to their local public elementary school and belongs to a local country club and church. Teal and Scott are also unconventional. They both spend one weekend a month in the Army. Yes, the Army.

“Scott is a captain, and I am a first lieutenant in the United States Army Reserve,” says Teal. Being part of the Army Reserve is a lifelong dream, a calling. They even talked about the possibility during their dating years. “We wanted to be part of something bigger.”

The Army, the most powerful and sophisticated military force in the world, consists of two groups: Those who are on active duty and those in the Army Reserve. Active duty is a full-time job. The Army Reserve allows citizens to pursue civilian careers or attend college and still serve their country. The Army Reserves can mobilize rapidly and skillfully to respond to a crisis or to defend America’s interests at home and abroad.

Scott joined first, in 2010 at the age of 36. “I was the guinea pig, in case I got in and it was not what we had expected,” says Scott.

They went to their first meeting with recruiters as a team. “This is something that is good to do as a couple. Our combined experience makes it much richer,” says Scott.

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process. Scott submitted a packet of information, and he met very specific personal, physical and medical qualifications. “Pursuing a direct commission as an officer is a competitive process. In the end, it all comes down to being individually selected by the board,” says Scott.

Scott accepted his commission as a second lieutenant in the Adjutant General Corps, took an oath and was assigned to a unit.

Two years later, at age 38, Teal followed in the Medical Service Corps. “The stars were aligned.” says Teal.

In 2010, immediate deployment to Iraq or Afghanistan was a possibility. Today being called up is always feasible. “In the event that the U.S. goes to war, we would backfill active duty, since the armed forces have been reduced,” says Scott.

If both Williams were called, who would stay with their children? “We had to have a family care plan in place to be accepted.

My mom, who lives in Oklahoma, would move to Kansas City to stay with our kids,” says Teal.

During monthly weekend maneuvers, Scott’s parents drive from Des Moines to stay with the children. Scott reports to his unit south of Kansas City, and Teal to her unit north of the river. “We have meetings, briefings, trainings,” says Teal. “We bring our professional skills to the front lines.” Scott, who has a journalism degree and a master’s in business administration,

when she is away? “It is very much like a maternity leave,” says Teal. “I do not completely go off grid. I have strategic partnerships with industry colleagues who can step in when needed.”

Re-entry is more difficult after being on active duty and living on post.

Lt. Williams returns to Johnson County where she is no longer a soldier, but a wife, mother, daughter, sister and friend.

Instead of responding to Lt. Williams or simply “lieutenant”, she responds to many names—Teal, Mom, Mrs. Williams.

The couple hopes that as their two children mature, they will appreciate their parents’ decision to join the army.

“We want them to recognize the sacrifice of military service, and hope that they too will give to others in some capacity,” says Scott.

“You are never too old to follow a dream,” adds Teal. “It is an adventure and opportunity of a lifetime to wear the uniform and serve this great country.”

looked up at the stars and asked what I’d gotten myself into!” says Teal. Every morning after, Teal woke well before dawn for

Johnson County residents Capt. Scott Williams and 1st Lt. Teal Williams serve in the Army Reserve.

is a pharmaceutical rep for Teva. Teal is a certified financial planner and owns her own financial planning practice.

This past spring, Teal attended a threemonth Basic Officers Leader Course in San Antonio. She drove to Texas in one day, checked in with her unit and unpacked. The next morning at 4 a.m., referred to as Day Zero, Teal and her fellow officer trainees stood in formation in the rain and cold, her body exhausted from the drive and anticipation.

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In 2012, Army Reserve 1st Lt. Scott Williams gave the oath of office to his wife Teal, as she accepted her commission as a second lieutenant.

fitness training that included company runs. “It takes some gusto to keep up with the 22 year olds!”

“We are required to stay fit. I am in better shape now than eight years ago,” says Scott. “Sometimes our son stands on my feet while I do sit-ups. It’s a family effort.”

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ven under the Affordable Care Act, people all over Kansas City – even in areas you wouldn’t expect – still have to choose between buying food or buying necessary medications, or between paying the rent or purchasing a much-needed pair of eyeglasses.

Shirley Johnson, for example, came to a local social service agency for utility assistance and, when it was time to sign the paperwork, she said, “Oh, let me get out my magnifying glass.” The case worker thought the reference was to a strong pair of glasses – until Johnson pulled a large magnifying glass from her purse.

The glass had broken out of Johnson’s old bifocals, but she couldn’t afford to replace them. Fortunately, her case worker knew about Kansas City’s Medicine Cabinet, the metro area’s emergency medical assistance program.

“When we step in, we’re helping someone in a crisis. They are often in pain and worried,” says Becky Schaid, executive director of the Baptist-Trinity Lutheran Legacy Foundation, which established the Medicine Cabinet in 2005. “The impact on individual lives is huge.”

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The Medicine Cabinet provides short-term help for uninsured and underinsured Kansas Citians throughout the six-county metro for dental emergencies, diabetic supplies, durable medical equipment, prescription medication and vision care. Johnson qualified for assistance and left the social service agency with a voucher for an eye exam and new glasses.

“I am so grateful to the Kansas City Medicine Cabinet for my new glasses,” says Johnson. “Now I can see clearly, drive safely and I no longer have to carry around a big magnifying glass!”

Another Medicine Cabinet client, Otis Hampton, had to spend long hours on his feet in his job as a cook at an area hospital. That requirement had become very painful because Hampton had developed plantar fasciitis and heel spurs.

Yet, when he sought a physician’s help, he learned that the cost for the special shoes and other equipment needed to help him stand for long hours was beyond his financial capacity. Directed to one of the 13 social service agencies with which the Medicine Cabinet works, Hampton qualified for assistance. He received a voucher for special shoes and a brace for his right leg.

“It made me so happy that (the Medicine Cabinet was) able to help me,” Hampton said. “How wonderful they are to do this for me!”

In its first six months of operation, the Medicine Cabinet worked with one social service agency with three intake sites, and provided 266 services totaling $38,000. Since then, the program has grown year by year.

“The short-term assistance the Medicine Cabinet provides helps until people get back on their feet,” says Schaid. “About 80 percent of them receive services only once.”

Today, nearly 10 years later, the Medicine Cabinet has provided in excess of $3.8 million dollars for more than 21,000 services – and the need is increasing. The Medicine Cabinet so far this year has spent more than half a million dollars to aid nearly 2,500 clients.

“The Medicine Cabinet fills a gap for Kansas Citians who are uninsured or underinsured,” says Frank White, Kansas City Royals Hall of Famer. He and his wife Teresa have served as spokespersons for the Medicine Cabinet for the past three years. “More people need to know about this important program, which provides much-needed care for our Kansas City neighbors.”

To help pay for those services, the Medicine Cabinet relies on support from caring members of the community. In its annual Coins for the Cabinet fundraiser, held each November, the Medicine Cabinet works with local schools and businesses to collect nickels, dimes and quarters. This small change can add up to big help for those in need.

The Medicine Cabinet also holds an annual Tip-Off concert, which last year featured country duo Thompson Square at the Uptown Theater. The 2015 concert is planned for February, and the musical group will be announced soon.

To learn more about the Medicine Cabinet, the Tip-Off Concert and Coins for the Cabinet, visit the Medicine Cabinet website at KCMedicineCabinet.org.

“We are so fortunate to be able to offer the Medicine Cabinet program for the people of Kansas City,” says Schaid. “It’s an example of the community coming together to help each other.”

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Parent's Corner

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fter spending a lifetime making parenting decisions regarding your child, the law enforces some harsh realities when it comes to influencing your teenager’s medical, financial, and educational decisions at the magic age of 18. Accepting that the law will not allow for exceptions just because you are a well meaning parent with your child’s best interest at heart is the first step to researching the viable alternatives to help you represent your young adult child when they might not understand how to navigate their newly acquired responsibilities.

What? You can’t keep medical information from me regarding my child because I’m paying the bills and they are a dependent on my medical insurance! Not only will your child’s doctor withhold medical diagnoses, test results and treatment plans from you regarding your 18 year old, you won’t be getting information from the business office to manage insurance claims and pay your child’s bills. Under HIPPA, your child’s privacy rights supersede your entitlements as a parent. Having spoken for your child since birth, parents are often caught off guard regarding their rights when students cross into legal adulthood.

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In the academic arena, FERPA laws protect the privacy rights of young adults. Although parents may be picking up the tab for costly college tuition, your student will receive the bill and you will not have access to their transcript. Case law made this clear when a college student dropped his dad off at work on the way to a local community college. The dad became ill and called the school requesting his student be contacted and sent back to the office to take him home. When the security guard shared with the parent that his son had dropped out of school two months earlier, the student won a hefty lawsuit. The law will protect the privacy of the student regardless of who is covering the tuition.

Our children should understand what happens legally when they age into adulthood. Although this provides liberating privileges, it also exacerbates the consequences levied when held to adult standards. Clearly communicate your expectations within your family. What medical information do you expect to know and where will you respect your student’s privacy? What conditions should be present for insurance premiums and medical costs

to be paid? Will your student feel comfortable signing so that you can have access to their records or will they want to be coached on how to advocate for themselves? Have frank discussions about how emergencies should be handled on their behalf.

Academics provide another area for conversation. At this maturational level, students at the college level should be ready to navigate his or her day-to-day educational experience. When parents contact the school officials it can create the impression that the student isn’t ready for a post secondary academic experience. Let your student know under what conditions you are willing to pay for their college education. To protect your finan-

cial investment, you can validate their privacy and still require they provide a planned course of study, verification of enrollment choices, and end of semester transcript grades before you will pay the next semester’s bills.

There are three documents every family should consider for legal protection as children transition into adulthood. The first is a HIPPA release that provides designation of named persons to have access to medical records. The second is a Medical Power of Attorney that doesn’t allow for the overriding of personal care decisions but allows decisions to be made if the young adult is incapacitated. The Durable Power of Attorney allows parents to make financial decisions on behalf of their student. This can be particularly necessary if you have invested college funds in their name and social security number. Consult your attorney for comprehensive legal advice but an online search will access these forms. Don’t wait to have these important conversations with your emerging adult and make sure you consider these critical legal protections.

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could eat at North every week and never tire of the experience.

Sometimes I dream about the day when my nest is empty and I’ve given up feeling like I need to prepare dinner five nights a week... In these dreams I frequent the same restaurants enough that the staff knows that I like extra lemon in my iced tea and that I always prefer a seat near the windows. In this footloose and fancy-free life I’ll chose restaurants that are close enough to my home that I could walk if the mood and weather so inclines.

But the reality of my life is that I only dine like a leisurely adult about once a month so I savor experiences like those I have at North.

The staff is friendly and knowledgeable with a side of attentiveness. I appreciate that they aren’t flustered when I turn to them and ask which of two entrées they recommend.

A staff member who can make suggestions with confidence is a treat.

Since the ladies who lunch always order from the salad menu, my friend and I started there, but agreed to share one of their wood-fired pizzas. While I often opt for their fig and prosciutto pizza, we agreed on the funghi (mushroom) this time ($13) and were not at all disappointed. The crust was browned to perfection and the toppings were light but flavor filled.

Their seasonal harvest salad ($10) does as its name would suggest; it changes with the seasons. During our late summer visit, it included the perfect blend of English peas, quinoa, corn, avocado, goat cheese and marcona almonds. I’m embarrassed how quickly and how thoroughly I emptied the bowl.

On a previous visit, another friend introduced me to their zucca chips ($5) and they were amazing, so in case you’ve not yet tried them, I’m happy to introduce you to them here. They are the thinnest slices of zucchini f lash fried into crispy bites of delicious. Share an order with the table while you wait for your food to arrive.

Sadly, I wouldn’t recognize a great wine if it walked up and introduced itself by name, but for those who do, I’m told the wine selection is outstanding. I stick to their sangria and mixed drinks and couldn’t be happier. I’m happy to report they mix a fabulous mojito!

North Italia Patio seating at North is a bonus in the right Town Center Crossing months and their happy hour (3-6 p.m.) is quite 4579 West 119th Street a bargain. If it’s been a while since you dined at 913.232.5191 this Leawood establishment, give them another 913.232.5195 try. I’m sure you’ll be glad you did.

The staff is friendly and knowledgeable with a side of attentiveness. A staff member who can make suggestions with confidence is a treat.

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Field Trip

50 Feet in the Air CHALLENGE COURSE OFFERS HIGH ADVENTURE ARTICLE AND PHOTOGRAPHY SUSAN MOTLEY

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hat is it about stepping outside your comfort zone or pushing yourself just a little beyond your limit that can be so exhilarating? Whatever it is, it’s attracting people to Leawood’s state of the art Challenge Course in droves!

The Challenge Course, located in Ironwoods Park at 147th and Mission Road, is open April to October and offers programs ranging from two-hour recreational climbs to day-long team building outings. This season, the parks and recreation staff hosted corporate groups, college and high school sports teams, church leadership groups, Boy Scout and Girl Scout troops, birthday parties, and various other organizations. Trained facilitators provide all necessary equipment and instruction to make sure the adventurous climbs are safe and fun.

Groups can utilize one of three 50-foot tall climbing structures. The Carolina T-Wall is a rock wall with climbs ranging from beginner to advanced. The Alpine Tower is built out of utility poles, rope ladders, nets and dangling logs. Part of the challenge is devising a strategy to get to the summit because each “route” has different obstacles to overcome. With so many options, each climb is a different experience.

The Caribbean Course is one of a kind.

2nd Grade Brownies from Indian Valley Elementary It consists of three tree houses, each septake on the Carolina T-Wall on a recent field trip. arated by unique challenges to cross to complete the course. Climbers must take to more than 50. The Ironwoods Challenge on the Burma Bridge, the Double Cat-walk Course staff can even bring the program to and the Multi-line Traverse to succeed. a group’s location in Kansas.

According to Dennis Jones, outdoor rec“Our busiest months are May, June, Sepreation specialist for the City of Leawood, tember and October, when we may have three their customized team-building programs or more programs in one day,” Jones says. are very popular.

A recent Saturday was a perfect examElla Buckley made it to the top of the climbing “We ask groups to complete a needs ple. Boy Scouts had the morning shift, the wall & was on her way back down. analysis to help us plan a program for Brownies mastered the Carolina T-Wall at them,” says Jones. “Their needs might include improving commu- noon, and a third organization took on the course later in the day. nications, leadership, trust, diversity appreciation, cooperation, The Brownie troop was a group of second graders from Indidependability, creativity, positive attitude or respect. These pro- an Valley Elementary in Overland Park. Troop leader Amy Simgrams can help any group improve their productivity.” mons, was looking for an outdoor adventure for the girls’ first field The challenge course is not just about the high elements. The trip. She came across the Ironwoods Challenge Course through team building programs include activities that are on or low to the an online search. ground. “We have a repertoire of nearly 200 different activities to “I thought the rock climbing wall would be a great way to help groups improve their ability to function well,” Jones explains. introduce a new experience and be an exciting challenge for CONTINUED > The teambuilding group size can range from a minimum of six them,” says Simmons.

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“It was awesome. I loved it so much,” her daughter, Riley Simmons, reports.

“My favorite part was watching my friend Savannah Beaman climb to the very top,” adds Lucy Atkin.

Julie Childers was one of the facilitators for the Brownie group.

“I really enjoy working with people of all ages. It’s always great to see kids and adults challenge themselves and to see them overcome obstacles physically and mentally. The experience at the challenge course gives people a chance to work together, rely on each other, and it encourages teamwork,” she says.

While the Challenge Course recreational climbing is set up for groups of 10 or more, there are opportunities for individuals to join in the fun through the city’s Fearless Friday and Cliffhanger Saturday program. The first Friday of the month, May-September, the thrill-filled Giant Swing is open. It’s like a backyard swing, only 35 feet off the ground. Every Saturday, one of the three structures is open to the public, on a rotating basis.

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ccidental poisonings in kids are common, and the prevalence has been increasing. Poison control centers receive two million calls per year. The holidays are a time of increased risk of poisonings with the change in routines and visits to and from friends and relatives. If you have children, or children visit your home, it is very important to “poison proof.�

The most common substances for poisonings in kids are cleaning products, personal care products, and analgesics like aspirin or acetaminophen. These are substances that are easily available in homes. Other potential poisons found in homes are antifreeze, pesticides, gasoline, and kerosene or lamp oil. Vitamins containing iron can be dangerous if large amounts are ingested by a child.

Prescription medications accidentally ingested by young children is also common and can be very dangerous. More than 9,000 hospitalizations occur in the United States each year for prescription medication poisonings in children under six. The most common accidentally ingested prescription drugs are opioid pain relievers and drugs used to treat narcotic addiction, anxiety, blood pressure and attention-deficit disorder.

Foreign objects are another type of ingestion that could result in injury. Small objects can become lodged in the airway or esophagus. Strong tiny magnets have resulted in the death of some children when two or more magnets are swallowed and become stuck together with bowel wall in between. These high powered, small 62

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magnets have now been recalled. Small button batteries are also particularly dangerous if ingested.

All potentially poisonous substances in the home should be out of the sight and reach of children. Cleaning substances, paints, varnishes and pesticides must be stored in original containers and kept in locked cabinets. Prescription and non-prescription medications should be kept in original containers with child resistant caps and stored locked and out of reach. Never refer to medicine as candy, and discard unused medication right away. Be particularly vigilant if visitors have medications in easy to open containers. Small toys and objects should be monitored carefully, including musical greeting cards and books which may have button batteries. Children should not have access to small strong magnets. These simple precautions could save a life.

If a child is not breathing, unconscious or having a seizure from a poisoning call 911. If you suspect poisoning because of open or empty containers, unknown stains or spills on your child or your child’s clothing, or there is a telltale odor, call the Poison Control Center immediately. Everyone, but especially caregivers of young children, should put the phone number for Poison Control Center in their phone: 1.800.222.1222.

This healthful information is provided by our friends at After Hours Pediatrics, located at 143rd and Metcalf. Find them online at After-HoursPediatrics.com.

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Page Turners

How to Travel the World for Free WRITTEN BY MICHAEL WIGGE REVIEWED BY TRACY SULLIVAN 153 PAGES SKYHORSE PUBLISHING

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he joy in Michael Wigge’s book How To Travel The World For Free is not derived from learning how he earns money to pursue his travels, but in the way he describes the cities and regions in the U.S. and abroad. Wigge’s 25,000-mile journey from Berlin to Antarctica is filled with people who are inspiring, sympathetic and humorous, and places that affirm and also debunk stereotypes that many people hold about particular areas around the world.

The impetus of the book is that Wigge must find his way to the Antarctic without using any of his own money or credit card. Motivated by his surroundings and wits, he works at times as helping hand on a cargo ship, a porter in Machu Picchu, as a “hill helper” in San Francisco (pushing people up the streets for $1), and as a “human sofa” in Las Vegas. He was also not above dumpster diving for food, asking restaurants for handouts, or begging ticket agents for comp tickets to further him along on his journey.

Wigge travels by almost every known mode of transportationby bus, train, ship, plane, bicycle, foot and even an Amish horse and buggy. His preconceived notions of places such as the U.S. Midwest, Los Angeles, Las Vegas and Canada are sometimes fairly accurate. I was most pleasantly surprised when the Amish in Pennsylvania and Ohio turned Wigge’s initial perception of them around. After spending a few nights with one Amish couple, he realizes that when the Amish lifestyle is all that someone knows, they are content with what they have.

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Wigge may have had things a bit easier than the non-seasoned traveler though, as he used a few connections to provide housing on various continents. He also used a website called CouchSurfing.com, a global social networking community where backpackers can find people to let them sleep on their couches for a brief time. In addition, he managed to snag a few above-and-beyond perks such as a free plane ticket from San Francisco to Hawaii, thanks in part to his ingenuity, connections and a bit of good luck.

My favorite section was reading about his stay in Hawaii. He intersperses historical information amongst mesmerizing descriptions of the landscape. I appreciated the fact that Wigge didn’t sugarcoat this chapter by only detailing the positives.

As with other cities and regions, amongst the beauty lie seedier aspects. In many places there is a great disparity between the wealthier population and the working class and poor residents. This disparity is particularly visible during the South American portion of Wigge’s travels. From Costa Rica to Columbia to Chile, the local populations are as diverse as the landscapes.

How To Travel The World For Free cannot be used as a guidebook as it wouldn’t be helpful for the average traveler. However, taken at face value, the book is honest, often humorous, and constantly reminds us of the ingenuity latent within us all.

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NOVEMBER 9

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Artists from the Plains Indian cultures of North America create works of exceptional beauty, mystery and emotional power. This exhibition celebrates the accomplishments of these artists from before Euro-American contact in the 1500s to the present day with master works from around the globe.

The 2014 Veterans Day Run will start at KU’s Memorial Stadium at 9 a.m. Runners will travel through campus past KU’s memorials before returning to the stadium for fun and festivities. All proceeds support the KU Wounded Warrior Scholarship Fund and the KU Collegiate Veterans Association.

THROUGH APRIL 2015 XTREME BUGS UNION STATION

Xtreme BUGS are marchin’, crawlin’ and flyin’ into Union Station!

This larger-than-life exhibition will host more than 100 giant insect and fun, hands-on activities for the whole family. Get up close and personal with these massive, moving insects and arthropods and discover their amazing talents, unique behaviors and strange survival strategies! UnionStation.org/bugs/

NOVEMBER 13-16 HOLIDAY CHICK EVENT TOWN CENTER PLAZA

Over 50 local Kansas City vendors in a new “pop-up” holiday shop featuring handmade artists, local boutiques and curated gifts. VIP Night November 13 from 5-9 p.m. $20/ticket. November 14-16 $5/ticket. ChickEvents.com

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The Barn Players will present “La Cage Aux Folles” the winner of six Tony Awards and later turned into the popular movie “The Birdcage.” It’s a wild and hilarious farce about nonconformity, filled with gorgeous costuming, fabulous dance numbers and great music including “I Am What I Am” and “The Best of Times”. The show is the Barn Players final 2014 regular season production. (6219 Martway) TheBarnPlayers.org 913.432.9100

Leftover Luxuries is a pop-up consignment store, and it is coming to Town Center Plaza’s former Restoration Hardware location this month. This concept began five years ago in Charlottesville, Va., and has been successful more than 40 times around the country. They will sell furniture, antiques, rugs, art, accessories, designer handbags and designer/vintage clothing.

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own snacks and have fun while supporting a worthy cause – the Paul Henson YMCA Individual tickets are $13 each, or purchase a table of 8 for $100. For more information on purchasing tickets call, or visit the Paul Henson YMCA Welcome Center. 913.642.6800.

NOVEMBER 16 COMMUNITY MESSIAH EVENT OVERLAND PARK

NOVEMBER 15 12TH ANNUAL GIFT GALLERY CURE OF ARS SCHOOL

The annual Gift Gallery is a premier shopping event that brings together more than 40 artisans and vendors selling unique and upscale items in a festive atmosphere. The event offers thousands of items representing the area’s latest trends in fashion, home décor and gifts at a wide range of prices. Proceeds are donated to local non-profit children’s charities. $3 admission. GiftGalleryKC.com

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The community is invited to Messiah, the beloved arrangement by Handel, presented with choir, soloists and orchestra at 7 p.m. at The Presbyterian Church of Stanley (14895 Antioch Rd.). A freewill offering will be collected to benefit Grace United Community Ministries, a local, interdenominational charity. Plan to stay for the “Afterglow” reception in Fellowship Hall. This is a free event.

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Join your friends for a girls’ night out with wine tasting, cooking and decorating demonstrations and a silent auction plus power shopping at the Johnson County Young Matrons Boutique from 6-9 p.m. at the Ritz Charles in Overland Park. Tickets are required; cost is $25. All proceeds benefit six area philanthropies as well as the JCYM Scholarship Fund. See JCYM.net for information.

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NOVEMBER 18 & 19

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Johnson County Young Matrons’ Annual Home for the Holidays Boutique will be held at The Ritz Charles. More than 50 vendors will be present with unique items ranging from holiday and year-round home décor to gifts, jewelry, clothing, food items, etc. There is no admission charge. Proceeds benefit six area philanthropies. JCYM.net

Thanks to the Johnson County Young Matrons, four lovely southern Johnson County homes will be lavishly decorated by local decorators and tablescape designers for the holidays. They will be open to the public from 9:30 a.m. - 8 p.m. Tickets may be purchased at JCYM.net and are $20 in advance and $25 at the door. Proceeds benefit six area philanthropies and the JCYM Scholarship Fund.

NOVEMBER 21 & 22 LAKE QUIVIRA HOLIDAY BAZAAR LAKE QUIVIRA CLUBHOUSE

More than 50 local vendors will offer a variety of boutique home decor, handmade gifts, jewelry, gourmet foods, accessories and gifts, in addition to the annual bake sale at the charming 1930s stone clubhouse. Enjoy drinks and dining amid a winter view from the cozy clubhouse overlooking beautiful Lake Quivira. Cash, checks and credit cards are accepted. 1-8 p.m. on Friday, 9 a.m.-4 p.m. Saturday.

NOVEMBER 21 & 22 ASCENSION MARKETPLACE OVERLAND PARK

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Theatre for Young America will perform the story, “The Adventures of Nate the Great” at 10:30 a.m. This is free with museum admission.

Based on the popular book series by Marjorie Weinman Sharmat, this is a play in film noir style about the greatest kid detective ever.

The 63rd annual Kappa Kappa Gamma Holiday Homes Tour features four homes decorated for the holidays by area floral designers. Homes are located in Mission Hills, Fairway and Kansas City. A gourmet shop will highlight “30 Years of Kappa Fudge” and other baked and gift items.

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Make an appointment to help save a life. Join neighbors and friends at the Presbyterian Church of Stanley (14895 Antioch) between noon and 6:30 p.m. for a Community Blood Center blood drive. Donors must be 17.

NOVEMBER 28-DECEMBER 6 HOLIDAY LUMINARY WALK OVERLAND PARK ARBORETUM & BOTANICAL GARDENS

The Arboretum’s year tops off with the 15th annual Holiday Luminary Walk. This major fund-raiser features a mile of beautiful candlelit trails, holiday lights and live entertainment, Santa for the kids, horse-drawn wagon rides, a bonfire and warm refreshments.

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Parting Thoughts

The Family Travel Agent has Heavy Baggage WORDS DENISE SNODELL

T

he saying goes, “It’s not about the destination, it’s about the journey.” But this philosophical gem needs a prequel: “It’s also about planning the journey.”

I know from experience that being the person who puts the trip together is a wild adventure in itself. There’s research turbulence. Off-the-rail surprises. Emotional road-burn. It’s a role in life where I sputter, because somehow, I wound up being the sole household travel agent. I don’t like it.

It seems every family has one designated vacation planner— the sucker who has to deal with calendars, airline websites, endless travel reviews, and most of all, a generalized sense of throwing darts into a void.

There was a time in history when humans who wanted to travel visited other humans who sat in offices with Neolithic computers—the kind with cathode ray tube monitors that had magical connections to airlines and tour guides and hotels. I loved that era. Travel agents were like Starbucks baristas. People needing a vacation fix could walk through glassy agency doors on almost any block. They’d see posters of palm trees, the Eiffel Tower and the Leaning Tower of Pisa soaking up the fluorescent lights. This was all so comforting—a 3-dimensional expert with a nice hair-do was going get you to faraway places. You’d just sit in a cushy chair, name a time, place and budget and say yes or no.

I miss the living, breathing travel agents who knew what they were doing. I’m not sure where they took off to, but they’re gone.

They have been replaced by the likes of…me.

Stupid internet. Stupid progress. Every time I turn around, it seems I’m awkwardly dot-coming my way around time zones. And no matter how often I hit the “purchase” icon, when I’m on the

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actual trip, something goes wrong, ranging from renting a clunker car to sleeping overnight on airport terminal carpeting. I blame most of this on Bill Gates, and some of it on “Priceline Negotiator” William Shatner. Both of whom I’m sure have private jets and personal assistants who handle their journeys.

To make things worse, the past several years my family has had constant travel needs. Two sons, a year apart, went on countless college tours, scholarship interviews and second looks near and far. That overlapped with visiting my parents who live 1,000 miles away. A few actual vacations to new places were thrown in the mix, along with the boys moving to two different universities.

One kid wound up kinda far, which means my fingers now reflexively type “Travelocity” while I sleep.

So what have I learned as the family travel agent? Here’s the short list.

1. Aforementioned William Shatner is not really negotiating for you.

2. Hotels in college towns during football/family weekends have been fully booked since 1972.

3. Same goes for every hotel in the world during spring break week.

4. Fantastic round-trip flight deals are only to Akron.

5. You will one day find yourself sitting on a bench in Central Park, staring at your cell phone to nab an A-group boarding pass.

6. You will get a C-group boarding pass.

7. Four-star hotels are really 1 ½ star hotels.

8. After renting a “non-smoking” car, you’ll need a prescription for a nicotine patch.

9. You will read horrifying Trip Advisor reviews AFTER you book a nonrefundable vacation.

10. Wherever you go, pack aspirin. Scratch that. Pack a large flask.

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