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Happy holidays, Del Mar!

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suppose it's a good idea to introduce myself. My name is F.A. "Alex" Newton. I am the new editor here at Del Mar Lifestyle.

In the interest of full disclosure, I've resided in Del Mar for barely over two months. Before my lovely girlfriend and I relocated to SoCal, we resided in New Jersey. And before my brief stay in New Jersey, I resided in Cleveland, Ohio for most of my life. Suffice it to say, the weather here has been shocking. I've quite literally gone from rainy springs, soggy summers, chilly falls and painful winters to, well, paradise.

As we find ourselves on the cusp of these 2015 holidays, my thoughts have been drifting towards the four seasons I've grown accustomed to throughout, ostensibly, the entirety of my life. In my reflection the following has occurred to me: this holiday season will be my first without snow. It is surreal that all those years of cold and snow are now replaced by sunshine and sand.

Our theme for December is Home for the Holidays. I can sincerely say that after little more than two months of residing in Del Mar, I am happy to call it home. And I'm eager to experience the holidays here. I'm a lucky guy.

I love the beauty of the four seasons, I always have and always will. I love watching the flowers slowly bloom, the excitement of the impending summer, and to see the leaves change and the snow fall. But I grew tired of the four seasons. I grew tired of the aforementioned rainy springs, soggy summers, chilly falls and painful winters. Now here, in paradise, I ask myself: will I grow tired of the eternal sunshine and flawless weather? I will not, and neither should you. Like I said, I'm a lucky guy.

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A reflective conversation with DMVA Executive Director Jen Grove.

18 Del Mar Art Association

Interview with local artist Bob Coletti.

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Good Times

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Around Town

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Sold Properties

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Animal Tracks

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Local Limelight

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Artist’s Palette

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Locally Owned

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Style Wise

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Lifestyle Calendar

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Parting Thoughts

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Heels & Wheels Fundraiser

On October 17 at The Centre in Escondido, San Diego’s elite gathered to benefit No More Silence, a charity aimed at stopping domestic violence in its tracks.The Heels & Wheels event offered a good time for a great cause.Â

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Around Town CARLY AQUILINO PERFORMS

Newport Landing Whale Watching pro-

Carly Aquilino is a stand-up comedian

vides daily gray whale watching cruises with

described by audience members as "fun-

multiple times available each day. One of the

ny" and by her father as "a huge mistake."

few year round whale watching providers in

As a New York native, Carly first stepped

Southern California, captains are very skilled

Centre to benefit No More Silence, a pend-

on stage at Gotham Comedy Club and

at locating both whales and dolphin. Newport

ing 501 (c) (3) non-profit charity that is in the

has since been quickly rising in the com-

Landing's captains offer descriptive narrations

process of raising funds to build a brand-new

edy scene, performing at the most popu-

that make the whale watching experience a

life-saving “buddy system” app and device

lar clubs in New York. Carly Aquilino will

rich one. With a 96 percent viewing success

that will make a dramatic impact in the fight

perform Dec 3-5 at The American Comedy

rate and $16 whale watching cruise special

against domestic violence.

Company. Visit AmericanComedyCo.com

offered through the Sand Diego Tourism Au-

No More Silence understands that domes-

for more info.

thority's website makes this event very afford-

tic abuse comes in many forms, not all of them

able for individuals and families of all sizes.

physical, and both men and women as well as

KIDS NEW YEAR'S EVE AT LEGOLAND

Please note, Newport Landing Whale

children can be a victim. Their goal is to make

Watching is located between Los Angeles &

a drastic change and finally give people a

Like the famous Times Square party, Kids'

San Diego in Newport Beach. You can see the

way to take charge of their safety and prevent

New Years Eve features a kid's concert and

migration from December 1 all the way through

abuse or stop it at the source.

countdown to the new year followed by a

to April 30. Visit NewportWhales.com for

huge LEGO brick dropping 22 feet into the

more info.

new year and a dazzling fireworks display. The event will be held from 10 a.m. to 7 p.m. Please visit California.Legoland.com for more info.

DAAS OPTIQUE TRUNK SHOW Daas Optique, located in the Gaslamp district, hosted their Celine Shades, Champagne and Sweets trunk show on November 7. The show featured their brand new fall and winter 2015 collection. The owner of Daas Optique by Alexander Daas is Alex Feldman,

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NEWPORT GRAY WHALE MIGRATION WINTER/SPRING

mate Action Plan. In the future Climate Action Campaign hopes to help pass similar policies

The California Gray Whale makes the most

in other cities. Enlisting community leaders,

spectacular and longest mass migration of any

grassroots organizations, students, small busi-

marine mammal with their round trip migra-

ness owners and policy makers, Climate Ac-

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tion Campaign is working hard to build a pow-

gray whales migrate annually from the summer

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feeding grounds in the Bering Sea to the winter

Climate Action Campaign held a membership

grounds of the Baja California lagoons and back

launch party at Mission Brewery. The party

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the months of December, January, February, March and April. During the gray whale migration it is not uncommon to view half dozen or more gray whales on a single whale watching cruise making for incredible viewing opportunities.

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3RD ANNUAL HEELS & WHEELS EVENT BENEFITTING NO MORE SILENCE The Del Mar Cigar Club hosted its 3rd Annual black-tie “Heels & Wheels Event” at The

ed individuals into the battle to save the planet from climate change. To understand climate change, humanity, by and large, must understand the problem to find a solution. Please visit ClimateActionCampaign.org for more info.

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s this is the season for giving thanks and giving back, Luther and I want to remind everyone not to forget us animals. We feel it is important to support animal rescue organizations Max and Luther as we animals rely on you humans for help and support. There are so many wonderful rescue organizations out there doing such great work, but today we want to highlight the San Diego Humane Society.

The San Diego Humane Society provides vital services to animals and people by sheltering and adopting animals, providing positive reinforcement training classes, investigating animal cruelty and neglect, and presenting education programs for youth and adults. This organization is a private, nonprofit organization which is supported solely by contributions, grants, bequests, investments, proceeds from our

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retail store, Bark in the park and small fees for services. Luther and I have chosen to support this wonderful organization both financially and by volunteering our time. It is always good to remember that donating your time and skills can have an impact that is just as important as money. The Humane Society’s volunteers are amazing!

Luther and I are donating a portion of our proceeds from the sales of our two books, “True Tails from the Dog Park” and “True Tails II” to this organization. In addition, we have enjoyed participating in a number of their programs from the Walk for Animals, various adoptions events, and the annual Bark in the Park. By far, our favorite event was being guest speakers at the Animal Adventure Camp this past summer. As guest speakers at the camp, Luther and I had the opportunity to both entertain and educate the kids through talking about dog park rules, fun dog facts and a Q&A session.

Man, those kids are smart… Luther and I particularly loved trying out the agility course with the kids (I was awesome on the course while Luther took a pass!). The bi-monthly Doggie Café event at the Oceanside and San Diego Campuses is another favorite. The Doggie Café gives people and their dogs an opportunity to socialize in a safe environment while making new friends and picking up training tips. I particularly love all the treats we get to try!

These are just a few programs that the San Diego Humane Society offers to both humans and their animals. Check out their website for more programs and events: SDHumane.org. Look for Luther and me because you never know when we will show up!

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Jen Grove EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF THE DEL MAR VILLAGE ASSOCIATION DISCUSSES PAST YEAR ARTICLE GINA MCGALLIARD

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he Del Mar Village Association wants to see Del Mar thrive as a 21st century neighborhood while at the same time remain true to

its historic small-town roots.

DMVA is a Main Street organization, a methodology which works with local businesses, city government, commercial property owners and residents in order to support mom-and-pop shops, thus maintaining the community-oriented vibe of Del Mar Village.

“Main Streets are focused on keeping downtowns vital and economically healthy,” says Jen Grove, executive director of the DMVA. “They developed because big box stores--in the Midwest more than this area--were taking away the commerce from downtowns. And so the idea was how can you invigorate and revitalize the downtown, bring it back to self-empowerment, keep it economically healthy, bring people back in, to keep the small stores--the mom-and-pops-operating.” Other communities in San Diego utilize the Main Street approach, including Encinitas, Cardiff, Leucadia and North Park.

The trademarked Main Street Four-Point Approach covers the areas of design, economic restructuring, promotion, and organization. “What we represent is three distinct groups,” says Grove.

“Residents, commercial property owners, and businesses. And the idea is that everyone is a stakeholder in the downtown. And because of that by working together in concert we are able to do a better job of representing the downtown, of making sure that

“Lots of different hats we’re wearing to try to help downtown be vital,” says Grove. Ultimately that’s the objective, to make it someplace that there’s civic pride ... There’s never really a dull moment here. There’s always something going on.”

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we put things in that don’t upset the residents, and that we do things that will economically help businesses.”

In terms of the aesthetic appearance of Del Mar, the DMVA is working to incorporate more public art into the area. For instance, they are currently considering emulating a unique look created in the Cedros Avenue Design District in Solana Beach. “They’ve got fish that go across the crosswalk,” says Grove. “The idea is, are there ways to aesthetically bring in art and other kind of more novel streetscape components as opposed to just putting in the concrete and steel that you normally see in a downtown.”

DMVA is also dedicated to preserving Del Mar’s history and making sure the next generation of Del Martians has a sense of their community’s past. Every year the third-graders at Del Mar Heights

get to participate in a history walk that includes the train station, the yogurt shop and the library. They finish the day at Powerhouse Park and a Sheriff’s helicopter flies in and lands, and the children get to meet the first responders who fly the helicopter.

The DMVA organizes many events, including the Del Mar Village Pop-Up Culture, the Susan G. Komen 3 Day for the Cure, Santa by the Sea, and Summer Solstice. Sadly, it rained on the day of the The Taste of Del Mar & Artisan Stroll, and many artists decided not to come. However, enough people attended that it was considered a success. Events, says Grove, have many advantages, such as building a sense of community among residents, promoting the area by bringing in tourists, and helping businesses.

New businesses are also on their way. The Tasting Room Del Mar will be opening soon as well as a new brewery on San Dieguito Road, and a new shoe store and Samata Spa opened earlier this year. Independent businesses are vital to keeping the community-type vibe that the DMVA works so hard to maintain. “It’s very small-town oriented,” says Grove. “It’s just not a mall. So it’s very different. It’s not like we have a big corporate management that dictates how things are done here. These are mom-and-pops, some of them have been running the stores for many years.”

Overall, the DMVA hopes to continue their multifaceted work to make Del Mar the quaint and unique town it always has been and still is. “Lots of different hats we’re wearing to try to help downtown be vital,” says Grove. Ultimately that’s the objective, to make it someplace that there’s civic pride...There’s never really a dull moment here. There’s always something going on.”

For more information, visit DelmarMainstreet.com.

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Artist’s Palette

"Pegasus Emerging" The Noir Series

DEL MAR ART ASSOCIATION: INTERVIEW WITH BOB COLETTI ARTICLE F.A. NEWTON PHOTOGRAPHY PROVIDED

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I SEE YOU LIVED IN BOSTON FOR SOME TIME. WHAT BROUGHT YOU TO CALIFORNIA, AND WHAT KEPT YOU HERE?

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alifornia to me was always like the song of the sirens who lured Ulysses to their island in the Illiad. With a thriving commercial photo business in Boston, it was difficult to make the break until later years in my life. I first came out here in 1994, but went back to Boston in 1998 for personal reasons. I returned to California in 2010 and have been here since. San Diego has been a very exciting, lively and welcoming art community. There are many opportunities for artists. Naturally, this atmosphere helps the creative process no matter what your medium. I always say to friends in Boston: “Whatever you were back there, you’re better at it out here.”

YOU ARE A VERY EXPERIENCED AND PROLIFIC ARTIST. I’M CURIOUS WHEN YOU KNEW YOU WANTED, OR WERE PERHAPS MEANT TO BE, AN ARTIST. WAS THERE A MOMENT OR EVENT IN WHICH YOU KNEW YOU WERE TO BE AN ARTIST? OR WAS IT PERHAPS A NATURAL CALLING?

That’s a seldom-asked question, but a good one. I believe that every artist experiences the day when they realize their view of the world around them is just a little different from their peers.

Basically, an artist sees the world as it really is, not as we know it to be. In other words: an artist learns to see things and reproduces them as they really look to them, whether that be figuratively or abstractly. Most people would approach this process by reproducing what they know about the subject, not what they see.

The process of learning to see develops from an early age and only continues to evolve as an artist grows older. To see is where the creative process begins and then manifests itself through whatever medium the artist has chosen.

Personally, my first recollection of this phenomenon began when I was in grade school. I was attracted to and then enthralled with art class. Painting and drawing were my chosen techniques at the time, but that soon expanded to other mediums, including photography.

I’M ALWAYS CURIOUS ABOUT AN ARTIST’S INFLUENCES; BE IT THE CINEMA, LITERATURE, OR AN INFLUENTIAL AND/OR INSPIRATIONAL PERSON. CAN YOU SHARE SOME OF YOUR INFLUENCES?

Looking back, I would have to say that it was more a group than any individual who influenced and inspired my work. That group was the Impressionists. Again, the concept of learning to see comes into play. If anyone could see, it was the Impressionists.

What I see on first sight gives birth to my work. All my work begins with that initial impression. The art of communicating impressions allows one to generalize and interpret what is seen. My goal is then to convey those magical impressions to others. I have always said: “This is where the magic begins.” That magic is impressionism.

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CAN YOU TALK ABOUT GROUP7ART AND THE DEL MAR ART CENTER, AND ABOUT THE WORK YOU’RE DOING WITH THOSE ORGANIZATIONS?

Currently, I am vice president of the Del Mar Art Center, which includes the duties of marketing director and web master. Our group is made up of 40 or so local artists--painters, photographers, sculptors, potters, etc. It’s a good grounded group with plenty of involvement in the community.

G7 (Group7Art) is a group that I personally founded in 2011. All artists were hand-picked with a criteria of being recognized as holding local as well as national credentials. Work is displayed and sold through an online gallery, as well as frequent independent gallery exhibitions. G7 is a unique affiliation of diverse artists working together with the common goal of displaying their artwork in gallery venues, show and expositions throughout the internet and at various California gallery locations.

IF A DEL MAR RESIDENT, WHOM ISN’T ALL THAT INTERESTED IN TRADITIONAL ART, IS STROLLING ALONG CAMINO DEL MAR, AND HAPPENS UPON THE DEL MAR ART ASSOCIATION, WHY SHOULD THAT PERSON GO INTO THE DMAC? AND WHAT COULD THAT PERSON GAIN FROM WALKING THROUGH THE DOORS OF THE DMAC?

Keep in mind, the Del Mar Plaza is a retail location.

Unlike a museum or a public cultural spot, it is designed to attract shoppers. That being said: we at DMAC do our best to provide a gallery experience. Out artists love to show their work, and making an occasional sale is frosting on the cake. Our members staff the gallery, sharing the workload.

Gallery browsers are warmly welcomed and might be surprised to meet the artist who created their favorite work.

I LOVE YOUR NEW “NOIR SERIES.” I FEEL LIKE BLACK AND WHITE PHOTOGRAPHY, OR EVEN BLACK AND WHITE CINEMATOGRAPHY, IS UNDERUTILIZED. IN BLACK AND WHITE PHOTOGRAPHY THERE’S A GREATER EMPHASIS ON SHADOWS, AND IN TURN LIGHTING. CAN YOU TALK ABOUT YOUR NOIR SERIES, AND THE PROCESS OF CREATING YOUR NOIR SERIES?

Black and white has it’s niche…in a big way. During my career as a commercial photographer, black and white photos were done for those who could not afford the expense of advertising their products in color. It was also looked upon as a medium of past technologies and admired as an art form in that past context.

In today’s world full of new technologies in color usage, the possibilities are endless. And I might add conversely to your statement, are over utilized.

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"Mask" The Noir Series

"3 Heads" The Noir Series

Black and white is now considered more of an art form in many ways, including form, contracts, tonal range, and the element of drama. Noir, defined in my terms, is “images in black and white cloaked with the mystery and drama of the unknown.”

My Noir Series was developed via an assignment that I put out there for the five photographers from the DMAC. Beginning with the title “Head in the Clouds,” I asked them all to produce a series of black and white images to this them.

Incorporating my technique of “photo illustration,” style, I used many layers of original images to make up each final image. The irony is that all were originally digital color images.

Nevertheless, the noir theme still carries through dramatically when converted to black & white.

YOUR “PHOTO ILLUSTRATION,” STYLE IS VERY INTERESTING. HOW LONG HAVE YOU PRACTICED THIS TECHNIQUE, AND WHERE DO YOU THINK YOU CAN TAKE IT?

Black and white is now considered more of an art form in many ways, including form, contracts, tonal range, and the element of drama. Noir, defined in my terms, is “images in black and white cloaked with the mystery and drama of the unknown.”

I always mention in my bio that I was a painter before a photographer. Photography continued to be an art form for me, but it also became a career and a way to earn a living.

Approximately 12 years ago, I had a strong desire to return to paining. After 40 or so years of seeing and producing work as a photographer, it was not an easy task to make the transition back. With digital technologies quickly expanding to many ways of reproducing an image, I was naturally drawn to them. Canvas prints, acrylic prints, watercolor paper prints, and metal prints all opened the door to my photos being reproduced as art in many different forms.

My direction then changed from attempting to return to painting, to a new technique that would combine my photo and painting abilities into one. The end product could no longer be labeled just a photograph. Nor could it be called a painting. This gave birth to a medium I now call: “Photo Illustration.”

The “Photo Illustration” process begins with original digital photographs which are then reformatted and altered through various computer applications, some with up to 20 layers of individual images. Then they are reproduced in a variety of formats. The end result…expressive compositions with long lasting qualities as collectable art.

This technique is now used by many artists, however, I believe that I give it my individual special twist of magic that separates it from the others.

Where do I go from here? Let’s see where technology takes us.

For more information visit DMACGallery.com; Group7art.com; and BobColetti.com. The DMAC gallery is located at 1555 Camino Del Mar Suite 314.

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ealthy, loving family relationships play a crucial role in preserving and enhancing a person’s happiness and overall sense of well-being. Spending quality time with family nurtures these

close connections and boosts happiness. Yet many people find their jobs so time-consuming that they don’t have as much time as they’d like to spend with family. Mary Kellejian and Kelli Kellejian-Barrett have found a wonderful way to balance their careers and families: by joining together as a mother-daughter team and going into business together.

Mary and her daughter Kelli joined forces in 2013 to revamp and relaunch Mary’s interior design business Polo Bay Interiors. Mary is an accredited ASID designer who started Polo Bay Interiors as a design studio in Polo Plaza in Del Mar in 1991. In 2012, Mary was appointed the president of the San Diego chapter of the American Society of Interior Designers (ASID). Meanwhile, her daughter Kelli had followed her in her mother’s footsteps and pursued a parallel career path in interior design. Kelli worked at a large design firm in San Diego, and even served as recording secretary for ASID’s San Diego chapter during Mary’s time as president.

In 2013, Kelli and Mary decided to make a change, so they joined forces and teamed up together.

After 21 years at Polo Plaza, Mary packed up shop and moved Polo Bay Interiors to a new location on Cedros Ave, in the heart of Solana Beach’s famous Design District. Kelli left her position at the firm, and they teamed up to re-launch Polo Bay Interiors at its new home. They also started a brand-new adventure just down the street: Polo Bay Consignments, a boutique featuring new, gently used and vintage furniture and accessories, beautifully displayed to demonstrate their elegant flair for decor.

When starting a business, it’s important to choose a partner you know and trust well. And, of course, whom do you know better or trust more than your own mom?

Kelli has found her mother Mary to be the perfect choice of partner. “It comes naturally. Our personalities complement and balance each other well. It's been a blessing for the both of us,” she says.

Mary concurs, “It's a great pleasure working with my daughter. I respect her input and creative ideas. Kelli has a terrific sense of style!” They each have their

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own unique tastes and aesthetics, but are united by a deep respect for and knowledge of all styles and types of design. Their diverse and eclectic tastes drive their creativity and help them provide clients with a wide range of styles and design choices.

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At Polo Bay Interiors, Mary and Kelli’s goal is to “learn your story, your style, your vision; then design your home accordingly.”

They listen to their clients in order to create a beautiful space that truly represents their client’s needs, personality and style. At Polo Bay Interiors, they provide full-service work in all areas of interior design, both residential and commercial: color selection, concept drawings, window coverings, space planning, custom furniture design and furniture and accessory selection.

They set up shop for Polo Bay Consignments just down the street from their design studio on Cedros Ave. At Polo Bay Consignments, you can find an eclectic mix of elegant, retro and rustic finds, beautifully arranged in carefully-curated spaces. Kelli shares some of her favorite vintage finds on Instagram @polo_ bay, such as elegant South African art and furniture, beachy decor made from real seashells, antique French books, and fun retro items, like a series of collector’s plates featuring pictures of M*A*S*H, Dynasty and The Wizard of Oz. The women of Polo Bay stay involved in the local community, and are active in the Solana Beach Chamber of Commerce and the Cedros Design District Association. They also support local charities such as Rancho Coastal Humane Society, Helen Woodward Animal Center, Wounded Warriors and San Diego Nice Guys by donating overflow items from Polo Bay Consignments every month.

To spend more quality time with this mother-daughter duo, visit their website, PoloBayInteriors.com or visit Polo Bay Interiors and Polo Bay Consignments

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Design Through the Decades FOR 30+ YEARS, LOCAL MARKETING COMMUNICATIONS COMPANY CHAMPCOHEN HAS BEEN CHANGING WITH THE TIMES ARTICLE J.M. PERKINS | PHOTOGRAPHY PROVIDED

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hampCohen Design Associates has been thriving and growing as a Del Mar based business for more than three decades.

Their clients range from biotech to tourism; from established, million-dollar brands to new start-ups; and through its long history the company has produced well over 20,000 projects. But it began years ago by John Champ when left his position with an established ad agency to found his own marketing communications firm.

Originally named “John Champ Design Associates,” ChampCohen Design associates was founded in 1981. At that time, the ‘associate’ referred to an answering machine Mr. Champ kept on a cardboard box next to his drafting table.

In the years around the company’s founding, the entire marketing industry was shifting. Old style ad-agencies were changing as clients looked for increases in efficiency and everyone searched for ways to lower overhead. At the same time, Champ believed that he could build a solid customer base by providing great design, solid rationale to back up his work, and working every day to prove he held his clients’ best interests at heart.

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The firm quickly grew beyond its origins as a one man studio. The company brought on Randall Cohen in 1994 and rebranded itself ChampCohen Design Associates in 2000. In addition to Champ and Cohen, ChampCohen is currently comprised of Jo-Lin Govek and Nick Kass. Describing the team, Champ says, “There is no way we could experience the ongoing success we have had without the positive attitude and chemistry we share.”

Throughout his decades with ChampCohen, Champ has seen many changes both as a San Diego businessman and designer, explaining, “It used to be that unless you did work for The San Diego Zoo, a local bank, or a real estate developer, our sleepy tourist town had little commerce to support a thriving design industry. Today there is plenty of work here in town. ChampCohen can say we have done work for dozens of medical device and biotech companies that were nonexistent until recently.”

Technological shift has also been a major component of the company’s journey. When ChampCohen started they were early adopt-

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Amongst their many clients, Champ mentions their ongoing work for the USS Midway Museum as a particular point of pride.

ChampCohen has worked closely with the museum since its launch in 2004; and materials generated by Champ and the other designers have helped the museum attract, entertain and educate millions of visitors from around the world.

Beyond the office, Champ cites the importance of maintaining a productive and balanced life outside of work. Champ plays softball, coaches his children and serves as chairman of the board of Conner’s Cause for Children; a nonprofit founded in 1995 which focuses on providing direct services to families of very sick children.

Regarding doing business locally, Champ states “I saw many of my fellow designers and art directors leave the San Diego area to to seek jobs in L.A. and other media markets. and thought to myself, ‘No, thanks!’ I believed then, as I do now, that I could do good work right here. I live on the coast, gaze out at the ocean from an office in Del Mar doing what I love. How lucky am I, and why would I ever leave?”

You can learn more about ChampCohen Design Associates at ChampCohen.com. You can learn more about Conner’s Cause for Children at ConnersCause.org.

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marshmallow roasting, visits with Santa, live music, refreshments

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DECEMBER 13 PARADE OF LIGHTS VIEWING MARITIME MUSEUM OF SAN DIEGO One of the best places to see the annual Parade of Lights on San Diego Bay is from the historic ferryboat Berkeley at the Maritime Museum of San Diego. More details and tickets available online at SDMaritime.org or by calling 619.234.9153 ext 101. Please bring a new, unwrapped toy for the Toys for Tots program.

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Although the original intent of the show was to educate the listening audience about local business resources, it has evolved into something more. “We discovered that ourhosts, cohosts and guests were forming professional relationships with one another,” said Executive Producer Brett Ward. “It’s like Real Talk has become a businessmatchmaking service.”

Perhaps the best example of this is Solana Beach resident Ryan White, Realtor with the Guiltinan Group, and his cohost Karen Kaseno, Forensic Accountant and founder of The Kaseno CPA Firm. “When I was introduced to Karen and found out what she did fora living, I asked to interview her on my show,” said White. “She provides an amazing service to people in need and I wanted others to know about it.”

“Our experience on the show together presented us with opportunities to promote andsupport each other’s businesses,” continued White. “She and I have been able to refer a ton of business back and forth, and Real Talk has allowed us to quickly expand intointo each other’s professional networks.”

After several guest appearances, White asked Kaseno if she’d like to cohost his show. “It was a nobrainer for me,” says Kaseno “He’s a super smart guy. He pays attention to details more than others in his profession. I know my clients are in good hands when I send them to Ryan.”

White has been in real estate for 14 years and manages over 100 vacation rentals in the San Diego area, so it’s safe to call him an “expert.” Although he buys and sells properties all over the county, White’s “home turf” is really Solana Beach and Del Mar. “I prefer to focus on my backyard because it’s what I know best, and that knowledge is transferred to my clients and business partners like Karen.”

Kaseno has been a forensic accountant for more than two decades and is widely respected in her profession. “I always thought radio was just about appealing to the listeners.

I never considered the networking and business building aspects of cohosting a radio show.

It’s given me the opportunity to build a group of elite contacts,” said Kaseno.

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Wrap Less, Remember More CELEBRATING THE HOLIDAY SPIRIT ARTICLE RHIANNON BANKES

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ecember is a month of remembrance and celebrations, but too often it is also a month of overwhelming obligations and rampant commercialism. The combination of guilt, stress, lack of sleep and overspending tend to turn the last month of the year into a whirlwind of overextended schedules.

Don’t let negative emotions and unrealistic expectations take over this season. You won’t get a prize if you pack every spare moment with errands, shopping, and trying to make everything perfect. If anything, you will run yourself down and get a cold or worse. Promise yourself that this year you will focus on your family, friends and yourself. Let go of the picture you have in your mind of the perfect holiday setting. Whether that image is of an immaculately set dinner table, your pets gazing lovingly at your Christmas tree or your children delicately lighting the menorah, it’s rarely going to happen.

What will happen is someone will spill wine on your antique tablecloth, your dog will chase your cat up the tree, and your child will try to light all the candles on the menorah the first night, not to mention their sibling’s hair. No one will remember how perfectly pressed your napkins were, but they are going to remember the touch football game everyone played in the back yard after the meal.

Crank up the holiday music and make cookies. Snuggle on the couch to watch a movie marathon or football game. Make a new tra-

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dition, sometimes the sillier the better: ice cream sundaes for breakfast or making a snow man without the snow. Pick a craft to make as a family or organize a scavenger hunt. Write letters to each other and yourself. Stick a short note in your holiday decorations box listing this season’s successful and not-so-successful adventures. When you open the box next year, you will remember how frustrated you were that you tried to make home made cranberry sauce when everyone just wanted the canned kind, but how much everyone loved spending a whole Saturday in their pajamas.

Volunteer time to a charity or perform a community service project with your friends. Send care packages to military personnel and visit your local nursing homes. This holiday season, vow to spend less afternoons fighting the holiday crowds at the mall and more time on fulfilling activities. Make sure to allow yourself plenty of down time. A nice glass of wine or cocoa by the fire, or a hot bubble bath, puts a lot in perspective at the end of a long day.

Reflect on all you have achieved in 2015 and decide what your goals are for the new year. Ask yourself what has made you smile the most this year and holiday season. Focus on incorporating those things into your 2016 schedule. Don’t drain yourself this December. Fill yourself with the hope and love of the season… and maybe a few more of those cookies.

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