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Although the original intent of the show was to educate the listening audience about local business resources, it has evolved into something more. “We discovered that ourhosts, cohosts and guests were forming professional relationships with one another,” said Executive Producer Brett Ward. “It’s like Real Talk has become a businessmatchmaking service.”

Perhaps the best example of this is Solana Beach resident Ryan White, Realtor with the Guiltinan Group, and his cohost Karen Kaseno, Forensic Accountant and founder of The Kaseno CPA Firm. “When I was introduced to Karen and found out what she did fora living, I asked to interview her on my show,” said White. “She provides an amazing service to people in need and I wanted others to know about it.”

“Our experience on the show together presented us with opportunities to promote andsupport each other’s businesses,” continued White. “She and I have been able to refer a ton of business back and forth, and Real Talk has allowed us to quickly expand intointo each other’s professional networks.”

After several guest appearances, White asked Kaseno if she’d like to cohost his show. “It was a nobrainer for me,” says Kaseno “He’s a super smart guy. He pays attention to details more than others in his profession. I know my clients are in good hands when I send them to Ryan.”

White has been in real estate for 14 years and manages over 100 vacation rentals in the San Diego area, so it’s safe to call him an “expert.” Although he buys and sells properties all over the county, White’s “home turf” is really Solana Beach and Del Mar. “I prefer to focus on my backyard because it’s what I know best, and that knowledge is transferred to my clients and business partners like Karen.”

Kaseno has been a forensic accountant for more than two decades and is widely respected in her profession. “I always thought radio was just about appealing to the listeners.

I never considered the networking and business building aspects of cohosting a radio show.

It’s given me the opportunity to build a group of elite contacts,” said Kaseno.

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Lifestyle Letter

Lifestyle Letter

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reetings Del Mar! Welcome to the February issue of Del Mar Lifestyle. This being February, I suspect that many of our hearts and minds find themselves pondering love. As I sat down to write this, I found myself pondering love. I considered attempting to articulate what love means to me. I considered writing a long-winded soliloquy regarding broad themes of love. However, in the end, I’ve decided to let a quote from one of my favorite novels perform that task for me. Bear with me:

“Love—and all its complicated ramifications, Draeger believed— actually does conquer all; love—or the fear of not having it, or the worry about not having enough of it, or the terror of losing it—certainly does conquer all.” - Ken Kesey Sometimes a Great Notion Actually, I cannot let that quote do all the work for me. Our writers here at Del Mar Lifestyle have done their part as well by highlighting a few local iterations of love, Del Mar style. This month we’ll highlight Tsavo’s Canine Rehabilitation, a wonderful establishment that provides man’s best friends with a unique place to heal and thrive. We also have Blink Lash Boutique and Blush Tan to help make your Valentine’s Day as beautiful as possible; find out how you can pamper yourself with love at Blink Lash and Blush Tan. And be sure you don’t miss this month’s parting thoughts: “Love is in the Air,” a lovely way to end our February issue.

Last but certainly not least allow me to welcome our new owner/publisher Dan Austin.

Dan is extraordinarily passionate about highlighting the best Del Mar has to offer. Our readers can rest assured that going forward we are in very good hands.

Enjoy Valentine's Day and I'll see you around town,

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February 2016

Departments

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14 Walking North: Discovering Japan

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Good Times

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Around Town

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Healthy Lifestyle

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Road Trip

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Local Limelight

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Financial Buzz

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Local’s Choice

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Trend Setter

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Lifestyle Calendar

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Parting Thoughts

A fascinating trek through the land of the rising sun

18 Tsavo’s Canine Rehabilitation

Maja Wichtowski's local house of healing for dogs

22 Blink Lash & Blush Tan

A local boutique perfect for beautification this Valentine's Day

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Good Times

Del Mar Art Center Holds Silent Auction

The Del Mar Art Center held it's annual holiday event on December 5th, highlighted by their famous "Silent Auction."

Those in attendance were treated to live music, wonderful art and holiday cheer!

Bells of Freedom

On Sunday December 6 a caravan left for Camp Pendleton to participate in the San Diego Bells of Freedom event by meeting their military families and giving holiday gifts!

Louis McKay helps unload gifts!

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Good Times

Koniakowsky Ocean Art Holiday Open House

On Saturday, December 12th Koniakowsky Ocean Art opened its doors for a night of live music, drinks, and holiday specials!

The event featured a drawing that benefitted Care House, an organization that helps local teens in need. Koniakowsky.comÂ

Wade Koniakowsky signing one of his works.

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Around Town

AROUND TOWN

districts

reduce

water use by a certain amount.

San Diego County is has expended great resources implementing new water supplies due to the

BEN FOLDS WITH THE SAN DIEGO SYMPHONY

state's mandate. San Diego County has built desalination plants in Carlsbad and used water transfers from Imperial County. San Diego

As a solo artist and as frontman for Ben Folds Five, singer-song-

County is clamoring for more credit for the expenses used towards

writer-pianist-raconteur Ben Folds has earned a reputation as a sin-

water conservation. But it's not just officials that are suffering the con-

gular and influential voice in the world of popular music. One of pop

sequences from the state's water conservation mandate, but local res-

and rock's great piano-playing showmen, Ben’s sound and sensibility

idents as well. Local residents face penalties for using more than their

- an eclectic mix of rock power, jazz chops, and wry observational

"fair share," of water per month. San Diego County already has 99%

songwriting - evokes the essence of classic pop while adding an id-

of the water it needs for the coming year. So why penalize our county

iosyncratic infusion of energy and wit.

when our county is ahead of the curb and doing its part?

As multi-platinum selling artist, Folds is responsible for popular

PLASTIC BAG BAN IN DEL MAR

indie rock tunes as such as "Brick," "Rockin' the Suburbs," "Underground," and "The Battle of Who Could Care Less." The San Diego Symphony returns to the Center to accompany the bespectacled

Del Mar council members

songsmith who will showcase his brand new piano concerto in addi-

are moving forward with a pro-

tion to performing selections from his catalog.

posal that will prevent distribution of disposable plastic bags

Ben's appearances sell out quickly, so be sure to secure your tickets now. Visit ArtCenter.org for more info

in the community. The propos-

THE SAN DIEGO JEWISH FILM FESTIVAL

al was submitted by the city's Sustainability Advisory Board.

It is well documented that disposable plastic bags are unhealthy for the environment, and subsequently, for our city. Think of our majestic

The San Diego Jewish Film

beaches. Think of the Pacific Ocean, which seemingly welcomes us

Festival presented by the San

as family. Think of local wildlife we share this community with. Our

Diego Center for Jewish Culture

City Council will consider the proposal on February 15. If the proposal

at the Lawrence Family Jewish

is agreed to, the ordinance will require residents to supply their own

Community

JACOBS

shopping bags, or there's an option to pay 10 cents per paper bag.

FAMILY CAMPUS, will run Febru-

Center,

Stores will have a six-month "grace period" to cease use of disposable

ary 4-14, 2016.

plastic bags; meanwhile restaurants and the Del Mar Farmer's Mar-

This year the festival will showcase a total of 60 films of the best contemporary Jewish themed films from around the world celebrating life, human rights, and freedom of expression. The mission of the Film Festival is to offer outstanding world cinema that promotes awareness, appreciation and pride in the diversity of the Jewish people to attendees of the community at large. Festival programs aim to

ket will have a one year "grace period." If our readers are interested in learning more visit DelMar.Ca.Us for more info

JUNK BONANZA VINTAGE MARKET AT THE DEL MAR FAIRGROUNDS

educate and illuminate through evocative, independent fiction and

The Junk Bonanza is the

documentary films that portray the Jewish experience from current to

place for antique collectors,

historic global perspectives. Visit Sdjff.org for more info

flea market lovers and for

LOCAL WATER USAGE RESTRICTIONS

folks who love to hunt for classic treasures!

For the first time on the west coast, purveyors and shoppers of

Not long ago Governor Jerry Brown declared an emergency draught.

vintage finds will beautiful antiques, artisan-repurposed goods and

The state Water Resources Control Board mandated that state water

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this treasure trove of items predominantly 40 years and older especially selected from hand-picked vendors. JunkBonanza.com

SWEET TEMPTATIONS EVENT Enjoy a decadent Sweet Temptations Adventure with famed food blogger Sally McKenney as she discusses her new book, Sally’s Candy Addiction. In this latest book, with over 75 new recipes, Sally ensures her sugary

SAN DIEGUITO HALF MARATHON & 5K RUN/WALK

temptations will give you that sweet tooth fix. Your Adventure includes a

The event starts and ends at San Dieguito County Park. Featured

decadent tasting of toffee with unexpected flavors, such as, peanut butter,

is a scenic course through Rancho Santa Fe. “This is one of the most

sea salt, & smoked almond, a fleet of expertly paired wines, a book discus-

beautiful and scenic courses you’ll ever run.” Also featured is a great

sion, Q&A, author signing, and an opportunity to meet the author up close

beer garden sponsored by Stone and Ballast Point. The event spon-

and personal in an intimate and fun setting. Hello, my name is Sally and

sors the San Diego County Parks Society. Active.com

I am a baking addict.” So says famed food blogger and cookbook author Sally McKenney, who makes it her life mission to let her creative juices flow

CLASSIC MELODIES IN BALBOA PARK

in the kitchen. After college, Sally took to baking to help her figure out the

Every weekend from August 29, 2015 until May 29 2016, the San Diego

next stage of her life. It wasn’t long before she realized baking was her pas-

Youth Symphony and Conservatory’s ensembles will fill Casa del Prado

sion, so in 2013, she made her baking blog a full-time job and new career.

with beautiful classical music. Visitors are invited to observe these re-

The event will be held February 16 at the Eclipse Chocolate Bar & Bistro.

hearsals share the musical journey of our student musicians (ages 8-25).

This is a wonderful treat to enhance any visit to Balboa Park. All rehearsals for the large ensembles are held in the Casa del Prado Building, in Balboa Park (1650 El Prado, San Diego, CA 92101). Visit us on Saturdays from 8:30am to 7:15pm or Sundays from 1pm to 5pm. For repertoire and times of each ensembles’ rehearsals, visit Sdys.org/ClassicalMelodies.

THE MARDIS GRA RUN/WALK 2016 Celebrate in style and flare as you dash along our festive course all the way to the FINISH LINE! It's a parade for all to enjoy, so come dressed in you colorful costumes and masks, and have a ball! When you cruise across the finish line and get ready to celebrate your suc-

FELT HAT BLOCKING - TWO DAY WORKSHOP Jill Courtemanche Millinery is offering a two-day Felt Blocking workshop on Saturday Feb. 6 from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. and Sunday, Feb. 7 from 9:30 a.m. to 4 p.m. In this workshop taught by Jill Courtemanche herself, students will learn the technique of hat blocking, including: manipulating

cess in the Mardi Gras Finisher's Village, you'll enjoy a post-event celebration where runners can enjoy a bit of New Orleans Cuisine.

Delicious bites direct form Louisiana prepared by New Orleans Cuisine & Catering for an additional fee! Active.com

PAWS FOR PINK SAN DIEGO 2016

the felt on wooden hat blocks, wiring the brim, finishing hats to the ap-

There's a lotta love in February! Celebrate Valentine's Day with ALL

propriate size, and basic trim-

the ones you love (both 4-legged and 2-legged) this Valentine’s Day

ming techniques. This class is

Weekend! Partial proceeds from Paws FUR Pink benefit the San Di-

designed for more advanced

ego affiliate of Susan G. Komen for the Cure. The event takes place

sewers, and students who

February 21 at Liberty Station. Active.com

have taken Jill’s intro class. All materials to block and trim one hat are included in the price.

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BALBOA PARK - AMAZING SCAVENGER HUNT ADVENTURE

Class size is limited to six and

Turn Balboa Park into a giant game board with this fun scavenger

reservations are required. For

hunt adventure. Combine the excitement of the Amazing Race with

more information or to regis-

a three-hour city tour. Guided from any smart phone, teams make

ter, visit JillCourtemanche.com

their way among well known and overlooked gems of the city, solving

or call 858-876-6353. Private

clues and completing challenges while learning local history. Avail-

group classes are also avail-

able 365 days a year, sunrise to sunset. Start when you want and play

able at your convenience for

at your pace. This event occurs daily from 10:00 am to 7:00 pm. Sign

groups of 4 or more.

up online at UrbanAdventureQuest.com.

Healthy Lifestyle

FEBRUARY: The Month of the Heart

Give Yours Some Loving Care ARTICLE CORIE GOODSON

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he heart is often referred to as the symbol of love. While love is vital to a fulfilling life, a healthy heart is crucial to it.

A healthy heart functions without us having to even think about it. It beats about 100,000 times per day and pumps 1.5 gallons of blood through the body per minute. The more in shape the heart is, the lower the heart rate because a stronger heart can pump more volume per beat.

Made up of its own specialized cells that are not found anywhere else in the body, the heart pumps nutrient- and oxygen-rich blood through the cardiovascular system.

The blood is essentially a delivery system and a garbage truck. It first nourishes us, and then transports toxins and metabolic waste to the kidneys and liver for disposal. Without this vital system, we would all cease to exist.

Unless we develop a problem, we don’t pay much attention to what our heart does for us 24 hours a day. Kind of makes you want to give it a bit more respect, right?

That’s especially true when you hear the statistics that say heart disease and diseases of the cardiovascular system remain the number one reason lives are cut short.

Heart disease can go undetected and be asymptomatic for decades before an incident occurs. No one gets critically ill overnight, which means heart issues cannot be reversed overnight either.

The good news is that we can often help change destiny. While heart disease can be hereditary, it may not necessarily have to dominate one’s landscape.

We do have a lot of control over how healthy we are by taking some simple steps. Small changes can add up to big results over time, especially if there isn’t a major defect that cannot be altered by lifestyle alone.

Most of us know now that the traditional food pyramid we grew up with is completely upside down and antiquated. It has long been thought that reducing fat in the diet was the primary way to reduce heart disease. When it comes to convenience and fast food, I would agree.

The more modern contention is that we should eat food that doesn’t come with labels. Fruit, veggies, nuts and seeds, eggs, meat and fish should dominate your grocery cart. Single-ingredient, nature-made food eliminates the often confusing list of ingredients.

Avoiding the inner aisles of the grocery store as much as possible makes this easier.

Cardiovascular exercise is as important to keeping the heart healthy as what we eat. As little as 30 minutes a day can change your health profile.

So, instead of perpetuating the saying that “we are a nation of people living short and dying long,” let’s get up, get moving and put nutrient-dense foods on our plates to keep that wonderful small, but mighty, organ running its best for as long as possible.

Corie Goodson, MPH, CNC, earned her master’s degree in public health in 1995. She is a health educator, wellness promotion speaker, author and certified nutrition coach.

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Road Trip

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he head priest walks over to the center of the main shrine room to offer the

daily morning prayers. Chanting, clapping, singing and a specific protocol of procedures, for passing the blessed offerings on to other members of the party, follow.

Drumbeats declare the end of the ceremony and the assistant to the priest, in full regalia, invites guests to a sip of sake. This

is

the

daily

scene at the Shinto-Buddhist

shrine

resting atop a long series of stone steps on Mt. Haguro-san, where you can visit while touring the northern parts of Japan. With Tokyo, Kyoto and Osaka being the more famil-

North:

Discovering Japan ARTICLE AND PHOTOGRAPHY RUKSANA HUSSAIN

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iar tourist destinations in the country, the northerly regions afford a unique travel experience, far-removed from the fast-paced fancy cars and lit-up signboards synonymous with city life depicted in movies and shows.

There are many ways to explore the Land of the Rising Sun, authentic among them being a journey with Walk Japan, hiking and trekking through smaller villages and towns, indulging in the beautiful and iconic scenery of the Tohoku region, wandering along the rugged Sea of Japan coast and all the while, enjoying encounters of the friendly kind. The Japanese are thrilled when foreigners visit to learn about their culture and lifestyle, and take great pride in sharing their home and country with others. English is not very widely spoken outside of the large cities so a tour guide is highly recommended.

Much of Japan is mountainous and hilly, and most areas made accessible with an intricate web of walkways, stairs, trails and more.

Coastal areas like Matsushima and the island of Sado-ga-shima are accessed through the waterways – jetfoil and ferry being common modes of transport. You will be inspired by some of the greatest scenery to be found in Japan including this, one of the classic Three Views of Japan – the pine-clad islands of Matsushima are a delight. The bustling port brings in visitors and tourists alike.

Sado-ga-shima, on the other hand, once a place of exile for enemies of the land, today gives guests the opportunity to enjoy quiet coastal life and local delicacies as well as a chance to understand its past glory when it was a booming gold mining town. The crested ibis, once found here in abundance, is now no more a common sight but locals hold it in high esteem, and its likeness is seen on products in the area.

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Something for Everyone at North Coast Rep: POLITICS, COMICS AND A LAWYER!

The Book of Moron

FEBRUARY 9 • 7:30pm Combining theatre with stand-up ROBERT DUBAC crashes head first into the barriers of sex, race, religion, politics and the media.

It’s comedy on steroids.

For the Sender: Love Letters from Vietnam FEBRUARY 29 • 7:30pm

This special concert revolves around the incredible true correspondence into the past between a flawed soldier stationed in Vietnam in 1968 and his daughter, searching for answers in the present.

His Royal Hipness Lord Buckley

MARCH 7 & 8 • 7:30pm JAKE BRODER plays Lord Buckley, a comedian from the ‘40s who was a hip ‘aristocrat’ translating the great stories and histories of the world into bebop-infused language.

Another aspect to the tourism in these areas is the historic relevance of local sites. Hiraizumi, Japan’s latest UNESCO world heritage site, featuring the Chuson-ji and Motsu-ji temples, provides an inkling of the area’s past splendor, once considered to rival that of Kyoto.

Motsu-ji has been restored to its 12th century grandeur and Chuson-ji includes the Golden Hall - one of the most elaborately decorated Buddhist structures in Japan. The gardens here are simply spectacular, and the chrysanthemum festival is a must-visit.

Traditional inns, called ryokans, are a great way to experience Japanese culture. When you enter your room, only a desk and floor-level chair sitting on a series of mats covering the floor greet you. Closet

Impro Theatre: Austen UnScripted MARCH 14 • 7:30pm

Starting with an audience suggestion and creating completely improvised, full-length plays in the styles of the world’s greatest writers. A fun evening.

space along the walls of the room hold all the furniture required in creating the space you want. When at dinner, staff put out a bed for you to sleep in – this is the Japanese style of space-saving furniture.

Casual robes known as yukatas are provided at most inns, especially those that offer a thermal hot spring bath or onsen. They are colorful, patterned and tied together with a belt, sometimes even featuring a jacket that goes over. It is acceptable to stroll around the premises in this outfit, whether dining at the restaurant or heading

Clarence Darrow Tonight!

MARCH 21 & 22 • 7:30pm LAURENCE LUCKINBILL brings to life one of the most fascinating men in American history, attorney Clarence Darrow, in a truly riveting performance.

for a bath. The onsens are public bathhouses and the relaxing hot water baths here are said to have healing powers because of their mineral-rich composition.

Although sushi, sashimi and many other Japanese dishes have become staples in America, regional Japanese cuisine is strongly influenced by seasonal ingredients including many pickled vegetables, raw and broth-cooked meats, and seafood. Red bean snacks and desserts are commonly found, and a favorite. A formal dinner

For more information on the shows visit NorthCoastRep.org Box Office: (858) 481-1055 Group Sales: (858) 481-2155, ext. 202 987 Lomas Santa Fe Drive, Solana Beach 16

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spread usually consists of multiple courses, with each course offering an array of bite-sized to personal-size portions. You will love eating and walking your way through Northern Japan!

Details: WalkJapan.com

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Not wanting him to undergo radiation treatments and a dependence on prescription drugs to mask the pain, Wichtowski, already a veterinary technician, explored alternative medicine. The combination of proper nutrition and exercise combined with acupuncture, chiropractic work and even Chinese herbs were key components that improved his health.

Maja with Lilly

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TSAVO’S CANINE REHABILITATION Don't Just Treat The Pain, Heal The Condition ARTICLE NOLA SCHODER / PHOTOGRAPHY PROVIDED

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hen considering the benefits of physical therapy with humans, and how essential it can be for recovery and quality of life, it is natural to conclude that this too would prove beneficial for our canine family members that are valued as our best friends or children.

Tsavo’s Canine Rehabilitation and Fitness Center is a full service facility, the only one in Southern California, which offers a complete line of rehabilitation services with innovative, therapeutic technologies as well as exercise programs for pets.

Maja Wichtowski started the center in 2006. She holds a Bachelor’s degree from Cornell University, a Registered Veterinary Technician license, and a Canine Rehabilitation Certification from the Canine Rehabilitation Institute in Florida. In addition, she has over 18 years of experience in western veterinary medicine including oncology, orthopedics, internal medicine, dentistry, and emergency/critical care.

Wichtowski created her canine rehab center in honor of her former dog Tsavo, a boxer/pitbull mix, who was diagnosed with cancer at six-years old. Not wanting him to undergo radiation treatments and a dependence on prescription drugs to mask the pain, Wichtowski, already a veterinary technician, explored alternative medicine. The combination of proper nutrition and exercise combined with acupuncture, chiropractic work and even Chinese herbs were key components that improved his health. Tsavo lived a pain-free and happy life till almost 14-years-old, without prescription pain medication or steroids.

Tsavo’s Canine Rehab’s focus is on healing the dogs’ condition with long-term goals in mind. “We operate with the kids and owners as the priority,” says Wichtowski. They provide a fun and comfortable environment, and treat each dog as one of their own even referring to them as “kids." A treatment plan is designed for each patients’ specific needs with cases ranging from panosteitis, immune mediated polyarthritis, stroke patients and brachial plexus injuries, to post-op surgery cases and older pets with severe osteoarthritis.

Canine hydrotherapy is one of the foremost rehabilitation services offered. Water exercises in the “Splash Zone,” an indoor pool lined with doggie life vests and toys, or walks on the underwater treadmill allow patients to recover and stay fit in a non-weight bearing environment. The buoyancy of the water decreases the stress and pressure on

the joints so that muscle strength and fitness can be built. The physical properties of the water can be altered to modify the desired effects; warm water increases blood circulation and flexibility while underwater jets create more resistance to build muscle mass. Degenerate, post-surgical or obese dogs can take advantage of hydrotherapy.

Further non-traditional and cutting-edge techniques are being practiced with Pulsed Signal Therapy (PST). “It is one of the only modalities/treatments that actually heals!” claims Wichtowski who further shares that it usually only needs to be done once in a patient’s life. PST involves directing a pulsated magnetic signal to the injured area. This signal mimics the body’s biological signal that stimulates cellular repair in cartilage, bone, and soft tissue. Currently this technique is practiced in Europe and Canada (since 1992) for people, and in the United States on animals. This form of treatment is non-invasive with no side effects, and greatly reduces the need for pharmaceutical drugs. It is not a “magic pill” Wichtowski reaffirms; it does take time and needs to be combined with other therapy.

Another practice is observed in the carpeted and dim lit “Zen Room.” Wichtowski works with “CC” for a 30-minute session of cold laser therapy and bodywork to provide pain relief and resolve inflammation. The ten-year-old Labrador had TPLO surgery (knee). She is now older with some arthritic joints and spondylosis, and Mom wants to keep her agile and pain-free.

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Sitting with Wichtowski is CC’s mom, her client, who praises the amazing work done at Tsavo’s. Their patients and clients have become the marketing team – the plentiful and glowing testimonials on the website corroborate that.

Other services include bodywork, nutrition education, grooming, acupuncture, chiropractic, homeopathy, and western and eastern herbs.

Dog Dreams Foundation, a non-profit, full-service veterinary facility dedicated to canine rescue organizations in Southern California, is next on the horizon for Wichtowski. “It will be the first of its kind in the world, and we hope it will become a model for other states. It is desperately needed, as rescue organizations spend 80-90% of their funds on medical bills. This money could be used towards public education, spay/neuter programs, and rescuing more kids.”

Tsavo's Canine Rehabilitation Center, Inc. is located at 2120 Jimmy Durante Blvd., Suite 120, Del Mar, CA 92014. TsavosCanineRehab.com

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ith Valentine’s Day just around the

With two locations, one in Solana Beach and

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one in Mission Valley, flirtatious eyes are just

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Lash Boutique ensures the health of your

“The Bashful set includes 35 extensions

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To complement those gorgeous eyes,

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you can have that year-round glow, courtesy of an all-natural spray that is hand-applied by a fully-trained specialist. The chemical-free solutions guarantee an even look without those embarrassing orange streaks typically associated with over-the-counter self-tanning products.

“This is not a one-size-fits-all tan,” notes owner Christina Kauffman. “We provide an entire line of solutions so that we can appropriately mix colors to create the perfect base for each individual skin tone.”

Blush Tan products do not leave you feeling sticky or wet, either, as each application is delivered via a fine mist by a trained specialist and not in a typical spray booth. The tan will last up to two weeks.

Kauffman does caution, however, that this product should not replace sunscreen but is a healthy opportunity to build a tan.

The blushtanÆ solution contains all-natural, anti-aging ingredients that not only help to moisturize the skin but also aid in reducing the appearance of cellulite, fine lines and wrinkles.

“We use all organic products and take a conservative approach with each client,” explains Kauffman. “We never apply it darker than we should for your skin. Each application takes about 10 minutes and clients have the opportunity to consult with the sunless consultant to discover the best color for his/her skin tone.”

To maintain this organic sunless tan, Blush Tan offers a variety of organic, fragrance-free tan extender products that clients may use as needed, much like a moisturizer, but without the sticky, orange after-effects.

“Our goal is to help our clients look healthy and make them feel good about themselves while providing flawless results,” smiles Kauffman.

Be sure to inquire about a special 20% offer on a full body tan the week before Valentine’s Day. For more information on Blink Lash Boutique, go online at BlinkLashBoutique.com or call 619.964.6082 (Mission Valley) or 858.436.4456 (Solana Beach); for more information on blush organic sunless tanning, go online at BlushTan.com or call 858.412.4029.

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Financial Buzz

Love in the Air ARTICLE HARVE Y NEIMAN

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here’s Love in the Air! With Valentine’s Day on the horizon, and love in the air, I often feel I have a “love affair” with the stock market. My problem is that it doesn’t always love me!

For those who follow stocks, 2016 began with a lackluster experience for most of 2015 in the stock market. The general market as represented by both the Dow Jones Industrial Average and by the S&P 500 Index, were pretty much flat for the year 2015.

People always ask whether a Presidential election impacts the stock market. Well, with 2016 being an election year, and February being the first month for primaries, it might be easier to answer the question after we get a clearer picture of who might be the major party candidates. Usually, when a newly elected President is viewed as friendly to business, it’s generally viewed favorably toward the stock market. We’re still a few months away from knowing who the two major candidates will be.

Much of the political scene is also a reflection of the state of our economy. If we get a new President who can get things done with Congress, there will be more confidence in our economy, from the perspective of consumers, which can only help our recovery. Even the huge multi-trillion US debt seems less of a concern to voters and candidates thus far in the presidential campaign. Not that the debt is going away, but the fact that the US deficit was reduced in 2015, suggests that our gradual economic recovery is real.

Congress passed a huge $1.8 trillion spending bill before year end, suggesting we might start to get cooperation between a president and both parties of Congress, in the coming year. News at “11."

A further sign of recovery appeared when theFederal Reserve finally began its long awaited action of raising interest rates by 0.25% back in December. The jury is still out whether the Fed will do the samenext month at their March meeting. Fed Chair Janet Yellen has indicated that as various economic indicators get stronger, the rate increases are likely to continue.

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Improving economic indicators should give us some comfort that our recovery is on a steady path.

Those Americans planning European travel in the spring will enjoy a stronger US dollar than in recent years. By year end 2015, the exchange rate was less than $1.10 per Euro.

Domestically, the rate of inflation was almost flat at 0.2% for 2015. This was strongly impacted by continuous lowering of oil prices, which was hovering in the high $30s per barrel at year end. That’s the lowest it’s been for a decade.

Next, there was residential housing prices that increased in 2015, but only at a reasonable rate of approximately 6.0% over the prior year. As 2015 came to a close, mortgage interest rates remained attractive at below 4.0% for many types of residential loans.

Unemployment rate, often viewed as the most important bell weather of economic recovery, fell to 5.0% by the end of 2015. In recent months, new jobs have been growing nationally at or near the desired rate of 200,000 per month.

The only thing that often throws a wrench in our best laid plans is the international picture. Our confidence is often shaken by such things as economic weakness in Europe and China, unrest in the mid-east, terrorism at home and abroad, various natural disasters, and all the other events about which the media keeps informed. Yes, we need to be informed, and we should be concerned, but we should not let these events unnecessarily distract us from responsibly conducting our daily lives.

Our nation is the economic and political leader of the world. When danger and harm affects us directly, of course we need to respond with vigor. But, there are numerous remote events in the world that we cannot control, and that we cannot fix, that are distractions from our economic well-being. If we can keep these distractions in perspective, and pay attention to our important daily lives, our economic recovery, both nationally and individually, will be quicker.

By the way, once in awhile the stock market does “love” me back. It’s in the air!

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o a lot of Del Martians, February means one thing: Ski week. For one week in mid-February Del Martians pack up and abscond to

their favorite skiing destinations. We’ve composed a list of our top 5 California skiing destinations. Enjoy!

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Local’s Choice

(CON TI N U ED)

1. SQUAW VALLEY,

2. ALPINE MEADOWS,

3. HEAVENLY

4. MAMMOTH MOUNTAIN,

5. BEAR VALLEY,

LAKE TAHOE

LAKE TAHOE

MOUNTAIN RESORT,

MAMMOTH LAKES

ARNOLD, CA

Barely a 3 hour flight

We understand that

This (as the the name

Located in the Cen-

from San Diego, Califor-

Alpine Meadows neigh-

nia’s premier ski resort

bors Squaw Valley. We

majestic

indicates) huge resort is

tral Sierras, Bear Valley

views of Lake Tahoe,

located in Eastern Cal-

is little more than a hop,

considered leaving Alpine

is something of a throw-

the sights alone may be

ifornia

Yosemite

back resort. It’s difficult

skip and a jump away.

Squaw

hosted

Meadows off of our list

enough to hold #3 on our

National Park. Mammoth

to spot on the map, but

due to its proximity to our

list. But along with Heav-

Mountain

was found-

finding and subsequently

the 1960 Winter Olympic

aforementioned #1 Squaw

enly Mountain’s beau-

ed nearly 60 years ago,

basking in Bear Valley's

games, and they have

Valley, but it’s simply too

ty comes a sprawling

but

fooled,

glory is well worth it.

lived up to that great

awesome, and very wor-

brawn. Heavenly Moun-

Mammoth

Mountain

Bear Valley features 1,280

honor and then some.

thy of the #2 spot on our

tain sports a mind-bog-

Resort features state-of-

acres of downhill skiing

Featuring a mountain tai-

list. With over 2400 acres

gling 34 miles of cruis-

the-art lift systems, and

to navigate. Seemingly

lor-made for noobies and

to explore it’s no wonder

ers. There is nimble tree

a full-service resort. The

every acre has a natural

veterans alike, Squaw

this resort has garnered a

skiing to be experienced;

mountain receives well

view of the Sierras. Bear

Valley is the perfect des-

near mythical reputation.

not to mention their deep

over 400 inches of snow

Valley is more intimate

tination for family vaca-

SquawAlpine.com

slopes. Visitors can also

every

making

than most resorts; it

tions, ski and/or snow-

enjoy chili at the Tama-

skiing and snowboard-

feels almost untouched

boarding jaunts. Trust us.

rack Lodge, which rests

ing their 3,500+ acres

by man. The views are

SquawAlpine.com

at 9000+ ft. Enough said.

of

the

unhindered by clusters

SkiHeavenly.com

model

consistency.

of homes and big stores.

Valley

LAKE TAHOE

Featuring

near

don’t

be

season,

resort of

terrain

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Building Character in the Kids You Love ARTICLE BECKY AKRIGHT

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o those of you with young children, I empathize. Feeding, bathing, buckling, chasing, dressing, then doing it all again is a physically exhausting day-into-night- into- day. You look forward to the time when your toddlers are in school, when you get a rest, when the pace will slow down. It’ll be so much easier once they’re older…right?

Well, yes. And no. Your children will learn to feed and dress themselves, and you won’t be toting a baby, a carrier, and a diaper bag wherever you go. But parenting challenges never go away; they just change. And as children become social, as they go to school, participate in group activities, and interact with adults other than you, they will need the same kind of parenting energy as the early years – only this time, the energy changes from physical to mental and emotional.

If you’ve put away the high chair, then get ready to focus on creating independent, confident, and strong children. And those children – those who can handle frustration, disappointment, and failure as well as success - come from parents who are not consumed with making and keeping their children happy. They come from homes that are not focused on buying more and buying better, and they come from families whose members are not isolated from each other by technology.

I believe all parents want their children to have strong character, to be upright, and to grow into responsible, caring adults.

I’ve been a parent, a teacher, a school principal, and now a grandparent, and I’ve never known any mom or dad who doesn’t want that. But it’s hard, and the expectations of our society, especially those of middle to upper income communities, mean that many parents’ actions don’t match that goal. But there’s help for those of you who want to raise kids with character – if you’re willing to step back, put the credit card away, take the cell phone at 9 PM, and – here’s the big one – allow your sons and daughters to handle

day-to-day situations on their own instead of rushing in to save them. Sometimes it even means letting your child fail.

In Dr. Madeline Levine’s terrific book, The Price of Privilege, the author specifically and clearly addresses the issues that can cause many teenagers – especially teenagers from affluent homes – to become depressed, anxious, and under-achieving: high expectations, emphasis on materialism, disconnection, and adults who strive to make their children’s lives stress-free. She covers ages 2 – 17, and explains “how the culture of affluence works against the development of the self.”

By making sure our kids have everything they want, expecting perfection from and for them, and making their conflicts our own, we are essentially keeping them from being, as Levine calls it, a “healthy self.” By clearing a path for our child and taking whatever steps necessary to keep him or her feeling happy, whether socially, in school, or on the sports team, we prevent that child from truly growing.

Paul Tough’s book, How Children Succeed, echoes this. He believes, like Levine, that kids need grit, curiosity, and yes – failure – in order to become their best selves. When parents pull their children from uncomfortable situations, shower them with empty praise, or argue with a teacher over a grade, kids don’t develop into healthy selves. Instead, they become emotionally fragile, unable to handle inevitable frustrations and disappointments – and are almost always unable to say no in a pressured social situations.

So is this a hands-off parenting approach? Hardly. In fact, it takes more parental time, energy, and consistency than just keeping kids “happy.” It takes courage, too, especially when other parents are taking the easy route. But in the end, we want our children to become strong, to have character, to recover from mistakes, and to be ready for the challenges life brings. It’s well worth the effort.

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town! A perfect event for people that love the

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Parting Thoughts

Love is in the Air ARTICLE ANNE POTTER RUSS

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ho knew boarding a simple airplane 23 years ago in my blue sweat suit (think ‘80s wear) would change my entire life?

Certainly not me, or I might have dressed a bit snappier and put on a smidge of makeup and perfume. But, I had reached that elusive place of peace in my quickly-nearing-explosion biological countdown when I figured if the right guy was to come along, I best relax a bit and calm down.

So, calm down I did and donned one of the ugliest outfits I had for sheer comfort. In walks my seatmate for our eight-hour flight and we commence what could be termed as a date – dinner, movie, etc. There were way too many intelligent conversations, laughs and glasses of wine, and the next thing I knew, the sun was coming up on our trans-Atlantic flight and I didn’t want the fun to end. He was returning home to Germany, and I would eventually return home to Kansas City – worlds apart.

He called a week later asking if he could come to visit for Christmas in a couple of weeks. “Sure!” I answered, not knowing how many martinis it would take to enlighten my parents of this impending event. So, I commenced, “I am 29 years old, you have trusted

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me this long, blah, blah, blah.” Their shock equaled my freak-out.

I’d known him for eight hours. When I went to the airport – in a much spiffier outfit – I actually wondered if I would recognize the gentleman who had wooed me weeks before. I had already endured all of the “Are you CRAZY?” comments from friends, so I took my chances that he would at least look familiar.

Honeymoon is the word we use for those two weeks of Christmas bliss. Without question, we would end up together, so two years of trans-Atlantic, pre-Internet, large phone bill dating ensued. There were some language and culture barriers to overcome, and fortunately for my non-German speaking self, he was excited to move to the States. We were married two years after meeting, and immediately moved to California for his engineering job. Now, I have to giggle at people with text and Skype who complain about having to endure long distance relationships from New York to Boston.

Love at first sight does happen, and sometimes it comes in a big old jumbo jet of a package. We are ready to celebrate our 22nd anniversary and have two wonderful teenagers. Maybe the blue sweat suit wasn’t such a bad choice after all.

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