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NOVEMBER 2019 PUBLISHER

Jane Preuss | jane.preuss@lifestylepubs.com

Letter from the Publisher This month we present our “Give Thanks” issue in honor of the season. Thanksgiving is my

EDITOR

Angela Broockerd | angela.broockerd@lifestylepubs.com DIRECTOR OF PHOTOGRAPHY

Paul Versluis | paul.versluis@lifestylepubs.com

favorite holiday for multiple reasons: It encourages the conscious expression of gratitude.

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It encourages giving back in a meaningful way. And its focus is spending time with those

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we love. Although I consciously attempt to express gratitude, sometimes it’s a challenge.

It’s no secret I lost my Dad this past summer and that I am out of sorts as a result.

Part of my grief journey includes embracing the lessons he attempted to impart, one of which involves Edgar Allen Poe’s “Eldorado.” The first stanza reads like this: Gaily bedight, A gallant knight, In sunshine and in shadow,

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Had journeyed long, Singing a song, In search of Eldorado.

Eldorado is a mystical city of gold, according to legend. In Poe’s tale, the knight is on a quest for Eldorado. Eventually the knight grows old and sorrowful because Eldorado is inaccessible to him.

This poem was one of my Dad’s favorites. It still hangs in my parents’ home. My Dad believed that as humans, we spend our lives seeking success and happiness (i.e., Eldorado), but we look outside ourselves for these things. Maybe our cup will finally be full when we get that pay raise or a bigger house. I’m guilty of this. Why do we keep trying to obtain more when

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ourselves to determine whether we’re fulfilled. True contentment comes from within. I’m not discouraging the expression of gratitude or counting one’s blessings, and I’m not discouraging having pride in one’s home or rocking that new pair of shoes (so long as you can afford them!). Rather, this Thanksgiving I’m encouraging the consideration of what truly makes life meaningful and to count those blessings. I’m encouraging you to stop searching for more—or trying to obtain more—in your quest for happiness and instead to recognize that you already have everything inside of you.

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INSIDE THE ISSUE NOVEMBER 2019

FEATURES 16 Dressing the Table Designer, Zakk Hoyt gives tips for sprucing up your Thanksgiving table

28 Through Dark Nights Rising The Coming Home of David Dastmalchian

34 Café Gratitude I am….Adventurous, Comforting, Glowing, Enough, Dazzling, Genuine.

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DEPARTMENTS 6

Lifestyle Letter

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Good Times

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Around Town

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34 Hot Spot 40 Culinary Creations 46 Lifestyle Calendar 49 Realty Report 50 Parting Thoughts

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Dressing the Table ARTICLE ZAKK HOYT | PHOTOGRAPHY PAUL VERSLUIS WHEN ZAKK HOYT DESIGNED KATIE AND JOSH

“The dining room at the Webers’ home is a perfect foil

WEBER’S FAIRWAY HOME A FEW YEARS AGO, ONE

for fall decorating,” explains Hoyt. “The backdrop of navy

OF THE PRIMARY REQUESTS WAS THAT THE HOME

grass cloth, antique furniture, and the killer Visual Comfort

WAS EASY TO ENTERTAIN IN, PROVIDING INTIMATE

Georgian Chandelier provides a perfect foil for traditional

AREAS TO HOST FORMAL OCCASIONS ALL WHILE

shades of rust, orange, and gold on the table top.”

ALLOWING FOR HUGE HOLIDAY BLOW-OUTS.

For the primary table setting, they started with

This year for Thanksgiving, Katie and Zakk decided

Bernardaud “Sauvage Or” porcelain chargers (Halls)

to go over the top for the family’s annual Thanksgiving

under a gorgeous set of Royal Doulton transferware

feast. Luckily, Katie has invested in great dinnerware

from the early 19th century. Family silver and wed-

over the years to complement family silver and china, so

ding crystal are mainstays that they bring out each

that each season they have a base to start with.

season. This year to dress things up, they added the CONTINUED >

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Bernardaud Constance, Bread and Butter plates Kid's Table

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fabulous Bernardaud Constance, bread and butter plates from Halls.

“To break up the formality of the table, we picked up cheeky Easy Tiger cards from hometown hero Hallmark to use as place cards,” Hoyt says. “They add a great conversation starter for a dinner where people are gathered who don’t know each other well— or perhaps come from different political parties—and helps people focus on the funny quips and the personal messages provided by host and hostess in the cards.”

They invested in gorgeous orchids and placed them in a wine cooler from Halls finishing it off with pumpkins, pears and apples Serving Area

“We used a gorgeous Chinese bowl from Nell Hills that stays on the table all year to tie the whole look together and to provide height.”

from the produce section. Fruit is an inexpensive way to add color and interest to a table.

They put the same effort and planning into the “kids table” toning down the formality of the look by recreating a pumpkin

Hoyt suggests remembering to deco-

patch on the table. For the place settings,

rate your serving areas. In the dining room,

they used classic Spode Woodland (Nell

they laid out a selection of wines for the cel-

Hills), the same crystal from the dining room,

ebration on a vintage silver tray covered in

and a gorgeous, mismatched collection of

fall leaves. They filled the gorgeous antique

vintage silverware that Katie has collected

silver water stand with pre-mixed cocktails

from years of estate sales.

and donned the Chippendale mirror with a

“Don’t be afraid of using formal tableware

magnolia and persimmon wreath.

with kids,” explains Hoyt. “It’s a great opportuRoyal Copenhagen’s Blue Fluted Plate

nity to practice their best manners, and frankly,

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adults generally break more than the kids do.”

+ The Spode is timeless, but if you tire of

The Hallmark Paperwonder pop-up cards

turkeys, Royal Copenhagen’s Blue Fluted is

used as place cards provide a great take-

a great pairing. Adding blue to an autumn

home keepsake for smaller guests and offer

palette really livens up the look.

a great whimsical touch to the table.

+ Simple stoneware chargers frame timeless

For the kitchen “pumpkin patch” they used

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gold and cream dinnerware.

leftovers from the dining room and foliage

+ Give wedding china a makeover with the

from the Webers’ yard. The season’s last

addition of Gien Sologne salad plates (Halls).

hydrangeas pair beautifully with ornamental

+ If you’re not interested in more dishes, lin-

kale and grasses that otherwise soon will

ens are a great way to change a look. The

be wasted by snow. “We used a gorgeous

two-color linen napkins pictured in the din-

Chinese bowl from Nell Hills that stays

ing room are a versatile tool as you set the

on the table all year to tie the whole look

table. Consider adding pattern and a lot of

together and to provide height,” Hoyt adds.

color for a minimal investment. CONTINUED

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Don’t be afraid of using formal tableware with kids. It’s a great opportunity to practice their best manners, and frankly, adults generally break more than the kids do.”

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ARTICLE ADRIANE TAYLOR | PHOTOGRAPHY SUBMITTED

“YOU CANNOT ALWAYS PHYSICALLY SEE THAT

to go airborne 35 feet. She was immediately rushed to

SOMEONE HAS DISABILITIES. You may not know

the hospital where she was alert enough to talk with

what is going on with someone in front of you in the

her husband. However, it quickly became apparent that

grocery line struggling to put their change away. You

her injuries were much more extensive, and her internal

do not know if they have experienced a brain injury.

trauma would set in motion a series of surgeries and

Extend grace.” -Terri Kern

appointments that would force her to attack life through

Talking with Terri Kern is like having a conversation

a completely different lens. In suffering a traumatic brain

with a close childhood friend. Her words are comfort-

injury coupled with several strokes she realized she

ing like a well-loved blanket, her eyes engaging as the

would never be the same. Her reliance on her family as

colors of autumn, and her kindness the strength of a

well as her amazing medical support team were pivotal

thousand hugs. But it is hearing her story, a story of beat-

as she endured OT/PT schedules, speech therapies,

ing unimaginable odds, that transforms what is known

and relearning everyday tasks such as driving, walking,

about hardship into something reminiscent of a miracle.

and feeding herself. This road was riddled with setbacks

Kern’s life prior to the morning of April 28, 2008

and uncertainty that affected each person in her family

was one she described as busy. A loving wife to Mike

differently. But it is a journey that she has not taken

and a mother of five beautiful children, she spent her

for granted and believes it to be part of God’s plan in

days making sure schedules were adhered to, school

teaching her to slow down, trust the process, appreci-

obligations were honored, and their fast-paced lives

ate the small things, and focus on relationships.

were matched with harmony. Add to this her exten-

Terri Kern is thankful that her life was spared. She is

sive involvement with volunteer organizations, and

thankful that she is now able to share her story to help

Christianity could have easily taken a backseat. But as

others. She also realized that it was not just her story

evidenced by a worn wooden cabinet, discolored from

to share and determined that writing a book would

her back resting against it every morning in prayer,

be therapeutic for the entire family. The book, Moving

Kern steadfastly kept her faith central. And this faith

Mountains-Discovering Joy Through Suffering, tells

would be rocked to its core.

of their journey in navigating the struggles that fol-

There is never a way to truly prepare for an accident

low brain injury and extend awareness. It focuses on

as they generally come unannounced and during a time

the emotions, the doubts, and also the triumph that

that is not ideal. But Kern believed that the trials her fam-

comes with any life-changing experience and does

ily had previously endured was God’s way of preparing

so through the perspective of those closest to her. It

them for the events that would soon follow. Her husband

illustrates miracles through pain.

had recently battled diverticulitis and chronic back pain

“Why did I write this? It is simple. Many times, we

that left him debilitated for months, and her daughter

go through things in our lives that shape who we are.

also suffered a broken shoulder. These incidents are

Many times, we forget the details and forget to give

stressful enough on their own to weaken even the stron-

God the glory. We tend to get back into the normal

gest of bonds, but they would instead persevere.

routine of things. I do not ever want to forget this

“It taught all of us humility and to lean on others

period in my life. Throughout this struggle, we saw

and accept help,” Kern explains. “Also, to give people

and experienced such joy, hope and love.” —Terri

a gift by letting them do that. It is just as important to

Kern, excerpt from Moving Mountains

receive the help as it is to give it.”

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ON A SUNLIT SATURDAY IN THE ‘80S, DAVID PEDALED HIS BIKE HARD UP 95TH STREET TOWARD METCALF SOUTH SHOPPING CENTER IN OVERLAND PARK. With a pocketful of lawnmowing money and a mind filled with adventure, he burst into Clint’s Comics to buy another issue of Avengers, Batman or otherworldly battles of good and evil.

David later journaled his thoughts, as Mr. Haupt taught him at Oak Park Elementary. Journaling helped him through his parents’ divorce—expressing unmasked emotions and penning superhero-sized dreams. It was a tool he’d return to often in life, especially after attempting suicide following depression and a five-year heroin addiction.

This SMSouth graduate went from starring on stages and in stadiums to living in his car and destitute.

Institutionalized, bed-strapped, and infected from dirty needles, he was ravaged of health and dreams.

In true character arc, David Dastmalchian hit bottom before skyrocketing up. Today, you see him on red carpets for his latest blockbuster (Dark Knight, Ant-Man, with Dune and Suicide Squad coming your way), but it was a long night’s journey into day.

“Here’s the thing,” Dastmalchian says from his location filming Hulu’s Reprisal, “my family never gave up on me. Neither did my friends, community or even complete strangers, like those mental health workers who dedicated their lives to my recovery.”

Dastmalchian says his family also realized they couldn’t enable him: “It’s so hard for parents, but tough love is true love. It doesn’t swoop in and buy you a new car because you smashed the last one. It doesn’t let you show up unannounced and crash on their couch because you’ve been evicted yet again. It says when you’re truly ready, we’re here.”

Now 17 years sober, Dastmalchian compels others to never give up on people. His original films Animals (2014) and KC-based All Creatures Here Below (2016) resound that nobody is beyond redemption.

“I hope my stories carve out a little more compassion for others. We’re so much stronger together.”

An authentic and transparent life is important to Dastmalchian: “I still see a therapist and use medication. There’s no shame or stigma in that. Depression and addiction don’t fully encompass my day anymore, and I’m loving life, but I know I’m not invincible.”

As a husband and father of two, Dastmalchian says his family is non-negotiable. His wife of six years, Eve, is a muralist who travels with him, along with their son, Arlo, 5, and daughter, Pennie, 2.

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“SURE, I WANT TO ENTERTAIN PEOPLE, BUT IT WOULD MEAN A LOT TO ME IF I TOLD STORIES THAT CONTRIBUTED SOME KINDNESS OR UNDERSTANDING IN THIS LIFE.”

“We stick together,” he says. “If we’re apart more than 10 days, it’s too hard for me. That may sound weak, but it’s a reality. My family is more important than my contract, billing or size of my trailer.”

Dastmalchian says fatherhood has taught him that a fully lived life includes every emotion “we’re supposed to feel as humans” while navigated with kindness, independence, and faith, adding that fatherhood has fostered his relationship with God: “It’s exploded my feelings of love and gratitude I have for the Creator.

I’m stretching out and finding new ways of experiencing that faith.”

Whenever he returns to KC for work, charities, or Stroud’s and Jack Stack, he’s grateful for his Midwest upbringing: “My teachers, coaches and youth leaders impacted my life, especially in goal-setting. I wish I paid even more attention.”

His children love visiting KC, especially Antioch Park, Deanna Rose, and Theatre-in-the-Park where Dastmalchian once performed: “It’s important my kids understand how blessed we are here. The rest of the world doesn’t look like this. It’s a special place.”

Dastmalchian is passionate about bringing more projects to KC, and he’s not through exploring harrowing themes yet. On October 23, he’s releasing his brainspawn—Count Crowley—an original comic book series set in a fictional town resembling old Lenexa.

“Monster movies weren’t at the top of Mom’s list,” he says and laughs. “I used to sneak downstairs to watch ‘Crematia Mortem’s Creature Feature’—movies starring Peter Lorre, Boris Karloff and Lon Chaney. I based the main character in Count Crowley off that host who fights monsters. You have to realize, I fought real demons in my life more horrifying, so I’m willing to go to some dark places creatively and explore frightening corners of the human experience. But I’m trying to get to a place—and I don’t always get this right—where it’s not just for shock but has meaning or purpose.”

Today, Dastmalchian says that when he sees his name in lights, he doesn’t feel like he’s a success or that he’s made it yet.

“Those red-carpet moments go by quickly, and then I’m back in the car with Eve. We look at each other and say, ‘let’s get some ice cream.’’ Going to Starbucks or the grocery store with my wife and kids is where my greatest moments of joy arrive. That feels like success to me. I have a family who loves me, and I love them.

So, I take it back. I do feel like I’ve made it. I’m a very blessed man.”

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I AM….ADVENTUROUS, COMFORTING, GLOWING, ENOUGH, DAZZLING, GENUINE.

THIS IS THE UNIQUE MENU YOU’LL FIND WHEN YOU GO TO CAFÉ GRATITUDE, ONE OF A COLLECTION OF 100 PERCENT ORGANIC RESTAURANTS SERVING

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CUISINE. Each entree and menu item is named one of these uplifting words. How can you not like a salad named Luminous?

Jason Mraz, confirmed health food junky, is partner in the Café Gratitude Restaurants around the Los Angeles area.

The Café boasts colorful pillows, benches and tables nestled close together, which encourages

conversation,

sharing

and

connectivity. Events throughout the year are listed on their website, and they offer a variety of juice cleansing options with personalized education about each.

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They invite you to step inside and enjoy being someone who chooses loving life, adoring yourself, accepting the world, being generous and grateful every day, and experiencing being provided for.”

Located at 333 Southwest Boulevard, this welcoming space has created a menu and environment that supports health and sustainability for both our community and the planet. They practice business through a term they have coined, “Sacred Commerce.” They strive to provide inspired service, honest and transparent communication and express “gratitude” for the richness of each of our lives. The restaurant itself is an expression of a world of plenty, and their food and people are a celebration of being alive.

They support local farmers, including their farm, Be Love Too, which produces as much organically grown produce as they can use for the café. They compost all food scraps which are then used to enhance the quality of the soil in that farm in Edgerton, Kansas. They also walk the walk in every way, including installing solar panels, and serving food on tables made from reclaimed wood. Most of the lights are actually made from wine bottles! All boxes, containers, paper and glass are recycled. All the to-go ware is biodegradable.

Every morsel of food prepared, every milkshake blended, and every coffee dripped is done so with an attitude of love.

They invite you to step inside and enjoy being someone who chooses loving life, adoring yourself, accepting the world, being generous and grateful every day, and experiencing being provided for. There is no way you can leave without a smile on your face, and the feeling that you just ate a super healthy meal while taking part in wonderful, loving togetherness.

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CULINARY CREATIONS

PIE off the CHARTS THE UPPER CRUST BAKERY CELEBRATES 15 YEARS OF HOMEMADE PIE PERFECTION

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BEFORE

PERFORMING

YOUR

UPCOMING

THANKSGIVING FEAST FEAT, LET THIS LOCAL PIE SHOP HELP YOU STICK THE LANDING. Because let’s face it—pie is the sweet finale we always save room for, and we can tell when it’s the real deal.

“A fresh, made-from-scratch pie conveys love, comfort and joy,” says Jan Knobel, co-owner of The Upper Crust Bakery in Downtown Overland Park. “Pie is nostalgic, meant to be shared, brings people together and makes people happy. Pie fixes everything.”

Knobel and her sister/business partner, Elaine VanBuskirk, have taken a “sweet nugget of our upbringing” and formed it into a successful business.

“But it’s a business that provides a real experience,” she says. “It’s always heartwarming to hear customers share their family memories of pie.”

This small-batch, neighborhood bakery was voted “best pie in Kansas” by MSN this year and has been featured on The Daily Meal, 24/7 Wall Street, Food Network and The Pitch.

Within walking distance of the Farmer’s Market, it’s one-part upbeat hipster shop stocked with home accessories, kitchenware and hostess gifts and twoparts old-fashioned bakery with pies, cookies and quiche that are all Grandma-good.

Imagine flaky fresh-baked crust and warm gooey centers bursting with berries, creamy custards and glossy meringues or decadent chocolate or nut fillings, along with seasonal flavors to satisfy the pie lover within your soul. With dozens of pie selections yearround, they rotate 12-14 flavors daily.

“We use family recipes or adapted favorites,” Knobel says. “We only use quality ingredients with no icky imitation flavorings, additives, mixes or preservatives.”

Full size 9-inch pies feed 6-8 or try the 5-inch Cutie Pies. Enjoy coffee from Thou Mayest or cold milk in a glass bottle with a paper straw. Sip wine-by-theglass with special pricing for Third Fridays—where Downtown OP merchants stay open late. (Mark your calendars for Friday, Nov. 15.)

Third Fridays at The Upper Crust features Pie Flights from 5-8 p.m. (or sellout). Choose three slices from a pre-set menu for $9.

“Last month’s Pie Flight went through the roof,” Knobel says. “What a pleasant surprise!”

Thanksgiving, their premier holiday, will be even bigger. They’re now accepting orders with easy website ordering. Because they never freeze their pies, their baking window is only 48 hours, so it’s a first-order system. (Pickup is Wed., Nov. 27.)

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Knobel and VanBuskirk started their business in 2005 with the help of their mom, Pie Master Pat Nuss.

“We grew up in Marion, KS where we were privileged to know what real pie looks and tastes like,” Knobel says. “Homemade pies were always a part of our upbringing.”

With Nuss’s guidance, these sisters debuted at the OP Farmer’s Market, moved to a week-

“WE’RE FORTUNATE THAT WE LIKE EACH OTHER ENOUGH TO WANT TO WORK TOGETHER, AND OUTSIDE WORK, OUR FAMILIES STILL ENJOY CELEBRATING HOLIDAYS OR EVENTS TOGETHER AND JUST HANGING OUT.”

end bakery inside Pryde’s Old Westport, then to their current location in 2011.

“Our roles are intertwined, but generally Elaine oversees the ‘front of the house’ while I oversee the back,” Knobel says. “We have such talented bakers and bakery assistants, and our front sales/service staff are critical to creating a positive customer experience.

We’re extremely fortunate to have a helpful, happy and hardworking staff.”

The sisters’ families have been integral to the business over the years with their husbands having business roles, and their five children folding pie boxes, washing pans, mopping floors, etc.

“It’s definitely been a family affair,” Knobel says. “We’re fortunate that we like each other enough to want to work together, and outside work, our families still enjoy celebrating holidays or events together and just hanging out.”

The Upper Crust is committed to community, especially Downtown OP, with all tip jar proceeds donated to a different charity each month.

“Besides great customers, we have fabulous hardworking neighbors dedicated to making Downtown OP a destination for young and old alike,” Knobel says and adds with a grin, “And Patrick Mahomes…if you’re listening, come by and try our cherry pie.”

CONTACT: THE UPPER CRUST PIE BAKERY 7943 Santa Fe Dr., O.P., KS 66204 (913) 642-2999 uppercrustpiebakery.com Open Wed.-Fri. 10 a.m-5:30 p.m./Sat. 10-4 Third Fridays (except December) 5-8 p.m. for Pie Flights

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LIFESTYLE CALENDAR

2-17 ANYTHING GOES

The White Theatre at The J

Music, dance, laughs, and the age-old tale of boy meets girl – no musical puts it on stage better than ANYTHING GOES! A hilarious shipboard romp, wrapped around one of Cole Porter’s most magical scores, ANYTHING GOES is Delightful, Delicious, and De-Lovely.

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This race features three distances (5K, 10K, and Half Marathon) to get you ready for the feast of all feasts -Thanksgiving! A semi-flat, easy route through the woods on paved trails. Start Time: 8:30 AM – Half-

damage once it has done. Since your dental health

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of your unused benefit dollars will be lost unless you complete your procedures before the end of the year. We know and understand that this time of the year can get hectic, but making your dental health a priority will have you looking and feeling confident heading into the season of holiday parties and seeing out of town relatives!

P L E A S E C AL L O U R O F F I C E T O DAY TO SCHEDULE YOUR APPOINTMENT B E F O R E I T I S T O O L AT E Take advantage of your health benefits. At the

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With 320+ vendors to shop, you'll find something for everyone on your list, plus a treat (or two!) for yourself.

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THE ICE AT PARK PLACE Park Place

The Ice at Park Place, Leawood’s only outdoor ice rink, will be open November 15th through February 17th, including holidays. The Ice is surrounded by seasonal festivities, warm food and drink options and unique holiday shopping!

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Overland Park Arboretum & Botanical Gardens

Thousands of candles illuminate over a mile of pathways through woods and gardens, while holiday lights brighten the trees, buildings and bridges. Kids love the colorful Children's Garden and visiting with Santa.

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REALTY REPORT REALTY REPORT

NEIGHBORHOOD

LIST PRICE

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DOM

BDRMS

BATHS

The Hills of Iron Horse

$1,950,000

$1,895,000

97%

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7.2

Pavillions

$1,575,000

$1,475,000

93%

102

5

5.4

Leawood

$1,285,000

$1,265,000

96%

NEW

5

5.1

Tuscany Reserve

$1,025,000

$999,000

97%

106

4

3.1

Leawood Estates

$975,000

$950,000

97%

132

4

4.1

Hallbrook

$1,000,000

$920,000

92%

200

3

2.2

Leawood

$915,000

$877,500

95%

121

4

4.1

Bradford Place

$949,500

$863,000

90%

133

5

6.1

The Woods Villas

$890,000

$857,000

96%

112

5

4.2

The Woods Villas

$829,900

$785,000

94%

3

3

3.2

Information compiled is from Heartland Multiple Listing Service (MLS) and includes properties listed and sold in the area from multiple brokers. 2019 STATISTICS from 9/1/2019 TO 9/30/2019. * DOM=Days on Market

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PARTING THOUGHTS

ARTICLE LAUREN LANE PHOTOGRAPHY JANIE JONES

FALL SANGRIA Serves: 4

INGREDIENTS + 2 cinnamon sticks + 2 sliced oranges + 1 sliced apple + 1 bottle (750ml) dry red wine + 1 cup cranberry juice

LAUREN’S QUICK TIPS

+ 1 cup apple cider + ¼ cup orange liqueur

+ Make this the day before and add club soda

+ ¼ cup brandy

when serving

+ Club Soda

+ Change up the fruit for a variation. Plums,

METHOD

Pears, and berries are all good choices. + If you don’t have brandy-don’t sweat it-it will still be delish

+ Add cinnamon sticks, apple and orange

+ Use and inexpensive Pinot Noir (lighter) or

slices to the bottom of a large pitcher. Pour

Cabernet Sauvignon for this red fall sangria

in the wine, cranberry juice, apple cider,

+ If you’d like to garnish the glasses, use a sprig

orange liqueur.

of rosemary, or an orange slice.

+ Stir to mix. Place pitcher in the refrigerator

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+ To serve, pour Sangria over ice in glasses.

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