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MIDLOTHIAN LUXURY REPORT Neighborhood

Address

Sq Ft

S o l d Pr i c e

Pr i c e / S q F t

Closing Date

DOM

Hallsley

16100 Binley RD

6,384

$999,000

$156

04/28/20

Hallsley

1713 Tulip Hill DR

3,252

$830,000

$255

04/28/20

Salisbury

2921 Queenswood RD

4,519

$700,000

$154

03/30/20

Kings Farm

3401 Brewton WAY

4,671

$689,900

$147

04/03/20

Tarrington

3613 Caddington TER

2,684

$663,569

$247

04/02/20

Rountrey

15137 Enmore DR

3,860

$650,910

$168

04/23/20

Salisbury

2001 Oakengate LN

4,863

$650,000

$133

04/01/20

Rountrey

15107 Litton DR

3,501

$618,958

$176

04/10/20

Salisbury

14300 W Salisbury RD

4,066

$615,000

$151

04/28/20

Kings Farm

14225 Post Mill DR

4,200

$590,000

$140

04/03/20

Hallsley

1418 Montcroft WAY

3,195

$554,000

$173

04/07/20

Oak Park

2725 Live Oak LN

2,314

$552,803

$238

04/15/20

Salisbury

14500 Gildenborough DR

4,591

$549,000

$119

04/08/20

Hallsley

1907 Colwyn Bay DR

3,209

$534,000

$166

04/27/20

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3000 Old Gun RD

3,568

$515,000

$144

04/24/20

Days on Market

*This data was provided by CVR MLS **Top 15 sales in the Midlothian and James River High School Districts in the last 30 days (as of 4/29/20)

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JUNE 2020 PUBLISHER

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Hats Off to the Gents! WELCOME TO JUNE, MIDLOTHIAN! This month will usher us in to summer, where things may look quite different from years past. As this issue went to press, most of us have been quarantined at home for about two months. Yet in the midst of our isolation, residents and businesses throughout Midlothian and Greater Richmond are continuing to give back. Some are making face masks for healthcare workers and the elderly. Others are donat-

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us and our Gents Issue as we salute the men of Midlothian. Men who are making

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a difference while influencing our village for the better, men who want to help the

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community thrive during these challenging times. From indoor golfers and a musi-

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cian who gives his all, Midlothian men continue to wow us with their professionalism and ingenuity as they serve as leaders who work hard to bring value to faith, family and community. We hope you’ll enjoy reading this issue as much as we’ve enjoyed working with all who were a part of it this month - preparing this month’s content was one real bright spot for us amid the pandemic. It is our job - and our pleasure - to continue to bring fun, laughter, and joy to the community, and to be a resource for each of you in the days ahead.

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F as t- Pa c e d Music, SmallTown Lifestyle

ARTICLE MARY ELLIN ARCH PHOTOGRAPHY JENSEN TAYLOR DESIGNS LAYNA RAE PHOTOGRAPHY

FOR A WHILE DURING HIS NASHVILLE YEARS, JACK

studio steps away from Coal Mine Coffee, his favorite break-

RYAN SULLIVAN PERFORMED PRACTICALLY NON-

fast joint. There he cuts songs, teaches, makes occasional

STOP AT THE HONKY-TONKS ON BROADWAY.

instrument repairs and even more occasionally sells a used

“Sixteen hours a day, seven days a week – starting at 10 a.m. and going to 2 a.m., on stage with artists like Keith

guitar. He also composes, works on a television script, and performs at hip hangouts like Hardywood brewery.

Urban and Steven Tyler of Aerosmith,” says the singer

Locals know Jack Ryan from the free festivals he’s put

known locally as Jack Ryan, which some people mistake

on since 2018 at Mid-Lothian Mines Park. This year’s, set

as his first and last names. “You didn’t get time off. If you

for April, was canceled due to COVID-19, but the last one

turned down work, there was a chance you’d never get

drew seven bands, 15 food trucks and 1,800 attendees.

called back. I probably played 40 years’ worth of music in less than five years.”

The largely self-taught musician learned to play at a music store outside Clemson, S.C. The owner “put the

That explains why Jack Ryan – protégé of Western swing

instrument in my hands and told me to figure it out,” Jack

great Jimmy Rogers, featured artist on The Vans Warped

Ryan recalls, adding with a shrug, “You had to know how

Tour, opener for country and pop acts Billy Currington,

to play the instruments to sell them.”

Brett Eldredge, Chase Rice, Sister Hazel, Paramore and Needtobreathe – has called Midlothian home since 2016.

Today, his instruments include guitar, four types of banjos, cello, viola, tuba, trumpet, mandolin, dobro, upright

Marriage to sweetheart Jensen and a yearning for life

bass, pedal steel guitar, accordion and piano, and he’s cur-

with a community feel landed Jack Ryan in a storefront

rently “playing around with bagpipes.” And lest you think

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it’s easy to move from, say, electric guitar to pedal steel guitar to

“He unselfishly shared the stage with a number of his students,

mandolin to plectrum banjo to 5-string banjo because all have

giving many their first opportunity to perform publicly.”

strings, he patiently explains: “A car… a tank… an airplane … a

Oakley added that when his granddaughter started violin

boat … a semi-trailer… and a cruise ship … they all have steering

lessons, Jack Ryan saw the girl would benefit from learning the

wheels. But let me tell you – you need to know a little about what

basics on a ukulele – then gave her one. “To see him find a way

you’re doing with each to drive them.”

to gift a brand-new training instrument to my granddaughter

With the store owner yelling instructions from the back of the shop, Jack Ryan figured out each instrument. And that “figuring out” process is what he recommends to his youth and adult students.

speaks volumes,” Oakley says. While he presently enjoys a slower pace, Jack Ryan hasn’t left the national scene. He makes a half-dozen trips to Los Angeles

“Traditional teachers are like, ‘you must hold this way, you must

annually to pursue his dream of writing music for television.

sit this way’ – I don’t teach that way. I’ll be honest: Most of the guys

He’s also creating content for the LA-based app The All Guitar

who teach that way don’t play very well,” Jack Ryan says. “You

Network, which features videos and instruction from some of

don’t want to have to fight yourself. You have to have your way.”

music's biggest names. “I’m honored to be included in that room

After learning “his way” at the store, Jack Ryan honed his skills as

of incredibly gifted people,” he says.

many artists do – in church. “My great uncle was a pastor … church

Short term, he continues to write (his script-in-progress is set

is in my blood,” he says. Once in Midlothian, he served 15 months

in a music store, of course) and perform around RVA. He hopes

as director of music for children and youth at Mt. Pisgah United

to hold another festival if sponsors can be secured – an uncer-

Methodist Church, earning accolades from musicians there.

tainty these days due to COVID-19.

“Jack is a talented and entertaining musician – a big person-

For now, fans can find Jack Ryan’s album Struggle on Apple,

ality with a big heart and smile to go with it,” says Eric Reynolds,

YouTube, Spotify and Pandora, and check his website, Instagram

Mt. Pisgah’s director of contemporary music.

and Facebook for future gigs.

Another Mt. Pisgah musician, Ray Oakley, was a backup player at November’s Midlo Mines festival. “While there I was reminded

Above all, Jack Ryan keeps playing. “For all the years I’ve spent doing this, I’m still learning,” he says.

how huge a musical talent he is … and I’ve seen firsthand he also

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has a big heart, which I'd offer is a rare combination,” Oakley says.

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HOW SHOULD WE SUPPORT OUR COMMUNITY? Ultimately, we’re all a community that relies on one another in times of need. No matter where you are in life, this same community either helped you get where you are or will help you get where you want to be. So, take an active role in giving back and helping others. BEST ADVICE GOTTEN OR GIVEN? It usually isn’t the most naturally gifted or talented person, or the person with the biggest head start, who ultimately ends up on top. It’s the person who wanted it most, dreamt about it, worked at it, worked some more, and then worked again. I truly believe that anything is possible if you’re willing to sacrifice to make it a reality. YOUR BIGGEST INDULGENCE? When not working, I’m either on the water or attending a sporting event. I’m constantly trying to conquer the one sport that seems to elude everyone - golf. 18

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WHAT IS YOUR BIGGEST CAREER OR PERSONAL ACCOMPLISHMENT? Being able to retire at 51, purchase a small business and

HOW DO YOU FIND BALANCE IN YOUR LIFE? To create balance, you have to know when to shut it off and just spend time with the ones you care about.

become an expert in an entirely different field. HOW DO YOU RELAX? WHAT’S YOUR BIGGEST HOW DO YOU SERVE AND SUPPORT OUR COMMUNITY?

INDULGENCE?

Supporting the community is an important part of my personal

I love to just sit in my back yard and listen to music or have

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BEST ADVICE GIVEN OR RECEIVED? My grandfather taught me at an early age that the more you listen, the further you will get in life. I have also given that as advice.

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mark misiano, mba PRESIDENT, RÉSUMÉREADY LLC

WHAT’S YOUR BIGGEST ACCOMPLISHMENT? I was proud to earn the designation “Certified Professional Résumé Writer.” It was great to be recognized by the Professional Association of Résumé Writers as an industry expert. As one of only 20 CPRWs in Virginia, I make it my mission to customize every résumé to be sure I clearly communicate each person’s unique value. I also develop cover letters, update LinkedIn profiles, conduct interview prep sessions, teach job search tactics, and coach people through career transitions. HOW DO YOU SUPPORT OUR COMMUNITY? Because I own my business, I can offer discounts to people in need. During the coronavirus pandemic, I’ve been offering résumé reviews for only $25 to help people learn to improve their job search documents. I’ve also offered training to teach best practices to nonprofits. HOW DO YOU FIND WORK-LIFE BALANCE? I work from home and am an extrovert, so it’s not always easy! Integrating both lives, like walking the dog during my workday, helps me be productive in both areas. BEST LESSON LEARNED? “If you ask 100 people, you’ll get 110 different opinions.” This phrase is true in general, but especially in my industry. I’ve learned I can’t let anyone’s opinion matter except my client’s. I tend to overanalyze, so I force myself to drown out the noise and listen only to my client. As an expert, you can’t let other voices stop you from doing what you believe is best. HOW DO YOU RELAX? Exercise is a big part of my life. I try every day to do pushups or squats in my office, do a HIIT workout on the deck, lift weights at the gym, or go jogging. Working out helps me relieve stress, release endorphins, and not feel guilty when I want a little extra dessert. 20

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BIGGEST ACCOMPLISHMENT?

BEST ADVICE?

Building a career and family in Richmond has been the most

Time is your greatest asset. Make a plan and commit to acting

rewarding experience of my life. A desire to help others led me to my

on it. This advice applies to my clients as they seek to realize their

career. And without my family, I don’t believe I’d be here, because

long-term goals over their lifetimes.

having people who depend on me has made me focus on what’s HOW DO YOU FIND BALANCE?

important to them in the long term.

Balancing everything is difficult. This year has done much to shift HOW DO YOU SUPPORT THE COMMUNITY?

people’s mindsets and provide opportunities to spend more time

Individuals are being asked to shoulder more of the burden of their

with family. When the pandemic limited our ability to leave our home,

retirement without being given the necessary information to build an

it prompted my wife and me to communicate more openly and sup-

investment strategy to get them there – especially when factoring in

port each other when we need a break – even just a run around the

unexpected expenses, rising costs, and insurance needs. I’m com-

block or a respite on the front porch.

mitted to working with clients throughout the community to help them plan for their futures.

HOW DO YOU RELAX AND INDULGE? I spend a lot of time with my wife, Elizabeth, and kids – Emma, 4, and Rory, 1. I’d be lying if I said I didn’t miss being on the golf course – I’m looking forward to the next friendly match with my dad.

“ Time is your greatest asse t . Make a plan and commit to a c t i n g o n i t .”

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james d. worsley, ph.d. BIGGEST ACCOMPLISHMENT?

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Advancing the parks and recreation industry through mentoring, developing social media and networking platforms, and educating others. HOW DO YOU SUPPORT OUR COMMUNITY? As a servant leader, I recognize the vital role our facilities and services play. In stressful times like the pandemic, parks are a place of restoration as residents seek physical activity, emotional tranquility, and a change of environment. BEST ADVICE? From my grandfather, a farmer, I learned the importance of hard work. Cultivate the land, plant in the appropriate season, add fertilizer, pray for rain, and harvest in due season. The same is true for life. HOW DO YOU FIND BALANCE AND FUN? I relax with my family at many of Chesterfield’s 59 parks and 258 athletic fields, watching our children participate in sports and attending events like Hops in the Park and the Fourth of July celebration. We also enjoy quiet time at home with our fur-baby, Jazz.

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sible snack and beverage storage, plus a sink, for convenient drink mixing and party cleanups. Cabinet storage extends to the ceiling to provide a home for barware and pantry items. Recessed lighting provides task illumination, and LED strip lighting sheds a glow to décor items on display shelving. Elsewhere, there’s a couch and coffee table along with a flat-

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Here, these include a cocktail menu wall hanging and a framed quote from Blake Shelton’s country hit Honey Bee, “You’ll be my glass of wine, I’ll be your shot of whiskey.”

or spots for board games and books, plus a place to tuck a pair of ottomans for additional seating. (See photo, Table of Contents page.) “Just have fun with it, with different textures and colors,” said Gregoire, who chose an iron-gray paint for door frames, in contrast to the white used on window frames. “Create a space that’s yours, that you would enjoy.” The Yeatman Group is the listing agency for this Covenant home. To view by appointment: 804-362-9322 or sales@theyeatmangroup.com. For a virtual tour go to buildingrva.com.

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The facility was open only a couple weeks and operating under social distancing protocols when it was obliged to close due to the COVID-19 quarantine. The Engelkens are planning another grand opening and special events for later in the year. Midlothian’s X-Golf is a local franchise of a nationwide indoor golfing phenomenon that began in Michigan in 2015. With X-Golf, enthusiasts can comfortably enjoy the sport yearround and in any kind of weather. Midlothian’s X-Golf is the only location in Virginia – the next closest is in Philadelphia. A second location in Northern Virginia is expected to open later. X-Golf offers six semi-private simulators that customers use to “hit” the ball “into” a screen that mimics a real golf course. Customers can select a 9- or 18-hole experience, as well as driving range mode and competition events (closest to the pin, longest drive, etc.). Customers also can choose to play one of 50 world-famous courses, such as Pebble Beach, Harbour Town and Bay Hill – or even just one particular hole. In addition to the golfing, customers enjoy an array of amenities including full food and bar service (including local craft beers) within the 6,000-square-foot facility. “There’s a trend toward a total dining and entertainment experience,” Kyle said. Because the simulators are semi-private, they can accommodate a variety of customers, he added. “You can bring the family,” Kyle said. “The environment is adaptable to date nights and really lends itself to events, like corporate outings or leagues.” State-of-the-art simulators differentiate X-Golf from similar facilities. At X-Golf in Midlothian, simulators come equipped with auto-teeing capabilities that gather the ball for the player and tee it up at the exact, individualized height for each user. “Our simulators are among the most accurate,” said Josh. “Our combination of high-speed cameras, lasers and impact sensors measure ball and swing data to an unrivaled 98% accuracy.” As such, the facility can suit golfers of all abilities, from casual player to expert. The brothers are partnering with golf pro T.W. Pulliam to offer lessons to help customers improve their games. Pulliam, who served as the director of golf at Dominion Golf Club in Glen Allen for nearly two decades, also is expected to work with local high school and college golf teams. Pulliam, affiliated as well with Tuckahoe Sports Inc.,

“ Yo u c a n b r i n g t h e fa m i l y. T h e environment is adaptable to date nights and really lends i t s e l f t o e v e n t s , l i ke c o r p o r a t e outings or leagues.”

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AFTER FIGHTING WARS, VETERANS AND THEIR LOVED ONES BATTLE PTSD THROUGH MINDFULNESS, OUTDOOR ACTIVITY AND HEALTHY HABITS

“ L e a r n i n g t o e a t h e a l t h y, being in the outdoors, practicing iRest and yoga – all these things are what can foster p o s t - t r a u m a t i c g r o w t h .” “By learning to eat healthy, being in the outdoors, and practicing rest – all these things are what foster post-traumatic growth,” she said. Champagne-Davis says she’s one of many veterans driven to create service organizations focused on helping veterans build new lives after transitioning out of the military. She has worked with various partners including Warriors at Ease, a 501(c)(3) that uses yoga and meditation to ease combat-related health symptoms, and Give an Hour®, a Washington, D.C.-based organization that helps military members and families connect with mental health and other services. Founded in 2005 on the premise of motivating volunteers to donate time to volunteering, Give an Hour has evolved to focus on forging relationships with providers to make needed services available. Providers agree to offer at least 52 hours of service annually, most in the form of face-to-face or tele-counseling, but other services as well, said project manager Katie Civiletto, MHA. A provider search on Give an Hour’s website using a Midlothian ZIP code generated more than three dozen returns, nearly a dozen locally. “Thanks to the generosity of providers like Renee and our donors, Give an Hour is proud to offer mental health services to veterans, military and their loved ones,” Civiletto said. “In the past 15 years, we have offered over 311,000 hours of support, valued at nearly $31 million. The need continues to grow, and we stand ready to continue to offer help for as long as it is needed.” https://sustainingyouthandfamilies.com/ ARTICLE MARY ELLIN ARCH | PHOTOGRAPHY PROVIDED

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