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MAY 2020 PUBLISHER

May You Live in Interesting Times. AS WE CONTINUE TO MANEUVER THROUGH THE TURBID WATERS OF THE COVID-19 PANDEMIC, IT SEEMS WE ARE LIVING THIS OFT-QUOTED ENGLISH EXPRESSION THAT PURPORTS TO BE A TRANSLATION OF A TRADITIONAL CHINESE CURSE. But along with the horrific daily tallies of victims here and around the world, ongoing news of critical shortages of respirators and face masks, and other negative news,

Jimmy Darden | jimmy.darden@lifestylepubs.com 405.541.5650 EDITORIAL COORDINATOR

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come stories of another kind: of profound acts of courage by our first responders, health

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

care professionals and “essential” workers, of individuals coming together (figuratively) to

Jerri Culpepper, Lindsey Davies, Staci Elder Hensley, Rarchar Tortorello

produce face masks for hospitals and others, of medical students stepping forward early to help meet the onslaught of coronavirus patients. And so many more! Social media as well as the traditional print and broadcast media right here at home have

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shone the spotlight on the actions of many of our neighbors and businesses that have done what they can to help out our community. Just as one example, during a three-day time period, Volare on OU’s Campus Corner gave out complimentary pizzas as lines of cars waited curbside. We’d love to hear your stories about how our community has come together to help their neighbors. Please share them on our Facebook page! In this issue, our cover story shines the spotlight on some of our everyday heroes and community leaders. This is the third year Cleveland County Lifestyle has recognized 12 outstanding women in the community who are leaders in a myriad of career fields. All of these women have enjoyed not only successful careers, but also have a significant history

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of service to the community. We hope you enjoy hearing about these extraordinary women,

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and that you will reach out to congratulate them whenever you get the opportunity to do so!

OPERATIONS DIRECTOR Janeane Thompson

Some other highlights: + Our Town—A look at four area women’s networking groups, each with its own unique mission, including community outreach, raising scholarships and providing socializa-

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tion and fun opportunities for those approaching age 50 and beyond + Times Past—Remembering Norman’s first woman mayor, June Benson, and a peek at the small park that bears her name + Hometown Hero—An intimate portrait of a mother and daughter team who not only complement each other in terms of achievement but are bound by sacred oath defined by their family’s military heritage; the daughter, an anesthesiologist, is helping care for the victims of the COVID-19 Pandemic at OU Medical Center In closing, please continue to follow safety protocols and help keep yourself, your family

and your community safe. Shown above, my niece and Cleveland County Lifestyle con-

tributor Lindsey Davies enjoying a recent visit to Lake Thunderbird with her son, Liam, 3.

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INSIDE THE ISSUE MAY 2020

FEATURES 16 Get Involved! Nonprofits Offer Opportunities for Community Service and Social Engagement

38 Remembering June Benson Norman’s FIrst Woman Mayor Also a Champion of Civil Rights, Other Causes

44 Elevate Wellness and Aesthetics Offering a Higher Level of Self-Care

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50 Daughter Follows Mother’s Military Footsteps ... and Finds Herself in the COVID-19 Battle

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Good Times

Travel Destination

Our Town

22 Giving Back 44 Healthy Lifestyle 50 Hometown Hero 53 Realty Report 54 Parting Thoughts

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MARCH AND APRIL PROVED TO BE TWO OF THE HARDEST MONTHS THAT WE IN THE TRAVEL INDUSTRY HAVE EXPERIENCED SINCE THE BRUTAL EVENTS OF 9-11. Travel agents worldwide were there to help customers with cancellations and rebooking highly anticipated cruises and tours. With each cancellation, the agent, who works on commission only, would sigh and know that the revenue from that booking was in most part gone. Putting revenue aside, we all knew that being there to take calls and answer emails was our No. 1 priority! It would break our hearts when a client had decided to book their cruise or tour online with a .com company and could not get through to them by telephone or email because they had closed their doors. Unfortunately we were unable to help them. This leads me to provide you with “Six of the Top Reasons to Use a Travel Agent”:

01 Peace Of Mind. When you work with a reputable travel agent in a storefront travel agency office, you can walk in, see them, and get to know and trust them. The same applies when you work with an independent contractor who is associated with a reputable storefront travel agency.

02 Customer Service. When you receive personalized customer service from a travel agent who knows the travel industry, you once again gain peace of mind.

03 Maximize Your Budget.

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NONPROFITS OFFER OPPORTUNITIES FOR COMMUNITY SERVICE AND SOCIAL ENGAGEMENT

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WHETHER YOU’RE LOOKING FOR WAYS TO GIVE BACK TO THE COMMUNITY OR, AS MADONNA SAYS, “JUST WANNA HAVE FUN,” YOU’VE GOT LOTS OF OPTIONS WHEN LOOKING FOR WOMEN’S NETWORKING ORGANIZATIONS IN THE AREA. Here, we highlight four well-established nonprofits, each with its own mission. Each plays a vital role in our community: helping children and families in need, raising scholarships, and providing a safe outlet for fun and socialization.

A S S I S TA N C E L E A G U E OF NORMAN

+ WHAT IT IS: an all–volunteer nonprofit organization dedicated to transforming lives of children and families through community programming + WHO IT’S GOOD FOR: Anyone seeking community

JUNIOR LEAGUE OF NORMAN

service opportunities

+ WHAT IT IS: a nonprofit organization whose mission is

+ WHERE IT IS: 809 Wall St., Norman

exclusively education and charity + WHO IT’S GOOD FOR: women from a variety of

The Assistance League of Norman, locally organized in 1970 and chartered in 1974, seeks to meet essential needs

lifestyles and stages + WHERE IT IS: 300 W Gray St., Ste. 104, Norman

in the community and to help families flourish. Its largest project is Operation School Bell®. Through

Junior League of Norman was founded in 1975 as the

this program, brand-new clothing is provided to students

Junior Service League and in 1983 was officially recognized

in need in the Norman and Little Axe Public Schools.

as the Junior League of Norman.

Each student has a personalized one-to-one shopping

JLN reaches out to women of all races, religions and

experience with a volunteer in the league’s store. Students

national origins who demonstrate an interest in and a com-

select pants, tops, a winter coat, socks, underwear, shoes, a

mitment to voluntarism.

grooming kit, a new book, a stuffed animal and a backpack.

JLN provides volunteer hours yearly to its main commu-

Other projects include Senior’s R&R (a monthly bingo

nity programs, Baby Steps, Food for Kids, and Done in a

game hosted by members for clients of Full Circle Adult

Day. Community programs focus on reducing obstacles and

Day Center), Book of My Own, Care Kits, Bears for Children

increasing opportunities for vulnerable children and youth. JLN

(in which members provide cuddly bears to children in the

volunteers have a commitment and a passion for voluntarism,

community who are in the midst of a crisis or facing a trau-

contributing their time, talent and funds in a variety of ways.

matic event), and Community Outreach.

JLN offers its members flexibility in time and commitment

The organization’s fundraising events include a home

with options to serve as members and/or leaders on several

tour; a gala that includes dinner, dancing and a live and

committees, as well as opportunities to implement change

silent auction; OSBee, an adult spelling bee; and the

in the community and to connect with other women with a

Operation School Bell 5K run.

concern for present and future generations.

Membership is open to those who wish to be of service

For more information on the JLN or membership inqui-

to the community and have the time, creativity and passion

ries,

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4 WOMEN OF THE SOUTH + WHAT IT IS: a nonprofit organization of women helping women + WHO ITâ€™S GOOD FOR: Southside women interested in providing higher educational opportunities Women of the South was founded in 1995 when a group of Southside women created a nonprofit organization composed of women helping women. Its mission is to provide cultural, civic, educational and social activities for the South Oklahoma City metro area. The founding members of Women of the South had a vision to provide higher educational opportunities for women who do not have sufficient resources to attend a college or university. The two scholarship programs available are an associate degree scholarship to Oklahoma City Community College for women who are the sole or primary providers of their household and a scholarship for young women graduating from a south Oklahoma City area high school. Members also participate in many cultural and community projects. FMI: email womenofthesouth@gmail.com.

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Among Friends PROVIDING A SAFE AND FRIENDLY PLACE FOR ADULTS WITH DEVELOPMENTAL DISABILITIES AND OTHER NEEDS ARTICLE LINDSEY DAVIES

that Jenny suddenly did not have a place to go during the day to socialize with peers and she made it her mission to provide a place for friends who found themselves in the same position. We are NOT an adult daycare. Many adults with developmental disabilities don’t have the luxury of choice as often as their peers without disabilities. We provide a variety of programs, activities and social opportunities throughout the day. Each member chooses what to do that makes their day meaningful. There is no other program like ours in the state.

THE ISOLATION EXPERIENCED IN THE RECENT PANDEMIC GIVES READ-

When the organization was founded in 2003, it had

ERS A VALUABLE INSIGHT INTO WHAT ADULTS WITH DEVELOPMENTAL

six members. Today, we have about 50 active members.

DISABILITIES FACE THROUGHOUT LIFE. Norman found a unique solution to this isolation and created the organization, Among Friends. Here, Miranda Steffen,

PERSONAL INVOLVEMENT

executive director of AF, talks about their mission, how they are handling these

I am a parent of a teenager with a developmen-

difficult times when socialization can’t take place in person and ways the com-

tal disability and I was in an advocacy program

munity can help. Miranda and the Among Friends community “believe in commU-

through the Developmental Disabilities Council of

NITY inclusion, and advocate for Friendships with all sorts of incredible humans:

Oklahoma called Partners in Policymaking when I

whether you walk, roll, speak, or sign—we all have something to contribute!”

first heard about AF. The former executive director was also in the class, and as she talked about the

HISTORY

organization. I was surprised to hear that it was in

Since 2003, Among Friends has been providing a safe and friendly place for

Norman! I am a Normanite and had never heard of

adults with developmental disabilities and additional needs. Our center was cre-

Among Friends. I immediately asked to take a tour.

ated after Jenny Fox, a high school student, was in a life-altering car accident,

From the moment I walked into Among Friends,

resulting in paralysis and a traumatic brain injury. Her mother, Cathe Fox, realized

I knew I was somewhere incredible. They were

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looking for a program director and I applied. I worked in that position for 18 months before becoming executive director in June 2019. HOW TO CONTRIBUTE Last year, volunteers donated more than 900 hours to our organization because, like us, they recognize the social impact and significance of our organization. Most of us are clawing at the walls after just a short period of social isolation—many adults with developmental disabilities are regularly challenged with this throughout their lives. Now, our mission is louder than ever: being connected to our commUNITY is vital for everyone. Our biggest need is financial support from the community to help us remain sustainable during this time. We are asking that people commit to monthly giving. Whether it is $5 or $50, your support is appreciated. Let’s “spread Friendship, not germs” as we weather this storm together. LONG-TERM GOALS We are hoping to get our own transportation so that we can be out and about in the community more often. Members enjoy our Learning and Leadership program activities, including outreach and volunteering. PANDEMIC’S EFFECTS Currently, our center is closed due to COVID-19, but Among Friends is still going strong. We have spent the last few weeks doing virtual hangouts with members, parent/caregiver support meetings via zoom, photo challenges that the whole family can join in on and livestreams offering creative outlets, as well as health and wellness. We will be expanding this to include offline opportunities as we move forward toward a longer stretch of sheltering at home, including pen pals, one-to-one phone calls, and offering a member directory so that our families can be in contact with one another.

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OUR 2020 WOMEN OF INFLUENCE BRIT TNI MCGILL , M.S.N., R.N., CCRN OCCUPATION: Vice President and Chief Nursing Officer, Norman Regional Health System I started my career at Norman Regional as a nursing school student and believe in creating professional development programs such as the system’s nursing extern and residency programs. In my current role, I have responsibility over numerous clinical areas and lead teams toward achievements in Centers of Excellence. The variety, scope and impact on people this role provides is extremely rewarding, challenging and motivating. Education: B.S.N., OU; M.S.N., University of Texas; Clinical Certifications GREATEST CAREER AND PERSONAL ACHIEVEMENT: Personally, I am proud of balancing the many roles in life: wife, mother, employee and volunteer. In my career, I have enjoyed building new relationships and partnerships that resulted in being a Leadership Norman graduate, a Norman Next 40 under 40 award recipient, an Oklahoma Magazine 40 under 40 winner, and a Becker’s Hospital Review Rising Star. VOLUNTEER EXPERIENCE: I have served on nonprofit boards that contribute to the citizens of this community. Most have been health care related. Currently, I serve as the board vice president for the Virtue Center, a place of help and hope for people facing addiction and mental health challenges. PHILOSOPHY:

Brittni McGill (Photography Krystyn Richardson of BOLD Multimedia)

“Through networking and partnerships, we are stronger together and together we can make a very positive impact on each other and the community.” ARTICLE JERRI CULPEPPER 26

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DIANA HARTLEY OCCUPATION: Professor of Practice at the University of Oklahoma, teaching students who are either working toward a major or minor in nonprofit management. Also have served since 1996 as a consultant to nonprofits locally and statewide and also volunteer with several nonprofits. PREVIOUS WORK: Reporter and photographer with the Elk City Daily News and marketing communications director for Moore Norman Technology Center EDUCATION: B.A. and M.A. in journalism/mass communication, University of Oklahoma GREATEST CAREER ACHIEVEMENT: Connecting students to compassionate careers is my why and what I consider to be the greatest achievement over my career of the last 37 years. I’ve had the privilege of working for some great organizations and leaders, but nothing has brought me more fulfillment or purpose than the work I am doing right now in education. Most people don’t realize one out of 10 jobs in our state is with nonprofit businesses. I’m in my ninth year of teaching at OU and I get to see my former students accomplishing important work in communities across Oklahoma and our nation. GREATEST PERSONAL ACHIEVEMENT: My husband I have been married for 35 years and just became grandparents last year. We’ve worked hard to create a family built on a foundation of love, laughter and faith. We’re not perfect but we have found a way to perfectly love each other, faults and all. VOLUNTEER EXPERIENCE: I believe leadership can and must be taught so my primary volunteer commitments have been with Leadership Oklahoma and Leadership Norman. 1. Leadership Oklahoma—Class 24 in 2010-2011, Board of Directors and Program Chair 2. Leadership Norman—1999-2000; Tomorrow’s Leaders Co-Chair; Leadership Development Advisory Board 3. Norman Public School Foundation Board—Past President (2016-2018) Diana Hartley (Photography Krystyn Richardson of BOLD Multimedia)

PHILOSOPHY: “Relationships define who I am, what I value and how I’ve chosen to live my life. I am a reflection of the people who influence and inspire me.”

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WOMEN OF INFLUENCE (CONTINUED) Courtney Henderson (Photography Krystyn Richardson of BOLD Multimedia)

COURTNE Y HENDERSON OCCUPATION: Director, OU Student Financial Center PREVIOUS WORK: OU staff member since 2013, including six years in the Financial Aid Services area. Before that, was employed with the Office of Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention Tribal Youth Training and Technical Assistance Center and the Indian Country Child Trauma Center, as well as the Norman Public Schools Indian Education Program. EDUCATION: B.A., OU GREATEST CAREER ACHIEVEMENT: Our main goal in the Student Financial Center is to assist college students and their families to create financial plans that will allow them to reach their educational goals. It motivates me to know that we can help ease confusion and overwhelming concerns as families attempt to navigate the financial processes of attending college. Families often have one shot at doing this right, and we want to facilitate that for them successfully. VOLUNTEER EXPERIENCE: I’ve been on the Norman Public Schools Indian Education Parent Committee for the past 13 years and held a leadership position for seven years. Volunteering my time with this group has allowed me to help plan and assist with the development of specific programs to meet the cultural and educational needs of Native American children enrolled in the NPS school district. Some of the most rewarding moments have included participating in the Sequoyah

S H AV O N N E E VA N S OCCUPATION: Realtor SELF-DESCRIBED MISSION: Matchmaker for people looking to reach certain goals through real estate GREATEST ACHIEVEMENTS:

Club Battle of the Books, a reading and quiz bowl

On Jan. 1, 2019, I found out I was pregnant. This was after making some

competition for all Native American fourth graders in

of my biggest goals the quarter before. I adjusted and used the goals I had

the district and sewing hundreds of graduation stoles

originally set as my reach goals. I am proud to say that I got to work and

to honor our seniors each year.

ended up hitting my reach goals. I was thankful I surrounded myself with

PHILOSOPHY:

people who kept my mindset right and I kept moving forward.

“My career and interests have always revolved

VOLUNTEER EXPERIENCE:

around engaging youth to be successful in their futures.

1. Luggage with Love chair for the Citizens Advisory Board (current)

Encouraging, empowering and honoring students through

2. Norman Next chair (current)

culture, education and work is where I find my joy.”

3. Sooner Stilettos (current) PHILOSOPHY: “To be a resource to the community.”

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Nicole Jarvis, M.D. (Photography Krystyn Richardson of BOLD Multimedia)

NICOLE JARVIS, M.D. OCCUPATION: ObGyn private-practice physician in Norman Also founder/president of the Nicole Jarvis MD Parkinson’s Research Foundation and Patient Council member at the Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson’s Research EDUCATION: National Merit Scholar and Presidential Scholar at Southern Methodist University; graduated Magna Cum Laude with a double major in electrical engineering with a specialization in biomedical engineering and liberal arts. Graduated from the OU College of Medicine with Alpha Omega Alpha Honors in 1999. Graduated in 2003 from ObGyn Residency Program at the University of Florida Shand’s Hospital GREATEST CAREER AND PERSONAL ACHIEVEMENTS: Raising awareness of Parkinson’s Disease at a local, national and global level; raising over $1.8 million for The Michael J. Fox Foundation as a Team Fox Member—100% of which is used to fund cutting-edge medical research, and raising over $150,000 for the Parkinson Foundation of Oklahoma to fund services such as education classes, voice therapy, support groups, and many other services for the 15,000 patients and families here in Oklahoma battling Parkinson’s Disease. And, of course, helping to bring thousands of tiny humans into the world is the most amazing job in the world! But I would have to say that my greatest achievement is getting to be a mom to my almost 13-year-old twin boys! VOLUNTEER EXPERIENCE: I have always been involved in many volunteer pro-

Shavonne Evans (Photography Krystyn Richardson of BOLD Multimedia)

grams and projects, starting in high school as a volunteer at Health for Friends in Norman, doing volunteer work at an orphanage in Romania during a summer break while in medical school, starting my own nonprofit organization in 2012, and holding past and present board positions with the Norman Chamber of Commerce, the Parkinson Foundation of Oklahoma and the United Tissue Network. PHILOSOPHY: “I cannot change the fact that I have Parkinson’s Disease, but because of the support and generosity of this community, I can help change what living with Parkinson’s Disease will look like for future patients...and eventually this small community will be able to say that we played a major part in finding the cure for this devastating disease. I strongly believe that it truly does take a village...if you give your time and support to your community anytime you can, then your community will be there to give you back it’s time and support to help you when you need it!” CONTINUED >

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Yaisa Mann (Withunmind Photography)

YA I S A M A N N OCCUPATION: Parallelpreneur and Founder of SwagHer Fitness and Yaisa Lifestyle Brand I am a brand ambassador in retail through event planning and building brand awareness by creating outsourcing opportunities to create business-to-business partnerships while building my businesses SwagHER Fitness and inspiring women through my namesake boutique branding business, Yaisa Lifestyle Brand, LLC. EDUCATION: B.A., English and African American Studies; M.A., Creative Writing; Ph.D., English (ABD) GREATEST CAREER AND PERSONAL ACHIEVEMENTS: I feel that it’s all-encompassing, accepting Jesus into my heart as Lord and Savior (2001); creating three beautiful children, Jalen, Josiah and Jael (2002, 2004, 2007); creating and teaching the first course in body image ever taught at the University of Oklahoma (2008); and being featured in the 40th Anniversary Edition of Our Bodies, Ourselves (2011). VOLUNTEER EXPERIENCE: 1. A Beautiful Cause: Our goal is to bring a little beauty and dignity back into the lives of women who are struggling to overcome poverty due to domestic violence, rape and homelessness for the Wonderfully Made Foundation in Oklahoma with a beauty product drive and beauty services provided by a major department store. 2. National Eating Disorders Association Walk Mistress of Ceremonies (2012) 3. Oklahoma Eating Disorders Association Community Ambassador Award for annual Love Your Body Zumba & Skate Party. PHILOSOPHY: “As Maya Angelou observed, ‘When you learn, teach, when you get, give.’”

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Sereta Wilson (Photography Krystyn Richardson of BOLD Multimedia)

S E R E TA W I L S O N OCCUPATION: Serial Entrepreneur. Co-owner of four businesses: Annie’s Ruff House, Annie’s Indoor Dog Park, Cool Beans Coffee and Yellow Dog Coffee Company. City of Norman Ward 5 Council Member (second term). I am head dog walker, CEO, crazy dog lady, executive director, council woman. I help write city ordinances and I am responsible for maintaining fiscal viability of all of these organizations. I am the visionary in my entrepreneurial partnerships. I wear lots of hats. I started my first business, Annie’s Ruff House, in 2009. EDUCATION: B.A., Liberal Studies, OU; M.A., Administrative Leadership, OU GREATEST PERSONAL AND CAREER ACHIEVEMENT: My greatest achievement was raising my family. I had my first child at the age of 18 and spent many years as a single parent. Yet with much of the regular deck stacked against me, I was able to finish an advanced degree, create and run several successful businesses, and even get elected to a public office. Anything is possible. My two children are both very healthy, happy and productive members of society. VOLUNTEER SERVICE: I have served on many boards and commissions. My most recent roles are City Council member for Ward 5. In that role I also serve as the Business and Community Affairs committee chair. My time on council has been dedicated to advocating for people in rural Norman. My first actions were to establish regular monthly ward meetings. I worked with OEC to clear the way for them to bring fiber optic internet to the rural parts of Norman. I worked on writing and allowing tiny houses on rural land. I am currently working on getting some safety corridors established for our narrow rural roads. In recent days I have been working with my business partner and fellow council member Kate Bierman on Norman Community Relief, where we are trying to fill gaps in our community’s social safety net during coronavirus. I also serve as executive director of Annie’s Rescue Foundation; we have been responsible for rescuing, rehoming and making healthy over 500 dogs in Norman and beyond. PHILOSOPHY: “When I started Annie’s Ruff House in 2009, I knew that I wanted to give back to my community. I quickly learned that our community needed help with unwanted animals. My initial effort was simply to take in unwanted animals and get them to an adoptable condition, whatever that took. We maintain four spots in our facility to help animals in our community. That has turned into helping battered women, helping victims of disaster tornadoes, fire, etc., and we maintain a fund that benefits animals at the municipal shelter that may need expensive medical treatments, saving them from euthanasia.” CONTINUED >

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KIM M. W E AV E R , M . D . Kristy Scroggins

OCCUPATION: Physician—Dual Board Certified in Obstetrics and Gynecology and Obesity Medicine. My husband, Darrell, and I own Weaver Clinics, a health and wellness private practice clinic providing outpatient services in gynecology, bioidentical hormone and low T therapy, medical weight loss, and aesthetics. Our goal is to help our patients look and live healthy longer! We opened our first clinic, in Duncan, in July 2009. Since then we have expanded to four locations across the state, including Chickasha, Lawton and Moore. EDUCATION: B.A., Biology, University of Texas at Austin; M.D., University of Texas Medical Branch at Galveston; OB/GYN Residency, OU Health Sciences Center

K R I S T I S C R O G G I N S , D .V. M .

GREATEST ACHIEVEMENT:

OCCUPATION:

He loves me. My title may be Doctor, but this is

Veterinarian and owner of Scroggins Animal Hospital

just my avenue to reach others for God’s king-

I am a general practice veterinarian. Essentially, the other family doctor.

dom! My goal is to give my patients so much

My practice is primarily dogs and cats with the occasional 4-H and FFA

more than health! They need hope, love and

livestock project (sheep, goats, pigs, and cattle).

healing. I try to stand in the gap by showing

EDUCATION:

them God’s unconditional love.

D.V.M., Oklahoma State College of Veterinary Medicine GREATEST CAREER ACHIEVEMENT: Probably graduating from veterinary school at the age of 24 and starting my practice before the age of 30. GREATEST PERSONAL ACHIEVEMENT: Definitely my kids! VOLUNTEER EXPERIENCE: 1. Moore Public Schools Foundation board member for nine years (as president from 2011-2013) 2. Have volunteered for numerous animal rescue organizations in the

VOLUNTEER EXPERIENCE: 1. Moore Faith Medical Center Women’s Health Director 2. Victory Family Church—with youngest daughter, Ainsleigh, serves in the annual toy drive and single mom’s day of pampering 3. Member of the Oklahoma State Medical Association Legislative Council (2019-Present) 4. Health and Education Speaker for various community groups, sharing information

area, including Second Chance and Moore Pawsabilities, and am a veteri-

on women’s health, hormones and sexuality.

narian for the Moore Animal Shelter. (I was the lead veterinarian that over-

PHILOSOPHY:

saw the City of Moore temporary animal shelter at the Cleveland County Fairgrounds following the May 20, 2013, tornado.) Likely my most favorite passion is being an FFA alumni supporter. My

God has blessed me so much! Every day, He gives me the opportunity to love on others like

“My husband and I have servant’s hearts and love to give to our communities with time and resources. We know we have other titles next to

entire life, I have been active in the Moore Ag Boosters.

our names, but we only have those titles because

PHILOSOPHY:

our Heavenly Father has graciously placed us in

“I am proud to live in and raise my children in my hometown of Moore.

these roles. We will always work to be the hands

The Moore FFA and Moore Public Schools provided me with the opportuni-

and feet of Jesus. We love our community and

ties to be successful in achieving my dreams. I feel that as a product of this

are honored to serve them!” Colossians 3:23 /

community and a business owner that it is essential that I donate my time

Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart,

and resources to the community that has done so much for me.”

as working for the Lord, not for human masters.

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Kim Weaver, M.D. (Shirley Helton with Catchlight Photography)

L I S A TA L L E Y OCCUPATION: Broker/Owner, Aria Real Estate Group EDUCATION: B.A., Business Management, OU; additional real estate certifications GREATEST PERSONAL ACHIEVEMENT: Motherhood is my life, my joy, my passion and by far my greatest achievement. I was once told I would likely never be able to have children and I had a very hard time processing this information. But the Lord had bigger plans for me and today I am the proud mother to three amazing children: Jackson (14), Ella (12) and Luke (10). My children are who give me my perspective and who fuel my drive. GREATEST VOLUNTEER ACHIEVEMENT: One of my most recent and greatest achievements that allowed me to give back to this community was my participation in the Dancing or a Miracle event at Norman’s Embassy Suites to raise funds for Children’s Hospital. In the past 11 years, this event has contributed more than $2.6 million to the Children’s Hospital Foundation. As 1 of 10 “celebrity” dancers who were paired with an award-winning professional dancer for a community-based rendition in the likeness of ABC’s “Dancing with the Stars,” I personally danced to raise a Lisa Talley (Shevaun Williams Photography)

record-breaking $221,000. My success led to being honored with an invitation to join this amazing board. My family has a personal connection to Children’s Hospital because of my oldest son, Jackson, who is a former recovered patient of Children’s Hospital. I was truly honored to give back to the same place that gave to my son in his darkest hour and my heart is rooted in this mission. PHILOSOPHY: “I was born and raised in Norman and my heart and roots are deep in this community. I choose to give back my time and resources because serving others is my heart and who I am at my core. You make a living by what you get. You make a life by what you give.” CONTINUED >

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ERIN SIMPSON OCCUPATION: Director, Gender + Equality Center; Coordinator for OU Advocates, OU The Gender + Equality Center offers the OU community gender-based violence prevention programming, sexual assault victim advocacy, gender-based education and training, and LGBTQ+ programming and support. My role as director is to coordinate a brilliant team of professionals in the GEC and volunteer victim advocates across campus. PREVIOUS WORK: Assistant Director for Residence Life, OU EDUCATION: B.S. Elementary Education; M.Ed. Adult and Higher Education; Ph.D. Candidate, Educational Leadership and Policy Studies GREATEST ACHIEVEMENT: I am most proud of the chances I have had to work with the brilliant communities of students,

Erin Simpson (Photography Travis Caperton)

activists, scholars and amazing professionals at OU and beyond. The people that I have been so lucky to learn from and alongside have made huge and lasting impacts on our state and society. My proudest moments come from watching students thrive in their own identities, in creating spaces for people to learn new ways of being in affirming communities, and from the growth and development I see in myself and my peers. I hope my single greatest achievement has not yet arrived because I look forward to a lifetime of aspirations and learning. VOLUNTEER EXPERIENCE: 1. American College Personnel Association College Educators International Governing Board— ACPA is the leading social justice association for Student Affairs practitioners; I served on the Governing Board for three years and continue to be actively engaged in the Association that is so important to our profession. 2. Institute on the Curricular Approach Faculty: ICA serves the profession of higher education as a training ground for curriculum design. I have been honored to serve as a faculty member for the past six years. PHILOSOPHY: “Maya Angelou taught us ‘Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better.’ I live by the idea that I can always know and do better—I will never be done.” 34

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Paula Price

PA U L A P R I C E OCCUPATION: Vice President, Strategy and Growth, Norman Regional Health System PREVIOUS WORK: Director, Health Promotion, Marketing and Community Relations, 1998-2016 EDUCATION: B.S., Nursing, M.S. in Public Health, M.S. in Nursing (R.N., B.S.N., M.P.H., M.S.N.) GREATEST CAREER ACHIEVEMENT: In my career, I have served in many clinical and leadership roles at Norman Regional and it has been a rewarding career in health care. I believe that my greatest achievement has been in the area of community health and wellness. Over the past 25 years, we have developed award-winning community health programs for children, adults, seniors, and also for people living with chronic disease. These programs focused on health education and screening, disease prevention and management, while helping community members achieve a better quality of life. GREATEST PERSONAL ACHIEVEMENT: My 39-year marriage to my wonderful husband, King Price. VOLUNTEER EXPERIENCE: 1. Health For Friends (2000-2010)—Vice President, President, Board of Directors 2. United Way of Norman (20142017)—Board of Directors 3. Feed The Children No Hunger Holidays for 800 Moore/Norman families (2018-2020) PHILOSOPHY: “Volunteers make a difference in a meaningful way that improves the quality of life in our community. I have been good health, an advanced education and

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NORMAN’S FIRST WOMAN MAYOR ALSO A CHAMPION OF CIVIL RIGHTS, THE ENVIRONMENT, OTHER CAUSES

ONE OF NORMAN’S MOST PROMINENT 20TH-CENTURY WOMAN LEADERS WAS MILDRED JUNE TOMPKINS BENSON. Born Nov. 6, 1915, in Granite, the daughter of the Oklahoma legislator Elmer O. Tompkins and his wife, Bessie Stovall, June was raised in McAlester, where she attended public schools before studying history and government at the University of Oklahoma, earning her bachelor’s degree with a double major in government and history in 1937. She married OU George Lynn Cross Research Professor of Political Science Oliver Earl Benson on June 1, 1940, in Guthrie. Prior to running for the city commission, June was active in the League of Women Voters, a service to which she returned after her last term in office. June’s volunteerism and civic service included everything from Common Cause to Sierra Club, National Audubon Society and the American Civil Liberties Union. June was the first woman to serve as a mayor in the state of Oklahoma when she was elected mayor of Norman in 1957 by city commissioners. In 1953, prior to being elected to the Norman City Commission, June had already made a mark on Oklahoma politics as the first woman elected to the commission. June served as mayor from 1957 to 1960, elected to two terms by city commissioners. Norman did not have another female mayor until Cindy Rosenthal was elected in 2007. “It just takes one person to break barriers that will forever alter ‘business as usual’ and open the door for others to follow,” said Norman Mayor Breea Clark. “In terms of female leadership in Norman, that one person was Mayor June Benson.” In a Norman Transcript article dated March 5, 2017, reporter Joy Hampton interviewed June’s daughter, Megan Benson, who recalled several memorable incidents, including one that reveals her as a champion of civil rights. “When we were having the civil rights protests over Brown’s Department store in Oklahoma City, there was a picket line here at Brown’s annex, which was a little store on Campus Corner,” Megan recalls in the article. “There was an ongoing picket line there while there were all the sit-ins at the store.

June Benson Courtesy Western History Collections, University of Oklahoma Libraries, OUEMP 74606-4

“IT JUST TAKES ONE PERSON TO BRE AK BARRIERS THAT WILL FOREVER ALTER ‘BUSINE SS AS USUAL’ AND OPEN THE DOOR FOR OTHERS TO FOLLOW,” SAID NORMAN MAYOR BREE A CL ARK . “IN TERMS OF FEMALE LE ADERSHIP IN NORMAN, THAT ONE PERSON WA S MAYOR JUNE BENSON.”

The Sunflower Girl sculpture by L'Deane Minor Trueblood graces June Benson Park in downtown Norman.

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REMEMBERING JUNE BENSON (CONTINUED)

J U N E B E N S O N PA R K (a n d s o o n t o c o m e , R u b y G r a n t P a r k ) Located near the Cleveland County Courthouse and the My mom marched in it with her white gloves. The ladies wore white

Senior Citizens Center, at 209 Alameda, a neighborhood park

gloves when they went downtown, and my mom always wore white

bears June Benson’s name for her work in getting the land

gloves. My dad drove me down across the street to watch her and

for the park. The park, maintained by the City of Norman,

said, ‘I just want you to see this.’ In hindsight that was a big deal. I

features a playground, gazebo and a bronze statue of a girl

think she was risking her office and her standing in the community.”

wearing a hat and holding a basket as she gathers flowers,

As mayor, June enjoyed many lighter moments, as well. In March

titled The Sunflower Girl. The sculpture was donated to the

1958, she greeted Eleanor Roosevelt during a visit to Norman, pre-

community by artist L’Deane Minor Trueblood.

senting the first lady with a certificate recognizing her as an honor-

Norman soon will have another park named in honor of

ary citizen of Norman on the steps of the George L. Cross home. She

another local prominent woman: Ruby Grant Park. Ruby

is also reported to have hosted President Harry S Truman.

Grant was the daughter of Thomas Sherman Grant, who

June was posthumously inducted into the Oklahoma Women’s

staked his claim during the 1889 Land Run on property

Hall of Fame in 1985, in part also to the significant contributions she

destined to become part of Norman, and his wife, Lizzie

made on voting and civil rights and environmental protection.

Lou Oter Tate Grant. Ruby was a beloved elementary and

She died at the age of 65 on Sept. 15, 1981, and is buried in the IOOF Cemetery, Norman, together with her husband, who died in 1999.

high school teacher and remedial reading and math tutor. Ruby Grant Park, 3110 W. Franklin Road, on land held

For those who may wish to learn more about this early leading

by Ruby’s family since 1889, will feature walking trails, a

lady, the University Libraries maintains the June Benson Collection

cross-country running facility, dog park, disk golf course,

containing correspondence, municipal reports, minutes of city gov-

practice fields and an extensive playground with activities

ernment boards and related papers. For more information, contact the

and equipment for disabled children. The park is part of

Western History Collections at westernhistorycollections@ou.edu.

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her entire life and even fired from a job

That’s how certified nurse practitioner

as an adult. After MiraDry treatment, the

Ashley Willeford describes her role as owner

woman’s problem was resolved and her

and clinician of Elevate Wellness & Aesthetics.

self-esteem transformed.

“Being able to help with something that seems so small, but is really huge in improving someone’s life, is so rewarding,” Willeford said.

While procedures performed at the clinic are not covered by regular health insurance, the practice does accept CareCredit, which is a

Willeford got her start in the health care field as a labor and delivery

zero-interest health care credit card that allows purchases to be paid

nurse. After obtaining her master’s degree and nurse practitioner cre-

off over a 12-month period. Memberships for a variety of ongoing

dentials in 2010, she joined a large OB/Gyn practice, where she began

treatments are offered and start at $99 per month.

working with women on a more personalized and long-term basis.

There are several clinics in the area that provide similar ser-

Those relationships, plus the growth of her own family, gave her the

vices, but Willeford says she sees them as colleagues, rather

desire to do something uplifting for women who often put their own

than competitors.

needs on the back burner in order to prioritize their family and career.

“I believe in community over competition, and many of those busi-

“When Elevate became a dream of mine, I wanted to find a way for

nesses have women that I am blessed to call friends, have learned

women who give so much of themselves daily to be able to enjoy a few

from and look up to,” she said. “Each of us are different in the ways

self-care activities, even if it was just for 30 minutes a week,” Willeford

we treat and diagnose concerns or ailments, and you have to find

said. I came across the quote ‘Self-care is giving the world the best of

what works for you. I will say, though, after you walk through the

you, instead of what’s left of you,’ and it really struck a chord with me.

doors at Elevate, I will most likely call you a friend. I have a personal

At Elevate we truly want women and men to be able to feel and look

relationship with most of our clients, and am so blessed to be able to

their absolute best as they face whatever the world brings their way.”

share in life events with them on a more personal level.”

About 80% of Elevate’s clients are women between ages 25 to 55; the remaining 20% are men, typically ranging from 30 to 45.

When critics assume Elevate’s services are nothing but “vanity” treatments, Willeford is quick to respond.

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“Anyone who has sat with me through a consultation will know that I am not one to push services or point out all of the numerous things we could possibly do for vanity reasons,” she said. “I honestly believe every single person I see is beautiful. I also know that we are our own worst critics. I do not feel there is anything vain about a little boost in self-confidence.” Ashley Willeford (Michayla Wiegert Photography)

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DAUGHTER FOLLOWS MOTHER’S MILITARY FOOTSTEPS ... AND FINDS HERSELF IN THE COVID-19 BATTLE

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DEAN AND HER MOTHER, RETIRED TECH. SGT. DEBBIE

National Guard several years later.

DEAN OF THE WILL ROGERS AIR NATIONAL GUARD BASE IN OKLAHOMA CITY. This mother and daughter team not only complements each

University of Oklahoma Medical Center who was stationed

other in terms of achievement but are bound by sacred oath

at Balad Air Base in support of Operation Iraqi Freedom from

defined by their family’s military heritage.

June through November 2008.

As with most military children, the idea of following a parent’s

Prior to her commission and medical residency, then Staff Sgt.

footstep is one of respect, tradition and service. Most who trend

Dean served as a medical technician in a field hospital treating

in this direction somehow have the most significant impact, not

hundreds of Iraqi civilians, police and military personnel wounded

only with their own families but within the communities they

from insurgent attacks on U.S. military and coalition forces.

live in and often for the greater good. The elder Dean spent 18 and a half years with the Air National Guard and, during her first enlistment with the U.S. Air Force,

She treated mortar and IED blast injuries to minor cuts and bruises, seeing over a hundred patients during her four-month deployment.

was awarded a commendation medal for her efforts engineer-

Today, she again finds herself in harm’s way fighting another

ing a process in the base contracting office that saved numer-

war against the COVID-19 pandemic, putting herself in the path

ous staff-hours tracking purchases. This updated methodology

of this pathogen to save the community she loves.

allowed her command to efficiently reconcile vendors and

As a level one trauma center, health care professionals at

credit card purchases to which she also received a cash award,

OU Medicine are required to see patients before determining if

equating to the overall savings as a result of her changes.

COVID-19 is present. As an anesthesiologist, the “droplet-produc-

Several years after retirement, Debbie Dean continued her

ing procedure” of intubating patients puts her at a higher risk of

service, helping veterans as an organizer of outdoor activities

infection, due to the lack of personal protective equipment or PPE.

using Facebook Groups. She wanted to focus on coping skills

“The N95 mask has the appropriate filtration but is a sin-

for female veterans through such outdoor activities as kayak-

gle-use mask,” states Dr. Dean, lamenting she has little choice

ing, fishing and hiking. This fueled her passion for starting the

but to reuse it when dealing with other patients.

group, Be Adventurous Oklahoma!

“Anesthesia is at the forefront of saving our patients, of

Since 2017, she has helped numerous women deal with PTSD-

getting their airways clear; we are the experts and ready to

related issues through the same activities and was recently

respond, but there is the giant fear of contracting this hor-

tapped by Veteran Affairs to join their outdoor programs.

rible disease and bringing it home to our families—exposing

Debbie states these types of activities “calms their anxiety and allows the healing process to take place when the soul is at rest out in Nature.” The younger Dean experienced opportunities not afforded to high school peers when she traveled overseas with her mother

Capt. Dean, now a physician assigned to the 137th Special Operations Medical Group, is also an anesthesiologist at the

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other people,” she added. “We’re on the frontlines but the least protected. The fear isn’t going to stop me from doing my job; I’m still going to show up because that’s what we do. This is what I’ve learned from my mother and family.”

Debbie and Lara Dean

Lara Dean, an anesthesiologist, is serving on the front lines of the COVID-19 Pandemic, working at OU Medical Center. (Photography Travis Doussette, OU Medicine)

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REALTY REPORT REALTY REPORT

NEIGHBORHOOD

CLEVELAND COUNTY

ORIGINAL PRICE

SOLD PRICE

%SOLD/ORIG

DOM

BDRMS

BATHS

Vintage Creek, Norman

$637,741

100%

3.1

Rivendell on The Lake, SW OKC

$533,000

$530,000

99%

4.1

Olde Stonebridge, Moore

$459,900

$465,000

100%

2.2

Southern Preserve, SW OKC

$467,900

$454,000

97%

Timbers at Blackstone, SE OKC

$445,000

100%

3.1

Waggoners, Norman

$459,500

$427,000

92%

2.1

Cascata Lakes, SW OKC

$419,000

$415,000

99%

3.1

Cedar Creek, SW OKC

$410,000

$412,350

100%

Foxmor Estates, SE OKC

$394,000

$389,000

98%

3.1

Gentry Crossing, SW OKC

$369,900

$382,239

103%

330

Glenridge, Norman

$394,900

$380,000

96%

3.1

Carrington Place, Norman

$389,500

$367,000

94%

2.1

St James Park, Norman

$349,900

$342,450

97%

2.1

Turtle Lake, SE OKC

$329,875

$341,380

103%

2.1

Calistoga Crossing, SW OKC

$339,900

$335,000

98%

2.1

Gentry Crossing, SW OKC

$334,900

$333,450

99%

340

Vintage Farms, SW OKC

$340,000

$330,000

97%

3.1

Native Plains, SW OKC

$328,547

$315,500

96%

2.1

Fountains, SW OKC

$339,900

$315,000

92%

Lindseys, Norman

$300,000

100%

This data is a sampling of sold properties from last month. Source: OKC/Norman Multiple Listing System.

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#TO G ET H E R W ESTAN D . . . APART HELLO, CLEVELAND COUNTY COMMUNITY! As I am writing this, it is April 4th in the middle of the storm, and as you are reading my “parting thoughts,” May

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has arrived and what I believe will be the beginning of the incredible comeback story for our community. Last year was a time of incredible personal loss for me with the passing of my father, and I know losing loved ones is a pain most all of us have experienced—and we heal in our own way. My 2020 began with a hope for a better, brighter year—but then this punch in the stomach came out of nowhere, leaving us all hurting and bewildered. Each day I see the number of those lost tick higher, and I hear more stories of pain and loss. Our lives are turned upside down, and those of us with children do our best to explain, comfort and console them in this uncertain time. But this pandemic is unprecedented, making the search for meaning or a comforting word next to impossible. Many in our community have lost family, business owners are suffering, health care professionals are risking everything for us, seniors in high school and college have lost a special time that can never be regained, and the list goes on and on. Even in the midst of this pain and loss, I have seen and heard incredible stories of love, service and sacrifice. However, those stories don’t really surprise me because I know firsthand just how special this community is, and I anticipate hearing many more stories of sacrifice and compassion in the coming days and weeks. As we begin the journey back to “normalcy,” let us take a different perspective with us and remember that life is local. Each of our local businesses has made our community what it is, either by providing unique products and quality ser-

a tasty meal, or anything needed now, spend your $’s in Cleveland County and

vices, or by supporting the things we all care about,

support your neighbors, and help our schools and our infrastructure. Let’s ride

from our local charities to our schools

this wave of recovery together and watch our community thrive, not just survive.

Local businesses make each of our lives better!

Please read Jeremiah 29:11 and see the plans God has for each of us, and

So, I am asking everyone to shop local and spend

I encourage you to turn to Him. On the other side of this painful situation,

local right here in Cleveland County. When it’s time

my faith in God assures me of an even better tomorrow for us, because we

for a new car, a new home, new furniture, a financial

are a community of citizens that is like a family. I am thankful to live here in

service, a medical treatment, a home improvement,

Cleveland County, Oklahoma.

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