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LIFESTYLE LETTER

Peace and Love to You This Season The holidays are here and as the spirit of the season is among us, we often try to replicate what made the season feel so magical to us in our youth. The traditions we set for our own families often mirror some of what we experienced as a child whether it is the smells, the sounds, the lights, the holiday activities or a combination of it all that reflect that best. This month, we wanted to highlight the magic of the season and what South Metro Denver has to offer for entertainment and ways to give back. This month, we bring to you a story of self-discovery and perseverance in BackCountry resident Melissa DiLullo, who spent two years rebuilding her home and her life after a devastating house fire. She shares the surprising lessons she learned along the way. We also hope you dig in to ways to get involved in your community and help others. Check out our City Lifestyle's The Giving Campaign and our spotlight on some worthy nonprofits serving people here in Douglas County. While this season can be beautiful for some, it can be painful and lonely for others, especially those who have recently lost a loved one. In the true spirit of the season, let’s take care of those in our community that need assistance or who are alone. My hope for you this season is that you feel love and peace and that we all remember to take care of each other extending grace, empathy and love.

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Dr. Karen Todd Provides Her Insights for New Pet Owners

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BackCountry Resident Recounts Recovery Process From 2021 Devastating House Fire

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This Giving Campaign is all about personally impacting the lives of people we know with an unexpected check in the mail just to say that someone thought of them this holiday season.

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1-7: On Nov. 4, the nonprofit organization From Silenced to Saved (FSTS) held a fundraiser at Wide Open Saloon. FSTS is an anti-human trafficking organization founded and spearheaded by Jenelle Goodrich. About 150 people from the community, including multiple jurisdictions in law enforcement at the local and federal level, as well as true survivors of human trafficking were in attendance showing support for this event and the work of FSTS. Learn more about the organization and their mission at FromSilencedToSaved.org

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1-7: You Are Not Alone Mom 2 Mom (YANA M2M) held its third annual Boots & Bling Gala on a beautiful fall evening at a private ranch in Castle Rock. The Gala featured a catered dinner as well as a silent and live auction. YANA M2M is a nonprofit that provides support and mentorship for mothers. Their programs strive to give all moms in our community the support they need. Nikki Brooker, Founder and CEO of YANA M2M says of the evening, “Paddles were flying, people were having a blast and it was an amazing night. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.” YANAMOM.com Photography by Nikki Brooker Photography

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From the Ashes BACKCOUNTRY RESIDENT RECOUNTS RECOVERY PROCESS FROM 2021 DEVASTATING HOUSE FIRE Just days from the completion of a home renovation in October 2021, BackCountry resident Melissa DiLullo was on a much-needed tropical vacation when she received a phone call that landed like a gut punch. “It was a neighbor asking if my dogs were home. I was standing with my suitcase packed, ready to come home. I said, ‘No.’ She said, ‘Are your children home?’ Then I said, ‘No! What is going on?’ She said, ‘Oh, Melissa, your home is on fire,’ ” DiLullo recounts. DiLullo’s newly renovated home in Highlands Ranch had been gutted by the fire. Over the next two years, she would navigate construction delays, insurance hassles and tight expenses — and life as a single mother of three active teens in temporary housing trying to hold it all together. After going through what she describes as the lowest point in her life, DiLullo says she learned surprising lessons. She and her family have risen from the ashes stronger and more grateful for life than ever. She shares her story here. CONTINUED >

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“When we were sitting around the TV watching football one Sunday in November, in the tiny rental house that we had just moved into, I realized that we had not lost our home. My three kids and two big dogs were all huddled together in front of a fireplace. We had lots of blankets people had given us post tragedy. It hit me then that this perfect home I was trying to build already existed.”

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WHAT HAPPENED WHEN YOU FIRST HEARD OF THE FIRE? DiLullo: I learned my home was on fire and that the police were onsite. I immediately called my parents. I next called my boss and mentor. I remember telling him, “There was a fire. I don’t know if I will need three days or three weeks, but don’t count on me next week.” While I was flying home he was already arranging my disability. The rest is a blur. I took a golf cart to a ferry, to a three-hour drive, to a flight to Denver. I landed with my suitcase full of bikinis, and a kind friend and neighbor picked me up. I had nowhere to go. I stayed at her house that night. Another neighbor had contacted a restoration company on my behalf and they were on site.

WHAT WERE YOUR FIRST IMPRESSIONS WHEN YOU RETURNED HOME? DiLullo: The damage was significant. The entire house, barring the exterior structure, was a loss. The first floor had burned through, igniting in the open front foyer where the painter left out their rags and varnish/lacquer cans. The original photo did not look that bad. I was initially being told that yes there was a lot of damage, but four to six months of renovations would be needed. When I got to my home that night and saw the gaping holes in the floor, and the SMELL of it, it was devastating as I knew it was so, so much worse than projected. It ended up being 18 months of displacement for the kids, dogs and me.

THROUGH THE PROCESS OF REBUILDING, WHAT WERE SOME THINGS YOU WERE MOST GRATEFUL FOR? DiLullo: Oh gosh. There was no gratitude at all for so long. There was truly a lot of bitterness. It felt like things just kept getting worse too. When the original company who had contracted to demolish and restore my home walked off the job in June 2022, eight months after the fire, with no work done, it was one of the lowest points of my life. I had no job, no one was building my house, and I have never felt more alone. Enter a new builder. It wasn’t until the rebuilding process really began that I was able to let some of the anger go. That I was CONTINUED >

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able to see the beauty in the delicate way my life had been deconstructed and was literally being rebuilt. To see how the fire had taught me that I had a false illusion of safety and “home” originally. I was trying to build a fresh start for our little family on a foundation of self, not God. When we were sitting around the TV watching football one Sunday in November, in the tiny rental house that we had just moved into, and I realized that we had not lost our home. My three kids and two big dogs were all huddled together in front of a fireplace. We had lots of blankets people had given us post-tragedy. It hit me then that this perfect home I was trying to build already existed. I was the home to these children. I was the home to these dogs. And they are and always will be home to me. We lost nothing but the shell, the illusion. We got so, so much more out of this than we lost, in terms of learning, hard and fast, what matters.

THROUGH THE CHALLENGES OF REBUILDING, WAS THERE ANYTHING THAT WAS A POSITIVE EXPERIENCE? DiLullo: So many. I rediscovered my love of yoga teaching and pottery. I had taught yoga for years back East, but had been focused on my career in finance since divorcing in 2018. With the leave of absence, I was able to return to teaching yoga. Instead of sitting alone and isolated in my home office, working remotely, I was part of my community again. I had done pottery briefly before having kids, as a hobby, and the first thing I did when I took a leave was to sign up for a class at the Highlands Ranch Southridge Recreation Center. Sally Burns, and the pottery community she has created there at Southridge, felt like a lifesaver to me at a time when I was so achingly lost and lonely. I started my own little Instagram account for my pottery, @fatbottompots.co, and it’s become a passion.

WHAT DO YOU LOVE MOST ABOUT THE HOUSE NOW? DiLullo: I think that while the kitchen and living room are where we spend most of the time, our secret favorite space is the loft. It has an amazing view of the mountains, and feels kind of like a cozy treehouse with all the high windows flooding the area with light. I knew that this house was meant to be mine from when I first walked into it in 2021, due to the light. The back is south facing so I am just flooded with light back here, all day long. My mom has the eye and heart of an artist. She loves light, and taught me to appreciate it. This house IS sunshine.

WHY WAS IT IMPORTANT TO YOU TO INCLUDE THE WORK OF LOCAL ARTISTS IN YOUR HOME? DiLullo: When I first got divorced, I had no idea how to be alone. I had been married for 14 years and had young kids. I didn’t know how to yet eat at a restaurant alone, or to be alone in our home without our kids on their dad’s weekends. I used to seek out and find the coolest airBNB I could find in small towns, so that I wasn’t “lonely” and all by myself I was “vacationing.” On these trips to towns like Buena Vista, Crested Butte, and Salida, I found artists like Hannah Tidechild of Embellished Organics, Dolan Geiman, and Leslie Jorgensen on these weekends. At a time when I could not define who I was, the art that I fell in love with helped me find a sense of home, a sense of self. So their work feels so tied to my own personal healing journey, like markers of time. My realtor Marcus Harris was a constant source of kindness and encouragement, as were the local artists, who helped re-create a theme and a vision for my home before I could even see it myself. When it felt hopeless, people like Tidechild made us this incredible mosaic, it is what led to me thinking of

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this house as “The Phoenix House.” That mosaic became the heart of our home and our purpose: To Rise.

LESSONS LEARNED? DiLullo: It’s easy to find people who love you when the story is over, but hard to find people to love you at your most messy, your most reckless, your most lost. Through this fire, I found those people. Through this fire, my kids and I developed a closeness and a trust level that could never be replicated without tragedy. When you need each other, in this life, is when you meld into one, like metal forged in the fire. We came out a new, stronger, family, breathed into and prayed over, in a cozy little home that we love. There is a Japanese proverb which states, “My barn had to burn down so that I could see the moon.” Our house had to burn down so that we could remember that we are here to love one another. We see the moon. We are grateful for the moon.

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THE SEASON OF GIVING: NONPROFIT SPOTLIGHT ARTICLE BY HEATHER KELLY

Manna Resource Center’s Board Chair, Heather Kelly, Shares Her Background and Shines a Light on Suburban Poverty

In mid-2020 I crossed paths with Erin White, now the Executive Director of Manna Resource Center while addressing the pressing human service needs within our local community. I was profoundly impressed by the remarkable program she and her colleagues had cultivated with the support of Cherry Hills Community Church and CrossPurpose, a workforce development non-profit in Denver, to initiate a pioneering program aimed at mitigating suburban poverty. As a fellow Christian, I eagerly embraced the opportunity to contribute to a program that wholeheartedly welcomed any member of our community that was in need. I came aboard in part to help Manna attain 501(c)3 nonprofit status. Since incorporating in late 2020, I have held the position of Board Chair. The challenge of comprehending suburban poverty is not uncommon, as many wonder how affluent communities can still harbor struggling families. It is important to note that nearly 10 percent of our community, comprising 30,000 individuals, is at risk of poverty, abuse, isolation, and homelessness. Furthermore, the stigma associated with poverty in a prosperous community can further isolate families. Manna’s purpose is to break cycles, transform lives, and strengthen families and the community. Since its

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establishment in 2020, MRC has expanded its services to cater to more families, offering assistance to 558 households since its inception. MRC programs provide social services, community support and connections, and mental health services to families in need primarily in Douglas County. MRC’s impact is best conveyed through the words of our clients: “When I joined Manna, I was homeless and battling addiction. Today, I am sober and running my own small business.” – Manna Connect Graduate Manna owes much to the invaluable partnerships with key community organizations. The Douglas County Department of Human Services, Catholic Charities, and the unwavering support of Cherry Hills Community Church have laid the foundation for MRC’s work. Corporate partners have also played a pivotal role as many recognized the significance of suburban poverty in the community. One notable example is Dana Keller, an active MRC volunteer and VP of Sales and Marketing at Koelbel and Co. As she describes the partnership, “In keeping with our commitment to strengthen our community, we are honored to support the Manna Resource Center’s mission to transform lives.” Want to learn more or get involved? We would love to connect with you, email us at: info@mannaresourcecenter.org

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Manna Resource Center 1.

Manna Resource Center has three core programs that accomplish the goal of strengthening individuals and families in our community: Manna Connect, the Family Center of Douglas County and Manna Community Wellness

1 | Manna Connect Manna Connect is a personal development program that provides participants with community, coaching, and career skill advancement as they identify and overcome barriers to self-sufficiency and wholeness.

2 | The Family Center of Douglas County 2.

The Family Center of Douglas County is a partnership of Catholic Charities of Central Colorado and Manna Resource Center. We strive to connect family members to community resources. Our goal is to help families strengthen and sustain healthy relationships and achieve greater stability.

3 | Manna Community Wellness Manna Community Wellness offers individual and family psychotherapy sessions for participants in the Manna Connect and Family Center programs. Our aim is to support the overall health and wellbeing of participants as they pursue their goals. 3.

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This Giving Campaign is all about personally impacting the lives of people we know with an unexpected check in the mail just to say that someone thought of them this holiday season.”

The annual City Lifestyle Giving Campaign is in its 4th year. Last holiday season we gave away over $300,000 to help 116 individuals and families in need, but we need your help to make it happen again this year. With nominations flooding in from community members and leaders such as judges, police officers, teachers, nurses, social workers, mentors and readers like you, we were able to reach people who might otherwise go unnoticed. Perhaps you know of a single parent struggling to provide for their family, an elderly person who has experienced loss, someone enduring a health issue, a co-worker suffering a sudden, unexpected tragedy or a neighbor with a financial hardship who has fallen between the cracks of getting assistance. Chances are you know someone with a specific need, even if no one else does. “We believe in giving back and serving the communities where we live in a real and tangible way,” says Steven Schowengerdt, CEO and founder of City Lifestyle. “This Giving Campaign is about personally impacting the lives of people we know with an unexpected check in the mail just to say that someone thought of them during this holiday season.” “We believe God has blessed our company with continued success, so we in turn want to be a blessing to others,” Matthew Perry, President of City Lifestyle adds. City Lifestyle has also enacted an internal giving program whereby every employee in the company receives $100 to give away to someone in the community. “The idea is to encourage our employees to keep giving on their own,” Steven says. “Taking care of one another and blessing others is truly rewarding and it perpetuates a cycle of giving. It’s extremely important to me as a person and as a company to foster a culture of generosity.”

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Follow @CityLifestyle on Instagram for reminders! To submit a nomination, follow @CityLifestyle on Instagram and fill out the form found in the bio link. All entries will be read, and because this is not a raffle, there is no need to nominate someone more than once. The amount given to each recipient will be based on need. All nominations and recipients will be kept confidential. D ECEMB ER 2 0 2 3 | C I TYL I FE STYL E . C OM/H I GH L AN D S R A N C H

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Park Meadows Outdoor Holiday Market at the Vistas

PARK MEADOWS RETAIL RESORT Enjoy the Vista’s unique Grand Mountain Lodge architecture and artwork by Colorado artists as Park Meadows partners with over 100 local artisans and booths to bring you a one-of-a-kind shopping experience this holiday season! The Outdoor Holiday Market will run for four weekends in December. Additional information available at ParkMeadows.com SELECT DATES IN DECEMBE R

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H I G H L A NDS R A NC H A ND LO NE T R E E L I B R A R I E S Festive holiday events provided by Douglas County Libraries throughout the month of December! Enjoy holiday stories, activities, snacks and special time with Santa. Events at the Highlands Ranch and Lone Tree locations include A Storybook Holiday, Jingle Jam Sing-Along, Melodies & Memories and Visits with Santa. Event details and registration at DCL.org/Booked-For-TheHolidays . Make reservations early as events are expected to fill quickly. DECEMBER 2ND

Austrian Christmas and Christkindl Markt

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S C H WE I G E R R A NC H , LO N E T R E E | 1 1 :0 0 A M This annual free event celebrates the Christmas traditions of the Austrians who settled Schweiger Ranch in 1874. Fun for the whole family! Visit Santa Claus and his real reindeer, take a horse drawn carriage ride, and enjoy authentic Austrian

food and music. Stop by the Christkindl Markt for presents that will add a local handcrafted touch to your gift giving. Although the event is free reservations are required. 11 a.m. - 5 p.m. Register at Schweiger Ranch.org/AustrianChristmas D E C E M BE R 2 1 ST

The Tale of Jacob Marley

C H E RO KEE RAN CH & CASTLE 6 : 3 0 PM A funny, irreverent and deeply moving retelling of the classic story told by one performer, James O’Hagan-Murphy. This is a journey of laughter and terror, redemption and renewal. This holiday evening includes time to explore the holiday decor of the Cherokee Ranch & Castle, enjoy complimentary appetizers with a cash bar, and the performance. Visit CherokeeRanch.org to purchase tickets. D E C E M BE R 3 1 ST

A Great Gatsby New Year's Eve at Pindustry

P IND U ST RY 7 9 39 EAST A RAPAH O E ROAD Step back in time and celebrate the arrival of the new year in style. An evening filled with glitz, glamour and all the extravagance of the roaring 20s. Get ready to party like Jay Gatsby himself! Purchase tickets for a party that will include decorations, a 3-course dinner, live entertainment, champagne toasts, party favors, balloon drop and more. 7 p.m. until 12:30 a.m. ThePindustry.com D E C E M BE R 3 1 ST

Highlands Ranch Fireworks

WILDCAT RESERVE PARK | 7:00 PM Celebrate the new year with a 30-minute, high-flying fireworks display sponsored by Douglas County. The fireworks will launch from the Wildcat Reserve Park site, southeast of Rock Canyon High School. For ultimate viewing, parking will be allowed along portions of McArthur Ranch Road and Griggs Road. For safety reasons, parking will not be allowed along Monarch Boulevard. Please honor posted “No Parking” signs. Visit Douglas. co.us for details.

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