Clayton, MO June 2020

JUNE 2020

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NAVIGATING THROUGH DIFFICULT TIMES

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JUNE 2020 PUBLISHERS

Gordon Montgomery | gordon.montgomery@lifestylepubs.com Kelley Lamm | kelley.lamm@lifestylepubs.com AD DESIGNER

It Is All About The Guys LET’S HEAR IT FOR THE BOYS!

Kaylee Mitchell LAYOUT DESIGNER

Emily Stout CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Julie Brown Patton, Kara Savio, Kathleen Kaiser, Pam Wilson, Linda Jarrett, Renee Moore

Fire up the grill! This month is all about the guys. What are your favorite things about the men in your life?

Here at Clayton Lifestyle, we are always inspired by what the men in our community do and create. We truly have some talented gentlemen in our midst, and we’ve taken this issue to highlight some of them and learn from their experiences in life.

We are especially humbled by those veterans who have served our country and given so much to protect our freedom, as well as those who serve our communities making a difference in our lives each day. We hope the stories in this issue will touch your hearts and inspire you as well.

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FEATURES 12 BT Camper Sales "Building Dreams is Our Business"

14 DINNER & A MOVIE = FAMILY NIGHT With The Guy In Your Life

20 Fishing A way to connect, relax and enjoy the water as fisherman cast, explore, catch and release.

32 Navigating Through Difficult Times Best–Selling Author And Motivational

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Speaker John O’Leary Addresses Overcoming Adversity

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16 DIY 20 Travel Destination 22 Open House 28 Local Limelight 32 Inspired By

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Clayton Police Welcomes Two Officers Through Virtual Means Officer Richard Matthews and Officer Andrew Blandford recently joined the Clayton Police Department by being sworn in via videoconferencing. Officer Matthews was a former Hannibal Police Department police officer, and was sworn in with the CPD 100th anniversary badge. Officer Blandford previously served with the Mt. Vernon, Ill., Police Department and is a member of the US Air Force Reserve.

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AROUND TOWN “Since Federation already has in place a robust system for evaluating aid needs, we were able to quickly get a first round of much-needed funds where they will do the most good,” says Brian Herstig, president and CEO of the Jewish Federation of St. Louis. “We know that more funding will be necessary as we get through these unprecedented times together.”

CLAYTON NAMES NEW POLICE CHIEF AND PUBLIC WORKS DIRECTOR Mark Smith was named new chief of the Clayton Police Department, and Matt Malick was hired as Clayton's public works director.

CLAYTON GARDEN CLUB RECEIVES NATIONAL GARDEN CLUBS' GRANT Clayton Garden Club members received a grant

Chief Smith began his career in police service 20 years ago with the Clayton Police Department.

He previously has served as lieutenant and as the interim police chief since May 2019.

from the National Garden Club's "Plant America

Smith served in various capacities in regional

Community Grant Projects" program. The grant

efforts, including as a former investigator with

will assist local garden club enthusiasts in their col-

Major Case Squad and regional coordinator for law

laboration with EarthDance Organic Farm School.

enforcement blood drives. He holds a bachelor’s

EarthDance is the oldest known organic farm

degree from Lindenwood University in criminal jus-

west of the Mississippi. More than 2,000 visitors

tice, master’s degree from Lindenwood University

go there annually regarding home gardening and

in criminal justice administration, and is a graduate

agricultural education.

of the F.B.I. National Academy.

The Clayton Garden Club was launched 80

Matt formerly was Clayton's assistant public

years ago, making it one of the oldest continuous

works director for five years, including serving as

garden clubs in the nation. It's constitutionally lim-

the interim director of public works since May 2019.

ited to 30 members.

He joined Clayton after 15 years of project design

$100,000 DISTRIBUTED FROM FEDERATION’S COMMUNITY RESPONSE FUND The first round of Jewish Federation of St. Louis’ Community Response Fund assistance recently went to local agencies on the front lines of helping the most vulnerable people in the Jewish community.

and management for private engineering consulting firms. He is an active member of the American Public Works Association and holds a bachelor's degree in civil engineering from University of Illinois, Urbana-Champaign. He is a registered professional engineer in Missouri.

LADUE IS UPDATING CITY COMPREHENSIVE PLAN

More than 360 donors gave to the fund, which

An update to Ladue’s Comprehensive Plan has

was started with a $100,000 donation from Carol and

been underway through conversations with com-

Michael Staenberg. The fund now topped $600,000.

munity leaders, initial meetings with a mayor-ap-

JFS, formerly known as Jewish Family & Children

pointed Community Advisory Committee mem-

Service, received $89,000; of that, $42,000 went

bers, a public workshop in March and a community

directly for financial assistance to those affected by

survey available online and via paper.

the COVID-19 pandemic.

The Harvey Kornblum Jewish Food Pantry, which has seen an eight-fold increase in new fam-

The goal of the plan review is to understand current issues and opportunities in Ladue from various perspectives.

ilies, received $37,000. And, JFS’s mental health

The next phase of the comprehensive planning

service received an immediate infusion of $10,000

process will consider strategies for future suc-

to expand those services in these trying times.

cess; it includes a second public workshop slated for later this year.

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Following

completion

of

the

Comprehensive Plan, city staff and elected officials will prepare a fiveyear strategic plan to guide city operations during the first five years of plan implementation. To learn more

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about this process, visit the Plan’s website, LadueCompPlan.com.

Over the past 80 years, Ladue representatives made a forthright effort to preserve its heritage while responding to an ever-evolving society through thoughtful planning. The city’s first comprehensive plan was developed in 1939 and has since been updated in 1974 and again in 2006, in response to changing conditions such as population growth, advancement of technologies, and economic shifts.

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camp will move to local parks and be an outdoor camp.

Restrictions on camp size limits (possibly 5:1 camper/staff ratio).

All field trips have been canceled.

The pool likely will be unavailable, but is still under evaluation, as is Aqua Camp.

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DRIVER’S NOTEBOOK "BUILDING DREAMS IS OUR BUSINESS"

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a myriad of options from which to choose.

to do with its body design and shell that's made from a first-rate, aircraft-grade aluminum alloy riveted over a steel frame.

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BRADLEY EUBANK, GENERAL MANAGER OF WENTZVILLE-BASED BILL THOMAS (BT) CAMPER SALES, HAS WORKED WITHIN THE INDUSTRY FOR 22 YEARS. This family-owned/operated recreational vehicle dealership is an active promoter of the RV lifestyle throughout the St. Louis region. They currently carry the following brands of towable RVs: Airstream, Rockwood, Columbus and Grand Design. They can be contacted at 636.327.5900. Bradley is happy to showcase these four types of RVs.

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Fifth wheel trailers are one of the most pop-

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ular styles of campers due to their hitch that

likes taking their favorite toys along with

allows drivers to connect the cargo attach-

them on their road trips, such as dirtbikes,

ment to the back of a large vehicle while

motorcycles, golf carts and ATVs. With large

facilitating hardier turning. Fifth wheels

openings and ramp doors, typically in the

often are the top choice for full-time RVers.

rear, they could be described as a cross

They provide flexibility in setups, along

between a cargo or open-box trailer, and a

with interior luxury amenities.

travel trailer.

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FOOD & WINE Jerk Chicken Kabobs

dinner & a movie = family night DINNER & A MOVIE = FAMILY NIGHT

With an imposed quarantine in full swing for the last

month, and theaters closed too, DInner and A Movie is going to help you plan the perfect ‘family night,’ complete with a Jerk Chicken Kabob recipe that entire families can love, and

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a couple suggestions for perfect family films to catch on Netflix this month.

Let’s start off with some of the best Jerk Chicken ever made…

GRILLED JERK CHICKEN KABOBS – by Kathleen Kaiser

And let’s not forget to make a treat you to enjoy when the movies are over -- 10-minuite No Churn Ice Cream.

INGREDIENTS: + ¼ cup vegetable or coconut oil + ¼ cup lime juice + 1/8 teaspoon dried ginger + 2 jalapenos cut into chunks (if spicier desired, use 2 habaneros) + 1 tablespoon honey or agave + 3 cloves minced garlic + ½ teaspoon thyme + ½ teaspoon nutmeg + ½ teaspoon allspice + 1 teaspoon kosher salt + 1 pound boneless, skinless chicken breasts, cut into 1-inch chunks + ½ pineapple, peeled, cored and diced into 1-inch chunks + 4 metal or wooden skewers (if using wooden, soak in water for 30 minutes before using)

10 min. NO CHURN ICE CREAM

DIRECTIONS:

INGREDIENTS

1. Blend together until smooth the oil, juice, ginger, jalapenos, honey, garlic and spices.

+ 2 cups heavy whipping cream

2. Pour marinade over chicken and place in refrigerator for 30 to 40 minutes.

+ 1 can sweetened condensed milk

3. Heat grill to medium heat.

+ 2 teaspoons Vanilla extract

4. Skewer chicken and pineapple, alternating between pieces. (If preferred, include other vegetables, such as red, yellow or orange peppers, and red or yellow onions cut into pieces, too.)

5. Grill chicken for 6 to 7 minutes per side and enjoy.

DIRECTIONS Whip whipping cream until stiff peaks form. Fold whipped cream into sweetened condensed milk and vanilla mixture. Pour

Now that tummies are full, how about sitting back to enjoy a couple of films that

into loaf pan and freeze till firm. Serve

are rated “Triple F” – for “fabulous family fun,” as these films will brings smiles, regardless of age.

BACK TO THE FUTURE (1985) Let’s venture back in time, when wearing two polos, puffy sweater vests and Nike tennis shoes was all the rage, as Robert Zemeckis took us back “about 30 years” with his smash late-summer sci-fi comedy: BACK TO THE FUTURE. Playing on Netflix in June, along with BACK TO THE FUTURE II, your family will get “a real hoot” heading back to catch this timeless classic, starring Michael J. Fox, Christopher Lloyd, Lea Thompson and Crispin Glover.

But, if “blast from the past” summer movies aren’t your thing, then the next film is the perfect combination of comedy and super-hero mayhem to check out instead.

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INCREDIBLES 2 (2018) If you didn’t get a chance to catch this classic PIXAR film in the summer of 2018, after waiting 14 long years for this sequel to arrive, you’re going to be super excited to catch this fabulous film on Netflix this month. Or, even if you did get to catch it at a theater, this is one of those films you’ll want to watch again, as Mr. Incredible, Elastigirl, Violet, Dash and Jack-Jack put their hilarious spin into the super-hero universe again in INCREDIBLES 2. This film stars the voices of Craig T. Nelson, Holly Hunter, Sarah Vowell, Huck Milner, Eli Fucile and Samuel L. Jackson, and is a perfect family film to view, from ages 2 years and older.

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DIY ARTICLE JULIE BROWN PATTON

Pappy Happy 20 IDEAS FOR HONORING FATHER'S DAY AT HOME

“AFFECTION” IS THE MIDDLE NAME OF SOLID, COMPASSIONATE AND LOVING FATHERS. For many people, traditional Father’s Day gatherings and plans are still on-hold, so until real hugs can replace virtual hugs, following are creative ideas about how to affectionately honor those special men in life on their glorious annual day.

HOW TO CELEBRATE FATHER’S DAY, ESPECIALLY AT HOME 1. Present a Show and Tell -- this is a particularly good activity for younger family members.

2. Create a themed acrostics. Acrostics is a type of word puzzle that uses an acrostic form (poem in which the first letter of each line spells out a word, message or the alphabet), typically consisting of two parts. The first part is a set of lettered clues, each of which has numbered blanks representing the letters of the answer. The second part is a long series of numbered blanks and spaces, representing a quotation or other text, into which the answers for the clues fit.

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In some forms of the puzzle, the first letters of each correct clue answer, read in order from clue A on down the list, will spell out the author of the quote and the title of the work it is taken from; this can be used as an additional solving aid.

3. Sing one of his favorite songs to him -- can be done via video for those still physical distancing.

4. Make him laugh every hour, on the hour. One option would be to text him one joke after every 60 minutes.

5. Play a game, which could even be done by phone if need be.

6. Create a mini golf course indoors or outdoors at your home.

7. Set up a bowling lane with items found around the house, and use a basketball for the bowling ball.

8. Play catch in the backyard.

9. Go for a bike ride together.

10. Build something together, particularly with Legos.

11. Make him a journal or memory book regarding all the attributes that make good fathers, showcasing photos of him, of course.

12. Make his favorite meals for the day or the whole weekend.

13. Send him a popcorn gift basket, if you cannot be together due to COVID-19 health concerns or risks.

14. Announce on social media all the reasons why you love, support and celebrate him.

15. Be sure to send him a special Father’s Day card in the mail.

16. Write a heartfelt gratitude letter to him and deliver it to his mailbox or front door.

17. Buy a mix-and-match of craft beers or limited-batch wine, and drop them off at his doorstep when not able to share them in-person.

18. Through technology access, participate in a virtual hike or walk together.

19. Send him a special, edible gift basket, with both healthy items and sweet treats.

20. Invent customized stories about him by taking a few sheets of paper and cutting them into squares; then write a single and possibly hilarious word on each, such as: fish, biscuits, alien. rhinoceros, Gouda cheese.

Then ask your kids to make up a tale, occasionally flipping a square over and adding the word on it to the story. Let the imagination run wild!

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Fishing

ARTICLE PAM WILSON

A WAY TO CONNECT, RELAX AND ENJOY THE WATER AS FISHERMAN CAST, EXPLORE, CATCH AND RELEASE. ST. LOUIS IS LUCKY TO HAVE A

Max Vaaler of T. Hargrove Fly Fishing. “I

VARIETY OF PLACES TO ENJOY THE

find it relaxing to fly fish, always remem-

RELAXATION OF FISHING. Fishermen

bering that it’s just fishing,” he adds, indi-

love the quiet, solitude and stress relief of

cating he’s caught bass, bluegill and trout.

casting, exploring, catching and releasing.

“Missouri

Rocky

Rivers,

the

Big

Bluffs

and

the

Casting a reel and watching and waiting

River,

for the bobber to sing is one of the great

Upper Meramec provide the perfect

joys of fishing.

setting for kayak fishing,” says Perry

Castlewood

Many fishermen believe that spring

Whitaker, of The Alpine Shop. He’s caught

is the best time to fish, although winter

small mouth bass, and says he enjoys the

months also bring catfish. When it starts

challenge of kayaking.

to get warm, the fish begin swimming.

Walker Lake in Kirkwood Park is a hid-

Whatever lake, pond or river one might

den gem. The lake is stocked with trout

drive by, you’re certain to catch fishermen

and St. Louis County Park employees

fishing. While many fishermen believe

suggest using a rubberized fishing net

it’s their skill and fishing equipment that

that doesn’t hurt the fish. Murray Powell,

prompts success, all of them are quick to

St. Louis Parks and Recreation director,

add, “There’s always luck involved, too.”

adds: “It’s a wonderful sport, provided

Equipment can be as simple as a reg-

you put the fish back.”

ular fishing pole and a tackle box with

Jake Gillette, a local college junior, is

different bobbers, hooks and scissors.

an avid fisherman who learned the sport

Fishing equipment also can include a fish-

growing up with his grandparents. He

ing kayak, a fishing net that doesn’t harm

likes Jefferson Lake in Forest Park and

the fish and a book that identifies fish.

Bee Tree Park. “There’s quite a lot of fish

Fun places to fish in and around St. Louis include the following locations.

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here and a pretty big lake,” he says.

Jake is also a tournament fisherman and enjoys catching fish. “It’s a peaceful sport,” he concludes.

Fishing at Tilles Park

Jake Gillette of Clayton, Paddle Fish from Missouri River

FISHERMAN #1: Jake Gillette suggests taking a tape measure, scale and a fishing ID book, “As well as your camera to record what you caught!”

FISHERMAN #2: Max Vaaler says that there is a “wide range of fly fishing equipment, so buy what you need to start and grow from there.”

FISHERMAN #3: Perry Whitaker says, “Fishing kayaks are wider providing a stable place to stand and is less likely to turnover. They range in price from $500-$5000. It’s the most fun I’ve had fishing!”

FISHERMAN #4: Steve L’Hommedieu of Ladue says this, “My favorite item to bring: my kids! And my wife Angela.

Remember to check with government agencies regarding a fishing license.

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OPEN HOUSE ARTICLE LINDA JARRETT | PHOTOGRAPHY PROVIDED BY CORDISH COMPANIES

ONE CARDINAL WAY BRINGS LUXURY LIVING AND PANAROMIC VIEWS TO DOWNTOWN RESIDENTS LIVING AT THE NEW 29-STORY RESIDENTIAL TOWER NEXT TO BALLPARK VILLAGE WILL NOT NEED TICKETS TO A BASEBALL GAME. 22

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IMAGINE WATCHING CARDINAL BASEBALL FROM A PERSONAL APARTMENT WINDOW, AN OPEN TERRACE OR EVEN A SWIMMING POOL. That’s what residents of One Cardinal Way, 601 Clark Ave., will enjoy as part of their experience in this new, 29-story building rising in downtown St. Louis, next to Ballpark Village and across the street from Busch Stadium.

As part of Ballpark Village--a mixed-use retail, entertainment, office and residential district developed by the Cordish Companies in partnership with the St. Louis Cardinals--the residential tower is scheduled to open for residents the first part of August.

These luxury apartments will introduce a new lifestyle to downtown, adding to the regional renaissance.The building features one- and two-bedroom apartments, plus 16 penthouses, all with floor-to-ceiling windows offering magnificent views of not only Busch Stadium, but the St. Louis skyline, the Arch, the Mississippi River and all that lies to the West.

The one-bedroom apartments start at 571 square feet, the two bedrooms at 1,200 square feet and the penthouses at 1,500 square feet. Apartments feature luxury vinyl tile with carpeting in some bedrooms.

“We left the concrete ceilings open exposing the ductwork, so everything is roomy and bright,” says Marnie Sauls, sales director.

“We call the eighth floor our entertainment floor,” Marnie says. “You have a conference area with computers, and a demonstration kitchen where we have three or four events a month.”

The eighth floor includes a full-service fitness center and party room, which can be rented for private events. It also has cozy nooks with fireplaces for relaxing, livestreaming televisions and a full-service bar.

The outside terrace features the indoor/outdoor bar and infinity pool where residents can watch the game either from the pool, or they can choose to sit on the oversized, turf-covered stairs. Because barbecue and baseball go together, grills and picnic tables are available for outdoor cooking–pork steaks, no doubt.

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OPEN HOUSE (CONTINUED) room anytime. The restaurant, Salt and Smoke, will be located on-site along with some retail stores. Indoor, secure parking is on floors two through seven.

Marnie says 60 percent of the apartments are rented, and the company is hosting “get acquainted” parties for residents. “We want to connect the residents. We have retirees, empty nesters, Gen-Xers and some families, and many of them have already met.”

Mike LaMartina, Cordish chief revenue officer, says One Cardinal Way takes the next step in continuing to evolve the downtown landscape. “We’re going from an entertainment-focused property in Ballpark Village to a fully living, breathing neighborhood,” he says.

“The goal of the partnership between the Cordish company and the Cardinals is to inject foot traffic, urban development and a neighborhood aspect into our specific area,” he says.

“Everything going on around us from the aquarium to the improvements at Enterprise Center to the coming MLS stadium–all of our goals remain the same, and that is to drive density downtown, to drive activity and make sure we’re providing amenities, assets and entertainment across the board for all types of people. At the end of the day, that fuels the downtown development scene while also providing a regionally significant area where people can come to from all over,” Mike reflects.

Besides the panoramic views, r e s i d e n t s w i l l e n j oy : + Floor-to-ceiling windows with UV glass to prevent heating. + Kitchen and baths with quartz countertops. + Shower/tub combo with rainfall shower heads. + Ceiling fans in all bedrooms. + 24-hour lobby staffing, maintenance service and storage and delivery area. + Personal concierge services. + In-building secure parking. + The building is pet friendly. + Custom-crafted, European-styled cabinetry. + Full-size washer/dryer in every unit. + Gourmet chef-inspired kitchen. + Caesarstone countertops. + Stainless steel appliances. + Porcelain and marble bathroom tile. + Valet dry cleaning and laundry. + Private balconies in most units. + Controlled access. + Business center and conference room. + Monthly social events.

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JOHN BROWN, SHARES THE IMPETUS BEHIND HIS NEWEST BOOK, MISSOURI – AN ILLUSTRATED TIMELINE. This is John’s sixth book with the publishing company, Reedy Press. On the heels of his latest book release, John also was recently awarded “Best News Anchor” in Missouri by the Missouri Broadcasters Association.

While the new book offers a historical retrospective, it’s far from a typical history book. John presents Missouri’s past 200 years in a way that’s both educational and entertaining for every generation and generations to come. The book is available at MissouriLegends.com.

WHAT WAS THE INSPIRATION FOR THE BOOK? Missouri’s 200th anniversary is next year, August 10, 2021. It’s going to be such a big deal for the state. I thought: “What kind of book will get people excited about the 200th anniversary of our statehood?” I’m hoping people read this and feel the same level of excitement that I do as we approach 2021.

WHAT DID YOU LEARN IN WRITING THIS BOOK? We tend to compartmentalize history and say, “Well, that happened, and that was the only thing happening.” But when events are placed on a timeline, you realize several things happened in the same time period. While Jesse James was robbing people in mid-Missouri, 150 miles away in St. Louis, Washington University and St. Louis University were developing highly respected scientific institutions with medical schools and hospitals.

In 20 or 30 years from now, we’ll think back about this time with the pandemic and assume everyone was just stuck at their home, not talking, not doing anything. But things are happening. We just don’t know about them yet. There are people at home working on the next great inventions.

HOW DID YOU BECOME A HISTORY EXPERT? I’m not an expert. I’m just interested. I lived in 20 different towns all over Missouri before I graduated from college. I’ve lived in almost every part of the state. I’ve gotten to know the people, and go to the high schools. It’s a rather unusual way to learn history. But it worked for me because I understand what makes each of the different areas so unique. That’s important to me because I had to fight to get my book, Missouri Legends, published about 10 years ago. They said nobody wanted to read about famous Missourians; that book became

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a big success. The message of that book is: It doesn’t matter what town you are from, people from all over Missouri have found success and you can, too.

FAVORITE ROAD TRIP IN MISSOURI? I can’t drive between here and Springfield without saying, “Let’s get off and look at Devil’s Bend.” My wife and I just took our girls to the Lake of the Ozarks the slow way – through the wine country. It took us 12 hours.

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a way to turn a life-altering tragedy into a defining characteristic that led to fulfillment for himself and hundreds of others. The 38-year-old lives with his wife, Beth, and their four children. He has a No. 1 national best-selling book under his belt, and a new one that just published. Clatyon Lifestyle asked John about overcoming adversity, and how best to navigate through these difficult times.

John O’Leary HOW DID YOU TURN SURVIVING A FIRE THAT LEFT YOU WITH THIRD-DEGREE BURNS OVER 100% OF YOUR BODY INTO A CAREER HELPING OTHERS? I don’t consider myself a burn victim. If you ask me what happened, it frees me to tell you a little bit more, and then if I’m really listening, I realize you’re probably asking for a reason.

YOU SAY IT TAKES A VILLAGE: HOW VITAL WAS THAT SUPPORT DURING YOUR RECOVERY? I believe I am where I am in my life today as a direct result of our community, my family, the incredible medical team, and the Grace of God. 32

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WHY DID YOU BECOME A

YOU MET YOUR FUTURE WIFE IN COLLEGE, BUT IT

MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER?

TOOK SOME TIME TO CAPTURE HER HEART?

I recognized through my story that people are able to

Yes, she thought of us as just good friends, so it took

learn a lot more about their own stories and the value of

a little while for her to see if we could be more than

their lives. And, I realized I can utilize something I took for

friends. And I’d always viewed our relationship as what I

granted for the majority of my life, and put it to work to

could get out of it, maybe I could get a girlfriend or maybe

better those around me.

she’ll go to the next dance with me. Then one day I pivoted from what I could get out of it, to what I could invest

YOUR MOTHER PLAYED A CRUCIAL ROLE IN

in it. I continued to hold the door and give her flowers. It

YOUR RECOVERY.

changed my own psyche, and eventually changed the way

I was a little boy in a wheelchair on a morphine drip

she viewed me.

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with no fingers, and yet, when I came home that first night, she made me pick up a fork and try to eat, a skill I assumed was gone. Two days later she had a piano teacher teaching me piano again. My mom wanted to remind me there was nothing in life that I could not do, if I believed in fact I could.

“I believe I am where I am in my life today as a direct result of our communi t y, my famil y, the incredible medical team, and the Grace o f G o d .”

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COVID-19 HAS CHANGED OUR LIVES. HOW CAN YOU HELP PEOPLE SEE LIGHT THROUGH THE DARKNESS? I’d encourage them to recognize this is a frightening time, so it’s OK to feel a little isolation and despair because these are dark, difficult days. But I think we have an opportunity to pivot and create a future we may not have been bold enough to create otherwise.

HOW DO YOU THINK YOUR KIDS ARE PROCESSING EVERYTHING? One of the beautiful things about children is that they’re wildly adaptive, they embrace whatever the moment is, whenever that moment arrives, and whatever shows up within it. They can teach us a lot on how best to handle this pandemic, and how best to not only move forward with optimism, but to embrace the joy we can find even in the midst of it.

CAN YOU SEE A SILVER LINING…PERHAPS A KINDER, GENTLER WORLD? If there is something good to come out of COVID-19, it’s that we recognize how important relationships are, how important it is to slow down, count our blessings and not take anything for granted.

ANY ADVICE ON HOW TO REMAIN PATIENT DURING THIS DIFFICULT TIME? We can grow in patience by taking inventory of what we have. My dad, who has Parkinson’ disease, taught me this. He begins each day smiling and reflecting on the reasons he still has to be grateful. I think one of the ways to grow not only in resiliency, in courage, and in life is to choose to be grateful. That grateful heart will not only allow us to weather any storm, but will actually free us to do so with a smile on our face.

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